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Seu Filho é Problema Meu | Alessandro Marimpietri | TEDxSaoPaulo


What’s the use of the school because in 2017

with the absolute democratization of

information

we keep putting our kids

in school

What does a parent expect when I decide

put your child inside a school

me this question was answered by a

father 20 years ago

the father of a boy in a school where I

worked in the violent neighborhood of

savior

This father, she was a drug dealer and told me

how much he struggled to maintain the

son in the school

he told me that he wanted the

son had a life different from life

that he lived

he told me that his life was a

Life of Bandit and Life of Bandit is a

a short and intense life of danger and

that he did not want for his son

the impossibility of seeing your child

grow as it might happen to him

myself and he told me that the only

way to make this child

had his life changed had he

longer life safer and farther away

of criminality would be the

education

This father was a great teacher to

me he taught me two things

very important

the first one that after that

encounter I would never have

possibility of looking at the phenomenon

about a single perspective for 20 years

ago was very difficult for me.

imagine that a person involved with the

crime could have as serious an inten-

noble in relation to your son

the second extremely important teaching

important thing he gave me is that

some way all the father all mother

When I decided to put a child in school

he expects the school to produce a

series perry a series of

transformations of experiences and

life-altering experiences

this boy or that girl

now this transformation if we

let’s think

it changes with historical time maybe

50 years ago

the expectation of a father when he put

This son of the school is that the school

discipline this child to organize

this child to instrumentalize if this

child for him to develop

be part of society and maybe today

the expectation of parents has changed

we are talking about a

school 50 years ago that was

supported by a model of society that

we would call society

discipline a society where it is up to

subject to get out of hand

freedoms to be able to be part of a

collective

a company that was governed by

idea of duty

not by chance the school of 50 years

ago she had some

characteristics that resembled a

factory a prison

in these three institutions the people

they are uniformed

there is a logic of obedience

represented by people who must say

the time to come and go

there are beeps warning you that

happens there are a number of things to

be produced therein

in this time of today in this time of our

net company

we seem to be more free seems

that we do not live this logic anymore

It seems that disciplinary action can

now adjust the collective to our

subjectivity

It seems that we can do things.

in a different way and in fact people

can but we have to pay a price

and price is the price of performance

price is the price of the result and this

is no different with the lives of

children

we live in the right education

paradox because we continue

wanting children queued inside

from school

we still wish children break

enough so as not to disturb the

Classroom Transmissible Logic

but at the same time we want you to

creative and innovative

reality that change the

our world

and this is a paradox now imagine

when a child can not

solve this story

when a child can not give

account of making these two

seemingly opposite dimensions with

exist in a more or less

acceptable what we do to people

review the project we review a

interconnected set of

circumstances the agent says no

It’s about a sick child.

of a child with a small

biochemical imbalance and for this

We have medical leave.

realizable

we are talking about the medicalization of

childhood we are talking about

medicalization of medical education

smooth does not have to see how it is of flesh

necessarily there are children who

need medication there are

children who are sick there are children

with disorders there are children who

have consistent diagnoses and that the

pharmacotherapy is a strategy in a

set of strategies to do with

that this child lives better

It’s good that we can count on

this but when a child presents

in the zig zag of your days some kind of

deviation from our expectation

we can not reduce this dimension

there is a single variable that is

the biochemical variable and believe

almost in a magical thought that

there is a certain substance that

will solve all these problems at

medicalization is a way of

discipline our boys and girls

for them to ensure our

performance expectancy

perhaps medicalization is a

solution to this paradox that I

I mentioned a little while ago when

We’re going to supervise kids.

boys and girls

We are doing a disservice to the

its development by providing a

disservice to the classroom by providing

education.

we are also corrupting the largest and

more important contribution than the

child can give to society that is

live your childhood

being a child has nothing to do with having

childhood is to have a child.

the age criterion there attended those

children that go more or less until

at that age and master’s degree or

living the childhood is a set of

symbolic experiences that guarantee

that this child develops and these

symbolic experiences have been

culturally agreed

now my question is ours

an adult or centric society that

sees these children under the

The adult world perspective gives these

children the chances of living their

childhood our society can

to see these phenomena with the

eyes of the child

the same society that medicalizes

with which fathers and mothers passes each time

less time with your kids and us

we know that it is development that

is linked to the environment the better

is the interaction of the child with

environment will be better

development and because parents in some

the world spend 40 minutes with

your children every day

sheltered under the fallacy that the

quality can account for the quantity

because we expose our children to

so irresponsible the excess of the

technology is not the

Bad girl, she does well.

she is cool if she is made if she

is used within an acceptable time and

some adult mediation but the last

data from Brazil show that our

boys and girls are using

technology in a way absolutely

irresponsible and without any mediation

of the adult world

this same society adopted centric

fills our boys and girls with a

series of activities that are not

children’s own activities

example if a poor child in Brazil

She’s going to have to work to survive.

and if she has a little more money

it creates a busy schedule of

commitments that do not give them time

breathe

that same company makes

our children are imprisoned

child in some parts of the world

less outdoor time than

their prisoners

a child in some places of the world

less outdoor time than

prisoners and when this arrest does not

it’s real it’s not concrete it’s not

palpable

we give a way to create other

prisons as the example of

the medicalization of childhood

societies that realized that prioritizing

childhood is a good business does well

to the collective have better results in

education in public security in

health and to finish I wanted to

end with a story from another

child I met some 15 years ago

ago I was a university professor .

and I supervised student of

psychology that would have to meet in

psychotherapy a child with a

diagnosis and tvh this child

destroyed a number of

This school does not

I could stay inside the room to be

This child was

his first moments on the steps of

school clinic fire because it is the

only place where she could stay

we closed the entrance and exit of

preserve a clown for that

courageous student of psychology

to realize you start your

work for us to do

with that child to enter the room

effectively closed doors we

we took six months

This child did not have this

child was a neglected child

by his mother who was addicted to

psychoactive substances and that

prostitute to ensure their addiction

detour in a very simple room

and when that mother and prostitute her

locked the child inside a

oven off but locked inside

an oven and locked with broom handle

this child had several

burn in your body

Now my question to us is will be

What are we willing to wait for?

six months to get a

child in the room to talk

with someone modifying a whole logic

of teaching that that student

took five years to learn or will be

that it would be easier to say no she has

a chemical problem

let’s go to her this medicine let’s go

magically believe that everything will

solve

This child was a great teacher.

to me she taught me two things

the first one very important not

Can we look at a child?

with an adult look and the second of them

it takes much more than a father and

a mother to raise children

We need the father we ask.

mother we need family

extended

we need the neighborhood community of

school

we need the state and therefore people I

I wanted to finish with a sentence that I

I always repeat before we medicalize

our boys and girls let’s think

that my son is your problem and yours

son, it’s my problem, thank you

[Applause]

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