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The Needed Adaptability for the Millennial Generation | Gabrielle Bosche | TEDxMontgomeryBlairHS


you know were called the next greatest

you know were called the next greatest generation we were given this title

generation we were given this title

generation we were given this title before most of us could even walk this

before most of us could even walk this

before most of us could even walk this idea of high expectations is is kind of

idea of high expectations is is kind of

idea of high expectations is is kind of funny because if you set such high

funny because if you set such high

funny because if you set such high expectations if you’re honest with

expectations if you’re honest with

expectations if you’re honest with yourself you’re always setting yourself

yourself you’re always setting yourself

yourself you’re always setting yourself up for disappointment

up for disappointment

up for disappointment just think of pretty much any first date

just think of pretty much any first date

just think of pretty much any first date you’ve ever been on the real greatest

you’ve ever been on the real greatest

you’ve ever been on the real greatest generation earned the title they were

generation earned the title they were

generation earned the title they were raised during the Great Depression they

raised during the Great Depression they

raised during the Great Depression they inherited a world war they had an older

inherited a world war they had an older

inherited a world war they had an older generation who questioned whether or not

generation who questioned whether or not

generation who questioned whether or not they would ever amount to anything they

they would ever amount to anything they

they would ever amount to anything they won the war they rebuilt the economy and

won the war they rebuilt the economy and

won the war they rebuilt the economy and they gave us the likes of JFK Ronald

they gave us the likes of JFK Ronald

they gave us the likes of JFK Ronald Reagan and of course Betty White the

Reagan and of course Betty White the

Reagan and of course Betty White the greatest generation wasn’t great because

greatest generation wasn’t great because

greatest generation wasn’t great because they survived the greatest generation

they survived the greatest generation

they survived the greatest generation was great because they overcame the

was great because they overcame the

was great because they overcame the greatest generation was great because

greatest generation was great because

greatest generation was great because they had a shared purpose a common

they had a shared purpose a common

they had a shared purpose a common direction a shared passion you see we’ve

direction a shared passion you see we’ve

direction a shared passion you see we’ve been called the next greatest generation

been called the next greatest generation

been called the next greatest generation before we even had the chance to define

before we even had the chance to define

before we even had the chance to define what greatness meant for us and so

what greatness meant for us and so

what greatness meant for us and so because we don’t fulfill their idea of

because we don’t fulfill their idea of

because we don’t fulfill their idea of what greatness is our ambition is

what greatness is our ambition is

what greatness is our ambition is interpreted as entitlement and our

interpreted as entitlement and our

interpreted as entitlement and our creativity is seen as childishness and

creativity is seen as childishness and

creativity is seen as childishness and our passion and search for significance

our passion and search for significance

our passion and search for significance is mocked and considered disloyalty sure

is mocked and considered disloyalty sure

is mocked and considered disloyalty sure we were the generation that was given

we were the generation that was given

we were the generation that was given trophies for pretty much anything and so

trophies for pretty much anything and so

trophies for pretty much anything and so now we are going into the workforce and

now we are going into the workforce and

now we are going into the workforce and we expect a raise or a promotion every

we expect a raise or a promotion every

we expect a raise or a promotion every three months we’ve never been allowed to

three months we’ve never been allowed to

three months we’ve never been allowed to fall so now we’re afraid to fly we’ve

fall so now we’re afraid to fly we’ve

fall so now we’re afraid to fly we’ve been given help all the time so we’ve

been given help all the time so we’ve

been given help all the time so we’ve never discovered how to actually help

never discovered how to actually help

never discovered how to actually help ourselves

ourselves

ourselves we use technology to solve problems

we use technology to solve problems

we use technology to solve problems constantly and yet we also use it to

constantly and yet we also use it to

constantly and yet we also use it to avoid conflict we spend more time

avoid conflict we spend more time

avoid conflict we spend more time checking our so

checking our so

checking our so Media statuses and checking our bank

Media statuses and checking our bank

Media statuses and checking our bank accounts we avoid eye-contact and

accounts we avoid eye-contact and

accounts we avoid eye-contact and handshakes and in-person conversations

handshakes and in-person conversations

handshakes and in-person conversations we try and disrupt a system that we’ve

we try and disrupt a system that we’ve

we try and disrupt a system that we’ve never attempted to understand and we

never attempted to understand and we

never attempted to understand and we protest a government that we’ve never

protest a government that we’ve never

protest a government that we’ve never participated in we choose to be offended

participated in we choose to be offended

participated in we choose to be offended rather than seek to understand other

rather than seek to understand other

rather than seek to understand other people’s perspectives I’ve got to be

people’s perspectives I’ve got to be

people’s perspectives I’ve got to be honest with you guys it’s time for us to

honest with you guys it’s time for us to

honest with you guys it’s time for us to stop playing the victim

stop playing the victim

stop playing the victim I’m so tired of people saying that our

I’m so tired of people saying that our

I’m so tired of people saying that our generation inherited a bad economy what

generation inherited a bad economy what

generation inherited a bad economy what an excuse when I graduated college in

an excuse when I graduated college in

an excuse when I graduated college in 2009 sure it was difficult trying to

2009 sure it was difficult trying to

2009 sure it was difficult trying to find a job but I got one eventually and

find a job but I got one eventually and

find a job but I got one eventually and I even had my own office I mean

I even had my own office I mean

I even had my own office I mean technically the office was a converted

technically the office was a converted

technically the office was a converted cleaning closet however details it had a

cleaning closet however details it had a

cleaning closet however details it had a door it totally counts this bad economy

door it totally counts this bad economy

door it totally counts this bad economy business is their excuse for why we’re

business is their excuse for why we’re

business is their excuse for why we’re not great and if you want to know what

not great and if you want to know what

not great and if you want to know what our excuses well it’s not really an

our excuses well it’s not really an

our excuses well it’s not really an excuse actually it’s more like the truth

excuse actually it’s more like the truth

excuse actually it’s more like the truth the truth is that we don’t know what we

the truth is that we don’t know what we

the truth is that we don’t know what we want to do with our lives yet we don’t

want to do with our lives yet we don’t

want to do with our lives yet we don’t want to have jobs that don’t fulfill us

want to have jobs that don’t fulfill us

want to have jobs that don’t fulfill us that don’t matter while our parents are

that don’t matter while our parents are

that don’t matter while our parents are having their midlife crisis we’re over

having their midlife crisis we’re over

having their midlife crisis we’re over here having our quarter life crisis we

here having our quarter life crisis we

here having our quarter life crisis we are asking the big questions now because

are asking the big questions now because

are asking the big questions now because we don’t want to live an entire life

we don’t want to live an entire life

we don’t want to live an entire life wondering what if I was running a focus

wondering what if I was running a focus

wondering what if I was running a focus group to find out what Millennials

group to find out what Millennials

group to find out what Millennials actually want from one from work and one

actually want from one from work and one

actually want from one from work and one young woman explained it to me this way

young woman explained it to me this way

young woman explained it to me this way she said I don’t want to retire once I

she said I don’t want to retire once I

she said I don’t want to retire once I want to live my life with micro

want to live my life with micro

want to live my life with micro retirements you see she didn’t want to

retirements you see she didn’t want to

retirements you see she didn’t want to wait until she was old to start to

wait until she was old to start to

wait until she was old to start to appreciate life she wanted to go for two

appreciate life she wanted to go for two

appreciate life she wanted to go for two months or three months and experience

months or three months and experience

months or three months and experience life and live life balanced this

life and live life balanced this

life and live life balanced this generation isn’t all that different from

generation isn’t all that different from

generation isn’t all that different from other generations but we do want things

other generations but we do want things

other generations but we do want things at at different times in the generations

at at different times in the generations

at at different times in the generations that have gone before us despite all of

that have gone before us despite all of

that have gone before us despite all of this this generation our generation has

this this generation our generation has

this this generation our generation has failed to embrace the one concept that

failed to embrace the one concept that

failed to embrace the one concept that saves companies saves countries and

saves companies saves countries and

saves companies saves countries and saves careers

saves careers

saves careers and it’s one word respect I was asked to

and it’s one word respect I was asked to

and it’s one word respect I was asked to speak before the Navy to help leaders

speak before the Navy to help leaders

speak before the Navy to help leaders understand what motivates our generation

understand what motivates our generation

understand what motivates our generation the organizers thought it’d be a good

the organizers thought it’d be a good

the organizers thought it’d be a good idea if they brought up one of the

idea if they brought up one of the

idea if they brought up one of the longest-serving members of the Navy his

longest-serving members of the Navy his

longest-serving members of the Navy his name was mr. Todd again and mr. Todd

name was mr. Todd again and mr. Todd

name was mr. Todd again and mr. Todd again started with the Navy when he was

again started with the Navy when he was

again started with the Navy when he was 17 years old and now over 73 years later

17 years old and now over 73 years later

17 years old and now over 73 years later he was still serving and was not

he was still serving and was not

he was still serving and was not planning on retiring any time soon after

planning on retiring any time soon after

planning on retiring any time soon after I got done speaking an opportunity to

I got done speaking an opportunity to

I got done speaking an opportunity to sit down with mr. Todd again and ask him

sit down with mr. Todd again and ask him

sit down with mr. Todd again and ask him a few questions he’s in his upper 80s

a few questions he’s in his upper 80s

a few questions he’s in his upper 80s now and he’s smart as a whip hilarious

now and he’s smart as a whip hilarious

now and he’s smart as a whip hilarious and a little bit of a flirt I asked him

and a little bit of a flirt I asked him

and a little bit of a flirt I asked him a question I said mr. Todd Egan you have

a question I said mr. Todd Egan you have

a question I said mr. Todd Egan you have seen administration’s change you’ve seen

seen administration’s change you’ve seen

seen administration’s change you’ve seen technology change you’ve seen the world

technology change you’ve seen the world

technology change you’ve seen the world around you change how do you handle

around you change how do you handle

around you change how do you handle working with people of so many different

working with people of so many different

working with people of so many different generations that’s when he said

generations that’s when he said

generations that’s when he said something that was truly profound he

something that was truly profound he

something that was truly profound he said I learned long ago that I can learn

said I learned long ago that I can learn

said I learned long ago that I can learn something from everyone you see mr. Todd

something from everyone you see mr. Todd

something from everyone you see mr. Todd akin is a part of the greatest

akin is a part of the greatest

akin is a part of the greatest generation he’s part of a generation

generation he’s part of a generation

generation he’s part of a generation that understood what respect meant his

that understood what respect meant his

that understood what respect meant his generation believed that you didn’t need

generation believed that you didn’t need

generation believed that you didn’t need to earn respect respect was given but

to earn respect respect was given but

to earn respect respect was given but you see our generation doesn’t think

you see our generation doesn’t think

you see our generation doesn’t think that the mr. tatak ins of the world

that the mr. tatak ins of the world

that the mr. tatak ins of the world actually care we think that the mr.

actually care we think that the mr.

actually care we think that the mr. tatak ins of the world are are out of

tatak ins of the world are are out of

tatak ins of the world are are out of touch and out of place and not relevant

touch and out of place and not relevant

touch and out of place and not relevant to who we are today

to who we are today

to who we are today but the mr. Tatem zuv the world know the

but the mr. Tatem zuv the world know the

but the mr. Tatem zuv the world know the one thing that our generation won’t even

one thing that our generation won’t even

one thing that our generation won’t even admit to ourselves we don’t know what

admit to ourselves we don’t know what

admit to ourselves we don’t know what we’re doing we’re not the next Greatest

we’re doing we’re not the next Greatest

we’re doing we’re not the next Greatest Generation but we sure could be

Generation but we sure could be

Generation but we sure could be Millennials are the largest generation

Millennials are the largest generation

Millennials are the largest generation on the planet every single day 10,000

on the planet every single day 10,000

on the planet every single day 10,000 Millennials turn 21 we’re the largest

Millennials turn 21 we’re the largest

Millennials turn 21 we’re the largest part of the workforce over 70% of us

part of the workforce over 70% of us

part of the workforce over 70% of us actually want to start our own companies

actually want to start our own companies

actually want to start our own companies one day we’re the most optimistic

one day we’re the most optimistic

one day we’re the most optimistic generation there is we believe the best

generation there is we believe the best

generation there is we believe the best days of our generation in our nation

days of our generation in our nation

days of our generation in our nation are ahead of us we’re set to live the

are ahead of us we’re set to live the

are ahead of us we’re set to live the longest travel the most and be the most

longest travel the most and be the most

longest travel the most and be the most educated generation in history we have

educated generation in history we have

educated generation in history we have the DNA of greatness we are a generation

the DNA of greatness we are a generation

the DNA of greatness we are a generation of dreamers of doers of developers who

of dreamers of doers of developers who

of dreamers of doers of developers who defend the least of these and defy all

defend the least of these and defy all

defend the least of these and defy all odds you see every generation has a

odds you see every generation has a

odds you see every generation has a destiny something that they’re uniquely

destiny something that they’re uniquely

destiny something that they’re uniquely supposed to do and it’s something so big

supposed to do and it’s something so big

supposed to do and it’s something so big that no one person and no one group can

that no one person and no one group can

that no one person and no one group can achieve it together a generations

achieve it together a generations

achieve it together a generations destiny is to be discovered and achieved

destiny is to be discovered and achieved

destiny is to be discovered and achieved as a group a generation becomes great

as a group a generation becomes great

as a group a generation becomes great when they discover that destiny and

when they discover that destiny and

when they discover that destiny and throw themselves fully at it greatness

throw themselves fully at it greatness

throw themselves fully at it greatness cannot come from nothing greatness must

cannot come from nothing greatness must

cannot come from nothing greatness must come from greatness greatness cannot

come from greatness greatness cannot

come from greatness greatness cannot come from good enough

come from good enough

come from good enough you see we fold ourselves into making

you see we fold ourselves into making

you see we fold ourselves into making good enough feel great we’ve let our

good enough feel great we’ve let our

good enough feel great we’ve let our parents acceptance become our ceiling

parents acceptance become our ceiling

parents acceptance become our ceiling we’ve let the security blankets and the

we’ve let the security blankets and the

we’ve let the security blankets and the safety nets of this world protect us

safety nets of this world protect us

safety nets of this world protect us from the discomfort of growing up of

from the discomfort of growing up of

from the discomfort of growing up of embarrassing ourselves a falling flat on

embarrassing ourselves a falling flat on

embarrassing ourselves a falling flat on our face of letting ourselves and

our face of letting ourselves and

our face of letting ourselves and letting our parents down so what does it

letting our parents down so what does it

letting our parents down so what does it mean to be the next Greatest Generation

mean to be the next Greatest Generation

mean to be the next Greatest Generation how do we become it it’s simple we

how do we become it it’s simple we

how do we become it it’s simple we become a great generation when we do

become a great generation when we do

become a great generation when we do more than is expected of us when we

more than is expected of us when we

more than is expected of us when we listen before we ask questions when we

listen before we ask questions when we

listen before we ask questions when we find mentors and we mentor others we

find mentors and we mentor others we

find mentors and we mentor others we become a great generation when we take

become a great generation when we take

become a great generation when we take responsibility for our actions for our

responsibility for our actions for our

responsibility for our actions for our finances and for our influence we become

finances and for our influence we become

finances and for our influence we become a great generation when we are defined

a great generation when we are defined

a great generation when we are defined by our action and not defined by our

by our action and not defined by our

by our action and not defined by our apathy when we learn from the past and

apathy when we learn from the past and

apathy when we learn from the past and plan for the future you see I wanted to

plan for the future you see I wanted to

plan for the future you see I wanted to know what the future of America looked

know what the future of America looked

know what the future of America looked like when Millennials were in charge so

like when Millennials were in charge so

like when Millennials were in charge so I spent about two years surveying

I spent about two years surveying

I spent about two years surveying hundreds of Millennials across this

hundreds of Millennials across this

hundreds of Millennials across this country to figure out what is it going

country to figure out what is it going

country to figure out what is it going to look like

to look like

to look like when we are leading the world this is

when we are leading the world this is

when we are leading the world this is what I found

what I found

what I found Millennials don’t need permission but we

Millennials don’t need permission but we

Millennials don’t need permission but we are looking for a platform the three

are looking for a platform the three

are looking for a platform the three things that you should never tell a

things that you should never tell a

things that you should never tell a millennial or this you should never say

millennial or this you should never say

millennial or this you should never say wait your turn you should never say pay

wait your turn you should never say pay

wait your turn you should never say pay your dues and you should never say and

your dues and you should never say and

your dues and you should never say and or explain to us that’s just how things

or explain to us that’s just how things

or explain to us that’s just how things have been done around here you see we’re

have been done around here you see we’re

have been done around here you see we’re a generation of disruptors we are built

a generation of disruptors we are built

a generation of disruptors we are built to change things we want to get our

to change things we want to get our

to change things we want to get our hands on things and make things better

hands on things and make things better

hands on things and make things better and faster and sexier we want to build

and faster and sexier we want to build

and faster and sexier we want to build things but you see our need to disrupt

things but you see our need to disrupt

things but you see our need to disrupt is so oftentimes interpreted as

is so oftentimes interpreted as

is so oftentimes interpreted as disrespect our generation loves

disrespect our generation loves

disrespect our generation loves influence I’ve never seen a group of

influence I’ve never seen a group of

influence I’ve never seen a group of people who understand so innately this

people who understand so innately this

people who understand so innately this idea of personal brand we recognize that

idea of personal brand we recognize that

idea of personal brand we recognize that if we love something we can create an

if we love something we can create an

if we love something we can create an entire industry suggesting our favorite

entire industry suggesting our favorite

entire industry suggesting our favorite brands to the people who follow us and

brands to the people who follow us and

brands to the people who follow us and our friends you see we understand that

our friends you see we understand that

our friends you see we understand that what we purchase is not only a

what we purchase is not only a

what we purchase is not only a reflection of ourselves it’s a

reflection of ourselves it’s a

reflection of ourselves it’s a reflection of our personalities our

reflection of our personalities our

reflection of our personalities our priorities and our principles

priorities and our principles

priorities and our principles Millennials are a generation that is

Millennials are a generation that is

Millennials are a generation that is desperate for direction but oftentimes

desperate for direction but oftentimes

desperate for direction but oftentimes too embarrassed to ask for help

too embarrassed to ask for help

too embarrassed to ask for help you see we’re the Google generation we

you see we’re the Google generation we

you see we’re the Google generation we feel like we should know all the answers

feel like we should know all the answers

feel like we should know all the answers and what I found is that this generation

and what I found is that this generation

and what I found is that this generation would rather look on the internet for an

would rather look on the internet for an

would rather look on the internet for an answer than raise their hand but I will

answer than raise their hand but I will

answer than raise their hand but I will tell you what I tell teachers and CEOs

tell you what I tell teachers and CEOs

tell you what I tell teachers and CEOs and parents and it’s this our generation

and parents and it’s this our generation

and parents and it’s this our generation doesn’t need you for information we have

doesn’t need you for information we have

doesn’t need you for information we have the internet for that what we need you

the internet for that what we need you

the internet for that what we need you for is interpretation and application so

for is interpretation and application so

for is interpretation and application so what does the future look like it looks

what does the future look like it looks

what does the future look like it looks like it’s collaborative

like it’s collaborative

like it’s collaborative it looks like it’s creative it looks

it looks like it’s creative it looks

it looks like it’s creative it looks like it’s cause oriented I’ve studied

like it’s cause oriented I’ve studied

like it’s cause oriented I’ve studied Millennials for about 11 years now which

Millennials for about 11 years now which

Millennials for about 11 years now which when I say that out loud it makes me

when I say that out loud it makes me

when I say that out loud it makes me feel really old as a millennial myself

feel really old as a millennial myself

feel really old as a millennial myself but what I found is whether it was

but what I found is whether it was

but what I found is whether it was looking at who Millennials vote for or

looking at who Millennials vote for or

looking at who Millennials vote for or what we buy or where we work there’s one

what we buy or where we work there’s one

what we buy or where we work there’s one common theme and it’s this Millennials

common theme and it’s this Millennials

common theme and it’s this Millennials are a justice generation no one had too

are a justice generation no one had too

are a justice generation no one had too less that human trafficking was wrong no

less that human trafficking was wrong no

less that human trafficking was wrong no one had to tell us that taking care of

one had to tell us that taking care of

one had to tell us that taking care of the environment was right no one had to

the environment was right no one had to

the environment was right no one had to say we should develop things sustainably

say we should develop things sustainably

say we should develop things sustainably we just knew that we should you see

we just knew that we should you see

we just knew that we should you see justice is a part of our common unifier

justice is a part of our common unifier

justice is a part of our common unifier it’s our core cause and it is our shared

it’s our core cause and it is our shared

it’s our core cause and it is our shared purpose we’re creating entire industries

purpose we’re creating entire industries

purpose we’re creating entire industries around doing well by doing good we keep

around doing well by doing good we keep

around doing well by doing good we keep corporations accountable because we know

corporations accountable because we know

corporations accountable because we know it’s the right thing to do but you see

it’s the right thing to do but you see

it’s the right thing to do but you see the thing is that no calling no

the thing is that no calling no

the thing is that no calling no generational destiny can be completed on

generational destiny can be completed on

generational destiny can be completed on our own it’s too big for that how well

our own it’s too big for that how well

our own it’s too big for that how well we achieve our destiny completely

we achieve our destiny completely

we achieve our destiny completely depends on how well we engage our

depends on how well we engage our

depends on how well we engage our predecessors you see we’re part of the

predecessors you see we’re part of the

predecessors you see we’re part of the largest generational power handoff in

largest generational power handoff in

largest generational power handoff in history in the next five years six out

history in the next five years six out

history in the next five years six out of every ten US executives is set to

of every ten US executives is set to

of every ten US executives is set to retire in less than ten years many of us

retire in less than ten years many of us

retire in less than ten years many of us will be thrust into positions of

will be thrust into positions of

will be thrust into positions of leadership that we may not be prepared

leadership that we may not be prepared

leadership that we may not be prepared for you see how it normally works as one

for you see how it normally works as one

for you see how it normally works as one generation retires and hands off the

generation retires and hands off the

generation retires and hands off the power to the next generation but that’s

power to the next generation but that’s

power to the next generation but that’s not happening Generation X is a third

not happening Generation X is a third

not happening Generation X is a third the size of the Millennial and the

the size of the Millennial and the

the size of the Millennial and the retiring baby boomers in other words

retiring baby boomers in other words

retiring baby boomers in other words there just aren’t enough 40 and 50 year

there just aren’t enough 40 and 50 year

there just aren’t enough 40 and 50 year olds to be able to fill those leadership

olds to be able to fill those leadership

olds to be able to fill those leadership positions we may not deserve leadership

positions we may not deserve leadership

positions we may not deserve leadership but we will be ready for it

but we will be ready for it

but we will be ready for it with great expectations comes great

with great expectations comes great

with great expectations comes great responsibility

responsibility

responsibility they still think we’re the next Greatest

they still think we’re the next Greatest

they still think we’re the next Greatest Generation let’s not let them down

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