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The art of living… with dementia | Liza Futerman | TEDxUofT


[Music]

[Music] it’s not you it’s me

it’s not you it’s me

it’s not you it’s me no wait a moment it’s it’s actually damn

no wait a moment it’s it’s actually damn

no wait a moment it’s it’s actually damn you’re fine

you’re fine

you’re fine I utter every word slowly with precision

I utter every word slowly with precision

I utter every word slowly with precision not in a manner of good by the way none

not in a manner of good by the way none

not in a manner of good by the way none lovers do up on breaking the others

lovers do up on breaking the others

lovers do up on breaking the others heart I speak slowly fragmenting each

heart I speak slowly fragmenting each

heart I speak slowly fragmenting each syllable so you know so I do too that

syllable so you know so I do too that

syllable so you know so I do too that it’s not you it’s them that you’re fine

it’s not you it’s them that you’re fine

it’s not you it’s them that you’re fine by smiling at me with no good reason by

by smiling at me with no good reason by

by smiling at me with no good reason by mixing up the hours of the day by making

mixing up the hours of the day by making

mixing up the hours of the day by making up 1,001 excuses for not counting

up 1,001 excuses for not counting

up 1,001 excuses for not counting backwards as they say and after all this

backwards as they say and after all this

backwards as they say and after all this testing they produce a number at first

testing they produce a number at first

testing they produce a number at first two digits then just one one digit to

two digits then just one one digit to

two digits then just one one digit to define the substance the content of a

define the substance the content of a

define the substance the content of a person that is gone but why is this a

person that is gone but why is this a

person that is gone but why is this a tragedy I asked with all sincerity that

tragedy I asked with all sincerity that

tragedy I asked with all sincerity that I can master as if they haven’t told me

I can master as if they haven’t told me

I can master as if they haven’t told me yet as if they haven’t asked will you

yet as if they haven’t asked will you

yet as if they haven’t asked will you get it too how do you watch Phil Alice

get it too how do you watch Phil Alice

get it too how do you watch Phil Alice you should probably run some genetic

you should probably run some genetic

you should probably run some genetic tests so you don’t have the illness to

tests so you don’t have the illness to

tests so you don’t have the illness to your kids my kids I don’t have kids I do

your kids my kids I don’t have kids I do

your kids my kids I don’t have kids I do still have my mom so what is so

still have my mom so what is so

still have my mom so what is so distressing about this illness I

distressing about this illness I

distressing about this illness I questioned their premise I challenge it

questioned their premise I challenge it

questioned their premise I challenge it at the core my social attire of

at the core my social attire of

at the core my social attire of rebellion would not accept the letting

rebellion would not accept the letting

rebellion would not accept the letting go I longed to redefine this definition

go I longed to redefine this definition

go I longed to redefine this definition of gloom and hopelessness and doom what

of gloom and hopelessness and doom what

of gloom and hopelessness and doom what do you mean what’s distressing

do you mean what’s distressing

do you mean what’s distressing they retort with authorial conviction no

they retort with authorial conviction no

they retort with authorial conviction no hesitation in their voice how can you

hesitation in their voice how can you

hesitation in their voice how can you see the trouble in your own situation

see the trouble in your own situation

see the trouble in your own situation your mother is fading away her brain is

your mother is fading away her brain is

your mother is fading away her brain is full of holes like Swiss cheese melting

full of holes like Swiss cheese melting

full of holes like Swiss cheese melting away every time and your empire still

away every time and your empire still

away every time and your empire still warm a flame soon enough she won’t

warm a flame soon enough she won’t

warm a flame soon enough she won’t recognize her husband or you nor herself

she’s not fading away doctor she’s very

she’s not fading away doctor she’s very much present she’s right here next to me

much present she’s right here next to me

much present she’s right here next to me in front of you look at her she is even

in front of you look at her she is even

in front of you look at her she is even gaining weight the entire 24 pounds and

gaining weight the entire 24 pounds and

gaining weight the entire 24 pounds and still you can’t see her or talk to her

still you can’t see her or talk to her

still you can’t see her or talk to her instead you talk about her you see right

instead you talk about her you see right

instead you talk about her you see right through her sweetie sweetie you’re so

through her sweetie sweetie you’re so

through her sweetie sweetie you’re so lucky your mother is dying my mother my

lucky your mother is dying my mother my

lucky your mother is dying my mother my my mom my mom is dying that’s the final

my mom my mom is dying that’s the final

my mom my mom is dying that’s the final diagnosis the bottom line based on what

diagnosis the bottom line based on what

diagnosis the bottom line based on what an unusual behavior problematic you say

an unusual behavior problematic you say

an unusual behavior problematic you say or trying to be more maybe less

or trying to be more maybe less

or trying to be more maybe less politically correct behavioral

politically correct behavioral

politically correct behavioral disturbance that must be managed as if

disturbance that must be managed as if

disturbance that must be managed as if you don’t suffer from moods and bad days

you don’t suffer from moods and bad days

you don’t suffer from moods and bad days besides aren’t we all dying from the

besides aren’t we all dying from the

besides aren’t we all dying from the moment that we’re born you didn’t even

moment that we’re born you didn’t even

moment that we’re born you didn’t even look inside her to see and if you did

look inside her to see and if you did

look inside her to see and if you did what would you see scar tissue burn

what would you see scar tissue burn

what would you see scar tissue burn bridges massacres hunger or would you

bridges massacres hunger or would you

bridges massacres hunger or would you see a cemetery of dying cells or nothing

see a cemetery of dying cells or nothing

see a cemetery of dying cells or nothing to go with a metaphorical empty shell a

to go with a metaphorical empty shell a

to go with a metaphorical empty shell a lost soul perhaps perhaps it’s us who

lost soul perhaps perhaps it’s us who

lost soul perhaps perhaps it’s us who lose our souls our humanity or the

lose our souls our humanity or the

lose our souls our humanity or the memory of what it means being human of

memory of what it means being human of

memory of what it means being human of acceptance and social accountability and

acceptance and social accountability and

acceptance and social accountability and other insignificant values for these are

other insignificant values for these are

other insignificant values for these are easily forgotten especially when one

easily forgotten especially when one

easily forgotten especially when one deals with those who can’t read the time

deals with those who can’t read the time

deals with those who can’t read the time or count backwards from 100 in sequences

or count backwards from 100 in sequences

or count backwards from 100 in sequences of seven how do you quantify emptiness

of seven how do you quantify emptiness

of seven how do you quantify emptiness or death or life how dead is dead and

or death or life how dead is dead and

or death or life how dead is dead and what technology does one use to measure

what technology does one use to measure

what technology does one use to measure suffering a thermostat a blood-pressure

suffering a thermostat a blood-pressure

suffering a thermostat a blood-pressure meter

meter

meter a ruler perhaps these without any drop

a ruler perhaps these without any drop

a ruler perhaps these without any drop of doubt are the important things in

of doubt are the important things in

of doubt are the important things in life numbers names and knowing who the

life numbers names and knowing who the

life numbers names and knowing who the president is and how they are these are

president is and how they are these are

president is and how they are these are the things the fragments that define and

the things the fragments that define and

the things the fragments that define and constitute my identity and so these will

constitute my identity and so these will

constitute my identity and so these will make me and her joyful correct doctor so

make me and her joyful correct doctor so

make me and her joyful correct doctor so sure sure it is a tragedy that my mom

sure sure it is a tragedy that my mom

sure sure it is a tragedy that my mom doesn’t remember my name from time to

doesn’t remember my name from time to

doesn’t remember my name from time to time and instead she calls me my child

time and instead she calls me my child

time and instead she calls me my child and always remembers to light up with a

and always remembers to light up with a

and always remembers to light up with a smile and a hug upon seeing me so doctor

smile and a hug upon seeing me so doctor

smile and a hug upon seeing me so doctor I wish everybody could rejoice upon

I wish everybody could rejoice upon

I wish everybody could rejoice upon seeing my face the way she does because

seeing my face the way she does because

seeing my face the way she does because mom it’s not you it’s then you’re fine

[Applause]

[Applause] thank you so my mom was diagnosed with

thank you so my mom was diagnosed with

thank you so my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s at the age of 58 right after

Alzheimer’s at the age of 58 right after

Alzheimer’s at the age of 58 right after that we were told that we should forget

that we were told that we should forget

that we were told that we should forget about her and take care of ourselves no

about her and take care of ourselves no

about her and take care of ourselves no one told us how one forgets about a

one told us how one forgets about a

one told us how one forgets about a mother and no one told us how we should

mother and no one told us how we should

mother and no one told us how we should take care of ourselves for me as a 28

take care of ourselves for me as a 28

take care of ourselves for me as a 28 young young person I was not willing to

young young person I was not willing to

young young person I was not willing to accept this so I decided to look into

accept this so I decided to look into

accept this so I decided to look into what I could actually do to to find ways

what I could actually do to to find ways

what I could actually do to to find ways to engage in a meaningful way with my

to engage in a meaningful way with my

to engage in a meaningful way with my mom I wanted to have fun because

mom I wanted to have fun because

mom I wanted to have fun because everything I I saw when I went online

everything I I saw when I went online

everything I I saw when I went online was the prognosis the tragedy and

was the prognosis the tragedy and

was the prognosis the tragedy and essentially hopelessness I wanted

essentially hopelessness I wanted

essentially hopelessness I wanted something else I wanted I just wanted to

something else I wanted I just wanted to

something else I wanted I just wanted to have fun with my mom I wanted a way to

have fun with my mom I wanted a way to

have fun with my mom I wanted a way to connect so I did what an academic knows

connect so I did what an academic knows

connect so I did what an academic knows how to do best I registered into a ph.d

how to do best I registered into a ph.d

how to do best I registered into a ph.d program and so coming from the

program and so coming from the

program and so coming from the humanities and the arts I registered

humanities and the arts I registered

humanities and the arts I registered into a program in comparative literature

into a program in comparative literature

into a program in comparative literature here at the University of Toronto and I

here at the University of Toronto and I

here at the University of Toronto and I decided that I would like to explore the

decided that I would like to explore the

decided that I would like to explore the ways we talk about memory loss in our

ways we talk about memory loss in our

ways we talk about memory loss in our cultural imagination so as I was as I

cultural imagination so as I was as I

cultural imagination so as I was as I was researching the topic I I realized

was researching the topic I I realized

was researching the topic I I realized that a lot of language that we use in

that a lot of language that we use in

that a lot of language that we use in fiction in poetry actually migrates into

fiction in poetry actually migrates into

fiction in poetry actually migrates into clinical language into medical discourse

clinical language into medical discourse

clinical language into medical discourse into policy papers policy papers that

into policy papers policy papers that

into policy papers policy papers that impact and effect directly people’s

impact and effect directly people’s

impact and effect directly people’s lives policy papers that impact people’s

lives policy papers that impact people’s

lives policy papers that impact people’s language the same language and then

language the same language and then

language the same language and then people use to narrate their stories

people use to narrate their stories

people use to narrate their stories stories of despair of hopelessness of

stories of despair of hopelessness of

stories of despair of hopelessness of memory loss memory loss that qualifies

memory loss memory loss that qualifies

memory loss memory loss that qualifies everyone who seem to lose mem

everyone who seem to lose mem

everyone who seem to lose mem as losers it labels them as the losers

as losers it labels them as the losers

as losers it labels them as the losers who lost the lottery of health lost the

who lost the lottery of health lost the

who lost the lottery of health lost the lottery of remembering so I decided that

lottery of remembering so I decided that

lottery of remembering so I decided that they wanted to change it and I started

they wanted to change it and I started

they wanted to change it and I started researching into things that I knew and

researching into things that I knew and

researching into things that I knew and simultaneously started trying to engage

simultaneously started trying to engage

simultaneously started trying to engage with my mom through the world that I

with my mom through the world that I

with my mom through the world that I knew best

knew best

knew best so as an art historian who focused on

so as an art historian who focused on

so as an art historian who focused on photography I decided that I will show

photography I decided that I will show

photography I decided that I will show my mom photographs I will show her

my mom photographs I will show her

my mom photographs I will show her photographs it will trigger her memory

photographs it will trigger her memory

photographs it will trigger her memory this will be great huge disappointment

this will be great huge disappointment

this will be great huge disappointment no memory was triggered what was

no memory was triggered what was

no memory was triggered what was triggered however was imagination all of

triggered however was imagination all of

triggered however was imagination all of a sudden she was telling me stories her

a sudden she was telling me stories her

a sudden she was telling me stories her world opened up to me because all of a

world opened up to me because all of a

world opened up to me because all of a sudden I could see these characters

sudden I could see these characters

sudden I could see these characters coming to life from inside the images

coming to life from inside the images

coming to life from inside the images now at this moment we were not an

now at this moment we were not an

now at this moment we were not an Alzheimer’s patient and a caregiver at

Alzheimer’s patient and a caregiver at

Alzheimer’s patient and a caregiver at this moment we were two humans two

this moment we were two humans two

this moment we were two humans two people connecting through storytelling

people connecting through storytelling

people connecting through storytelling we were human the other thing that I

we were human the other thing that I

we were human the other thing that I tried with my mom except for photography

tried with my mom except for photography

tried with my mom except for photography was just listening so the art of

was just listening so the art of

was just listening so the art of improvisational theatre tells us that we

improvisational theatre tells us that we

improvisational theatre tells us that we should be in the moment and we should

should be in the moment and we should

should be in the moment and we should yes and everything the person says we

yes and everything the person says we

yes and everything the person says we should affirm and reaffirm what the

should affirm and reaffirm what the

should affirm and reaffirm what the person says and bring something new so I

person says and bring something new so I

person says and bring something new so I was trying to do that but sometimes it

was trying to do that but sometimes it

was trying to do that but sometimes it was really hard really challenging that

was really hard really challenging that

was really hard really challenging that is one time my mom and I was were in the

is one time my mom and I was were in the

is one time my mom and I was were in the car I was driving from one doctor to

car I was driving from one doctor to

car I was driving from one doctor to another

another

another it was the series of doctor’s

it was the series of doctor’s

it was the series of doctor’s appointments and so we stopped at the

appointments and so we stopped at the

appointments and so we stopped at the light and my mom who seems completely

light and my mom who seems completely

light and my mom who seems completely apathetic all of a sudden looks up and

apathetic all of a sudden looks up and

apathetic all of a sudden looks up and says a bird

says a bird

says a bird how do you respond to that I had an idea

how do you respond to that I had an idea

how do you respond to that I had an idea how to but I decided to do the only

how to but I decided to do the only

how to but I decided to do the only thing I knew or my body produced a sound

thing I knew or my body produced a sound

thing I knew or my body produced a sound basically I said mm-hmm I had no idea

basically I said mm-hmm I had no idea

basically I said mm-hmm I had no idea what’s going to come but all of a sudden

what’s going to come but all of a sudden

what’s going to come but all of a sudden it triggered something new now I will

it triggered something new now I will

it triggered something new now I will tell you what triggered right after I’ll

tell you what triggered right after I’ll

tell you what triggered right after I’ll tell you something about about this

tell you something about about this

tell you something about about this sound so the new is a response it’s

sound so the new is a response it’s

sound so the new is a response it’s something that we do often times when we

something that we do often times when we

something that we do often times when we have a conversation and this is how the

have a conversation and this is how the

have a conversation and this is how the person in conversation with us knows

person in conversation with us knows

person in conversation with us knows that we are listening that we are

that we are listening that we are

that we are listening that we are affirming them now right now for

affirming them now right now for

affirming them now right now for instance me standing on the stage alone

instance me standing on the stage alone

instance me standing on the stage alone in the quiet auditorium not hearing any

in the quiet auditorium not hearing any

in the quiet auditorium not hearing any moon sound makes me feel that maybe I’m

moon sound makes me feel that maybe I’m

moon sound makes me feel that maybe I’m wasting your time maybe my story is not

wasting your time maybe my story is not

wasting your time maybe my story is not valuable so if if only someone could

valuable so if if only someone could

valuable so if if only someone could make a sound that would be great thank

make a sound that would be great thank

make a sound that would be great thank you so much

you so much

you so much so so this hmm produced another leap of

so so this hmm produced another leap of

so so this hmm produced another leap of imagination from my mom and so she said

imagination from my mom and so she said

imagination from my mom and so she said it’s the keeper the bird was the keeper

it’s the keeper the bird was the keeper

it’s the keeper the bird was the keeper now I had no idea where this was going

now I had no idea where this was going

now I had no idea where this was going but I was curious at this stage and so I

but I was curious at this stage and so I

but I was curious at this stage and so I asked her keeper of what she paused for

asked her keeper of what she paused for

asked her keeper of what she paused for a moment and said the clouds of course

keeper of the clouds my mom was a poet

keeper of the clouds my mom was a poet who knew I’ll tell you more about keeper

who knew I’ll tell you more about keeper

who knew I’ll tell you more about keeper of the clouds right after this so this

of the clouds right after this so this

of the clouds right after this so this is me trying to research more into into

is me trying to research more into into

is me trying to research more into into art realizing that I am really happy

art realizing that I am really happy

art realizing that I am really happy finding all this information because

finding all this information because

finding all this information because it’s out there you can find so much

it’s out there you can find so much

it’s out there you can find so much information about arts arts

information about arts arts

information about arts arts interventions in dementia care and it’s

interventions in dementia care and it’s

interventions in dementia care and it’s beautiful and it’s it’s wonderful and

beautiful and it’s it’s wonderful and

beautiful and it’s it’s wonderful and there is so much done in music and

there is so much done in music and

there is so much done in music and healthcare in social clownin and health

healthcare in social clownin and health

healthcare in social clownin and health care the only problem is that this

care the only problem is that this

care the only problem is that this information about all these

information about all these

information about all these interventions all these amazing research

interventions all these amazing research

interventions all these amazing research that is being done not is not translated

that is being done not is not translated

that is being done not is not translated to the popular culture and so we are

to the popular culture and so we are

to the popular culture and so we are still using the same language to talk

still using the same language to talk

still using the same language to talk about dementia the stigma persists its

about dementia the stigma persists its

about dementia the stigma persists its perpetuated at all times we’re still

perpetuated at all times we’re still

perpetuated at all times we’re still talking about memory loss as memory loss

talking about memory loss as memory loss

talking about memory loss as memory loss we’re still talking about people with

we’re still talking about people with

we’re still talking about people with dementia as sufferers my mum doesn’t

dementia as sufferers my mum doesn’t

dementia as sufferers my mum doesn’t suffer so I decided that we need to do

suffer so I decided that we need to do

suffer so I decided that we need to do something about that

something about that

something about that how shall we change it I needed to find

how shall we change it I needed to find

how shall we change it I needed to find out how do I actually interrupt and

out how do I actually interrupt and

out how do I actually interrupt and disrupt the stigma so arts seemed to

disrupt the stigma so arts seemed to

disrupt the stigma so arts seemed to work for me and my mom and so I

work for me and my mom and so I

work for me and my mom and so I continued looking for more more options

continued looking for more more options

continued looking for more more options to actually interrupt this stigma and

to actually interrupt this stigma and

to actually interrupt this stigma and disrupt it and this is when I ended up

disrupt it and this is when I ended up

disrupt it and this is when I ended up actually writing keeper of the clouds

actually writing keeper of the clouds

actually writing keeper of the clouds and turning it into a graphic memoir a

and turning it into a graphic memoir a

and turning it into a graphic memoir a very short one illustrated by the

very short one illustrated by the

very short one illustrated by the amazing AV templed

amazing AV templed

amazing AV templed who at the time was 17 today she’s 18 so

who at the time was 17 today she’s 18 so

who at the time was 17 today she’s 18 so this was a collaborative project and

this was a collaborative project and

this was a collaborative project and this collaborative project has become

this collaborative project has become

this collaborative project has become parked a huge part actually of our

parked a huge part actually of our

parked a huge part actually of our family’s Alzheimer’s experience this

family’s Alzheimer’s experience this

family’s Alzheimer’s experience this artistic collaboration has become part

artistic collaboration has become part

artistic collaboration has become part of what people assume to be

of what people assume to be

of what people assume to be a disaster a suffering experience so we

a disaster a suffering experience so we

a disaster a suffering experience so we what we did was to draw from our

what we did was to draw from our

what we did was to draw from our challenging experiences they are

challenging experiences they are

challenging experiences they are challenging experiences because it is a

challenging experiences because it is a

challenging experiences because it is a life altered condition but these

life altered condition but these

life altered condition but these challenging experiences were used by us

challenging experiences were used by us

challenging experiences were used by us as raw materials for creative production

as raw materials for creative production

as raw materials for creative production realizing that this is possible was a

realizing that this is possible was a

realizing that this is possible was a huge affirmation for me that what I was

huge affirmation for me that what I was

huge affirmation for me that what I was on the road to create was the right

on the road to create was the right

on the road to create was the right thing last week John he’s 46 he lives in

thing last week John he’s 46 he lives in

thing last week John he’s 46 he lives in Michigan and he’s an artist living with

Michigan and he’s an artist living with

Michigan and he’s an artist living with dementia

dementia

dementia he read keeper of the clouds to his

he read keeper of the clouds to his

he read keeper of the clouds to his six-year-old son and wrote me their

six-year-old son and wrote me their

six-year-old son and wrote me their impressions together he said that my

impressions together he said that my

impressions together he said that my story inspired him to tell his story now

story inspired him to tell his story now

story inspired him to tell his story now this is something to me that it’s so

this is something to me that it’s so

this is something to me that it’s so important and so fulfilling to hear that

important and so fulfilling to hear that

important and so fulfilling to hear that because it means that there are going to

because it means that there are going to

because it means that there are going to be more stories more voices that are not

be more stories more voices that are not

be more stories more voices that are not infiltrated by the stigma that are not

infiltrated by the stigma that are not

infiltrated by the stigma that are not contaminated by the loss there will be

contaminated by the loss there will be

contaminated by the loss there will be still loss but the loss might change the

still loss but the loss might change the

still loss but the loss might change the meaning of the loss might change and

meaning of the loss might change and

meaning of the loss might change and this is what counts the more voices

this is what counts the more voices

this is what counts the more voices we’ll have the more diversity in the

we’ll have the more diversity in the

we’ll have the more diversity in the narrative structure we will have so

narrative structure we will have so

narrative structure we will have so seeing that I have I’ve created arts for

seeing that I have I’ve created arts for

seeing that I have I’ve created arts for dementia and arts for dementia it’s a

dementia and arts for dementia it’s a

dementia and arts for dementia it’s a portal a social portal that aggregates

portal a social portal that aggregates

portal a social portal that aggregates and maps all the projects and creative

and maps all the projects and creative

and maps all the projects and creative endeavors around the world we’re

endeavors around the world we’re

endeavors around the world we’re actually using the internet the way it

actually using the internet the way it

actually using the internet the way it should be used because oftentimes you

should be used because oftentimes you

should be used because oftentimes you see that there is a amazing project in

see that there is a amazing project in

see that there is a amazing project in England and then you try to reach out

England and then you try to reach out

England and then you try to reach out for to them for funding and they tell

for to them for funding and they tell

for to them for funding and they tell you oh no but you’re in Canada so the

you oh no but you’re in Canada so the

you oh no but you’re in Canada so the idea is for all the projects around the

idea is for all the projects around the

idea is for all the projects around the world to be under the same

world to be under the same

world to be under the same umbrella of arts for dementia so it will

umbrella of arts for dementia so it will

umbrella of arts for dementia so it will be accessible and easily found such that

be accessible and easily found such that

be accessible and easily found such that clinicians could actually refer their

clinicians could actually refer their

clinicians could actually refer their patients to arts for dementia we have a

patients to arts for dementia we have a

patients to arts for dementia we have a network a global network of people who

network a global network of people who

network a global network of people who are creating and realizing that even

are creating and realizing that even

are creating and realizing that even when they’re in the most challenging

when they’re in the most challenging

when they’re in the most challenging situation in their life they can still

situation in their life they can still

situation in their life they can still do something we should be able to live

do something we should be able to live

do something we should be able to live with dementia rather than just die from

with dementia rather than just die from

with dementia rather than just die from it

it

it and this is why improving quality of

and this is why improving quality of

and this is why improving quality of life with dementia is so important it’s

life with dementia is so important it’s

life with dementia is so important it’s so crucial

so crucial

so crucial so apart from providing a space to

so apart from providing a space to

so apart from providing a space to actually collaborate on projects and

actually collaborate on projects and

actually collaborate on projects and create our own projects around the world

create our own projects around the world

create our own projects around the world we’re also creating educational programs

we’re also creating educational programs

we’re also creating educational programs and collaborations between between

and collaborations between between

and collaborations between between artists and and the most recent

artists and and the most recent

artists and and the most recent collaboration we are creating with the

collaboration we are creating with the

collaboration we are creating with the second veni vidi multiplex and who are

second veni vidi multiplex and who are

second veni vidi multiplex and who are actually there working is it exhibited

actually there working is it exhibited

actually there working is it exhibited at the distillery district right now in

at the distillery district right now in

at the distillery district right now in Toronto at the light fest and their trio

Toronto at the light fest and their trio

Toronto at the light fest and their trio from the Netherlands and they’re

from the Netherlands and they’re

from the Netherlands and they’re interested to to create a public art

interested to to create a public art

interested to to create a public art installation to help to help connect

installation to help to help connect

installation to help to help connect with people with dementia so this is my

with people with dementia so this is my

with people with dementia so this is my mom

mom

mom today and this is my dad today my mom is

today and this is my dad today my mom is

today and this is my dad today my mom is no longer walking she’s bedridden and

no longer walking she’s bedridden and

no longer walking she’s bedridden and she’s no longer talking and yet whenever

she’s no longer talking and yet whenever

she’s no longer talking and yet whenever she sees my dad my brother or myself

she sees my dad my brother or myself

she sees my dad my brother or myself she always lights up with a smile and

she always lights up with a smile and

she always lights up with a smile and this tells something to us it tells us

this tells something to us it tells us

this tells something to us it tells us that it means that our positive our

that it means that our positive our

that it means that our positive our engagement with her through arts creates

engagement with her through arts creates

engagement with her through arts creates something creates this positive

something creates this positive

something creates this positive connection that allows her to still

connection that allows her to still

connection that allows her to still rejoice upon seeing us so the note that

rejoice upon seeing us so the note that

rejoice upon seeing us so the note that I want to end this talk is actually that

I want to end this talk is actually that

I want to end this talk is actually that if we work together because arts for

if we work together because arts for

if we work together because arts for dementia is a beginning

dementia is a beginning

dementia is a beginning it’s just a start and if we work

it’s just a start and if we work

it’s just a start and if we work together we can actually spread the word

together we can actually spread the word

together we can actually spread the word that there are ways to live well and

that there are ways to live well and

that there are ways to live well and have fun with dementia the dementia is

have fun with dementia the dementia is

have fun with dementia the dementia is not the end thank you

not the end thank you

not the end thank you [Applause]

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