
I cannot sit people where I did it all that is to know that you are I double
that is to know that you are I double
that is to know that you are I double majored in textile fashion merchandising
majored in textile fashion merchandising
majored in textile fashion merchandising and design and philosophy now I know
and design and philosophy now I know
and design and philosophy now I know from experience that many of you right
from experience that many of you right
from experience that many of you right now are thinking some variation of what
now are thinking some variation of what
now are thinking some variation of what is she going to do with that
is she going to do with that
is she going to do with that what’s a fashion designing philosopher
what’s a fashion designing philosopher
what’s a fashion designing philosopher anyway well I still can’t tell you what
anyway well I still can’t tell you what
anyway well I still can’t tell you what I’m going to do with what I’ve studied
I’m going to do with what I’ve studied
I’m going to do with what I’ve studied in terms of getting a job but what I’m
in terms of getting a job but what I’m
in terms of getting a job but what I’m here today to share with you is what I
here today to share with you is what I
here today to share with you is what I can do with what I’ve studied on a daily
can do with what I’ve studied on a daily
can do with what I’ve studied on a daily basis and the best way I know how to do
basis and the best way I know how to do
basis and the best way I know how to do that is with a story at the top of
that is with a story at the top of
that is with a story at the top of campus there’s a coffee shop named
campus there’s a coffee shop named
campus there’s a coffee shop named bagels and sometimes when I’m craving
bagels and sometimes when I’m craving
bagels and sometimes when I’m craving caffeine which is all the time I’ll go
caffeine which is all the time I’ll go
caffeine which is all the time I’ll go there for a coffee and one of these days
there for a coffee and one of these days
there for a coffee and one of these days there was a particularly long line so I
there was a particularly long line so I
there was a particularly long line so I did with anyone with a design background
did with anyone with a design background
did with anyone with a design background does I look at stuff and particularly
does I look at stuff and particularly
does I look at stuff and particularly for me I look at clothing and as I gaze
for me I look at clothing and as I gaze
for me I look at clothing and as I gaze out over a CEO of sorority letters and
out over a CEO of sorority letters and
out over a CEO of sorority letters and sweatshirts leggings and jeans that’s
sweatshirts leggings and jeans that’s
sweatshirts leggings and jeans that’s when I see her she’s been standing in
when I see her she’s been standing in
when I see her she’s been standing in front of me this entire time a girl my
front of me this entire time a girl my
front of me this entire time a girl my age wearing pajama pants it’s fuzzy
age wearing pajama pants it’s fuzzy
age wearing pajama pants it’s fuzzy fleece staring me right in the face and
fleece staring me right in the face and
fleece staring me right in the face and loud alternating stripes of gray and
loud alternating stripes of gray and
loud alternating stripes of gray and black something about it makes my skin
black something about it makes my skin
black something about it makes my skin crawl
crawl
crawl makes a shiver go up my spine a voice
makes a shiver go up my spine a voice
makes a shiver go up my spine a voice inside my head screams wrong because the
inside my head screams wrong because the
inside my head screams wrong because the designer inside of me will admit it I
designer inside of me will admit it I
designer inside of me will admit it I cannot stand it when people wear pajama
cannot stand it when people wear pajama
cannot stand it when people wear pajama pants in public but in the next moment
pants in public but in the next moment
pants in public but in the next moment my background in philosophy rubs up like
my background in philosophy rubs up like
my background in philosophy rubs up like an engine and starts a conversation of
an engine and starts a conversation of
an engine and starts a conversation of sorts a philosopher and a designer
sorts a philosopher and a designer
sorts a philosopher and a designer materialize on each one of my shoulders
materialize on each one of my shoulders
materialize on each one of my shoulders the philosopher looks through the
the philosopher looks through the
the philosopher looks through the designer and says but why can’t you
designer and says but why can’t you
designer and says but why can’t you stand it when people wear pajama pants
stand it when people wear pajama pants
stand it when people wear pajama pants in public the designer says yeah
in public the designer says yeah
in public the designer says yeah it just it looks lazy the philosopher is
it just it looks lazy the philosopher is
it just it looks lazy the philosopher is not satisfied with that answer
not satisfied with that answer
not satisfied with that answer you see people tend to think of the
you see people tend to think of the
you see people tend to think of the philosopher as the one with all the
philosopher as the one with all the
philosopher as the one with all the answers
answers
answers you know the old wise one but really I
you know the old wise one but really I
you know the old wise one but really I think the true spirit of a philosopher
think the true spirit of a philosopher
think the true spirit of a philosopher is that
is that
is that little kid who looks up at his or her
little kid who looks up at his or her
little kid who looks up at his or her mom and dad and says but why but why but
mom and dad and says but why but why but
mom and dad and says but why but why but why until they get an answer that’s
why until they get an answer that’s
why until they get an answer that’s solid that they can hold on to because
solid that they can hold on to because
solid that they can hold on to because they’ve seen it in other places other
they’ve seen it in other places other
they’ve seen it in other places other situations so the philosopher questions
situations so the philosopher questions
situations so the philosopher questions are further but why does it make her
are further but why does it make her
are further but why does it make her look lazy the designer gets frustrated
look lazy the designer gets frustrated
look lazy the designer gets frustrated and says because you’re not supposed to
and says because you’re not supposed to
and says because you’re not supposed to wear pajama pants in public you’re
wear pajama pants in public you’re
wear pajama pants in public you’re supposed to wear them when you’re at
supposed to wear them when you’re at
supposed to wear them when you’re at home or when you’re sleeping the
home or when you’re sleeping the
home or when you’re sleeping the philosopher smiles and says aha here is
philosopher smiles and says aha here is
philosopher smiles and says aha here is something for us to work with where do
something for us to work with where do
something for us to work with where do these little rules come from in the
these little rules come from in the
these little rules come from in the first place supposed to do this here not
first place supposed to do this here not
first place supposed to do this here not supposed to do that there
supposed to do that there
supposed to do that there well according to German philosopher
well according to German philosopher
well according to German philosopher Martin Heidegger we exist in worlds that
Martin Heidegger we exist in worlds that
Martin Heidegger we exist in worlds that themselves exist almost within and on
themselves exist almost within and on
themselves exist almost within and on top of this earthly plane of existence
top of this earthly plane of existence
top of this earthly plane of existence that our physical bodies occupy the
that our physical bodies occupy the
that our physical bodies occupy the material world and they’re only here
material world and they’re only here
material world and they’re only here because humans are here to create them
because humans are here to create them
because humans are here to create them there are n a need to give context to
there are n a need to give context to
there are n a need to give context to the things that surround us this is the
the things that surround us this is the
the things that surround us this is the hallmark of our species this is how
hallmark of our species this is how
hallmark of our species this is how cultures are formed how Heidegger’s
cultures are formed how Heidegger’s
cultures are formed how Heidegger’s worlds are formed people within
worlds are formed people within
worlds are formed people within proximity of each other agreeing on the
proximity of each other agreeing on the
proximity of each other agreeing on the meaning of shared experience
pants that we call pajamas that are
pants that we call pajamas that are meant for sleeping belong to the world
meant for sleeping belong to the world
meant for sleeping belong to the world of sleeping which itself is a greater
of sleeping which itself is a greater
of sleeping which itself is a greater world of relaxation comfort it’s a place
world of relaxation comfort it’s a place
world of relaxation comfort it’s a place where we explore our privacy our
where we explore our privacy our
where we explore our privacy our personal space it’s a place where we
personal space it’s a place where we
personal space it’s a place where we enter a state of total vulnerability
enter a state of total vulnerability
enter a state of total vulnerability that we do not carry with us to the
that we do not carry with us to the
that we do not carry with us to the public world the world of public
public world the world of public
public world the world of public interaction and that is your problem
interaction and that is your problem
interaction and that is your problem with the pajama pants in public says the
with the pajama pants in public says the
with the pajama pants in public says the philosopher not what they are but what
philosopher not what they are but what
philosopher not what they are but what they mean
they mean
they mean luckily Heidegger helps us with a way
luckily Heidegger helps us with a way
luckily Heidegger helps us with a way out of this problem he says that because
out of this problem he says that because
out of this problem he says that because we create contextual worlds out of the
we create contextual worlds out of the
we create contextual worlds out of the material world that we live in every
material world that we live in every
material world that we live in every single thing on this planet truly exists
single thing on this planet truly exists
single thing on this planet truly exists on a spectrum to explain this concept he
on a spectrum to explain this concept he
on a spectrum to explain this concept he uses the example of a statue of Apollo
uses the example of a statue of Apollo
uses the example of a statue of Apollo the Greek god of sunlight prophecy and
the Greek god of sunlight prophecy and
the Greek god of sunlight prophecy and music on one end of the spectrum the
music on one end of the spectrum the
music on one end of the spectrum the statue is simply a piece of granite and
statue is simply a piece of granite and
statue is simply a piece of granite and all of the characteristics that make up
all of the characteristics that make up
all of the characteristics that make up granite it’s something that’s hard it’s
granite it’s something that’s hard it’s
granite it’s something that’s hard it’s something that’s heavy it’s something
something that’s heavy it’s something
something that’s heavy it’s something that’s rough but on the other end of the
that’s rough but on the other end of the
that’s rough but on the other end of the spectrum the statue is a shared belief
spectrum the statue is a shared belief
spectrum the statue is a shared belief its physical characteristics fall away
its physical characteristics fall away
its physical characteristics fall away as those who understand it to be Apollo
as those who understand it to be Apollo
as those who understand it to be Apollo and all the things he represents and
and all the things he represents and
and all the things he represents and presides over look at it on one end of
presides over look at it on one end of
presides over look at it on one end of the spectrum the statue is a piece of
the spectrum the statue is a piece of
the spectrum the statue is a piece of rock on the other end of the spectrum
rock on the other end of the spectrum
rock on the other end of the spectrum the statue is a piece of a story
the statue is a piece of a story
the statue is a piece of a story now the pants the girl was wearing in
now the pants the girl was wearing in
now the pants the girl was wearing in front of me looks at look as if they’re
front of me looks at look as if they’re
front of me looks at look as if they’re made of an imitation fleece which itself
made of an imitation fleece which itself
made of an imitation fleece which itself is a hundred percent polyester fabric
is a hundred percent polyester fabric
is a hundred percent polyester fabric made from which is a synthetic
made from which is a synthetic
made from which is a synthetic petroleum-based fiber when cut into
petroleum-based fiber when cut into
petroleum-based fiber when cut into pajama pants with a straight leg and a
pajama pants with a straight leg and a
pajama pants with a straight leg and a drawstring waist
drawstring waist
drawstring waist these pants are just soft they’re
these pants are just soft they’re
these pants are just soft they’re lightweight they’re breathable they’re
lightweight they’re breathable they’re
lightweight they’re breathable they’re fuzzy but when someone wears them and
fuzzy but when someone wears them and
fuzzy but when someone wears them and they belong to the world of sleeping
they belong to the world of sleeping
they belong to the world of sleeping they become something that facilitates
they become something that facilitates
they become something that facilitates the ability to sleep the ability to
the ability to sleep the ability to
the ability to sleep the ability to relax the ability to become totally
relax the ability to become totally
relax the ability to become totally vulnerable
vulnerable
vulnerable the philosopher looks at the designer
the philosopher looks at the designer
the philosopher looks at the designer and says are you seeing it the way I’m
and says are you seeing it the way I’m
and says are you seeing it the way I’m seeing it the designer says I guess but
seeing it the designer says I guess but
seeing it the designer says I guess but how is this going to help us it’s going
how is this going to help us it’s going
how is this going to help us it’s going to help us because understanding how
to help us because understanding how
to help us because understanding how things exist on a spectrum gives us
things exist on a spectrum gives us
things exist on a spectrum gives us alternate ways of viewing them and we
alternate ways of viewing them and we
alternate ways of viewing them and we get to decide how we look at them if we
get to decide how we look at them if we
get to decide how we look at them if we decide the girl in front of us is
decide the girl in front of us is
decide the girl in front of us is wearing pajama pants our thought process
wearing pajama pants our thought process
wearing pajama pants our thought process tells us that pajama pants belong to the
tells us that pajama pants belong to the
tells us that pajama pants belong to the world of sleeping and since she’s not in
world of sleeping and since she’s not in
world of sleeping and since she’s not in that world while wearing them she’s
that world while wearing them she’s
that world while wearing them she’s behaving wrongly and that is the shiver
behaving wrongly and that is the shiver
behaving wrongly and that is the shiver that went up your spine says the
that went up your spine says the
that went up your spine says the philosopher her failure to comply with
philosopher her failure to comply with
philosopher her failure to comply with what the pants mean however we could
what the pants mean however we could
what the pants mean however we could also decide that the girl in front of us
also decide that the girl in front of us
also decide that the girl in front of us is wearing pants cut with a straight leg
is wearing pants cut with a straight leg
is wearing pants cut with a straight leg and a drawstring waist made out of a
and a drawstring waist made out of a
and a drawstring waist made out of a fabric that’s synthetic and is soft
fabric that’s synthetic and is soft
fabric that’s synthetic and is soft that’s flexible that’s lightweight
that’s flexible that’s lightweight
that’s flexible that’s lightweight that’s breathable we could look at it in
that’s breathable we could look at it in
that’s breathable we could look at it in its material and once we do that the
its material and once we do that the
its material and once we do that the girl in front of us is no longer wrong
girl in front of us is no longer wrong
girl in front of us is no longer wrong because in fact we have something in
because in fact we have something in
because in fact we have something in common because the leggings that you’re
common because the leggings that you’re
common because the leggings that you’re wearing right now are made of synthetic
wearing right now are made of synthetic
wearing right now are made of synthetic fibers you own jeans that are made with
fibers you own jeans that are made with
fibers you own jeans that are made with polyester the synthetic fiber and I know
polyester the synthetic fiber and I know
polyester the synthetic fiber and I know for a fact that right now hanging at
for a fact that right now hanging at
for a fact that right now hanging at home in your closet are a pair of pants
home in your closet are a pair of pants
home in your closet are a pair of pants with a straight leg a drawstring waist
with a straight leg a drawstring waist
with a straight leg a drawstring waist made of synthetic fibers that you
made of synthetic fibers that you
made of synthetic fibers that you yourself have worn in public because
yourself have worn in public because
yourself have worn in public because they’ve been named palazzo pants which
they’ve been named palazzo pants which
they’ve been named palazzo pants which are defined as belonging to the world of
are defined as belonging to the world of
are defined as belonging to the world of public interaction the world that we
public interaction the world that we
public interaction the world that we dress up for and present ourselves all
dress up for and present ourselves all
dress up for and present ourselves all of this is to say we can take two pieces
of this is to say we can take two pieces
of this is to say we can take two pieces of the same matter manipulate them in
of the same matter manipulate them in
of the same matter manipulate them in slightly different ways give them two
slightly different ways give them two
slightly different ways give them two different names and meanings and they
different names and meanings and they
different names and meanings and they get to go on to belong to two different
get to go on to belong to two different
get to go on to belong to two different worlds and do two entirely different
worlds and do two entirely different
worlds and do two entirely different things
things
things all because we decide it to be so now
all because we decide it to be so now
all because we decide it to be so now some of you may be thinking what good is
some of you may be thinking what good is
some of you may be thinking what good is any of this this girl spent six years
any of this this girl spent six years
any of this this girl spent six years working towards two undergraduate
working towards two undergraduate
working towards two undergraduate degrees and had her parents pay for 10
degrees and had her parents pay for 10
degrees and had her parents pay for 10 semesters of college tuition also she
semesters of college tuition also she
semesters of college tuition also she could talk to herself about pants
could talk to herself about pants
could talk to herself about pants while waiting in line for a coffee why
while waiting in line for a coffee why
while waiting in line for a coffee why does any of this matter it matters
does any of this matter it matters
does any of this matter it matters because I can take the logic from this
because I can take the logic from this
because I can take the logic from this one instance to conclude something way
one instance to conclude something way
one instance to conclude something way more fundamental we’re living right now
more fundamental we’re living right now
more fundamental we’re living right now in a time that’s extremely polarized we
in a time that’s extremely polarized we
in a time that’s extremely polarized we have many many groups coming forward and
have many many groups coming forward and
have many many groups coming forward and demanding the respect they want and the
demanding the respect they want and the
demanding the respect they want and the respect they deserve these are groups
respect they deserve these are groups
respect they deserve these are groups that have been oppressed for years
that have been oppressed for years
that have been oppressed for years that haven’t been acknowledged as
that haven’t been acknowledged as
that haven’t been acknowledged as existing or as deserving to exist
existing or as deserving to exist
existing or as deserving to exist because they belong to worlds that are
because they belong to worlds that are
because they belong to worlds that are different from the ones we’ve been
different from the ones we’ve been
different from the ones we’ve been conditioned to think are the right or
conditioned to think are the right or
conditioned to think are the right or correct ones the ones that have
correct ones the ones that have
correct ones the ones that have prevailed through our culture and
prevailed through our culture and
prevailed through our culture and society most dominantly we are
society most dominantly we are
society most dominantly we are contextual beings the stories we’ve been
contextual beings the stories we’ve been
contextual beings the stories we’ve been told about the world we belong to follow
told about the world we belong to follow
told about the world we belong to follow us long after we know that logically
us long after we know that logically
us long after we know that logically they’re outdated or they just they’re
they’re outdated or they just they’re
they’re outdated or they just they’re just misconceived part of the reason
just misconceived part of the reason
just misconceived part of the reason being we still live in a material world
being we still live in a material world
being we still live in a material world and we’re surrounded by things that have
and we’re surrounded by things that have
and we’re surrounded by things that have been assigned meaning according to
been assigned meaning according to
been assigned meaning according to prevailing rights and wrongs of past
prevailing rights and wrongs of past
prevailing rights and wrongs of past times we cannot change the way the
times we cannot change the way the
times we cannot change the way the material world looks quickly enough to
material world looks quickly enough to
material world looks quickly enough to accommodate the pace with which we want
accommodate the pace with which we want
accommodate the pace with which we want to and we know that we need to change
to and we know that we need to change
to and we know that we need to change our viewpoints we want to give each
our viewpoints we want to give each
our viewpoints we want to give each other respect but we don’t always know
other respect but we don’t always know
other respect but we don’t always know how we want to look at each other free
how we want to look at each other free
how we want to look at each other free of deep-rooted meanings and feelings but
of deep-rooted meanings and feelings but
of deep-rooted meanings and feelings but I don’t think we’re taught how to do
I don’t think we’re taught how to do
I don’t think we’re taught how to do that only that it’s something we should
that only that it’s something we should
that only that it’s something we should be doing looking at a girl wearing
be doing looking at a girl wearing
be doing looking at a girl wearing pajama pants and thinking she is wrong
pajama pants and thinking she is wrong
pajama pants and thinking she is wrong is like a knot that exists in the fabric
is like a knot that exists in the fabric
is like a knot that exists in the fabric of my own perception a knot of
of my own perception a knot of
of my own perception a knot of conditioned thought about what is right
conditioned thought about what is right
conditioned thought about what is right and what’s acceptable but if I can
and what’s acceptable but if I can
and what’s acceptable but if I can untangle that knot using logic and
untangle that knot using logic and
untangle that knot using logic and thought to weave a new understanding of
thought to weave a new understanding of
thought to weave a new understanding of a girl who’s wearing pants that are
a girl who’s wearing pants that are
a girl who’s wearing pants that are virtually the same as mine
virtually the same as mine
virtually the same as mine then I
then I
then I tolerance and if I can do that then I
tolerance and if I can do that then I
tolerance and if I can do that then I can look at a homosexual man or woman
can look at a homosexual man or woman
can look at a homosexual man or woman and rather than seeing someone who loves
and rather than seeing someone who loves
and rather than seeing someone who loves another in a way that’s just harmonious
another in a way that’s just harmonious
another in a way that’s just harmonious with how I experience love I can see
with how I experience love I can see
with how I experience love I can see someone who wants to love and be loved
someone who wants to love and be loved
someone who wants to love and be loved back
back
back free of prejudice and discrimination
free of prejudice and discrimination
free of prejudice and discrimination from bystanders which is the same way
from bystanders which is the same way
from bystanders which is the same way that I want to be loved again
that I want to be loved again
that I want to be loved again I’ve untangled a knot and I’ve sown
I’ve untangled a knot and I’ve sown
I’ve untangled a knot and I’ve sown tolerance into the fabric of my
tolerance into the fabric of my
tolerance into the fabric of my perception I’m training myself to see
perception I’m training myself to see
perception I’m training myself to see that even though we go on to belong to
that even though we go on to belong to
that even though we go on to belong to different worlds we immerse ourselves in
different worlds we immerse ourselves in
different worlds we immerse ourselves in different contextual experiences we are
different contextual experiences we are
different contextual experiences we are made of the same thing from the start
made of the same thing from the start
made of the same thing from the start the same matter the same material we’re
the same matter the same material we’re
the same matter the same material we’re human beings in the end the designer
human beings in the end the designer
human beings in the end the designer looks to the philosopher and says I
looks to the philosopher and says I
looks to the philosopher and says I understand why I was bothered now and
understand why I was bothered now and
understand why I was bothered now and why I don’t have to be thank you for
why I don’t have to be thank you for
why I don’t have to be thank you for that phosphor says you’re welcome that’s
that phosphor says you’re welcome that’s
that phosphor says you’re welcome that’s what I’m here for
what I’m here for
what I’m here for they evaporate off my shoulders and the
they evaporate off my shoulders and the
they evaporate off my shoulders and the girl in front of me in line is handed a
girl in front of me in line is handed a
girl in front of me in line is handed a coffee and to go back I smile at her as
coffee and to go back I smile at her as
coffee and to go back I smile at her as she leaves she looks pretty comfortable
how many knots of condition thought did
how many knots of condition thought did you encounter throughout your day to day
you encounter throughout your day to day
you encounter throughout your day to day or the day before that things that made
or the day before that things that made
or the day before that things that made you uncomfortable and think they’re
you uncomfortable and think they’re
you uncomfortable and think they’re wrong how many of those knots can you
wrong how many of those knots can you
wrong how many of those knots can you untangle thank you
untangle thank you
untangle thank you [Applause]
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