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do not

do not

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two years take a decision that brought

I get many changes many things that

I had planned but also many things

I did not expect at all

when I fulfilled more or less 231 I was

it happened that I was ready to be

mom

I felt that I was in a moment then

professionally is very well my

business were running very well

I felt that I was very stable with my

couple that was already like that moment

take that step

and well I will not tell you what happened

in the inter but after two years I

I found two children and a situation

of emotionally unstable separation and

economically also and suddenly good

many people who were close to me as

I have a lot of time as a mentor and

coach like that I think that the center

that curiosity to know what the

coach not having as the mentor handles his

life in this situation and good as in

the network is nothing you can hide already what

we know everyone does not realize everything

it was very funny how I started

receive comments messages from people

that before never approached me that before

she has never had any contact with women

Peruvian Colombian Colombian women

of all Latin America of 30 20 40 years

some with more advanced marriages and

He wrote to me to ask me how

are you doing as you are solving

this stage of your life and really that at

principle and just like that so that

they write to me I do not know how I’m like that

wait for me I’m not solving this this

process still however good since I

I left my part of how I want to women

empathic and good let’s talk clear

there are things we can do and the council

what always gave them first and

which is part of what I love you

share this day because it is to think

responsibly think responsibly

and what does that mean in any

situation I think that is what gives us the

tool to be able to make

any moment

of adversity a triumph that any

moment of adversity can take what

better you can take out your strengths

know each other thoroughly and achieve

difference a difference in your life

because everything can be turned over for good

but also a difference I think that

at a fairly individual level as

collective as a society and therefore many

they did not like that comment true yet

not many of us like to be told that

let us be responsible for our life

and our thoughts and part

what we have in the situation is maybe

were are the ones we’re going through

we would like most of the time to be able to

blame someone else for alex to fame

Uncle who is the president who

I left

do not put the liability agreement

of the things that I am

going through the beginning of my career

professional

I’m not a political scientist

I had to always have that momentum

of wanting to change making a

difference from putting a granite and

I thought that through that career there

I was going to achieve because I listened

who said that politicians have the

guilt of everything

someone has heard that not then I

I listened to that and that was my belief in

that moment therefore I said then if

there are londres to the subject and I have to

put in to fix it from that place and

Well, it’s already politics

I had my opportunity to be able to exercise and

I really quickly opens

space to be able to work with people in

marginalized areas of high poverty and

get there then I went with that belief

is that I sure as what they say

Missing the money and how they say

What is missing is that the government goes and

get in and give the money to the people

assured that with this I’m doing

I will achieve that change surely the

things are going to be very different to

from that moment and the truth that I

they like it has matured a lot

in fact, I no longer exercise the race

because because I realized that it is not

true it is not true that the government

can fix all our problems

it is not true that everything depends

just someone out there

someone external

I can tell you that it broke my

illusion because after doing everything

this process to be able to work with

these people

give him that resource that could

mean in my belief the difference

so they could get ahead and now

yes have a business now can see if

have some kind of income they do not

it happened that they want what happened to the

money vanished was not reversed from the

properly

then this came to me like a bucket

of cold water

I prepared everything for my career and for this

for something that I thought I was going to do

difference and it’s not and just

returned to the same is that you have to act

Responsibly

the people yes is true some to the best

They can support that money that they

we give but first we require is

all think responsibly give us

realize that nobody will come to solve

the things nor the challenges the problems what

what happens outside and I say it because inside

of this one because I’m so small

well in tamaulipas and give the things that

happen here and I sometimes know the attitudes

that we can take ourselves looking towards

outside and waiting for someone to solve

something of which I am also part and

well then what can we do to

really be able in the midst of these challenges

in the midst of this adversity by which

we are going to start to change

start making a difference and

dump it into something positive for me what

first is to start with an idea

simple stability with believing that for

change the world or we think that

I have to be a great philanthropist I have

that hold millions of dollars or I have

to finish the race requires

finish a PhD

I want to be an expert in something else myself

I think I do not think the difference is

does with extremely simple things

you had to be there and that’s more or less

we have it went very well but good if

sanchez isabel kings truth to how much they

a daily smile falls well to everyone

everyone who makes a smile every day

and those are part of the simple things

that are making the difference if

we learn to be kinder in

the street when someone lets you in

your car first before throwing yourself the

car if someone picks up trash from

that the cava pull ahead of you if there

in you

an attitude the best of companionship

within the work and shares something that

I see that my partner is suffering for

to be able to do and that I already know how to do

all those little things I think are

the ones that make the difference on a daily basis and

I think when we think

responsibly

we realize that if we

we could that part let’s say that

we have there then things could

start to change

I have a one case of a very person

known that I really loved that

she basically weaves josé pons xe

protect good in my house

Many people are very common and faced

I would say that she knew if on facebook

uploading photos and videos that are

weaving we are knitting and unraveling

in summer and knitting and to let you

right now not until I started

train me a little bit more and I realized

that she with a group of people from

mates are joining to knit with

a cause and this group is called

‘the army can find him out there

what was woven basically

they began to weave yes with a purpose and

for example it served as a prosthesis

mammary glands also soon joined

they all made a dick and then the

they sold and with that they carry resources

well the ones from other places what I want

You see, I just want to share with you

true very simple things we do

in the diary how to weave how to smile

how to be kind a skill too

something that you are currently

doing as a hobby could be

what makes the difference in your

community that we require in addition to that

you can stop thinking everything towards

us and start putting in service

what we are good at

if we stop at a point of view

now that I would continue after that for

me this is a very important contribution

have belief belief in various things

first in me in the value of what I do

in the people around me and in

my personal case in God because I can

have something I am very good and safe

that all those who are here have

Some

good and those who are listening to me

could they also have something what they are

very good

however it does not believe do not believe that

they have what they have is

valuable to other people or I do not

I feel valuable

so sometimes it ‘s good out there

a law that says if my self-esteem is

very low even if you have something very good

I’m never going to contribute because I’m not

able to take myself

then believe is the first one in me

belief that I can do things

well since this that I have can be from

essential value the people who pass when

It happens to you when when I’m surrounded by

people and I’m thinking of you

generating an idea that all people

it stinks and all the people are bad and all the

thief people and all the people are

corrupt would make me want to share

what I have with them I do not

I believe that I do not believe that it is not here

not here you do not have to believe in people and

if you do not like people think they are

just as you are valuable

then there must be something valuable in

them too that maybe even this

I do not have the opportunity to see

but that surely is there then

believe in the people that have to the

global community and iu well there we are going to

start so to share a one case

that I really liked that I had the

opportunity to see in the city of

mexico in the cuauhtémoc delegation

is a movement that is called liberal and

I liked it a lot because it was a group of

neighbors that among them there were artists and

there were normal people who did not artist like that

like us and basically they were

tired of a problem that plagued the

society that wants graffiti artists

everywhere and the delegation arrives and

painted again every street and

three days ago, a

disaster all scratched because something that does not

It was nice for the neighbors because it

he subtracted his neighborhood not as a value

certain way

So what they did was join

between everyone and start creating ideas

about what they could do to stop that

that situation and from there the

noia artists and those who had

that talent and way of coexistence

between

of all the neighbors what they were was

to do all the areas that

they were usually damaged or that

They looked good dirty grated et cetera

it was basically made like a walk

cultural and they started to paint all

all those buildings with works that

they honor Mexican culture

then now it’s even nice to see

out there it feels very good but not

they scratched that again I like

a lot this case because it’s where we can

see that we as a society as

people we can even respond better

that a government can respond better

that those that we are

waiting for all of us to solve

we can here then in a certain way

if we join collectively

spend those adversities something positive

thinking my responsible part and putting

that and good in the last part that I think

which is very important and what is vital is

sow responsibly thoughts of

action and thinking that you have to

apply things because because also

I know many people who

like to feel very smart to feel

very good he spends reading books already

the last death meditating which is

very good also true however

we need to move on to the next stage

because although it is true that a change

of knowledge mentality can

transform can be transformed

our mentality

only the action will bring a

impact

I can think very nice and put a lot

effort in educating me but if a

thought to action

there is no real transformation there is no

impact is not about anything else then

be like dams and holes studying and

reading books and there I am very inspired

and the inspired but never action there is no

to let go you have to be like rivers influence

give also what we have and good

I think that I

the case that I like the most about

this because the action when it is is now

the moment of action requires to be

now that concept of action is going

of the hand that has to be in this

moment something that I loved what

we have gone through our country that

we have gone through a very

We’ve all seen what happened

during the past earthquakes occurred in the

Mexico City Morelos

I think it was a moment of adversity

key to us as a key society

since we showed that really not

matter what is happening if

we take action here and now

we can flip anything that is

seemingly negative to a lesson of

increase

I do not know about you but it ‘s really that

I leave that it touched my heart

realize the greatness and everything

what do we have to contribute each

one of us out there came to me today with

several groups of several cities and and

since the communications arrive

fast I started to get news from a

whatsapp group that is called

pure good creativity was a movement

that developed from that and

basically she is a woman that she good

basically what he did was start at

think today in this moment of crisis

seriously I can do what

way you can trigger what is

it happened was to start gathering colleagues

who had different skills

professionals like workshop

psychologist storytellers and they wanted it

form this group to be able to start

visit hostels where there were people who

I was still in a state of crisis and

help them go through this process that

now it’s made me do something

beautiful I do something that all

that we are here we could do

starting with something simple maybe already

has that gift

you already have talent and just do not

we have shared adversity for myself

reflects the greatness of every human being and

I commit myself I commit myself to think

responsible firstly for my

children because I know that they are the

first affected positively or

negatively that I may have

ability of which cart by which

can not convert maybe in the

step of my next success can only

turn into a life lesson that

can share with other people and the

Today for me, I would feel

true that the idea that I want you

you will take is basically that you

let’s see what has revealed up to this

moment the adversity of ourselves

and let’s look at nothing else at the level

individual but also at the

collective as a city in your colony with

your family because we all travel

also by way of situations

collective of challenge

we went through difficult things and we know

who have lived here then what

I done responsibly for

change that

what has been my contribution to be able

get things started to change

and not waiting for someone else

do that someone else answer for me

I think the idea that we can cause

a change and that that change can be today

and now it deserves to be shared and that’s why

I’m here, thanks

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