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The ego is most challenged in dragon boat | Michele Joan Valbuena | TEDxSillimanU


primary to what I would be talking about

primary to what I would be talking about to you today is my own personal

to you today is my own personal

to you today is my own personal experience in sports that has shaped my

experience in sports that has shaped my

experience in sports that has shaped my profession as a sports psychologists let

profession as a sports psychologists let

profession as a sports psychologists let me start by giving you a background of

me start by giving you a background of

me start by giving you a background of why I am in this field because many of

why I am in this field because many of

why I am in this field because many of my friends and colleagues asked me why I

my friends and colleagues asked me why I

my friends and colleagues asked me why I am in sports psychology and if this is

am in sports psychology and if this is

am in sports psychology and if this is where huge money is that’s why I got

where huge money is that’s why I got

where huge money is that’s why I got training in it one thing’s for sure in

training in it one thing’s for sure in

training in it one thing’s for sure in the Philippines there is no money here

the Philippines there is no money here

the Philippines there is no money here as they say it is all for the love of

as they say it is all for the love of

as they say it is all for the love of the game I have been involved in sports

the game I have been involved in sports

the game I have been involved in sports beginning five years old at the age I

beginning five years old at the age I

beginning five years old at the age I mean I played soccer with my brother’s

mean I played soccer with my brother’s

mean I played soccer with my brother’s was trained by my father in tennis my

was trained by my father in tennis my

was trained by my father in tennis my mother encouraged me to play volleyball

mother encouraged me to play volleyball

mother encouraged me to play volleyball did gymnastics briefly I played

did gymnastics briefly I played

did gymnastics briefly I played basketball in intramurals because back

basketball in intramurals because back

basketball in intramurals because back then I was the tallest in our class not

then I was the tallest in our class not

then I was the tallest in our class not anymore now did Taekwondo and played

anymore now did Taekwondo and played

anymore now did Taekwondo and played varsity in softball hence I had sport

varsity in softball hence I had sport

varsity in softball hence I had sport involvement sin both team and individual

involvement sin both team and individual

involvement sin both team and individual sports but I’ve always preferred to do

sports but I’ve always preferred to do

sports but I’ve always preferred to do team sports I have learned so much from

team sports I have learned so much from

team sports I have learned so much from sport participation as an athlete I

sport participation as an athlete I

sport participation as an athlete I learned about punctuality or the

learned about punctuality or the

learned about punctuality or the importance of punctuality to training

importance of punctuality to training

importance of punctuality to training sessions and race competitions the

sessions and race competitions the

sessions and race competitions the principle of obedience to my coach the

principle of obedience to my coach the

principle of obedience to my coach the value of respect for our coaching staff

value of respect for our coaching staff

value of respect for our coaching staff and teammates and the essence of months

and teammates and the essence of months

and teammates and the essence of months of hard training for just a days race or

of hard training for just a days race or

of hard training for just a days race or game so growing up these values I

game so growing up these values I

game so growing up these values I carried on to the other aspects of my

carried on to the other aspects of my

carried on to the other aspects of my life outside of sports I have come to

life outside of sports I have come to

life outside of sports I have come to believe in the power of sport

believe in the power of sport

believe in the power of sport participation

participation

participation shaping the needed qualities required to

shaping the needed qualities required to

shaping the needed qualities required to live in this world

live in this world

live in this world hence apart from being born in a family

hence apart from being born in a family

hence apart from being born in a family of athletes I had a childhood dream to

of athletes I had a childhood dream to

of athletes I had a childhood dream to help athletes develop their full

help athletes develop their full

help athletes develop their full potential so from being an athlete I

potential so from being an athlete I

potential so from being an athlete I moved towards coaching a softball team

moved towards coaching a softball team

moved towards coaching a softball team there were challenges one was to make

there were challenges one was to make

there were challenges one was to make people wake up early in the morning that

people wake up early in the morning that

people wake up early in the morning that was the most challenging parts another

was the most challenging parts another

was the most challenging parts another was to deal with individual differences

was to deal with individual differences

was to deal with individual differences differences of one’s and needs of

differences of one’s and needs of

differences of one’s and needs of athletes and different personality

athletes and different personality

athletes and different personality characteristics I remember I asked one

characteristics I remember I asked one

characteristics I remember I asked one athlete at a game why she was late she

athlete at a game why she was late she

athlete at a game why she was late she responded and apologetically and flatly

responded and apologetically and flatly

responded and apologetically and flatly I woke up late I thought then that that

I woke up late I thought then that that

I woke up late I thought then that that was the only level of struggle one goes

was the only level of struggle one goes

was the only level of struggle one goes through in coaching a team until I

through in coaching a team until I

through in coaching a team until I started dragon boats so Dragon Boat is

started dragon boats so Dragon Boat is

started dragon boats so Dragon Boat is yet an emerging field in the provinces

yet an emerging field in the provinces

yet an emerging field in the provinces of the Philippines even when the country

of the Philippines even when the country

of the Philippines even when the country started participating in it in the

started participating in it in the

started participating in it in the international Z scene in the 21st

international Z scene in the 21st

international Z scene in the 21st century

century

century so in Dumaguete we started it in 2015

so in Dumaguete we started it in 2015

so in Dumaguete we started it in 2015 and being one of the pioneers there has

and being one of the pioneers there has

and being one of the pioneers there has been various challenges through training

been various challenges through training

been various challenges through training and competitions to enhance paddling

and competitions to enhance paddling

and competitions to enhance paddling skills and psychosocial skills the

skills and psychosocial skills the

skills and psychosocial skills the pioneering team team hilarya has 31

pioneering team team hilarya has 31

pioneering team team hilarya has 31 members as of the moment and they are

members as of the moment and they are

members as of the moment and they are aged 14 to 50 years old five art

aged 14 to 50 years old five art

aged 14 to 50 years old five art students three are working part-time 23

students three are working part-time 23

students three are working part-time 23 are working full-time 21 are males and

are working full-time 21 are males and

are working full-time 21 are males and 10 are females so if you’re interested

10 are females so if you’re interested

10 are females so if you’re interested you can always join in managing and

you can always join in managing and

you can always join in managing and coaching a dragon boat team there have

coaching a dragon boat team there have

coaching a dragon boat team there have been three major challenges one is a

been three major challenges one is a

been three major challenges one is a challenge

challenge

challenge on shifting from an individualistic

on shifting from an individualistic

on shifting from an individualistic mindset to a collectivistic mindset

mindset to a collectivistic mindset

mindset to a collectivistic mindset most of the paddlers came from

most of the paddlers came from

most of the paddlers came from individual sports triathlon marathon

individual sports triathlon marathon

individual sports triathlon marathon rock climbing making it difficult for

rock climbing making it difficult for

rock climbing making it difficult for them to adapt a team mindset especially

them to adapt a team mindset especially

them to adapt a team mindset especially that the dragonboat sport is actually

that the dragonboat sport is actually

that the dragonboat sport is actually the ultimate team sports even with

the ultimate team sports even with

the ultimate team sports even with paddlers who came from another team

paddlers who came from another team

paddlers who came from another team sport like frisbee they have been

sport like frisbee they have been

sport like frisbee they have been observed to feel very challenged at

observed to feel very challenged at

observed to feel very challenged at embracing the fact that in dragonboat

embracing the fact that in dragonboat

embracing the fact that in dragonboat everyone has to be really totally equal

everyone has to be really totally equal

everyone has to be really totally equal in terms of performance level so you can

in terms of performance level so you can

in terms of performance level so you can be either as strong and fast or weak and

be either as strong and fast or weak and

be either as strong and fast or weak and slow as everyone else to move the boat

slow as everyone else to move the boat

slow as everyone else to move the boat forward at the most synchronized manner

forward at the most synchronized manner

forward at the most synchronized manner as possible so to show you let’s watch

as possible so to show you let’s watch

as possible so to show you let’s watch this video

you know okay fine fine all right so

you know okay fine fine all right so it’s bragging time for me that was my

it’s bragging time for me that was my

it’s bragging time for me that was my team

team

team Alera at last year’s Baraka

Alera at last year’s Baraka

Alera at last year’s Baraka International Dragon Boat Festival that

International Dragon Boat Festival that

International Dragon Boat Festival that was her first heat and we were actually

was her first heat and we were actually

was her first heat and we were actually more than one boat ahead of the others

more than one boat ahead of the others

more than one boat ahead of the others that was our best time so far

that was our best time so far

that was our best time so far so we’re trying to break that this year

so we’re trying to break that this year

so we’re trying to break that this year the other teams were so impressed Sui

the other teams were so impressed Sui

the other teams were so impressed Sui overheard an international athletes say

overheard an international athletes say

overheard an international athletes say they are so small but they are very

they are so small but they are very

they are so small but they are very strong because height in Dragon Boat is

strong because height in Dragon Boat is

strong because height in Dragon Boat is actually an advantage and as Filipinos

actually an advantage and as Filipinos

actually an advantage and as Filipinos we were way shorter than many of our

we were way shorter than many of our

we were way shorter than many of our competitors we did not get to this

competitors we did not get to this

competitors we did not get to this performance level the easy way there was

performance level the easy way there was

performance level the easy way there was so much hard work in the months of

so much hard work in the months of

so much hard work in the months of training in pool land and gym we also

training in pool land and gym we also

training in pool land and gym we also did yoga and we did Zumba when it was

did yoga and we did Zumba when it was

did yoga and we did Zumba when it was raining and we couldn’t use the OVA and

raining and we couldn’t use the OVA and

raining and we couldn’t use the OVA and we also improvised training when

we also improvised training when

we also improvised training when necessary so this leads me to my second

necessary so this leads me to my second

necessary so this leads me to my second challenge there has been found a

challenge there has been found a

challenge there has been found a difficulty in developing a full

difficulty in developing a full

difficulty in developing a full understanding of the importance of

understanding of the importance of

understanding of the importance of training there were those who thought

training there were those who thought

training there were those who thought that a few weeks of intense training

that a few weeks of intense training

that a few weeks of intense training before a race has the same performance

before a race has the same performance

before a race has the same performance effects two months of training I use

effects two months of training I use

effects two months of training I use different kinds of strategies to keep

different kinds of strategies to keep

different kinds of strategies to keep people in training so from games from

people in training so from games from

people in training so from games from games to rewards for perfect attendance

games to rewards for perfect attendance

games to rewards for perfect attendance to posting motivational quotes and

to posting motivational quotes and

to posting motivational quotes and videos in our page to eating together or

videos in our page to eating together or

videos in our page to eating together or socializing

socializing

socializing we had we had fun but they all had a

we had we had fun but they all had a

we had we had fun but they all had a shelf-life in the end I had to resort to

shelf-life in the end I had to resort to

shelf-life in the end I had to resort to an autocratic style of coaching as I say

an autocratic style of coaching as I say

an autocratic style of coaching as I say to my team bitch mode on and that

to my team bitch mode on and that

to my team bitch mode on and that somehow actually kept people in training

somehow actually kept people in training

somehow actually kept people in training but not everyone was kept in training

but not everyone was kept in training

but not everyone was kept in training with that autocratic style others

with that autocratic style others

with that autocratic style others started hating me so for example one

started hating me so for example one

started hating me so for example one former team member posted this in social

former team member posted this in social

former team member posted this in social media she was taken out from a race line

media she was taken out from a race line

media she was taken out from a race line up because of misconduct in retaliation

up because of misconduct in retaliation

up because of misconduct in retaliation she posted this and took it down right

she posted this and took it down right

she posted this and took it down right away but a teammate caught it took a

away but a teammate caught it took a

away but a teammate caught it took a screenshot and sent it to me this

screenshot and sent it to me this

screenshot and sent it to me this paddler never improved in her one year

paddler never improved in her one year

paddler never improved in her one year of jagan boat participation but she

of jagan boat participation but she

of jagan boat participation but she wanted to be one of the best paddlers so

wanted to be one of the best paddlers so

wanted to be one of the best paddlers so how do you connect the two another was

how do you connect the two another was

how do you connect the two another was kicked out of the team because of

kicked out of the team because of

kicked out of the team because of disrespect to leadership she gave me a

disrespect to leadership she gave me a

disrespect to leadership she gave me a fist sign behind my back after I talked

fist sign behind my back after I talked

fist sign behind my back after I talked to her about being a model to the

to her about being a model to the

to her about being a model to the younger ones because she was behaving

younger ones because she was behaving

younger ones because she was behaving really badly and she was one of the

really badly and she was one of the

really badly and she was one of the older members and she was 47 years old

older members and she was 47 years old

older members and she was 47 years old so she hated me for talking to her one

so she hated me for talking to her one

so she hated me for talking to her one other paddler resented me for pointing

other paddler resented me for pointing

other paddler resented me for pointing out her mistake when we were analyzing

out her mistake when we were analyzing

out her mistake when we were analyzing race she refused to admit she needed to

race she refused to admit she needed to

race she refused to admit she needed to improve there were those who disliked me

improve there were those who disliked me

improve there were those who disliked me when I emphasized their lack of training

when I emphasized their lack of training

when I emphasized their lack of training they believed in themselves that they

they believed in themselves that they

they believed in themselves that they were still good paddlers even with

were still good paddlers even with

were still good paddlers even with sufficient insufficient training and so

sufficient insufficient training and so

sufficient insufficient training and so this leads me to my third challenge it

this leads me to my third challenge it

this leads me to my third challenge it has been the most challenging to deal

has been the most challenging to deal

has been the most challenging to deal with individual differences because

with individual differences because

with individual differences because there is an awareness of the

there is an awareness of the

there is an awareness of the importance of the psychosocial skills or

importance of the psychosocial skills or

importance of the psychosocial skills or aspect of athleticism

aspect of athleticism

aspect of athleticism there is a strong desire to see this

there is a strong desire to see this

there is a strong desire to see this demonstrate that overtly by the paddlers

demonstrate that overtly by the paddlers

demonstrate that overtly by the paddlers given the various intervention

given the various intervention

given the various intervention strategies now it is observed that in a

strategies now it is observed that in a

strategies now it is observed that in a dragon boat team whose membership is

dragon boat team whose membership is

dragon boat team whose membership is voluntary so much of the commitment and

voluntary so much of the commitment and

voluntary so much of the commitment and dedication to the sport should be

dedication to the sport should be

dedication to the sport should be intrinsic opposite to the set of

intrinsic opposite to the set of

intrinsic opposite to the set of paddlers I indicated earlier our

paddlers I indicated earlier our

paddlers I indicated earlier our paddlers who have been observed to be

paddlers who have been observed to be

paddlers who have been observed to be intrinsically driven they show up a

intrinsically driven they show up a

intrinsically driven they show up a training did what they were required to

training did what they were required to

training did what they were required to do a training even if it was very

do a training even if it was very

do a training even if it was very challenging physically and mentally

challenging physically and mentally

challenging physically and mentally listen well to instructions and respect

listen well to instructions and respect

listen well to instructions and respect decisions of their leaders especially at

decisions of their leaders especially at

decisions of their leaders especially at race day and these were those who have

race day and these were those who have

race day and these were those who have improved in paddling and psychosocial

improved in paddling and psychosocial

improved in paddling and psychosocial skills in a very short period of time

skills in a very short period of time

skills in a very short period of time than expected more interestingly because

than expected more interestingly because

than expected more interestingly because the nature of Dragon Boat requires for

the nature of Dragon Boat requires for

the nature of Dragon Boat requires for full synchronisation of all paddlers no

full synchronisation of all paddlers no

full synchronisation of all paddlers no one will stand out so unlike other

one will stand out so unlike other

one will stand out so unlike other sports or team sports there’s no most

sports or team sports there’s no most

sports or team sports there’s no most valuable player there is no best

valuable player there is no best

valuable player there is no best goalkeeper there is no best striker or

goalkeeper there is no best striker or

goalkeeper there is no best striker or highest pointer so if someone is highly

highest pointer so if someone is highly

highest pointer so if someone is highly egoistic because one’s ego has an

egoistic because one’s ego has an

egoistic because one’s ego has an intense need for appreciation and

intense need for appreciation and

intense need for appreciation and recognition Dragon Boat will be most

recognition Dragon Boat will be most

recognition Dragon Boat will be most challenging to the person so for these

challenging to the person so for these

challenging to the person so for these kinds of paddlers they want to be Pacers

kinds of paddlers they want to be Pacers

kinds of paddlers they want to be Pacers why okay these are the Pacers they are

why okay these are the Pacers they are

why okay these are the Pacers they are the ones in the front so once you have

the ones in the front so once you have

the ones in the front so once you have the front seat it feels good right I

the front seat it feels good right I

the front seat it feels good right I often hear people say oh wow pacer no

often hear people say oh wow pacer no

often hear people say oh wow pacer no kaha so the pacer position seems to be

kaha so the pacer position seems to be

kaha so the pacer position seems to be the most prestigious one and that there

the most prestigious one and that there

the most prestigious one and that there is the impression that Pacers are the

is the impression that Pacers are the

is the impression that Pacers are the best paddlers that’s actually entirely

best paddlers that’s actually entirely

best paddlers that’s actually entirely wrong

that’s the Pacers are those who do not

that’s the Pacers are those who do not get agitated okay they are the ones who

get agitated okay they are the ones who

get agitated okay they are the ones who can pace themselves well from the word

can pace themselves well from the word

can pace themselves well from the word Pacers they have to be able to learn the

Pacers they have to be able to learn the

Pacers they have to be able to learn the skill of maintaining a particular pace

skill of maintaining a particular pace

skill of maintaining a particular pace because it is necessary for a dragonboat

because it is necessary for a dragonboat

because it is necessary for a dragonboat to be synchronized and all the rest of

to be synchronized and all the rest of

to be synchronized and all the rest of the paddlers behind them will follow

the paddlers behind them will follow

the paddlers behind them will follow they define the pace of the dragon boats

they define the pace of the dragon boats

they define the pace of the dragon boats the middle paddlers the middle paddlers

the middle paddlers the middle paddlers

the middle paddlers the middle paddlers should be the strongest paddlers because

should be the strongest paddlers because

should be the strongest paddlers because this is where you put the bigger body

this is where you put the bigger body

this is where you put the bigger body paddlers or individuals and it is

paddlers or individuals and it is

paddlers or individuals and it is assumed that your power in paddling is

assumed that your power in paddling is

assumed that your power in paddling is proportionate to the size of your body

the paddlers at the end of the boat will

the paddlers at the end of the boat will serve as a turbo and they should be

serve as a turbo and they should be

serve as a turbo and they should be powerful enough to push the boat and not

powerful enough to push the boat and not

powerful enough to push the boat and not drag it so each paddler in the boat have

drag it so each paddler in the boat have

drag it so each paddler in the boat have specific special roles if all paddlers

specific special roles if all paddlers

specific special roles if all paddlers are equally strong and powerful just

are equally strong and powerful just

are equally strong and powerful just imagine how fast and efficient the boat

imagine how fast and efficient the boat

imagine how fast and efficient the boat will run the signal or we also called

will run the signal or we also called

will run the signal or we also called the drummer has to know what stroke to

the drummer has to know what stroke to

the drummer has to know what stroke to call how to motivate the paddlers and

call how to motivate the paddlers and

call how to motivate the paddlers and most especially how to read and analyze

most especially how to read and analyze

most especially how to read and analyze the race the steerer is the driver of

the race the steerer is the driver of

the race the steerer is the driver of the boat she or he has to make sure that

the boat she or he has to make sure that

the boat she or he has to make sure that the boat is moving to the right

the boat is moving to the right

the boat is moving to the right direction

direction

direction one false movements of the steer will

one false movements of the steer will

one false movements of the steer will make or break the team’s race therefore

make or break the team’s race therefore

make or break the team’s race therefore given the nature of how Dragon Boat

given the nature of how Dragon Boat

given the nature of how Dragon Boat Works a highly egoistic person will

Works a highly egoistic person will

Works a highly egoistic person will definitely be miserable in the sports so

definitely be miserable in the sports so

definitely be miserable in the sports so to be successful in the Dragon Boat

to be successful in the Dragon Boat

to be successful in the Dragon Boat sport there are two characteristics that

sport there are two characteristics that

sport there are two characteristics that need to be present in a paddler one is

need to be present in a paddler one is

need to be present in a paddler one is having a strong core and this is common

having a strong core and this is common

having a strong core and this is common among many athletes in sports science we

among many athletes in sports science we

among many athletes in sports science we call this as your strong abs in any

call this as your strong abs in any

call this as your strong abs in any sport you need strong abs this is your

sport you need strong abs this is your

sport you need strong abs this is your core because this is primary to high

core because this is primary to high

core because this is primary to high levels of performance paddlers need to

levels of performance paddlers need to

levels of performance paddlers need to have the strong core to have strength

have the strong core to have strength

have the strong core to have strength endurance and power and you can only

endurance and power and you can only

endurance and power and you can only attain this if you commit and submit

attain this if you commit and submit

attain this if you commit and submit yourself the sufficient amount of

yourself the sufficient amount of

yourself the sufficient amount of training in my personal experience as an

training in my personal experience as an

training in my personal experience as an athlete team manager and coach and

athlete team manager and coach and

athlete team manager and coach and professional experience as sports

professional experience as sports

professional experience as sports psychologists there is another kind of

psychologists there is another kind of

psychologists there is another kind of core for paddlers or athletes to achieve

core for paddlers or athletes to achieve

core for paddlers or athletes to achieve high levels of performance and this core

high levels of performance and this core

high levels of performance and this core is what makes us

survive life’s challenges and in the

survive life’s challenges and in the context of and in the context of Dragon

context of and in the context of Dragon

context of and in the context of Dragon Boat this is what makes a paddler

Boat this is what makes a paddler

Boat this is what makes a paddler resilient to the challenges that come

resilient to the challenges that come

resilient to the challenges that come along determined and committed despite

along determined and committed despite

along determined and committed despite the hardships in training disciplined

the hardships in training disciplined

the hardships in training disciplined and understanding the technicalities of

and understanding the technicalities of

and understanding the technicalities of the sports and most importantly

the sports and most importantly

the sports and most importantly dedicated at improving the self into

dedicated at improving the self into

dedicated at improving the self into becoming a better athletes this core

becoming a better athletes this core

becoming a better athletes this core will make or break an athlete especially

will make or break an athlete especially

will make or break an athlete especially immense pressure in Psychological terms

immense pressure in Psychological terms

immense pressure in Psychological terms we may refer to this as our ego if

we may refer to this as our ego if

we may refer to this as our ego if sufficiently strong is the shield that

sufficiently strong is the shield that

sufficiently strong is the shield that protects us from falling apart thank you

protects us from falling apart thank you

protects us from falling apart thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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