[Music] namaste good evening how are you all
namaste good evening how are you all
namaste good evening how are you all okay now I have been told that I have to
okay now I have been told that I have to
okay now I have been told that I have to speak here for a couple of minutes and I
speak here for a couple of minutes and I
speak here for a couple of minutes and I like it to be two-way okay I’m gonna
like it to be two-way okay I’m gonna
like it to be two-way okay I’m gonna speak about something we all have and we
speak about something we all have and we
speak about something we all have and we don’t talk about it and it is high time
don’t talk about it and it is high time
don’t talk about it and it is high time that we speak about it if I had to walk
that we speak about it if I had to walk
that we speak about it if I had to walk to you and ask you this one question if
to you and ask you this one question if
to you and ask you this one question if you’re not with your friends can you
you’re not with your friends can you
you’re not with your friends can you identify and name the person who is
identify and name the person who is
identify and name the person who is sitting besides you there are very high
sitting besides you there are very high
sitting besides you there are very high chances you have no idea Amerigo girl I
chances you have no idea Amerigo girl I
chances you have no idea Amerigo girl I I have come to the talk there are three
I have come to the talk there are three
I have come to the talk there are three kinds of scared people inside this room
kinds of scared people inside this room
kinds of scared people inside this room I like to show you the first kind
superior the second category even more
superior the second category even more scared start kur let me see what you do
scared start kur let me see what you do
scared start kur let me see what you do and the third one hello my name is
and the third one hello my name is
and the third one hello my name is petitioner I’m very very scared today
petitioner I’m very very scared today
petitioner I’m very very scared today can you stick besides me we all are
can you stick besides me we all are
can you stick besides me we all are scared and we are not talking about it
scared and we are not talking about it
scared and we are not talking about it my dear friends fear was given to you
my dear friends fear was given to you
my dear friends fear was given to you humankind so that we can be careful not
humankind so that we can be careful not
humankind so that we can be careful not to paralyze ourselves we are paralyzed
to paralyze ourselves we are paralyzed
to paralyze ourselves we are paralyzed hats off the two ladies who came before
hats off the two ladies who came before
hats off the two ladies who came before me hats off to you fantastic you stood
me hats off to you fantastic you stood
me hats off to you fantastic you stood here in spoke I’m so proud of you
now you know one thing I’m gonna do
now you know one thing I’m gonna do something here and let me see this this
something here and let me see this this
something here and let me see this this is Ruby for the very first time TEDx is
is Ruby for the very first time TEDx is
is Ruby for the very first time TEDx is doing something like this okay
doing something like this okay
doing something like this okay I’m gonna play some kind of music here
I’m gonna play some kind of music here
I’m gonna play some kind of music here some genre of music and I would like
some genre of music and I would like
some genre of music and I would like people to come here one at a time and
people to come here one at a time and
people to come here one at a time and dance till the time the music is on how
dance till the time the music is on how
dance till the time the music is on how many people would like to do it and what
many people would like to do it and what
many people would like to do it and what is happening right now the very moment
is happening right now the very moment
is happening right now the very moment few people came to know that they have
few people came to know that they have
few people came to know that they have bought a stahma now you will give me a
bought a stahma now you will give me a
bought a stahma now you will give me a million maybe a billion reason not to
million maybe a billion reason not to
million maybe a billion reason not to come here you might say usually I don’t
come here you might say usually I don’t
come here you might say usually I don’t dance on Saturdays or you might go ahead
dance on Saturdays or you might go ahead
dance on Saturdays or you might go ahead and tell me are you giving money or you
and tell me are you giving money or you
and tell me are you giving money or you might go ahead and see but you would
might go ahead and see but you would
might go ahead and see but you would never do it by yourself it’s very easy
never do it by yourself it’s very easy
never do it by yourself it’s very easy to go ahead and tell other people to do
to go ahead and tell other people to do
to go ahead and tell other people to do it and not do yourself because somewhere
it and not do yourself because somewhere
it and not do yourself because somewhere we are scared and I would like to blame
we are scared and I would like to blame
we are scared and I would like to blame someone from the beginning of your life
someone from the beginning of your life
someone from the beginning of your life someone very close to you your parents
someone very close to you your parents
someone very close to you your parents your parents scared you because they
your parents scared you because they
your parents scared you because they wanted to control you they’re gonna kill
wanted to control you they’re gonna kill
wanted to control you they’re gonna kill me after this talk I know okay they want
me after this talk I know okay they want
me after this talk I know okay they want you to control you when you’re a kid you
you to control you when you’re a kid you
you to control you when you’re a kid you are a very highly creative person
are a very highly creative person
are a very highly creative person Humongousaur maybe never ending amount
Humongousaur maybe never ending amount
Humongousaur maybe never ending amount of energy you have so you don’t want to
of energy you have so you don’t want to
of energy you have so you don’t want to do two things in your life and you’re a
do two things in your life and you’re a
do two things in your life and you’re a child never sleep never eat okay so your
child never sleep never eat okay so your
child never sleep never eat okay so your mother tells better please eat eat no no
mother tells better please eat eat no no
mother tells better please eat eat no no and you keep on doing that and finally
and you keep on doing that and finally
and you keep on doing that and finally say been asleep no and what does she
say been asleep no and what does she
say been asleep no and what does she tell you sleep baba Yaga Baba is kind of
tell you sleep baba Yaga Baba is kind of
tell you sleep baba Yaga Baba is kind of a demon I don’t know and children are so
a demon I don’t know and children are so
a demon I don’t know and children are so creative they think and they come out
creative they think and they come out
creative they think and they come out with some this beautiful picture that
with some this beautiful picture that
with some this beautiful picture that this person has to be really dangerous
this person has to be really dangerous
this person has to be really dangerous and I can guarantee you in this room
and I can guarantee you in this room
and I can guarantee you in this room there are seventy percent of people who
there are seventy percent of people who
there are seventy percent of people who even today when they are alone in a
even today when they are alone in a
even today when they are alone in a single room in a hotel room or in their
single room in a hotel room or in their
single room in a hotel room or in their room they never sleep without their
room they never sleep without their
room they never sleep without their light switched off
because they’re scared because Buddha
because they’re scared because Buddha Baba can come from anywhere him that’s
Baba can come from anywhere him that’s
Baba can come from anywhere him that’s one mother told us why I’m a I’m a
one mother told us why I’m a I’m a
one mother told us why I’m a I’m a behavioral coach I’ve been doing it for
behavioral coach I’ve been doing it for
behavioral coach I’ve been doing it for quite a lot of years I train people on
quite a lot of years I train people on
quite a lot of years I train people on leadership team building decision-making
leadership team building decision-making
leadership team building decision-making negotiation and I make good money and
negotiation and I make good money and
negotiation and I make good money and and and there was a moment when I was
and and there was a moment when I was
and and there was a moment when I was sitting with my seven-year-old kid and I
sitting with my seven-year-old kid and I
sitting with my seven-year-old kid and I was we were having a discussion and I
was we were having a discussion and I
was we were having a discussion and I always find young kids very intelligent
always find young kids very intelligent
always find young kids very intelligent and we were talking about fear and she
and we were talking about fear and she
and we were talking about fear and she told me something very very beautiful
told me something very very beautiful
told me something very very beautiful she told me that dad you’re not teaching
she told me that dad you’re not teaching
she told me that dad you’re not teaching anyone leadership she understands
anyone leadership she understands
anyone leadership she understands leadership okay
leadership okay
leadership okay she understand the one who is the boss
she understand the one who is the boss
she understand the one who is the boss is a leader okay she understand
is a leader okay she understand
is a leader okay she understand decision-making I telling her no that’s
decision-making I telling her no that’s
decision-making I telling her no that’s decision-making so she said dad I think
decision-making so she said dad I think
decision-making so she said dad I think so you’re not training people on
so you’re not training people on
so you’re not training people on leadership team building decision-making
leadership team building decision-making
leadership team building decision-making negotiation skills I’m doing something
negotiation skills I’m doing something
negotiation skills I’m doing something else and she left it made me think and
else and she left it made me think and
else and she left it made me think and this is what I thought yes I’m
this is what I thought yes I’m
this is what I thought yes I’m addressing something else I’m addressing
addressing something else I’m addressing
addressing something else I’m addressing fear of people I’m addressing a person
fear of people I’m addressing a person
fear of people I’m addressing a person who cannot lead to lead I’m addressing a
who cannot lead to lead I’m addressing a
who cannot lead to lead I’m addressing a person who cannot negotiate negotiate I
person who cannot negotiate negotiate I
person who cannot negotiate negotiate I am addressing a person or training a
am addressing a person or training a
am addressing a person or training a person who cannot make a decision make a
person who cannot make a decision make a
person who cannot make a decision make a decision I’m making a person who cannot
decision I’m making a person who cannot
decision I’m making a person who cannot speak before people speak before people
speak before people speak before people
speak before people speak before people I am taking them out of their comfort
I am taking them out of their comfort
I am taking them out of their comfort zone that’s what I am doing and that is
zone that’s what I am doing and that is
zone that’s what I am doing and that is why I’m here my dear friends you have to
why I’m here my dear friends you have to
why I’m here my dear friends you have to know a little bit my story I don’t have
know a little bit my story I don’t have
know a little bit my story I don’t have a inspirational great story my story is
a inspirational great story my story is
a inspirational great story my story is very much like your story at the age of
very much like your story at the age of
very much like your story at the age of six
six
six someone put a hand inside my bed sheet
someone put a hand inside my bed sheet
someone put a hand inside my bed sheet and touched me inappropriately well I
and touched me inappropriately well I
and touched me inappropriately well I never said it to anyone because I was
never said it to anyone because I was
never said it to anyone because I was scared
scared
scared and again like I told you as statistics
and again like I told you as statistics
and again like I told you as statistics of 70 percent just three minutes before
of 70 percent just three minutes before
of 70 percent just three minutes before let me tell it right now 90 percent of
let me tell it right now 90 percent of
let me tell it right now 90 percent of the girls in our country and 99 percent
the girls in our country and 99 percent
the girls in our country and 99 percent of the boys in our country have been
of the boys in our country have been
of the boys in our country have been touched in appropriately and they never
touched in appropriately and they never
touched in appropriately and they never said a word to you because you were told
said a word to you because you were told
said a word to you because you were told to be quite and you were
to be quite and you were
to be quite and you were scared it’s high time we talk but don’t
scared it’s high time we talk but don’t
scared it’s high time we talk but don’t get into sad zone nothing happened to me
get into sad zone nothing happened to me
get into sad zone nothing happened to me I’m chilled out I was very very very
I’m chilled out I was very very very
I’m chilled out I was very very very scared after that I couldn’t face people
scared after that I couldn’t face people
scared after that I couldn’t face people if someone came to my home I used to go
if someone came to my home I used to go
if someone came to my home I used to go below the bed and never get out of the
below the bed and never get out of the
below the bed and never get out of the time they’re gone
time they’re gone
time they’re gone and finally when I was in my fifth grade
and finally when I was in my fifth grade
and finally when I was in my fifth grade my mother did something beautiful to me
my mother did something beautiful to me
my mother did something beautiful to me she told me tomorrow there is a fancy
she told me tomorrow there is a fancy
she told me tomorrow there is a fancy dress competition and you’re going to
dress competition and you’re going to
dress competition and you’re going to participate in it and me being myself I
participate in it and me being myself I
participate in it and me being myself I was like mama what Pease I said so many
was like mama what Pease I said so many
was like mama what Pease I said so many things to her so that I should not go to
things to her so that I should not go to
things to her so that I should not go to school she was smarter than me she sent
school she was smarter than me she sent
school she was smarter than me she sent me I come to the school and I stand
me I come to the school and I stand
me I come to the school and I stand there and I perform for the very first
there and I perform for the very first
there and I perform for the very first time in my life and we had more than
time in my life and we had more than
time in my life and we had more than thousand students in our school and I
thousand students in our school and I
thousand students in our school and I stood there when I watched that I was a
stood there when I watched that I was a
stood there when I watched that I was a performer and people clapped for me for
performer and people clapped for me for
performer and people clapped for me for a very very long time and that is the
a very very long time and that is the
a very very long time and that is the moment I realized that this is what I
moment I realized that this is what I
moment I realized that this is what I was to do in my entire life but thanks
was to do in my entire life but thanks
was to do in my entire life but thanks to my mom because she took me out of my
to my mom because she took me out of my
to my mom because she took me out of my comfort zone I was less scared I grew up
comfort zone I was less scared I grew up
comfort zone I was less scared I grew up a little bit more and I’m no more afraid
a little bit more and I’m no more afraid
a little bit more and I’m no more afraid of things I speak my mind but there is a
of things I speak my mind but there is a
of things I speak my mind but there is a problem in a country when you speak your
problem in a country when you speak your
problem in a country when you speak your mind you’re an arrogant person because
mind you’re an arrogant person because
mind you’re an arrogant person because assertiveness in our country is
assertiveness in our country is
assertiveness in our country is understood as aggressiveness my dear
understood as aggressiveness my dear
understood as aggressiveness my dear friends it is time to go ahead and speak
friends it is time to go ahead and speak
friends it is time to go ahead and speak your mind anything that you feel like
your mind anything that you feel like
your mind anything that you feel like you can express this life is to enjoy
you can express this life is to enjoy
you can express this life is to enjoy people feel scared to even enjoy I know
people feel scared to even enjoy I know
people feel scared to even enjoy I know of a lot many people like your I have
of a lot many people like your I have
of a lot many people like your I have enjoyed for last weekend to mature now
enjoyed for last weekend to mature now
enjoyed for last weekend to mature now two years I cannot enjoy or when Mama
two years I cannot enjoy or when Mama
two years I cannot enjoy or when Mama data tells you or sends you a party on
data tells you or sends you a party on
data tells you or sends you a party on Friday night two hours enjoy and then
Friday night two hours enjoy and then
Friday night two hours enjoy and then come back okay I never understood this
come back okay I never understood this
come back okay I never understood this quantification of enjoyment like two
quantification of enjoyment like two
quantification of enjoyment like two words and then come back yeah I’ve
words and then come back yeah I’ve
words and then come back yeah I’ve enjoyed enough
enjoyed enough
enjoyed enough so it doesn’t happen that way so today I
so it doesn’t happen that way so today I
so it doesn’t happen that way so today I run a college with India’s finest at
run a college with India’s finest at
run a college with India’s finest at FileMaker a college called as the pellet
FileMaker a college called as the pellet
FileMaker a college called as the pellet cooker school of branding and
cooker school of branding and
cooker school of branding and entrepreneurship and we train people on
entrepreneurship and we train people on
entrepreneurship and we train people on making ad films and becoming
making ad films and becoming
making ad films and becoming entrepreneurs and because of this one
entrepreneurs and because of this one
entrepreneurs and because of this one man who came here before me dr. velu
man who came here before me dr. velu
man who came here before me dr. velu money we are able to do that thank you
money we are able to do that thank you
money we are able to do that thank you sir
and we thought how could we be a
and we thought how could we be a different kind of an entrepreneurship
different kind of an entrepreneurship
different kind of an entrepreneurship College
College
College what could we teach them differently it
what could we teach them differently it
what could we teach them differently it was very clear we wanted to create
was very clear we wanted to create
was very clear we wanted to create fearless entrepreneurs a person who can
fearless entrepreneurs a person who can
fearless entrepreneurs a person who can make decisions take decisions and stay
make decisions take decisions and stay
make decisions take decisions and stay with it so today what we do with these
with it so today what we do with these
with it so today what we do with these students I will tell you the very first
students I will tell you the very first
students I will tell you the very first day you walk inside our College we don’t
day you walk inside our College we don’t
day you walk inside our College we don’t come to our College you go to Napa
come to our College you go to Napa
come to our College you go to Napa Valley’s house and spend an entire days
Valley’s house and spend an entire days
Valley’s house and spend an entire days with standing hard work the next day you
with standing hard work the next day you
with standing hard work the next day you come you spend the next six days with
come you spend the next six days with
come you spend the next six days with the India’s most loved raghu Raja from
the India’s most loved raghu Raja from
the India’s most loved raghu Raja from Rudi’s Fame who does a boot camp with
Rudi’s Fame who does a boot camp with
Rudi’s Fame who does a boot camp with you so he pretty much breaks you
you so he pretty much breaks you
you so he pretty much breaks you mentally or physically by that time half
mentally or physically by that time half
mentally or physically by that time half of the students are like I don’t want to
of the students are like I don’t want to
of the students are like I don’t want to do this course what blue shirts goes is
do this course what blue shirts goes is
do this course what blue shirts goes is let me go back so we are clear there
let me go back so we are clear there
let me go back so we are clear there what we are doing we take you to
what we are doing we take you to
what we are doing we take you to Himalayas doing trekking with gambling
Himalayas doing trekking with gambling
Himalayas doing trekking with gambling Tenzing Norgay son of Tenzing Norgay
Tenzing Norgay son of Tenzing Norgay
Tenzing Norgay son of Tenzing Norgay we take you to South Africa with Gary
we take you to South Africa with Gary
we take you to South Africa with Gary Kirsten and push you out of plane the
Kirsten and push you out of plane the
Kirsten and push you out of plane the flying one so many a times people have
flying one so many a times people have
flying one so many a times people have asset why do you some do something like
asset why do you some do something like
asset why do you some do something like that because my dear friend if you are a
that because my dear friend if you are a
that because my dear friend if you are a person out of fear you are more you are
person out of fear you are more you are
person out of fear you are more you are vey more you understand your true
vey more you understand your true
vey more you understand your true potential which we today are not
potential which we today are not
potential which we today are not understanding because everyone wants to
understanding because everyone wants to
understanding because everyone wants to control you all the ladies here all the
control you all the ladies here all the
control you all the ladies here all the girls here understand this one thing you
girls here understand this one thing you
girls here understand this one thing you are way more powerful than any men on
are way more powerful than any men on
are way more powerful than any men on this planet and the problem is and the
this planet and the problem is and the
this planet and the problem is and the problem is the menu this men knows about
problem is the menu this men knows about
problem is the menu this men knows about it so they will control you don’t do
it so they will control you don’t do
it so they will control you don’t do this don’t do that
this don’t do that
this don’t do that we control you you know you
we control you you know you
we control you you know you are the only being on this planet who
are the only being on this planet who
are the only being on this planet who goes around transformational changes
goes around transformational changes
goes around transformational changes every 10 to 15 years you never live in
every 10 to 15 years you never live in
every 10 to 15 years you never live in the house that you were born your body
the house that you were born your body
the house that you were born your body goes through so many changes you have
goes through so many changes you have
goes through so many changes you have got so many more roles to do and you
got so many more roles to do and you
got so many more roles to do and you don’t complain and man has to do nothing
don’t complain and man has to do nothing
don’t complain and man has to do nothing just tell you behave yourself so what I
just tell you behave yourself so what I
just tell you behave yourself so what I would like to say here or my point of
would like to say here or my point of
would like to say here or my point of coming here and telling you this is my
coming here and telling you this is my
coming here and telling you this is my dear friends there are three things that
dear friends there are three things that
dear friends there are three things that you should do in your life these are not
you should do in your life these are not
you should do in your life these are not a B or C grade this is e your human kind
a B or C grade this is e your human kind
a B or C grade this is e your human kind you have limitless possibility so the
you have limitless possibility so the
you have limitless possibility so the very first e explore explore the world
very first e explore explore the world
very first e explore explore the world don’t be born in one place and die five
don’t be born in one place and die five
don’t be born in one place and die five kilometers away explore the world second
kilometers away explore the world second
kilometers away explore the world second express yourself let no one tell you
express yourself let no one tell you
express yourself let no one tell you that you can’t say something why can’t
that you can’t say something why can’t
that you can’t say something why can’t you say anything you can express and
you say anything you can express and
you say anything you can express and that starts with parents let your kids
that starts with parents let your kids
that starts with parents let your kids express you’ll have more confident kids
express you’ll have more confident kids
express you’ll have more confident kids amongst you you don’t need any MBA to do
amongst you you don’t need any MBA to do
amongst you you don’t need any MBA to do that like sir always says if your family
that like sir always says if your family
that like sir always says if your family tells you but I express whatever you
tells you but I express whatever you
tells you but I express whatever you like be who you are a kid will never
like be who you are a kid will never
like be who you are a kid will never ever lie to you a kid lies to you only
ever lie to you a kid lies to you only
ever lie to you a kid lies to you only because yeah and third most important
because yeah and third most important
because yeah and third most important thing never ever be shy to enjoy this
thing never ever be shy to enjoy this
thing never ever be shy to enjoy this there is only one life here enjoy
there is only one life here enjoy
there is only one life here enjoy yourself this is the only life you have
yourself this is the only life you have
yourself this is the only life you have meet the maximum number of people enjoy
meet the maximum number of people enjoy
meet the maximum number of people enjoy yourself find your true passion and you
yourself find your true passion and you
yourself find your true passion and you live this life happily and make a
live this life happily and make a
live this life happily and make a difference thank you so very much this
difference thank you so very much this
difference thank you so very much this is petition
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