The impact of Motherhood on confidence and career | Helen Packham | TEDxBrighton

I’d like to start with a really easy

I’d like to start with a really easy question who are you

question who are you

question who are you awkward right no really who are you what

awkward right no really who are you what

awkward right no really who are you what connects you to you what makes you who

connects you to you what makes you who

connects you to you what makes you who you are is it your life roles mom dad

you are is it your life roles mom dad

you are is it your life roles mom dad brother aren’t carer manager is it your

brother aren’t carer manager is it your

brother aren’t carer manager is it your beliefs and your values that make you

beliefs and your values that make you

beliefs and your values that make you who you are is it your thoughts and your

who you are is it your thoughts and your

who you are is it your thoughts and your feelings your likes and your dislikes

feelings your likes and your dislikes

feelings your likes and your dislikes what are the building blocks of you

what are the building blocks of you

what are the building blocks of you tricky question right and it’s the

tricky question right and it’s the

tricky question right and it’s the answers to these questions that arethat

answers to these questions that arethat

answers to these questions that arethat the reason why I’m standing here in

the reason why I’m standing here in

the reason why I’m standing here in front of you today because if you’d have

front of you today because if you’d have

front of you today because if you’d have asked me a year ago those questions I

asked me a year ago those questions I

asked me a year ago those questions I would not have been able to answer you

would not have been able to answer you

would not have been able to answer you because I did not have a clue a Scooby

because I did not have a clue a Scooby

because I did not have a clue a Scooby Doo who I was

Doo who I was

Doo who I was it’s in fact it was so uncomfortable to

it’s in fact it was so uncomfortable to

it’s in fact it was so uncomfortable to even think about that type of thing at

even think about that type of thing at

even think about that type of thing at the time that I numbed it all out and

the time that I numbed it all out and

the time that I numbed it all out and pushed it all down into a basement but

pushed it all down into a basement but

pushed it all down into a basement but things had to change and they did change

things had to change and they did change

things had to change and they did change and I’ve been on a bit of a journey and

and I’ve been on a bit of a journey and

and I’ve been on a bit of a journey and I’d like to share a few lessons with you

I’d like to share a few lessons with you

I’d like to share a few lessons with you today so oh that was the slide from

today so oh that was the slide from

today so oh that was the slide from previous let’s move on so let’s start

previous let’s move on so let’s start

previous let’s move on so let’s start with I guess the beginning of my career

with I guess the beginning of my career

with I guess the beginning of my career I got my dream job straight out of

I got my dream job straight out of

I got my dream job straight out of college at Virgin Atlantic Airways and I

college at Virgin Atlantic Airways and I

college at Virgin Atlantic Airways and I became a coach and I discovered that I

became a coach and I discovered that I

became a coach and I discovered that I had a passion for people and their

had a passion for people and their

had a passion for people and their behavioral diversity and the way that

behavioral diversity and the way that

behavioral diversity and the way that they ticked and that if you changed

they ticked and that if you changed

they ticked and that if you changed something about your behavior that they

something about your behavior that they

something about your behavior that they would behave differently and that you

would behave differently and that you

would behave differently and that you could resolve conflict in the workplace

could resolve conflict in the workplace

could resolve conflict in the workplace and improve communication and I loved it

and improve communication and I loved it

and improve communication and I loved it and I climbed the corporate ladder in my

and I climbed the corporate ladder in my

and I climbed the corporate ladder in my 20s and moved into leadership

20s and moved into leadership

20s and moved into leadership development and talent management and

development and talent management and

development and talent management and executive coaching so by the time I was

executive coaching so by the time I was

executive coaching so by the time I was thirty years old I was leading the

thirty years old I was leading the

thirty years old I was leading the learning and development strategy in a

learning and development strategy in a

learning and development strategy in a this division of two thousand people and

this division of two thousand people and

this division of two thousand people and was coaching executive directors and

was coaching executive directors and

was coaching executive directors and when I think of it now it does feel a

when I think of it now it does feel a

when I think of it now it does feel a bit lofty to me but at the time I did

bit lofty to me but at the time I did

bit lofty to me but at the time I did have a sense of confidence I did have a

have a sense of confidence I did have a

have a sense of confidence I did have a sense of knowing and the other thing you

sense of knowing and the other thing you

sense of knowing and the other thing you need to know about me is that I am a

need to know about me is that I am a

need to know about me is that I am a pesky planner and that means that I like

pesky planner and that means that I like

pesky planner and that means that I like to control outcomes and make sure

to control outcomes and make sure

to control outcomes and make sure eventualities are covered so I’m

eventualities are covered so I’m

eventualities are covered so I’m prepared so give me a Gantt chart and a

prepared so give me a Gantt chart and a

prepared so give me a Gantt chart and a spreadsheet in a list and I’m golden now

spreadsheet in a list and I’m golden now

spreadsheet in a list and I’m golden now I got married and I got pregnant and so

I got married and I got pregnant and so

I got married and I got pregnant and so I applied that exact same logic to my

I applied that exact same logic to my

I applied that exact same logic to my pregnancy yeah parents in the room

pregnancy yeah parents in the room

pregnancy yeah parents in the room you’re laughing I know well why so I got

you’re laughing I know well why so I got

you’re laughing I know well why so I got all the books the books on sleep the

all the books the books on sleep the

all the books the books on sleep the books on baby led weaning the timetables

books on baby led weaning the timetables

books on baby led weaning the timetables I had it all figured out

I had it all figured out

I had it all figured out I had it all typed up and written down I

I had it all typed up and written down I

I had it all typed up and written down I had every eventualities cupboard

had every eventualities cupboard

had every eventualities cupboard I had nailed it and then she came along

I had nailed it and then she came along

I had nailed it and then she came along and the bowling ball of parenthood

and the bowling ball of parenthood

and the bowling ball of parenthood literally she knocked me off my feet

literally she knocked me off my feet

literally she knocked me off my feet like a skittle I did not see that coming

like a skittle I did not see that coming

like a skittle I did not see that coming nothing that I could have done would

nothing that I could have done would

nothing that I could have done would have prepared me for how I felt when my

have prepared me for how I felt when my

have prepared me for how I felt when my daughter arrived on the one hand I was

daughter arrived on the one hand I was

daughter arrived on the one hand I was all-consuming in love with this amazing

all-consuming in love with this amazing

all-consuming in love with this amazing little human being it was fit so fierce

little human being it was fit so fierce

little human being it was fit so fierce and on the other hand I was absolutely

and on the other hand I was absolutely

and on the other hand I was absolutely petrified because I couldn’t control the

petrified because I couldn’t control the

petrified because I couldn’t control the outcomes I did something every day and

outcomes I did something every day and

outcomes I did something every day and she would behave differently I couldn’t

she would behave differently I couldn’t

she would behave differently I couldn’t predict how she was going to act and it

predict how she was going to act and it

predict how she was going to act and it freaked me out the other thing was that

freaked me out the other thing was that

freaked me out the other thing was that she didn’t sleep and she really didn’t

she didn’t sleep and she really didn’t

she didn’t sleep and she really didn’t sleep because for a very long year she

sleep because for a very long year she

sleep because for a very long year she was uncomfortable and it turned out that

was uncomfortable and it turned out that

was uncomfortable and it turned out that a year old that she had undiagnosed

a year old that she had undiagnosed

a year old that she had undiagnosed reflux disease and cow’s milk allergy so

reflux disease and cow’s milk allergy so

reflux disease and cow’s milk allergy so in that year I became very tired and I

in that year I became very tired and I

in that year I became very tired and I became very very anxious and I was

became very very anxious and I was

became very very anxious and I was diagnosed with post dental anxiety

diagnosed with post dental anxiety

diagnosed with post dental anxiety disorder and I went on course a

disorder and I went on course a

disorder and I went on course a cognitive

cognitive

cognitive Averell therapy and it completely saved

Averell therapy and it completely saved

Averell therapy and it completely saved my life but I had changed

my life but I had changed

my life but I had changed I had shifted fundamentally I felt like

I had shifted fundamentally I felt like

I had shifted fundamentally I felt like my DNA had shifted and I labeled myself

my DNA had shifted and I labeled myself

my DNA had shifted and I labeled myself mum of course because that was what I

mum of course because that was what I

mum of course because that was what I was now but I lost who I was I felt

was now but I lost who I was I felt

was now but I lost who I was I felt untethered and in doing that I started

untethered and in doing that I started

untethered and in doing that I started searching outside of myself I started

searching outside of myself I started

searching outside of myself I started anchoring outside of myself I started

anchoring outside of myself I started

anchoring outside of myself I started looking at what other people were doing

looking at what other people were doing

looking at what other people were doing and anchoring my emotions to that

and anchoring my emotions to that

and anchoring my emotions to that because I had no anchor of my own so

because I had no anchor of my own so

because I had no anchor of my own so time went on her sleep got better and it

time went on her sleep got better and it

time went on her sleep got better and it was time to go back to work and the

was time to go back to work and the

was time to go back to work and the imposter returned

imposter returned

imposter returned I felt like an absolute fraud I felt

I felt like an absolute fraud I felt

I felt like an absolute fraud I felt like an imposter returning to my

like an imposter returning to my

like an imposter returning to my previous role I would sit in the

previous role I would sit in the

previous role I would sit in the boardrooms with the executive directors

boardrooms with the executive directors

boardrooms with the executive directors and I don’t if you know this but when

and I don’t if you know this but when

and I don’t if you know this but when you get pregnant you get thick hair and

you get pregnant you get thick hair and

you get pregnant you get thick hair and then when you give birth your hair falls

then when you give birth your hair falls

then when you give birth your hair falls out and then it rose back again in these

out and then it rose back again in these

out and then it rose back again in these little sprouts that I have right now

little sprouts that I have right now

little sprouts that I have right now and I was sitting in the boardroom and I

and I was sitting in the boardroom and I

and I was sitting in the boardroom and I remember they hear about these sprouts

remember they hear about these sprouts

remember they hear about these sprouts sticking out on my head thinking Helen

sticking out on my head thinking Helen

sticking out on my head thinking Helen you don’t belong here you don’t you

you don’t belong here you don’t you

you don’t belong here you don’t you don’t you don’t know anything anymore

don’t you don’t know anything anymore

don’t you don’t know anything anymore you’re an absolute fraud you shouldn’t

you’re an absolute fraud you shouldn’t

you’re an absolute fraud you shouldn’t be here you’re not worthy of this

be here you’re not worthy of this

be here you’re not worthy of this position and it showed it showed in my

position and it showed it showed in my

position and it showed it showed in my behavior it showed in how I came across

behavior it showed in how I came across

behavior it showed in how I came across to others and everything came to a head

to others and everything came to a head

to others and everything came to a head and I remember having a meeting with my

and I remember having a meeting with my

and I remember having a meeting with my manager in the staff canteen and I

manager in the staff canteen and I

manager in the staff canteen and I walked out I walked out I found a

walked out I walked out I found a

walked out I walked out I found a disused phone box in the middle of

disused phone box in the middle of

disused phone box in the middle of London and crouched inside it and

London and crouched inside it and

London and crouched inside it and started crying and I remember thinking

started crying and I remember thinking

started crying and I remember thinking to myself Helen who are you where has

to myself Helen who are you where has

to myself Helen who are you where has the last 15 years worth of skills and

the last 15 years worth of skills and

the last 15 years worth of skills and experience gone I literally thought it

experience gone I literally thought it

experience gone I literally thought it had dribbled out of my ears that’s how

had dribbled out of my ears that’s how

had dribbled out of my ears that’s how it felt and so I gave myself no option

it felt and so I gave myself no option

it felt and so I gave myself no option but to leave

but to leave

but to leave I left the high-flying career the BMW

I left the high-flying career the BMW

I left the high-flying career the BMW the shares the healthcare all of that

the shares the healthcare all of that

the shares the healthcare all of that lovely stuff and I started up my first

lovely stuff and I started up my first

lovely stuff and I started up my first business and people say to me now but

business and people say to me now but

business and people say to me now but Helen that took courage but at the time

Helen that took courage but at the time

Helen that took courage but at the time it was not courage at the time I was

it was not courage at the time I was

it was not courage at the time I was running away I was running away from

running away I was running away from

running away I was running away from what I thought I wasn’t good at anymore

what I thought I wasn’t good at anymore

what I thought I wasn’t good at anymore and I started up my business and he

and I started up my business and he

and I started up my business and he actually did well and it was in child

actually did well and it was in child

actually did well and it was in child sleep consulting I wrote it right it was

sleep consulting I wrote it right it was

sleep consulting I wrote it right it was because of what I learned with my

because of what I learned with my

because of what I learned with my daughter but and it went well when it

daughter but and it went well when it

daughter but and it went well when it went well and things started to settle

went well and things started to settle

went well and things started to settle down

down

down and when things start to settle down

and when things start to settle down

and when things start to settle down would you do you try for another baby

would you do you try for another baby

would you do you try for another baby and so my beautiful son came along in

and so my beautiful son came along in

and so my beautiful son came along in July 2015 and guess what happened the

July 2015 and guess what happened the

July 2015 and guess what happened the bowling ball of parenthood strikes again

bowling ball of parenthood strikes again

bowling ball of parenthood strikes again literally knocked me off my feet again

literally knocked me off my feet again

literally knocked me off my feet again my DNA changed again I felt like I had

my DNA changed again I felt like I had

my DNA changed again I felt like I had fundamentally shifted and lost another

fundamentally shifted and lost another

fundamentally shifted and lost another part of myself again I wasn’t prepared

part of myself again I wasn’t prepared

part of myself again I wasn’t prepared for the impact that would have either

for the impact that would have either

for the impact that would have either unfortunately my son also had had health

unfortunately my son also had had health

unfortunately my son also had had health issues and the impact was so great that

issues and the impact was so great that

issues and the impact was so great that it really took a toll on our marriage

it really took a toll on our marriage

it really took a toll on our marriage like it does with lots of people and

like it does with lots of people and

like it does with lots of people and just a few weeks after my son was born

just a few weeks after my son was born

just a few weeks after my son was born my husband moved out and I remember

my husband moved out and I remember

my husband moved out and I remember standing with my newborn and my

standing with my newborn and my

standing with my newborn and my three-year-old daughter in in my house

three-year-old daughter in in my house

three-year-old daughter in in my house staring at the empty rooms and something

staring at the empty rooms and something

staring at the empty rooms and something started calling for my attention some

started calling for my attention some

started calling for my attention some feelings started to bash on that trap

feelings started to bash on that trap

feelings started to bash on that trap door and in that moment I had a choice I

door and in that moment I had a choice I

door and in that moment I had a choice I could continue to tread on that trap

could continue to tread on that trap

could continue to tread on that trap door and keep all of those feelings and

door and keep all of those feelings and

door and keep all of those feelings and emotions down or I could let them out

emotions down or I could let them out

emotions down or I could let them out and I chose to let them out and it

and I chose to let them out and it

and I chose to let them out and it wasn’t that nice that it was quite

wasn’t that nice that it was quite

wasn’t that nice that it was quite unpleasant but so started a journey and

unpleasant but so started a journey and

unpleasant but so started a journey and in fact it was a year ago today that I

in fact it was a year ago today that I

in fact it was a year ago today that I made that decision which is which is

made that decision which is which is

made that decision which is which is quite something that I’ve been on a

quite something that I’ve been on a

quite something that I’ve been on a journey in this last year and I’ve

journey in this last year and I’ve

journey in this last year and I’ve learnt some lessons and I’d love to

learnt some lessons and I’d love to

learnt some lessons and I’d love to share them with you right now and I love

share them with you right now and I love

share them with you right now and I love the Wizard of Oz it’s one of my favorite

the Wizard of Oz it’s one of my favorite

the Wizard of Oz it’s one of my favorite films and there’s some real synergies

films and there’s some real synergies

films and there’s some real synergies with my story no liens or tin men but

with my story no liens or tin men but

with my story no liens or tin men but there’s a real synergies with the

there’s a real synergies with the

there’s a real synergies with the messages from that film and so I’d like

messages from that film and so I’d like

messages from that film and so I’d like to use that as a media

to use that as a media

to use that as a media for my messages to you so the first one

for my messages to you so the first one

for my messages to you so the first one is it’s always best to start at the

is it’s always best to start at the

is it’s always best to start at the beginning and follow the yellow brick

beginning and follow the yellow brick

beginning and follow the yellow brick road

road

road so that meant I really had to go back to

so that meant I really had to go back to

so that meant I really had to go back to write to the beginning and I had to

write to the beginning and I had to

write to the beginning and I had to reconnect with me and I had to I had to

reconnect with me and I had to I had to

reconnect with me and I had to I had to refine me again how did I do that the

refine me again how did I do that the

refine me again how did I do that the first thing I did was establish my needs

first thing I did was establish my needs

first thing I did was establish my needs what did they look like because I didn’t

what did they look like because I didn’t

what did they look like because I didn’t have a clue what did they look like

have a clue what did they look like

have a clue what did they look like what did how did they benefit me and I

what did how did they benefit me and I

what did how did they benefit me and I had to request that they were met from

had to request that they were met from

had to request that they were met from my husband from my family and friends

my husband from my family and friends

my husband from my family and friends the next thing I did was I got really

the next thing I did was I got really

the next thing I did was I got really clear on my values my core values and

clear on my values my core values and

clear on my values my core values and not only that but my desired values as

not only that but my desired values as

not only that but my desired values as well and what I discovered was that I

well and what I discovered was that I

well and what I discovered was that I had a new value and it was courage

had a new value and it was courage

had a new value and it was courage something that was a dirty word to me

something that was a dirty word to me

something that was a dirty word to me before but now it was a very very

before but now it was a very very

before but now it was a very very powerful word so courage was my highest

powerful word so courage was my highest

powerful word so courage was my highest value and still is the other thing I did

value and still is the other thing I did

value and still is the other thing I did was I got really clear on my belief

was I got really clear on my belief

was I got really clear on my belief systems I shone a light on them and I

systems I shone a light on them and I

systems I shone a light on them and I saw that they weren’t serving me I’m not

saw that they weren’t serving me I’m not

saw that they weren’t serving me I’m not worthy I’m not good enough that did not

worthy I’m not good enough that did not

worthy I’m not good enough that did not serve me so I rewired those beliefs I

serve me so I rewired those beliefs I

serve me so I rewired those beliefs I trod new paths in the meadow I came up

trod new paths in the meadow I came up

trod new paths in the meadow I came up with powerful affirmations and stuck

with powerful affirmations and stuck

with powerful affirmations and stuck them all over the house and bleeps on my

them all over the house and bleeps on my

them all over the house and bleeps on my phone at five minutes throughout the day

phone at five minutes throughout the day

phone at five minutes throughout the day so that was the first thing I did I

so that was the first thing I did I

so that was the first thing I did I reconnected with me the second thing I

reconnected with me the second thing I

reconnected with me the second thing I did was I had to come home now this is

did was I had to come home now this is

did was I had to come home now this is from glenda the goodwitch

from glenda the goodwitch

from glenda the goodwitch home is knowing knowing your mind

home is knowing knowing your mind

home is knowing knowing your mind knowing your heart knowing your courage

knowing your heart knowing your courage

knowing your heart knowing your courage if we know ourselves we are home

if we know ourselves we are home

if we know ourselves we are home anywhere now it’s that last bit that was

anywhere now it’s that last bit that was

anywhere now it’s that last bit that was really crucial for me to have a

really crucial for me to have a

really crucial for me to have a realization with because I was anchoring

realization with because I was anchoring

realization with because I was anchoring happiness outside of myself I was

happiness outside of myself I was

happiness outside of myself I was looking to others for happiness and if

looking to others for happiness and if

looking to others for happiness and if they weren’t happy I wasn’t happy so

they weren’t happy I wasn’t happy so

they weren’t happy I wasn’t happy so when I realized that actually coming

when I realized that actually coming

when I realized that actually coming home to myself men finding peace with an

home to myself men finding peace with an

home to myself men finding peace with an anchor then things really started to

anchor then things really started to

anchor then things really started to change I started looking within for

change I started looking within for

change I started looking within for happiness

happiness

happiness I started looking within for validation

I started looking within for validation

I started looking within for validation I became less concerned about what other

I became less concerned about what other

I became less concerned about what other people were thinking or doing and more

people were thinking or doing and more

people were thinking or doing and more solid and happy in myself knowing and a

solid and happy in myself knowing and a

solid and happy in myself knowing and a way it was described to me was if you

way it was described to me was if you

way it was described to me was if you think of yourself as the anchor and

think of yourself as the anchor and

think of yourself as the anchor and there’s a boat on the sea and you are

there’s a boat on the sea and you are

there’s a boat on the sea and you are the anchor your true self

the anchor your true self

the anchor your true self your anchor and the boat is your

your anchor and the boat is your

your anchor and the boat is your emotions and the boat can chop and

emotions and the boat can chop and

emotions and the boat can chop and change around with the weather patterns

change around with the weather patterns

change around with the weather patterns but you remain true and solid and when I

but you remain true and solid and when I

but you remain true and solid and when I realized that I could observe my

realized that I could observe my

realized that I could observe my emotions and they could pass like

emotions and they could pass like

emotions and they could pass like patterns where the patterns and clouds

patterns where the patterns and clouds

patterns where the patterns and clouds in the sky it really changed the game

in the sky it really changed the game

in the sky it really changed the game for me and I started to dream so this

for me and I started to dream so this

for me and I started to dream so this quote from Dorothy I’m not going to sing

quote from Dorothy I’m not going to sing

quote from Dorothy I’m not going to sing it somewhere over the rainbow skies of

it somewhere over the rainbow skies of

it somewhere over the rainbow skies of blue the dreams that you dream can come

blue the dreams that you dream can come

blue the dreams that you dream can come true before this all happened

true before this all happened

true before this all happened I never even dared to dream because I

I never even dared to dream because I

I never even dared to dream because I didn’t think I was worthy of dreaming it

didn’t think I was worthy of dreaming it

didn’t think I was worthy of dreaming it felt uncomfortable to dream but once I

felt uncomfortable to dream but once I

felt uncomfortable to dream but once I was on a mission with it I actually got

was on a mission with it I actually got

was on a mission with it I actually got really excited about dreaming I started

really excited about dreaming I started

really excited about dreaming I started to think about things in Technicolor

to think about things in Technicolor

to think about things in Technicolor what would the outcomes look like what

what would the outcomes look like what

what would the outcomes look like what did I want to achieve and I made a

did I want to achieve and I made a

did I want to achieve and I made a vision board and on that vision board I

vision board and on that vision board I

vision board and on that vision board I put all the experiences down that I

put all the experiences down that I

put all the experiences down that I wanted to achieve and what’s happened

wanted to achieve and what’s happened

wanted to achieve and what’s happened well in a year I’ve ticked a few things

well in a year I’ve ticked a few things

well in a year I’ve ticked a few things off the list the first thing I’ve done

off the list the first thing I’ve done

off the list the first thing I’ve done is I’ve built a business where I am now

is I’ve built a business where I am now

is I’ve built a business where I am now helping people just like me helping mums

helping people just like me helping mums

helping people just like me helping mums and women

and women

and women reconnect with themselves and build

reconnect with themselves and build

reconnect with themselves and build businesses that are based on true

businesses that are based on true

businesses that are based on true foundations of who they are and what

foundations of who they are and what

foundations of who they are and what they are fantastic at I’m with my

they are fantastic at I’m with my

they are fantastic at I’m with my husband we’ve worked through it it

husband we’ve worked through it it

husband we’ve worked through it it hasn’t been easy but every day we’re

hasn’t been easy but every day we’re

hasn’t been easy but every day we’re working through it and we’re really

working through it and we’re really

working through it and we’re really excited for our future together with our

excited for our future together with our

excited for our future together with our children I’ve been published in places

children I’ve been published in places

children I’ve been published in places like the Huffington Post which was an

like the Huffington Post which was an

like the Huffington Post which was an absolute dream I’ve appeared on podcasts

absolute dream I’ve appeared on podcasts

absolute dream I’ve appeared on podcasts and guess what guess what else was on

and guess what guess what else was on

and guess what guess what else was on that vision board

Oh so I’ve got my slides have gone but

Oh so I’ve got my slides have gone but my mission my message to you is if you

my mission my message to you is if you

my mission my message to you is if you feel like you’ve lost a part of yourself

feel like you’ve lost a part of yourself

feel like you’ve lost a part of yourself through becoming a mum or some other

through becoming a mum or some other

through becoming a mum or some other shift in your life if you feel like

shift in your life if you feel like

shift in your life if you feel like you’ve lost your confidence like you’re

you’ve lost your confidence like you’re

you’ve lost your confidence like you’re not worthy like you don’t have any

not worthy like you don’t have any

not worthy like you don’t have any courage it is all in there you never

courage it is all in there you never

courage it is all in there you never lost it it’s in there you just need to

lost it it’s in there you just need to

lost it it’s in there you just need to unlock it you are worthy so the things

unlock it you are worthy so the things

unlock it you are worthy so the things that you need to do are start at the

that you need to do are start at the

that you need to do are start at the beginning and reconnect with yourself

beginning and reconnect with yourself

beginning and reconnect with yourself come back home to yourself and start to

come back home to yourself and start to

come back home to yourself and start to dream because if you can dream then you

dream because if you can dream then you

dream because if you can dream then you can do it and you can do it if I can do

can do it and you can do it if I can do

can do it and you can do it if I can do it you can do it and I’ll leave you with

it you can do it and I’ll leave you with

it you can do it and I’ll leave you with one last message from The Wizard of Oz

one last message from The Wizard of Oz

one last message from The Wizard of Oz you have always had the power my dear

you have always had the power my dear

you have always had the power my dear you just had to learn it for yourself

you just had to learn it for yourself

you just had to learn it for yourself thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]