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The greatness of weakness | Rita Yahan-Farouz | TEDxTelAviv


Bani Adam as Zoe yaki Aaron Kaz of

Bani Adam as Zoe yaki Aaron Kaz of fairness

fairness

fairness Ziya cuckoo Aaron chose V Bedard over a

Ziya cuckoo Aaron chose V Bedard over a

Ziya cuckoo Aaron chose V Bedard over a drusy girl the garros ha naman an Aurora

drusy girl the garros ha naman an Aurora

drusy girl the garros ha naman an Aurora – as magnet ad yaran biryani naturally

– as magnet ad yaran biryani naturally

– as magnet ad yaran biryani naturally @k nomads ‘no hand

@k nomads ‘no hand

@k nomads ‘no hand Adami i used to think that I was cursed

Adami i used to think that I was cursed

Adami i used to think that I was cursed by all possible ways Jewish Iranian

by all possible ways Jewish Iranian

by all possible ways Jewish Iranian Israeli and a woman I was born in Iran

Israeli and a woman I was born in Iran

Israeli and a woman I was born in Iran Tehran we were three sisters father used

Tehran we were three sisters father used

Tehran we were three sisters father used to work hard from morning till midnight

to work hard from morning till midnight

to work hard from morning till midnight he was sick most of his life and I was

he was sick most of his life and I was

he was sick most of his life and I was never certain if he would live to see

never certain if he would live to see

never certain if he would live to see the next day but when he was home he

the next day but when he was home he

the next day but when he was home he used to recite Persian poems with

used to recite Persian poems with

used to recite Persian poems with nobility and admiration like the one I

nobility and admiration like the one I

nobility and admiration like the one I just shared with you

just shared with you

just shared with you we were not religious father used to say

we were not religious father used to say

we were not religious father used to say that the most important religion is to

that the most important religion is to

that the most important religion is to think good to speak good and to do good

think good to speak good and to do good

think good to speak good and to do good mother worked as a hairdresser at home

mother worked as a hairdresser at home

mother worked as a hairdresser at home but her real passion was for singing and

but her real passion was for singing and

but her real passion was for singing and music and that filled our home in our

music and that filled our home in our

music and that filled our home in our hearts she used to sing while cooking or

hearts she used to sing while cooking or

hearts she used to sing while cooking or cleaning snapping her fingers to the

cleaning snapping her fingers to the

cleaning snapping her fingers to the rhythm and

rhythm and

rhythm and perhaps one of my earliest memories is

perhaps one of my earliest memories is

perhaps one of my earliest memories is of my mother’s sitting on the carpet

of my mother’s sitting on the carpet

of my mother’s sitting on the carpet walking me back and forth minora while

walking me back and forth minora while

walking me back and forth minora while singing to me me me Cana

[Music]

[Music] lemme Conan there in Tehran we lived in

lemme Conan there in Tehran we lived in

lemme Conan there in Tehran we lived in a very Muslim neighborhood and our

a very Muslim neighborhood and our

a very Muslim neighborhood and our parents forbade us to tell anyone that

parents forbade us to tell anyone that

parents forbade us to tell anyone that we are Jewish my best friend in first

we are Jewish my best friend in first

we are Jewish my best friend in first grade was a girl named Rosita and I felt

grade was a girl named Rosita and I felt

grade was a girl named Rosita and I felt that I would burst if I won’t tell her

that I would burst if I won’t tell her

that I would burst if I won’t tell her this secret so one day on our way back

this secret so one day on our way back

this secret so one day on our way back home from school I stopped and said

home from school I stopped and said

home from school I stopped and said Rosita I have to tell you a very big

Rosita I have to tell you a very big

Rosita I have to tell you a very big secret I’m Jewish and she looked at me

secret I’m Jewish and she looked at me

secret I’m Jewish and she looked at me with her eyes wide open and she said

with her eyes wide open and she said

with her eyes wide open and she said really what what is it and why is it a

really what what is it and why is it a

really what what is it and why is it a secret

secret

secret I said I don’t know but this is who I am

I said I don’t know but this is who I am

I said I don’t know but this is who I am and I can’t tell when I was 8 years old

and I can’t tell when I was 8 years old

and I can’t tell when I was 8 years old my parents decided to move to Israel and

my parents decided to move to Israel and

my parents decided to move to Israel and I was terrified but they told me that in

I was terrified but they told me that in

I was terrified but they told me that in Israel everyone is like one big close

Israel everyone is like one big close

Israel everyone is like one big close family well and so I left everything I

family well and so I left everything I

family well and so I left everything I know behind we came to Israel my parents

know behind we came to Israel my parents

know behind we came to Israel my parents two sisters and I my youngest sister was

two sisters and I my youngest sister was

two sisters and I my youngest sister was born later in Israel we came with only

born later in Israel we came with only

born later in Israel we came with only four Persian carpets as recommended to

four Persian carpets as recommended to

four Persian carpets as recommended to my father by a close friend in a small

my father by a close friend in a small

my father by a close friend in a small red case filled with my mother’s record

red case filled with my mother’s record

red case filled with my mother’s record collection in Israel within a day I was

collection in Israel within a day I was

collection in Israel within a day I was introduced to a completely different

introduced to a completely different

introduced to a completely different culture and mentality you see while the

culture and mentality you see while the

culture and mentality you see while the Iranian mentality is covered layers by

Iranian mentality is covered layers by

Iranian mentality is covered layers by layers revealing some but keeping most

layers revealing some but keeping most

layers revealing some but keeping most hidden everything is polite mysterious

hidden everything is polite mysterious

hidden everything is polite mysterious dramatic the Israeli mentality keeps

dramatic the Israeli mentality keeps

dramatic the Israeli mentality keeps everything open free cheeky immediate at

everything open free cheeky immediate at

everything open free cheeky immediate at the beginning during my first days in

the beginning during my first days in

the beginning during my first days in the Israeli school I used to stand aside

the Israeli school I used to stand aside

the Israeli school I used to stand aside during the breaks and watch other

during the breaks and watch other

during the breaks and watch other children playing and from time to time

children playing and from time to time

children playing and from time to time one of the kids would approach me and

one of the kids would approach me and

one of the kids would approach me and call me palsied bossy persian persian

call me palsied bossy persian persian

call me palsied bossy persian persian and i was sure that this is the way how

and i was sure that this is the way how

and i was sure that this is the way how the israeli kids greeting me and at the

the israeli kids greeting me and at the

the israeli kids greeting me and at the same time they are showing that they

same time they are showing that they

same time they are showing that they know where I come from and I answered

know where I come from and I answered

know where I come from and I answered them with my new word shallow it took me

them with my new word shallow it took me

them with my new word shallow it took me few weeks to realize that they’re

few weeks to realize that they’re

few weeks to realize that they’re actually mocking me for being Persian

actually mocking me for being Persian

actually mocking me for being Persian you see the funny and a sad thing is

you see the funny and a sad thing is

you see the funny and a sad thing is that while we lived in Iran I was a Jew

that while we lived in Iran I was a Jew

that while we lived in Iran I was a Jew and when we came to Israel I became

and when we came to Israel I became

and when we came to Israel I became Persian but luckily I didn’t dwell on it

Persian but luckily I didn’t dwell on it

Persian but luckily I didn’t dwell on it I mainly dreamt and fought to fulfill my

I mainly dreamt and fought to fulfill my

I mainly dreamt and fought to fulfill my inner world to dance to act and mostly

inner world to dance to act and mostly

inner world to dance to act and mostly my passion for singing and using which

my passion for singing and using which

my passion for singing and using which my mother carved on my soul as a

my mother carved on my soul as a

my mother carved on my soul as a teenager I worked I started working in

teenager I worked I started working in

teenager I worked I started working in order to pay for singing lessons

order to pay for singing lessons

order to pay for singing lessons and dancing classes i baby said I

and dancing classes i baby said I

and dancing classes i baby said I cleaned I worked in summer camps

cleaned I worked in summer camps

cleaned I worked in summer camps anything I could get and my dream came

anything I could get and my dream came

anything I could get and my dream came true

true

true it came true overnight like him fairy

it came true overnight like him fairy

it came true overnight like him fairy tales and since then from the very first

tales and since then from the very first

tales and since then from the very first album and for the last 30 years my

album and for the last 30 years my

album and for the last 30 years my people have embraced me

and since then I’m fortunate enough to

and since then I’m fortunate enough to perform in Israel and around the world

perform in Israel and around the world

perform in Israel and around the world on the most beautiful and exciting

on the most beautiful and exciting

on the most beautiful and exciting stages as well as on memorable moments

stages as well as on memorable moments

stages as well as on memorable moments of my country’s history

of my country’s history

of my country’s history one of the most unforgettable moments

one of the most unforgettable moments

one of the most unforgettable moments for me is when I was invited to sing the

for me is when I was invited to sing the

for me is when I was invited to sing the national anthem on Israel’s Jubilee

national anthem on Israel’s Jubilee

national anthem on Israel’s Jubilee there in Jerusalem during a ceremony

there in Jerusalem during a ceremony

there in Jerusalem during a ceremony attended by world leaders and presidents

attended by world leaders and presidents

attended by world leaders and presidents we sang together me the singer and me

we sang together me the singer and me

we sang together me the singer and me the eight-year-old immigrant girl we

the eight-year-old immigrant girl we

the eight-year-old immigrant girl we help help

help help

help help to come a racing excited heart it is

to come a racing excited heart it is

to come a racing excited heart it is said that music has the highest form of

said that music has the highest form of

said that music has the highest form of vibration where is music devil cannot

vibration where is music devil cannot

vibration where is music devil cannot enter and for the last three decades I

enter and for the last three decades I

enter and for the last three decades I have witnessed this myself I’ve seen how

have witnessed this myself I’ve seen how

have witnessed this myself I’ve seen how music unlocks people’s hearts and

music unlocks people’s hearts and

music unlocks people’s hearts and feelings time after time I’ve seen how

feelings time after time I’ve seen how

feelings time after time I’ve seen how tears and dance burst out like champagne

tears and dance burst out like champagne

tears and dance burst out like champagne bubbles I’ve seen how complete strangers

bubbles I’ve seen how complete strangers

bubbles I’ve seen how complete strangers arrive to a concert and it’s a magical

arrive to a concert and it’s a magical

arrive to a concert and it’s a magical point they all become one entity I’ve

point they all become one entity I’ve

point they all become one entity I’ve seen that time after time and I was sure

seen that time after time and I was sure

seen that time after time and I was sure that I’m fulfilling my purpose and my

that I’m fulfilling my purpose and my

that I’m fulfilling my purpose and my dream completely when you pray you talk

dream completely when you pray you talk

dream completely when you pray you talk to God and when you’re in tune with your

to God and when you’re in tune with your

to God and when you’re in tune with your instincts you’re listening to God five

instincts you’re listening to God five

instincts you’re listening to God five years ago I found myself drawn to the

years ago I found myself drawn to the

years ago I found myself drawn to the red case of my mother’s record

red case of my mother’s record

red case of my mother’s record collection and against all my plans and

collection and against all my plans and

collection and against all my plans and against all my logic I started recording

against all my logic I started recording

against all my logic I started recording a completely different album an album

a completely different album an album

a completely different album an album which celebrates the soundtrack of my

which celebrates the soundtrack of my

which celebrates the soundtrack of my family’s life an entire Persian album

family’s life an entire Persian album

family’s life an entire Persian album named my joys I must admit that my

named my joys I must admit that my

named my joys I must admit that my friends and colleagues thought that I

friends and colleagues thought that I

friends and colleagues thought that I was insane that I’m actually ruining my

was insane that I’m actually ruining my

was insane that I’m actually ruining my career

career

career who in Israel would want to listen to an

who in Israel would want to listen to an

who in Israel would want to listen to an entire album in a MIDI Nejad language a

entire album in a MIDI Nejad language a

entire album in a MIDI Nejad language a language which most people associate

language which most people associate

language which most people associate with animosity but I couldn’t help it it

with animosity but I couldn’t help it it

with animosity but I couldn’t help it it was stronger than me the road is

was stronger than me the road is

was stronger than me the road is stronger than done the one who walks it

stronger than done the one who walks it

stronger than done the one who walks it much to my surprise Israelis love the

much to my surprise Israelis love the

much to my surprise Israelis love the album it was a success but beyond the

album it was a success but beyond the

album it was a success but beyond the album success in Israel something much

album success in Israel something much

album success in Israel something much more amazing happened the Iranian people

more amazing happened the Iranian people

more amazing happened the Iranian people embraced me I started receiving so many

embraced me I started receiving so many

embraced me I started receiving so many emails rain of emails and those were

emails rain of emails and those were

emails rain of emails and those were warm loving and beautiful emails which

warm loving and beautiful emails which

warm loving and beautiful emails which touched my soul according to an article

touched my soul according to an article

touched my soul according to an article published by The Wall Street Journal 8

published by The Wall Street Journal 8

published by The Wall Street Journal 8 months after the release of the album

months after the release of the album

months after the release of the album there were about half a million

there were about half a million

there were about half a million downloads of the album in Iran and also

downloads of the album in Iran and also

downloads of the album in Iran and also many sales

and also many sales in the Iranian

and also many sales in the Iranian black-market following the album success

black-market following the album success

black-market following the album success I was invited to sing in Hebrew and in

I was invited to sing in Hebrew and in

I was invited to sing in Hebrew and in Persian in the UN’s main assembly hole

Persian in the UN’s main assembly hole

Persian in the UN’s main assembly hole it was a concert delivered it was a

it was a concert delivered it was a

it was a concert delivered it was a concert delivered as a good good gesture

concert delivered as a good good gesture

concert delivered as a good good gesture of goodwill of the Israeli delegation

of goodwill of the Israeli delegation

of goodwill of the Israeli delegation headed by the ambassador won’t was all

headed by the ambassador won’t was all

headed by the ambassador won’t was all in front of all the different

in front of all the different

in front of all the different delegations from all over the world a

week before the UN’s performance my

week before the UN’s performance my father passed away my sorrow and my

father passed away my sorrow and my

father passed away my sorrow and my sadness were paralyzing and I didn’t

sadness were paralyzing and I didn’t

sadness were paralyzing and I didn’t think I’ll have the strength to go up on

think I’ll have the strength to go up on

think I’ll have the strength to go up on this stage and be able to sing with all

this stage and be able to sing with all

this stage and be able to sing with all this sorrow in my heart but the exact

this sorrow in my heart but the exact

this sorrow in my heart but the exact opposite happened all my weaknesses or

opposite happened all my weaknesses or

opposite happened all my weaknesses or what I saw as my weaknesses became to my

what I saw as my weaknesses became to my

what I saw as my weaknesses became to my source of strength I went up on this

source of strength I went up on this

source of strength I went up on this stage with all this baggage and

stage with all this baggage and

stage with all this baggage and celebrated it I celebrated my father’s

celebrated it I celebrated my father’s

celebrated it I celebrated my father’s legacy his hard work his strong spirit

legacy his hard work his strong spirit

legacy his hard work his strong spirit my mother’s warm singing voice I

my mother’s warm singing voice I

my mother’s warm singing voice I celebrated my being irani and Israeli a

celebrated my being irani and Israeli a

celebrated my being irani and Israeli a woman on this date I was also a mother

woman on this date I was also a mother

woman on this date I was also a mother who sings to people and to God her

who sings to people and to God her

who sings to people and to God her prayer for a brighter and more

prayer for a brighter and more

prayer for a brighter and more compassion

compassion

compassion world

during the performance I also recited

during the performance I also recited one of the poems my father taught me the

one of the poems my father taught me the

one of the poems my father taught me the same one I shared with you and people

same one I shared with you and people

same one I shared with you and people told me afterwards that the same poem is

told me afterwards that the same poem is

told me afterwards that the same poem is hanging on one of the walls of the UN

hanging on one of the walls of the UN

hanging on one of the walls of the UN before the concert I had the opportunity

before the concert I had the opportunity

before the concert I had the opportunity to talk with Secretary General Ban

to talk with Secretary General Ban

to talk with Secretary General Ban ki-moon who hosted the event he told me

ki-moon who hosted the event he told me

ki-moon who hosted the event he told me that by being both Iranian and Israeli I

that by being both Iranian and Israeli I

that by being both Iranian and Israeli I have the unique ability to bridge

have the unique ability to bridge

have the unique ability to bridge between the two people through my

between the two people through my

between the two people through my singing that by being a woman I am able

singing that by being a woman I am able

singing that by being a woman I am able to reflect the embracing and the

to reflect the embracing and the

to reflect the embracing and the compassionate and the maternal side of

compassionate and the maternal side of

compassionate and the maternal side of human being he wasn’t cynical when he

human being he wasn’t cynical when he

human being he wasn’t cynical when he said that music led many revolutions

said that music led many revolutions

said that music led many revolutions during history and that I can find a way

during history and that I can find a way

during history and that I can find a way to people’s heart more than any

to people’s heart more than any

to people’s heart more than any politician because music can enter where

politician because music can enter where

politician because music can enter where no politician can

I’m not a politician I don’t pretend to

I’m not a politician I don’t pretend to be one and I absolutely don’t wanna be

be one and I absolutely don’t wanna be

be one and I absolutely don’t wanna be one

one

one but I have one paintbrush and a small

but I have one paintbrush and a small

but I have one paintbrush and a small tin of paint I try to paint a better

tin of paint I try to paint a better

tin of paint I try to paint a better word with them however it’s only one

word with them however it’s only one

word with them however it’s only one paintbrush in a small tin of paint and

paintbrush in a small tin of paint and

paintbrush in a small tin of paint and we need many many many more painters

sometimes I want to go under my blanket

sometimes I want to go under my blanket in my bedroom and shut the door because

in my bedroom and shut the door because

in my bedroom and shut the door because what can one individual do against all

what can one individual do against all

what can one individual do against all the hatred and the fear and animosity in

the hatred and the fear and animosity in

the hatred and the fear and animosity in the world and I say to myself that there

the world and I say to myself that there

the world and I say to myself that there has been always fear and war and

has been always fear and war and

has been always fear and war and animosity so Who am I to change

animosity so Who am I to change

animosity so Who am I to change something anything and there are so many

something anything and there are so many

something anything and there are so many people who want to keep it that way it’s

people who want to keep it that way it’s

people who want to keep it that way it’s their interest and I’m not so young

their interest and I’m not so young

their interest and I’m not so young anymore I’m young but not 16 and I want

anymore I’m young but not 16 and I want

anymore I’m young but not 16 and I want to relax and enjoy my life and I do so

to relax and enjoy my life and I do so

to relax and enjoy my life and I do so but I also know that the only thing that

but I also know that the only thing that

but I also know that the only thing that is necessary for the triumph of evil is

is necessary for the triumph of evil is

is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing

so I picked myself up grab my paintbrush

so I picked myself up grab my paintbrush and continue painting few months before

and continue painting few months before

and continue painting few months before President Shimon Peres passed away he

President Shimon Peres passed away he

President Shimon Peres passed away he called me I loved him so much and he

called me I loved him so much and he

called me I loved him so much and he said you know Rita if the Iranian people

said you know Rita if the Iranian people

said you know Rita if the Iranian people don’t want to talk to us we will sing to

don’t want to talk to us we will sing to

don’t want to talk to us we will sing to them I used to think that I was cursed

them I used to think that I was cursed

them I used to think that I was cursed by all possible ways Jewish Iranian

by all possible ways Jewish Iranian

by all possible ways Jewish Iranian Israeli and a woman with a troubled

Israeli and a woman with a troubled

Israeli and a woman with a troubled childhood now I know that all

childhood now I know that all

childhood now I know that all differences can coexist I have learned

differences can coexist I have learned

differences can coexist I have learned that our weaknesses hold the potential

that our weaknesses hold the potential

that our weaknesses hold the potential of great strength and our curses carry

of great strength and our curses carry

of great strength and our curses carry blessings inside of them and me as long

blessings inside of them and me as long

blessings inside of them and me as long as the cries of hatred will grow

as the cries of hatred will grow

as the cries of hatred will grow I will sing louder thank you

I will sing louder thank you

I will sing louder thank you [Applause]

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