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The Joys of “Otherhood” | Lisa Van Dusen | TEDxGunnHighSchool


I am 10 years old I’m in fifth grade at

I am 10 years old I’m in fifth grade at Valley woods elementary school near

Valley woods elementary school near

Valley woods elementary school near Bingham Farms Michigan my class is a

Bingham Farms Michigan my class is a

Bingham Farms Michigan my class is a combination it’s a combination of 5th

combination it’s a combination of 5th

combination it’s a combination of 5th and 6th graders and our teacher is mr.

and 6th graders and our teacher is mr.

and 6th graders and our teacher is mr. Hayes one day mr. Hayes gives us two

Hayes one day mr. Hayes gives us two

Hayes one day mr. Hayes gives us two assignments the first was a science

assignments the first was a science

assignments the first was a science project and the second and English paper

project and the second and English paper

project and the second and English paper I don’t want to do one project for

I don’t want to do one project for

I don’t want to do one project for English and another for science I have

English and another for science I have

English and another for science I have another idea

another idea

another idea what if I combine them what if I wrote a

what if I combine them what if I wrote a

what if I combine them what if I wrote a play about the Scopes trial where the

play about the Scopes trial where the

play about the Scopes trial where the theory of evolution put forth by Charles

theory of evolution put forth by Charles

theory of evolution put forth by Charles Darwin was challenged I asked mr. Hayes

Darwin was challenged I asked mr. Hayes

Darwin was challenged I asked mr. Hayes and he said yes and I proceeded to write

and he said yes and I proceeded to write

and he said yes and I proceeded to write the play I recruited students from all

the play I recruited students from all

the play I recruited students from all other classes and grades they were in

other classes and grades they were in

other classes and grades they were in the play they made the scenery they

the play they made the scenery they

the play they made the scenery they helped me make the costumes and even

helped me make the costumes and even

helped me make the costumes and even sell refreshments and tickets and I cast

sell refreshments and tickets and I cast

sell refreshments and tickets and I cast myself the reporter because I had a hard

myself the reporter because I had a hard

myself the reporter because I had a hard time memorizing my lines and so I could

time memorizing my lines and so I could

time memorizing my lines and so I could use the reporters notebook as my

use the reporters notebook as my

use the reporters notebook as my prompter so when this play was done it

prompter so when this play was done it

prompter so when this play was done it was a revelation was recognized for

was a revelation was recognized for

was a revelation was recognized for putting all my abilities to work in one

putting all my abilities to work in one

putting all my abilities to work in one arena in one creative project of my own

arena in one creative project of my own

arena in one creative project of my own design I had the opportunity to be an

design I had the opportunity to be an

design I had the opportunity to be an artist to be a storyteller a producer

artist to be a storyteller a producer

artist to be a storyteller a producer and to bring together a wide range of

and to bring together a wide range of

and to bring together a wide range of people in a creative project of my own

people in a creative project of my own

people in a creative project of my own design it was a high point and mr. Hayes

design it was a high point and mr. Hayes

design it was a high point and mr. Hayes had recognized that and encouraged me

had recognized that and encouraged me

had recognized that and encouraged me and really it was one of the high points

and really it was one of the high points

and really it was one of the high points of my childhood I never fit in a box I

of my childhood I never fit in a box I

of my childhood I never fit in a box I was always asked when I was growing up

was always asked when I was growing up

was always asked when I was growing up what did I want to be what did I want to

what did I want to be what did I want to

what did I want to be what did I want to be when I grew up and I never had just

be when I grew up and I never had just

be when I grew up and I never had just one answer I pretty much knew what I

one answer I pretty much knew what I

one answer I pretty much knew what I didn’t want to be and it was a short

didn’t want to be and it was a short

didn’t want to be and it was a short list I did not want to be

list I did not want to be

list I did not want to be a lawyer I didn’t want to be a garbage

a lawyer I didn’t want to be a garbage

a lawyer I didn’t want to be a garbage collector and I didn’t want to be a

collector and I didn’t want to be a

collector and I didn’t want to be a truck driver and pretty much everything

truck driver and pretty much everything

truck driver and pretty much everything else was a possibility so meanwhile I

else was a possibility so meanwhile I

else was a possibility so meanwhile I was surrounded particularly in my family

was surrounded particularly in my family

was surrounded particularly in my family by people who had picked very much

by people who had picked very much

by people who had picked very much something that was a thing that you

something that was a thing that you

something that was a thing that you could be my father was a lawyer and he

could be my father was a lawyer and he

could be my father was a lawyer and he knew he wanted to be that from a very

knew he wanted to be that from a very

knew he wanted to be that from a very young age my sister who was older also

young age my sister who was older also

young age my sister who was older also decided to be a lawyer and always seemed

decided to be a lawyer and always seemed

decided to be a lawyer and always seemed to have her next step clearly before her

to have her next step clearly before her

to have her next step clearly before her I envied that and somehow I thought that

I envied that and somehow I thought that

I envied that and somehow I thought that I I wasn’t I wasn’t up to things because

I I wasn’t I wasn’t up to things because

I I wasn’t I wasn’t up to things because I didn’t fit into a box because I didn’t

I didn’t fit into a box because I didn’t

I didn’t fit into a box because I didn’t want to be just one thing it did not

want to be just one thing it did not

want to be just one thing it did not feel good in fact it felt like it was

feel good in fact it felt like it was

feel good in fact it felt like it was not on a path to success and I kept

not on a path to success and I kept

not on a path to success and I kept thinking I would wake up one day and be

thinking I would wake up one day and be

thinking I would wake up one day and be somebody who could fit in a box that had

somebody who could fit in a box that had

somebody who could fit in a box that had a label already we’ve all seen forms

a label already we’ve all seen forms

a label already we’ve all seen forms forms that face us down with a lot of

forms that face us down with a lot of

forms that face us down with a lot of boxes to check gender age ethnicity

boxes to check gender age ethnicity

boxes to check gender age ethnicity nationality zip code I could handle that

nationality zip code I could handle that

nationality zip code I could handle that and occupation or profession and it’s

and occupation or profession and it’s

and occupation or profession and it’s that last one that still makes me

that last one that still makes me

that last one that still makes me shudder but for some people for some of

shudder but for some people for some of

shudder but for some people for some of you it might be one of the other boxes

you it might be one of the other boxes

you it might be one of the other boxes where you don’t fit into something

where you don’t fit into something

where you don’t fit into something that’s pre labeled and prefabricated so

that’s pre labeled and prefabricated so

that’s pre labeled and prefabricated so we can all know what it feels like to be

we can all know what it feels like to be

we can all know what it feels like to be an other to be somebody that can’t check

an other to be somebody that can’t check

an other to be somebody that can’t check a box other than other so I check other

a box other than other so I check other

a box other than other so I check other and I haven’t felt great about checking

and I haven’t felt great about checking

and I haven’t felt great about checking other for much of my life but finally I

other for much of my life but finally I

other for much of my life but finally I realized that that was misguided

realized that that was misguided

realized that that was misguided that’s a waste of time to feel that way

that’s a waste of time to feel that way

that’s a waste of time to feel that way that in fact being an other is one of

that in fact being an other is one of

that in fact being an other is one of the best things that you can be when I

the best things that you can be when I

the best things that you can be when I got to college at Brown I pretty much

got to college at Brown I pretty much

got to college at Brown I pretty much took the classes that were interesting

took the classes that were interesting

took the classes that were interesting to me I wanted to explore and I took art

to me I wanted to explore and I took art

to me I wanted to explore and I took art and linguistics and English I took

and linguistics and English I took

and linguistics and English I took biology and

biology and

biology and rushon and philosophy but when it came

rushon and philosophy but when it came

rushon and philosophy but when it came time to declare a major I essentially

time to declare a major I essentially

time to declare a major I essentially looked back at what I’d taken and it

looked back at what I’d taken and it

looked back at what I’d taken and it added up to something that was called

added up to something that was called

added up to something that was called semiotic s– now I’ll bet very few of

semiotic s– now I’ll bet very few of

semiotic s– now I’ll bet very few of you have heard of that I certainly

you have heard of that I certainly

you have heard of that I certainly hadn’t it means the study of signs and

hadn’t it means the study of signs and

hadn’t it means the study of signs and symbols and at the time it felt like a

symbols and at the time it felt like a

symbols and at the time it felt like a really weird default and didn’t feel

really weird default and didn’t feel

really weird default and didn’t feel very good but in retrospect I looked

very good but in retrospect I looked

very good but in retrospect I looked back and realized that it actually did

back and realized that it actually did

back and realized that it actually did fit that I throughout my life have

fit that I throughout my life have

fit that I throughout my life have combined the visual and the verbal words

combined the visual and the verbal words

combined the visual and the verbal words and images so it made sense but at the

and images so it made sense but at the

and images so it made sense but at the time it really felt like it again was

time it really felt like it again was

time it really felt like it again was another so I finally realized that in my

another so I finally realized that in my

another so I finally realized that in my life

life

life it is actually my other hood it is

it is actually my other hood it is

it is actually my other hood it is actually all the ways that I am

actually all the ways that I am

actually all the ways that I am multifaceted and bring things together

multifaceted and bring things together

multifaceted and bring things together that makes me bring value to the

that makes me bring value to the

that makes me bring value to the situations that I have pursued in my

situations that I have pursued in my

situations that I have pursued in my life that it isn’t something to feel bad

life that it isn’t something to feel bad

life that it isn’t something to feel bad about it’s something to accept I don’t

about it’s something to accept I don’t

about it’s something to accept I don’t fit in another box and I would be more

fit in another box and I would be more

fit in another box and I would be more uncomfortable in another box than in the

uncomfortable in another box than in the

uncomfortable in another box than in the other box so I finally gave myself

other box so I finally gave myself

other box so I finally gave myself permission I don’t think it was my

permission I don’t think it was my

permission I don’t think it was my family or really most people in the

family or really most people in the

family or really most people in the world that we’re telling me it was bad

world that we’re telling me it was bad

world that we’re telling me it was bad it just was harder it wasn’t clear it

it just was harder it wasn’t clear it

it just was harder it wasn’t clear it wasn’t often when you’re doing things

wasn’t often when you’re doing things

wasn’t often when you’re doing things first there isn’t a box for it but later

first there isn’t a box for it but later

first there isn’t a box for it but later there might be I’ve been a lot of things

there might be I’ve been a lot of things

there might be I’ve been a lot of things played a lot of roles operated in many

played a lot of roles operated in many

played a lot of roles operated in many different worlds in my life I’ve been a

different worlds in my life I’ve been a

different worlds in my life I’ve been a river guide a revenue generator a civic

river guide a revenue generator a civic

river guide a revenue generator a civic leader I’ve been a an artist and a human

leader I’ve been a an artist and a human

leader I’ve been a an artist and a human I’m a relative and a friend and I’ve

I’m a relative and a friend and I’ve

I’m a relative and a friend and I’ve been all of the above and this is a

been all of the above and this is a

been all of the above and this is a partial list so it’s really through my

partial list so it’s really through my

partial list so it’s really through my other hood toolbox that I have navigated

other hood toolbox that I have navigated

other hood toolbox that I have navigated my way through these different worlds

my way through these different worlds

my way through these different worlds and this is a lot in in hindsight

and this is a lot in in hindsight

and this is a lot in in hindsight reflecting on the fact that it’s not a

reflecting on the fact that it’s not a

reflecting on the fact that it’s not a particular

particular

particular expertise that I bring to a situation

expertise that I bring to a situation

expertise that I bring to a situation but often it’s a way of seeing things

but often it’s a way of seeing things

but often it’s a way of seeing things sometimes those are character traits

sometimes those are character traits

sometimes those are character traits that are very natural to me almost like

that are very natural to me almost like

that are very natural to me almost like breathing and others are things where

breathing and others are things where

breathing and others are things where it’s a skill that I’ve developed and

it’s a skill that I’ve developed and

it’s a skill that I’ve developed and honed over time many of them are not

honed over time many of them are not

honed over time many of them are not things that I have necessarily noticed

things that I have necessarily noticed

things that I have necessarily noticed myself sometimes because it comes so

myself sometimes because it comes so

myself sometimes because it comes so naturally that I don’t see it as

naturally that I don’t see it as

naturally that I don’t see it as anything special so other people can

anything special so other people can

anything special so other people can often be the a mirror for you and help

often be the a mirror for you and help

often be the a mirror for you and help you see what your special skills are and

you see what your special skills are and

you see what your special skills are and how they might be valuable scene 1 its

how they might be valuable scene 1 its

how they might be valuable scene 1 its 1993 I work at the Palo Alto weekly I

1993 I work at the Palo Alto weekly I

1993 I work at the Palo Alto weekly I get a call from a guy in a garage a Palo

get a call from a guy in a garage a Palo

get a call from a guy in a garage a Palo Alto garage and he asked would you like

Alto garage and he asked would you like

Alto garage and he asked would you like to put all the contents of the Palo Alto

to put all the contents of the Palo Alto

to put all the contents of the Palo Alto weekly on the World Wide Web and I

weekly on the World Wide Web and I

weekly on the World Wide Web and I paused meanwhile this is 1993 the

paused meanwhile this is 1993 the

paused meanwhile this is 1993 the Internet and the web are in their

Internet and the web are in their

Internet and the web are in their absolute infancy so a lot of people

absolute infancy so a lot of people

absolute infancy so a lot of people might not have taken that call or

might not have taken that call or

might not have taken that call or certainly stayed on the phone with him

certainly stayed on the phone with him

certainly stayed on the phone with him and found out what he had in mind and

and found out what he had in mind and

and found out what he had in mind and how that might work and whether it was

how that might work and whether it was

how that might work and whether it was really feasible so the other hoods skill

really feasible so the other hoods skill

really feasible so the other hoods skill or tool that I tapped into in that

or tool that I tapped into in that

or tool that I tapped into in that situation was being curious I decided

situation was being curious I decided

situation was being curious I decided that I would stay on the phone I would

that I would stay on the phone I would

that I would stay on the phone I would try to learn what he had in mind and how

try to learn what he had in mind and how

try to learn what he had in mind and how it might work and I ultimately used

it might work and I ultimately used

it might work and I ultimately used another other hood tool and said yes and

another other hood tool and said yes and

another other hood tool and said yes and that yes that small yes led to early in

that yes that small yes led to early in

that yes that small yes led to early in 1994 the Palo Alto weekly being the

1994 the Palo Alto weekly being the

1994 the Palo Alto weekly being the first newspaper in the world to be on

first newspaper in the world to be on

first newspaper in the world to be on the world wide web and later fast

the world wide web and later fast

the world wide web and later fast forward to 2008 Palo Alto online is used

forward to 2008 Palo Alto online is used

forward to 2008 Palo Alto online is used all over the world and is part of daily

all over the world and is part of daily

all over the world and is part of daily life not just here in Palo Alto and

life not just here in Palo Alto and

life not just here in Palo Alto and Silicon Valley but again all over the

Silicon Valley but again all over the

Silicon Valley but again all over the world so it was a small yes that led to

world so it was a small yes that led to

world so it was a small yes that led to that change in the world and again I

that change in the world and again I

that change in the world and again I didn’t do any of this alone but I did

didn’t do any of this alone but I did

didn’t do any of this alone but I did say yes and I was curing

say yes and I was curing

say yes and I was curing enough to answer that call scene two

enough to answer that call scene two

enough to answer that call scene two going carbon-free my whole life I have

going carbon-free my whole life I have

going carbon-free my whole life I have been somebody who’s loved spending time

been somebody who’s loved spending time

been somebody who’s loved spending time outdoors and throughout my daily life

outdoors and throughout my daily life

outdoors and throughout my daily life have tried to find ways to steward our

have tried to find ways to steward our

have tried to find ways to steward our planet and it’s taken different forms

planet and it’s taken different forms

planet and it’s taken different forms and it’s very much used a variety of

and it’s very much used a variety of

and it’s very much used a variety of other hood tools one of those tools is

other hood tools one of those tools is

other hood tools one of those tools is being open to everyone and by that I

being open to everyone and by that I

being open to everyone and by that I mean at a school where our kids were

mean at a school where our kids were

mean at a school where our kids were when there was no recycling program in

when there was no recycling program in

when there was no recycling program in the school it was really tuning in to

the school it was really tuning in to

the school it was really tuning in to the kids and the students who were

the kids and the students who were

the kids and the students who were bringing lunches that had lots of

bringing lunches that had lots of

bringing lunches that had lots of garbage and there was no recycling

garbage and there was no recycling

garbage and there was no recycling talking to them to figure out how we

talking to them to figure out how we

talking to them to figure out how we might make a change and later on working

might make a change and later on working

might make a change and later on working with the mayor or the janitor and a

with the mayor or the janitor and a

with the mayor or the janitor and a commercial building or clean tech

commercial building or clean tech

commercial building or clean tech professionals or the utilities staff it

professionals or the utilities staff it

professionals or the utilities staff it was talking to all those kinds of people

was talking to all those kinds of people

was talking to all those kinds of people to figure out how we might make a change

to figure out how we might make a change

to figure out how we might make a change and really take Palo Alto to where we

and really take Palo Alto to where we

and really take Palo Alto to where we wanted to go which is to be carbon free

wanted to go which is to be carbon free

wanted to go which is to be carbon free and once you’ve talked to lots of

and once you’ve talked to lots of

and once you’ve talked to lots of different people and figured out what

different people and figured out what

different people and figured out what the solutions might be another tools

the solutions might be another tools

the solutions might be another tools really being the human glue and if you

really being the human glue and if you

really being the human glue and if you think about glue sometimes it’s

think about glue sometimes it’s

think about glue sometimes it’s invisible it literally when it dries you

invisible it literally when it dries you

invisible it literally when it dries you can’t see it but without it all those

can’t see it but without it all those

can’t see it but without it all those parts all those people all those

parts all those people all those

parts all those people all those resources and assets would not be

resources and assets would not be

resources and assets would not be brought together to want to achieve one

brought together to want to achieve one

brought together to want to achieve one vision or one goal so it’s it’s one of

vision or one goal so it’s it’s one of

vision or one goal so it’s it’s one of those skills that can without it you

those skills that can without it you

those skills that can without it you notice it’s not there but when it’s

notice it’s not there but when it’s

notice it’s not there but when it’s there you might not see it scene 3

there you might not see it scene 3

there you might not see it scene 3 scaling social impact I work with an

scaling social impact I work with an

scaling social impact I work with an organization called sv2 Silicon Valley

organization called sv2 Silicon Valley

organization called sv2 Silicon Valley social venture fund and what we do is

social venture fund and what we do is

social venture fund and what we do is essentially try to take ourselves from

essentially try to take ourselves from

essentially try to take ourselves from the land of problems to a better world

the land of problems to a better world

the land of problems to a better world and we do that by bringing together

and we do that by bringing together

and we do that by bringing together individuals who want to learn to become

individuals who want to learn to become

individuals who want to learn to become more effective givers and then invest

more effective givers and then invest

more effective givers and then invest their reefs

their reefs

their reefs sources financial and talents and time

sources financial and talents and time

sources financial and talents and time and networks to invest in innovative

and networks to invest in innovative

and networks to invest in innovative nonprofits and promising social ventures

nonprofits and promising social ventures

nonprofits and promising social ventures that are for profits and to do that

that are for profits and to do that

that are for profits and to do that really it’s it’s a another other hood

really it’s it’s a another other hood

really it’s it’s a another other hood skill of connecting the dots those dots

skill of connecting the dots those dots

skill of connecting the dots those dots might be people they might be ideas they

might be people they might be ideas they

might be people they might be ideas they might be organizations and they might be

might be organizations and they might be

might be organizations and they might be broader than that it might be connecting

broader than that it might be connecting

broader than that it might be connecting the dot with a big idea but to do that

the dot with a big idea but to do that

the dot with a big idea but to do that you really need to sort of notice and

you really need to sort of notice and

you really need to sort of notice and see what’s possible and be a finder I

see what’s possible and be a finder I

see what’s possible and be a finder I find often that I can spot a person who

find often that I can spot a person who

find often that I can spot a person who might not seem like a likely person to

might not seem like a likely person to

might not seem like a likely person to join an organization like sv2 and find

join an organization like sv2 and find

join an organization like sv2 and find them in an unlikely spot or identify an

them in an unlikely spot or identify an

them in an unlikely spot or identify an organization that might be a good fit or

organization that might be a good fit or

organization that might be a good fit or some other way of connecting all the

some other way of connecting all the

some other way of connecting all the resources all the parts seen for again

resources all the parts seen for again

resources all the parts seen for again throughout my life I have been an artist

throughout my life I have been an artist

throughout my life I have been an artist and a curator of conversations these

and a curator of conversations these

and a curator of conversations these conversations involve taking creative

conversations involve taking creative

conversations involve taking creative risks which is another other hood tool

risks which is another other hood tool

risks which is another other hood tool and they’ve played out these these

and they’ve played out these these

and they’ve played out these these creative both conversations and

creative both conversations and

creative both conversations and creations have found their way into the

creations have found their way into the

creations have found their way into the world in a variety of ways one way is

world in a variety of ways one way is

world in a variety of ways one way is through first-person which is an

through first-person which is an

through first-person which is an interview series that I’ve done that I

interview series that I’ve done that I

interview series that I’ve done that I still do where I talk with innovators

still do where I talk with innovators

still do where I talk with innovators and leaders in Silicon Valley and when I

and leaders in Silicon Valley and when I

and leaders in Silicon Valley and when I reflect on what those people have in

reflect on what those people have in

reflect on what those people have in common they are all other people there

common they are all other people there

common they are all other people there are people who have combined their

are people who have combined their

are people who have combined their interests and their skills in ways that

interests and their skills in ways that

interests and their skills in ways that are often very much ahead of their time

are often very much ahead of their time

are often very much ahead of their time they are trailblazing and by drawing

they are trailblazing and by drawing

they are trailblazing and by drawing that out sometimes I find they even see

that out sometimes I find they even see

that out sometimes I find they even see things in themselves that they hadn’t

things in themselves that they hadn’t

things in themselves that they hadn’t seen they make connections about how

seen they make connections about how

seen they make connections about how they’ve taken a turn to the right or the

they’ve taken a turn to the right or the

they’ve taken a turn to the right or the left and another example is during the

left and another example is during the

left and another example is during the election season I was doing some drawing

election season I was doing some drawing

election season I was doing some drawing and found myself providing an

and found myself providing an

and found myself providing an illustration for a greeting card that

illustration for a greeting card that

illustration for a greeting card that landed in all the Walmarts and all the

landed in all the Walmarts and all the

landed in all the Walmarts and all the targets

targets

targets of the u.s. in the election section so

of the u.s. in the election section so

of the u.s. in the election section so you never know where your work can land

you never know where your work can land

you never know where your work can land I also started taking a creative risk a

I also started taking a creative risk a

I also started taking a creative risk a Illustrated blog called actually in

Illustrated blog called actually in

Illustrated blog called actually in Silicon Valley sharing some perspectives

Silicon Valley sharing some perspectives

Silicon Valley sharing some perspectives that are not kind of the stereotypical

that are not kind of the stereotypical

that are not kind of the stereotypical view of Silicon Valley and finally

view of Silicon Valley and finally

view of Silicon Valley and finally leadership Palo Alto is really a

leadership Palo Alto is really a

leadership Palo Alto is really a leadership development program for civic

leadership development program for civic

leadership development program for civic leaders which brings two other people

leaders which brings two other people

leaders which brings two other people from again very different sectors and

from again very different sectors and

from again very different sectors and interests and helps them find a way to

interests and helps them find a way to

interests and helps them find a way to become civically involved all of these

become civically involved all of these

become civically involved all of these things involve taking creative risks and

things involve taking creative risks and

things involve taking creative risks and believing in the magic that can happen

believing in the magic that can happen

believing in the magic that can happen when there is collaboration and hope and

when there is collaboration and hope and

when there is collaboration and hope and just again trying something in a new way

just again trying something in a new way

just again trying something in a new way different perspectives are central to

different perspectives are central to

different perspectives are central to all of these roles one is the hoc view

all of these roles one is the hoc view

all of these roles one is the hoc view the 30,000 foot I know they actually

the 30,000 foot I know they actually

the 30,000 foot I know they actually don’t fly that high but 30,000 feet up

don’t fly that high but 30,000 feet up

don’t fly that high but 30,000 feet up you see the systems perspective you see

you see the systems perspective you see

you see the systems perspective you see kind of the overview how things all fit

kind of the overview how things all fit

kind of the overview how things all fit together and back down on the ground the

together and back down on the ground the

together and back down on the ground the one fit view or the chiken view people

one fit view or the chiken view people

one fit view or the chiken view people are figuring out how things actually

are figuring out how things actually

are figuring out how things actually work they’re operational they’re making

work they’re operational they’re making

work they’re operational they’re making things happen they’re building something

things happen they’re building something

things happen they’re building something and in between is the hummingbird view

and in between is the hummingbird view

and in between is the hummingbird view which is where I’ve spent most of my

which is where I’ve spent most of my

which is where I’ve spent most of my time

time

time I have been a hawk and I have been a

I have been a hawk and I have been a

I have been a hawk and I have been a chicken but it’s the hummingbird that

chicken but it’s the hummingbird that

chicken but it’s the hummingbird that really is my other hood tool here where

really is my other hood tool here where

really is my other hood tool here where it’s it’s traveling between elevations

it’s it’s traveling between elevations

it’s it’s traveling between elevations and then again around different

and then again around different

and then again around different stakeholders and perspectives so these

stakeholders and perspectives so these

stakeholders and perspectives so these are my other hood tools these are even

are my other hood tools these are even

are my other hood tools these are even just some of mine

just some of mine

just some of mine humors another one and I urge you to

humors another one and I urge you to

humors another one and I urge you to think about what are your tools whether

think about what are your tools whether

think about what are your tools whether you’re an other person or somebody that

you’re an other person or somebody that

you’re an other person or somebody that fits more neatly into a pre labelled box

fits more neatly into a pre labelled box

fits more neatly into a pre labelled box we all have a tool kit and it’s really

we all have a tool kit and it’s really

we all have a tool kit and it’s really as Margaret Mead said we’re always

as Margaret Mead said we’re always

as Margaret Mead said we’re always remember that you are unique just like

remember that you are unique just like

remember that you are unique just like everyone else so it’s it’s a wonderful

everyone else so it’s it’s a wonderful

everyone else so it’s it’s a wonderful opportunity to think about these traits

opportunity to think about these traits

opportunity to think about these traits as opposed to being

as opposed to being

as opposed to being the best violinist or the best soccer

the best violinist or the best soccer

the best violinist or the best soccer player all of which is great but the way

player all of which is great but the way

player all of which is great but the way that you can bring it together as more

that you can bring it together as more

that you can bring it together as more than the sum of your parts we need us

than the sum of your parts we need us

than the sum of your parts we need us all we need the people who have spent

all we need the people who have spent

all we need the people who have spent decades trying to understand bees or to

decades trying to understand bees or to

decades trying to understand bees or to find a cure for cancer we need people

find a cure for cancer we need people

find a cure for cancer we need people who are a combination who are others we

who are a combination who are others we

who are a combination who are others we need all of us to address the kinds of

need all of us to address the kinds of

need all of us to address the kinds of challenges that we’re facing whether its

challenges that we’re facing whether its

challenges that we’re facing whether its climate change or violence or poverty in

climate change or violence or poverty in

climate change or violence or poverty in our world in our communities but we are

our world in our communities but we are

our world in our communities but we are going to get there because we all bring

going to get there because we all bring

going to get there because we all bring our whole selves whether we fit into one

our whole selves whether we fit into one

our whole selves whether we fit into one neat box or not and my father the lawyer

neat box or not and my father the lawyer

neat box or not and my father the lawyer was not just a lawyer he was a civic

was not just a lawyer he was a civic

was not just a lawyer he was a civic leader my sister the lawyer was not just

leader my sister the lawyer was not just

leader my sister the lawyer was not just a lawyer she was also a talented weaver

a lawyer she was also a talented weaver

a lawyer she was also a talented weaver among many other things so we’re all a

among many other things so we’re all a

among many other things so we’re all a combination so I invite us to celebrate

combination so I invite us to celebrate

combination so I invite us to celebrate that and to bring it all to the to to

that and to bring it all to the to to

that and to bring it all to the to to the world and to your work and to your

the world and to your work and to your

the world and to your work and to your life and and know that you don’t have to

life and and know that you don’t have to

life and and know that you don’t have to fit into one neat box I recently went to

fit into one neat box I recently went to

fit into one neat box I recently went to a social impact film festival and when I

a social impact film festival and when I

a social impact film festival and when I entered I went to the table where you

entered I went to the table where you

entered I went to the table where you got your nametag and my nametag was

got your nametag and my nametag was

got your nametag and my nametag was there and so were a number of colored

there and so were a number of colored

there and so were a number of colored post-its the post-its were labeled with

post-its the post-its were labeled with

post-its the post-its were labeled with different options of who you could be

different options of who you could be

different options of who you could be who what your role was once again it was

who what your role was once again it was

who what your role was once again it was categorizing and social entrepreneur

categorizing and social entrepreneur

categorizing and social entrepreneur media storyteller investor and then

media storyteller investor and then

media storyteller investor and then there was other and I decided a little

there was other and I decided a little

there was other and I decided a little bit sheepishly

bit sheepishly

bit sheepishly but honestly to put all of them on my

but honestly to put all of them on my

but honestly to put all of them on my nametag and I went off and walked around

nametag and I went off and walked around

nametag and I went off and walked around and lo and behold there were quite a

and lo and behold there were quite a

and lo and behold there were quite a number of people that had either all the

number of people that had either all the

number of people that had either all the colors of post-its or most of them on

colors of post-its or most of them on

colors of post-its or most of them on their nametag and I realized that I had

their nametag and I realized that I had

their nametag and I realized that I had found other others and it felt great

found other others and it felt great

found other others and it felt great thank you for listening and thank you

thank you for listening and thank you

thank you for listening and thank you for looking

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