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The Art of Co-Existence | Khadija Zia | TEDxBeaconhouseKarachi


this myself I’d like you to do someone

this myself I’d like you to do someone who I love the most in this world my

who I love the most in this world my

who I love the most in this world my father so that’s his last picture he

father so that’s his last picture he

father so that’s his last picture he happily gave this life for this country

happily gave this life for this country

happily gave this life for this country for Pakistan

thank you but when he gave his life that

thank you but when he gave his life that was on 8th June 1996 I was almost 5

was on 8th June 1996 I was almost 5

was on 8th June 1996 I was almost 5 years old

years old

years old and trust me I used to feel his agony

and trust me I used to feel his agony

and trust me I used to feel his agony why did he do it why do I have to live

why did he do it why do I have to live

why did he do it why do I have to live without a father why did he have to

without a father why did he have to

without a father why did he have to sacrifice our to everyone and that agony

sacrifice our to everyone and that agony

sacrifice our to everyone and that agony I couldn’t understand it and now when I

I couldn’t understand it and now when I

I couldn’t understand it and now when I stand here and I look at my life from

stand here and I look at my life from

stand here and I look at my life from that point onwards I’ve realized I’m

that point onwards I’ve realized I’m

that point onwards I’ve realized I’m exactly like my father all the

exactly like my father all the

exactly like my father all the assignments of the projects everything

assignments of the projects everything

assignments of the projects everything that I’ve done in my life I want to

that I’ve done in my life I want to

that I’ve done in my life I want to bring in something for the society

bring in something for the society

bring in something for the society something better even if it helps point

something better even if it helps point

something better even if it helps point two-five somewhere somewhere in this

two-five somewhere somewhere in this

two-five somewhere somewhere in this country I want to do it for my people

country I want to do it for my people

country I want to do it for my people you see I realized that in lives there

you see I realized that in lives there

you see I realized that in lives there will always be two kinds of people one

will always be two kinds of people one

will always be two kinds of people one who have adequate resources

who have adequate resources

who have adequate resources opportunities joy chances and choices

opportunities joy chances and choices

opportunities joy chances and choices and avenues and the others who do not

and avenues and the others who do not

and avenues and the others who do not and the kind of person you are will

and the kind of person you are will

and the kind of person you are will depend on the situation you are in so

depend on the situation you are in so

depend on the situation you are in so you won’t be one type of person for your

you won’t be one type of person for your

you won’t be one type of person for your entire life

entire life

entire life there’ll be times when you’ll have to

there’ll be times when you’ll have to

there’ll be times when you’ll have to extend a hand to someone in need or take

extend a hand to someone in need or take

extend a hand to someone in need or take a helping hand and support from someone

a helping hand and support from someone

a helping hand and support from someone and you see those choices if you have

and you see those choices if you have

and you see those choices if you have those if you have those opportunities

those if you have those opportunities

those if you have those opportunities like it or not you responsible you’re

like it or not you responsible you’re

like it or not you responsible you’re responsible for helping the other half

responsible for helping the other half

responsible for helping the other half two and a half years ago I had that

two and a half years ago I had that

two and a half years ago I had that choice as well so when I graduated I had

choice as well so when I graduated I had

choice as well so when I graduated I had to pass in front of me one part the

to pass in front of me one part the

to pass in front of me one part the obvious paths the obvious choice that I

obvious paths the obvious choice that I

obvious paths the obvious choice that I could just easily go on the other choice

could just easily go on the other choice

could just easily go on the other choice was a little different was new to me

was a little different was new to me

was a little different was new to me completely and that choice was well now

completely and that choice was well now

completely and that choice was well now P D P now P D be completely changed my

P D P now P D be completely changed my

P D P now P D be completely changed my life

life

life now PDP is an organization that works

now PDP is an organization that works

now PDP is an organization that works for an inclusive society an inclusive

for an inclusive society an inclusive

for an inclusive society an inclusive society for the world’s largest minority

society for the world’s largest minority

society for the world’s largest minority group such a minority group that any one

group such a minority group that any one

group such a minority group that any one of us can join at any time

a minority group that makes upon 18

a minority group that makes upon 18 percent of the world’s population at now

percent of the world’s population at now

percent of the world’s population at now PDP we work in the areas of education

PDP we work in the areas of education

PDP we work in the areas of education empowerment through our two dedicated

empowerment through our two dedicated

empowerment through our two dedicated programs the store and again you see the

programs the store and again you see the

programs the store and again you see the 15 percent of population that I’m in

15 percent of population that I’m in

15 percent of population that I’m in referring to that accounts for a billion

referring to that accounts for a billion

referring to that accounts for a billion people so imagine for a second billion

people so imagine for a second billion

people so imagine for a second billion people who have who were persons with

people who have who were persons with

people who have who were persons with disabilities if you apply that

disabilities if you apply that

disabilities if you apply that percentage to Pakistan that would mean

percentage to Pakistan that would mean

percentage to Pakistan that would mean well imagine this the entire Karachi the

well imagine this the entire Karachi the

well imagine this the entire Karachi the entire population of Karachi having some

entire population of Karachi having some

entire population of Karachi having some form of disability though I mean all of

form of disability though I mean all of

form of disability though I mean all of us sitting over here would have some

us sitting over here would have some

us sitting over here would have some sort of disability I would have some

sort of disability I would have some

sort of disability I would have some sort of disability now do you think if

sort of disability now do you think if

sort of disability now do you think if the entire population of Karachi had

the entire population of Karachi had

the entire population of Karachi had some disability and the chances are if

some disability and the chances are if

some disability and the chances are if you’re a person with disability who

you’re a person with disability who

you’re a person with disability who won’t get the same resources the same

won’t get the same resources the same

won’t get the same resources the same attention the same avenues the same

attention the same avenues the same

attention the same avenues the same opportunities the same choices like the

opportunities the same choices like the

opportunities the same choices like the rest of the country do you think Karachi

rest of the country do you think Karachi

rest of the country do you think Karachi would have achieved what it has if it

would have achieved what it has if it

would have achieved what it has if it did not get all of those growing up my

did not get all of those growing up my

did not get all of those growing up my favorite childhood story was of the

favorite childhood story was of the

favorite childhood story was of the rabbit in the turtle and that sounds

rabbit in the turtle and that sounds

rabbit in the turtle and that sounds really true and I can relate to it

really true and I can relate to it

really true and I can relate to it really well in the social sector now the

really well in the social sector now the

really well in the social sector now the classic version of the story we’ve all

classic version of the story we’ve all

classic version of the story we’ve all heard right everybody enjoyed it so the

heard right everybody enjoyed it so the

heard right everybody enjoyed it so the classic version of this story goes

classic version of this story goes

classic version of this story goes something like this once upon a time a

something like this once upon a time a

something like this once upon a time a rabbit and turtle got into an argument

rabbit and turtle got into an argument

rabbit and turtle got into an argument they got into an argument regarding who

they got into an argument regarding who

they got into an argument regarding who was faster and they decided to settle

was faster and they decided to settle

was faster and they decided to settle the argument with a race right so the

the argument with a race right so the

the argument with a race right so the boats picked out a route and started off

boats picked out a route and started off

boats picked out a route and started off the rabbit shot ahead and he ran he ran

the rabbit shot ahead and he ran he ran

the rabbit shot ahead and he ran he ran he ran until he realized that the turtle

he ran until he realized that the turtle

he ran until he realized that the turtle was really far behind so he thought well

was really far behind so he thought well

was really far behind so he thought well why not let’s rest all right Souter

why not let’s rest all right Souter

why not let’s rest all right Souter decided to rest but soon fell asleep now

decided to rest but soon fell asleep now

decided to rest but soon fell asleep now the turtle overtook him and finished the

the turtle overtook him and finished the

the turtle overtook him and finished the race becoming the undisputed champ later

race becoming the undisputed champ later

race becoming the undisputed champ later the rabbit woke up and realized he had

the rabbit woke up and realized he had

the rabbit woke up and realized he had lost in the moral of the story that was

lost in the moral of the story that was

lost in the moral of the story that was told to us was slow and steady Wednesday

told to us was slow and steady Wednesday

told to us was slow and steady Wednesday and that all conference can be a deadly

and that all conference can be a deadly

and that all conference can be a deadly quality now do you think that classic

quality now do you think that classic

quality now do you think that classic version of the story can really hold up

version of the story can really hold up

version of the story can really hold up in the 21st century that slow and steady

in the 21st century that slow and steady

in the 21st century that slow and steady always wins the race does it or that

always wins the race does it or that

always wins the race does it or that when you lose a race you won’t try again

when you lose a race you won’t try again

when you lose a race you won’t try again and again and again so the 21st century

and again and again so the 21st century

and again and again so the 21st century version is a tad bit different in this

version is a tad bit different in this

version is a tad bit different in this what happens is the rabbit realizes that

what happens is the rabbit realizes that

what happens is the rabbit realizes that he made a mistake he realizes that if he

he made a mistake he realizes that if he

he made a mistake he realizes that if he hadn’t been careless overconfident or

hadn’t been careless overconfident or

hadn’t been careless overconfident or lacks he would have won easily right so

lacks he would have won easily right so

lacks he would have won easily right so he chalices the turtle again his anklet

he chalices the turtle again his anklet

he chalices the turtle again his anklet students again and they started off

students again and they started off

students again and they started off again and this time the rabbit ran and

again and this time the rabbit ran and

again and this time the rabbit ran and ran and ran and won the race and now the

ran and ran and won the race and now the

ran and ran and won the race and now the total was a disheartened he thought to

total was a disheartened he thought to

total was a disheartened he thought to himself that he can never win this race

himself that he can never win this race

himself that he can never win this race the way it was currently formatted so he

the way it was currently formatted so he

the way it was currently formatted so he challenged rabbit and this time the

challenged rabbit and this time the

challenged rabbit and this time the daughter picked out the route and they

daughter picked out the route and they

daughter picked out the route and they started off and the rabbit keeping with

started off and the rabbit keeping with

started off and the rabbit keeping with his self-made commitment from before he

his self-made commitment from before he

his self-made commitment from before he ran he ran and ran until he came across

ran he ran and ran until he came across

ran he ran and ran until he came across a broad river now the rabbit did not

a broad river now the rabbit did not

a broad river now the rabbit did not know how to sue so he said they’re

know how to sue so he said they’re

know how to sue so he said they’re pondering of what to do by this time the

pondering of what to do by this time the

pondering of what to do by this time the turtle caught up the throttle got into

turtle caught up the throttle got into

turtle caught up the throttle got into the pool swam across it and won and now

the pool swam across it and won and now

the pool swam across it and won and now by this time the rabbit in turn evolved

by this time the rabbit in turn evolved

by this time the rabbit in turn evolved became friends they like you know what

became friends they like you know what

became friends they like you know what let’s do it together this time let’s

let’s do it together this time let’s

let’s do it together this time let’s give it another shot but together so

give it another shot but together so

give it another shot but together so they started off in the last race again

they started off in the last race again

they started off in the last race again and again this time what happened was

and again this time what happened was

and again this time what happened was that the turtle the rabbit took the

that the turtle the rabbit took the

that the turtle the rabbit took the total put him on his back and he ran he

total put him on his back and he ran he

total put him on his back and he ran he ran he ran until the river came where

ran he ran until the river came where

ran he ran until the river came where the turtle took to rabbit on his back

the turtle took to rabbit on his back

the turtle took to rabbit on his back and swam across and won the race

and swam across and won the race

and swam across and won the race together

together

together you see such is life the two types of

you see such is life the two types of

you see such is life the two types of people that I was referring

the two types of people that was

the two types of people that was referring to this is the situation

referring to this is the situation

referring to this is the situation sometimes you’ll be the rabbit in the in

sometimes you’ll be the rabbit in the in

sometimes you’ll be the rabbit in the in your life sometimes you’ll be the turtle

your life sometimes you’ll be the turtle

your life sometimes you’ll be the turtle in your life but rest assure you’ll be

in your life but rest assure you’ll be

in your life but rest assure you’ll be one of them for sure but you see we all

one of them for sure but you see we all

one of them for sure but you see we all are different we all have different

are different we all have different

are different we all have different competencies you were unique we all need

competencies you were unique we all need

competencies you were unique we all need to create synergies amongst each other

to create synergies amongst each other

to create synergies amongst each other that’s how it’s going to be they say

that’s how it’s going to be they say

that’s how it’s going to be they say that traveling is one of the most

that traveling is one of the most

that traveling is one of the most enriching experience one can have but

enriching experience one can have but

enriching experience one can have but why is that why is traveling the most

why is that why is traveling the most

why is that why is traveling the most enriching experience me because when you

enriching experience me because when you

enriching experience me because when you travel you get out of your comfort zone

travel you get out of your comfort zone

travel you get out of your comfort zone get out of your city you get out of the

get out of your city you get out of the

get out of your city you get out of the country and experience something

country and experience something

country and experience something completely different you experience

completely different you experience

completely different you experience languages you meet new people you see

languages you meet new people you see

languages you meet new people you see new religions completely enriching isn’t

new religions completely enriching isn’t

new religions completely enriching isn’t it so that means that differences can

it so that means that differences can

it so that means that differences can actually aid to broaden one’s mind that

actually aid to broaden one’s mind that

actually aid to broaden one’s mind that differences are a good thing but sadly

differences are a good thing but sadly

differences are a good thing but sadly what do we do with these differences we

what do we do with these differences we

what do we do with these differences we take these differences and we create a

take these differences and we create a

take these differences and we create a divide we create a divide such as how

divide we create a divide such as how

divide we create a divide such as how much money do you have versus how much

much money do you have versus how much

much money do you have versus how much money do I have how do you look was it

money do I have how do you look was it

money do I have how do you look was it how do I look

how do I look

how do I look what is your religion versus what is my

what is your religion versus what is my

what is your religion versus what is my religion you see these divides cause

religion you see these divides cause

religion you see these divides cause conflicts conflicts such as target

conflicts conflicts such as target

conflicts conflicts such as target killings of a religious group because

killings of a religious group because

killings of a religious group because their religion contradicts your religion

their religion contradicts your religion

their religion contradicts your religion or bullying by a group of students of

or bullying by a group of students of

or bullying by a group of students of their class fellow because the class

their class fellow because the class

their class fellow because the class fellow limps when he walks see these

fellow limps when he walks see these

fellow limps when he walks see these conflicts they breed intolerance into

conflicts they breed intolerance into

conflicts they breed intolerance into the society they can be a deadly thing

the society they can be a deadly thing

the society they can be a deadly thing they breed on the on the norm that has

they breed on the on the norm that has

they breed on the on the norm that has been created by the majority and the

been created by the majority and the

been created by the majority and the minority is marginalized just like

minority is marginalized just like

minority is marginalized just like persons with disabilities yes possible

persons with disabilities yes possible

persons with disabilities yes possible disabilities are different yes some can

disabilities are different yes some can

disabilities are different yes some can see some can speak some can’t hear some

see some can speak some can’t hear some

see some can speak some can’t hear some can’t walk let alone run yes they can’t

can’t walk let alone run yes they can’t

can’t walk let alone run yes they can’t think like you maybe yes they’re all a

think like you maybe yes they’re all a

think like you maybe yes they’re all a different

different

different but over these two and a half years of

but over these two and a half years of

but over these two and a half years of my experience I’ve met courageous

my experience I’ve met courageous

my experience I’ve met courageous inspirational persons with disabilities

inspirational persons with disabilities

inspirational persons with disabilities who can retrofit bikes who can drive

who can retrofit bikes who can drive

who can retrofit bikes who can drive rickshaws who can advocate for change

rickshaws who can advocate for change

rickshaws who can advocate for change who can talk in front of an audience of

who can talk in front of an audience of

who can talk in front of an audience of hundreds and largest dog genes mindsets

hundreds and largest dog genes mindsets

hundreds and largest dog genes mindsets that’s the hardest thing when you have

that’s the hardest thing when you have

that’s the hardest thing when you have to change the mindsets of people that’s

to change the mindsets of people that’s

to change the mindsets of people that’s how they are and all of these pictures

how they are and all of these pictures

how they are and all of these pictures belong to the same person my colleague

belong to the same person my colleague

belong to the same person my colleague in Ron country

in Ron country

in Ron country I imagine if him Ron had focused on all

I imagine if him Ron had focused on all

I imagine if him Ron had focused on all the things that he can not do what the

the things that he can not do what the

the things that he can not do what the majority had said set the norm he could

majority had said set the norm he could

majority had said set the norm he could not have fallen under that what can he

not have fallen under that what can he

not have fallen under that what can he not do he can’t run he can’t walk but

not do he can’t run he can’t walk but

not do he can’t run he can’t walk but what can he do the longer list of things

what can he do the longer list of things

what can he do the longer list of things that he can do right so we must change

that he can do right so we must change

that he can do right so we must change mindsets you know and this is so

mindsets you know and this is so

mindsets you know and this is so relatable to the turtle in the rabbit

relatable to the turtle in the rabbit

relatable to the turtle in the rabbit story in Ron always gives credit to

story in Ron always gives credit to

story in Ron always gives credit to where he is right now to his family to

where he is right now to his family to

where he is right now to his family to his to his friends also why is that

his to his friends also why is that

his to his friends also why is that because in the starting he carried him

because in the starting he carried him

because in the starting he carried him he said no get out the house you can do

he said no get out the house you can do

he said no get out the house you can do this let’s go let’s try this

this let’s go let’s try this

this let’s go let’s try this his father trained him on electrical

his father trained him on electrical

his father trained him on electrical work is one saying no you’re just like

work is one saying no you’re just like

work is one saying no you’re just like the other sons that I have you’d also do

the other sons that I have you’d also do

the other sons that I have you’d also do the same thing if you have to climb a

the same thing if you have to climb a

the same thing if you have to climb a stair as a climb a ladder you will do it

stair as a climb a ladder you will do it

stair as a climb a ladder you will do it you can do it and he did right and there

you can do it and he did right and there

you can do it and he did right and there now Imran carries all the others he

now Imran carries all the others he

now Imran carries all the others he carries the community he carries his

carries the community he carries his

carries the community he carries his friends he carries his family with him

friends he carries his family with him

friends he carries his family with him just how to rabbit a little bit

so you see we must change our mindsets

so you see we must change our mindsets that’s the first thing so we must change

that’s the first thing so we must change

that’s the first thing so we must change our mindsets from pity to empathy from

our mindsets from pity to empathy from

our mindsets from pity to empathy from charity to social justice from apathy to

charity to social justice from apathy to

charity to social justice from apathy to action if we are to coexist amongst each

action if we are to coexist amongst each

action if we are to coexist amongst each other we have to coexist exist at the

other we have to coexist exist at the

other we have to coexist exist at the same time at the same place with these

same time at the same place with these

same time at the same place with these differences create synergies for today

differences create synergies for today

differences create synergies for today in ronpa has lent with you of his words

in ronpa has lent with you of his words

in ronpa has lent with you of his words you always see is that you know when you

you always see is that you know when you

you always see is that you know when you talk about disability or you talk about

talk about disability or you talk about

talk about disability or you talk about differences does not mean that the

differences does not mean that the

differences does not mean that the disability is not going to be there

disability is not going to be there

disability is not going to be there anymore or the difference is what will

anymore or the difference is what will

anymore or the difference is what will just somehow erode they want what will

just somehow erode they want what will

just somehow erode they want what will happen he says but Delta whoever is a

happen he says but Delta whoever is a

happen he says but Delta whoever is a Missouri hot annuity but Delta where

Missouri hot annuity but Delta where

Missouri hot annuity but Delta where away Neos in Missouri hot on annuity but

away Neos in Missouri hot on annuity but

away Neos in Missouri hot on annuity but Missouri KS us Suruga Tama Huata

and I hope this becomes a reality soon

and I hope this becomes a reality soon thank you

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