Press "Enter" to skip to content

Taking Flight | Katelyn Darrow | TEDxYouth@Harlow


one of my favorite memories from my

one of my favorite memories from my childhood when when was when my mom

childhood when when was when my mom

childhood when when was when my mom would take my sisters and I out on

would take my sisters and I out on

would take my sisters and I out on late-night stargazing adventures we

late-night stargazing adventures we

late-night stargazing adventures we would drive out really really far late

would drive out really really far late

would drive out really really far late at night and find a good dark spot and

at night and find a good dark spot and

at night and find a good dark spot and then look up at the stars and try to

then look up at the stars and try to

then look up at the stars and try to find constellations we would look for

find constellations we would look for

find constellations we would look for Orion and the Big Dipper and the North

Orion and the Big Dipper and the North

Orion and the Big Dipper and the North Star and it was just one of my favorite

Star and it was just one of my favorite

Star and it was just one of my favorite memories because I remember feeling so

memories because I remember feeling so

memories because I remember feeling so loved in those moments with my sisters

loved in those moments with my sisters

loved in those moments with my sisters and my mom it wasn’t until I was much

and my mom it wasn’t until I was much

and my mom it wasn’t until I was much older that I realized these late night

older that I realized these late night

older that I realized these late night adventures weren’t actually adventures

adventures weren’t actually adventures

adventures weren’t actually adventures at all it was my mom’s way of getting my

at all it was my mom’s way of getting my

at all it was my mom’s way of getting my sisters and I safely away from our

sisters and I safely away from our

sisters and I safely away from our abuser growing up my family and I

abuser growing up my family and I

abuser growing up my family and I experienced domestic violence it was

experienced domestic violence it was

experienced domestic violence it was something that impacted much of my life

something that impacted much of my life

something that impacted much of my life there were times when my sisters and I

there were times when my sisters and I

there were times when my sisters and I had to hide in a closet or under our bed

had to hide in a closet or under our bed

had to hide in a closet or under our bed just to stay safe a moment that defines

just to stay safe a moment that defines

just to stay safe a moment that defines me was when my mom sisters and I had to

me was when my mom sisters and I had to

me was when my mom sisters and I had to pick up in the middle of the night

pick up in the middle of the night

pick up in the middle of the night wearing only the clothing on her back

wearing only the clothing on her back

wearing only the clothing on her back leaving many of our favorite possessions

leaving many of our favorite possessions

leaving many of our favorite possessions behind and we escaped our abuser

behind and we escaped our abuser

behind and we escaped our abuser eventually we’ve received help from a

eventually we’ve received help from a

eventually we’ve received help from a local domestic violence shelter although

local domestic violence shelter although

local domestic violence shelter although that time was very scary and very

that time was very scary and very

that time was very scary and very tumultuous the thing that I remember

tumultuous the thing that I remember

tumultuous the thing that I remember most are the crisis counselors and the

most are the crisis counselors and the

most are the crisis counselors and the workers at that domestic violence

workers at that domestic violence

workers at that domestic violence shelter and just how loving they were

shelter and just how loving they were

shelter and just how loving they were and how warm they were and the

and how warm they were and the

and how warm they were and the compassion that they showed my family

compassion that they showed my family

compassion that they showed my family and I during that time a few years later

and I during that time a few years later

and I during that time a few years later we were faced with another obstacle a

we were faced with another obstacle a

we were faced with another obstacle a house fire I was in third grade at the

house fire I was in third grade at the

house fire I was in third grade at the time and I very vividly remember sitting

time and I very vividly remember sitting

time and I very vividly remember sitting in my classroom

in my classroom

in my classroom my teachers teaching was interrupted at

my teachers teaching was interrupted at

my teachers teaching was interrupted at the moment because we heard a fire truck

the moment because we heard a fire truck

the moment because we heard a fire truck go by I lived in a very very small town

go by I lived in a very very small town

go by I lived in a very very small town and so and of course being in third

and so and of course being in third

and so and of course being in third grade we were very excited by any

grade we were very excited by any

grade we were very excited by any outside noise and so we always ran to

outside noise and so we always ran to

outside noise and so we always ran to the window whenever we heard a fire

the window whenever we heard a fire

the window whenever we heard a fire truck or a police car and we would put

truck or a police car and we would put

truck or a police car and we would put her face up to the glass and try to see

her face up to the glass and try to see

her face up to the glass and try to see where the car was going never in a

where the car was going never in a

where the car was going never in a million years did I think that it was

million years did I think that it was

million years did I think that it was headed towards my house later that

headed towards my house later that

headed towards my house later that afternoon my mom did not pick my sisters

afternoon my mom did not pick my sisters

afternoon my mom did not pick my sisters and I up from school instead my church’s

and I up from school instead my church’s

and I up from school instead my church’s pastor came and picked my sisters and I

pastor came and picked my sisters and I

pastor came and picked my sisters and I up and she informed us that our house

up and she informed us that our house

up and she informed us that our house had caught fire earlier that day but

had caught fire earlier that day but

had caught fire earlier that day but luckily my mom was safe and so our

luckily my mom was safe and so our

luckily my mom was safe and so our animals at the time we had a few cats

animals at the time we had a few cats

animals at the time we had a few cats and dogs and they survived as well

and dogs and they survived as well

and dogs and they survived as well which was really good I remember when we

which was really good I remember when we

which was really good I remember when we finally went back to the house because

finally went back to the house because

finally went back to the house because we wanted to see if we could salvage

we wanted to see if we could salvage

we wanted to see if we could salvage anything or how bad the damage was

anything or how bad the damage was

anything or how bad the damage was and I very specifically remember finding

and I very specifically remember finding

and I very specifically remember finding my American Girl doll that was my

my American Girl doll that was my

my American Girl doll that was my favorite doll at the time and her face

favorite doll at the time and her face

favorite doll at the time and her face was melted and her hair was singed and

was melted and her hair was singed and

was melted and her hair was singed and it just felt so devastating in that

it just felt so devastating in that

it just felt so devastating in that moment but that’s not the memory that

moment but that’s not the memory that

moment but that’s not the memory that sticks out to me the most instead what I

sticks out to me the most instead what I

sticks out to me the most instead what I remember is again how people reached out

remember is again how people reached out

remember is again how people reached out and helped my family people were

and helped my family people were

and helped my family people were dropping off clothing and food and just

dropping off clothing and food and just

dropping off clothing and food and just were constantly asking how they could

were constantly asking how they could

were constantly asking how they could help and in what way they could assist

help and in what way they could assist

help and in what way they could assist us even complete strangers we were out

us even complete strangers we were out

us even complete strangers we were out of her home for over a year as we lived

of her home for over a year as we lived

of her home for over a year as we lived with friends in hotels and even on the

with friends in hotels and even on the

with friends in hotels and even on the floor of a food pantry going from place

floor of a food pantry going from place

floor of a food pantry going from place to place without an official location to

to place without an official location to

to place without an official location to call home was extremely difficult but we

call home was extremely difficult but we

call home was extremely difficult but we were together as a family and that’s all

were together as a family and that’s all

were together as a family and that’s all that mattered looking back what impacted

that mattered looking back what impacted

that mattered looking back what impacted me the most was how people reached out

me the most was how people reached out

me the most was how people reached out again that so many people in the

again that so many people in the

again that so many people in the community reached out during our

community reached out during our

community reached out during our hardships

hardships

hardships I’ll never forget that compassion and

I’ll never forget that compassion and

I’ll never forget that compassion and kindness that was shown to us they cared

kindness that was shown to us they cared

kindness that was shown to us they cared about our well-being and they wanted to

about our well-being and they wanted to

about our well-being and they wanted to make sure that we were okay and that is

make sure that we were okay and that is

make sure that we were okay and that is a feeling that I will always hold on to

a feeling that I will always hold on to

a feeling that I will always hold on to and will always try to share with others

and will always try to share with others

and will always try to share with others going through violence and tragedy at a

going through violence and tragedy at a

going through violence and tragedy at a young age was not easy but as I got

young age was not easy but as I got

young age was not easy but as I got older I decided that I could either let

older I decided that I could either let

older I decided that I could either let it define me or I could use it to make a

it define me or I could use it to make a

it define me or I could use it to make a difference now giving back is my way of

difference now giving back is my way of

difference now giving back is my way of paying it forward in 2009 at 12 years

paying it forward in 2009 at 12 years

paying it forward in 2009 at 12 years old I started a 501 C 3 non-profit

old I started a 501 C 3 non-profit

old I started a 501 C 3 non-profit organization called the angels of God

organization called the angels of God

organization called the angels of God community outreach my charity provides

community outreach my charity provides

community outreach my charity provides clothing food and more to those in need

clothing food and more to those in need

clothing food and more to those in need we work with families and individuals

we work with families and individuals

we work with families and individuals who have fallen on hard times whether

who have fallen on hard times whether

who have fallen on hard times whether they have experienced a house fire or

they have experienced a house fire or

they have experienced a house fire or domestic violence like my family or

domestic violence like my family or

domestic violence like my family or maybe someone in the family just

maybe someone in the family just

maybe someone in the family just recently lost their job and they can no

recently lost their job and they can no

recently lost their job and they can no longer afford those basic necessities

longer afford those basic necessities

longer afford those basic necessities it’s also very heartwarming to go back

it’s also very heartwarming to go back

it’s also very heartwarming to go back to that same domestic violence shelter

to that same domestic violence shelter

to that same domestic violence shelter and now help the residents there I feel

and now help the residents there I feel

and now help the residents there I feel like it’s all come full circle and

like it’s all come full circle and

like it’s all come full circle and seeing the workers there and now being

seeing the workers there and now being

seeing the workers there and now being able to actually help just feels so

able to actually help just feels so

able to actually help just feels so amazing we work with social services

amazing we work with social services

amazing we work with social services homeless shelters and community leaders

homeless shelters and community leaders

homeless shelters and community leaders who refer clients to us and then the

who refer clients to us and then the

who refer clients to us and then the clients are invited to come into our

clients are invited to come into our

clients are invited to come into our storefront and go shopping for free so

storefront and go shopping for free so

storefront and go shopping for free so we don’t sell anything at all all of our

we don’t sell anything at all all of our

we don’t sell anything at all all of our services are free and in addition to the

services are free and in addition to the

services are free and in addition to the clothing and food which we do throughout

clothing and food which we do throughout

clothing and food which we do throughout the year we also give out school

the year we also give out school

the year we also give out school supplies which you can see up there we

supplies which you can see up there we

supplies which you can see up there we have a great photo and we give out

have a great photo and we give out

have a great photo and we give out Thanksgiving meals and Christmas toys

Thanksgiving meals and Christmas toys

Thanksgiving meals and Christmas toys and throughout the year we have a lot of

and throughout the year we have a lot of

and throughout the year we have a lot of really special seasonal projects as well

really special seasonal projects as well

really special seasonal projects as well I love the fact that these families can

I love the fact that these families can

I love the fact that these families can come into the clothing closet and

come into the clothing closet and

come into the clothing closet and actually go shopping because I know how

actually go shopping because I know how

actually go shopping because I know how difficult it can be to keep your dignity

difficult it can be to keep your dignity

difficult it can be to keep your dignity during these tough times all of the

during these tough times all of the

during these tough times all of the clothing and donations that come through

clothing and donations that come through

clothing and donations that come through are just donated by individual

are just donated by individual

are just donated by individual like you people who are cleaning out

like you people who are cleaning out

like you people who are cleaning out their closet or maybe when you go to the

their closet or maybe when you go to the

their closet or maybe when you go to the food store and picking up an extra box

food store and picking up an extra box

food store and picking up an extra box of cereal or a can of food and then

of cereal or a can of food and then

of cereal or a can of food and then donating it that’s how we get all of our

donating it that’s how we get all of our

donating it that’s how we get all of our services I’ve learned that sometimes

services I’ve learned that sometimes

services I’ve learned that sometimes something as simple as a new outfit can

something as simple as a new outfit can

something as simple as a new outfit can put a smile on someone’s face and can

put a smile on someone’s face and can

put a smile on someone’s face and can make them feel beautiful again

make them feel beautiful again

make them feel beautiful again especially when they’re going through

especially when they’re going through

especially when they’re going through tough circumstances although my

tough circumstances although my

tough circumstances although my organization has helped over 30,000

organization has helped over 30,000

organization has helped over 30,000 people to date I wanted to share some

people to date I wanted to share some

people to date I wanted to share some individual stories some of these stories

individual stories some of these stories

individual stories some of these stories have really touched my heart and have

have really touched my heart and have

have really touched my heart and have stuck out in my mind even though I’ve

stuck out in my mind even though I’ve

stuck out in my mind even though I’ve been doing this since 2009 every day we

been doing this since 2009 every day we

been doing this since 2009 every day we just hear the most heartbreaking stories

just hear the most heartbreaking stories

just hear the most heartbreaking stories and then trying to help as best as we

and then trying to help as best as we

and then trying to help as best as we can that’s what we tried to do I also

can that’s what we tried to do I also

can that’s what we tried to do I also feel like I can deeply relate to a lot

feel like I can deeply relate to a lot

feel like I can deeply relate to a lot of the clients coming through especially

of the clients coming through especially

of the clients coming through especially the children and I think it’s those

the children and I think it’s those

the children and I think it’s those stories that really tug at my

stories that really tug at my

stories that really tug at my heartstrings just a few weeks ago I had

heartstrings just a few weeks ago I had

heartstrings just a few weeks ago I had a teenage girl actually personally pull

a teenage girl actually personally pull

a teenage girl actually personally pull me aside because she was a bit

me aside because she was a bit

me aside because she was a bit embarrassed to go up to some of our

embarrassed to go up to some of our

embarrassed to go up to some of our older volunteers and she told me that

older volunteers and she told me that

older volunteers and she told me that all she had was tank tops to wear for

all she had was tank tops to wear for

all she had was tank tops to wear for gym class and just to where in general

gym class and just to where in general

gym class and just to where in general she only had tank tops and she didn’t

she only had tank tops and she didn’t

she only had tank tops and she didn’t have any bras and so she was really

have any bras and so she was really

have any bras and so she was really humiliated and wasn’t able to change

humiliated and wasn’t able to change

humiliated and wasn’t able to change during gym class because she didn’t have

during gym class because she didn’t have

during gym class because she didn’t have anything under and she was being bullied

anything under and she was being bullied

anything under and she was being bullied at school and as she was telling me this

at school and as she was telling me this

at school and as she was telling me this story I just had my heart breaking

story I just had my heart breaking

story I just had my heart breaking because I feel like that’s such a

because I feel like that’s such a

because I feel like that’s such a necessity and then to not have that as a

necessity and then to not have that as a

necessity and then to not have that as a teenage girl we made sure that we were

teenage girl we made sure that we were

teenage girl we made sure that we were able to provide that and so much more

able to provide that and so much more

able to provide that and so much more for her and her family and just making

for her and her family and just making

for her and her family and just making sure that she can keep her dignity

sure that she can keep her dignity

sure that she can keep her dignity during these tough times it’s such a

during these tough times it’s such a

during these tough times it’s such a basic thing a lot of the services that

basic thing a lot of the services that

basic thing a lot of the services that we put out clothing food these are

we put out clothing food these are

we put out clothing food these are things that we don’t even think twice

things that we don’t even think twice

things that we don’t even think twice about but then as I talked to these

about but then as I talked to these

about but then as I talked to these clients it brings me back to that place

clients it brings me back to that place

clients it brings me back to that place when I was younger and I just start

when I was younger and I just start

when I was younger and I just start thinking of all those memories from when

thinking of all those memories from when

thinking of all those memories from when I was a child and my family was going

I was a child and my family was going

I was a child and my family was going through that I think what impacted me

through that I think what impacted me

through that I think what impacted me the most about this girl was how her

the most about this girl was how her

the most about this girl was how her schooling was being affected you know

schooling was being affected you know

schooling was being affected you know she didn’t want to go to school and she

she didn’t want to go to school and she

she didn’t want to go to school and she didn’t want to go to her gym class

didn’t want to go to her gym class

didn’t want to go to her gym class because for the bullying that was going

because for the bullying that was going

because for the bullying that was going on and so in the end of course we made

on and so in the end of course we made

on and so in the end of course we made sure that angels of God was able to

sure that angels of God was able to

sure that angels of God was able to provide bras and clothing and all of

provide bras and clothing and all of

provide bras and clothing and all of that necessities to her another instance

that necessities to her another instance

that necessities to her another instance again where education was affected was a

again where education was affected was a

again where education was affected was a 14 year old girl she had emailed me and

14 year old girl she had emailed me and

14 year old girl she had emailed me and she was living in the local area where

she was living in the local area where

she was living in the local area where I’m from and she told me that every

I’m from and she told me that every

I’m from and she told me that every month she pretends to be sick

month she pretends to be sick

month she pretends to be sick because she doesn’t have access to pads

because she doesn’t have access to pads

because she doesn’t have access to pads and tampons and so every month when she

and tampons and so every month when she

and tampons and so every month when she gets her period she’s too embarrassed to

gets her period she’s too embarrassed to

gets her period she’s too embarrassed to tell anyone and unfortunately her

tell anyone and unfortunately her

tell anyone and unfortunately her parents weren’t providing it they didn’t

parents weren’t providing it they didn’t

parents weren’t providing it they didn’t have the financial means to provide it

have the financial means to provide it

have the financial means to provide it and so again we reached out and we made

and so again we reached out and we made

and so again we reached out and we made sure that she was able to get those

sure that she was able to get those

sure that she was able to get those feminine products because again that’s

feminine products because again that’s

feminine products because again that’s something that’s super important and so

something that’s super important and so

something that’s super important and so I realized now that angels of God has

I realized now that angels of God has

I realized now that angels of God has gone beyond just food and clothing we

gone beyond just food and clothing we

gone beyond just food and clothing we have been helping with so many different

have been helping with so many different

have been helping with so many different services and it warms my heart to see

services and it warms my heart to see

services and it warms my heart to see the organization growing this much these

the organization growing this much these

the organization growing this much these are situations that no child should have

are situations that no child should have

are situations that no child should have to go through that no child should have

to go through that no child should have

to go through that no child should have to worry about we have families where

to worry about we have families where

to worry about we have families where both parents are working but maybe

both parents are working but maybe

both parents are working but maybe they’re only making minimum wage and

they’re only making minimum wage and

they’re only making minimum wage and unfortunately that’s just not enough to

unfortunately that’s just not enough to

unfortunately that’s just not enough to provide in closing I want to tell you

provide in closing I want to tell you

provide in closing I want to tell you that even though I’ve been through some

that even though I’ve been through some

that even though I’ve been through some of these hardships I would not change a

of these hardships I would not change a

of these hardships I would not change a thing I was raised by an amazing woman

thing I was raised by an amazing woman

thing I was raised by an amazing woman which is my mom and she showed me what

which is my mom and she showed me what

which is my mom and she showed me what strong is she showed me how to be

strong is she showed me how to be

strong is she showed me how to be courageous and how to work hard and most

courageous and how to work hard and most

courageous and how to work hard and most importantly how to be compassionate and

importantly how to be compassionate and

importantly how to be compassionate and giving a hand up to those in need I

giving a hand up to those in need I

giving a hand up to those in need I think that’s the whole mission of what

think that’s the whole mission of what

think that’s the whole mission of what I’ve started just giving a hand up to

I’ve started just giving a hand up to

I’ve started just giving a hand up to those who need it I think during these

those who need it I think during these

those who need it I think during these times it is extremely extremely

times it is extremely extremely

times it is extremely extremely important just to spread kindness

important just to spread kindness

important just to spread kindness to have compassion for others so now I

to have compassion for others so now I

to have compassion for others so now I have a very special challenge for all of

have a very special challenge for all of

have a very special challenge for all of you I want to challenge you to give a

you I want to challenge you to give a

you I want to challenge you to give a hand up to someone in need it can be

hand up to someone in need it can be

hand up to someone in need it can be something as simple as holding the door

something as simple as holding the door

something as simple as holding the door open for someone or paying someone a

open for someone or paying someone a

open for someone or paying someone a compliment it can be something as big as

compliment it can be something as big as

compliment it can be something as big as volunteering at a homeless shelter or

volunteering at a homeless shelter or

volunteering at a homeless shelter or cleaning out your closet I know we all

cleaning out your closet I know we all

cleaning out your closet I know we all have clothing and shoes and dresses that

have clothing and shoes and dresses that

have clothing and shoes and dresses that we don’t wear anymore or maybe that

we don’t wear anymore or maybe that

we don’t wear anymore or maybe that don’t fit us anymore

don’t fit us anymore

don’t fit us anymore and so going through your closet and

and so going through your closet and

and so going through your closet and donating those items to people who truly

donating those items to people who truly

donating those items to people who truly need it can make the biggest difference

need it can make the biggest difference

need it can make the biggest difference for someone and I know that firsthand so

for someone and I know that firsthand so

for someone and I know that firsthand so again maybe you have a pair of shoes a

again maybe you have a pair of shoes a

again maybe you have a pair of shoes a jacket or even a prom gown that you

jacket or even a prom gown that you

jacket or even a prom gown that you don’t plan on using again I think the

don’t plan on using again I think the

don’t plan on using again I think the biggest idea is just to be compassionate

biggest idea is just to be compassionate

biggest idea is just to be compassionate and to help others even if it’s a small

and to help others even if it’s a small

and to help others even if it’s a small action like I said giving a compliment

action like I said giving a compliment

action like I said giving a compliment to someone that could make the biggest

to someone that could make the biggest

to someone that could make the biggest difference in someone’s day if you do

difference in someone’s day if you do

difference in someone’s day if you do want to do the challenge I would

want to do the challenge I would

want to do the challenge I would absolutely love if you reached out via

absolutely love if you reached out via

absolutely love if you reached out via social media I have my personal links up

social media I have my personal links up

social media I have my personal links up here and then also my charity is links

here and then also my charity is links

here and then also my charity is links as well so if you want to visit those

as well so if you want to visit those

as well so if you want to visit those websites and maybe tweet me or post on

websites and maybe tweet me or post on

websites and maybe tweet me or post on Instagram and let me know what you did I

Instagram and let me know what you did I

Instagram and let me know what you did I would absolutely love that again thank

would absolutely love that again thank

would absolutely love that again thank you all so so much for listening I

you all so so much for listening I

you all so so much for listening I really do appreciate it

really do appreciate it

really do appreciate it [Applause]

I know you want to escape it it holds

I know you want to escape it it holds not credible I mean just this story to

not credible I mean just this story to

not credible I mean just this story to hear from you Caitlin and one of the

hear from you Caitlin and one of the

hear from you Caitlin and one of the things I was thinking when I’m listening

things I was thinking when I’m listening

things I was thinking when I’m listening is that with that much drama going on in

is that with that much drama going on in

is that with that much drama going on in early life and I know as a child myself

early life and I know as a child myself

early life and I know as a child myself some things you kind of accept you think

some things you kind of accept you think

some things you kind of accept you think that’s just how it is other things

that’s just how it is other things

that’s just how it is other things you’re you challenge but you’re not sure

you’re you challenge but you’re not sure

you’re you challenge but you’re not sure how to change it but it’s such a young

how to change it but it’s such a young

how to change it but it’s such a young age to decide to say well I’m I’m going

age to decide to say well I’m I’m going

age to decide to say well I’m I’m going to do something about this how do you

to do something about this how do you

to do something about this how do you think that came about that that was your

think that came about that that was your

think that came about that that was your decision and not one to kind of be cross

decision and not one to kind of be cross

decision and not one to kind of be cross and angry and did that decision help you

and angry and did that decision help you

and angry and did that decision help you overcome any sort bitterness that you

overcome any sort bitterness that you

overcome any sort bitterness that you felt yeah I mean I think a big impact

felt yeah I mean I think a big impact

felt yeah I mean I think a big impact was definitely my mom you know she

was definitely my mom you know she

was definitely my mom you know she always just taught us compassion and

always just taught us compassion and

always just taught us compassion and kindness and I feel like I had so many

kindness and I feel like I had so many

kindness and I feel like I had so many great role models from the counselors

great role models from the counselors

great role models from the counselors that I was working with at the domestic

that I was working with at the domestic

that I was working with at the domestic violence shelter and having those good

violence shelter and having those good

violence shelter and having those good influences I think were really crucial

influences I think were really crucial

influences I think were really crucial in healing and then also when I did

in healing and then also when I did

in healing and then also when I did start the organization and beginning to

start the organization and beginning to

start the organization and beginning to help others I felt like my story kind of

help others I felt like my story kind of

help others I felt like my story kind of started to come full circle and it was a

started to come full circle and it was a

started to come full circle and it was a part of the healing process being able

part of the healing process being able

part of the healing process being able to reach out and realize that you know

to reach out and realize that you know

to reach out and realize that you know we all can give a hand up and we all can

we all can give a hand up and we all can

we all can give a hand up and we all can help each other and you know we all of

help each other and you know we all of

help each other and you know we all of the capability of doing that and even

the capability of doing that and even

the capability of doing that and even though for the longest time I had felt

though for the longest time I had felt

though for the longest time I had felt like a victim I realized that I didn’t

like a victim I realized that I didn’t

like a victim I realized that I didn’t have to be subjected to that label yeah

have to be subjected to that label yeah

have to be subjected to that label yeah and some some children take that label

and some some children take that label

and some some children take that label into adulthood what would you say to

into adulthood what would you say to

into adulthood what would you say to adults who felt that they didn’t have

adults who felt that they didn’t have

adults who felt that they didn’t have agency to do anything how would you kind

agency to do anything how would you kind

agency to do anything how would you kind of encourage people to take the risk and

of encourage people to take the risk and

of encourage people to take the risk and try and as you say sort of help someone

try and as you say sort of help someone

try and as you say sort of help someone yeah I mean I think that starting small

yeah I mean I think that starting small

yeah I mean I think that starting small like I mentioned you know reaching out

like I mentioned you know reaching out

like I mentioned you know reaching out and you know asking someone how they’re

and you know asking someone how they’re

and you know asking someone how they’re doing or giving a compliment holding the

doing or giving a compliment holding the

doing or giving a compliment holding the door open these small things just adding

door open these small things just adding

door open these small things just adding positivity to your life through these

positivity to your life through these

positivity to your life through these small actions and trying to find healing

small actions and trying to find healing

small actions and trying to find healing within yourself i think is very crucial

within yourself i think is very crucial

within yourself i think is very crucial as well and that’s what I would tell

as well and that’s what I would tell

as well and that’s what I would tell them you’re amazing is your mom here she

them you’re amazing is your mom here she

them you’re amazing is your mom here she is your mother

is your mother

is your mother awesome round of applause what an

awesome round of applause what an

awesome round of applause what an amazing

amazing

amazing yes this is what excellent parenting

yes this is what excellent parenting

yes this is what excellent parenting looks like well done them and Thank You

looks like well done them and Thank You

looks like well done them and Thank You Caitlin thank you my darling no be

Caitlin thank you my darling no be

Caitlin thank you my darling no be awesome thank you so much so do you see

awesome thank you so much so do you see

awesome thank you so much so do you see how we’ve set the tone already this is

how we’ve set the tone already this is

how we’ve set the tone already this is where we’re going amazing people coming

where we’re going amazing people coming

where we’re going amazing people coming up sharing amazing things

”

Be First to Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *