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TEDx Whitehall Women Angela Atim Lakor | Angela Atim Lakor | TEDxWhitehallWomen


[Applause]

[Applause] my name is Artem Angelico in I come from

my name is Artem Angelico in I come from

my name is Artem Angelico in I come from Uganda in northern region I grew up in a

Uganda in northern region I grew up in a

Uganda in northern region I grew up in a very happy

very happy

very happy god-fearing family where by prayers and

god-fearing family where by prayers and

god-fearing family where by prayers and helping each other was a solution to

helping each other was a solution to

helping each other was a solution to life and your future my dream was to

life and your future my dream was to

life and your future my dream was to become a lawyer by them but at the age

become a lawyer by them but at the age

become a lawyer by them but at the age of 14 years old all my dreams were

of 14 years old all my dreams were

of 14 years old all my dreams were shattered in 1996 I was abducted among

shattered in 1996 I was abducted among

shattered in 1996 I was abducted among the girls from Saint Mary’s College

the girls from Saint Mary’s College

the girls from Saint Mary’s College ibaka by a rebel leader by a rebel group

ibaka by a rebel leader by a rebel group

ibaka by a rebel leader by a rebel group that was fighting corn by then a hundred

that was fighting corn by then a hundred

that was fighting corn by then a hundred and thirty nine girls reach the

and thirty nine girls reach the

and thirty nine girls reach the destination on that first day and sister

destination on that first day and sister

destination on that first day and sister who was our deputy headmistress

who was our deputy headmistress

who was our deputy headmistress Sarah Kelly followed us and pleaded for

Sarah Kelly followed us and pleaded for

Sarah Kelly followed us and pleaded for the rescue of the girls it was fortunate

the rescue of the girls it was fortunate

the rescue of the girls it was fortunate or unfortunate only 109 girls who are

or unfortunate only 109 girls who are

or unfortunate only 109 girls who are released that ovas remain that was the

released that ovas remain that was the

released that ovas remain that was the beginning of hell to us we were beaten

beginning of hell to us we were beaten

beginning of hell to us we were beaten we were threatened and we were told not

we were threatened and we were told not

we were threatened and we were told not to escape if he escaped then all of us

to escape if he escaped then all of us

to escape if he escaped then all of us will be will die

life in the bush was really terrible we

life in the bush was really terrible we were divided to the rebel men who are

were divided to the rebel men who are

were divided to the rebel men who are forced into sexual violence we were

forced into sexual violence we were

forced into sexual violence we were abused and we experienced all forms of

abused and we experienced all forms of

abused and we experienced all forms of torture beside that when told not to

torture beside that when told not to

torture beside that when told not to talk to each other

talk to each other

talk to each other it was really hard to see your friend

it was really hard to see your friend

it was really hard to see your friend your fellow student as a stranger from

your fellow student as a stranger from

your fellow student as a stranger from there it was so difficult because it was

there it was so difficult because it was

there it was so difficult because it was so difficult for me because I come from

so difficult for me because I come from

so difficult for me because I come from a light family who cared for each other

a light family who cared for each other

a light family who cared for each other and loved each other I was seen as a

and loved each other I was seen as a

and loved each other I was seen as a ringleader because they thought I was

ringleader because they thought I was

ringleader because they thought I was mobilizing the girls to escape and every

mobilizing the girls to escape and every

mobilizing the girls to escape and every time they keep on punishing me beating

time they keep on punishing me beating

time they keep on punishing me beating me torturing me not to escape but I

me torturing me not to escape but I

me torturing me not to escape but I never gave that whole I knew that at one

never gave that whole I knew that at one

never gave that whole I knew that at one point I’ll go back home despite all the

point I’ll go back home despite all the

point I’ll go back home despite all the mum all the difficulties and sufferings

mum all the difficulties and sufferings

mum all the difficulties and sufferings there were times that I had hope I

remember I used to pray so much I come

remember I used to pray so much I come from a strong Christian family and I

from a strong Christian family and I

from a strong Christian family and I could pray that none of my family

could pray that none of my family

could pray that none of my family members could really be abducted and

members could really be abducted and

members could really be abducted and each time that there were captives

each time that there were captives

each time that there were captives coming in and I see around and I don’t

coming in and I see around and I don’t

coming in and I see around and I don’t see any of my family members I thank God

see any of my family members I thank God

see any of my family members I thank God and again that hope again in 2002 there

and again that hope again in 2002 there

and again that hope again in 2002 there was a woman who had three children and

was a woman who had three children and

was a woman who had three children and the rebel leader I wanted to take some

the rebel leader I wanted to take some

the rebel leader I wanted to take some of the women back to you

of the women back to you

of the women back to you and anyway in this in Sudan by then she

and anyway in this in Sudan by then she

and anyway in this in Sudan by then she told me to promise for our child that if

told me to promise for our child that if

told me to promise for our child that if I’m escaping I have to escape with the

I’m escaping I have to escape with the

I’m escaping I have to escape with the child it was really so difficult because

child it was really so difficult because

child it was really so difficult because people were dying life was so had we

people were dying life was so had we

people were dying life was so had we were into ambushes but I had to promise

were into ambushes but I had to promise

were into ambushes but I had to promise her little did I know that this woman

her little did I know that this woman

her little did I know that this woman was not going to reach Uganda when the

was not going to reach Uganda when the

was not going to reach Uganda when the reach at the border she died with some

reach at the border she died with some

reach at the border she died with some other women when I heard of her death I

other women when I heard of her death I

other women when I heard of her death I even stayed stronger to live for the

even stayed stronger to live for the

even stayed stronger to live for the girl because I knew that was her wish

girl because I knew that was her wish

girl because I knew that was her wish and I had to fulfill that promise that I

and I had to fulfill that promise that I

and I had to fulfill that promise that I made to the matter the head but I never

made to the matter the head but I never

made to the matter the head but I never gave up just to live for the girl

despite all the torture there were

despite all the torture there were moments that I believe that God is alive

protecting me I escaped I escaped death

protecting me I escaped I escaped death several times innocently I was

several times innocently I was

several times innocently I was threatened to be killed

threatened to be killed

threatened to be killed and this really kept me moving on eight

and this really kept me moving on eight

and this really kept me moving on eight years eight years in captivity with

years eight years in captivity with

years eight years in captivity with suffering and pain

I’ve been longing for this day and I

I’ve been longing for this day and I hear a voice like talking to me that

hear a voice like talking to me that

hear a voice like talking to me that this is the time at first I thought like

this is the time at first I thought like

this is the time at first I thought like this wasn’t news to me because all this

this wasn’t news to me because all this

this wasn’t news to me because all this eight years I have been trying to escape

eight years I have been trying to escape

eight years I have been trying to escape trying to think of how I can live the

trying to think of how I can live the

trying to think of how I can live the rebel group but I couldn’t but this

rebel group but I couldn’t but this

rebel group but I couldn’t but this voice kept on over and over game just at

voice kept on over and over game just at

voice kept on over and over game just at around 11 a.m. in the defense that was

around 11 a.m. in the defense that was

around 11 a.m. in the defense that was staying in there was attack and looking

staying in there was attack and looking

staying in there was attack and looking at the girl by that time she was nine

at the girl by that time she was nine

at the girl by that time she was nine years old

years old

years old beside me I carried the three-year-old

beside me I carried the three-year-old

beside me I carried the three-year-old girl on my back and we started rushing

girl on my back and we started rushing

girl on my back and we started rushing towards Juba town because we were in

towards Juba town because we were in

towards Juba town because we were in Sudan and there was a mother that I was

Sudan and there was a mother that I was

Sudan and there was a mother that I was carrying the child and she was the child

carrying the child and she was the child

carrying the child and she was the child was three years old and she never wanted

was three years old and she never wanted

was three years old and she never wanted us to go to escape but I couldn’t leave

us to go to escape but I couldn’t leave

us to go to escape but I couldn’t leave that child because I knew if I had to

that child because I knew if I had to

that child because I knew if I had to leave the child the child would not live

leave the child the child would not live

leave the child the child would not live that was the time that I gained my hope

that was the time that I gained my hope

that was the time that I gained my hope again and I said I knew that I would

again and I said I knew that I would

again and I said I knew that I would escape I knew and I first that strong

escape I knew and I first that strong

escape I knew and I first that strong that I have to live and that was the

that I have to live and that was the

that I have to live and that was the time for me I feel so blessed because I

time for me I feel so blessed because I

time for me I feel so blessed because I managed to escape with this guy I

managed to escape with this guy I

managed to escape with this guy I managed to escape with a three-year-old

managed to escape with a three-year-old

managed to escape with a three-year-old girl and the mother who never wanted to

girl and the mother who never wanted to

girl and the mother who never wanted to come I thank God that we all escaped the

come I thank God that we all escaped the

come I thank God that we all escaped the journey shaped me into what I am today

journey shaped me into what I am today

journey shaped me into what I am today I loved I have love for this children

I loved I have love for this children

I loved I have love for this children and I never gave up them I remember when

and I never gave up them I remember when

and I never gave up them I remember when I came at the rehabilitation center well

I came at the rehabilitation center well

I came at the rehabilitation center well vision rehabilitation center and the way

vision rehabilitation center and the way

vision rehabilitation center and the way the staffs were taking care of the

the staffs were taking care of the

the staffs were taking care of the children the way there were nothing the

children the way there were nothing the

children the way there were nothing the wounds I just felt like this is home

wounds I just felt like this is home

wounds I just felt like this is home this is what I want to do I went back to

this is what I want to do I went back to

this is what I want to do I went back to college I did guidance and counseling

college I did guidance and counseling

college I did guidance and counseling and I came back I was employed as a

and I came back I was employed as a

and I came back I was employed as a counselor at well vision rehabilitation

counselor at well vision rehabilitation

counselor at well vision rehabilitation center in 2012 and the center was

center in 2012 and the center was

center in 2012 and the center was already closing during my time helping

already closing during my time helping

already closing during my time helping the formerly abducted women and the

the formerly abducted women and the

the formerly abducted women and the children that was the clear clear vision

children that was the clear clear vision

children that was the clear clear vision that I saw that I have to work for the

that I saw that I have to work for the

that I saw that I have to work for the children who were born of sexual

children who were born of sexual

children who were born of sexual violence in 2013 when the product

violence in 2013 when the product

violence in 2013 when the product project was closed I formed watching

project was closed I formed watching

project was closed I formed watching again what it again means we have hope

again what it again means we have hope

again what it again means we have hope we have hope it’s a community-based

we have hope it’s a community-based

we have hope it’s a community-based organization working for working to

organization working for working to

organization working for working to support the children and their rights

support the children and their rights

support the children and their rights and their welfare in northern region the

and their welfare in northern region the

and their welfare in northern region the name wattage again was chosen by 85

name wattage again was chosen by 85

name wattage again was chosen by 85 mothers to reflect the fact that they

mothers to reflect the fact that they

mothers to reflect the fact that they Astro they have faith they have hope

Astro they have faith they have hope

Astro they have faith they have hope that their voice their faith and their

that their voice their faith and their

that their voice their faith and their work shall contribute to the welfare of

work shall contribute to the welfare of

work shall contribute to the welfare of the children they themselves and the

the children they themselves and the

the children they themselves and the community that they live in

last actually this year one of the child

last actually this year one of the child that was so lovely

that was so lovely

that was so lovely she died innocently with no pain no

she died innocently with no pain no

she died innocently with no pain no sickness but she was just position we

sickness but she was just position we

sickness but she was just position we felt so bad and we thought this should

felt so bad and we thought this should

felt so bad and we thought this should not continue again to other children and

not continue again to other children and

not continue again to other children and how I hope continued seeing the children

how I hope continued seeing the children

how I hope continued seeing the children born in captivity growing peace building

born in captivity growing peace building

born in captivity growing peace building their self-esteem and the way they see

their self-esteem and the way they see

their self-esteem and the way they see themselves is what motivates me and

themselves is what motivates me and

themselves is what motivates me and energized me and that is why I am here I

energized me and that is why I am here I

energized me and that is why I am here I still have hope and we have hope that

still have hope and we have hope that

still have hope and we have hope that because we are the victims we are the

because we are the victims we are the

because we are the victims we are the survivors and we are the women’s of this

survivors and we are the women’s of this

survivors and we are the women’s of this children we can change the situation of

children we can change the situation of

children we can change the situation of this children we have hope that may many

this children we have hope that may many

this children we have hope that may many more donors will come to support our

more donors will come to support our

more donors will come to support our organization daily directly because

organization daily directly because

organization daily directly because there are hundreds of children who are

there are hundreds of children who are

there are hundreds of children who are still suffering silently there in the

still suffering silently there in the

still suffering silently there in the community we have hoped that the

community we have hoped that the

community we have hoped that the children bond out of sexual violence

children bond out of sexual violence

children bond out of sexual violence shall be freed by our voice and we are

shall be freed by our voice and we are

shall be freed by our voice and we are now documenting their success story we

now documenting their success story we

now documenting their success story we have hoped that our voice may rescue and

have hoped that our voice may rescue and

have hoped that our voice may rescue and encourage other survivors outside there

encourage other survivors outside there

encourage other survivors outside there to advocate for their rights as they

to advocate for their rights as they

to advocate for their rights as they live in the community thank you

live in the community thank you

live in the community thank you you

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