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Standing Out, Fitting In | Dr Panni Poh Yoke Loh | TEDxPitsmoor


James look back at Mary who he formed a

James look back at Mary who he formed a close relationship with and as he

close relationship with and as he

close relationship with and as he boarded the ship for the three-week cost

boarded the ship for the three-week cost

boarded the ship for the three-week cost crossing back to malaysia he knew that

crossing back to malaysia he knew that

crossing back to malaysia he knew that he’d fallen in love he knew it in every

he’d fallen in love he knew it in every

he’d fallen in love he knew it in every bone in his body this would lead to

bone in his body this would lead to

bone in his body this would lead to marry later joining James in Malaysia

marry later joining James in Malaysia

marry later joining James in Malaysia James had been studying law in London he

James had been studying law in London he

James had been studying law in London he was the son of Lohan glue who was a

was the son of Lohan glue who was a

was the son of Lohan glue who was a teacher in Malaysia who’d migrated from

teacher in Malaysia who’d migrated from

teacher in Malaysia who’d migrated from China at 14 years old on a ship to

China at 14 years old on a ship to

China at 14 years old on a ship to Malaysia to look for work Mary was

Malaysia to look for work Mary was

Malaysia to look for work Mary was persuaded to join James in Malaysia

persuaded to join James in Malaysia

persuaded to join James in Malaysia through letters and they married they

through letters and they married they

through letters and they married they enjoyed the hustle and bustle of what is

enjoyed the hustle and bustle of what is

enjoyed the hustle and bustle of what is now known as kuala lumper they enjoyed

now known as kuala lumper they enjoyed

now known as kuala lumper they enjoyed the possum Alan’s the night markets with

the possum Alan’s the night markets with

the possum Alan’s the night markets with all the haggling over silks and spices

all the haggling over silks and spices

all the haggling over silks and spices the lush plants growing inch by inch

the lush plants growing inch by inch

the lush plants growing inch by inch every minute and they enjoyed being

every minute and they enjoyed being

every minute and they enjoyed being together walking along the streets and

together walking along the streets and

together walking along the streets and seeing the mosques the temples and the

seeing the mosques the temples and the

seeing the mosques the temples and the churches side by side but Mary longed

churches side by side but Mary longed

churches side by side but Mary longed for her family back in England and so

for her family back in England and so

for her family back in England and so without James she made the three-week

without James she made the three-week

without James she made the three-week crossing back to England on board ship

crossing back to England on board ship

crossing back to England on board ship she fell violently ill she had terrible

she fell violently ill she had terrible

she fell violently ill she had terrible stomach pains sure high temperature and

stomach pains sure high temperature and

stomach pains sure high temperature and arriving back into England she found

arriving back into England she found

arriving back into England she found herself in hospital wired up to monitors

herself in hospital wired up to monitors

herself in hospital wired up to monitors she thought that he was serendipity that

she thought that he was serendipity that

she thought that he was serendipity that it was a Chinese doctor that delivered

it was a Chinese doctor that delivered

it was a Chinese doctor that delivered her baby who’s she named pani po yoke I

her baby who’s she named pani po yoke I

her baby who’s she named pani po yoke I was born with a head full of black spiky

was born with a head full of black spiky

was born with a head full of black spiky hair and in London my mother held me

hair and in London my mother held me

hair and in London my mother held me close to her chest as she carried me

close to her chest as she carried me

close to her chest as she carried me through the streets where keep wit

through the streets where keep wit

through the streets where keep wit Britain white posters were being

Britain white posters were being

Britain white posters were being plastered all over the place but soon

plastered all over the place but soon

plastered all over the place but soon she decided that we must move to the

she decided that we must move to the

she decided that we must move to the Midlands to her hometown in

burton-on-trent there was nothing around

burton-on-trent there was nothing around me Chinese there was nobody non-white at

me Chinese there was nobody non-white at

me Chinese there was nobody non-white at school apart from at junior school there

school apart from at junior school there

school apart from at junior school there was one girl of Jamaican girl I can’t

was one girl of Jamaican girl I can’t

was one girl of Jamaican girl I can’t remember her name but I do remember the

remember her name but I do remember the

remember her name but I do remember the other children shouting at me we don’t

other children shouting at me we don’t

other children shouting at me we don’t want no Malay kids here I wasn’t even

want no Malay kids here I wasn’t even

want no Malay kids here I wasn’t even Malay the only Chinese thing that there

Malay the only Chinese thing that there

Malay the only Chinese thing that there was was a Chinese room that my mother

was was a Chinese room that my mother

was was a Chinese room that my mother had created people didn’t have lots of

had created people didn’t have lots of

had created people didn’t have lots of things then like they do now but she’d

things then like they do now but she’d

things then like they do now but she’d been to an auction she’d brought a

been to an auction she’d brought a

been to an auction she’d brought a Chinese rug some sort paintings on the

Chinese rug some sort paintings on the

Chinese rug some sort paintings on the walls and we had this Chinese picnic

walls and we had this Chinese picnic

walls and we had this Chinese picnic basket that my grandfather lohan galloon

basket that my grandfather lohan galloon

basket that my grandfather lohan galloon had sent to me from Malaysia when I went

had sent to me from Malaysia when I went

had sent to me from Malaysia when I went to secondary school things weren’t much

to secondary school things weren’t much

to secondary school things weren’t much different there was just one indian girl

different there was just one indian girl

different there was just one indian girl but everybody laughed at her for eating

but everybody laughed at her for eating

but everybody laughed at her for eating curry I don’t tell them about the

curry I don’t tell them about the

curry I don’t tell them about the Chinese dishes that my mother cooked at

Chinese dishes that my mother cooked at

Chinese dishes that my mother cooked at home that she’d learnt in Malaysia what

home that she’d learnt in Malaysia what

home that she’d learnt in Malaysia what was the point at school in home

was the point at school in home

was the point at school in home economics it was just all meat and

economics it was just all meat and

economics it was just all meat and potato pie and jam roly-poly pudding

potato pie and jam roly-poly pudding

potato pie and jam roly-poly pudding when I went to university things did

when I went to university things did

when I went to university things did begin to change there were students from

begin to change there were students from

begin to change there were students from different parts of the world not lots

different parts of the world not lots

different parts of the world not lots but just a few but when I got speaking

but just a few but when I got speaking

but just a few but when I got speaking to them they thought that you should

to them they thought that you should

to them they thought that you should have both parents from the same race I

have both parents from the same race I

have both parents from the same race I decided to go to asian cultural evenings

decided to go to asian cultural evenings

decided to go to asian cultural evenings but somehow china and malaysia didn’t

but somehow china and malaysia didn’t

but somehow china and malaysia didn’t seem to be in asia anymore it was when

seem to be in asia anymore it was when

seem to be in asia anymore it was when I’d love to universe

I’d love to universe

I’d love to universe and I got my first job it coincided with

and I got my first job it coincided with

and I got my first job it coincided with me moving to pitts more and I was so

me moving to pitts more and I was so

me moving to pitts more and I was so warmed to see the people from all around

warmed to see the people from all around

warmed to see the people from all around to the world living around me there was

to the world living around me there was

to the world living around me there was still rare sightings of anybody Chinese

many years later I got a job for got a

many years later I got a job for got a job with the local green city action to

job with the local green city action to

job with the local green city action to engage the multicultural community in

engage the multicultural community in

engage the multicultural community in environmental education it was spring

environmental education it was spring

environmental education it was spring the time of chinese new year so i

the time of chinese new year so i

the time of chinese new year so i decided to organize the Chinese lion

decided to organize the Chinese lion

decided to organize the Chinese lion dance in RB Philip Ark hundreds of

dance in RB Philip Ark hundreds of

dance in RB Philip Ark hundreds of people came and as the lion was rising

people came and as the lion was rising

people came and as the lion was rising in the air and diving to the ground and

in the air and diving to the ground and

in the air and diving to the ground and the symbols were crashing and the drum

the symbols were crashing and the drum

the symbols were crashing and the drum was beating I had a quake through me as

was beating I had a quake through me as

was beating I had a quake through me as I thought of my Chinese family all the

I thought of my Chinese family all the

I thought of my Chinese family all the way over in Malaysia and here I was

way over in Malaysia and here I was

way over in Malaysia and here I was standing in my homes homes placed in

standing in my homes homes placed in

standing in my homes homes placed in pits more in my Park celebrating my

pits more in my Park celebrating my

pits more in my Park celebrating my culture and then I looked around me and

culture and then I looked around me and

culture and then I looked around me and thought of all the people all around the

thought of all the people all around the

thought of all the people all around the park from lots of different parts of the

park from lots of different parts of the

park from lots of different parts of the world and that’s when the abbeyfield

world and that’s when the abbeyfield

world and that’s when the abbeyfield Park multicultural festival was born I’d

Park multicultural festival was born I’d

Park multicultural festival was born I’d heard that if you knocked on the door of

heard that if you knocked on the door of

heard that if you knocked on the door of the Sikh temple you would always be let

the Sikh temple you would always be let

the Sikh temple you would always be let in so I knocked on the door a man in a

in so I knocked on the door a man in a

in so I knocked on the door a man in a white turban and a big black beard

white turban and a big black beard

white turban and a big black beard answered the door and I said hello I’m

answered the door and I said hello I’m

answered the door and I said hello I’m pani low from Green City action and I’d

pani low from Green City action and I’d

pani low from Green City action and I’d like to set up a multicultural festival

like to set up a multicultural festival

like to set up a multicultural festival would you like to get involved and they

would you like to get involved and they

would you like to get involved and they let me in there there was loads of seat

let me in there there was loads of seat

let me in there there was loads of seat people around me talking excitedly about

people around me talking excitedly about

people around me talking excitedly about what they could do in the festival it

what they could do in the festival it

what they could do in the festival it was the same when I went to the Hindu

was the same when I went to the Hindu

was the same when I went to the Hindu temple then Churches Together wanted to

temple then Churches Together wanted to

temple then Churches Together wanted to get involved and many many organizations

get involved and many many organizations

get involved and many many organizations from around the pits more area there

from around the pits more area there

from around the pits more area there wasn’t long to organize the festival

wasn’t long to organize the festival

wasn’t long to organize the festival just a few months but nobody was more

just a few months but nobody was more

just a few months but nobody was more surprised

surprised

surprised than me when thousands of people turns

than me when thousands of people turns

than me when thousands of people turns up in a refill park there was in Barbie

up in a refill park there was in Barbie

up in a refill park there was in Barbie and dances that lit the stage alight

and dances that lit the stage alight

and dances that lit the stage alight Irish dances in brightly jeweled

Irish dances in brightly jeweled

Irish dances in brightly jeweled costumes ran across the grass there’s

costumes ran across the grass there’s

costumes ran across the grass there’s black women drummers purchase dancers

black women drummers purchase dancers

black women drummers purchase dancers were getting everybody holding hands and

were getting everybody holding hands and

were getting everybody holding hands and dancing in a circle there was hip hop

dancing in a circle there was hip hop

dancing in a circle there was hip hop there was Reggie there was English tea

there was Reggie there was English tea

there was Reggie there was English tea and cakes it was pakora there was

and cakes it was pakora there was

and cakes it was pakora there was Bhangra there was salsa and so much more

Bhangra there was salsa and so much more

Bhangra there was salsa and so much more and as I was pushing through the crowds

and as I was pushing through the crowds

and as I was pushing through the crowds a little girl stopped me and she looked

a little girl stopped me and she looked

a little girl stopped me and she looked up at me and she said you came to speak

up at me and she said you came to speak

up at me and she said you came to speak at our school my mum’s Jamaican and my

at our school my mum’s Jamaican and my

at our school my mum’s Jamaican and my dad’s English I looked at her and I said

dad’s English I looked at her and I said

dad’s English I looked at her and I said that’s wonderful and we smiled like that

that’s wonderful and we smiled like that

that’s wonderful and we smiled like that little girl I’m a child born out of

little girl I’m a child born out of

little girl I’m a child born out of difference and like many of you here

difference and like many of you here

difference and like many of you here today I celebrate difference but I not

today I celebrate difference but I not

today I celebrate difference but I not only celebrate difference i implement

only celebrate difference i implement

only celebrate difference i implement difference i see this is born out of the

difference i see this is born out of the

difference i see this is born out of the fact that i’m a dual heritage and it’s

fact that i’m a dual heritage and it’s

fact that i’m a dual heritage and it’s given me a unique perspective to see

given me a unique perspective to see

given me a unique perspective to see things for multiple perspectives and

things for multiple perspectives and

things for multiple perspectives and this happens every time I put pens paper

this happens every time I put pens paper

this happens every time I put pens paper paint paint brush to canvas I see things

paint paint brush to canvas I see things

paint paint brush to canvas I see things in this way on whether you’re an artist

in this way on whether you’re an artist

in this way on whether you’re an artist a scientist a business person a public

a scientist a business person a public

a scientist a business person a public servant i invite you to not only

servant i invite you to not only

servant i invite you to not only celebrate difference but to implement

celebrate difference but to implement

celebrate difference but to implement difference because together we can make

difference because together we can make

difference because together we can make a more vibrant exciting / he civ and

a more vibrant exciting / he civ and

a more vibrant exciting / he civ and tolerant world not only celebrate

tolerant world not only celebrate

tolerant world not only celebrate difference but implement difference

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