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[Applause] in 2014

in 2014

in 2014 Donald sterling made national news when

Donald sterling made national news when

Donald sterling made national news when racially insensitive comments he made

racially insensitive comments he made

racially insensitive comments he made were disclosed to the media at the time

were disclosed to the media at the time

were disclosed to the media at the time Sterling was a wealthy owner of a

Sterling was a wealthy owner of a

Sterling was a wealthy owner of a professional basketball team and the

professional basketball team and the

professional basketball team and the comments were recorded in a private

comments were recorded in a private

comments were recorded in a private conversation with his friend Vee

conversation with his friend Vee

conversation with his friend Vee stiviano as a direct result of those

stiviano as a direct result of those

stiviano as a direct result of those comments being made public

comments being made public

comments being made public sterling lost his team paid a two point

sterling lost his team paid a two point

sterling lost his team paid a two point five million dollar fine and was banned

five million dollar fine and was banned

five million dollar fine and was banned from the NBA for life and his comets

from the NBA for life and his comets

from the NBA for life and his comets kicked off a national debate and

kicked off a national debate and

kicked off a national debate and discussion about race and power in

discussion about race and power in

discussion about race and power in America and whether a man’s ignorant but

America and whether a man’s ignorant but

America and whether a man’s ignorant but not illegal comments should justify the

not illegal comments should justify the

not illegal comments should justify the loss of his business what never entered

loss of his business what never entered

loss of his business what never entered the discussion was a consideration of

the discussion was a consideration of

the discussion was a consideration of Sterling’s right to privacy over his

Sterling’s right to privacy over his

Sterling’s right to privacy over his comments or stiviano ‘he’s alleged

comments or stiviano ‘he’s alleged

comments or stiviano ‘he’s alleged intrusion into his privacy when she

intrusion into his privacy when she

intrusion into his privacy when she recorded them without his notice or his

recorded them without his notice or his

recorded them without his notice or his consent recording someone’s

consent recording someone’s

consent recording someone’s conversations offensive on its face and

conversations offensive on its face and

conversations offensive on its face and actually illegal in many states but this

actually illegal in many states but this

actually illegal in many states but this never made the national news or a

never made the national news or a

never made the national news or a trending topic in social media with this

trending topic in social media with this

trending topic in social media with this story we see the fickle love/hate

story we see the fickle love/hate

story we see the fickle love/hate relationship we as Americans have with

relationship we as Americans have with

relationship we as Americans have with privacy we say it’s important we say we

privacy we say it’s important we say we

privacy we say it’s important we say we want to protect it but our appreciation

want to protect it but our appreciation

want to protect it but our appreciation for it is selective as if to suggest

for it is selective as if to suggest

for it is selective as if to suggest some things or some people don’t deserve

some things or some people don’t deserve

some things or some people don’t deserve privacy indeed many people justified

privacy indeed many people justified

privacy indeed many people justified Steve Janos disclosure as writing or

Steve Janos disclosure as writing or

Steve Janos disclosure as writing or wrong or being newsworthy but who makes

wrong or being newsworthy but who makes

wrong or being newsworthy but who makes such a subjective determination and what

such a subjective determination and what

such a subjective determination and what if it were you what if the conversation

if it were you what if the conversation

if it were you what if the conversation recorded was the spouse disclosing an

recorded was the spouse disclosing an

recorded was the spouse disclosing an affair or life-ending medical condition

affair or life-ending medical condition

affair or life-ending medical condition or your daughter crying over the posting

or your daughter crying over the posting

or your daughter crying over the posting pictures of her by an angry ex-boyfriend

pictures of her by an angry ex-boyfriend

pictures of her by an angry ex-boyfriend what if we were you

what if we were you

what if we were you concerns over privacy are nothing new in

concerns over privacy are nothing new in

concerns over privacy are nothing new in 1890 Samuel Warren and Louis Brandeis

1890 Samuel Warren and Louis Brandeis

1890 Samuel Warren and Louis Brandeis penned a famous Law Review article in

penned a famous Law Review article in

penned a famous Law Review article in which they lamented the encroachment of

which they lamented the encroachment of

which they lamented the encroachment of technology into their private lives in

technology into their private lives in

technology into their private lives in it they argued for a new legal right a

it they argued for a new legal right a

it they argued for a new legal right a right to privacy and they distinguished

right to privacy and they distinguished

right to privacy and they distinguished this right from a right of privacy and

this right from a right of privacy and

this right from a right of privacy and property

property

property recognizing the in violent personality

recognizing the in violent personality

recognizing the in violent personality the idea that who we are as citizens

the idea that who we are as citizens

the idea that who we are as citizens individuals humans is intrinsically tied

individuals humans is intrinsically tied

individuals humans is intrinsically tied to our need for privacy privacy enables

to our need for privacy privacy enables

to our need for privacy privacy enables us to be human without it we cease to be

us to be human without it we cease to be

us to be human without it we cease to be so why well privacy allows us to be

so why well privacy allows us to be

so why well privacy allows us to be vulnerable vulnerable with ourselves as

vulnerable vulnerable with ourselves as

vulnerable vulnerable with ourselves as we discover who we are what we believe

we discover who we are what we believe

we discover who we are what we believe and who we want to be but also

and who we want to be but also

and who we want to be but also vulnerable with others is that we seek

vulnerable with others is that we seek

vulnerable with others is that we seek to make that connection with another

to make that connection with another

to make that connection with another person and in doing so share those ideas

person and in doing so share those ideas

person and in doing so share those ideas without fear of judgment

without fear of judgment

without fear of judgment indeed privacy is that refuge from the

indeed privacy is that refuge from the

indeed privacy is that refuge from the glaring eyes of those who could not care

glaring eyes of those who could not care

glaring eyes of those who could not care less about your growth

less about your growth

less about your growth as part of the human family and when

as part of the human family and when

as part of the human family and when privacy is gone we recoil we withdraw we

privacy is gone we recoil we withdraw we

privacy is gone we recoil we withdraw we cease to be who we truly are at the same

cease to be who we truly are at the same

cease to be who we truly are at the same time privacy is a value as different as

time privacy is a value as different as

time privacy is a value as different as each of us and say our tastes in music

each of us and say our tastes in music

each of us and say our tastes in music sports or clothes and like that it

sports or clothes and like that it

sports or clothes and like that it changes over time and with experience if

changes over time and with experience if

changes over time and with experience if you’ve been the victim of revenge porn

you’ve been the victim of revenge porn

you’ve been the victim of revenge porn or identity theft or just gossip in your

or identity theft or just gossip in your

or identity theft or just gossip in your neighborhood you have a different

neighborhood you have a different

neighborhood you have a different appreciation for privacy possibly than

appreciation for privacy possibly than

appreciation for privacy possibly than somebody who has not it’s as layered and

somebody who has not it’s as layered and

somebody who has not it’s as layered and it’s complex as each of us now at its

it’s complex as each of us now at its

it’s complex as each of us now at its most basic definition privacy is the

most basic definition privacy is the

most basic definition privacy is the right to choose when to whom and to what

right to choose when to whom and to what

right to choose when to whom and to what extent we disclose information about

extent we disclose information about

extent we disclose information about ourselves more simplistically it’s a

ourselves more simplistically it’s a

ourselves more simplistically it’s a two-party transaction between a giver

two-party transaction between a giver

two-party transaction between a giver and a taker privacy exists and is valued

and a taker privacy exists and is valued

and a taker privacy exists and is valued when a giver retains the control over

when a giver retains the control over

when a giver retains the control over what she shares with the taker and what

what she shares with the taker and what

what she shares with the taker and what she holds private

she holds private

she holds private conversely privacy’s lost and violated

conversely privacy’s lost and violated

conversely privacy’s lost and violated when she loses that control and

when she loses that control and

when she loses that control and information shared without her consent

now privacy I believe is more important

now privacy I believe is more important than ever for lots of reasons

than ever for lots of reasons

than ever for lots of reasons here’s but one

now you can’t call it a mullet that term

now you can’t call it a mullet that term did not come into existence until 1994

did not come into existence until 1994

did not come into existence until 1994 and this picture was taken in 9th well

and this picture was taken in 9th well

and this picture was taken in 9th well before that and to be sure this wasn’t a

before that and to be sure this wasn’t a

before that and to be sure this wasn’t a private moment oh no I walked around in

private moment oh no I walked around in

private moment oh no I walked around in public like that for years but at least

public like that for years but at least

public like that for years but at least I knew the evidence was limited to

I knew the evidence was limited to

I knew the evidence was limited to scrapbooks and yearbooks in the Orlando

scrapbooks and yearbooks in the Orlando

scrapbooks and yearbooks in the Orlando Florida vicinity the distribution was

Florida vicinity the distribution was

Florida vicinity the distribution was limited I stand before you today a grown

limited I stand before you today a grown

limited I stand before you today a grown man much more emotionally capable of

man much more emotionally capable of

man much more emotionally capable of handling the disclosure of such evidence

handling the disclosure of such evidence

handling the disclosure of such evidence of a poor life choice more so than I

of a poor life choice more so than I

of a poor life choice more so than I ever was when I was 18 more importantly

ever was when I was 18 more importantly

ever was when I was 18 more importantly I’m choosing this place this time this

I’m choosing this place this time this

I’m choosing this place this time this purpose to share this picture to do some

purpose to share this picture to do some

purpose to share this picture to do some good if anything to increase your mullet

good if anything to increase your mullet

good if anything to increase your mullet awareness the youth today don’t have

awareness the youth today don’t have

awareness the youth today don’t have that luxury they’ve never known a world

that luxury they’ve never known a world

that luxury they’ve never known a world without the internet every zit every

without the internet every zit every

without the internet every zit every breakup every missed free throw every

breakup every missed free throw every

breakup every missed free throw every drop pass recorded and retained

drop pass recorded and retained

drop pass recorded and retained indefinitely potentially identifying

indefinitely potentially identifying

indefinitely potentially identifying them for their entire lives hopefully a

them for their entire lives hopefully a

them for their entire lives hopefully a disclosure ends up just like that a

disclosure ends up just like that a

disclosure ends up just like that a funny story in college but they can very

funny story in college but they can very

funny story in college but they can very rarely leave this behind and go off and

rarely leave this behind and go off and

rarely leave this behind and go off and reinvent themselves in college and

reinvent themselves in college and

reinvent themselves in college and oftentimes the harm is something worse

oftentimes the harm is something worse

oftentimes the harm is something worse depression anxiety substance abuse

depression anxiety substance abuse

depression anxiety substance abuse physical harm yes even suicide death

physical harm yes even suicide death

physical harm yes even suicide death over the reality or just a possibility

over the reality or just a possibility

over the reality or just a possibility that privacy is more important today for

that privacy is more important today for

that privacy is more important today for the ease with which we can give away our

the ease with which we can give away our

the ease with which we can give away our data and the ease with which we can take

data and the ease with which we can take

data and the ease with which we can take it intentionally or not but it’s way too

it intentionally or not but it’s way too

it intentionally or not but it’s way too easy to blame the Internet no no no the

easy to blame the Internet no no no the

easy to blame the Internet no no no the tool internet is but a tool that

tool internet is but a tool that

tool internet is but a tool that facilitates the choices of the user we

facilitates the choices of the user we

facilitates the choices of the user we are nosy by Nature we have become

are nosy by Nature we have become

are nosy by Nature we have become voyeurs insensitive or maybe just on

voyeurs insensitive or maybe just on

voyeurs insensitive or maybe just on where to the impacts on someone’s

where to the impacts on someone’s

where to the impacts on someone’s privacy so for the problem we can be the

privacy so for the problem we can be the

privacy so for the problem we can be the solution we us right to party

solution we us right to party

solution we us right to party transaction givers takers so what can we

transaction givers takers so what can we

transaction givers takers so what can we do be better givers what’s your value

do be better givers what’s your value

do be better givers what’s your value for privacy have you thought about it

for privacy have you thought about it

for privacy have you thought about it are your behaves your behavior and your

are your behaves your behavior and your

are your behaves your behavior and your thoughts in line with that value do

thoughts in line with that value do

thoughts in line with that value do other people know your value for privacy

other people know your value for privacy

other people know your value for privacy just because someone asks for your

just because someone asks for your

just because someone asks for your information whether it’s a business or

information whether it’s a business or

information whether it’s a business or person doesn’t mean you have to give it

person doesn’t mean you have to give it

person doesn’t mean you have to give it do you read privacy policies terms and

do you read privacy policies terms and

do you read privacy policies terms and conditions every time you download an

conditions every time you download an

conditions every time you download an app do you do you and think differently

app do you do you and think differently

app do you do you and think differently about the way you share data not just

about the way you share data not just

about the way you share data not just directly but indirectly through photos

directly but indirectly through photos

directly but indirectly through photos social media posts even the ways the

social media posts even the ways the

social media posts even the ways the numberous ways of which information

numberous ways of which information

numberous ways of which information comes off your device unless you tell it

comes off your device unless you tell it

comes off your device unless you tell it not to and teach our children that

not to and teach our children that

not to and teach our children that privacy and discretion are lifelong

privacy and discretion are lifelong

privacy and discretion are lifelong values for the world is pulling

values for the world is pulling

values for the world is pulling information from them at a time when

information from them at a time when

information from them at a time when they are least prepared to deal with the

they are least prepared to deal with the

they are least prepared to deal with the consequences teach them that a friend

consequences teach them that a friend

consequences teach them that a friend today is not necessarily a friend

today is not necessarily a friend

today is not necessarily a friend tomorrow surely if we can empower them

tomorrow surely if we can empower them

tomorrow surely if we can empower them to make better choices in food colleges

to make better choices in food colleges

to make better choices in food colleges clothes we can teach them a value for

clothes we can teach them a value for

clothes we can teach them a value for discretion what information to share and

discretion what information to share and

discretion what information to share and why we can also be better takers treat

why we can also be better takers treat

why we can also be better takers treat others information the way you would

others information the way you would

others information the way you would treat your own if you hear a

treat your own if you hear a

treat your own if you hear a conversation you shouldn’t walk away but

conversation you shouldn’t walk away but

conversation you shouldn’t walk away but if you can’t avoid it don’t repeat it

if you can’t avoid it don’t repeat it

if you can’t avoid it don’t repeat it don’t embellish upon it likewise if you

don’t embellish upon it likewise if you

don’t embellish upon it likewise if you get an email with the latest celebrity

get an email with the latest celebrity

get an email with the latest celebrity hack or gossip about someone in your

hack or gossip about someone in your

hack or gossip about someone in your neighborhood don’t read it delete it

neighborhood don’t read it delete it

neighborhood don’t read it delete it better yet push back we can all be

better yet push back we can all be

better yet push back we can all be better users of information iron

better users of information iron

better users of information iron sharpens iron and there but for grace we

sharpens iron and there but for grace we

sharpens iron and there but for grace we could all be the subject of that email

could all be the subject of that email

could all be the subject of that email or text now I know what you’re thinking

Scottie that’s a cute little idea yes it

Scottie that’s a cute little idea yes it is warm and fuzzy bunnies the dream it’s

is warm and fuzzy bunnies the dream it’s

is warm and fuzzy bunnies the dream it’s not reality on the modern world I hear

not reality on the modern world I hear

not reality on the modern world I hear that a lot and I get it

that a lot and I get it

that a lot and I get it so I offer up one man’s story Steve

so I offer up one man’s story Steve

so I offer up one man’s story Steve Bartman Steve Bartman was a lifelong fan

Bartman Steve Bartman was a lifelong fan

Bartman Steve Bartman was a lifelong fan of the Chicago Cubs and in 2003 he made

of the Chicago Cubs and in 2003 he made

of the Chicago Cubs and in 2003 he made national news when he did something

national news when he did something

national news when he did something every single one of us would have done

every single one of us would have done

every single one of us would have done in the same situation

in the same situation

in the same situation he reached for a souvenir foul ball at a

he reached for a souvenir foul ball at a

he reached for a souvenir foul ball at a game this is an ordinary game this was

game this is an ordinary game this was

game this is an ordinary game this was game 6 of the National League

game 6 of the National League

game 6 of the National League Championship Series the winner of the

Championship Series the winner of the

Championship Series the winner of the series goes on to the World Series

series goes on to the World Series

series goes on to the World Series something the Cubs had never done since

something the Cubs had never done since

something the Cubs had never done since 1945 so there was Steve reaching for the

1945 so there was Steve reaching for the

1945 so there was Steve reaching for the ball with no less than five other people

ball with no less than five other people

ball with no less than five other people but Steve’s hand hit the ball knocking

but Steve’s hand hit the ball knocking

but Steve’s hand hit the ball knocking it to the ground foul aware away from

it to the ground foul aware away from

it to the ground foul aware away from the oncoming glove of the Cubs

the oncoming glove of the Cubs

the oncoming glove of the Cubs outfielder and what ensued was

outfielder and what ensued was

outfielder and what ensued was tailor-made for the Cubs curse written

tailor-made for the Cubs curse written

tailor-made for the Cubs curse written history they blew game 6 boss game 7

history they blew game 6 boss game 7

history they blew game 6 boss game 7 never made it to the World Series and

never made it to the World Series and

never made it to the World Series and despite all the errors of the coaches

despite all the errors of the coaches

despite all the errors of the coaches and team the blame of the city fell on

and team the blame of the city fell on

and team the blame of the city fell on one man’s shoulders he was escorted from

one man’s shoulders he was escorted from

one man’s shoulders he was escorted from the stadium that night for his physical

the stadium that night for his physical

the stadium that night for his physical safety and despite a heartfelt apology

safety and despite a heartfelt apology

safety and despite a heartfelt apology in the paper the next day didn’t matter

in the paper the next day didn’t matter

in the paper the next day didn’t matter City had their scapegoat he was a pariah

Steve could leave the house if he could

Steve could leave the house if he could or tried or turn on the TV or radio he

or tried or turn on the TV or radio he

or tried or turn on the TV or radio he was reminded immediately of his very

was reminded immediately of his very

was reminded immediately of his very human mistake or maybe just the mistake

human mistake or maybe just the mistake

human mistake or maybe just the mistake of being human so what did he do surely

of being human so what did he do surely

of being human so what did he do surely Steve hua left the city witness

Steve hua left the city witness

Steve hua left the city witness relocation right you can’t stay in

relocation right you can’t stay in

relocation right you can’t stay in Chicago after that man change your name

Chicago after that man change your name

Chicago after that man change your name get out No Steve still lives in the city

get out No Steve still lives in the city

get out No Steve still lives in the city still uses the name Steve Bartman I

still uses the name Steve Bartman I

still uses the name Steve Bartman I think he still works for the same

think he still works for the same

think he still works for the same company but he’s become a virtual ghost

company but he’s become a virtual ghost

company but he’s become a virtual ghost and the third largest city in our

and the third largest city in our

and the third largest city in our tree how does that happen in the modern

tree how does that happen in the modern

tree how does that happen in the modern world well I think Steve made choices he

world well I think Steve made choices he

world well I think Steve made choices he chose not to tell the story again he

chose not to tell the story again he

chose not to tell the story again he chose not to profit from the story but

chose not to profit from the story but

chose not to profit from the story but more importantly you reached out to a

more importantly you reached out to a

more importantly you reached out to a friend an attorney and asked that friend

friend an attorney and asked that friend

friend an attorney and asked that friend for his privacy back I want to be normal

for his privacy back I want to be normal

for his privacy back I want to be normal again

again

again so that friend other friends family even

so that friend other friends family even

so that friend other friends family even his employer went to work building a

his employer went to work building a

his employer went to work building a wall around Steve a wall and respect for

wall around Steve a wall and respect for

wall around Steve a wall and respect for his privacy and by all accounts they’ve

his privacy and by all accounts they’ve

his privacy and by all accounts they’ve stood that wall because very little has

stood that wall because very little has

stood that wall because very little has been told about Steve

been told about Steve

been told about Steve I’d say the media and the city have even

I’d say the media and the city have even

I’d say the media and the city have even gotten in on it perhaps because they

gotten in on it perhaps because they

gotten in on it perhaps because they regret the way they treated him or

regret the way they treated him or

regret the way they treated him or perhaps because they’ve learned what all

perhaps because they’ve learned what all

perhaps because they’ve learned what all of us have I think through his story

of us have I think through his story

of us have I think through his story we’re all but one step away from losing

we’re all but one step away from losing

we’re all but one step away from losing so much more privacy is possible today

so much more privacy is possible today

so much more privacy is possible today it’s essential it may not look like it

it’s essential it may not look like it

it’s essential it may not look like it used to and it may not be a foul ball

used to and it may not be a foul ball

used to and it may not be a foul ball maybe it’s an email that shouldn’t have

maybe it’s an email that shouldn’t have

maybe it’s an email that shouldn’t have been sent or a conversation heard that

been sent or a conversation heard that

been sent or a conversation heard that shouldn’t have been but we all want the

shouldn’t have been but we all want the

shouldn’t have been but we all want the ability to recover from a mistake and

ability to recover from a mistake and

ability to recover from a mistake and not be defined it by it for what for

not be defined it by it for what for

not be defined it by it for what for life it’s possible with all of us it’s

life it’s possible with all of us it’s

life it’s possible with all of us it’s just a matter of give-and-take thank you

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