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The Adaptive Life | CorRales Dupree | TEDxYouth@RVA


good evening next week we will be

good evening next week we will be celebrating Thanksgiving Thanksgiving is

celebrating Thanksgiving Thanksgiving is

celebrating Thanksgiving Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays because of

one of my favorite holidays because of

one of my favorite holidays because of the way that we spend time with our

the way that we spend time with our

the way that we spend time with our families eat delicious food and enjoy

families eat delicious food and enjoy

families eat delicious food and enjoy classic football games I just want to

classic football games I just want to

classic football games I just want to tell you guys about my things giving

tell you guys about my things giving

tell you guys about my things giving 2012 I was coming home from my aunts

2012 I was coming home from my aunts

2012 I was coming home from my aunts house from dinner we have just finished

house from dinner we have just finished

house from dinner we have just finished watching football and I was telling them

watching football and I was telling them

watching football and I was telling them how much I was so pumped up for my break

how much I was so pumped up for my break

how much I was so pumped up for my break because it was the first time I got a

because it was the first time I got a

because it was the first time I got a break from school from and from football

break from school from and from football

break from school from and from football practice I played football my sophomore

practice I played football my sophomore

practice I played football my sophomore year and I was the captain of my

year and I was the captain of my

year and I was the captain of my football team I worked really hard that

football team I worked really hard that

football team I worked really hard that season to be on varsity the next year

season to be on varsity the next year

season to be on varsity the next year when we got to my house it was my mom my

when we got to my house it was my mom my

when we got to my house it was my mom my brother and my mom’s ex-boyfriend and I

brother and my mom’s ex-boyfriend and I

brother and my mom’s ex-boyfriend and I in the car my mom’s ex-boyfriend got

in the car my mom’s ex-boyfriend got

in the car my mom’s ex-boyfriend got upset because of a cancel Black Friday

upset because of a cancel Black Friday

upset because of a cancel Black Friday trip and we only got off the car he was

trip and we only got off the car he was

trip and we only got off the car he was acting to come in the house my mother

acting to come in the house my mother

acting to come in the house my mother told him not tonight and that made him

told him not tonight and that made him

told him not tonight and that made him very angry and he became abusive he

very angry and he became abusive he

very angry and he became abusive he started to hit my mom and I was shocked

started to hit my mom and I was shocked

started to hit my mom and I was shocked that he was acting the way he did I came

that he was acting the way he did I came

that he was acting the way he did I came outside and I tried to control him who

outside and I tried to control him who

outside and I tried to control him who put him under control but he started

put him under control but he started

put him under control but he started getting more fired up and was saying a

getting more fired up and was saying a

getting more fired up and was saying a lot of things like imma kill y’all and

lot of things like imma kill y’all and

lot of things like imma kill y’all and you know he didn’t want us to be here

you know he didn’t want us to be here

you know he didn’t want us to be here anymore so my mom my brother called the

anymore so my mom my brother called the

anymore so my mom my brother called the police while I was outside trying to

police while I was outside trying to

police while I was outside trying to him down but he continued to get more

him down but he continued to get more

him down but he continued to get more worked up every minute I said to my mom

worked up every minute I said to my mom

worked up every minute I said to my mom that we would have to do something and

that we would have to do something and

that we would have to do something and do something fast before this thing gets

do something fast before this thing gets

do something fast before this thing gets out of hand when I was with when I was

out of hand when I was with when I was

out of hand when I was with when I was outside with him he was chasing me

outside with him he was chasing me

outside with him he was chasing me around his car and I was trying to avoid

around his car and I was trying to avoid

around his car and I was trying to avoid him just to kill time until the cops

him just to kill time until the cops

him just to kill time until the cops arrived but finally my mom called me in

arrived but finally my mom called me in

arrived but finally my mom called me in the house after she got off the phone

the house after she got off the phone

the house after she got off the phone with the police and I ran in as fast as

with the police and I ran in as fast as

with the police and I ran in as fast as I could

I could

I could not knowing what to expect after that I

not knowing what to expect after that I

not knowing what to expect after that I locked the door and I looked back in the

locked the door and I looked back in the

locked the door and I looked back in the living room to see if my mom my brother

living room to see if my mom my brother

living room to see if my mom my brother were ok they were sound in the living

were ok they were sound in the living

were ok they were sound in the living room and it seemed like everything was

room and it seemed like everything was

room and it seemed like everything was ok it was within a split second I heard

ok it was within a split second I heard

ok it was within a split second I heard loud noises outside of my door these

loud noises outside of my door these

loud noises outside of my door these noises were gunshots and I didn’t know

noises were gunshots and I didn’t know

noises were gunshots and I didn’t know that they were gunshots until I was shot

that they were gunshots until I was shot

that they were gunshots until I was shot in the stomach through the door I didn’t

in the stomach through the door I didn’t

in the stomach through the door I didn’t know what to what to do or what to say

know what to what to do or what to say

know what to what to do or what to say but the only thing I took I said was I

but the only thing I took I said was I

but the only thing I took I said was I told my mom and my brother to get down

told my mom and my brother to get down

told my mom and my brother to get down because he was shooting through the door

because he was shooting through the door

because he was shooting through the door I moved to the side and he came inside

I moved to the side and he came inside

I moved to the side and he came inside of the house he stormed inside of the

of the house he stormed inside of the

of the house he stormed inside of the house and went up to my mom and my

house and went up to my mom and my

house and went up to my mom and my brother and shot down I was still

brother and shot down I was still

brother and shot down I was still conscious and I saw this all I saw him

conscious and I saw this all I saw him

conscious and I saw this all I saw him shoot my my brother who was 10 at the

shoot my my brother who was 10 at the

shoot my my brother who was 10 at the time he came in and he shot me again as

time he came in and he shot me again as

time he came in and he shot me again as well I was there and I was begging him

well I was there and I was begging him

well I was there and I was begging him to stop but he continued to hit us with

to stop but he continued to hit us with

to stop but he continued to hit us with his firearm and stomp us while we were

his firearm and stomp us while we were

his firearm and stomp us while we were already down he fired more shots in the

already down he fired more shots in the

already down he fired more shots in the house and soon the police came this all

house and soon the police came this all

house and soon the police came this all lasted for maybe less than 10 minutes

lasted for maybe less than 10 minutes

lasted for maybe less than 10 minutes but this felt like forever I didn’t know

but this felt like forever I didn’t know

but this felt like forever I didn’t know what to thank us I was slowly becoming

what to thank us I was slowly becoming

what to thank us I was slowly becoming unconscious when he stopped me and my

unconscious when he stopped me and my

unconscious when he stopped me and my brother on the ground

brother on the ground

brother on the ground while we were down I woke up in the

while we were down I woke up in the

while we were down I woke up in the hospital the next day and I had no idea

hospital the next day and I had no idea

hospital the next day and I had no idea where my mom was when my brother was and

where my mom was when my brother was and

where my mom was when my brother was and I had no idea what to think about what

I had no idea what to think about what

I had no idea what to think about what he did this was a really crazy

he did this was a really crazy

he did this was a really crazy experience because when I finally the

experience because when I finally the

experience because when I finally the only thing I could ask was it’s my mom

only thing I could ask was it’s my mom

only thing I could ask was it’s my mom alive is my brother alive I didn’t see

alive is my brother alive I didn’t see

alive is my brother alive I didn’t see them for a couple days and that ran me

them for a couple days and that ran me

them for a couple days and that ran me more crazy than the actual gunshots I

more crazy than the actual gunshots I

more crazy than the actual gunshots I had sustained from that night just not

had sustained from that night just not

had sustained from that night just not knowing what my family were and were

knowing what my family were and were

knowing what my family were and were they gonna be okay because I thought in

they gonna be okay because I thought in

they gonna be okay because I thought in my head that I was gonna be okay because

my head that I was gonna be okay because

my head that I was gonna be okay because I never try to think negatively about

I never try to think negatively about

I never try to think negatively about anything but I didn’t I didn’t know

anything but I didn’t I didn’t know

anything but I didn’t I didn’t know because especially my brother he was so

because especially my brother he was so

because especially my brother he was so young at the time I didn’t know what to

young at the time I didn’t know what to

young at the time I didn’t know what to think about that this was a very dark

think about that this was a very dark

think about that this was a very dark time for me but since then I’ve turned

time for me but since then I’ve turned

time for me but since then I’ve turned it around and I’ve tried to do my best

it around and I’ve tried to do my best

it around and I’ve tried to do my best to make everything the best I can and

to make everything the best I can and

to make everything the best I can and deal with it and make the best of what I

deal with it and make the best of what I

deal with it and make the best of what I have I was in the hospital for three

have I was in the hospital for three

have I was in the hospital for three months and had ten surgeries and with

months and had ten surgeries and with

months and had ten surgeries and with that I had my leg amputated above the

that I had my leg amputated above the

that I had my leg amputated above the knee once I had my leg amputated I had

knee once I had my leg amputated I had

knee once I had my leg amputated I had to relearn how to walk how to keep my

to relearn how to walk how to keep my

to relearn how to walk how to keep my balance and I had to train my muscles

balance and I had to train my muscles

balance and I had to train my muscles all over again and just just to even get

all over again and just just to even get

all over again and just just to even get back to school and do my schoolwork in

back to school and do my schoolwork in

back to school and do my schoolwork in school I was on homebound for about six

school I was on homebound for about six

school I was on homebound for about six months but I came back to school and I

months but I came back to school and I

months but I came back to school and I passed my sophomore year and I was

passed my sophomore year and I was

passed my sophomore year and I was trying to come back to play football

trying to come back to play football

trying to come back to play football that same year I was training with

that same year I was training with

that same year I was training with physical therapy

physical therapy

physical therapy getting my gate back to the way I wanted

getting my gate back to the way I wanted

getting my gate back to the way I wanted it to be in that soon Bennet learned how

it to be in that soon Bennet learned how

it to be in that soon Bennet learned how to run I appreciated the fact that I

to run I appreciated the fact that I

to run I appreciated the fact that I could get up and walk again after I got

could get up and walk again after I got

could get up and walk again after I got my prosthetic leg because I know how it

my prosthetic leg because I know how it

my prosthetic leg because I know how it felt to not be able to walk for so long

felt to not be able to walk for so long

felt to not be able to walk for so long to be on crutches and have to hop

to be on crutches and have to hop

to be on crutches and have to hop instead of actually using two feet to

instead of actually using two feet to

instead of actually using two feet to walk when my mom and when we were in the

walk when my mom and when we were in the

walk when my mom and when we were in the hospital this my mom would come to each

hospital this my mom would come to each

hospital this my mom would come to each room and go back and forth to see my

room and go back and forth to see my

room and go back and forth to see my brother and I and my family had to stay

brother and I and my family had to stay

brother and I and my family had to stay super strong just to keep my my spirits

super strong just to keep my my spirits

super strong just to keep my my spirits up through this time the only time that

up through this time the only time that

up through this time the only time that I knew everything was going to be okay

I knew everything was going to be okay

I knew everything was going to be okay it’s on on this picture when my brother

it’s on on this picture when my brother

it’s on on this picture when my brother and I got the first time we saw each

and I got the first time we saw each

and I got the first time we saw each other after the incident and I looked at

other after the incident and I looked at

other after the incident and I looked at him and I told him it was gonna be okay

him and I told him it was gonna be okay

him and I told him it was gonna be okay and he said it was gonna be okay and

and he said it was gonna be okay and

and he said it was gonna be okay and after that I had no doubt in my mind

after that I had no doubt in my mind

after that I had no doubt in my mind that we would make a miraculous comeback

that we would make a miraculous comeback

that we would make a miraculous comeback to be two really outstanding kids I

graduated on time from Thomas Dale High

graduated on time from Thomas Dale High School and I’m now really blessed to say

School and I’m now really blessed to say

School and I’m now really blessed to say that I’m a sophomore in college and I’m

that I’m a sophomore in college and I’m

that I’m a sophomore in college and I’m on this stage and it’s just a blessing

on this stage and it’s just a blessing

on this stage and it’s just a blessing to be here today talking to York talking

to be here today talking to York talking

to be here today talking to York talking to you about what’s happened because I

to you about what’s happened because I

to you about what’s happened because I know I could have been not here to tell

know I could have been not here to tell

know I could have been not here to tell this story and there was a slim chance

this story and there was a slim chance

this story and there was a slim chance of survival for us but we made it

of survival for us but we made it

of survival for us but we made it through I went to Connecticut over the

through I went to Connecticut over the

through I went to Connecticut over the summer and I didn’t know what to expect

summer and I didn’t know what to expect

summer and I didn’t know what to expect my first time getting on a plane over my

my first time getting on a plane over my

my first time getting on a plane over my first time going to camp No Limits which

first time going to camp No Limits which

first time going to camp No Limits which is a camp for amputees at camp No Limits

is a camp for amputees at camp No Limits

is a camp for amputees at camp No Limits amputees team up with physical therapy

amputees team up with physical therapy

amputees team up with physical therapy students

students

students to learn new ways of doing daily life

to learn new ways of doing daily life

to learn new ways of doing daily life activities such as walking running doing

activities such as walking running doing

activities such as walking running doing certain stuff that amputees never

certain stuff that amputees never

certain stuff that amputees never imagined that they would have the power

imagined that they would have the power

imagined that they would have the power to do this was a great experience for me

to do this was a great experience for me

to do this was a great experience for me because I learned that being at camp no

because I learned that being at camp no

because I learned that being at camp no limits there there is no limits you have

limits there there is no limits you have

limits there there is no limits you have the power to do anything you put your

the power to do anything you put your

the power to do anything you put your mind to and nobody can stop you no

mind to and nobody can stop you no

mind to and nobody can stop you no matter what you have or what you go

matter what you have or what you go

matter what you have or what you go through it’s just you have to have that

through it’s just you have to have that

through it’s just you have to have that self the self motivation to step over

self the self motivation to step over

self the self motivation to step over any hurdle that comes in your path

any hurdle that comes in your path

any hurdle that comes in your path I believe I found out that I wanted to

I believe I found out that I wanted to

I believe I found out that I wanted to pursue my career in physical therapy

pursue my career in physical therapy

pursue my career in physical therapy after coming from camp No Limits I had a

after coming from camp No Limits I had a

after coming from camp No Limits I had a partner that I was working with he was

partner that I was working with he was

partner that I was working with he was younger than me about my little

younger than me about my little

younger than me about my little brother’s age and I was teaching him

brother’s age and I was teaching him

brother’s age and I was teaching him some things that I had learned from

some things that I had learned from

some things that I had learned from physical therapy and we were playing

physical therapy and we were playing

physical therapy and we were playing basketball he told me he loved

basketball he told me he loved

basketball he told me he loved basketball and I taught him how to shoot

basketball and I taught him how to shoot

basketball and I taught him how to shoot and dribble between his legs and he was

and dribble between his legs and he was

and dribble between his legs and he was really proud to say that he learned that

really proud to say that he learned that

really proud to say that he learned that so at the end of camp we had a session

so at the end of camp we had a session

so at the end of camp we had a session saying what was your favorite part of

saying what was your favorite part of

saying what was your favorite part of camp

camp

camp and when it was his time he told camp

and when it was his time he told camp

and when it was his time he told camp that his favorite part of camp was

that his favorite part of camp was

that his favorite part of camp was meeting Corrales that was awesome for me

meeting Corrales that was awesome for me

meeting Corrales that was awesome for me and I would love to impact people’s

and I would love to impact people’s

and I would love to impact people’s lives in that same way and that’s why I

lives in that same way and that’s why I

lives in that same way and that’s why I am studying to be a physical therapist

am studying to be a physical therapist

am studying to be a physical therapist now in college when I went to

now in college when I went to

now in college when I went to Connecticut we play sled hockey and it

Connecticut we play sled hockey and it

Connecticut we play sled hockey and it was my first time playing adaptive

was my first time playing adaptive

was my first time playing adaptive sports I didn’t give up on playing

sports I didn’t give up on playing

sports I didn’t give up on playing sports after I didn’t play football

sports after I didn’t play football

sports after I didn’t play football anymore

anymore

anymore because I know that I was given

because I know that I was given

because I know that I was given talents for a reason but it did what it

talents for a reason but it did what it

talents for a reason but it did what it just wasn’t to be in the National

just wasn’t to be in the National

just wasn’t to be in the National Football League now I play adaptive

Football League now I play adaptive

Football League now I play adaptive sports and when I learned how to play

sports and when I learned how to play

sports and when I learned how to play sled hockey it was my first time ever

sled hockey it was my first time ever

sled hockey it was my first time ever playing adaptive sports we had we had an

playing adaptive sports we had we had an

playing adaptive sports we had we had an arena with ice and we get on we get on

arena with ice and we get on we get on

arena with ice and we get on we get on the sled and use two sticks one you

the sled and use two sticks one you

the sled and use two sticks one you would be able to maneuver around the ice

would be able to maneuver around the ice

would be able to maneuver around the ice with it’s at the it’s ice picks at the

with it’s at the it’s ice picks at the

with it’s at the it’s ice picks at the end of that your sticks so you stick

end of that your sticks so you stick

end of that your sticks so you stick those in the ice and you push it as hard

those in the ice and you push it as hard

those in the ice and you push it as hard as you can to let the sled slide on the

as you can to let the sled slide on the

as you can to let the sled slide on the ice and on the other side you have your

ice and on the other side you have your

ice and on the other side you have your pup your stick when you hit the pup when

pup your stick when you hit the pup when

pup your stick when you hit the pup when I learned how to play sled hockey they

I learned how to play sled hockey they

I learned how to play sled hockey they told me that I wasn’t natural and that I

told me that I wasn’t natural and that I

told me that I wasn’t natural and that I should pursue playing sled hockey when I

should pursue playing sled hockey when I

should pursue playing sled hockey when I went back home I tried that but that

went back home I tried that but that

went back home I tried that but that didn’t work out either because in

didn’t work out either because in

didn’t work out either because in Richmond we don’t have a sled hockey

Richmond we don’t have a sled hockey

Richmond we don’t have a sled hockey team that was home something I could

team that was home something I could

team that was home something I could only experience in New England so I’ll

only experience in New England so I’ll

only experience in New England so I’ll be going back for that but now I’ve

be going back for that but now I’ve

be going back for that but now I’ve started to play wheelchair basketball

started to play wheelchair basketball

started to play wheelchair basketball just a month ago I started my career

just a month ago I started my career

just a month ago I started my career playing wheelchair basketball and I’ve

playing wheelchair basketball and I’ve

playing wheelchair basketball and I’ve already been promoted to play for the

already been promoted to play for the

already been promoted to play for the national wheelchair basketball

national wheelchair basketball

national wheelchair basketball association to pay for the ritual

association to pay for the ritual

association to pay for the ritual [Applause]

I play on the Richmond rim riders and

I play on the Richmond rim riders and after my first tournament today I scored

after my first tournament today I scored

after my first tournament today I scored my first bucket so who everyone so that

my first bucket so who everyone so that

my first bucket so who everyone so that was a big win for me and to be here it’s

was a big win for me and to be here it’s

was a big win for me and to be here it’s just an extreme blessing for me so I

just an extreme blessing for me so I

just an extreme blessing for me so I just want to say that sometimes in life

just want to say that sometimes in life

just want to say that sometimes in life we face obstacles but you never know

we face obstacles but you never know

we face obstacles but you never know where we’ll have the opportunity to turn

where we’ll have the opportunity to turn

where we’ll have the opportunity to turn once we get over that obstacle and go to

once we get over that obstacle and go to

once we get over that obstacle and go to something else and if another obstacle

something else and if another obstacle

something else and if another obstacle comes your way you just have to knock it

comes your way you just have to knock it

comes your way you just have to knock it out and finish the race

[Applause]

[Applause] I think we just need to take a moment to

I think we just need to take a moment to

I think we just need to take a moment to commend you on your bravery can we get

commend you on your bravery can we get

commend you on your bravery can we get one more hand farmer

one more hand farmer

one more hand farmer [Applause]

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