[Music] some of you may not know this but I’m
some of you may not know this but I’m
some of you may not know this but I’m the most popular kid in school now as a
the most popular kid in school now as a
the most popular kid in school now as a middle schooler I’m constantly
middle schooler I’m constantly
middle schooler I’m constantly surrounded by people who value
surrounded by people who value
surrounded by people who value popularity more than their education or
popularity more than their education or
popularity more than their education or even their friendships so what is
even their friendships so what is
even their friendships so what is popularity well the definition of the
popularity well the definition of the
popularity well the definition of the word popularity is the state or
word popularity is the state or
word popularity is the state or condition of being liked admired or
condition of being liked admired or
condition of being liked admired or supported by a large amount of people as
supported by a large amount of people as
supported by a large amount of people as you see the merriam-webster dictionary
you see the merriam-webster dictionary
you see the merriam-webster dictionary based the definition entirely upon me
based the definition entirely upon me
based the definition entirely upon me and who can blame them now one thing
and who can blame them now one thing
and who can blame them now one thing that’s important to know about
that’s important to know about
that’s important to know about popularity is that in fact while many
popularity is that in fact while many
popularity is that in fact while many people think is good it’s not and I am
people think is good it’s not and I am
people think is good it’s not and I am here to show you why popularity is bad
here to show you why popularity is bad
here to show you why popularity is bad for you and why it’s not so important to
for you and why it’s not so important to
for you and why it’s not so important to be popular in fact I believe that
be popular in fact I believe that
be popular in fact I believe that popularity can have a damaging effect on
popularity can have a damaging effect on
popularity can have a damaging effect on people and I’m a live example of that
people and I’m a live example of that
people and I’m a live example of that statement to examine this issue further
statement to examine this issue further
statement to examine this issue further we need to find out what it means to be
we need to find out what it means to be
we need to find out what it means to be popular why kids want to be popular as
popular why kids want to be popular as
popular why kids want to be popular as well as what are the consequences of
well as what are the consequences of
well as what are the consequences of this fixed mindset of popularity so
this fixed mindset of popularity so
this fixed mindset of popularity so let’s begin with well why kids want to
let’s begin with well why kids want to
let’s begin with well why kids want to be popular now of course it comes no
be popular now of course it comes no
be popular now of course it comes no surprise that kids want to be like me
surprise that kids want to be like me
surprise that kids want to be like me and accept me as their role model but
and accept me as their role model but
and accept me as their role model but there are many reasons why kids want to
there are many reasons why kids want to
there are many reasons why kids want to be popular one of the reasons is
be popular one of the reasons is
be popular one of the reasons is self-confidence after study made by
self-confidence after study made by
self-confidence after study made by Rebecca Klein during 2014 about how pink
Rebecca Klein during 2014 about how pink
Rebecca Klein during 2014 about how pink popular and real those who may not be
popular and real those who may not be
popular and real those who may not be good for you it was proven that kids who
good for you it was proven that kids who
good for you it was proven that kids who have a lower self-confidence on average
have a lower self-confidence on average
have a lower self-confidence on average try to become more popular now I think
try to become more popular now I think
try to become more popular now I think I’m an exception to this one because my
I’m an exception to this one because my
I’m an exception to this one because my self-confidence is pretty low it was
self-confidence is pretty low it was
self-confidence is pretty low it was also recorded that kids who are popular
also recorded that kids who are popular
also recorded that kids who are popular were treated as gods among students
do examine this issue further I just
do examine this issue further I just wanted to make a graph for you and I
wanted to make a graph for you and I
wanted to make a graph for you and I made this graph it’s about how life
made this graph it’s about how life
made this graph it’s about how life value versus popularity as you see the
value versus popularity as you see the
value versus popularity as you see the more popular you grow well your life
more popular you grow well your life
more popular you grow well your life value decreases so the more popular you
value decreases so the more popular you
value decreases so the more popular you are the least life value you have as I
are the least life value you have as I
are the least life value you have as I mentioned earlier kids which we did this
mentioned earlier kids which we did this
mentioned earlier kids which we did this cards when they were popular and I mean
cards when they were popular and I mean
cards when they were popular and I mean come on now the final reason to why kids
come on now the final reason to why kids
come on now the final reason to why kids want to be popular is of course
want to be popular is of course
want to be popular is of course friendship it is widely believed that
friendship it is widely believed that
friendship it is widely believed that the more popular you have the more
the more popular you have the more
the more popular you have the more popular you are excuse me the more
popular you are excuse me the more
popular you are excuse me the more friends you will have now while that is
friends you will have now while that is
friends you will have now while that is partially true it’s not fully true you
partially true it’s not fully true you
partially true it’s not fully true you see the polarity does not earn you
see the polarity does not earn you
see the polarity does not earn you friendship
friendship
friendship it turns you respect people fear you
it turns you respect people fear you
it turns you respect people fear you rather than being friends with you
rather than being friends with you
rather than being friends with you because you’re popular whenever you say
because you’re popular whenever you say
because you’re popular whenever you say something about them then that means
something about them then that means
something about them then that means that everybody else will listen to you
that everybody else will listen to you
that everybody else will listen to you so they fear you and they don’t want to
so they fear you and they don’t want to
so they fear you and they don’t want to be bad in front of you so let’s move on
be bad in front of you so let’s move on
be bad in front of you so let’s move on what does that actually mean to be
what does that actually mean to be
what does that actually mean to be popular
popular
popular well the polarity just as any other
well the polarity just as any other
well the polarity just as any other human trait has many different shapes
human trait has many different shapes
human trait has many different shapes and sizes
and sizes
and sizes I myself fit all these shapes and sizes
I myself fit all these shapes and sizes
I myself fit all these shapes and sizes I’m kind of like a blob
I’m kind of like a blob
I’m kind of like a blob now one type of a polarity is I’m sure
now one type of a polarity is I’m sure
now one type of a polarity is I’m sure you’re I assume you know this in movies
you’re I assume you know this in movies
you’re I assume you know this in movies or television series they’re typically a
or television series they’re typically a
or television series they’re typically a girl a high school middle school girl
girl a high school middle school girl
girl a high school middle school girl who’s too popular to Swit with other
who’s too popular to Swit with other
who’s too popular to Swit with other kids during lunch for example that
kids during lunch for example that
kids during lunch for example that character was based on me and I’m not
character was based on me and I’m not
character was based on me and I’m not sure if I should take that as a
sure if I should take that as a
sure if I should take that as a compliment or as an offense and in there
compliment or as an offense and in there
compliment or as an offense and in there am portrayed as a person who judges
am portrayed as a person who judges
am portrayed as a person who judges people based on how much money they have
people based on how much money they have
people based on how much money they have how they dress what they were what not
how they dress what they were what not
how they dress what they were what not personality in that film or television
personality in that film or television
personality in that film or television series I’m portrayed as a person who
series I’m portrayed as a person who
series I’m portrayed as a person who picks friends based on things
picks friends based on things
picks friends based on things well you shouldn’t pick friends on now
well you shouldn’t pick friends on now
well you shouldn’t pick friends on now another type of popularity
another type of popularity
another type of popularity the sari popularity not because anybody
the sari popularity not because anybody
the sari popularity not because anybody is sorry but because they feel pity for
is sorry but because they feel pity for
is sorry but because they feel pity for you for some reason I’m really popular
you for some reason I’m really popular
you for some reason I’m really popular in that one especially during math class
in that one especially during math class
in that one especially during math class and now you may be wondering well Stefan
and now you may be wondering well Stefan
and now you may be wondering well Stefan why are you popular well there’s many
why are you popular well there’s many
why are you popular well there’s many reasons for example how much money my
reasons for example how much money my
reasons for example how much money my family has my house as you see not to
family has my house as you see not to
family has my house as you see not to brag or anything but there’s many other
brag or anything but there’s many other
brag or anything but there’s many other reasons for example I’m amazing it
reasons for example I’m amazing it
reasons for example I’m amazing it supports I’m good at math class I’m
supports I’m good at math class I’m
supports I’m good at math class I’m basically great in everything oh I can
basically great in everything oh I can
basically great in everything oh I can remember my life I can remember my lines
remember my life I can remember my lines
remember my life I can remember my lines and of course I have a staggering height
and of course I have a staggering height
and of course I have a staggering height kids come home with their Nexus because
kids come home with their Nexus because
kids come home with their Nexus because they constantly have to look up at me
they constantly have to look up at me
they constantly have to look up at me both literally and metaphorically so now
both literally and metaphorically so now
both literally and metaphorically so now to my final point what are the
to my final point what are the
to my final point what are the consequences of popularity well from the
consequences of popularity well from the
consequences of popularity well from the same study it was proven that kids who
same study it was proven that kids who
same study it was proven that kids who are popular had trouble making allies
are popular had trouble making allies
are popular had trouble making allies they turn life they had trouble going in
they turn life they had trouble going in
they turn life they had trouble going in a long-lasting romantic relationship and
a long-lasting romantic relationship and
a long-lasting romantic relationship and they couldn’t make friends because all
they couldn’t make friends because all
they couldn’t make friends because all the way in school they were making
the way in school they were making
the way in school they were making events based on appearance and money
events based on appearance and money
events based on appearance and money awesome kids were leave depressed
awesome kids were leave depressed
awesome kids were leave depressed yes exactly actually depression because
yes exactly actually depression because
yes exactly actually depression because in school or it’s a small environment
in school or it’s a small environment
in school or it’s a small environment they were very popular then when they
they were very popular then when they
they were very popular then when they moved out of school into a world with
moved out of school into a world with
moved out of school into a world with seven and a half billion people they
seven and a half billion people they
seven and a half billion people they weren’t as popular anymore
weren’t as popular anymore
weren’t as popular anymore that needed to be them to be depressed
that needed to be them to be depressed
that needed to be them to be depressed and had trouble making success later in
and had trouble making success later in
and had trouble making success later in life let’s look at an example
life let’s look at an example
life let’s look at an example Karima Koken from the home alone
Karima Koken from the home alone
Karima Koken from the home alone television series he is the main
television series he is the main
television series he is the main character I mean he was popular and he
character I mean he was popular and he
character I mean he was popular and he turned out great right but maybe that’s
turned out great right but maybe that’s
turned out great right but maybe that’s not a good example I mean he’s probably
not a good example I mean he’s probably
not a good example I mean he’s probably the only one I can’t remember anywhere
the only one I can’t remember anywhere
the only one I can’t remember anywhere anybody else who was popular and turned
anybody else who was popular and turned
anybody else who was popular and turned it up like that
now as I stated now I’m saved all my
now as I stated now I’m saved all my points again to make a conclusion the
points again to make a conclusion the
points again to make a conclusion the polarity does not earn new friends
polarity does not earn new friends
polarity does not earn new friends it earns you respect it changes our
it earns you respect it changes our
it earns you respect it changes our mindset about how you pick people and
mindset about how you pick people and
mindset about how you pick people and how you think of people and it leads to
how you think of people and it leads to
how you think of people and it leads to problems later in life
problems later in life
problems later in life now I’m sure quote with you in which I
now I’m sure quote with you in which I
now I’m sure quote with you in which I caught about two friends from the game
caught about two friends from the game
caught about two friends from the game undertale and in the code there’s two
undertale and in the code there’s two
undertale and in the code there’s two friends were very popular but played
friends were very popular but played
friends were very popular but played each other it goes a little something
each other it goes a little something
each other it goes a little something like this you can’t hate being popular
like this you can’t hate being popular
like this you can’t hate being popular what do you mean of course I’m popular
what do you mean of course I’m popular
what do you mean of course I’m popular yeah I know you’re popular with me
yeah I know you’re popular with me
yeah I know you’re popular with me thanks for piracy you’re popular with me
thanks for piracy you’re popular with me
thanks for piracy you’re popular with me too and to finish off I sent an email to
too and to finish off I sent an email to
too and to finish off I sent an email to a professional I won’t say his name
a professional I won’t say his name
a professional I won’t say his name because he wanted to keep it
because he wanted to keep it
because he wanted to keep it confidential and I asked him its
confidential and I asked him its
confidential and I asked him its popularity good for you and this is what
popularity good for you and this is what
popularity good for you and this is what he sent me
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