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Revolution through 1,000 Thank Yous | Melinda Forward | TEDxABQED


you can make a difference you can change

you can make a difference you can change the world those are the reasons I became

the world those are the reasons I became

the world those are the reasons I became a teacher from the time I was a little

a teacher from the time I was a little

a teacher from the time I was a little girl I knew I wanted to be a teacher I

girl I knew I wanted to be a teacher I

girl I knew I wanted to be a teacher I would lie my teddy bears up in my room

would lie my teddy bears up in my room

would lie my teddy bears up in my room and teach them lessons my mom taught

and teach them lessons my mom taught

and teach them lessons my mom taught elementary school for over 30 years and

elementary school for over 30 years and

elementary school for over 30 years and I loved it when she would take me to

I loved it when she would take me to

I loved it when she would take me to school with her my high school French

school with her my high school French

school with her my high school French teacher inspired me with her tales of

teacher inspired me with her tales of

teacher inspired me with her tales of adventures in France I always knew I

adventures in France I always knew I

adventures in France I always knew I wanted to be a teacher and teach French

wanted to be a teacher and teach French

wanted to be a teacher and teach French I believed I could make a difference and

I believed I could make a difference and

I believed I could make a difference and I believed I could change the world like

I believed I could change the world like

I believed I could change the world like my teachers had for me when I graduated

my teachers had for me when I graduated

my teachers had for me when I graduated from college my dream came true I was

from college my dream came true I was

from college my dream came true I was teaching French in a high school and I

teaching French in a high school and I

teaching French in a high school and I was taking students to France in the

was taking students to France in the

was taking students to France in the summers it was everything I thought it

summers it was everything I thought it

summers it was everything I thought it would be and more we move ahead 25 years

would be and more we move ahead 25 years

would be and more we move ahead 25 years negativity everywhere testing school

negativity everywhere testing school

negativity everywhere testing school grades teacher evaluations I was

grades teacher evaluations I was

grades teacher evaluations I was struggling I was at the lowest point of

struggling I was at the lowest point of

struggling I was at the lowest point of my career I didn’t know that I was

my career I didn’t know that I was

my career I didn’t know that I was making a difference anymore and I was

making a difference anymore and I was

making a difference anymore and I was ready to to give up and to drop out and

ready to to give up and to drop out and

ready to to give up and to drop out and to walk away from my dream the day after

to walk away from my dream the day after

to walk away from my dream the day after Thanksgiving in 2015 I found something

Thanksgiving in 2015 I found something

Thanksgiving in 2015 I found something very special in my bookcase and it was

very special in my bookcase and it was

very special in my bookcase and it was this note written to me by Kristen and

this note written to me by Kristen and

this note written to me by Kristen and Kristen had graduated 6 months before

Kristen had graduated 6 months before

Kristen had graduated 6 months before and gave it to me right before she

and gave it to me right before she

and gave it to me right before she graduated when I found this note I found

graduated when I found this note I found

graduated when I found this note I found hope I realized that I had made a

hope I realized that I had made a

hope I realized that I had made a difference for Kristen I realized that I

difference for Kristen I realized that I

difference for Kristen I realized that I had changed her world in that gave me a

had changed her world in that gave me a

had changed her world in that gave me a new sense of energy and enthusiasm and

new sense of energy and enthusiasm and

new sense of energy and enthusiasm and optimism and it got me thinking I turned

optimism and it got me thinking I turned

optimism and it got me thinking I turned to my husband and I said his five

to my husband and I said his five

to my husband and I said his five favorite words honey

favorite words honey

favorite words honey I have an idea

I have an idea

I have an idea his response oh boy what if we had

his response oh boy what if we had

his response oh boy what if we had everyone stopped at school and write

everyone stopped at school and write

everyone stopped at school and write thank-you notes maybe that could make a

thank-you notes maybe that could make a

thank-you notes maybe that could make a difference for everyone I wasn’t the

difference for everyone I wasn’t the

difference for everyone I wasn’t the only one struggling how many query write

only one struggling how many query write

only one struggling how many query write in a week a thousand the thousand thank

in a week a thousand the thousand thank

in a week a thousand the thousand thank you challenge began now I was so excited

you challenge began now I was so excited

you challenge began now I was so excited about my idea shared it with everyone

about my idea shared it with everyone

about my idea shared it with everyone and some people thought I was crazy and

and some people thought I was crazy and

and some people thought I was crazy and I am crazy but that’s beside the point

they said thank yous thank you so the

they said thank yous thank you so the solution to our problems we’re focused

solution to our problems we’re focused

solution to our problems we’re focused on graduation rates they thought my idea

on graduation rates they thought my idea

on graduation rates they thought my idea was fluffy New Mexico is number one in

was fluffy New Mexico is number one in

was fluffy New Mexico is number one in the nation for student dropouts is that

the nation for student dropouts is that

the nation for student dropouts is that fluffy New Mexico is number two in the

fluffy New Mexico is number two in the

fluffy New Mexico is number two in the nation for teacher dropouts is that

nation for teacher dropouts is that

nation for teacher dropouts is that fluffy seven thousand students a day

fluffy seven thousand students a day

fluffy seven thousand students a day across the nation drop out of school and

across the nation drop out of school and

across the nation drop out of school and that means that 7,000 students a day

that means that 7,000 students a day

that means that 7,000 students a day walk away from their dreams and this is

walk away from their dreams and this is

walk away from their dreams and this is not okay

not okay

not okay I am done messing around with negativity

I am done messing around with negativity

I am done messing around with negativity in our schools it’s invading and it’s

in our schools it’s invading and it’s

in our schools it’s invading and it’s spreading is your school dealing with

spreading is your school dealing with

spreading is your school dealing with negativity or a lack of engagement what

negativity or a lack of engagement what

negativity or a lack of engagement what if there were a simple solution I have a

if there were a simple solution I have a

if there were a simple solution I have a radical remedy for you

radical remedy for you

radical remedy for you gratitude take the challenge to write a

gratitude take the challenge to write a

gratitude take the challenge to write a thousand thank yous at your school in

thousand thank yous at your school in

thousand thank yous at your school in ten days or less now this may sound hard

ten days or less now this may sound hard

ten days or less now this may sound hard but a school in Edgewood wrote three

but a school in Edgewood wrote three

but a school in Edgewood wrote three thousand two hundred and eighty two the

thousand two hundred and eighty two the

thousand two hundred and eighty two the first time they took the challenge it’s

first time they took the challenge it’s

first time they took the challenge it’s simple better yet it’s free and the last

simple better yet it’s free and the last

simple better yet it’s free and the last time I checked we can afford free

well there are three steps to pass your

well there are three steps to pass your gratitude on step 1 stop you might say

gratitude on step 1 stop you might say

gratitude on step 1 stop you might say when you can stop any day but how about

when you can stop any day but how about

when you can stop any day but how about this Thursday take just 10 minutes to

this Thursday take just 10 minutes to

this Thursday take just 10 minutes to make it a thankful Thursday step 2

make it a thankful Thursday step 2

make it a thankful Thursday step 2 right give everyone at school time so

right give everyone at school time so

right give everyone at school time so they can write a note to someone who is

they can write a note to someone who is

they can write a note to someone who is special to them the note can be for

special to them the note can be for

special to them the note can be for anyone some write notes to friends or

anyone some write notes to friends or

anyone some write notes to friends or teachers some write notes to family or

teachers some write notes to family or

teachers some write notes to family or others outside of school even as gifts

others outside of school even as gifts

others outside of school even as gifts so why is this so radical everyone must

so why is this so radical everyone must

so why is this so radical everyone must explain why they are thankful saying

explain why they are thankful saying

explain why they are thankful saying thank you is one thing saying thank you

thank you is one thing saying thank you

thank you is one thing saying thank you for helping me find my voice is

for helping me find my voice is

for helping me find my voice is something different the Y touches the

something different the Y touches the

something different the Y touches the heart in her age of technology hand

heart in her age of technology hand

heart in her age of technology hand writing a note is powerful it’s personal

writing a note is powerful it’s personal

writing a note is powerful it’s personal students put parts of themselves into

students put parts of themselves into

students put parts of themselves into each note that they create and those

each note that they create and those

each note that they create and those notes hold their energy the love that

notes hold their energy the love that

notes hold their energy the love that Kristin put into writing this note for

Kristin put into writing this note for

Kristin put into writing this note for me it’s still here it’s lasting and it’s

me it’s still here it’s lasting and it’s

me it’s still here it’s lasting and it’s tangible and something that I can keep

tangible and something that I can keep

tangible and something that I can keep forever step 3

forever step 3

forever step 3 share a 75 years study at Harvard shows

share a 75 years study at Harvard shows

share a 75 years study at Harvard shows that relationships are the key to a

that relationships are the key to a

that relationships are the key to a happy life are we teaching our students

happy life are we teaching our students

happy life are we teaching our students how to build relationships do they know

how to build relationships do they know

how to build relationships do they know how to reach out to one another in a

how to reach out to one another in a

how to reach out to one another in a matter of moments we can show students

matter of moments we can show students

matter of moments we can show students how they can make a difference with a

how they can make a difference with a

how they can make a difference with a simple thank you note and when they

simple thank you note and when they

simple thank you note and when they share that note they see that they can

share that note they see that they can

share that note they see that they can change someone’s world and positivity is

change someone’s world and positivity is

change someone’s world and positivity is contagious our schools can be

contagious our schools can be

contagious our schools can be inspiration stations where everyone

inspiration stations where everyone

inspiration stations where everyone thrives

thrives

thrives you might say can one person really

you might say can one person really

you might say can one person really shift a school culture yes and I happen

shift a school culture yes and I happen

shift a school culture yes and I happen to know one a principal named Teresa and

to know one a principal named Teresa and

to know one a principal named Teresa and Michigan bought into my crazy idea to

Michigan bought into my crazy idea to

Michigan bought into my crazy idea to write a thousand thank yous and she sat

write a thousand thank yous and she sat

write a thousand thank yous and she sat down and wrote notes to her staff then

down and wrote notes to her staff then

down and wrote notes to her staff then she gave her staff time during a meeting

she gave her staff time during a meeting

she gave her staff time during a meeting to write notes to their students and

to write notes to their students and

to write notes to their students and then students wrote notes as part of a

then students wrote notes as part of a

then students wrote notes as part of a writing lesson they created 600 they

writing lesson they created 600 they

writing lesson they created 600 they shared 600 and when they did there were

shared 600 and when they did there were

shared 600 and when they did there were 1,200 exchanges of gratitude and that’s

1,200 exchanges of gratitude and that’s

1,200 exchanges of gratitude and that’s how you can pass your gratitude on this

how you can pass your gratitude on this

how you can pass your gratitude on this is just one example schools around the

is just one example schools around the

is just one example schools around the world are stopping and sharing gratitude

world are stopping and sharing gratitude

world are stopping and sharing gratitude in Canada Australia Bulgaria Lebanon

in Canada Australia Bulgaria Lebanon

in Canada Australia Bulgaria Lebanon Germany New Zealand and the United

Germany New Zealand and the United

Germany New Zealand and the United States they’re making their schools

States they’re making their schools

States they’re making their schools happier places gratitude is a radical

happier places gratitude is a radical

happier places gratitude is a radical remedy for negativity gratitude is for

remedy for negativity gratitude is for

remedy for negativity gratitude is for everyone it doesn’t matter what language

everyone it doesn’t matter what language

everyone it doesn’t matter what language you speak it doesn’t matter what grade

you speak it doesn’t matter what grade

you speak it doesn’t matter what grade you teach it doesn’t matter where in the

you teach it doesn’t matter where in the

you teach it doesn’t matter where in the world you live gratitude is for everyone

world you live gratitude is for everyone

world you live gratitude is for everyone this note is the reason why I’m here

this note is the reason why I’m here

this note is the reason why I’m here today

today

today confident that we can chase negativity

confident that we can chase negativity

confident that we can chase negativity out of our schools this note is why I

out of our schools this note is why I

out of our schools this note is why I didn’t drop out and I am so excited for

didn’t drop out and I am so excited for

didn’t drop out and I am so excited for you and a new opportunity that you have

you and a new opportunity that you have

you and a new opportunity that you have to stop write and share gratitude so you

to stop write and share gratitude so you

to stop write and share gratitude so you can make a difference and so you can

can make a difference and so you can

can make a difference and so you can change the world

change the world

change the world so this Thursday ok let’s start a global

so this Thursday ok let’s start a global

so this Thursday ok let’s start a global revolution of positivity ok let’s all

revolution of positivity ok let’s all

revolution of positivity ok let’s all take the challenge to stop and write a

take the challenge to stop and write a

take the challenge to stop and write a sow

sow

sow and thank yous so we can make our

and thank yous so we can make our

and thank yous so we can make our schools happier places it’s time for you

schools happier places it’s time for you

schools happier places it’s time for you to pass your gratitude on thank you

to pass your gratitude on thank you

to pass your gratitude on thank you [Applause]

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