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Survival of the Kindest | Alex Peavey | TEDxYouth@RVA


back when I was 15 years old I took a

back when I was 15 years old I took a wilderness trip out west where we

wilderness trip out west where we

wilderness trip out west where we traveled through over 20 states in less

traveled through over 20 states in less

traveled through over 20 states in less than 30 days and the intention was

than 30 days and the intention was

than 30 days and the intention was self-discovery while being challenged

self-discovery while being challenged

self-discovery while being challenged physically and mentally we did things

physically and mentally we did things

physically and mentally we did things like rock climb and extended hikes and

like rock climb and extended hikes and

like rock climb and extended hikes and whitewater raft and was all while

whitewater raft and was all while

whitewater raft and was all while sleeping under the night sky with no

sleeping under the night sky with no

sleeping under the night sky with no tent to protect us from the elements the

tent to protect us from the elements the

tent to protect us from the elements the whole trip was eye-opening but one

whole trip was eye-opening but one

whole trip was eye-opening but one experience in particular was

experience in particular was

experience in particular was life-changing it was life-changing in a

life-changing it was life-changing in a

life-changing it was life-changing in a way that I had no idea then that it

way that I had no idea then that it

way that I had no idea then that it would be so important to me all the way

would be so important to me all the way

would be so important to me all the way to this day and speaking of this day

to this day and speaking of this day

to this day and speaking of this day what I would like to ask us all do right

what I would like to ask us all do right

what I would like to ask us all do right now is to arrive to this day arrive to

now is to arrive to this day arrive to

now is to arrive to this day arrive to this moment through a brief guided

this moment through a brief guided

this moment through a brief guided practice of mindfulness so if you don’t

practice of mindfulness so if you don’t

practice of mindfulness so if you don’t mind sit back in your seat put your feet

mind sit back in your seat put your feet

mind sit back in your seat put your feet flat on the floor and allow your arms to

flat on the floor and allow your arms to

flat on the floor and allow your arms to kind of drop to your side or in your lap

kind of drop to your side or in your lap

kind of drop to your side or in your lap so that you’re as comfortable as

so that you’re as comfortable as

so that you’re as comfortable as possible and if you’re comfortable with

possible and if you’re comfortable with

possible and if you’re comfortable with this allow the eyes to close if you

this allow the eyes to close if you

this allow the eyes to close if you don’t want to close your eyes that’s

don’t want to close your eyes that’s

don’t want to close your eyes that’s okay you can have them halfway open but

okay you can have them halfway open but

okay you can have them halfway open but the idea is that we’re letting go of the

the idea is that we’re letting go of the

the idea is that we’re letting go of the sense of sight and by letting go of this

sense of sight and by letting go of this

sense of sight and by letting go of this sense of sight we can focus inward and

sense of sight we can focus inward and

sense of sight we can focus inward and you can be more aware of our body and in

you can be more aware of our body and in

you can be more aware of our body and in particular what I want us to focus on is

particular what I want us to focus on is

particular what I want us to focus on is our shoulders because we often carry the

our shoulders because we often carry the

our shoulders because we often carry the tension of our day in our shoulders and

tension of our day in our shoulders and

tension of our day in our shoulders and we don’t even know what’s happening so

we don’t even know what’s happening so

we don’t even know what’s happening so right now take a moment to be aware of

right now take a moment to be aware of

right now take a moment to be aware of your shoulders without judgement just

your shoulders without judgement just

your shoulders without judgement just notice and then very intentionally let

notice and then very intentionally let

notice and then very intentionally let the shoulders drop let gravity pull the

the shoulders drop let gravity pull the

the shoulders drop let gravity pull the arms down a bit take a deep breath in

arms down a bit take a deep breath in

arms down a bit take a deep breath in and as you exhale that deep breath I

and as you exhale that deep breath I

and as you exhale that deep breath I want you to release all the tension of

want you to release all the tension of

want you to release all the tension of your body let it go and then let go of

your body let it go and then let go of

your body let it go and then let go of the breath and shift your focus down to

the breath and shift your focus down to

the breath and shift your focus down to your feet and for a moment what I want

your feet and for a moment what I want

your feet and for a moment what I want you to do is just notice what it feels

you to do is just notice what it feels

you to do is just notice what it feels like to pay attention to your feet

like to pay attention to your feet

like to pay attention to your feet touching the floor our feet have been

touching the floor our feet have been

touching the floor our feet have been touching the floor the whole time but we

touching the floor the whole time but we

touching the floor the whole time but we haven’t noticed it because we didn’t pay

haven’t noticed it because we didn’t pay

haven’t noticed it because we didn’t pay attention to it and what’s the point the

attention to it and what’s the point the

attention to it and what’s the point the point is presence so what does it feel

point is presence so what does it feel

point is presence so what does it feel like to have our feet touching the floor

like to have our feet touching the floor

like to have our feet touching the floor then take another deep breath in and as

then take another deep breath in and as

then take another deep breath in and as you exhale this time I want you to

you exhale this time I want you to

you exhale this time I want you to open your eyes and open your awareness

open your eyes and open your awareness

open your eyes and open your awareness to the sense of sight and really open

to the sense of sight and really open

to the sense of sight and really open your awareness to all of your senses

your awareness to all of your senses

your awareness to all of your senses because it’s our senses that are like

because it’s our senses that are like

because it’s our senses that are like these tiny little doorways into the

these tiny little doorways into the

these tiny little doorways into the present moment and you see it was this

present moment and you see it was this

present moment and you see it was this simple practice of paying attention of

simple practice of paying attention of

simple practice of paying attention of letting go of dropping judgment and

letting go of dropping judgment and

letting go of dropping judgment and feeling our senses it was this practice

feeling our senses it was this practice

feeling our senses it was this practice that so many years ago on that trip

that so many years ago on that trip

that so many years ago on that trip changed the trajectory of my life to

changed the trajectory of my life to

changed the trajectory of my life to follow after that and so with this

follow after that and so with this

follow after that and so with this practice and with this trip we got to

practice and with this trip we got to

practice and with this trip we got to our halfway point in California right on

our halfway point in California right on

our halfway point in California right on the coast and he’s pulled over on

the coast and he’s pulled over on

the coast and he’s pulled over on highway 1 and they asked us to walk out

highway 1 and they asked us to walk out

highway 1 and they asked us to walk out onto a cliff that overlooked the Pacific

onto a cliff that overlooked the Pacific

onto a cliff that overlooked the Pacific Ocean where they took me through what

Ocean where they took me through what

Ocean where they took me through what was my first guided mindfulness

was my first guided mindfulness

was my first guided mindfulness meditation practice followed by a

meditation practice followed by a

meditation practice followed by a practice of gratitude and it was

practice of gratitude and it was

practice of gratitude and it was interesting because on that trip we’ve

interesting because on that trip we’ve

interesting because on that trip we’ve been doing so many challenges so much

been doing so many challenges so much

been doing so many challenges so much rigorous doing that in that moment the

rigorous doing that in that moment the

rigorous doing that in that moment the challenge was asking us to do nothing

challenge was asking us to do nothing

challenge was asking us to do nothing and that’s when I came to the

and that’s when I came to the

and that’s when I came to the realization that there is no thing

realization that there is no thing

realization that there is no thing outside of myself no tangible thing that

outside of myself no tangible thing that

outside of myself no tangible thing that can bring true peace and true joy much

can bring true peace and true joy much

can bring true peace and true joy much like the practice of presence can and so

like the practice of presence can and so

like the practice of presence can and so from that point on I spent the next two

from that point on I spent the next two

from that point on I spent the next two thirds of my life studying mindfulness

thirds of my life studying mindfulness

thirds of my life studying mindfulness and practicing mindfulness and the last

and practicing mindfulness and the last

and practicing mindfulness and the last 1/3 of my life has been spent also

1/3 of my life has been spent also

1/3 of my life has been spent also teaching mindfulness and during that

teaching mindfulness and during that

teaching mindfulness and during that time I came to another realization that

time I came to another realization that

time I came to another realization that I believe could be key to the survival

I believe could be key to the survival

I believe could be key to the survival of our species as a whole but before we

of our species as a whole but before we

of our species as a whole but before we get to that I want us to understand how

get to that I want us to understand how

get to that I want us to understand how mindfulness works and I want to look at

mindfulness works and I want to look at

mindfulness works and I want to look at it from the framework of Daniel

it from the framework of Daniel

it from the framework of Daniel Goleman’s emotional intelligence concept

Goleman’s emotional intelligence concept

Goleman’s emotional intelligence concept in the sense that self-awareness is a

in the sense that self-awareness is a

in the sense that self-awareness is a key to emotional intelligence and

key to emotional intelligence and

key to emotional intelligence and mindfulness is the foundation to

mindfulness is the foundation to

mindfulness is the foundation to self-awareness so if we cultivate

self-awareness so if we cultivate

self-awareness so if we cultivate self-awareness we also cultivate

self-awareness we also cultivate

self-awareness we also cultivate emotional awareness and as we cultivate

emotional awareness and as we cultivate

emotional awareness and as we cultivate emotional awareness we call debate

emotional awareness we call debate

emotional awareness we call debate emotional control and what I mean by

emotional control and what I mean by

emotional control and what I mean by that is we know what emotions were

that is we know what emotions were

that is we know what emotions were experiencing because they all have

experiencing because they all have

experiencing because they all have physiological expressions throughout our

physiological expressions throughout our

physiological expressions throughout our body and as we can notice an individual

body and as we can notice an individual

body and as we can notice an individual emotion by the expression of the

emotion by the expression of the

emotion by the expression of the physical we can then do something about

physical we can then do something about

physical we can then do something about it

it

it so for example if you’re feeling anger

so for example if you’re feeling anger

so for example if you’re feeling anger or an anxiety you might tense your fists

or an anxiety you might tense your fists

or an anxiety you might tense your fists the emotion is anger and anxiety the

the emotion is anger and anxiety the

the emotion is anger and anxiety the physical symptom is the fist and so with

physical symptom is the fist and so with

physical symptom is the fist and so with emotional control

emotional control

emotional control you’re not suppressing the emotion

you’re not suppressing the emotion

you’re not suppressing the emotion you’re feeling it but you also have the

you’re feeling it but you also have the

you’re feeling it but you also have the realization that you can’t control the

realization that you can’t control the

realization that you can’t control the world around you but what you can

world around you but what you can

world around you but what you can control is what you do about it

control is what you do about it

control is what you do about it so in that moment you let go of your

so in that moment you let go of your

so in that moment you let go of your fists you let go of the tension and you

fists you let go of the tension and you

fists you let go of the tension and you also let go of all the emotions that are

also let go of all the emotions that are

also let go of all the emotions that are coursing through your body that are

coursing through your body that are

coursing through your body that are trying to alter how you behave and who

trying to alter how you behave and who

trying to alter how you behave and who you are in that given moment so with

you are in that given moment so with

you are in that given moment so with emotional control you move into

emotional control you move into

emotional control you move into self-confidence because again even

self-confidence because again even

self-confidence because again even though we don’t have control of the

though we don’t have control of the

though we don’t have control of the world around us we do have control over

world around us we do have control over

world around us we do have control over of our response to that world and so

of our response to that world and so

of our response to that world and so with self-confidence we move towards a

with self-confidence we move towards a

with self-confidence we move towards a growth mindset and with a growth mindset

growth mindset and with a growth mindset

growth mindset and with a growth mindset what that is is the idea that we have a

what that is is the idea that we have a

what that is is the idea that we have a willingness to move towards a challenge

willingness to move towards a challenge

willingness to move towards a challenge rather than back away from it so if we

rather than back away from it so if we

rather than back away from it so if we have a growth mindset then what is a

have a growth mindset then what is a

have a growth mindset then what is a growth mindset that we want to move

growth mindset that we want to move

growth mindset that we want to move towards that is for the sake of the

towards that is for the sake of the

towards that is for the sake of the survival of our species and I’m talking

survival of our species and I’m talking

survival of our species and I’m talking beyond our lifetime right now and I ask

beyond our lifetime right now and I ask

beyond our lifetime right now and I ask that question because if you turn on the

that question because if you turn on the

that question because if you turn on the news on any given night it looks like

news on any given night it looks like

news on any given night it looks like we’re a lot better destroying one

we’re a lot better destroying one

we’re a lot better destroying one another than we are helping one another

another than we are helping one another

another than we are helping one another somewhere along the line we made the

somewhere along the line we made the

somewhere along the line we made the mistake of thinking we’re the most

mistake of thinking we’re the most

mistake of thinking we’re the most dominant animal on this earth which were

dominant animal on this earth which were

dominant animal on this earth which were not because when you look at our body

not because when you look at our body

not because when you look at our body alone we can’t outrun a cheetah

alone we can’t outrun a cheetah

alone we can’t outrun a cheetah we can’t outswim a fish we can’t outfly

we can’t outswim a fish we can’t outfly

we can’t outswim a fish we can’t outfly a bird but what we can do is invent the

a bird but what we can do is invent the

a bird but what we can do is invent the machinery that gives us the capability

machinery that gives us the capability

machinery that gives us the capability to climb to the apex to the top of that

to climb to the apex to the top of that

to climb to the apex to the top of that food chain of capabilities and so it’s

food chain of capabilities and so it’s

food chain of capabilities and so it’s our mind it’s our higher development of

our mind it’s our higher development of

our mind it’s our higher development of the brain that has allowed us to achieve

the brain that has allowed us to achieve

the brain that has allowed us to achieve amazing feats but it’s also our brain

amazing feats but it’s also our brain

amazing feats but it’s also our brain that’s been to our don’t demise as we

that’s been to our don’t demise as we

that’s been to our don’t demise as we take this higher and electrical

take this higher and electrical

take this higher and electrical intellectual capability and we slip it

intellectual capability and we slip it

intellectual capability and we slip it into greed and selfishness and deceit

into greed and selfishness and deceit

into greed and selfishness and deceit and anger and harm harm of others harm

and anger and harm harm of others harm

and anger and harm harm of others harm of ourselves harm of our fellow species

of ourselves harm of our fellow species

of ourselves harm of our fellow species harm of our brothers and sisters of this

harm of our brothers and sisters of this

harm of our brothers and sisters of this the human race all for the sake of

the human race all for the sake of

the human race all for the sake of personal gain and if you look back to

personal gain and if you look back to

personal gain and if you look back to 1859 almost 158 years ago this exact

1859 almost 158 years ago this exact

1859 almost 158 years ago this exact month is when Charles Darwin’s original

month is when Charles Darwin’s original

month is when Charles Darwin’s original work on Origin of Species was published

work on Origin of Species was published

work on Origin of Species was published and regardless of your opinion of

and regardless of your opinion of

and regardless of your opinion of Darwin’s work one of the teachings

Darwin’s work one of the teachings

Darwin’s work one of the teachings that’s prevailed during that time is the

that’s prevailed during that time is the

that’s prevailed during that time is the notion of survival of the fittest and

notion of survival of the fittest and

notion of survival of the fittest and that’s the idea that it’s a dog-eat-dog

that’s the idea that it’s a dog-eat-dog

that’s the idea that it’s a dog-eat-dog world and you got to do whatever it

world and you got to do whatever it

world and you got to do whatever it takes to survive

takes to survive

takes to survive but interestingly what a lot of people

but interestingly what a lot of people

but interestingly what a lot of people don’t recognize is that Darwin wrote a

don’t recognize is that Darwin wrote a

don’t recognize is that Darwin wrote a sequel to that work and it was called

sequel to that work and it was called

sequel to that work and it was called The Descent of Man it was about our

The Descent of Man it was about our

The Descent of Man it was about our species it was about man kind and in

species it was about man kind and in

species it was about man kind and in that book he referenced survival of the

that book he referenced survival of the

that book he referenced survival of the fittest twice he referenced love 95

fittest twice he referenced love 95

fittest twice he referenced love 95 times now I’m a coach and I can tell you

times now I’m a coach and I can tell you

times now I’m a coach and I can tell you if the final score of a game is 95 to 2

if the final score of a game is 95 to 2

if the final score of a game is 95 to 2 we know who won so why is it that we

we know who won so why is it that we

we know who won so why is it that we collectively as a society have

collectively as a society have

collectively as a society have gravitated towards survival of the

gravitated towards survival of the

gravitated towards survival of the fittest

fittest

fittest rather than gravitating towards love why

rather than gravitating towards love why

rather than gravitating towards love why have we taken our higher intellectual

have we taken our higher intellectual

have we taken our higher intellectual capabilities and worked it towards what

capabilities and worked it towards what

capabilities and worked it towards what seems to be the destruction of man

seems to be the destruction of man

seems to be the destruction of man rather than the thriving of fellow man

rather than the thriving of fellow man

rather than the thriving of fellow man and woman and so as we think about that

and woman and so as we think about that

and woman and so as we think about that concept as we think about survival the

concept as we think about survival the

concept as we think about survival the fittest in light of love what are we

fittest in light of love what are we

fittest in light of love what are we going to do about it this is where we

going to do about it this is where we

going to do about it this is where we must stop and pause and take a breath

must stop and pause and take a breath

must stop and pause and take a breath and feel our feet touching the ground

and feel our feet touching the ground

and feel our feet touching the ground again and again this is where I

again and again this is where I

again and again this is where I literally mean we should practice

literally mean we should practice

literally mean we should practice mindfulness because it is a cultivation

mindfulness because it is a cultivation

mindfulness because it is a cultivation of kindness and I can say this because

of kindness and I can say this because

of kindness and I can say this because of the way that neuroscience has

of the way that neuroscience has

of the way that neuroscience has improved in the last two decades they

improved in the last two decades they

improved in the last two decades they can take a look at our brains and really

can take a look at our brains and really

can take a look at our brains and really map out the activity of what’s going on

map out the activity of what’s going on

map out the activity of what’s going on there and for example there was a study

there and for example there was a study

there and for example there was a study where they had a group of people

where they had a group of people

where they had a group of people watching a movie while the researchers

watching a movie while the researchers

watching a movie while the researchers observed what the brain was doing and

observed what the brain was doing and

observed what the brain was doing and when that movie could evoke compassion

when that movie could evoke compassion

when that movie could evoke compassion from the people viewing the movie they

from the people viewing the movie they

from the people viewing the movie they could see where in our brain compassion

could see where in our brain compassion

could see where in our brain compassion occurs and then in a totally separate

occurs and then in a totally separate

occurs and then in a totally separate study they took people who were

study they took people who were

study they took people who were practicing mindfulness meditation and

practicing mindfulness meditation and

practicing mindfulness meditation and observe their brain to see where in your

observe their brain to see where in your

observe their brain to see where in your brain does activity light up while you

brain does activity light up while you

brain does activity light up while you meditate and the real beauty comes when

meditate and the real beauty comes when

meditate and the real beauty comes when you take these two studies and compare

you take these two studies and compare

you take these two studies and compare them because when we’re practicing

them because when we’re practicing

them because when we’re practicing mindful meditation the part of our brain

mindful meditation the part of our brain

mindful meditation the part of our brain that lights up with activity is the same

that lights up with activity is the same

that lights up with activity is the same part of our brain that lights up when

part of our brain that lights up when

part of our brain that lights up when we’re practicing compassion and if you

we’re practicing compassion and if you

we’re practicing compassion and if you know anything about how the brain

know anything about how the brain

know anything about how the brain constructs itself it’s not unlike our

constructs itself it’s not unlike our

constructs itself it’s not unlike our muscles in the sense if you go down to

muscles in the sense if you go down to

muscles in the sense if you go down to the weight room and workout certain

the weight room and workout certain

the weight room and workout certain muscle groups you’re going to build

muscle groups you’re going to build

muscle groups you’re going to build those muscle groups the same goes for

those muscle groups the same goes for

those muscle groups the same goes for our neurons those neurons that we work

our neurons those neurons that we work

our neurons those neurons that we work build this is how we’re we can get good

build this is how we’re we can get good

build this is how we’re we can get good at a skill based thing such as sports or

at a skill based thing such as sports or

at a skill based thing such as sports or music you get better by

music you get better by

music you get better by it over and over and over because you’re

it over and over and over because you’re

it over and over and over because you’re building the neurons associated with

building the neurons associated with

building the neurons associated with that skill so why don’t we why don’t we

that skill so why don’t we why don’t we

that skill so why don’t we why don’t we focus in on building the skill of

focus in on building the skill of

focus in on building the skill of practicing mindfulness for the sake of

practicing mindfulness for the sake of

practicing mindfulness for the sake of cultivating the neurological muscles of

cultivating the neurological muscles of

cultivating the neurological muscles of compassion and why does this work it’s

compassion and why does this work it’s

compassion and why does this work it’s because mindfulness is a practice of

because mindfulness is a practice of

because mindfulness is a practice of self compassion it’s a practice of self

self compassion it’s a practice of self

self compassion it’s a practice of self compassion because as we experience

compassion because as we experience

compassion because as we experience negative emotions which happens to all

negative emotions which happens to all

negative emotions which happens to all of us we don’t suppress those emotions

of us we don’t suppress those emotions

of us we don’t suppress those emotions we feel them fully but then we have the

we feel them fully but then we have the

we feel them fully but then we have the ability to let them go we feel tension

ability to let them go we feel tension

ability to let them go we feel tension and then we release and by taking care

and then we release and by taking care

and then we release and by taking care of ourselves we then have the ability to

of ourselves we then have the ability to

of ourselves we then have the ability to take care of others by experiencing

take care of others by experiencing

take care of others by experiencing compassion for ourselves we have the

compassion for ourselves we have the

compassion for ourselves we have the ability to have compassion for others

ability to have compassion for others

ability to have compassion for others and it’s through comprehension

and it’s through comprehension

and it’s through comprehension comprehension of the fact that if I know

comprehension of the fact that if I know

comprehension of the fact that if I know what it feels like to hurt I know what

what it feels like to hurt I know what

what it feels like to hurt I know what it feels like when you’re hurt and if I

it feels like when you’re hurt and if I

it feels like when you’re hurt and if I know what it feels like to relieve my

know what it feels like to relieve my

know what it feels like to relieve my pain I know what it feels like to be

pain I know what it feels like to be

pain I know what it feels like to be able to relieve your pain and so what we

able to relieve your pain and so what we

able to relieve your pain and so what we want to do is to help not harm we want

want to do is to help not harm we want

want to do is to help not harm we want to lift up not oppress we want to shift

to lift up not oppress we want to shift

to lift up not oppress we want to shift our default mode of thinking from being

our default mode of thinking from being

our default mode of thinking from being on guard to being kind and in the words

on guard to being kind and in the words

on guard to being kind and in the words of the Dalai Lama he said be kind

of the Dalai Lama he said be kind

of the Dalai Lama he said be kind whenever possible and it is always

whenever possible and it is always

whenever possible and it is always possible and if you think that’s

possible and if you think that’s

possible and if you think that’s impossible I can say I you know after

impossible I can say I you know after

impossible I can say I you know after years of practicing mindfulness I had my

years of practicing mindfulness I had my

years of practicing mindfulness I had my seed of doubt – can we really do this

seed of doubt – can we really do this

seed of doubt – can we really do this and that all of my doubt went out the

and that all of my doubt went out the

and that all of my doubt went out the window last March 17th was st. Patrick’s

window last March 17th was st. Patrick’s

window last March 17th was st. Patrick’s Day where my kidneys began to fail I was

Day where my kidneys began to fail I was

Day where my kidneys began to fail I was hospitalized and eventually I was

hospitalized and eventually I was

hospitalized and eventually I was diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer

diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer

diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer and in that moment in that moment of

and in that moment in that moment of

and in that moment in that moment of pain and being inches away from death I

pain and being inches away from death I

pain and being inches away from death I took the same deep breath that I took 24

took the same deep breath that I took 24

took the same deep breath that I took 24 years ago sitting on a cliff overlooking

years ago sitting on a cliff overlooking

years ago sitting on a cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean in every chemo

the Pacific Ocean in every chemo

the Pacific Ocean in every chemo treatment since I’ve taken the same

treatment since I’ve taken the same

treatment since I’ve taken the same breath that I’ve been taking for the

breath that I’ve been taking for the

breath that I’ve been taking for the last 24 years of practice in every

last 24 years of practice in every

last 24 years of practice in every surgery all eight of them so far all my

surgery all eight of them so far all my

surgery all eight of them so far all my kidneys to save them I’ve been taking

kidneys to save them I’ve been taking

kidneys to save them I’ve been taking the same breath over and over and over

the same breath over and over and over

the same breath over and over and over and when I’m with my wife my children my

and when I’m with my wife my children my

and when I’m with my wife my children my family my friends I take the same breath

family my friends I take the same breath

family my friends I take the same breath the same breath I’ve been taking

the same breath I’ve been taking

the same breath I’ve been taking all these years because it’s a practice

all these years because it’s a practice

all these years because it’s a practice of presence and with that practice of

of presence and with that practice of

of presence and with that practice of presence I’m given life because the only

presence I’m given life because the only

presence I’m given life because the only time we live is right now and with that

time we live is right now and with that

time we live is right now and with that practice of presence I have the ability

practice of presence I have the ability

practice of presence I have the ability to experience every single emotion that

to experience every single emotion that

to experience every single emotion that goes through my body the good ones the

goes through my body the good ones the

goes through my body the good ones the hard ones all of them and I can let them

hard ones all of them and I can let them

hard ones all of them and I can let them go and I can experience peace and by

go and I can experience peace and by

go and I can experience peace and by experiencing peace I can choose joy in

experiencing peace I can choose joy in

experiencing peace I can choose joy in the face of hardship I can be kind to

the face of hardship I can be kind to

the face of hardship I can be kind to myself and be kind of my body even when

myself and be kind of my body even when

myself and be kind of my body even when it feels like it’s failing and by being

it feels like it’s failing and by being

it feels like it’s failing and by being kind of myself I now can be kind to

kind of myself I now can be kind to

kind of myself I now can be kind to others and as a result I have opened my

others and as a result I have opened my

others and as a result I have opened my eyes and recognized that there is

eyes and recognized that there is

eyes and recognized that there is kindness going on all over the world if

kindness going on all over the world if

kindness going on all over the world if we are able to see it and if we’re able

we are able to see it and if we’re able

we are able to see it and if we’re able to be it so if you think back to 1859 we

to be it so if you think back to 1859 we

to be it so if you think back to 1859 we mistakenly gravitated towards survival

mistakenly gravitated towards survival

mistakenly gravitated towards survival of the fittest what my hope is is that a

of the fittest what my hope is is that a

of the fittest what my hope is is that a hundred and fifty-eight years from now

hundred and fifty-eight years from now

hundred and fifty-eight years from now someone can look back and say it was

someone can look back and say it was

someone can look back and say it was 2017 when the world finally stopped took

2017 when the world finally stopped took

2017 when the world finally stopped took a deep breath and let go of all of this

a deep breath and let go of all of this

a deep breath and let go of all of this tension and felt our feet touching the

tension and felt our feet touching the

tension and felt our feet touching the ground and finally chose to practice

ground and finally chose to practice

ground and finally chose to practice survival of the kindest thank you

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