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The Art of Jewish Parenting | Raphael Genis | TEDxLingnanUniversitySalon


name is Rafa Janice thank you for coming

name is Rafa Janice thank you for coming tonight

tonight

tonight before we start would like to know there

before we start would like to know there

before we start would like to know there are no parents here right nobody yet one

are no parents here right nobody yet one

are no parents here right nobody yet one – who wants to be a parent in the future

– who wants to be a parent in the future

– who wants to be a parent in the future only one – okay so like that so I know

only one – okay so like that so I know

only one – okay so like that so I know that I guess you all heard about Jewish

that I guess you all heard about Jewish

that I guess you all heard about Jewish that are successful you all heard about

that are successful you all heard about

that are successful you all heard about Jewish everything there chief that’s the

Jewish everything there chief that’s the

Jewish everything there chief that’s the what but how many about you heard about

what but how many about you heard about

what but how many about you heard about Jewish why what’s behind their success

Jewish why what’s behind their success

Jewish why what’s behind their success that’s what I’m basically want to give

that’s what I’m basically want to give

that’s what I’m basically want to give you tonight to make you understand why

you tonight to make you understand why

you tonight to make you understand why choice are so successful so tonight we

choice are so successful so tonight we

choice are so successful so tonight we are going to speak about the art of

are going to speak about the art of

are going to speak about the art of Jewish education the art why art we

Jewish education the art why art we

Jewish education the art why art we speak about football player we speak

speak about football player we speak

speak about football player we speak about doctor we speak about the painter

about doctor we speak about the painter

about doctor we speak about the painter there are all kinds of art and Jewish

there are all kinds of art and Jewish

there are all kinds of art and Jewish the same education parenting is also a

the same education parenting is also a

the same education parenting is also a kind of art that you have to master why

kind of art that you have to master why

kind of art that you have to master why Jewish because we speak about Nouveau

Jewish because we speak about Nouveau

Jewish because we speak about Nouveau odds we speak about baroque we think

odds we speak about baroque we think

odds we speak about baroque we think about pop there are all different styles

about pop there are all different styles

about pop there are all different styles and Jewish is also kind of parenting

and Jewish is also kind of parenting

and Jewish is also kind of parenting style a few years ago I read a very

style a few years ago I read a very

style a few years ago I read a very interesting book called Luna Park life

interesting book called Luna Park life

interesting book called Luna Park life is the Luna Park this book introduced me

is the Luna Park this book introduced me

is the Luna Park this book introduced me to a very interesting concept this

to a very interesting concept this

to a very interesting concept this concept is the game that I used in the

concept is the game that I used in the

concept is the game that I used in the seminars that I’m speaking with Chinese

seminars that I’m speaking with Chinese

seminars that I’m speaking with Chinese parents it takes much more than one two

parents it takes much more than one two

parents it takes much more than one two minutes but basically I’m doing it with

minutes but basically I’m doing it with

minutes but basically I’m doing it with the Chinese parents and I actually what

the Chinese parents and I actually what

the Chinese parents and I actually what I’m giving them is ten options to choose

I’m giving them is ten options to choose

I’m giving them is ten options to choose from and this option is everything what

from and this option is everything what

from and this option is everything what students want to have in its life but at

students want to have in its life but at

students want to have in its life but at the end they can only choose three

the end they can only choose three

the end they can only choose three different people choose different things

different people choose different things

different people choose different things work love sense of humor etc etc

work love sense of humor etc etc

work love sense of humor etc etc according to your age according to your

according to your age according to your

according to your age according to your cultural background to your gender you

cultural background to your gender you

cultural background to your gender you will choose different things but there’s

will choose different things but there’s

will choose different things but there’s an interesting thing with the people I

an interesting thing with the people I

an interesting thing with the people I speak with about 80% and actually in

speak with about 80% and actually in

speak with about 80% and actually in China it’s more about hundred percent

China it’s more about hundred percent

China it’s more about hundred percent the people there’s one thing that they

the people there’s one thing that they

the people there’s one thing that they are not willing to give up having

are not willing to give up having

are not willing to give up having children and that’s interesting but the

children and that’s interesting but the

children and that’s interesting but the more interesting thing is while their

more interesting thing is while their

more interesting thing is while their confidence to choose children not to

confidence to choose children not to

confidence to choose children not to give up on the noticed confidence to

give up on the noticed confidence to

give up on the noticed confidence to answer the next question why having

answer the next question why having

answer the next question why having children and thanks God my dad is a

children and thanks God my dad is a

children and thanks God my dad is a doctor and not only a doctor is the only

doctor and not only a doctor is the only

doctor and not only a doctor is the only doctor that brings happiness to people

doctor that brings happiness to people

doctor that brings happiness to people and the absolute luckily is though that

and the absolute luckily is though that

and the absolute luckily is though that he’s the one that and I was looking to

he’s the one that and I was looking to

he’s the one that and I was looking to answer this question and basically he’s

answer this question and basically he’s

answer this question and basically he’s a genie color by the way I came to him

a genie color by the way I came to him

a genie color by the way I came to him and asked why Jewish want to have sorry

and asked why Jewish want to have sorry

and asked why Jewish want to have sorry excuse me

excuse me

excuse me wipe why we want to have children and my

wipe why we want to have children and my

wipe why we want to have children and my dad told me because as a theological

dad told me because as a theological

dad told me because as a theological need we want to have children because

need we want to have children because

need we want to have children because reproduction to survive so I know this

reproduction to survive so I know this

reproduction to survive so I know this as everything basically what we want but

as everything basically what we want but

as everything basically what we want but more what’s more so two weeks ago I

more what’s more so two weeks ago I

more what’s more so two weeks ago I spoke with my Chinese friends he’s a bit

spoke with my Chinese friends he’s a bit

spoke with my Chinese friends he’s a bit younger than me she does not have

younger than me she does not have

younger than me she does not have children and I asked her you have this

children and I asked her you have this

children and I asked her you have this game you have ten options what are you

game you have ten options what are you

game you have ten options what are you going to choose you can eliminate one by

going to choose you can eliminate one by

going to choose you can eliminate one by one and keep three to the end what we

one and keep three to the end what we

one and keep three to the end what we would like to choose and she was very

would like to choose and she was very

would like to choose and she was very sure no I don’t need to eliminate them

sure no I don’t need to eliminate them

sure no I don’t need to eliminate them one by one I can tell you straight away

one by one I can tell you straight away

one by one I can tell you straight away I want to have money work and children

I want to have money work and children

I want to have money work and children very confident but then when I ask her

very confident but then when I ask her

very confident but then when I ask her okay why do you want to have children

okay why do you want to have children

okay why do you want to have children she looked at me like what the hell and

she looked at me like what the hell and

she looked at me like what the hell and of course I must have children and

of course I must have children and

of course I must have children and that’s interesting because when I heard

that’s interesting because when I heard

that’s interesting because when I heard this I asked you must why and then she

this I asked you must why and then she

this I asked you must why and then she didn’t know what to answer

and then after a few seconds of thinking

and then after a few seconds of thinking it came out anyway we’ll Mayo hydro or

it came out anyway we’ll Mayo hydro or

it came out anyway we’ll Mayo hydro or Joe Boucher go unchain the notion

Joe Boucher go unchain the notion

Joe Boucher go unchain the notion because if I don’t have a child I’m not

because if I don’t have a child I’m not

because if I don’t have a child I’m not a perfect woman and now you can

a perfect woman and now you can

a perfect woman and now you can understand watch any society thinks

understand watch any society thinks

understand watch any society thinks about feminism and about children but

about feminism and about children but

about feminism and about children but actually I quite respect this girl my

actually I quite respect this girl my

actually I quite respect this girl my friend because she says what she thinks

friend because she says what she thinks

friend because she says what she thinks and there are other people who think and

and there are other people who think and

and there are other people who think and say different things this another parent

say different things this another parent

say different things this another parent that I was speaking to and asked another

that I was speaking to and asked another

that I was speaking to and asked another question what do you want for your child

question what do you want for your child

question what do you want for your child what did they say I want my child to be

what did they say I want my child to be

what did they say I want my child to be happy to be healthy and then I asked and

happy to be healthy and then I asked and

happy to be healthy and then I asked and if your child would be a waiter in a

if your child would be a waiter in a

if your child would be a waiter in a coffee store no no no no no I asked why

coffee store no no no no no I asked why

coffee store no no no no no I asked why not because I thought a career home want

not because I thought a career home want

not because I thought a career home want my child to have a career but what

my child to have a career but what

my child to have a career but what they’re actually telling you it’s

they’re actually telling you it’s

they’re actually telling you it’s noticed what they’re actually telling

noticed what they’re actually telling

noticed what they’re actually telling you I gave birth to my child because

you I gave birth to my child because

you I gave birth to my child because it’s my business card and my business

it’s my business card and my business

it’s my business card and my business card I need to show off outside and if

card I need to show off outside and if

card I need to show off outside and if my child would be a waiter in a coffee

my child would be a waiter in a coffee

my child would be a waiter in a coffee store then I will not have face right

store then I will not have face right

store then I will not have face right and then the other parents which I guess

and then the other parents which I guess

and then the other parents which I guess you are hearing often saying oh my child

you are hearing often saying oh my child

you are hearing often saying oh my child is so good he’s so similar as I was when

is so good he’s so similar as I was when

is so good he’s so similar as I was when I was younger he played the piano he’s

I was younger he played the piano he’s

I was younger he played the piano he’s talented he sings he does business etc

talented he sings he does business etc

talented he sings he does business etc etc but what they’re actually telling

etc but what they’re actually telling

etc but what they’re actually telling them you I’m so proud of my child not

them you I’m so proud of my child not

them you I’m so proud of my child not because we is because he can continue my

because we is because he can continue my

because we is because he can continue my legacy to live the life that I wanted

legacy to live the life that I wanted

legacy to live the life that I wanted but could not live and that’s everything

but could not live and that’s everything

but could not live and that’s everything nice but I was looking more how come

nice but I was looking more how come

nice but I was looking more how come that all the people choose that they

that all the people choose that they

that all the people choose that they want to have children but he still they

want to have children but he still they

want to have children but he still they don’t give you the exact answer so I

don’t give you the exact answer so I

don’t give you the exact answer so I went to my best friend which i think is

went to my best friend which i think is

went to my best friend which i think is also your best friend Google and I

also your best friend Google and I

also your best friend Google and I google it I wrote family with children

google it I wrote family with children

google it I wrote family with children and what it showed family parents with

and what it showed family parents with

and what it showed family parents with children all happy smiling but if you

children all happy smiling but if you

children all happy smiling but if you see on the keyword I never wrote smile

see on the keyword I never wrote smile

see on the keyword I never wrote smile happiness and that made me think how

happiness and that made me think how

happiness and that made me think how come that all the parents with their

come that all the parents with their

come that all the parents with their children family are all happy

children family are all happy

children family are all happy interesting right is it really like this

interesting right is it really like this

interesting right is it really like this that parents that have a children one

that parents that have a children one

that parents that have a children one two years old that are crying at night

two years old that are crying at night

two years old that are crying at night or children with 12 14 years old that

or children with 12 14 years old that

or children with 12 14 years old that are naughty that are not listening to

are naughty that are not listening to

are naughty that are not listening to them either really happier than they

them either really happier than they

them either really happier than they were before before having children I’m

were before before having children I’m

were before before having children I’m not sure why do Jewish want to have

not sure why do Jewish want to have

not sure why do Jewish want to have children

children

children that’s a good question we will answer it

that’s a good question we will answer it

that’s a good question we will answer it later but before this I think what we

later but before this I think what we

later but before this I think what we need to answer is what is parenting what

need to answer is what is parenting what

need to answer is what is parenting what is the parents all about the parent is

is the parents all about the parent is

is the parents all about the parent is it a verb or a noun we know that parents

it a verb or a noun we know that parents

it a verb or a noun we know that parents want to raise a healthy happy child but

want to raise a healthy happy child but

want to raise a healthy happy child but before it they need to insert emotional

before it they need to insert emotional

before it they need to insert emotional being in your child to possess this the

being in your child to possess this the

being in your child to possess this the first thing they need to do is security

first thing they need to do is security

first thing they need to do is security when I say security is not physical it’s

when I say security is not physical it’s

when I say security is not physical it’s emotional it’s spiritual it’s mental

emotional it’s spiritual it’s mental

emotional it’s spiritual it’s mental security let the child know that you

security let the child know that you

security let the child know that you accept him as he is for whatever he is

accept him as he is for whatever he is

accept him as he is for whatever he is without any preconditions I saw a very

without any preconditions I saw a very

without any preconditions I saw a very interesting TED very inspiring speech by

interesting TED very inspiring speech by

interesting TED very inspiring speech by Andrew Solomon love no matter what in

Andrew Solomon love no matter what in

Andrew Solomon love no matter what in this he says that a child when he

this he says that a child when he

this he says that a child when he developed his horizontal identity needs

developed his horizontal identity needs

developed his horizontal identity needs three things self acceptance a family

three things self acceptance a family

three things self acceptance a family acceptance he and social acceptance E

acceptance he and social acceptance E

acceptance he and social acceptance E and I say before his child can self

and I say before his child can self

and I say before his child can self accept himself he needs someone else to

accept himself he needs someone else to

accept himself he needs someone else to accept himself and this someone else is

accept himself and this someone else is

accept himself and this someone else is not just someone it’s the most important

not just someone it’s the most important

not just someone it’s the most important person in his life his parents

with hon that’s a verb a word in Hebrew

with hon that’s a verb a word in Hebrew Hebrew is the official language of

Hebrew is the official language of

Hebrew is the official language of Israel which to a certain extent might

Israel which to a certain extent might

Israel which to a certain extent might be also the official language of the

be also the official language of the

be also the official language of the Jewish why I’m telling you this because

Jewish why I’m telling you this because

Jewish why I’m telling you this because bitter horn means security but what else

bitter horn means security but what else

bitter horn means security but what else it also means confidence and that’s the

it also means confidence and that’s the

it also means confidence and that’s the thing not like English or Chinese in

thing not like English or Chinese in

thing not like English or Chinese in Hebrew security and confidence are the

Hebrew security and confidence are the

Hebrew security and confidence are the same word interlinked what does it tell

same word interlinked what does it tell

same word interlinked what does it tell us it tells us in the Jewish mindset

us it tells us in the Jewish mindset

us it tells us in the Jewish mindset people believe that if you don’t give

people believe that if you don’t give

people believe that if you don’t give the child security from the outside you

the child security from the outside you

the child security from the outside you will never be able to develop confidence

will never be able to develop confidence

will never be able to develop confidence from the inside as simple as it is the

from the inside as simple as it is the

from the inside as simple as it is the second thing the Chinese is drop your

second thing the Chinese is drop your

second thing the Chinese is drop your other world is traditional and modern

other world is traditional and modern

other world is traditional and modern Chinese what’s a different I think that

Chinese what’s a different I think that

Chinese what’s a different I think that you can loosen look in the character and

you can loosen look in the character and

you can loosen look in the character and see the difference between the

see the difference between the

see the difference between the expression of Chinese flag and Jewish of

expression of Chinese flag and Jewish of

expression of Chinese flag and Jewish of love why Chinese use modern expression

love why Chinese use modern expression

love why Chinese use modern expression of love as you see in the character

of love as you see in the character

of love as you see in the character there is no heart in it it lacks the

there is no heart in it it lacks the

there is no heart in it it lacks the heart in it and so the expression like

heart in it and so the expression like

heart in it and so the expression like the feeling the emotion in China is

the feeling the emotion in China is

the feeling the emotion in China is everything about how much money you

everything about how much money you

everything about how much money you spend for your child is about which

spend for your child is about which

spend for your child is about which courses with school you send them about

courses with school you send them about

courses with school you send them about prizes reward but not what the child

prizes reward but not what the child

prizes reward but not what the child really wants a need for the Jewish it’s

really wants a need for the Jewish it’s

really wants a need for the Jewish it’s not so much about money as it is about

not so much about money as it is about

not so much about money as it is about the time you spend about what do you

the time you spend about what do you

the time you spend about what do you read how you educate how you communicate

read how you educate how you communicate

read how you educate how you communicate how you speak how you play with your

how you speak how you play with your

how you speak how you play with your child many times when I speak with

child many times when I speak with

child many times when I speak with Chinese parent I feel that they are very

Chinese parent I feel that they are very

Chinese parent I feel that they are very angry very frustrated and they say I

angry very frustrated and they say I

angry very frustrated and they say I give to my child everything I give him

give to my child everything I give him

give to my child everything I give him the best school the best courses the

the best school the best courses the

the best school the best courses the best teachers but Phil

he does not appreciate it and I listened

he does not appreciate it and I listened and listened and listened and then when

and listened and listened and then when

and listened and listened and then when they finish I say but did you ask him

they finish I say but did you ask him

they finish I say but did you ask him what he wants

what he wants

what he wants does he really wants this did you even

does he really wants this did you even

does he really wants this did you even ask him if you want to come to this

ask him if you want to come to this

ask him if you want to come to this world or it was your own selfish

world or it was your own selfish

world or it was your own selfish decision and then they look at me like

decision and then they look at me like

decision and then they look at me like I’m an alien speaking Arabic or any

I’m an alien speaking Arabic or any

I’m an alien speaking Arabic or any other language they don’t understand

other language they don’t understand

other language they don’t understand right but yet that’s the truth in China

right but yet that’s the truth in China

right but yet that’s the truth in China a child is an investment young our

a child is an investment young our

a child is an investment young our family you know this

you gave for a child when he’s younger

you gave for a child when he’s younger in order to accept to give you back when

in order to accept to give you back when

in order to accept to give you back when you are old you invest because you

you are old you invest because you

you are old you invest because you expect a return in China it is like this

expect a return in China it is like this

expect a return in China it is like this you give for your child so when you get

you give for your child so when you get

you give for your child so when you get older he can accompany you can stay next

older he can accompany you can stay next

older he can accompany you can stay next to you you will not be lonely

to you you will not be lonely

to you you will not be lonely you will feel secure by Jewish choice is

you will feel secure by Jewish choice is

you will feel secure by Jewish choice is more than this it’s about responsibility

more than this it’s about responsibility

more than this it’s about responsibility from two parts from the collective part

from two parts from the collective part

from two parts from the collective part to transfer your child the Jewish legend

to transfer your child the Jewish legend

to transfer your child the Jewish legend see the history the stories the values

see the history the stories the values

see the history the stories the values the more of the ethics and for the

the more of the ethics and for the

the more of the ethics and for the personal aspect it’s about the knowledge

personal aspect it’s about the knowledge

personal aspect it’s about the knowledge the experience because we as Jewish

the experience because we as Jewish

the experience because we as Jewish believe that this is the only way you

believe that this is the only way you

believe that this is the only way you can really contribute to the next

can really contribute to the next

can really contribute to the next generation to make your child life and

generation to make your child life and

generation to make your child life and the world around us better and happier

the world around us better and happier

the world around us better and happier our starting point in Jewish is that

our starting point in Jewish is that

our starting point in Jewish is that each child has his wings you can fly he

each child has his wings you can fly he

each child has his wings you can fly he has the talent and gift but neither the

has the talent and gift but neither the

has the talent and gift but neither the child nor the parent know what it is so

child nor the parent know what it is so

child nor the parent know what it is so you cannot decide choose for your

you cannot decide choose for your

you cannot decide choose for your parents for your child what you can do

parents for your child what you can do

parents for your child what you can do is guide him help him to find out to

is guide him help him to find out to

is guide him help him to find out to discover who is and what he should do

people believe that each child can sell

people believe that each child can sell for himself Jewish believed a child must

for himself Jewish believed a child must

for himself Jewish believed a child must self of themselves because only if you

self of themselves because only if you

self of themselves because only if you sell fulfill yourself then you can

sell fulfill yourself then you can

sell fulfill yourself then you can really find true happiness

a child will only open his wings and try

a child will only open his wings and try to fly once he feel safe in the nest

to fly once he feel safe in the nest

to fly once he feel safe in the nest every child when it comes to this word

every child when it comes to this word

every child when it comes to this word has the wings he’s full with passion

has the wings he’s full with passion

has the wings he’s full with passion with curiosity to discover to explore

with curiosity to discover to explore

with curiosity to discover to explore but unfortunately not every child will

but unfortunately not every child will

but unfortunately not every child will be able to open his wings because before

be able to open his wings because before

be able to open his wings because before you are able to physically open your

you are able to physically open your

you are able to physically open your wings and fly you need to have the

wings and fly you need to have the

wings and fly you need to have the mental confidence to do this and that’s

mental confidence to do this and that’s

mental confidence to do this and that’s where the parent come to the game it’s

where the parent come to the game it’s

where the parent come to the game it’s up to the parents to inject this mental

up to the parents to inject this mental

up to the parents to inject this mental confidence into the child now you

confidence into the child now you

confidence into the child now you understand how important the parents are

understand how important the parents are

understand how important the parents are for the child you know in China many

for the child you know in China many

for the child you know in China many times I feel that a parent cared more

times I feel that a parent cared more

times I feel that a parent cared more about the outcomes in the process it’s

about the outcomes in the process it’s

about the outcomes in the process it’s rather about answering question not

rather about answering question not

rather about answering question not asking question it’s about learning not

asking question it’s about learning not

asking question it’s about learning not about trying and that good and nice and

about trying and that good and nice and

about trying and that good and nice and there is nothing wrong about this but

there is nothing wrong about this but

there is nothing wrong about this but then the parents should not be surprised

then the parents should not be surprised

then the parents should not be surprised when at the age of 18 19 20 descenders

when at the age of 18 19 20 descenders

when at the age of 18 19 20 descenders child abroad and after 1-2 years they

child abroad and after 1-2 years they

child abroad and after 1-2 years they just come back because they could not

just come back because they could not

just come back because they could not make it because they could not survive

make it because they could not survive

make it because they could not survive adopt it’s as easy as it sounds when you

adopt it’s as easy as it sounds when you

adopt it’s as easy as it sounds when you are young you have your wings you need

are young you have your wings you need

are young you have your wings you need to try to fly to fall to make mistakes

to try to fly to fall to make mistakes

to try to fly to fall to make mistakes so you will know how to use them when

so you will know how to use them when

so you will know how to use them when you get older because when you are young

you get older because when you are young

you get older because when you are young the mistakes are your experience and the

the mistakes are your experience and the

the mistakes are your experience and the more experience you have the more

more experience you have the more

more experience you have the more mistakes you do the more professional

mistakes you do the more professional

mistakes you do the more professional you become what do you want for your

you become what do you want for your

you become what do you want for your child

child

child a Chinese parent and the Jewish parents

a Chinese parent and the Jewish parents

a Chinese parent and the Jewish parents does not want the same thing a Chinese

does not want the same thing a Chinese

does not want the same thing a Chinese parent as the image shows want the child

parent as the image shows want the child

parent as the image shows want the child to be happy

but then I asked so why do you give your

but then I asked so why do you give your child so much stress about school

child so much stress about school

child so much stress about school because if he was study good he will get

because if he was study good he will get

because if he was study good he will get good grades get a good job and then get

good grades get a good job and then get

good grades get a good job and then get a good paycheck so success is the region

a good paycheck so success is the region

a good paycheck so success is the region the source of happiness but for us

the source of happiness but for us

the source of happiness but for us Jewish for us Jewish is rather about

Jewish for us Jewish is rather about

Jewish for us Jewish is rather about developing a child it is B and become B

developing a child it is B and become B

developing a child it is B and become B it’s about self fulfilling yourself

it’s about self fulfilling yourself

it’s about self fulfilling yourself being happy with what you do and then

being happy with what you do and then

being happy with what you do and then only then you can contribute and help

only then you can contribute and help

only then you can contribute and help others and become become it’s about a

others and become become it’s about a

others and become become it’s about a child it’s never stop learning never

child it’s never stop learning never

child it’s never stop learning never stop growing never stop changing B and

stop growing never stop changing B and

stop growing never stop changing B and become what I mention a man is the words

become what I mention a man is the words

become what I mention a man is the words from Yiddish old language spoken by the

from Yiddish old language spoken by the

from Yiddish old language spoken by the Jewish abroad

Jewish abroad

Jewish abroad it means a man a human being because we

it means a man a human being because we

it means a man a human being because we Jewish believe that being a person of

Jewish believe that being a person of

Jewish believe that being a person of values is more important than being a

values is more important than being a

values is more important than being a person of success because values

person of success because values

person of success because values remained success disappears and at the

remained success disappears and at the

remained success disappears and at the end of the day values are the pillars

end of the day values are the pillars

end of the day values are the pillars upon which happiness and success can be

upon which happiness and success can be

upon which happiness and success can be built and only then if we have values

built and only then if we have values

built and only then if we have values like compassion like kindness like

like compassion like kindness like

like compassion like kindness like sharing developing this gratitude

sharing developing this gratitude

sharing developing this gratitude emotional well-being this warm inside

emotional well-being this warm inside

emotional well-being this warm inside our heart the safety disturbed the

our heart the safety disturbed the

our heart the safety disturbed the security only then the child can open

security only then the child can open

security only then the child can open his wings

develop his self-identity and self

develop his self-identity and self awareness himself and that is where

awareness himself and that is where

awareness himself and that is where happiness can be found

I see many people outside they look for

I see many people outside they look for status they buy luxury flats luxury cars

status they buy luxury flats luxury cars

status they buy luxury flats luxury cars designer goods they go miles away to

designer goods they go miles away to

designer goods they go miles away to look for happiness but I tell you

look for happiness but I tell you

look for happiness but I tell you happiness is just next to you just here

happiness is just next to you just here

happiness is just next to you just here I raced aside knowing yourself is the

I raced aside knowing yourself is the

I raced aside knowing yourself is the beginning of wisdom

beginning of wisdom

beginning of wisdom eyes they’re looking inside is the

eyes they’re looking inside is the

eyes they’re looking inside is the beginning of all happiness people think

beginning of all happiness people think

beginning of all happiness people think believe that success bring happiness

believe that success bring happiness

believe that success bring happiness Jewish believe that happiness bring

Jewish believe that happiness bring

Jewish believe that happiness bring success let’s find it together thank you

success let’s find it together thank you

success let’s find it together thank you [Applause]

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