[Music] good evening I’m going to tell you the
good evening I’m going to tell you the
good evening I’m going to tell you the story actually have two lives of two
story actually have two lives of two
story actually have two lives of two girls on island a small society or any
girls on island a small society or any
girls on island a small society or any society for that matter and they’re
society for that matter and they’re
society for that matter and they’re going to be two girls born in the same
going to be two girls born in the same
going to be two girls born in the same year one is Nelson and the other one is
year one is Nelson and the other one is
year one is Nelson and the other one is leta so Elsa is this girl that lives in
leta so Elsa is this girl that lives in
leta so Elsa is this girl that lives in a more stable environment she was born
a more stable environment she was born
a more stable environment she was born in the stable environment she has his
in the stable environment she has his
in the stable environment she has his love and family caring family community
love and family caring family community
love and family caring family community and he carry very high norms and values
and he carry very high norms and values
and he carry very high norms and values lisa is less fortunate she’s born in a
lisa is less fortunate she’s born in a
lisa is less fortunate she’s born in a environment where there is a lot of
environment where there is a lot of
environment where there is a lot of bickering a lot of fighting or maybe
bickering a lot of fighting or maybe
bickering a lot of fighting or maybe that killing silence in the house which
that killing silence in the house which
that killing silence in the house which might be even worse so they all live all
might be even worse so they all live all
might be even worse so they all live all family members live parallel from each
family members live parallel from each
family members live parallel from each other and not really in unity and they
other and not really in unity and they
other and not really in unity and they don’t carry very high norms and values
don’t carry very high norms and values
don’t carry very high norms and values norms and values then get it from the
norms and values then get it from the
norms and values then get it from the streets now I want to take you 15 years
streets now I want to take you 15 years
streets now I want to take you 15 years later they’re both teenagers so that’s
later they’re both teenagers so that’s
later they’re both teenagers so that’s trouble already Elsa is going to school
trouble already Elsa is going to school
trouble already Elsa is going to school wants to be Beyonce or a doctor or
wants to be Beyonce or a doctor or
wants to be Beyonce or a doctor or whatever and she’s just trouble for our
whatever and she’s just trouble for our
whatever and she’s just trouble for our parents you know sometimes just annoying
parents you know sometimes just annoying
parents you know sometimes just annoying 15 year olds Lisa just found out she’s
15 year olds Lisa just found out she’s
15 year olds Lisa just found out she’s pregnant she might be pregnant from a
pregnant she might be pregnant from a
pregnant she might be pregnant from a guy that thought she was going to get
guy that thought she was going to get
guy that thought she was going to get love from outside her turbulent home or
love from outside her turbulent home or
love from outside her turbulent home or maybe her stepfather that turned her
maybe her stepfather that turned her
maybe her stepfather that turned her pregnant
pregnant
pregnant she doesn’t have the social safety net
she doesn’t have the social safety net
she doesn’t have the social safety net he doesn’t have the financial safety net
he doesn’t have the financial safety net
he doesn’t have the financial safety net well more importantly she doesn’t have
well more importantly she doesn’t have
well more importantly she doesn’t have the emotional safety net so she drops
the emotional safety net so she drops
the emotional safety net so she drops out of school taking you 15 years later
out of school taking you 15 years later
out of school taking you 15 years later now they are both ready I also have
now they are both ready I also have
now they are both ready I also have finished some kind of education has a
finished some kind of education has a
finished some kind of education has a stable job 021 kids not a lot to tell
stable job 021 kids not a lot to tell
stable job 021 kids not a lot to tell about that Lisa that has five kids now
about that Lisa that has five kids now
about that Lisa that has five kids now she has five kids because every guy that
she has five kids because every guy that
she has five kids because every guy that came along and promised to get her out
came along and promised to get her out
came along and promised to get her out of her situation she believed it and the
of her situation she believed it and the
of her situation she believed it and the only thing that he left behind is
only thing that he left behind is
only thing that he left behind is anarchy and she’d never put attention to
anarchy and she’d never put attention to
anarchy and she’d never put attention to education she never had a stable job and
education she never had a stable job and
education she never had a stable job and on top of that her daughter her first
on top of that her daughter her first
on top of that her daughter her first one just came up to her and told her you
one just came up to her and told her you
one just came up to her and told her you know something this history repeats
know something this history repeats
know something this history repeats because I’m pregnant as well at 15 year
because I’m pregnant as well at 15 year
because I’m pregnant as well at 15 year old so she’s become a grandmother at 30
old so she’s become a grandmother at 30
old so she’s become a grandmother at 30 I take it 15 years later they’re both 45
I take it 15 years later they’re both 45
I take it 15 years later they’re both 45 Elsa now has 12 kids she might be
Elsa now has 12 kids she might be
Elsa now has 12 kids she might be married or not married she might be rich
married or not married she might be rich
married or not married she might be rich or poor but was really important is that
or poor but was really important is that
or poor but was really important is that she is loving and caring and she creates
she is loving and caring and she creates
she is loving and caring and she creates unity in her home and instills the same
unity in her home and instills the same
unity in her home and instills the same norms and values because she was taught
norms and values because she was taught
norms and values because she was taught by by her parents that’s her focus Lisa
by by her parents that’s her focus Lisa
by by her parents that’s her focus Lisa the story just repeats it so now they
the story just repeats it so now they
the story just repeats it so now they have 25 more descendants and plus 25 he
have 25 more descendants and plus 25 he
have 25 more descendants and plus 25 he new attorney and then you can go on like
new attorney and then you can go on like
new attorney and then you can go on like this so at 75 the ratio looks cute
this so at 75 the ratio looks cute
this so at 75 the ratio looks cute skewed like this so why am I telling you
skewed like this so why am I telling you
skewed like this so why am I telling you this story where does this come from and
this story where does this come from and
this story where does this come from and you know why is it important at 17 years
you know why is it important at 17 years
you know why is it important at 17 years old I thought about this storyline and
old I thought about this storyline and
old I thought about this storyline and for me it was an extreme storyline to
for me it was an extreme storyline to
for me it was an extreme storyline to just make a point and the point was for
just make a point and the point was for
just make a point and the point was for everybody that is
everybody that is
everybody that is selfish that they can be can be engaged
selfish that they can be can be engaged
selfish that they can be can be engaged in to the less fortunate in our society
in to the less fortunate in our society
in to the less fortunate in our society and especially in the education of the
and especially in the education of the
and especially in the education of the less fortunate in our society now that
less fortunate in our society now that
less fortunate in our society now that was my original idea so this was for me
was my original idea so this was for me
was my original idea so this was for me an extreme example now to other years
an extreme example now to other years
an extreme example now to other years I’ve seen our society hardened I see
I’ve seen our society hardened I see
I’ve seen our society hardened I see crime rate increase and I’ve seen norms
crime rate increase and I’ve seen norms
crime rate increase and I’ve seen norms and values decrease so I decided you
and values decrease so I decided you
and values decrease so I decided you know I had this in mind so let me go and
know I had this in mind so let me go and
know I had this in mind so let me go and investigate it a little bit more and so
investigate it a little bit more and so
investigate it a little bit more and so I went and when I found is that thing a
I went and when I found is that thing a
I went and when I found is that thing a little bit worse than I thought because
little bit worse than I thought because
little bit worse than I thought because the extreme storyline that I thought
the extreme storyline that I thought
the extreme storyline that I thought about wasn’t that extreme at all it was
about wasn’t that extreme at all it was
about wasn’t that extreme at all it was happening and worse than that norms and
happening and worse than that norms and
happening and worse than that norms and values of that group was deteriorating
values of that group was deteriorating
values of that group was deteriorating in Honolulu and to understand a little
in Honolulu and to understand a little
in Honolulu and to understand a little bit better you know I invite you I did
bit better you know I invite you I did
bit better you know I invite you I did that for myself and I got scared for it
that for myself and I got scared for it
that for myself and I got scared for it fast but I invite you all to go to the
fast but I invite you all to go to the
fast but I invite you all to go to the fifteen-year-old you and imagine you
fifteen-year-old you and imagine you
fifteen-year-old you and imagine you have to now take care of a kid you do
have to now take care of a kid you do
have to now take care of a kid you do not have your parents but you have to
not have your parents but you have to
not have your parents but you have to take care of a kid you’re gonna have a
take care of a kid you’re gonna have a
take care of a kid you’re gonna have a job you have to actually keep a job and
job you have to actually keep a job and
job you have to actually keep a job and for the heroes among you can think you
for the heroes among you can think you
for the heroes among you can think you know I can do that now think about
know I can do that now think about
know I can do that now think about having a second child and it’s your
having a second child and it’s your
having a second child and it’s your child with a mindset and knowledge and
child with a mindset and knowledge and
child with a mindset and knowledge and skills you had a 15 year old now I don’t
skills you had a 15 year old now I don’t
skills you had a 15 year old now I don’t know about you but for me that was
know about you but for me that was
know about you but for me that was scarier I don’t think that I can do it
so the most important thing is that to
so the most important thing is that to realize that first generation teenage
realize that first generation teenage
realize that first generation teenage pregnancy is not at that but second and
pregnancy is not at that but second and
pregnancy is not at that but second and third-generation pregnancy that’s when
third-generation pregnancy that’s when
third-generation pregnancy that’s when you’re doomed to live in poverty chances
you’re doomed to live in poverty chances
you’re doomed to live in poverty chances are big and then crime becomes more
are big and then crime becomes more
are big and then crime becomes more attractive
attractive
attractive self prostitution becomes like the only
self prostitution becomes like the only
self prostitution becomes like the only logical solution there is and it starts
logical solution there is and it starts
logical solution there is and it starts for the needed goods and goes to slug
for the needed goods and goes to slug
for the needed goods and goes to slug furry goods and then how about
furry goods and then how about
furry goods and then how about prostitution the next generation and we
prostitution the next generation and we
prostitution the next generation and we heard about those stories so
heard about those stories so
heard about those stories so deterioration of norms and values now
deterioration of norms and values now
deterioration of norms and values now the important thing is what does that do
the important thing is what does that do
the important thing is what does that do to your society what’s the impact now if
to your society what’s the impact now if
to your society what’s the impact now if you’ve already seen this cute ratios
you’ve already seen this cute ratios
you’ve already seen this cute ratios right now let me take you into what
right now let me take you into what
right now let me take you into what impact does this have on your education
impact does this have on your education
impact does this have on your education system now this is besides the dropouts
system now this is besides the dropouts
system now this is besides the dropouts and all the guys out of school it’s also
and all the guys out of school it’s also
and all the guys out of school it’s also about the teachers don’t we hear about
about the teachers don’t we hear about
about the teachers don’t we hear about teachers teachers saying you know norms
teachers teachers saying you know norms
teachers teachers saying you know norms and values in the schools are a lot
and values in the schools are a lot
and values in the schools are a lot lower and how about the workforce I
lower and how about the workforce I
lower and how about the workforce I don’t know if any of you do a chart but
don’t know if any of you do a chart but
don’t know if any of you do a chart but don’t you have sometimes those people
don’t you have sometimes those people
don’t you have sometimes those people coming in for a job interview and you’re
coming in for a job interview and you’re
coming in for a job interview and you’re like really do you really think this is
like really do you really think this is
like really do you really think this is appropriate to wear it is to a job
appropriate to wear it is to a job
appropriate to wear it is to a job interview and how about your burden on
interview and how about your burden on
interview and how about your burden on the health care system and the burden on
the health care system and the burden on
the health care system and the burden on your judicial system and social net
your judicial system and social net
your judicial system and social net system and we talked about education and
system and we talked about education and
system and we talked about education and we talked about the workforce so don’t
we talked about the workforce so don’t
we talked about the workforce so don’t think about the quality of your taxpayer
think about the quality of your taxpayer
think about the quality of your taxpayer and now imagine your Minister your
and now imagine your Minister your
and now imagine your Minister your finest of this country and try to
finest of this country and try to
finest of this country and try to balance that budget and even if you
balance that budget and even if you
balance that budget and even if you manage to balance that budget how
manage to balance that budget how
manage to balance that budget how sustainable is your balance balance
sustainable is your balance balance
sustainable is your balance balance budget as a matter of fact how
budget as a matter of fact how
budget as a matter of fact how sustainable is your country at all I
don’t know what you guys but it’s quite
don’t know what you guys but it’s quite scary
scary
scary so what do you do next right I mean
so what do you do next right I mean
so what do you do next right I mean Thank You Joanne for this story you just
Thank You Joanne for this story you just
Thank You Joanne for this story you just it was just a happy story now it isn’t
it was just a happy story now it isn’t
it was just a happy story now it isn’t know most of people would go to the
know most of people would go to the
know most of people would go to the education the education of the drop out
education the education of the drop out
education the education of the drop out there are great programs out there and
there are great programs out there and
there are great programs out there and I’ve been through them and they’re just
I’ve been through them and they’re just
I’ve been through them and they’re just great that’s where I was inclined to go
great that’s where I was inclined to go
great that’s where I was inclined to go myself in the beginning but what are you
myself in the beginning but what are you
myself in the beginning but what are you doing the ground effect every 15 years
doing the ground effect every 15 years
doing the ground effect every 15 years exponentially growing every scope did
exponentially growing every scope did
exponentially growing every scope did you think about the problem to solve is
you think about the problem to solve is
you think about the problem to solve is too small every time you take that
too small every time you take that
too small every time you take that you’re going to solve the problem it’s
you’re going to solve the problem it’s
you’re going to solve the problem it’s too short far too long so what do you do
too short far too long so what do you do
too short far too long so what do you do you have to deal with an exponential
you have to deal with an exponential
you have to deal with an exponential growth and how do you do it you know the
growth and how do you do it you know the
growth and how do you do it you know the good news about this thing is that there
good news about this thing is that there
good news about this thing is that there is a solution or it is releasably at
is a solution or it is releasably at
is a solution or it is releasably at least a solution that mitigates the
least a solution that mitigates the
least a solution that mitigates the issue and it’s called the paternity law
issue and it’s called the paternity law
issue and it’s called the paternity law the paternity law works like this its
the paternity law works like this its
the paternity law works like this its first simple child is born people go to
first simple child is born people go to
first simple child is born people go to the mother and ask who’s the father of
the mother and ask who’s the father of
the mother and ask who’s the father of this child the model given me Ellen and
this child the model given me Ellen and
this child the model given me Ellen and we go to Alan and we tell Ellen you know
we go to Alan and we tell Ellen you know
we go to Alan and we tell Ellen you know um congratulations you’re the father of
um congratulations you’re the father of
um congratulations you’re the father of a child MLM might freak out as I know
a child MLM might freak out as I know
a child MLM might freak out as I know that’s not my kid so we do with DNA
that’s not my kid so we do with DNA
that’s not my kid so we do with DNA tests and out of the innate past comes
tests and out of the innate past comes
tests and out of the innate past comes that he’s not father we go back to the
that he’s not father we go back to the
that he’s not father we go back to the matter and it is otherwise it is
matter and it is otherwise it is
matter and it is otherwise it is positive and he’ll have to take care of
positive and he’ll have to take care of
positive and he’ll have to take care of financially with the kids till he’s 18
financially with the kids till he’s 18
financially with the kids till he’s 18 years old anyway or and pay for the DNA
years old anyway or and pay for the DNA
years old anyway or and pay for the DNA test when we try to achieve with this we
test when we try to achieve with this we
test when we try to achieve with this we do not try to achieve one feministic
do not try to achieve one feministic
do not try to achieve one feministic movement to punish man the thing is
movement to punish man the thing is
movement to punish man the thing is about try to make people conscious then
about try to make people conscious then
about try to make people conscious then the next time they have intercourse
the next time they have intercourse
the next time they have intercourse after the first and second times if we
after the first and second times if we
after the first and second times if we put responsible for a kid at least maybe
put responsible for a kid at least maybe
put responsible for a kid at least maybe they will be more responsible with our
they will be more responsible with our
they will be more responsible with our inter-cosmic used a condom that’s just
inter-cosmic used a condom that’s just
inter-cosmic used a condom that’s just the only thing that we want to do
the only thing that we want to do
the only thing that we want to do because we’ve seen situations where an
because we’ve seen situations where an
because we’ve seen situations where an actually two years old has 21 kids maybe
actually two years old has 21 kids maybe
actually two years old has 21 kids maybe we can mitigate that or this is that
we can mitigate that or this is that
we can mitigate that or this is that father
father
father are raping his 12 13 year old kids so
are raping his 12 13 year old kids so
are raping his 12 13 year old kids so that’s what we want to tackle so
that’s what we want to tackle so
that’s what we want to tackle so conclusion we already seen this is
conclusion we already seen this is
conclusion we already seen this is devastating this growth effect is
devastating this growth effect is
devastating this growth effect is devastating for our society and doesn’t
devastating for our society and doesn’t
devastating for our society and doesn’t make any kind of sustainable so the
make any kind of sustainable so the
make any kind of sustainable so the paternity law is just a way to mitigate
paternity law is just a way to mitigate
paternity law is just a way to mitigate this a little bit and we know need to
this a little bit and we know need to
this a little bit and we know need to support it because only when it’s
support it because only when it’s
support it because only when it’s litigated you can start at least start
litigated you can start at least start
litigated you can start at least start then with a healing process in your
then with a healing process in your
then with a healing process in your society thank you
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