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many years ago a young boy called Thomas

many years ago a young boy called Thomas al Wells walked up excitedly to his

al Wells walked up excitedly to his

al Wells walked up excitedly to his mother with a letter and he said mother

mother with a letter and he said mother

mother with a letter and he said mother my teacher gave this letter to me and

my teacher gave this letter to me and

my teacher gave this letter to me and say only you were supposed to read it

say only you were supposed to read it

say only you were supposed to read it his mother Nancy Edison opened the

his mother Nancy Edison opened the

his mother Nancy Edison opened the letter and sadly had tears in her eyes

letter and sadly had tears in her eyes

letter and sadly had tears in her eyes and she hadn’t said your son is a genius

and she hadn’t said your son is a genius

and she hadn’t said your son is a genius he is too good for the school the school

he is too good for the school the school

he is too good for the school the school is too small for him we do not have the

is too small for him we do not have the

is too small for him we do not have the right teachers to teach him please teach

right teachers to teach him please teach

right teachers to teach him please teach him yourself many many years passed and

him yourself many many years passed and

him yourself many many years passed and Thomas and Madison became the famous

Thomas and Madison became the famous

Thomas and Madison became the famous scientist inventor that he was and he

scientist inventor that he was and he

scientist inventor that he was and he went one day and found in a drawer that

went one day and found in a drawer that

went one day and found in a drawer that same letter he would the letter and the

same letter he would the letter and the

same letter he would the letter and the rain and this time his eyes filled with

rain and this time his eyes filled with

rain and this time his eyes filled with tears and said your son is added

tears and said your son is added

tears and said your son is added mentally ill please take him out of the

mentally ill please take him out of the

mentally ill please take him out of the school immediately

school immediately

school immediately Tom Sam Addison went on them to write

Tom Sam Addison went on them to write

Tom Sam Addison went on them to write that Thomas Alva Edison was an admiral

that Thomas Alva Edison was an admiral

that Thomas Alva Edison was an admiral son of a hero mother who made him the

son of a hero mother who made him the

son of a hero mother who made him the greatest scientist in the world because

greatest scientist in the world because

greatest scientist in the world because she believed Tommy if you heard the

she believed Tommy if you heard the

she believed Tommy if you heard the story if you have raised your hands it’s

story if you have raised your hands it’s

story if you have raised your hands it’s a story that is often really counted and

a story that is often really counted and

a story that is often really counted and it’s a lie

it’s a lie

it’s a lie it’s a half truth the real story

it’s a half truth the real story

it’s a half truth the real story actually is a lot longer but I think in

actually is a lot longer but I think in

actually is a lot longer but I think in the world of social media the story has

the world of social media the story has

the world of social media the story has been compressed into its perfect form so

been compressed into its perfect form so

been compressed into its perfect form so that it sounds right

that it sounds right

that it sounds right good site if you look around you our

good site if you look around you our

good site if you look around you our social media fields are filled with this

social media fields are filled with this

social media fields are filled with this obsession with finding and killing

obsession with finding and killing

obsession with finding and killing perfect stories whether it’s your

perfect stories whether it’s your

perfect stories whether it’s your Instagram post whether it is the selfie

Instagram post whether it is the selfie

Instagram post whether it is the selfie you take whether it is the facebook

you take whether it is the facebook

you take whether it is the facebook status update you create this seem to be

status update you create this seem to be

status update you create this seem to be creating or seeking perfection all the

creating or seeking perfection all the

creating or seeking perfection all the time and if the image we’ve clicked is

time and if the image we’ve clicked is

time and if the image we’ve clicked is not perfect and there are some filters

not perfect and there are some filters

not perfect and there are some filters to help us good that’s what we end up

to help us good that’s what we end up

to help us good that’s what we end up doing with our life and somewhere this

doing with our life and somewhere this

doing with our life and somewhere this obsession with stories of success this

obsession with stories of success this

obsession with stories of success this obsession with stories of perfection I

obsession with stories of perfection I

obsession with stories of perfection I believe is creating an imperfect world

believe is creating an imperfect world

believe is creating an imperfect world it was 1988 a young boy sat across a

it was 1988 a young boy sat across a

it was 1988 a young boy sat across a dining table with his fins extremely

dining table with his fins extremely

dining table with his fins extremely scared the boy had just told his parents

scared the boy had just told his parents

scared the boy had just told his parents he did not want to continue studying

he did not want to continue studying

he did not want to continue studying science the arts were a lot more

science the arts were a lot more

science the arts were a lot more attractive his father got up when

attractive his father got up when

attractive his father got up when finally to an old ever opened it took

finally to an old ever opened it took

finally to an old ever opened it took out his bank account poo and came up and

out his bank account poo and came up and

out his bank account poo and came up and said son I’m a teacher your mother is a

said son I’m a teacher your mother is a

said son I’m a teacher your mother is a teacher we have collected just this

teacher we have collected just this

teacher we have collected just this amount of money it isn’t enough to

amount of money it isn’t enough to

amount of money it isn’t enough to fulfill all your ring for this law we

fulfill all your ring for this law we

fulfill all your ring for this law we have and so use this wisely use this

have and so use this wisely use this

have and so use this wisely use this well and make your life comic there are

well and make your life comic there are

well and make your life comic there are only three things in this world that

only three things in this world that

only three things in this world that will matter to you

will matter to you

will matter to you one this always seek knowledge and

one this always seek knowledge and

one this always seek knowledge and respect and if you’re lucky you will

respect and if you’re lucky you will

respect and if you’re lucky you will find a lot of love along the way this is

find a lot of love along the way this is

find a lot of love along the way this is because that boy was me like an idiot I

because that boy was me like an idiot I

because that boy was me like an idiot I was in a small town called Lucknow and I

was in a small town called Lucknow and I

was in a small town called Lucknow and I decided I needed to make every minute

decided I needed to make every minute

decided I needed to make every minute count and I also found that I had what

count and I also found that I had what

count and I also found that I had what do you need ability and that was I was

do you need ability and that was I was

do you need ability and that was I was obsessed with stories with listening to

obsessed with stories with listening to

obsessed with stories with listening to them with creating them with finding

them with creating them with finding

them with creating them with finding them and so across every medium that I

them and so across every medium that I

them and so across every medium that I was a part of which started from stage

was a part of which started from stage

was a part of which started from stage just like this to radio to television I

just like this to radio to television I

just like this to radio to television I just kept finding and seeking these

just kept finding and seeking these

just kept finding and seeking these stories and I would love to tell you

stories and I would love to tell you

stories and I would love to tell you that those 20 years from 1980

that those 20 years from 1980

that those 20 years from 1980 incorporating 2000 with only success but

incorporating 2000 with only success but

incorporating 2000 with only success but yes there was a lot of feel along to me

yes there was a lot of feel along to me

yes there was a lot of feel along to me as well

as well

as well the only problem was that whenever I see

the only problem was that whenever I see

the only problem was that whenever I see someone from the press who wanted to

someone from the press who wanted to

someone from the press who wanted to know my story

know my story

know my story they would also compress it into the

they would also compress it into the

they would also compress it into the perfect story the small-town boy who

perfect story the small-town boy who

perfect story the small-town boy who made it be who did the following me the

made it be who did the following me the

made it be who did the following me the company you saw the companies doing X Y

company you saw the companies doing X Y

company you saw the companies doing X Y & Z at the future when you hear a good

& Z at the future when you hear a good

& Z at the future when you hear a good story about yourself is very often you

story about yourself is very often you

story about yourself is very often you start believing it and I did much the

start believing it and I did much the

start believing it and I did much the same 2008 I was gonna fail set what the

same 2008 I was gonna fail set what the

same 2008 I was gonna fail set what the Bible did not tell you because it is not

Bible did not tell you because it is not

Bible did not tell you because it is not amongst my biggest achievements was then

amongst my biggest achievements was then

amongst my biggest achievements was then in 2008 I was offered to the lectern

in 2008 I was offered to the lectern

in 2008 I was offered to the lectern based on a play that I have written now

based on a play that I have written now

based on a play that I have written now sir please was genuinely based on the

sir please was genuinely based on the

sir please was genuinely based on the lives of students in school because I

lives of students in school because I

lives of students in school because I had a lot of workshops with children and

had a lot of workshops with children and

had a lot of workshops with children and in these workshops I had actually found

in these workshops I had actually found

in these workshops I had actually found a lot of two stories about children

a lot of two stories about children

a lot of two stories about children whose parents are obsessed with them

whose parents are obsessed with them

whose parents are obsessed with them being missing here and therefore the

being missing here and therefore the

being missing here and therefore the Coon take part in sports because they

Coon take part in sports because they

Coon take part in sports because they might go and hurt the knees would look

might go and hurt the knees would look

might go and hurt the knees would look good in the bikini know about children

good in the bikini know about children

good in the bikini know about children whose parents was so obsessed with

whose parents was so obsessed with

whose parents was so obsessed with greetings that all they ever did was

greetings that all they ever did was

greetings that all they ever did was study study study and they said that

study study study and they said that

study study study and they said that there were most certificates on the

there were most certificates on the

there were most certificates on the family wall then pictures of holidays

family wall then pictures of holidays

family wall then pictures of holidays together

together

together and these were truths that made for a

and these were truths that made for a

and these were truths that made for a great play but when I went out to make a

great play but when I went out to make a

great play but when I went out to make a movie I suddenly found this obsession

movie I suddenly found this obsession

movie I suddenly found this obsession the perfection working all around

the perfection working all around

the perfection working all around because the Bollywood is a place that

because the Bollywood is a place that

because the Bollywood is a place that loves to give you greens that perhaps

loves to give you greens that perhaps

loves to give you greens that perhaps are unbelievable dreams that you can

are unbelievable dreams that you can

are unbelievable dreams that you can live your self organism and I was on the

live your self organism and I was on the

live your self organism and I was on the set my work for three years of this

set my work for three years of this

set my work for three years of this movie and I do believe that somewhere I

movie and I do believe that somewhere I

movie and I do believe that somewhere I forgot what I had learned myself which

forgot what I had learned myself which

forgot what I had learned myself which was getting the true story and so 2012 I

was getting the true story and so 2012 I

was getting the true story and so 2012 I sat on the other side of a thing that

sat on the other side of a thing that

sat on the other side of a thing that having worked and if you’ve had a lot of

having worked and if you’ve had a lot of

having worked and if you’ve had a lot of success in your life in what you do it

success in your life in what you do it

success in your life in what you do it is extremely difficult to be with

is extremely difficult to be with

is extremely difficult to be with failure I shut my door on optimism and

failure I shut my door on optimism and

failure I shut my door on optimism and opportunity and then you shut your the

opportunity and then you shut your the

opportunity and then you shut your the wall of things that are bright there are

wall of things that are bright there are

wall of things that are bright there are these crevices which negativity things

these crevices which negativity things

these crevices which negativity things so I started searching saying is it good

so I started searching saying is it good

so I started searching saying is it good to be a story in which I’ll be able to

to be a story in which I’ll be able to

to be a story in which I’ll be able to find perhaps some solace if they could

find perhaps some solace if they could

find perhaps some solace if they could be some story in which I could possibly

be some story in which I could possibly

be some story in which I could possibly find a parallel that I couldn’t draw

find a parallel that I couldn’t draw

find a parallel that I couldn’t draw because in life all this looking for the

because in life all this looking for the

because in life all this looking for the story of success you’re not always

story of success you’re not always

story of success you’re not always looking for the story of perfection and

looking for the story of perfection and

looking for the story of perfection and something unique happened my dear

something unique happened my dear

something unique happened my dear friends from the media all of them

friends from the media all of them

friends from the media all of them really well-known somebody a well-known

really well-known somebody a well-known

really well-known somebody a well-known television anchor and elect a singer a

television anchor and elect a singer a

television anchor and elect a singer a songwriter I was blessed with having

songwriter I was blessed with having

songwriter I was blessed with having lots of friends in the creative industry

lots of friends in the creative industry

lots of friends in the creative industry something meeting me once a week saying

something meeting me once a week saying

something meeting me once a week saying you know it’s just all for drinks all

you know it’s just all for drinks all

you know it’s just all for drinks all it’s just for dinner

it’s just for dinner

it’s just for dinner I didn’t know that they were actually

I didn’t know that they were actually

I didn’t know that they were actually doing an intervention of sorts and they

doing an intervention of sorts and they

doing an intervention of sorts and they will sit there and tell me stories of

will sit there and tell me stories of

will sit there and tell me stories of their own lives and stories of

their own lives and stories of

their own lives and stories of imperfection stories the movies that

imperfection stories the movies that

imperfection stories the movies that never got made storing some songs that

never got made storing some songs that

never got made storing some songs that never made it to the production you know

never made it to the production you know

never made it to the production you know about concerts that field about sex they

about concerts that field about sex they

about concerts that field about sex they talked about some didn’t work

talked about some didn’t work

talked about some didn’t work and slowly

and slowly

and slowly started laughing at these stories we

started laughing at these stories we

started laughing at these stories we heard you stories we listen to them I

heard you stories we listen to them I

heard you stories we listen to them I realize that there was something very

realize that there was something very

realize that there was something very human about these stories or something

human about these stories or something

human about these stories or something very believable about the stories and

very believable about the stories and

very believable about the stories and that’s when I had a moment when I looked

that’s when I had a moment when I looked

that’s when I had a moment when I looked at all my social media feeds and I saw

at all my social media feeds and I saw

at all my social media feeds and I saw this obsession and perfection and then

this obsession and perfection and then

this obsession and perfection and then I’ve heard this huge stories myself as a

I’ve heard this huge stories myself as a

I’ve heard this huge stories myself as a gap here which possibly we can do

gap here which possibly we can do

gap here which possibly we can do something about and so being the person

something about and so being the person

something about and so being the person who’s been a slash of my profession

who’s been a slash of my profession

who’s been a slash of my profession which is radio / TV slash theta / film

which is radio / TV slash theta / film

which is radio / TV slash theta / film slash event of a / entrepreneur et

slash event of a / entrepreneur et

slash event of a / entrepreneur et cetera I went on to my next slash which

cetera I went on to my next slash which

cetera I went on to my next slash which is I set up a storytelling community

is I set up a storytelling community

is I set up a storytelling community called communion and what we did was we

called communion and what we did was we

called communion and what we did was we actually went out and said come and tell

actually went out and said come and tell

actually went out and said come and tell your stories just come in at your

your stories just come in at your

your stories just come in at your first-person story is fiction

first-person story is fiction

first-person story is fiction your own stories connected up stories of

your own stories connected up stories of

your own stories connected up stories of wonder ability coming to the stories of

wonder ability coming to the stories of

wonder ability coming to the stories of childhood come and tell us stories about

childhood come and tell us stories about

childhood come and tell us stories about things that have happened to you this

things that have happened to you this

things that have happened to you this started two years ago and as community

started two years ago and as community

started two years ago and as community can he went first in a small bug new not

can he went first in a small bug new not

can he went first in a small bug new not too far from him and the very first time

too far from him and the very first time

too far from him and the very first time seven people him and then those seven

seven people him and then those seven

seven people him and then those seven people came after explaining the entire

people came after explaining the entire

people came after explaining the entire process the Suffolk telling us their

process the Suffolk telling us their

process the Suffolk telling us their stories I was incredible we heard such

stories I was incredible we heard such

stories I was incredible we heard such funny stories stories that were just

funny stories stories that were just

funny stories stories that were just stories which could possibly be from

stories which could possibly be from

stories which could possibly be from anyone with you in this room but you

anyone with you in this room but you

anyone with you in this room but you know what the stories were flawed

know what the stories were flawed

know what the stories were flawed the story is furthermore people who were

the story is furthermore people who were

the story is furthermore people who were not invincible the story is extremely

not invincible the story is extremely

not invincible the story is extremely mortal sweetly human and that’s why they

mortal sweetly human and that’s why they

mortal sweetly human and that’s why they resonate with people now being from the

resonate with people now being from the

resonate with people now being from the video I added one dimension to this

video I added one dimension to this

video I added one dimension to this real-life storytelling which is I put a

real-life storytelling which is I put a

real-life storytelling which is I put a camera there and I said it comes to

camera there and I said it comes to

camera there and I said it comes to learn do tell your stories to a larger

learn do tell your stories to a larger

learn do tell your stories to a larger world because if there is no camera

world because if there is no camera

world because if there is no camera there how will this reach out to the

there how will this reach out to the

there how will this reach out to the millions who are outside and we made

millions who are outside and we made

millions who are outside and we made people comfortable

people comfortable

people comfortable and they started telling these stories

and they started telling these stories

and they started telling these stories and we started putting them on a beach

and we started putting them on a beach

and we started putting them on a beach and the first time for the subject I

and the first time for the subject I

and the first time for the subject I said so are you good to boost this able

said so are you good to boost this able

said so are you good to boost this able to promote this are you were to spend

to promote this are you were to spend

to promote this are you were to spend money behind this we said no we believe

money behind this we said no we believe

money behind this we said no we believe in the power of stories from the power

in the power of stories from the power

in the power of stories from the power of human beings and the power of making

of human beings and the power of making

of human beings and the power of making real connections and if these stories

real connections and if these stories

real connections and if these stories are true they will find their audience

are true they will find their audience

are true they will find their audience they started almost wheels back and

they started almost wheels back and

they started almost wheels back and slowly but surely this community of

slowly but surely this community of

slowly but surely this community of storytellers has grown the way we have

storytellers has grown the way we have

storytellers has grown the way we have over 500 such storytellers across the

over 500 such storytellers across the

over 500 such storytellers across the country today we have had millions of

country today we have had millions of

country today we have had millions of people will watch these toys online and

people will watch these toys online and

people will watch these toys online and I can just tell you that these stories

I can just tell you that these stories

I can just tell you that these stories deal with some incredible things I have

deal with some incredible things I have

deal with some incredible things I have stacked in Delhi and heard a girl talk

stacked in Delhi and heard a girl talk

stacked in Delhi and heard a girl talk of staring at the ceiling fan because

of staring at the ceiling fan because

of staring at the ceiling fan because that’s the only object left in her house

that’s the only object left in her house

that’s the only object left in her house that her father her alcoholic father has

that her father her alcoholic father has

that her father her alcoholic father has been sold and it’s going to be a force

been sold and it’s going to be a force

been sold and it’s going to be a force next street I have heard also of a girl

next street I have heard also of a girl

next street I have heard also of a girl who’s an introvert who hangs at parties

who’s an introvert who hangs at parties

who’s an introvert who hangs at parties in corners because she does not want to

in corners because she does not want to

in corners because she does not want to go and put herself out there like

go and put herself out there like

go and put herself out there like everyone else’s I’m also heard of a girl

everyone else’s I’m also heard of a girl

everyone else’s I’m also heard of a girl who at the end of a breakup wants to

who at the end of a breakup wants to

who at the end of a breakup wants to return the gifts given to her by her

return the gifts given to her by her

return the gifts given to her by her rajput boyfriend which include a sport

rajput boyfriend which include a sport

rajput boyfriend which include a sport which is as big as hell and imagine

which is as big as hell and imagine

which is as big as hell and imagine going out trying to careers for bank

going out trying to careers for bank

going out trying to careers for bank same with so much poison so you hear all

same with so much poison so you hear all

same with so much poison so you hear all kinds of stories but these stories again

kinds of stories but these stories again

kinds of stories but these stories again are real and that’s what makes them

are real and that’s what makes them

are real and that’s what makes them special

special

special so along this path of finding these

so along this path of finding these

so along this path of finding these stories I have learned just a couple of

stories I have learned just a couple of

stories I have learned just a couple of things that I think perhaps we can all

things that I think perhaps we can all

things that I think perhaps we can all the kinda mess with firstly in order to

the kinda mess with firstly in order to

the kinda mess with firstly in order to be able to tell stories first

be able to tell stories first

be able to tell stories first listen it is very important the deal

listen it is very important the deal

listen it is very important the deal compassionate listener I again feel that

compassionate listener I again feel that

compassionate listener I again feel that we are so often not casting the best of

we are so often not casting the best of

we are so often not casting the best of us that we are running away from another

us that we are running away from another

us that we are running away from another side of hospital equally true and what

side of hospital equally true and what

side of hospital equally true and what happens when that sign needs to come out

happens when that sign needs to come out

happens when that sign needs to come out I think that is an important aspect the

I think that is an important aspect the

I think that is an important aspect the second thing is in order to get things

second thing is in order to get things

second thing is in order to get things done don’t just talk but there is a

done don’t just talk but there is a

done don’t just talk but there is a problem that is happening with all of us

problem that is happening with all of us

problem that is happening with all of us sitting behind the screen all our lines

sitting behind the screen all our lines

sitting behind the screen all our lines and that is they are becoming social

and that is they are becoming social

and that is they are becoming social distances we are not going out and

distances we are not going out and

distances we are not going out and acting on things we believe that the

acting on things we believe that the

acting on things we believe that the best of button is an act which is not an

best of button is an act which is not an

best of button is an act which is not an act is the effort you will have taken to

act is the effort you will have taken to

act is the effort you will have taken to physically come here on this afternoon

physically come here on this afternoon

physically come here on this afternoon an act is going out there and making

an act is going out there and making

an act is going out there and making sure that you have that decibel meter

sure that you have that decibel meter

sure that you have that decibel meter and you’re educating people and act just

and you’re educating people and act just

and you’re educating people and act just going out and running the marathon that

going out and running the marathon that

going out and running the marathon that was spoken about and act is going out

was spoken about and act is going out

was spoken about and act is going out and saying I will teach the world

and saying I will teach the world

and saying I will teach the world because I will be taught these are act

because I will be taught these are act

because I will be taught these are act this is what is important and is

this is what is important and is

this is what is important and is crucially lacking in our lives when I go

crucially lacking in our lives when I go

crucially lacking in our lives when I go back to that time when my father had

back to that time when my father had

back to that time when my father had shown me that bank account

shown me that bank account

shown me that bank account which wasn’t filled with money and he

which wasn’t filled with money and he

which wasn’t filled with money and he told me to go out and enrich my life I

told me to go out and enrich my life I

told me to go out and enrich my life I look back today and I see that box I

look back today and I see that box I

look back today and I see that box I still do not have enough in that bank

still do not have enough in that bank

still do not have enough in that bank balance but when I look at the bank

balance but when I look at the bank

balance but when I look at the bank balance of experiences and stories and

balance of experiences and stories and

balance of experiences and stories and living life I think I’m richer by far

living life I think I’m richer by far

living life I think I’m richer by far than most people so when I use going to

than most people so when I use going to

than most people so when I use going to go and discover your store and when will

go and discover your store and when will

go and discover your store and when will you go and find the story which possibly

you go and find the story which possibly

you go and find the story which possibly is sitting next to you

is sitting next to you

is sitting next to you go out do yourself a favor

go out do yourself a favor

go out do yourself a favor find that mortal vulnerable story and is

find that mortal vulnerable story and is

find that mortal vulnerable story and is right next to you

right next to you

right next to you and in this sharing of it make it

and in this sharing of it make it

and in this sharing of it make it immortal

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