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The Innovation of Modern Love | Amanda Garber | TEDxBryantU


[Laughter]

[Laughter] where I live in the San Francisco Bay

where I live in the San Francisco Bay

where I live in the San Francisco Bay area is the epicenter of innovative

area is the epicenter of innovative

area is the epicenter of innovative technology there are thousands of

technology there are thousands of

technology there are thousands of applications being produced every day

applications being produced every day

applications being produced every day that are super intuitive one application

that are super intuitive one application

that are super intuitive one application is for online dating applications bring

is for online dating applications bring

is for online dating applications bring ease and convenience into our daily

ease and convenience into our daily

ease and convenience into our daily lives and for online dating I am a user

lives and for online dating I am a user

lives and for online dating I am a user here’s a sneak peek into my online

here’s a sneak peek into my online

here’s a sneak peek into my online dating profile for the world to see it

dating profile for the world to see it

dating profile for the world to see it has some of my best photos I chose and

has some of my best photos I chose and

has some of my best photos I chose and quick tidbits about myself I like to

quick tidbits about myself I like to

quick tidbits about myself I like to challenge myself every day and I studied

challenge myself every day and I studied

challenge myself every day and I studied abroad at Lorenzo de Medici and voila an

abroad at Lorenzo de Medici and voila an

abroad at Lorenzo de Medici and voila an online profile for the world to see in a

online profile for the world to see in a

online profile for the world to see in a matter of seconds in the palm of your

matter of seconds in the palm of your

matter of seconds in the palm of your hand this is me being fully exposed to

hand this is me being fully exposed to

hand this is me being fully exposed to you my kind audience I have access to a

you my kind audience I have access to a

you my kind audience I have access to a 24/7 online singles bar how cool is that

so there’s the question what is it

so there’s the question what is it the swipe culture all the authentic

the swipe culture all the authentic

the swipe culture all the authentic relationship apps that bring upon

relationship apps that bring upon

relationship apps that bring upon success you may be familiar with the

success you may be familiar with the

success you may be familiar with the film in the 90s you got mail or sites

film in the 90s you got mail or sites

film in the 90s you got mail or sites like eHarmony or match.com there’s a way

like eHarmony or match.com there’s a way

like eHarmony or match.com there’s a way that Millennials are using online dating

that Millennials are using online dating

that Millennials are using online dating these days it’s mobile first these are

these days it’s mobile first these are

these days it’s mobile first these are all the brands that you can use in the

all the brands that you can use in the

all the brands that you can use in the palm of your phone tinder hinge coffee

palm of your phone tinder hinge coffee

palm of your phone tinder hinge coffee meets bagel grinder you name it there

meets bagel grinder you name it there

meets bagel grinder you name it there are over a hundred million users using

are over a hundred million users using

are over a hundred million users using tinder today the four one one on tinder

tinder today the four one one on tinder

tinder today the four one one on tinder a dating apocalypse for the hook-up

a dating apocalypse for the hook-up

a dating apocalypse for the hook-up culture body before personality a quick

culture body before personality a quick

culture body before personality a quick synopsis and how tinder works you have

synopsis and how tinder works you have

synopsis and how tinder works you have the profile you like someone you swipe

the profile you like someone you swipe

the profile you like someone you swipe right you don’t like someone

right you don’t like someone

right you don’t like someone you swipe left someone likes you they

you swipe left someone likes you they

you swipe left someone likes you they swipe right and bam it’s a match so

swipe right and bam it’s a match so

swipe right and bam it’s a match so who’s going to say hi first another

who’s going to say hi first another

who’s going to say hi first another application which is one of my personal

application which is one of my personal

application which is one of my personal favorites is called hinge hinge gets

favorites is called hinge hinge gets

favorites is called hinge hinge gets users off their phone and on dates it’s

users off their phone and on dates it’s

users off their phone and on dates it’s about forming relationships and

about forming relationships and

about forming relationships and connecting people because relationships

connecting people because relationships

connecting people because relationships are great college students I know you

are great college students I know you

are great college students I know you use the apps I’ve asked you myself you

use the apps I’ve asked you myself you

use the apps I’ve asked you myself you are what sociologists are called moving

are what sociologists are called moving

are what sociologists are called moving into emerging adulthood you will be

into emerging adulthood you will be

into emerging adulthood you will be moving to new cities for new jobs where

moving to new cities for new jobs where

moving to new cities for new jobs where you don’t know that many people this is

you don’t know that many people this is

you don’t know that many people this is the time for you to leverage those

the time for you to leverage those

the time for you to leverage those applications get on your phone meet new

applications get on your phone meet new

applications get on your phone meet new people and try new things

people and try new things

people and try new things emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m

emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m

emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m getting at here over 30% of

getting at here over 30% of

getting at here over 30% of relationships are formed through online

relationships are formed through online

relationships are formed through online dating these days that’s a bigger pool

dating these days that’s a bigger pool

dating these days that’s a bigger pool than meeting through school through work

than meeting through school through work

than meeting through school through work or through family combined applications

or through family combined applications

or through family combined applications are even helping modern love in foreign

are even helping modern love in foreign

are even helping modern love in foreign countries such as Qatar where there are

countries such as Qatar where there are

countries such as Qatar where there are arranged marriages technology is giving

arranged marriages technology is giving

arranged marriages technology is giving us romantic freedom I’ve had some

us romantic freedom I’ve had some

us romantic freedom I’ve had some interesting online dating experiences to

interesting online dating experiences to

interesting online dating experiences to say the least some great some not so

say the least some great some not so

say the least some great some not so great this is Robert

great this is Robert

great this is Robert we met on coffee meets bagel Robert was

we met on coffee meets bagel Robert was

we met on coffee meets bagel Robert was an interesting character he had a

an interesting character he had a

an interesting character he had a massive burger in one of his photos and

massive burger in one of his photos and

massive burger in one of his photos and had witty comments in the about Me

had witty comments in the about Me

had witty comments in the about Me section he was the CEO of some tech

section he was the CEO of some tech

section he was the CEO of some tech startup but don’t recall it of course

startup but don’t recall it of course

startup but don’t recall it of course was it a reusable water bottle company

was it a reusable water bottle company

was it a reusable water bottle company or was it a dog-walking app hmm

or was it a dog-walking app hmm

or was it a dog-walking app hmm regardless Robert and I went on many

regardless Robert and I went on many

regardless Robert and I went on many dates including going to Emmys spaghetti

dates including going to Emmys spaghetti

dates including going to Emmys spaghetti shack and touring all the bars in San

shack and touring all the bars in San

shack and touring all the bars in San Francisco

Francisco

Francisco karaoke bars in San Francisco I mean how

karaoke bars in San Francisco I mean how

karaoke bars in San Francisco I mean how many times can I sing and reinvent man I

many times can I sing and reinvent man I

many times can I sing and reinvent man I feel like a woman by Shania Twain

feel like a woman by Shania Twain

feel like a woman by Shania Twain regardless Robert and I had a lot of fun

regardless Robert and I had a lot of fun

regardless Robert and I had a lot of fun but the karaoke bar scene was kind of a

but the karaoke bar scene was kind of a

but the karaoke bar scene was kind of a red flag so I decided to cut

red flag so I decided to cut

red flag so I decided to cut communication with him altogether and or

communication with him altogether and or

communication with him altogether and or ghost him this is Brett we met unhinge

ghost him this is Brett we met unhinge

ghost him this is Brett we met unhinge Brett was an interesting character as

Brett was an interesting character as

Brett was an interesting character as well he was a professional sailor and a

well he was a professional sailor and a

well he was a professional sailor and a tech nerd through and through on our

tech nerd through and through on our

tech nerd through and through on our first date he really challenged me and

first date he really challenged me and

first date he really challenged me and even though there wasn’t a romantic

even though there wasn’t a romantic

even though there wasn’t a romantic connection I knew we would still be good

connection I knew we would still be good

connection I knew we would still be good friends

friends

friends Brett even gave me a referral to a job

Brett even gave me a referral to a job

Brett even gave me a referral to a job at his new company now that’s a way to

at his new company now that’s a way to

at his new company now that’s a way to leverage a personal and professional

leverage a personal and professional

leverage a personal and professional connection so those have been some of my

connection so those have been some of my

connection so those have been some of my online dating experiences up until this

online dating experiences up until this

online dating experiences up until this point there you chalk it up to

point there you chalk it up to

point there you chalk it up to experience because it’s all about

experience because it’s all about

experience because it’s all about meeting new people and trying new things

meeting new people and trying new things

meeting new people and trying new things emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m

emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m

emphasizing the new and that’s what I’m getting at here as I continue throughout

getting at here as I continue throughout

getting at here as I continue throughout my journey of modern love I still ponder

my journey of modern love I still ponder

my journey of modern love I still ponder the question is it the swipe culture or

the question is it the swipe culture or

the question is it the swipe culture or the authentic relationship apps that

the authentic relationship apps that

the authentic relationship apps that ring upon success there are positive and

ring upon success there are positive and

ring upon success there are positive and negative experiences to both technology

negative experiences to both technology

negative experiences to both technology is making producing more experiences

is making producing more experiences

is making producing more experiences more accessible help

more accessible help

more accessible help meeting new people more easily and

meeting new people more easily and

meeting new people more easily and connecting more often to evoke new

connecting more often to evoke new

connecting more often to evoke new possibilities thank you

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