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good afternoon my name is Terence

good afternoon my name is Terence Patterson and before I start it it

Patterson and before I start it it

Patterson and before I start it it dawned on me that it it’s quite ironic

dawned on me that it it’s quite ironic

dawned on me that it it’s quite ironic that I’m talking about my story but I

that I’m talking about my story but I

that I’m talking about my story but I have it written down and I’ll super key

have it written down and I’ll super key

have it written down and I’ll super key off of notes but I want to make sure I

off of notes but I want to make sure I

off of notes but I want to make sure I don’t forget anything but my story

don’t forget anything but my story

don’t forget anything but my story starts in Memphis and just like many of

starts in Memphis and just like many of

starts in Memphis and just like many of you I came from a humble modest

you I came from a humble modest

you I came from a humble modest beginning didn’t start poor but I

beginning didn’t start poor but I

beginning didn’t start poor but I certainly wasn’t rich by any means but

certainly wasn’t rich by any means but

certainly wasn’t rich by any means but the common thread in my story is a blend

the common thread in my story is a blend

the common thread in my story is a blend of acquired talent and hard work I love

of acquired talent and hard work I love

of acquired talent and hard work I love the zoo always had a smile I never

the zoo always had a smile I never

the zoo always had a smile I never turned down an opportunity to do fun

turned down an opportunity to do fun

turned down an opportunity to do fun stuff in fact I was always incredibly

stuff in fact I was always incredibly

stuff in fact I was always incredibly organized and I am to this day I can

organized and I am to this day I can

organized and I am to this day I can remember always making my bed as a

remember always making my bed as a

remember always making my bed as a toddler and organizing my blocks before

toddler and organizing my blocks before

toddler and organizing my blocks before going to bed my parents instilled

going to bed my parents instilled

going to bed my parents instilled Southern values they made sure that I

Southern values they made sure that I

Southern values they made sure that I was always in environments that were

was always in environments that were

was always in environments that were conducive to success but as I grew from

conducive to success but as I grew from

conducive to success but as I grew from childhood to adolescence to even the

childhood to adolescence to even the

childhood to adolescence to even the ultimate independence of adulthood there

ultimate independence of adulthood there

ultimate independence of adulthood there were three themes that emerged to define

were three themes that emerged to define

were three themes that emerged to define my story following to lead continuous

my story following to lead continuous

my story following to lead continuous mapping and taking well thought taking

mapping and taking well thought taking

mapping and taking well thought taking well thought risks so first this notion

well thought risks so first this notion

well thought risks so first this notion of following to lead I’m the oldest of

of following to lead I’m the oldest of

of following to lead I’m the oldest of three boys and we’re all four years

three boys and we’re all four years

three boys and we’re all four years apart and so there were inherent

apart and so there were inherent

apart and so there were inherent opportunities for leadership along the

opportunities for leadership along the

opportunities for leadership along the way eating my kid brother’s leftovers

way eating my kid brother’s leftovers

way eating my kid brother’s leftovers taking their toys or even letting them

taking their toys or even letting them

taking their toys or even letting them think they were playing Nintendo when

think they were playing Nintendo when

think they were playing Nintendo when the controllers were really unplugged

the controllers were really unplugged

the controllers were really unplugged but the true learnings that I had

but the true learnings that I had

but the true learnings that I had really when I was in the eighth grade

really when I was in the eighth grade

really when I was in the eighth grade and I had the opportunity to be named to

and I had the opportunity to be named to

and I had the opportunity to be named to the varsity baseball team in the eighth

the varsity baseball team in the eighth

the varsity baseball team in the eighth grade

grade

grade and just watching older guys perform

and just watching older guys perform

and just watching older guys perform watching them practice I learned that a

watching them practice I learned that a

watching them practice I learned that a lot of leadership and growth is osmosis

lot of leadership and growth is osmosis

lot of leadership and growth is osmosis if you’re close to leaders you’ll just

if you’re close to leaders you’ll just

if you’re close to leaders you’ll just pick up their good habits and their

pick up their good habits and their

pick up their good habits and their traits but it wasn’t until I got to high

traits but it wasn’t until I got to high

traits but it wasn’t until I got to high school that I realized I was starting to

school that I realized I was starting to

school that I realized I was starting to have opportunities to truly lead in my

have opportunities to truly lead in my

have opportunities to truly lead in my own right so the but by the time I was a

own right so the but by the time I was a

own right so the but by the time I was a sophomore at the end of my sophomore

sophomore at the end of my sophomore

sophomore at the end of my sophomore year I was named the starting

year I was named the starting

year I was named the starting quarterback of my football team and I’m

quarterback of my football team and I’m

quarterback of my football team and I’m actually in a leadership position but to

actually in a leadership position but to

actually in a leadership position but to be very candid I was younger than

be very candid I was younger than

be very candid I was younger than everyone that I was leading a group of

everyone that I was leading a group of

everyone that I was leading a group of juniors and seniors and I didn’t know

juniors and seniors and I didn’t know

juniors and seniors and I didn’t know how to lead and so I was actually

how to lead and so I was actually

how to lead and so I was actually watching and mimicking other older

watching and mimicking other older

watching and mimicking other older players looking at them at their

players looking at them at their

players looking at them at their position understanding their behaviors

position understanding their behaviors

position understanding their behaviors and emulating them because all I knew

and emulating them because all I knew

and emulating them because all I knew how to do was work hard and learn my

how to do was work hard and learn my

how to do was work hard and learn my craft and so it was really an exercise

craft and so it was really an exercise

craft and so it was really an exercise and following by example as my preferred

and following by example as my preferred

and following by example as my preferred method of leadership and it wound up

method of leadership and it wound up

method of leadership and it wound up ultimately being successful we went on

ultimately being successful we went on

ultimately being successful we went on to go to the state championship and the

to go to the state championship and the

to go to the state championship and the largest division in the state of

largest division in the state of

largest division in the state of Tennessee and we finished with the 14 in

Tennessee and we finished with the 14 in

Tennessee and we finished with the 14 in one record but this same path continued

one record but this same path continued

one record but this same path continued on my way to college and it was the same

on my way to college and it was the same

on my way to college and it was the same story it was a different position a

story it was a different position a

story it was a different position a different uniform higher stakes the same

different uniform higher stakes the same

different uniform higher stakes the same formula and even success at another

formula and even success at another

formula and even success at another level both on an individual level but

level both on an individual level but

level both on an individual level but also on a team level it was a different

also on a team level it was a different

also on a team level it was a different position because I had never learned how

position because I had never learned how

position because I had never learned how to play or I’d never played wide

to play or I’d never played wide

to play or I’d never played wide receiver before before I set foot on

receiver before before I set foot on

receiver before before I set foot on Harvard’s campus I had always been a

Harvard’s campus I had always been a

Harvard’s campus I had always been a quarterback but I was fortunate to be a

quarterback but I was fortunate to be a

quarterback but I was fortunate to be a part of a team that brought my coach his

part of a team that brought my coach his

part of a team that brought my coach his first Ivy League title and by the time I

first Ivy League title and by the time I

first Ivy League title and by the time I was a senior I learned how to play the

was a senior I learned how to play the

was a senior I learned how to play the receiver position

receiver position

receiver position and I was named Harvard’s all-time

and I was named Harvard’s all-time

and I was named Harvard’s all-time leading receiver and the only player in

leading receiver and the only player in

leading receiver and the only player in Harvard history to run catch throw and

Harvard history to run catch throw and

Harvard history to run catch throw and return a touchdown in the same season

return a touchdown in the same season

return a touchdown in the same season but the point is not the success but

but the point is not the success but

but the point is not the success but rather the fact that following to lead

rather the fact that following to lead

rather the fact that following to lead is replicable and if you can learn to be

is replicable and if you can learn to be

is replicable and if you can learn to be a great follower you will inevitably

a great follower you will inevitably

a great follower you will inevitably learn to be a great leader and I want to

learn to be a great leader and I want to

learn to be a great leader and I want to make a point about leading because it’s

make a point about leading because it’s

make a point about leading because it’s important because you’ll sometimes have

important because you’ll sometimes have

important because you’ll sometimes have a bad leader and just because you have a

a bad leader and just because you have a

a bad leader and just because you have a bad leader does not mean you have to be

bad leader does not mean you have to be

bad leader does not mean you have to be a bad follower in fact you learn your

a bad follower in fact you learn your

a bad follower in fact you learn your greatest lessons from your bad leaders

greatest lessons from your bad leaders

greatest lessons from your bad leaders and it’s not always all bad and you

and it’s not always all bad and you

and it’s not always all bad and you actually can reverse their traits so I

actually can reverse their traits so I

actually can reverse their traits so I want to move to the next theme and it’s

want to move to the next theme and it’s

want to move to the next theme and it’s this notion of continuous napping

this notion of continuous napping

this notion of continuous napping mapping but before I do there’s a

mapping but before I do there’s a

mapping but before I do there’s a snapshot of a younger me the notion of

snapshot of a younger me the notion of

snapshot of a younger me the notion of continuous mapping is complicated and

continuous mapping is complicated and

continuous mapping is complicated and you know it’s not as complicated as the

you know it’s not as complicated as the

you know it’s not as complicated as the life of Homer Simpson or even the map

life of Homer Simpson or even the map

life of Homer Simpson or even the map that he’s looking at but this was the

that he’s looking at but this was the

that he’s looking at but this was the concept that didn’t emerge for me until

concept that didn’t emerge for me until

concept that didn’t emerge for me until after I graduated from college and the

after I graduated from college and the

after I graduated from college and the basics are this you need a plan and it’s

basics are this you need a plan and it’s

basics are this you need a plan and it’s more complicated than just needing a

more complicated than just needing a

more complicated than just needing a plan but you actually need your map to

plan but you actually need your map to

plan but you actually need your map to be a living document you’ve got to

be a living document you’ve got to

be a living document you’ve got to create it it’s ok if it changes in fact

create it it’s ok if it changes in fact

create it it’s ok if it changes in fact I can remember going off to college and

I can remember going off to college and

I can remember going off to college and going backwards a bit and thinking I

going backwards a bit and thinking I

going backwards a bit and thinking I wanted to be a doctor a pediatrician and

wanted to be a doctor a pediatrician and

wanted to be a doctor a pediatrician and be specific but it wasn’t until after

be specific but it wasn’t until after

be specific but it wasn’t until after four semesters chemistry five economics

four semesters chemistry five economics

four semesters chemistry five economics ten psychology one sociology three and

ten psychology one sociology three and

ten psychology one sociology three and then government 10 that I didn’t realize

then government 10 that I didn’t realize

then government 10 that I didn’t realize that I wasn’t gonna be anyone’s doctor

that I wasn’t gonna be anyone’s doctor

that I wasn’t gonna be anyone’s doctor and I wasn’t going to anyone’s medical

and I wasn’t going to anyone’s medical

and I wasn’t going to anyone’s medical school and that’s okay because new

school and that’s okay because new

school and that’s okay because new fields emerged I was exposed to new

fields emerged I was exposed to new

fields emerged I was exposed to new things and I was open to the change and

things and I was open to the change and

things and I was open to the change and some of this was attributable even to my

some of this was attributable even to my

some of this was attributable even to my mentor that helped me develop the

mentor that helped me develop the

mentor that helped me develop the frameworks for my future Maps

frameworks for my future Maps

frameworks for my future Maps and I can remember my coach at Harvard

and I can remember my coach at Harvard

and I can remember my coach at Harvard he was often quoted in the Boston Globe

he was often quoted in the Boston Globe

he was often quoted in the Boston Globe and he would say in practice you know TP

and he would say in practice you know TP

and he would say in practice you know TP one day you’re gonna be governor at

one day you’re gonna be governor at

one day you’re gonna be governor at Tennessee you just wait because I

Tennessee you just wait because I

Tennessee you just wait because I believe in you and it was words of

believe in you and it was words of

believe in you and it was words of inspiration and also guidance and

inspiration and also guidance and

inspiration and also guidance and direction that helped think about what

direction that helped think about what

direction that helped think about what these maps would ultimately look like

these maps would ultimately look like

these maps would ultimately look like for me but I want to get back to the map

for me but I want to get back to the map

for me but I want to get back to the map for a minute because it is real and the

for a minute because it is real and the

for a minute because it is real and the map should necessarily be done in pin

map should necessarily be done in pin

map should necessarily be done in pin but in fact it should be done in paper

but in fact it should be done in paper

but in fact it should be done in paper and this is what one of my maps looked

and this is what one of my maps looked

and this is what one of my maps looked like this is a replica from 15 years ago

like this is a replica from 15 years ago

like this is a replica from 15 years ago and it’s got twists and turns it’s got

and it’s got twists and turns it’s got

and it’s got twists and turns it’s got different occupations and all of the

different occupations and all of the

different occupations and all of the things in between the key is you start

things in between the key is you start

things in between the key is you start with your dream job at the end and then

with your dream job at the end and then

with your dream job at the end and then you backwards map to determine how you

you backwards map to determine how you

you backwards map to determine how you get there and every year or so you take

get there and every year or so you take

get there and every year or so you take your pencil out or your pen and you

your pencil out or your pen and you

your pencil out or your pen and you scribble things off and you make

scribble things off and you make

scribble things off and you make adaptations to your map because life

adaptations to your map because life

adaptations to your map because life changes you’ll get new opportunities and

changes you’ll get new opportunities and

changes you’ll get new opportunities and ultimately this map will help you make

ultimately this map will help you make

ultimately this map will help you make educated decisions that will guide your

educated decisions that will guide your

educated decisions that will guide your longer-term future and so that also

longer-term future and so that also

longer-term future and so that also connects directly to this notion of

connects directly to this notion of

connects directly to this notion of taking risks but well-thought risks and

taking risks but well-thought risks and

taking risks but well-thought risks and this is a tough one because I don’t want

this is a tough one because I don’t want

this is a tough one because I don’t want to be the guy that shows up and tells

to be the guy that shows up and tells

to be the guy that shows up and tells you it’s okay to take risk and then you

you it’s okay to take risk and then you

you it’s okay to take risk and then you fail and it costs you a lot but I

fail and it costs you a lot but I

fail and it costs you a lot but I believe it’s okay to take risk and it’s

believe it’s okay to take risk and it’s

believe it’s okay to take risk and it’s okay to fail and you have to prepare

okay to fail and you have to prepare

okay to fail and you have to prepare yourself you have to have a map you have

yourself you have to have a map you have

yourself you have to have a map you have to understand pros and cons and for me

to understand pros and cons and for me

to understand pros and cons and for me there are three instances in my career

there are three instances in my career

there are three instances in my career and in my story that stand out the first

and in my story that stand out the first

and in my story that stand out the first is being a sports agent I graduated from

is being a sports agent I graduated from

is being a sports agent I graduated from law school and I was representing three

law school and I was representing three

law school and I was representing three players three clients that were

players three clients that were

players three clients that were teammates of my younger brothers at the

teammates of my younger brothers at the

teammates of my younger brothers at the University of Memphis and northwestern

University of Memphis and northwestern

University of Memphis and northwestern at the time and I had an opportunity to

at the time and I had an opportunity to

at the time and I had an opportunity to go work at a big law firm right out of

go work at a big law firm right out of

go work at a big law firm right out of law school and I decided not to and I

law school and I decided not to and I

law school and I decided not to and I decided to go work for my mentor at a

decided to go work for my mentor at a

decided to go work for my mentor at a big agency and represent the likes of

big agency and represent the likes of

big agency and represent the likes of Donovan

Donovan

Donovan and Dwayne Wade and Brian Westbrook and

and Dwayne Wade and Brian Westbrook and

and Dwayne Wade and Brian Westbrook and Brandon Marshall and it didn’t work out

Brandon Marshall and it didn’t work out

Brandon Marshall and it didn’t work out well kind of because I had the

well kind of because I had the

well kind of because I had the opportunity to do my dream job I was in

opportunity to do my dream job I was in

opportunity to do my dream job I was in the green room and I was Jerry Maguire

the green room and I was Jerry Maguire

the green room and I was Jerry Maguire and I was having the time of my life but

and I was having the time of my life but

and I was having the time of my life but I realized it wasn’t for me and as a

I realized it wasn’t for me and as a

I realized it wasn’t for me and as a result of that I actually had to go

result of that I actually had to go

result of that I actually had to go backwards and I found myself at a big

backwards and I found myself at a big

backwards and I found myself at a big law firm two years behind my class

law firm two years behind my class

law firm two years behind my class learning things that they had already

learning things that they had already

learning things that they had already learned because I had taken a chance but

learned because I had taken a chance but

learned because I had taken a chance but I would never do it again differently

I would never do it again differently

I would never do it again differently because that chance afforded me a

because that chance afforded me a

because that chance afforded me a lifetime opportunity the second chance

lifetime opportunity the second chance

lifetime opportunity the second chance or risk that I took was related to

or risk that I took was related to

or risk that I took was related to moving back to Memphis and this one was

moving back to Memphis and this one was

moving back to Memphis and this one was a tough decision because while I loved

a tough decision because while I loved

a tough decision because while I loved Memphis and I wanted to always be back

Memphis and I wanted to always be back

Memphis and I wanted to always be back in my hometown I didn’t want to be back

in my hometown I didn’t want to be back

in my hometown I didn’t want to be back in my 20s or 30s but instead I wanted to

in my 20s or 30s but instead I wanted to

in my 20s or 30s but instead I wanted to be here in the twilight of my career and

be here in the twilight of my career and

be here in the twilight of my career and so here I am I find myself at Chicago

so here I am I find myself at Chicago

so here I am I find myself at Chicago Public Schools the third largest school

Public Schools the third largest school

Public Schools the third largest school system in the country I’m one of the

system in the country I’m one of the

system in the country I’m one of the youngest members of the cabinet I have

youngest members of the cabinet I have

youngest members of the cabinet I have responsibilities to transform k-12

responsibilities to transform k-12

responsibilities to transform k-12 education in one of the largest urban

education in one of the largest urban

education in one of the largest urban systems in the world and I get a call

systems in the world and I get a call

systems in the world and I get a call from my hometown saying come home and

from my hometown saying come home and

from my hometown saying come home and it’s one thing to be a small fish in a

it’s one thing to be a small fish in a

it’s one thing to be a small fish in a big pond but it’s another thing and a

big pond but it’s another thing and a

big pond but it’s another thing and a whole nother thing to be a growing fish

whole nother thing to be a growing fish

whole nother thing to be a growing fish in that big pond but I went back to my

in that big pond but I went back to my

in that big pond but I went back to my map I thought about what the future

map I thought about what the future

map I thought about what the future looked like and I determined that there

looked like and I determined that there

looked like and I determined that there was a pathway through Memphis to reach

was a pathway through Memphis to reach

was a pathway through Memphis to reach all of my goals and I took it and that

all of my goals and I took it and that

all of my goals and I took it and that risk led me to where I am today

risk led me to where I am today

risk led me to where I am today at the downtown Memphis Commission and

at the downtown Memphis Commission and

at the downtown Memphis Commission and so once I got settled into Memphis I

so once I got settled into Memphis I

so once I got settled into Memphis I began committing to civic duties I got

began committing to civic duties I got

began committing to civic duties I got to understand what was important about

to understand what was important about

to understand what was important about downtown I was serving on the downtown

downtown I was serving on the downtown

downtown I was serving on the downtown Commission’s sister and affiliate boards

Commission’s sister and affiliate boards

Commission’s sister and affiliate boards and it was important to me to understand

and it was important to me to understand

and it was important to me to understand why economic development was important

why economic development was important

why economic development was important like education but an opportunity

like education but an opportunity

like education but an opportunity presented itself and I got to know the

presented itself and I got to know the

presented itself and I got to know the president at the time

president at the time

president at the time he suggested that he was going to be

he suggested that he was going to be

he suggested that he was going to be leaving soon and he thought I may be a

leaving soon and he thought I may be a

leaving soon and he thought I may be a good fit in the future to be the

good fit in the future to be the

good fit in the future to be the president

president

president this was a total stretch to even

this was a total stretch to even

this was a total stretch to even consider because I have a government

consider because I have a government

consider because I have a government degree I have very little experience in

degree I have very little experience in

degree I have very little experience in economic development I’ve been working

economic development I’ve been working

economic development I’ve been working in education I was relatively young

in education I was relatively young

in education I was relatively young these are jobs that are typically

these are jobs that are typically

these are jobs that are typically reserved for economic development

reserved for economic development

reserved for economic development professionals and folks that have much

professionals and folks that have much

professionals and folks that have much longer years of experience it’s my

longer years of experience it’s my

longer years of experience it’s my research they have conversations with

research they have conversations with

research they have conversations with mentors I went back to my mat I thought

mentors I went back to my mat I thought

mentors I went back to my mat I thought about my experiences and I ultimately

about my experiences and I ultimately

about my experiences and I ultimately decided to put my name in the ring and

decided to put my name in the ring and

decided to put my name in the ring and when people tell you that intelligence

when people tell you that intelligence

when people tell you that intelligence preparation and passion don’t matter I

preparation and passion don’t matter I

preparation and passion don’t matter I think you should call them a liar

think you should call them a liar

think you should call them a liar because they do matter because that’s

because they do matter because that’s

because they do matter because that’s how I found myself in my position today

how I found myself in my position today

how I found myself in my position today and so going through that realizing that

and so going through that realizing that

and so going through that realizing that these types of things are possible for

these types of things are possible for

these types of things are possible for our downtown thinking about the future

our downtown thinking about the future

our downtown thinking about the future bringing major corporations like

bringing major corporations like

bringing major corporations like ServiceMaster understanding what it

ServiceMaster understanding what it

ServiceMaster understanding what it takes to bring the next really important

takes to bring the next really important

takes to bring the next really important and it actually is the culmination of my

and it actually is the culmination of my

and it actually is the culmination of my story it’s a simple story it’s one like

story it’s a simple story it’s one like

story it’s a simple story it’s one like I said of hard work and acquired talent

I said of hard work and acquired talent

I said of hard work and acquired talent I didn’t know how to play receiver but I

I didn’t know how to play receiver but I

I didn’t know how to play receiver but I figured it out I’m becoming my first

figured it out I’m becoming my first

figured it out I’m becoming my first president and CEO and I’m understanding

president and CEO and I’m understanding

president and CEO and I’m understanding what this means I’ve had to work I had

what this means I’ve had to work I had

what this means I’ve had to work I had to work at the craft I’ve also had to

to work at the craft I’ve also had to

to work at the craft I’ve also had to acquire knowledge and surround myself

acquire knowledge and surround myself

acquire knowledge and surround myself with really smart people but those three

with really smart people but those three

with really smart people but those three thing themes continue to guide my

thing themes continue to guide my

thing themes continue to guide my decision-making and what I believe is

decision-making and what I believe is

decision-making and what I believe is most important

most important

most important is my impact you remember my my story

is my impact you remember my my story

is my impact you remember my my story started in Memphis and I believe just

started in Memphis and I believe just

started in Memphis and I believe just like you if your story starts in Memphis

like you if your story starts in Memphis

like you if your story starts in Memphis it should end with an impact on Memphis

it should end with an impact on Memphis

it should end with an impact on Memphis and so whether it’s in the middle of

and so whether it’s in the middle of

and so whether it’s in the middle of your career at the end of your careers

your career at the end of your careers

your career at the end of your careers you should think about how you how we

you should think about how you how we

you should think about how you how we can help impact the future of Memphis

can help impact the future of Memphis

can help impact the future of Memphis and to me the future of Memphis is now

and to me the future of Memphis is now

and to me the future of Memphis is now and we need all of you to help make the

and we need all of you to help make the

and we need all of you to help make the now better thank you

now better thank you

now better thank you [Applause]

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