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Satisfashion | Carmela Myles Masika | TEDxLingnanUniversitySalon


are you satisfied how old are you what

are you satisfied how old are you what school do you go to what job do you have

school do you go to what job do you have

school do you go to what job do you have your job will you have how much do you

your job will you have how much do you

your job will you have how much do you weigh are you tall enough Sunni enough

weigh are you tall enough Sunni enough

weigh are you tall enough Sunni enough smart enough do you have enough are you

smart enough do you have enough are you

smart enough do you have enough are you fashionable what friends do you buy what

fashionable what friends do you buy what

fashionable what friends do you buy what stores you shop at we’ll try to follow

stores you shop at we’ll try to follow

stores you shop at we’ll try to follow boots our icons g-dragon but what is

boots our icons g-dragon but what is

boots our icons g-dragon but what is fashion and doesn’t even matter fashion

fashion and doesn’t even matter fashion

fashion and doesn’t even matter fashion is important and it’s prevalent in our

is important and it’s prevalent in our

is important and it’s prevalent in our society whether you care or not

society whether you care or not

society whether you care or not it helps dictate our culture and that

it helps dictate our culture and that

it helps dictate our culture and that probably represent ourselves it is the

probably represent ourselves it is the

probably represent ourselves it is the way that we can stock their personal

way that we can stock their personal

way that we can stock their personal identity and it is a way that we can

identity and it is a way that we can

identity and it is a way that we can express people and in general and groups

express people and in general and groups

express people and in general and groups and alone fashion and its industry is

and alone fashion and its industry is

and alone fashion and its industry is often seen as this entity that is

often seen as this entity that is

often seen as this entity that is unattainable and athletes are only thin

unattainable and athletes are only thin

unattainable and athletes are only thin are in the faction isn’t just stuff in

are in the faction isn’t just stuff in

are in the faction isn’t just stuff in fact fashion in its purest form is a

fact fashion in its purest form is a

fact fashion in its purest form is a space where people can collaborate and

space where people can collaborate and

space where people can collaborate and share there’s no reality in owning a

share there’s no reality in owning a

share there’s no reality in owning a look

look

look you can only own a logo and even that is

you can only own a logo and even that is

you can only own a logo and even that is temporary so in the fashion industry we

temporary so in the fashion industry we

temporary so in the fashion industry we have we have seen and we know about how

have we have seen and we know about how

have we have seen and we know about how it kind of fosters an environment that

it kind of fosters an environment that

it kind of fosters an environment that feeds into kind of an unhealthy mental

feeds into kind of an unhealthy mental

feeds into kind of an unhealthy mental space right you have anorexic models

space right you have anorexic models

space right you have anorexic models extreme extremely under time concerns

extreme extremely under time concerns

extreme extremely under time concerns that are just don’t make any sense right

that are just don’t make any sense right

that are just don’t make any sense right we have all of these expectations and

we have all of these expectations and

we have all of these expectations and perfectionist leaks

perfectionist leaks

perfectionist leaks to the air when reality is is in our

to the air when reality is is in our

to the air when reality is is in our face all right but I’ve ever went tour

face all right but I’ve ever went tour

face all right but I’ve ever went tour and the fashion that the chief editor of

and the fashion that the chief editor of

and the fashion that the chief editor of Vogue at the USA has putted fashion is a

Vogue at the USA has putted fashion is a

Vogue at the USA has putted fashion is a reflection of our times and the way that

reflection of our times and the way that

reflection of our times and the way that we use Sachin in our day-to-day now is

we use Sachin in our day-to-day now is

we use Sachin in our day-to-day now is through looking at trends and with these

through looking at trends and with these

through looking at trends and with these trends and kind of get an idea who were

trends and kind of get an idea who were

trends and kind of get an idea who were supposed to be powers of civilian where

supposed to be powers of civilian where

supposed to be powers of civilian where were supposed to be and this kind of

were supposed to be and this kind of

were supposed to be and this kind of translates into our personal identity of

translates into our personal identity of

translates into our personal identity of who we are and what we are and why we

who we are and what we are and why we

who we are and what we are and why we are but that is not what fashion is

are but that is not what fashion is

are but that is not what fashion is really supposed to be we’re so Steve’s

really supposed to be we’re so Steve’s

really supposed to be we’re so Steve’s faction in the sense that can liberate

faction in the sense that can liberate

faction in the sense that can liberate ourselves and set us apart from these

ourselves and set us apart from these

ourselves and set us apart from these big spaces and yet we use these trends

big spaces and yet we use these trends

big spaces and yet we use these trends as a code a social code that how we need

as a code a social code that how we need

as a code a social code that how we need to act in our society so I want to take

to act in our society so I want to take

to act in our society so I want to take a step back from this crazy entity of

a step back from this crazy entity of

a step back from this crazy entity of the fashion industry in this world that

the fashion industry in this world that

the fashion industry in this world that kind of none of us are probably a part

kind of none of us are probably a part

kind of none of us are probably a part of I am me included and I’m gonna ask

of I am me included and I’m gonna ask

of I am me included and I’m gonna ask you all a question how many of you have

you all a question how many of you have

you all a question how many of you have ever compared yourself to someone else

ever compared yourself to someone else

ever compared yourself to someone else raise our hand be honest have you ever

raise our hand be honest have you ever

raise our hand be honest have you ever compared your grades to a friend an

compared your grades to a friend an

compared your grades to a friend an outfit a hairstyle place where you’ve

outfit a hairstyle place where you’ve

outfit a hairstyle place where you’ve lived their problem – okay keep your

lived their problem – okay keep your

lived their problem – okay keep your hands up how many of you have ever been

hands up how many of you have ever been

hands up how many of you have ever been jealous of someone maybe something that

jealous of someone maybe something that

jealous of someone maybe something that they have or don’t have something that

they have or don’t have something that

they have or don’t have something that you have to be less than they don’t have

you have to be less than they don’t have

you have to be less than they don’t have to deal with how many of you felt read

to deal with how many of you felt read

to deal with how many of you felt read before

hex posing and that’s alright okay so

hex posing and that’s alright okay so mental health comes in many different

mental health comes in many different

mental health comes in many different forms and in many different situations

forms and in many different situations

forms and in many different situations which is why it’s so complicated and in

which is why it’s so complicated and in

which is why it’s so complicated and in fact mental health is a situation and

fact mental health is a situation and

fact mental health is a situation and it’s an illness and it’s a state of

it’s an illness and it’s a state of

it’s an illness and it’s a state of being right that we kind of want to tend

being right that we kind of want to tend

being right that we kind of want to tend to and by calling people crazy or

to and by calling people crazy or

to and by calling people crazy or something like two asylums or

something like two asylums or

something like two asylums or institutions or even works with silence

institutions or even works with silence

institutions or even works with silence but that is not the way that we need to

but that is not the way that we need to

but that is not the way that we need to deal with this situation okay because we

deal with this situation okay because we

deal with this situation okay because we all have mental health and how healthy

all have mental health and how healthy

all have mental health and how healthy it is depends on your own life and your

it is depends on your own life and your

it is depends on your own life and your own situations it transgresses across a

own situations it transgresses across a

own situations it transgresses across a wide spectrum that knows no boundaries

wide spectrum that knows no boundaries

wide spectrum that knows no boundaries and we need to respect that and

and we need to respect that and

and we need to respect that and celebrate it rather than shun it and

celebrate it rather than shun it and

celebrate it rather than shun it and I’ll talk about it so in every society

I’ll talk about it so in every society

I’ll talk about it so in every society each class deals with their mental

each class deals with their mental

each class deals with their mental health issues in a different way right

health issues in a different way right

health issues in a different way right so maybe you’ll spend your money on

so maybe you’ll spend your money on

so maybe you’ll spend your money on Chanel and the high-end fashion boutique

Chanel and the high-end fashion boutique

Chanel and the high-end fashion boutique stores maybe you’ll go to hmmm forever

stores maybe you’ll go to hmmm forever

stores maybe you’ll go to hmmm forever 21 and go on large shopping sprees that

21 and go on large shopping sprees that

21 and go on large shopping sprees that you’ll feel excited about for maybe date

you’ll feel excited about for maybe date

you’ll feel excited about for maybe date and we also go on are you know cheaper

and we also go on are you know cheaper

and we also go on are you know cheaper kind of binge shopping and go to cowbow

kind of binge shopping and go to cowbow

kind of binge shopping and go to cowbow or Amazon regardless of your financial

or Amazon regardless of your financial

or Amazon regardless of your financial status or your your pleasure and

status or your your pleasure and

status or your your pleasure and shopping right we all shop and that is a

shopping right we all shop and that is a

shopping right we all shop and that is a common factor in today’s society around

common factor in today’s society around

common factor in today’s society around the world okay globalization you know

the world okay globalization you know

the world okay globalization you know alright and what we do with shopping is

alright and what we do with shopping is

alright and what we do with shopping is we use it to make themselves happier and

we use it to make themselves happier and

we use it to make themselves happier and we’ve we’ve made it into this kind of

we’ve we’ve made it into this kind of

we’ve we’ve made it into this kind of drug that makes us happy and like all

drug that makes us happy and like all

drug that makes us happy and like all drugs the highest temporary and we come

drugs the highest temporary and we come

drugs the highest temporary and we come crashing down when you contracting them

crashing down when you contracting them

crashing down when you contracting them and the fear of the situation right and

and the fear of the situation right and

and the fear of the situation right and here in Hong Kong

here in Hong Kong

here in Hong Kong it’s a consumerist sculpture that

it’s a consumerist sculpture that

it’s a consumerist sculpture that celebrated and so we all know about all

celebrated and so we all know about all

celebrated and so we all know about all these malls and shopping and stores so

these malls and shopping and stores so

these malls and shopping and stores so you can’t deny that you don’t go

you can’t deny that you don’t go

you can’t deny that you don’t go shopping and then it’s not around you

shopping and then it’s not around you

shopping and then it’s not around you even if you hate it and even me

even if you hate it and even me

even if you hate it and even me I have experienced and engulfed in my

I have experienced and engulfed in my

I have experienced and engulfed in my own shopping sprees RI and running

own shopping sprees RI and running

own shopping sprees RI and running around and feeling sucks efficiently and

around and feeling sucks efficiently and

around and feeling sucks efficiently and excited and powerful with all of my

excited and powerful with all of my

excited and powerful with all of my expertise sort of curiosity and then to

expertise sort of curiosity and then to

expertise sort of curiosity and then to only find myself a few hours later that

only find myself a few hours later that

only find myself a few hours later that bomb didn’t this on the side so what can

bomb didn’t this on the side so what can

bomb didn’t this on the side so what can we do to kind of separate factions and

we do to kind of separate factions and

we do to kind of separate factions and the negative idea and put it in a

the negative idea and put it in a

the negative idea and put it in a positive light what can we do from

positive light what can we do from

positive light what can we do from taking it away from consumerism and the

taking it away from consumerism and the

taking it away from consumerism and the the psychological dilemma of mean versus

the psychological dilemma of mean versus

the psychological dilemma of mean versus want can we make fashion to help us and

want can we make fashion to help us and

want can we make fashion to help us and our mental state so I’ve been I’ve been

our mental state so I’ve been I’ve been

our mental state so I’ve been I’ve been considering this topic for a while now

considering this topic for a while now

considering this topic for a while now and contemplating how I would present it

and contemplating how I would present it

and contemplating how I would present it so I’ve been absolutely students I’ve

so I’ve been absolutely students I’ve

so I’ve been absolutely students I’ve been coming into my workshops what they

been coming into my workshops what they

been coming into my workshops what they think about the topic I’m all kinds of

think about the topic I’m all kinds of

think about the topic I’m all kinds of students so I had that one student come

students so I had that one student come

students so I had that one student come in yesterday few weeks ago sorry he came

in yesterday few weeks ago sorry he came

in yesterday few weeks ago sorry he came in with some sushi flip-flops a vessel

in with some sushi flip-flops a vessel

in with some sushi flip-flops a vessel pair basketball shorts and a t-shirt and

pair basketball shorts and a t-shirt and

pair basketball shorts and a t-shirt and she shared with me what he thought about

she shared with me what he thought about

she shared with me what he thought about fashion and he said I wear these clothes

fashion and he said I wear these clothes

fashion and he said I wear these clothes because they are a representation of my

because they are a representation of my

because they are a representation of my identity although I am not particularly

identity although I am not particularly

identity although I am not particularly fashionable I have a certain style that

fashionable I have a certain style that

fashionable I have a certain style that I’m supposed to the stay true to myself

I’m supposed to the stay true to myself

I’m supposed to the stay true to myself and

and

and kind of in regards to the social codes

kind of in regards to the social codes

kind of in regards to the social codes that we all kind of abide to and by whom

that we all kind of abide to and by whom

that we all kind of abide to and by whom well we’ll talk about that in a bit okay

well we’ll talk about that in a bit okay

well we’ll talk about that in a bit okay and he says if I could I would wear

and he says if I could I would wear

and he says if I could I would wear pajamas every day okay so he’s wearing

pajamas every day okay so he’s wearing

pajamas every day okay so he’s wearing what he wants to wear he’s wearing what

what he wants to wear he’s wearing what

what he wants to wear he’s wearing what he thinks represents himself and what

he thinks represents himself and what

he thinks represents himself and what makes him comfortable he’s not truly

makes him comfortable he’s not truly

makes him comfortable he’s not truly emulating who he really really wants to

emulating who he really really wants to

emulating who he really really wants to be and that’s because we have this kind

be and that’s because we have this kind

be and that’s because we have this kind of idea that even though we’re not at

of idea that even though we’re not at

of idea that even though we’re not at work and we have our you know work

work and we have our you know work

work and we have our you know work clothes and at school we have our school

clothes and at school we have our school

clothes and at school we have our school clothes and at church and special events

clothes and at church and special events

clothes and at church and special events and we have our dress codes there but

and we have our dress codes there but

and we have our dress codes there but even more day-to-day when we’re outside

even more day-to-day when we’re outside

even more day-to-day when we’re outside of our homes we have this imaginary kind

of our homes we have this imaginary kind

of our homes we have this imaginary kind of social code of how to look and how to

of social code of how to look and how to

of social code of how to look and how to dress and who to be and now we have our

dress and who to be and now we have our

dress and who to be and now we have our social media and our television and all

social media and our television and all

social media and our television and all these types of sources that feed into

these types of sources that feed into

these types of sources that feed into information and choices that we have

information and choices that we have

information and choices that we have that are bombarding all of our lives

that are bombarding all of our lives

that are bombarding all of our lives it’s a how many of you have Facebook

it’s a how many of you have Facebook

it’s a how many of you have Facebook literally everyone and how many of you

literally everyone and how many of you

literally everyone and how many of you have Instagram and snapchat and WeChat

have Instagram and snapchat and WeChat

have Instagram and snapchat and WeChat and whatsapp and how many is Google yeah

and whatsapp and how many is Google yeah

and whatsapp and how many is Google yeah so in all of those spaces fashion and

so in all of those spaces fashion and

so in all of those spaces fashion and that’s industry has made a home in those

that’s industry has made a home in those

that’s industry has made a home in those areas very good even before that fashion

areas very good even before that fashion

areas very good even before that fashion was kind of constructing how to look and

was kind of constructing how to look and

was kind of constructing how to look and how to be and where you are in any

how to be and where you are in any

how to be and where you are in any society kings queens centuries ago

society kings queens centuries ago

society kings queens centuries ago yesterday all through time and it kind

yesterday all through time and it kind

yesterday all through time and it kind of dictates how we’re supposed to be in

of dictates how we’re supposed to be in

of dictates how we’re supposed to be in your space but it doesn’t have to be

your space but it doesn’t have to be

your space but it doesn’t have to be that way these trends and these ideas

that way these trends and these ideas

that way these trends and these ideas that we are exposed to they don’t need

that we are exposed to they don’t need

that we are exposed to they don’t need to be rules they can be simply as they

to be rules they can be simply as they

to be rules they can be simply as they are which are ideas they can be spaces

are which are ideas they can be spaces

are which are ideas they can be spaces for us to share which is what fashion is

for us to share which is what fashion is

for us to share which is what fashion is and so I want to share with you a little

and so I want to share with you a little

and so I want to share with you a little bit about about how I try to use fashion

bit about about how I try to use fashion

bit about about how I try to use fashion in my life to

in my life to

in my life to and prove my mental health okay so I

and prove my mental health okay so I

and prove my mental health okay so I like to make clothes and I like to

like to make clothes and I like to

like to make clothes and I like to design so in that process which can be

design so in that process which can be

design so in that process which can be very time-consuming it’s also very

very time-consuming it’s also very

very time-consuming it’s also very meditational and before the process

meditational and before the process

meditational and before the process during the process and even after the

during the process and even after the

during the process and even after the process which includes mathematics

process which includes mathematics

process which includes mathematics creativity patience care and love all of

creativity patience care and love all of

creativity patience care and love all of that makes me enjoy the process even

that makes me enjoy the process even

that makes me enjoy the process even more and even stronger than any hire

more and even stronger than any hire

more and even stronger than any hire that you can ever get from shopping or

that you can ever get from shopping or

that you can ever get from shopping or from consuming so although that is my

from consuming so although that is my

from consuming so although that is my way of healing myself and enjoying my

way of healing myself and enjoying my

way of healing myself and enjoying my life and doing something productive and

life and doing something productive and

life and doing something productive and hopefully helping someone else because

hopefully helping someone else because

hopefully helping someone else because I’d like to give the things that remain

I’d like to give the things that remain

I’d like to give the things that remain although that may not be your way of

although that may not be your way of

although that may not be your way of using fashion hope your mental health

using fashion hope your mental health

using fashion hope your mental health there still can be with is something

there still can be with is something

there still can be with is something that you can do and so I want to propose

that you can do and so I want to propose

that you can do and so I want to propose some ideas so with fashion and these

some ideas so with fashion and these

some ideas so with fashion and these times instead of using them as rules

times instead of using them as rules

times instead of using them as rules like I mentioned earlier we can use them

like I mentioned earlier we can use them

like I mentioned earlier we can use them as ideas and here in Hong Kong a lot of

as ideas and here in Hong Kong a lot of

as ideas and here in Hong Kong a lot of students are used to wearing uniforms in

students are used to wearing uniforms in

students are used to wearing uniforms in primary school and secondary school so

primary school and secondary school so

primary school and secondary school so once you kind of hit university it’s

once you kind of hit university it’s

once you kind of hit university it’s like your first time that you’ve been

like your first time that you’ve been

like your first time that you’ve been able to and not dress yourself but

able to and not dress yourself but

able to and not dress yourself but really create an identity and actually

really create an identity and actually

really create an identity and actually dress yourself and although that that

dress yourself and although that that

dress yourself and although that that you having that uniform is a very

you having that uniform is a very

you having that uniform is a very powerfully is very powerful and

powerfully is very powerful and

powerfully is very powerful and comfortable not having a uniform is even

comfortable not having a uniform is even

comfortable not having a uniform is even more powerful and instead of taking this

more powerful and instead of taking this

more powerful and instead of taking this moment and of your life and feeling like

moment and of your life and feeling like

moment and of your life and feeling like you need to have more and more things

you need to have more and more things

you need to have more and more things and follow these kinds of ideas and

and follow these kinds of ideas and

and follow these kinds of ideas and styles you can choose to accept who you

styles you can choose to accept who you

styles you can choose to accept who you are in this moment and you can choose to

are in this moment and you can choose to

are in this moment and you can choose to embrace yourself

embrace yourself

embrace yourself rather than trying to change yourself

rather than trying to change yourself

rather than trying to change yourself and be excited and appreciate yourself

and be excited and appreciate yourself

and be excited and appreciate yourself for when you do change and in that

for when you do change and in that

for when you do change and in that positive burn what cells look good on

positive burn what cells look good on

positive burn what cells look good on you what things

you what things

you what things and excited you don’t need to fit into

and excited you don’t need to fit into

and excited you don’t need to fit into things that fit other people you know

things that fit other people you know

things that fit other people you know because that ideas rather than to other

because that ideas rather than to other

because that ideas rather than to other people you know need to go to schools

people you know need to go to schools

people you know need to go to schools better than people get into it don’t be

better than people get into it don’t be

better than people get into it don’t be softer than people want same with boxes

softer than people want same with boxes

softer than people want same with boxes and the thing about fashion is that it

and the thing about fashion is that it

and the thing about fashion is that it can start with you and convene your own

can start with you and convene your own

can start with you and convene your own your own states of your dorm of your

your own states of your dorm of your

your own states of your dorm of your house here in with jobs schools that

house here in with jobs schools that

house here in with jobs schools that relies on so much more outside influence

relies on so much more outside influence

relies on so much more outside influence hey what’s option you can control it

hey what’s option you can control it

hey what’s option you can control it more readily and this is a small way

more readily and this is a small way

more readily and this is a small way that you can help improve your self and

that you can help improve your self and

that you can help improve your self and your mental health which we all have

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