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School as a second home | Esmee and Kes Priem and Visser | TEDxApeldoorn


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when I was staying years old I already

when I was staying years old I already knew that I would choose the father’s

knew that I would choose the father’s

knew that I would choose the father’s glacier I knew it when I performed when

glacier I knew it when I performed when

glacier I knew it when I performed when my sister performed at first I’d still

my sister performed at first I’d still

my sister performed at first I’d still remember that I noticed that the school

remember that I noticed that the school

remember that I noticed that the school was so bright and so colorful that I

was so bright and so colorful that I

was so bright and so colorful that I just couldn’t believe that it really was

just couldn’t believe that it really was

just couldn’t believe that it really was a school there were no separated

a school there were no separated

a school there were no separated classrooms and it was all open and

classrooms and it was all open and

classrooms and it was all open and connected to each other immediately it

connected to each other immediately it

connected to each other immediately it felt like home and I realized that this

felt like home and I realized that this

felt like home and I realized that this school is the perfect school for me but

school is the perfect school for me but

school is the perfect school for me but then I wasn’t accepted I was enamored

then I wasn’t accepted I was enamored

then I wasn’t accepted I was enamored Rihanna 36 but only 200 students were

Rihanna 36 but only 200 students were

Rihanna 36 but only 200 students were admitted I was so upset I remember it as

admitted I was so upset I remember it as

admitted I was so upset I remember it as if it was yesterday because it was

if it was yesterday because it was

if it was yesterday because it was convinced that this school was the

convinced that this school was the

convinced that this school was the perfect place for me for this reason I

perfect place for me for this reason I

perfect place for me for this reason I had done everything to be admitted I

had done everything to be admitted I

had done everything to be admitted I emailed and not once with like a

emailed and not once with like a

emailed and not once with like a thousand times even with the dudas

thousand times even with the dudas

thousand times even with the dudas officer and my father called every week

officer and my father called every week

officer and my father called every week to check if perhaps there’s a little

to check if perhaps there’s a little

to check if perhaps there’s a little place for me and eventually finally I

place for me and eventually finally I

place for me and eventually finally I was accepted I have more luck I was

was accepted I have more luck I was

was accepted I have more luck I was number 42 which meant that I had a spot

number 42 which meant that I had a spot

number 42 which meant that I had a spot for sure at first which was a great

for sure at first which was a great

for sure at first which was a great relief because I really wanted to go to

relief because I really wanted to go to

relief because I really wanted to go to the school why I was so sure about my

the school why I was so sure about my

the school why I was so sure about my choice in seventh grade I

choice in seventh grade I

choice in seventh grade I unintentionally went to an open day with

unintentionally went to an open day with

unintentionally went to an open day with a friend and I felt so at home I knew

a friend and I felt so at home I knew

a friend and I felt so at home I knew this was the school for me

this was the school for me

this was the school for me so even when I went to look at other

so even when I went to look at other

so even when I went to look at other schools there was no doubt about where I

schools there was no doubt about where I

schools there was no doubt about where I wanted to go fathers felt right so that

wanted to go fathers felt right so that

wanted to go fathers felt right so that was where where I was going to go being

was where where I was going to go being

was where where I was going to go being able to feel at home at school is

able to feel at home at school is

able to feel at home at school is something that as May and I find it very

something that as May and I find it very

something that as May and I find it very important

important

important not just because he spent most of your

not just because he spent most of your

not just because he spent most of your time at school but because this is the

time at school but because this is the

time at school but because this is the place we learn change and grow you go

place we learn change and grow you go

place we learn change and grow you go through your ups

through your ups

through your ups and your downs and that makes you

and your downs and that makes you

and your downs and that makes you vulnerable but if you feel at home then

vulnerable but if you feel at home then

vulnerable but if you feel at home then it’s okay and if you’re vulnerable you

it’s okay and if you’re vulnerable you

it’s okay and if you’re vulnerable you can really look at yourself and what

can really look at yourself and what

can really look at yourself and what kind of person you are and you will see

kind of person you are and you will see

kind of person you are and you will see what you’re good at and what you’re not

what you’re good at and what you’re not

what you’re good at and what you’re not so good at for example I found English

so good at for example I found English

so good at for example I found English very hard and I wanted to change that so

very hard and I wanted to change that so

very hard and I wanted to change that so I asked my parents and teachers for help

I asked my parents and teachers for help

I asked my parents and teachers for help at our school it’s very normal to just

at our school it’s very normal to just

at our school it’s very normal to just step up to teacher and ask for help they

step up to teacher and ask for help they

step up to teacher and ask for help they even want and expect you to so because I

even want and expect you to so because I

even want and expect you to so because I make myself vulnerable and asked for

make myself vulnerable and asked for

make myself vulnerable and asked for help I received extra exercises and tips

help I received extra exercises and tips

help I received extra exercises and tips and because of that help and now I’ve

and because of that help and now I’ve

and because of that help and now I’ve got a nine point six my 3-piece exam

got a nine point six my 3-piece exam

got a nine point six my 3-piece exam which I’m really proud of I got to know

which I’m really proud of I got to know

which I’m really proud of I got to know myself better but it took a little time

myself better but it took a little time

myself better but it took a little time before I was open to that I experienced

before I was open to that I experienced

before I was open to that I experienced something that made me close my doors

something that made me close my doors

something that made me close my doors but now that they’re open and learn new

but now that they’re open and learn new

but now that they’re open and learn new things about myself all the time and

things about myself all the time and

things about myself all the time and sometimes that’s good other times not so

sometimes that’s good other times not so

sometimes that’s good other times not so much but because of the safety at our

much but because of the safety at our

much but because of the safety at our school it’s okay to have to good and

school it’s okay to have to good and

school it’s okay to have to good and they’re not so good five five times a

they’re not so good five five times a

they’re not so good five five times a week I’m on the fully booked or I play

week I’m on the fully booked or I play

week I’m on the fully booked or I play volleyball and beach football at a high

volleyball and beach football at a high

volleyball and beach football at a high level my dream is to participate in

level my dream is to participate in

level my dream is to participate in Olympic Games in 2028 my school helps

Olympic Games in 2028 my school helps

Olympic Games in 2028 my school helps supports and contributes me to achieve

supports and contributes me to achieve

supports and contributes me to achieve my dreams I get every opportunity to go

my dreams I get every opportunity to go

my dreams I get every opportunity to go to trainings tournaments and matches but

to trainings tournaments and matches but

to trainings tournaments and matches but that’s the only reason my school helps

that’s the only reason my school helps

that’s the only reason my school helps me to learn more skills which are very

me to learn more skills which are very

me to learn more skills which are very important for my top sport at father’s

important for my top sport at father’s

important for my top sport at father’s we work with I self this contains four

we work with I self this contains four

we work with I self this contains four skills three of them are work together

skills three of them are work together

skills three of them are work together reflect and they control yourself and I

reflect and they control yourself and I

reflect and they control yourself and I use all these skills in volleyball

use all these skills in volleyball

use all these skills in volleyball work together for example with fully

work together for example with fully

work together for example with fully value our team you win and you lose

value our team you win and you lose

value our team you win and you lose together at my school collaboration is

together at my school collaboration is

together at my school collaboration is stimulated by working on projects in

stimulated by working on projects in

stimulated by working on projects in groups this takes place in so called

groups this takes place in so called

groups this takes place in so called learning houses these are very big

learning houses these are very big

learning houses these are very big spaces where four classes of different

spaces where four classes of different

spaces where four classes of different learning years are in the same classroom

learning years are in the same classroom

learning years are in the same classroom and yes and here you work together or by

and yes and here you work together or by

and yes and here you work together or by yourself that’s your choice and yes

yourself that’s your choice and yes

yourself that’s your choice and yes sometimes you have to work with thumbs

sometimes you have to work with thumbs

sometimes you have to work with thumbs with someone you don’t like so much but

with someone you don’t like so much but

with someone you don’t like so much but then you have to adjust and help each

then you have to adjust and help each

then you have to adjust and help each other and together it always works

other and together it always works

other and together it always works students often receive feedback from

students often receive feedback from

students often receive feedback from other students or teachers which they

other students or teachers which they

other students or teachers which they can use to learn from their mistakes it

can use to learn from their mistakes it

can use to learn from their mistakes it sometimes you have to write an

sometimes you have to write an

sometimes you have to write an evaluation to reflect on your process of

evaluation to reflect on your process of

evaluation to reflect on your process of the period what did you learn what was

the period what did you learn what was

the period what did you learn what was difficult and what are your goals for

difficult and what are your goals for

difficult and what are your goals for the next assignment with volleyball you

the next assignment with volleyball you

the next assignment with volleyball you have to improve every time again and

have to improve every time again and

have to improve every time again and again to become better but especially to

again to become better but especially to

again to become better but especially to accomplish your dreams to take and to

accomplish your dreams to take and to

accomplish your dreams to take and to take control of yourself means ownership

take control of yourself means ownership

take control of yourself means ownership of your own learning process you decide

of your own learning process you decide

of your own learning process you decide what you do and when and whether you do

what you do and when and whether you do

what you do and when and whether you do it be able to plan well is fundamental

it be able to plan well is fundamental

it be able to plan well is fundamental for this and certainly for me because

for this and certainly for me because

for this and certainly for me because combining volleyball with my study it’s

combining volleyball with my study it’s

combining volleyball with my study it’s a big change sometimes and requires not

a big change sometimes and requires not

a big change sometimes and requires not only perseverance and discipline but

only perseverance and discipline but

only perseverance and discipline but also responsibility and yes it’s hard at

also responsibility and yes it’s hard at

also responsibility and yes it’s hard at some moments and it can go wrong but at

some moments and it can go wrong but at

some moments and it can go wrong but at my school there’s plenty opportunity to

my school there’s plenty opportunity to

my school there’s plenty opportunity to learn fall and stand up again I have to

learn fall and stand up again I have to

learn fall and stand up again I have to do the work nobody else does it for me I

do the work nobody else does it for me I

do the work nobody else does it for me I am responsible for my future

am responsible for my future

am responsible for my future I want to learn I want to grow and I

I want to learn I want to grow and I

I want to learn I want to grow and I want to create a good career it’s my

want to create a good career it’s my

want to create a good career it’s my responsibility not yours I often say

responsibility not yours I often say

responsibility not yours I often say never give up make the best of the worse

never give up make the best of the worse

never give up make the best of the worse that’s what we learn as fought worst we

that’s what we learn as fought worst we

that’s what we learn as fought worst we receive education that challenge and

receive education that challenge and

receive education that challenge and occurrences we are so much more than

occurrences we are so much more than

occurrences we are so much more than numbers and figures we may try out

numbers and figures we may try out

numbers and figures we may try out discover a love celebrates make mistakes

discover a love celebrates make mistakes

discover a love celebrates make mistakes and yes sometimes cry did it all makes

and yes sometimes cry did it all makes

and yes sometimes cry did it all makes me more it’s may concerning house for my

me more it’s may concerning house for my

me more it’s may concerning house for my first class I say hi to a few people go

first class I say hi to a few people go

first class I say hi to a few people go sit next to a friend and get to work

sit next to a friend and get to work

sit next to a friend and get to work everyone sits what I want and they don’t

everyone sits what I want and they don’t

everyone sits what I want and they don’t care about you do or where there are no

care about you do or where there are no

care about you do or where there are no odd looks or gossip maybe it’s odd that

odd looks or gossip maybe it’s odd that

odd looks or gossip maybe it’s odd that I find this peculiar but I know from my

I find this peculiar but I know from my

I find this peculiar but I know from my own experience that this can be

own experience that this can be

own experience that this can be different in sixth grade of primary

different in sixth grade of primary

different in sixth grade of primary school I was bullied and I can’t

school I was bullied and I can’t

school I was bullied and I can’t remember a day in which I truly felt

remember a day in which I truly felt

remember a day in which I truly felt like myself I wasn’t verbally or

like myself I wasn’t verbally or

like myself I wasn’t verbally or physically abused but I was excluded

physically abused but I was excluded

physically abused but I was excluded which may have been worse because my

which may have been worse because my

which may have been worse because my friends my best friends for over three

friends my best friends for over three

friends my best friends for over three years didn’t want to meet up after

years didn’t want to meet up after

years didn’t want to meet up after school anymore even though they had time

school anymore even though they had time

school anymore even though they had time and that hurt because it always made me

and that hurt because it always made me

and that hurt because it always made me doubt whether or not something was cool

doubt whether or not something was cool

doubt whether or not something was cool enough to be liked so when I just

enough to be liked so when I just

enough to be liked so when I just started at first I found it really

started at first I found it really

started at first I found it really important that I had popular friends not

important that I had popular friends not

important that I had popular friends not if they would become good friends or if

if they would become good friends or if

if they would become good friends or if I could be myself with them so in the

I could be myself with them so in the

I could be myself with them so in the first two introduction weeks and fathers

first two introduction weeks and fathers

first two introduction weeks and fathers in which you get to know your class I

in which you get to know your class I

in which you get to know your class I became friends with the popular kids

became friends with the popular kids

became friends with the popular kids until I realized I didn’t like them the

until I realized I didn’t like them the

until I realized I didn’t like them the conversations that we had didn’t

conversations that we had didn’t

conversations that we had didn’t interest me and my comments were met

interest me and my comments were met

interest me and my comments were met with that uncomfortable silence in which

with that uncomfortable silence in which

with that uncomfortable silence in which no one knows what to say

no one knows what to say

no one knows what to say so I found different friends friends I

so I found different friends friends I

so I found different friends friends I could be myself with with my dorky

could be myself with with my dorky

could be myself with with my dorky Kirksey no at first I can be myself and

Kirksey no at first I can be myself and

Kirksey no at first I can be myself and feel safe and this is what I find very

feel safe and this is what I find very

feel safe and this is what I find very important and I know that others feel

important and I know that others feel

important and I know that others feel the same we create the safe atmosphere

the same we create the safe atmosphere

the same we create the safe atmosphere together not just the students but also

together not just the students but also

together not just the students but also the teachers at first everyone is equal

the teachers at first everyone is equal

the teachers at first everyone is equal you can call your teachers by their

you can call your teachers by their

you can call your teachers by their first name and you can always go to them

first name and you can always go to them

first name and you can always go to them either for advice or if you have advice

either for advice or if you have advice

either for advice or if you have advice for them and I know that there are some

for them and I know that there are some

for them and I know that there are some people who don’t find this equality

people who don’t find this equality

people who don’t find this equality fitting for a school that it shows a

fitting for a school that it shows a

fitting for a school that it shows a lack of respect but would I show you as

lack of respect but would I show you as

lack of respect but would I show you as mine more respect if I call her head

mine more respect if I call her head

mine more respect if I call her head master caster no I don’t think so it is

master caster no I don’t think so it is

master caster no I don’t think so it is because I can call her as mine that I

because I can call her as mine that I

because I can call her as mine that I feel that I’m important to her and that

feel that I’m important to her and that

feel that I’m important to her and that I can give her my opinion about anything

I can give her my opinion about anything

I can give her my opinion about anything at first we don’t believe that you show

at first we don’t believe that you show

at first we don’t believe that you show respect with the way you call someone

respect with the way you call someone

respect with the way you call someone but with the way you treat someone

but with the way you treat someone

but with the way you treat someone contact from person to person when I for

contact from person to person when I for

contact from person to person when I for differences for example when I had a

differences for example when I had a

differences for example when I had a header ID to improve the school it was

header ID to improve the school it was

header ID to improve the school it was possible to go to just mine our

possible to go to just mine our

possible to go to just mine our headmaster so easily

headmaster so easily

headmaster so easily she was completely open to my ideas and

she was completely open to my ideas and

she was completely open to my ideas and visions and we even elaborated on them

visions and we even elaborated on them

visions and we even elaborated on them then you really feel importance you feel

then you really feel importance you feel

then you really feel importance you feel of great significance or failure and

of great significance or failure and

of great significance or failure and that you are not just one of thousands a

that you are not just one of thousands a

that you are not just one of thousands a number and here I stand today

number and here I stand today

number and here I stand today representing my school obviously a

representing my school obviously a

representing my school obviously a little nervous with especially with

little nervous with especially with

little nervous with especially with confidence

confidence

confidence I am also graduating in drama class and

I am also graduating in drama class and

I am also graduating in drama class and this is unique in the Netherlands why I

this is unique in the Netherlands why I

this is unique in the Netherlands why I wonder because it’s so important that

wonder because it’s so important that

wonder because it’s so important that you learn not only with your head but

you learn not only with your head but

you learn not only with your head but also with your heart and your hands it’s

also with your heart and your hands it’s

also with your heart and your hands it’s I made a journey for my young girl to a

I made a journey for my young girl to a

I made a journey for my young girl to a mature woman i right now I am attending

mature woman i right now I am attending

mature woman i right now I am attending the last year of secondary education and

the last year of secondary education and

the last year of secondary education and I feel like I’m ready and prepared for

I feel like I’m ready and prepared for

I feel like I’m ready and prepared for the next step in my life and of course

the next step in my life and of course

the next step in my life and of course it’s great that I will possess my

it’s great that I will possess my

it’s great that I will possess my diploma but admit it it’s even better

diploma but admit it it’s even better

diploma but admit it it’s even better that I feel like I’m ready for life next

that I feel like I’m ready for life next

that I feel like I’m ready for life next year I am going to America with a

year I am going to America with a

year I am going to America with a scholarship where I will combine fully

scholarship where I will combine fully

scholarship where I will combine fully Bao and my study and I’m already so

Bao and my study and I’m already so

Bao and my study and I’m already so excited

excited

excited just bring it on being able to be

just bring it on being able to be

just bring it on being able to be yourself is something you don’t always

yourself is something you don’t always

yourself is something you don’t always realize the importance of but if someone

realize the importance of but if someone

realize the importance of but if someone would tell me I could never read a book

would tell me I could never read a book

would tell me I could never read a book again and if someone would tell me that

again and if someone would tell me that

again and if someone would tell me that I may never play volleyball again then

I may never play volleyball again then

I may never play volleyball again then we will not accept it we have learned

we will not accept it we have learned

we will not accept it we have learned who we are what we can and who we want

who we are what we can and who we want

who we are what we can and who we want to be and we’re proud of that and if

to be and we’re proud of that and if

to be and we’re proud of that and if there’s one thing you want you to

there’s one thing you want you to

there’s one thing you want you to remember it is this it doesn’t matter

remember it is this it doesn’t matter

remember it is this it doesn’t matter where you are at school at work or at

where you are at school at work or at

where you are at school at work or at home the place where you learn perform

home the place where you learn perform

home the place where you learn perform and grow is the place where you should

and grow is the place where you should

and grow is the place where you should feel safe and where you can be yourself

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