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Speaking Up | Kaya Spencer-Frith | TEDxYouth@SeaburyHall


United States I have an American and

United States I have an American and then also Canadian opinion legally and

then also Canadian opinion legally and

then also Canadian opinion legally and legitimately definitions of my existence

legitimately definitions of my existence

legitimately definitions of my existence on paper Jamaica also claims me by blood

on paper Jamaica also claims me by blood

on paper Jamaica also claims me by blood by heritage however sometimes it claims

by heritage however sometimes it claims

by heritage however sometimes it claims me by the way I speak

me by the way I speak

me by the way I speak like most mixed-race children my family

like most mixed-race children my family

like most mixed-race children my family history is a complicated one some of the

history is a complicated one some of the

history is a complicated one some of the stories that I hear see mythical

stories that I hear see mythical

stories that I hear see mythical impossible almost as of near arena so I

impossible almost as of near arena so I

impossible almost as of near arena so I see a claim to my definition is about

see a claim to my definition is about

see a claim to my definition is about seeing African are being Indian white

seeing African are being Indian white

seeing African are being Indian white including Scottish and Irish and who

including Scottish and Irish and who

including Scottish and Irish and who knows what else really time or maybe

knows what else really time or maybe

knows what else really time or maybe artwork so come on and the confusion of

artwork so come on and the confusion of

artwork so come on and the confusion of it all and the collection of definitions

it all and the collection of definitions

it all and the collection of definitions that call me their own if you ask me who

that call me their own if you ask me who

that call me their own if you ask me who I am I can say all of these things and

I am I can say all of these things and

I am I can say all of these things and if she doesn’t proudly and so who and

if she doesn’t proudly and so who and

if she doesn’t proudly and so who and every year you can tell you because

every year you can tell you because

every year you can tell you because you’re able to define who you are and

you’re able to define who you are and

you’re able to define who you are and how you want to be as an individual the

how you want to be as an individual the

how you want to be as an individual the human race has created and how the

human race has created and how the

human race has created and how the suburb names and categories and

suburb names and categories and

suburb names and categories and expressions though used to define

expressions though used to define

expressions though used to define ourselves and to find others to label to

ourselves and to find others to label to

ourselves and to find others to label to unify and separate sometimes we need

unify and separate sometimes we need

unify and separate sometimes we need these labels we want them it is

these labels we want them it is

these labels we want them it is important for us to be able to define

important for us to be able to define

important for us to be able to define ourselves as weak

ourselves as weak

ourselves as weak there’s beauty in this desire for

there’s beauty in this desire for

there’s beauty in this desire for self-expression

self-expression

self-expression however when we see these labels that

however when we see these labels that

however when we see these labels that we’ve created as real tangible things

we’ve created as real tangible things

we’ve created as real tangible things that truly separate us there is a

that truly separate us there is a

that truly separate us there is a problem we believe it in a fabricated

problem we believe it in a fabricated

problem we believe it in a fabricated reality one of us and that what if here

from this way of thinking there arises a

from this way of thinking there arises a strange complex that we formed if that

strange complex that we formed if that

strange complex that we formed if that person doesn’t look like you or thinking

person doesn’t look like you or thinking

person doesn’t look like you or thinking like you or sweet like you or has the

like you or sweet like you or has the

like you or sweet like you or has the same cultural background as you you’re

same cultural background as you you’re

same cultural background as you you’re probably like consciously I need to

probably like consciously I need to

probably like consciously I need to label anything we see in the media or

label anything we see in the media or

label anything we see in the media or anyone is embedded into the way there’s

anyone is embedded into the way there’s

anyone is embedded into the way there’s us and there’s that there’s here and

us and there’s that there’s here and

us and there’s that there’s here and there’s that they’re huge and that

there’s that they’re huge and that

there’s that they’re huge and that people like you and there are the ones

people like you and there are the ones

people like you and there are the ones who don’t understand and there are other

who don’t understand and there are other

who don’t understand and there are other we’re looking at a time in a country

we’re looking at a time in a country

we’re looking at a time in a country where someone who represents me of white

where someone who represents me of white

where someone who represents me of white hatred and bigotry narcissistic

hatred and bigotry narcissistic

hatred and bigotry narcissistic interests ingredient ignorance of the 1%

interests ingredient ignorance of the 1%

interests ingredient ignorance of the 1% and the softness abuse has been elected

and the softness abuse has been elected

and the softness abuse has been elected into a position of a consequential

into a position of a consequential

into a position of a consequential executive health we live in a time of

executive health we live in a time of

executive health we live in a time of the era making use and where the people

the era making use and where the people

the era making use and where the people who have been chosen to lead us question

who have been chosen to lead us question

who have been chosen to lead us question our basic human rights

our basic human rights

our basic human rights I

the time is not for us to choose to

the time is not for us to choose to fight for our rights for the rights of

fight for our rights for the rights of

fight for our rights for the rights of women to choose for the rights of Native

women to choose for the rights of Native

women to choose for the rights of Native American people’s to keep the small pots

American people’s to keep the small pots

American people’s to keep the small pots of life a lot of them but the very

of life a lot of them but the very

of life a lot of them but the very Association has stolen those American

Association has stolen those American

Association has stolen those American sisters for the rights of people of

sisters for the rights of people of

sisters for the rights of people of color as people for the rights of LGBTQ

color as people for the rights of LGBTQ

color as people for the rights of LGBTQ people to love they look for the rights

people to love they look for the rights

people to love they look for the rights of trans people once again here go to

of trans people once again here go to

of trans people once again here go to the bathroom in public and for the

the bathroom in public and for the

the bathroom in public and for the rights of immigrants who come here

rights of immigrants who come here

rights of immigrants who come here asking for safety and shelter the

asking for safety and shelter the

asking for safety and shelter the dangerous situation is that too often

dangerous situation is that too often

dangerous situation is that too often our country has been the cause of

our country has been the cause of

our country has been the cause of another question it is in this time that

another question it is in this time that

another question it is in this time that we know we no longer choose to turn our

we know we no longer choose to turn our

we know we no longer choose to turn our backs and say it’s not my problem

backs and say it’s not my problem

backs and say it’s not my problem or it’s not scared or I am done is the

or it’s not scared or I am done is the

or it’s not scared or I am done is the longer times much good as much as people

longer times much good as much as people

longer times much good as much as people may call themselves such if they

may call themselves such if they

may call themselves such if they wouldn’t believe it

wouldn’t believe it

wouldn’t believe it of label it goes we do not now or now

of label it goes we do not now or now

of label it goes we do not now or now and she is to ignore the truth of their

and she is to ignore the truth of their

and she is to ignore the truth of their identity I’m not saying that is supposed

identity I’m not saying that is supposed

identity I’m not saying that is supposed to pretend you don’t see color or that

to pretend you don’t see color or that

to pretend you don’t see color or that never experienced prejudice we label

never experienced prejudice we label

never experienced prejudice we label people in our heads by accident

people in our heads by accident

people in our heads by accident stereotypes are inedible but what we are

stereotypes are inedible but what we are

stereotypes are inedible but what we are those of us who wish to progress as the

those of us who wish to progress as the

those of us who wish to progress as the Mediterranean group costume is learn to

Mediterranean group costume is learn to

Mediterranean group costume is learn to see with someone anyone matter who they

see with someone anyone matter who they

see with someone anyone matter who they are no matter the color of their skin no

are no matter the color of their skin no

are no matter the color of their skin no matter what clothes they were about of

matter what clothes they were about of

matter what clothes they were about of how they speak I know that they and all

how they speak I know that they and all

how they speak I know that they and all you need try to recognize it try to fix

you need try to recognize it try to fix

you need try to recognize it try to fix it we need labels sometimes their way

it we need labels sometimes their way

it we need labels sometimes their way for us to stand up say something shut up

for us to stand up say something shut up

for us to stand up say something shut up speak up

speak up

speak up given into yourself did many nice

given into yourself did many nice

given into yourself did many nice yourself given into someone else given

yourself given into someone else given

yourself given into someone else given into a cause like yes sometimes these

into a cause like yes sometimes these

into a cause like yes sometimes these levels can bring an illusion of

levels can bring an illusion of

levels can bring an illusion of separation so great that it leads us

separation so great that it leads us

separation so great that it leads us mostly those of us who are of great

mostly those of us who are of great

mostly those of us who are of great privilege to believe that our personal

privilege to believe that our personal

privilege to believe that our personal comfort you may not be able to help

comfort you may not be able to help

comfort you may not be able to help causes people even if they each are

causes people even if they each are

causes people even if they each are waves or obvious gestures but there’s

waves or obvious gestures but there’s

waves or obvious gestures but there’s always something you do I dream I

always something you do I dream I

always something you do I dream I haven’t given labels and the tools to Oh

haven’t given labels and the tools to Oh

haven’t given labels and the tools to Oh myself into whoever I’m gonna cut you up

myself into whoever I’m gonna cut you up

myself into whoever I’m gonna cut you up to

to

to as hopefully the pivotal point in

as hopefully the pivotal point in

as hopefully the pivotal point in history it’s not such a each of us to

history it’s not such a each of us to

history it’s not such a each of us to choose what’s how do we want to stand

choose what’s how do we want to stand

choose what’s how do we want to stand for it is up to each of us to choose

for it is up to each of us to choose

for it is up to each of us to choose whether we stand the people’s right to

whether we stand the people’s right to

whether we stand the people’s right to choose what labels they love with

choose what labels they love with

choose what labels they love with themselves and how they wanted to find

themselves and how they wanted to find

themselves and how they wanted to find themselves but she’s integrity or to

themselves but she’s integrity or to

themselves but she’s integrity or to choose to turn our backs and directly or

choose to turn our backs and directly or

choose to turn our backs and directly or if they’re standing in equality remember

if they’re standing in equality remember

if they’re standing in equality remember indifference is the same thing as using

indifference is the same thing as using

indifference is the same thing as using the side of the oppressor what what you

the side of the oppressor what what you

the side of the oppressor what what you must do what can be terrifying to all of

must do what can be terrifying to all of

must do what can be terrifying to all of us it’s one simple thing the simple act

we can hold what other values we like

we can hold what other values we like close to us and treat the same and

close to us and treat the same and

close to us and treat the same and follow them through the sake of our

follow them through the sake of our

follow them through the sake of our morality but they’re useless to everyone

morality but they’re useless to everyone

morality but they’re useless to everyone else that we’ve been we used to be not

else that we’ve been we used to be not

else that we’ve been we used to be not allowed it can’t really be scary I know

allowed it can’t really be scary I know

allowed it can’t really be scary I know when I decided to become a tech speaker

when I decided to become a tech speaker

when I decided to become a tech speaker for this event I was very loved it there

for this event I was very loved it there

for this event I was very loved it there could be an exhaustion attached to being

could be an exhaustion attached to being

could be an exhaustion attached to being the one who’s always speaking out the

the one who’s always speaking out the

the one who’s always speaking out the feeling of frustration that you gotta

feeling of frustration that you gotta

feeling of frustration that you gotta hear in a peer group a social gathering

hear in a peer group a social gathering

hear in a peer group a social gathering in a conversation wherever and you say

in a conversation wherever and you say

in a conversation wherever and you say something that is against the common

something that is against the common

something that is against the common thought or opinion or the conversation

thought or opinion or the conversation

thought or opinion or the conversation all of a sudden you find yourself one

all of a sudden you find yourself one

all of a sudden you find yourself one out of many the one who has become the

out of many the one who has become the

out of many the one who has become the other defending her opinion on earth

recently I talked to carrots

recently I talked to carrots for the sake of acknowledgment of

for the sake of acknowledgment of

for the sake of acknowledgment of blackenstein it was both fascinating and

blackenstein it was both fascinating and

blackenstein it was both fascinating and ears of you how many people came up to

ears of you how many people came up to

ears of you how many people came up to me after my presentation and said

me after my presentation and said

me after my presentation and said something wrong relaxer thank you so

something wrong relaxer thank you so

something wrong relaxer thank you so much for saying something I was thinking

much for saying something I was thinking

much for saying something I was thinking distinction

distinction

distinction all along or I’m so glad someone said

all along or I’m so glad someone said

all along or I’m so glad someone said something finally I was so good at first

something finally I was so good at first

something finally I was so good at first I felt that I had been left animate I

I felt that I had been left animate I

I felt that I had been left animate I felt like they had simply not bothered

felt like they had simply not bothered

felt like they had simply not bothered to stand up for anything they were

to stand up for anything they were

to stand up for anything they were thinking at all but then I remember

thinking at all but then I remember

thinking at all but then I remember thinking back to that time standing up

thinking back to that time standing up

thinking back to that time standing up and speaking of really can be scary we

and speaking of really can be scary we

and speaking of really can be scary we find ourselves alone all of a sudden all

find ourselves alone all of a sudden all

find ourselves alone all of a sudden all the 70d kind of up we become the other

the 70d kind of up we become the other

the 70d kind of up we become the other there’s a crowd looking at us and we’re

there’s a crowd looking at us and we’re

there’s a crowd looking at us and we’re looking back at the crowd it is our fear

looking back at the crowd it is our fear

looking back at the crowd it is our fear of being labeled and judge the whole

of being labeled and judge the whole

of being labeled and judge the whole spectrum we’re individuals we want

spectrum we’re individuals we want

spectrum we’re individuals we want labels but not for others to us we want

labels but not for others to us we want

labels but not for others to us we want them for ourselves to tell the civility

them for ourselves to tell the civility

them for ourselves to tell the civility so I decided to make it stop and address

so I decided to make it stop and address

so I decided to make it stop and address to all of you but as especially to those

to all of you but as especially to those

to all of you but as especially to those of you who are young people like myself

each and every one of you is individual

each and every one of you is individual each and every one of us have a trait

each and every one of us have a trait

each and every one of us have a trait that could make us father

that could make us father

that could make us father so in our fight for our rights for the

so in our fight for our rights for the

so in our fight for our rights for the rest of people we get to speak up we got

rest of people we get to speak up we got

rest of people we get to speak up we got to speak up for the rights of those of

to speak up for the rights of those of

to speak up for the rights of those of us working for the rights of those of us

us working for the rights of those of us

us working for the rights of those of us who are members of the LGBT you can be

who are members of the LGBT you can be

who are members of the LGBT you can be whether you’re out or not for the rights

whether you’re out or not for the rights

whether you’re out or not for the rights of those of us who are in our way we

of those of us who are in our way we

of those of us who are in our way we have been given the privilege to speak

have been given the privilege to speak

have been given the privilege to speak up and I encourage you to do this

up and I encourage you to do this

up and I encourage you to do this because I know that whether others have

because I know that whether others have

because I know that whether others have the same courage as you surely do in the

the same courage as you surely do in the

the same courage as you surely do in the act of speaking on whether they are

act of speaking on whether they are

act of speaking on whether they are fearful or not if one speaks up stands

fearful or not if one speaks up stands

fearful or not if one speaks up stands up and finds herself standing alone the

up and finds herself standing alone the

up and finds herself standing alone the other does the back job others will come

other does the back job others will come

other does the back job others will come others will feel the gratitude towards

others will feel the gratitude towards

others will feel the gratitude towards her and others may label her but she’s

her and others may label her but she’s

her and others may label her but she’s creating a rock to stand upon and she

creating a rock to stand upon and she

creating a rock to stand upon and she will be the one determining her future

when someone thanks you after you had

when someone thanks you after you had the experience of standing up and

the experience of standing up and

the experience of standing up and speaking up and have to do it alone

speaking up and have to do it alone

speaking up and have to do it alone try not to be CrossFit hey guys hope

try not to be CrossFit hey guys hope

try not to be CrossFit hey guys hope you’ve opened the door for hope we’ve

you’ve opened the door for hope we’ve

you’ve opened the door for hope we’ve given them the courage to speak up in

given them the courage to speak up in

given them the courage to speak up in the future remind yourself especially if

the future remind yourself especially if

the future remind yourself especially if you’re a young person or are pleasant a

you’re a young person or are pleasant a

you’re a young person or are pleasant a young person

young person

young person the new generation is the future it is

the new generation is the future it is

the new generation is the future it is your choice whether you decide to speak

your choice whether you decide to speak

your choice whether you decide to speak up enough

up enough

up enough I hope you do when you have spoken up

I hope you do when you have spoken up

I hope you do when you have spoken up and stood alone and made yourself the

and stood alone and made yourself the

and stood alone and made yourself the other as I have done by standing here on

other as I have done by standing here on

other as I have done by standing here on the stage I promise will feel more

the stage I promise will feel more

the stage I promise will feel more liberated when we ever have one face

liberated when we ever have one face

liberated when we ever have one face that start acting you have you are alone

that start acting you have you are alone

that start acting you have you are alone everyone these labels we use them to

everyone these labels we use them to

everyone these labels we use them to label other people to define them for

label other people to define them for

label other people to define them for ourselves but then again remind yourself

ourselves but then again remind yourself

ourselves but then again remind yourself you are the only one who can

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