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Sobre a obrigação de ser feliz | Sandra Flanzer | TEDxBarraDaTijuca


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to publicis pointing to you a

story that made a lot of difference in

My life is a very brief story.

narrated by Freud himself

founder of psychoanalysis and a history

that happens between a poet’s frei and

a flower

he was walking on a summer day

Gorgeous in Europe is talking about the

things of life when the poet is

sadden suddenly turns to the

freud says pulls doctor freud what a pity I

‘m so amazed that such

Beautiful garden and makes me so cheerful more

from one moment to another I was very

sad to imagine that despite all

this beauty one day very soon this

here will end this beauty will not

last

although all we feel is

joy at the moment when we are

easy and nature does not last for

ever

and then Fred is spending some time in

silence and then pick up the

Talk to him like that, but he looks

So you fool yourself

It’s not that despite the beauty

the flower is not hard is that the flower is only

beautiful because it does not last is because it is

transient is because it is transient

that we can extract from that

beauty

Good, I said if this story

changed my life is actually the

From this story I had a lot of

sure the choice I made is for

work with something that is

extremely human for something that

take into account something human because the

human

that’s what you lose if you guys

You can make a brief memory here.

of the field of biology we will see that

in nature, things are nothing

loses nothing if it creates everything turns into

human nature not human nature

a loss agent necessarily suffers

for this loss and this is what

constitute as humans is what most

constitutes itself as human and is

one thing we can not do

forget is and has to do with this text

beautiful about transience and its

title of the history of freud the people

can not forget that it is this

space of loss is exactly the missing

that moves us there would be no desire

there would be no movement if

If it were the fault imagine a game like this

of the rest one is in which he was

full right is full is not there

movement the game would not even begin

so it is important that there is a space

empty so that we can move to

that we address ourselves to something that

we lack

and this is effectively what we

characterizes more properly and that

differs from bird or flower the

monkey

the fact that there is this says of this

mismatch between what people

What do you want and what do we have?

there is always something that stays

lacking is for the human being because

We do nevertheless live in a

everyday and liquid where nothing

can not be liquid in this sense of

people can not stand the loss of people

do not withstand the breaks the spaces

empty

today we live in this moment especially

over the last two decades with all

is of science with all the

the advent of technology

we live massacred by a continuity

for one is permanence is of

The connection of being around

where we have the

feeling that this time is

continuous is without pause and without loss is

without fail

and it’s as if we had

increasingly directing this type of

situation without asking the least

where are we going with all this is that

The way we are going to live the next

years from that well live the cimpor

like it was a party at a party

continuous is today a lot of

impressive as it is because of the

people do not disconnect from social networks

the obligation that social networks in

put it is that we are the time

all happy cheerful beautiful showing the right

our best faces of ours

better programs ours is more

beautiful positions m is interchangeably

a party without a party in a way

including having to have the

participation of the other there all the time

To confirm me at this party.

uninterrupted

in this enjoyment that is without expansion without

This is another interval that confirms me.

in this place of an absolute party

of happiness without interval

and it’s another one that comes into my

making an intimate kind of the

lack of rest

are a lack of difference between what is

public and what is private is not

today it’s like we have to

to do in public life what the

people do in private to play a

bit is without any pause to be

ask about the consequences of this

where all this leads us to the end is

I go, as I already said, it ‘s a

daily life and is a daily life of

I’ll bring some excesses

examples are no more palatable to

make it closer to what I have

certainty that is part of daily life

of us all is the first is so the

first very obvious situation of

excesses that we live in our

everyday is the excess of objects then

It’s another day, right? I participated.

of this scene a 5 year old

came from a children’s party full of

gifts in thulium the gifts is attached

the other 1574 gifts he has already

had inside the closet every time

he opens the closet the freebies fall in

above his head and without this

child of 5 can get the time

to play with it all he goes

guarding with everything that he is going

accumulating we are a generation of

Accumulators né

and obviously this child does not have

time to play because on the side of here

your parents are much more

concerned incites this time

child so that he or she fulfills their

what deficiencies it may be is with

five year old professional

Perfect

so this is the excess of objects

on the other hand an excess of news

It’s amazing to think that in the 1921 newspaper

had 50 times

– words than in 2017 50 times less

words and if we do not consider

uav the online versions of the newspaper

there we multiply by 500 that

number is a lot of information without

people have the least capacity to digest

the

We do not have time to digest the

amount of information that people

receives daily so excessive there

information and the third is

The excess I bring is for us.

to reflect a little is the excess of

messages and I remember that it ‘s up to

very soon I would say three

decades of communication between

two people away was the letter was

more effective and was more present

culture until very recently the

letter is a form of

communication is forgotten and that

includes a time interval a

a minimum space between the

recipient where this letter will and

the sender where this letter comes from

space has been filed in 20 years

we first had there still some

is insertion of emails into our

life but today a 17 year old

do not know what an email is

You heard but says he does not receive

does not respond by email or is it the

a whole time a message arrives

instantly so that people

also confirms itself in front of the other

when we realize for example he

by the application that the other read our

message

We do not believe in this little one anymore.

space that can be

between the people and the other is always

I’m very worried that this will

giving

and then there would be no problem

if all this had happened and the

We observe that we are all more

happy indeed we are all less

distressed but this is not what people

realizes if on the one hand it is not possible

to be nostalgic of this is and

claim and condemn the advances

technologies so radical that they

made so much difference in our

behavior is not possible is

miss it

on the other hand it is inevitable that

people stop to pause to think

to take these issues because a

party and neither interrupts is the same thing

what an anguish

The truth is that we feel this

absence of contrast

the same way then if I ‘m 200

hours a day happy

It’s more or less the same thing as me.

200 hours a day the wheezing in the

The next sense is I can not

compare nor do I have a sadness

Tell me about a joy and vice versa.

It’s all a cushion, I’m going.

give a statistic is statistical for you

is a survey that came out this week

is alarming today 20 per cent

of the entire adult population

American makes use of some medicine

10 per cent of all children in

age at school makes use of some

or psychiatric medication and 25% of

young university students are

in that same

tactics are not numbers that say

a little that these advances

this radical form with which the world is

eventually became the last

decades so as not to consider the

pause the interval on the separation to

distance between a thing and

another has the effect of distress

well I’ll bring three paradoxes of it

everything that is there in our

life

the first of the curiosities is the fact that

people realize that today for some

thing if real it first has to be

virtual

So it’s young people who start and end

Your relationship is over the internet.

before they even kissed them

combine this

then it is they kiss for example is

the way we are at an event

and if we do not post on the social network

this event it will not have existed is

this modern sensation is not

way this virtual one happened to

be prior to the actual placing

consequences in reality this is not without

consequences because we understand and

always understood how real is the second

paradox is that when they go over

information and words we are with

with more words we are popular

let’s say our day

not necessarily this is reversed with

a certainty is firmness in our

commitments

We talk a lot and it’s little, I go.

bring an example here when I was

small and ballet

My mother used to say that to me.

at three o’clock in the afternoon

ballet I’ll be looking for

good if 3 and 10 or 13 15 arrived and I

I was not at the door, I was dead.

or I would die because she was going to kill me

if I would not survive this

experience anyway then the

commitments with the agility of

messages and the information they

become more and more fragile and

in a broader view

that’s what we share

does not share anything else we

we are here in the symbolic field that is

this space where we share

words and these words are

making them more worn and they are

making more is mine – led to

serious and the third paradox is the fact

that we certainly save

long with modernity but this

time is not reversed in real time

We can use this leisure

productive is to this space that the

people could have a great example is

when we were up to too much

a short time ago there was no bank

online is we got 40 minutes in

the bank row that we make with these

40 minutes today where is the 40

minutes of the week we spent in the

bank row

We do not know this if it’s subverted in

something else has become a

requirement of one or two or three

commitments is then to this paradox

It’s about good and good weather.

generates hyperactivity we are all and

we live in a culture that

encourages hyperactivity and has a

little prejudice with passivity

and that’s when we forget it’s just

in this time in this pause and in that

interval

said that we could be

surprised by some news for

something of the order of creation

desire depends on this to come to appear

to exist and to and to become

effective in our life is coming back to flower

of Freud’s important that a crop

finish here another one may come and the

people recognize that it is at the

a crop that another may come

and we are getting more and more

refractory and all this is as if the

could ignore what is the

main of the human who we are

all passengers – the exchanger and

driver

Good, I’ll go and read you a phrase.

What do I think of the clarice lispector?

exactly to finish and over

this theme of today my joy too

comes from my deepest sadness and

sadness is a failed joy

thank you so much

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