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Resilience – From Fear to Fire | Prof. Dr. Ushy Mohandas | TEDxJainUniversity


[Applause]

[Applause] so I’m still breathing and I’m a doctor

so I’m still breathing and I’m a doctor

so I’m still breathing and I’m a doctor I think that’s very critical for

I think that’s very critical for

I think that’s very critical for everybody in this hall and I would love

everybody in this hall and I would love

everybody in this hall and I would love to share the first fact of my life that

to share the first fact of my life that

to share the first fact of my life that the first 50 years of my childhood have

the first 50 years of my childhood have

the first 50 years of my childhood have been very tough and I’ve been a learner

been very tough and I’ve been a learner

been very tough and I’ve been a learner from children I’m a pediatrician I treat

from children I’m a pediatrician I treat

from children I’m a pediatrician I treat children all the time and I’ve learnt

children all the time and I’ve learnt

children all the time and I’ve learnt almost everything that I know from them

almost everything that I know from them

almost everything that I know from them and I continue to learn from them and I

and I continue to learn from them and I

and I continue to learn from them and I would love to share some things in

would love to share some things in

would love to share some things in particular which I’ve learned from them

particular which I’ve learned from them

particular which I’ve learned from them and I think this is extremely important

and I think this is extremely important

and I think this is extremely important for me as a person because it’s not only

for me as a person because it’s not only

for me as a person because it’s not only helped me through just what I do as a

helped me through just what I do as a

helped me through just what I do as a profession but it also helped me to be

profession but it also helped me to be

profession but it also helped me to be young fresh innovative and every single

young fresh innovative and every single

young fresh innovative and every single day live it as if it were the last day

day live it as if it were the last day

day live it as if it were the last day of my life it’s only about the day

of my life it’s only about the day

of my life it’s only about the day they’ve also taught me to live every

they’ve also taught me to live every

they’ve also taught me to live every night as if it was the first night of my

night as if it was the first night of my

night as if it was the first night of my life so I believe that it’s important

life so I believe that it’s important

life so I believe that it’s important that we understand that if something

that we understand that if something

that we understand that if something burns your soul with passion it’s

burns your soul with passion it’s

burns your soul with passion it’s important for you to be reduced to ashes

important for you to be reduced to ashes

important for you to be reduced to ashes by it the kind of enthusiasm a child

by it the kind of enthusiasm a child

by it the kind of enthusiasm a child projects is amazing I was standing the

projects is amazing I was standing the

projects is amazing I was standing the other day with a neighbor who’s a 70

other day with a neighbor who’s a 70

other day with a neighbor who’s a 70 year old man with his grandson and that

year old man with his grandson and that

year old man with his grandson and that day the grandson had bunked school and

day the grandson had bunked school and

day the grandson had bunked school and as the three of us were standing there

as the three of us were standing there

as the three of us were standing there the class teacher happened to walk into

the class teacher happened to walk into

the class teacher happened to walk into the house just to check why the child

the house just to check why the child

the house just to check why the child had bunked school guess what the

had bunked school guess what the

had bunked school guess what the grandfather said he said you better go

grandfather said he said you better go

grandfather said he said you better go hide because you asked me and allowed

hide because you asked me and allowed

hide because you asked me and allowed you permission to bunk school your

you permission to bunk school your

you permission to bunk school your teachers now come home and you know what

teachers now come home and you know what

teachers now come home and you know what the youngster said you better go and

the youngster said you better go and

the youngster said you better go and hide because I told her that you died so

hide because I told her that you died so

hide because I told her that you died so sometimes you need to be innovative as a

sometimes you need to be innovative as a

sometimes you need to be innovative as a person if you start doing conventional

person if you start doing conventional

person if you start doing conventional things run-of-the-mill kind of things

things run-of-the-mill kind of things

things run-of-the-mill kind of things everything that everyone does day in and

everything that everyone does day in and

everything that everyone does day in and day out as he it becomes very routine

day out as he it becomes very routine

day out as he it becomes very routine mundane and boring and it’s a matter of

mundane and boring and it’s a matter of

mundane and boring and it’s a matter of choice the kind of life that I lead I’m

choice the kind of life that I lead I’m

choice the kind of life that I lead I’m a combination

a combination

a combination of an anti-corruption Crusader in

of an anti-corruption Crusader in

of an anti-corruption Crusader in medical education and a stand-up

medical education and a stand-up

medical education and a stand-up comedian in the nights so I sound

comedian in the nights so I sound

comedian in the nights so I sound seriously funny sometimes and you need

seriously funny sometimes and you need

seriously funny sometimes and you need to get paid for it as well which means

to get paid for it as well which means

to get paid for it as well which means that as people who live real lives I

that as people who live real lives I

that as people who live real lives I would share something that has actually

would share something that has actually

would share something that has actually kept me alive in spite of all the truth

kept me alive in spite of all the truth

kept me alive in spite of all the truth that I speak so I generally ask a lot of

that I speak so I generally ask a lot of

that I speak so I generally ask a lot of politicians to go to hell in such a way

politicians to go to hell in such a way

politicians to go to hell in such a way that they actually look forward to the

that they actually look forward to the

that they actually look forward to the trip I believe there are no limits and

trip I believe there are no limits and

trip I believe there are no limits and that’s why I am ahead of you here every

that’s why I am ahead of you here every

that’s why I am ahead of you here every single day I cannot set myself a limit

single day I cannot set myself a limit

single day I cannot set myself a limit and this I’ve learned from children

and this I’ve learned from children

and this I’ve learned from children because they have no limits in fact most

because they have no limits in fact most

because they have no limits in fact most of us sometimes when we are challenged

of us sometimes when we are challenged

of us sometimes when we are challenged by a child we don’t know even what to do

by a child we don’t know even what to do

by a child we don’t know even what to do their smile willingly they say hello to

their smile willingly they say hello to

their smile willingly they say hello to people just like that they’re so

people just like that they’re so

people just like that they’re so spontaneous they come and hug you

spontaneous they come and hug you

spontaneous they come and hug you without any intent and not expecting

without any intent and not expecting

without any intent and not expecting anything in return and how many of us

anything in return and how many of us

anything in return and how many of us actually hug each other we look at each

actually hug each other we look at each

actually hug each other we look at each other like I’m bigger than you kind and

other like I’m bigger than you kind and

other like I’m bigger than you kind and you can see that ego system working in

you can see that ego system working in

you can see that ego system working in people and the reason I’m going on

people and the reason I’m going on

people and the reason I’m going on sharing all of this with you is because

sharing all of this with you is because

sharing all of this with you is because in times of need in times of challenge

in times of need in times of challenge

in times of need in times of challenge if you’re not childlike you will not be

if you’re not childlike you will not be

if you’re not childlike you will not be able to go through the challenge we try

able to go through the challenge we try

able to go through the challenge we try and deny the challenge we try and deny

and deny the challenge we try and deny

and deny the challenge we try and deny the difficulty in our lives and I have

the difficulty in our lives and I have

the difficulty in our lives and I have difficulties at the rate of maybe one

difficulties at the rate of maybe one

difficulties at the rate of maybe one every nanosecond because obviously a

every nanosecond because obviously a

every nanosecond because obviously a fighting the system obviously everyone

fighting the system obviously everyone

fighting the system obviously everyone around me is telling me you can’t you

around me is telling me you can’t you

around me is telling me you can’t you can’t you can’t and whenever they say

can’t you can’t and whenever they say

can’t you can’t and whenever they say you can’t

you can’t

you can’t the one thing that runs in my mind is

the one thing that runs in my mind is

the one thing that runs in my mind is you sure can and I believe that all of

you sure can and I believe that all of

you sure can and I believe that all of us need to have this dictum in mind I’ll

us need to have this dictum in mind I’ll

us need to have this dictum in mind I’ll ask all of you just to add two

ask all of you just to add two

ask all of you just to add two adjectives to what I’m asking of all of

adjectives to what I’m asking of all of

adjectives to what I’m asking of all of you if I ask you to just explain in two

you if I ask you to just explain in two

you if I ask you to just explain in two ejectives I am please shout out words to

ejectives I am please shout out words to

ejectives I am please shout out words to me I am I am intelligent anything else

me I am I am intelligent anything else

me I am I am intelligent anything else anything human I am sexy

anything human I am sexy

anything human I am sexy hot well that’s a jargon it might be

hot well that’s a jargon it might be

hot well that’s a jargon it might be temperature hot so we need to be very

temperature hot so we need to be very

temperature hot so we need to be very very specific in the language that we

very specific in the language that we

very specific in the language that we are using now suppose I asked all of you

are using now suppose I asked all of you

are using now suppose I asked all of you to just shout out to ejectives or

to just shout out to ejectives or

to just shout out to ejectives or something related to the question I’m

something related to the question I’m

something related to the question I’m going to ask you if I asked you to just

going to ask you if I asked you to just

going to ask you if I asked you to just give me the answer do I have

give me the answer do I have

give me the answer do I have can you please shout out two things that

can you please shout out two things that

can you please shout out two things that you have there you go life and

you have there you go life and

you have there you go life and capability that’s something you acquire

capability that’s something you acquire

capability that’s something you acquire but I’m asking you what do you have that

but I’m asking you what do you have that

but I’m asking you what do you have that you can show me right now one is life

you can show me right now one is life

you can show me right now one is life what about the other thing beard yes of

what about the other thing beard yes of

what about the other thing beard yes of course yes I’m a lady who meditates and

course yes I’m a lady who meditates and

course yes I’m a lady who meditates and ladies grow beards when they meditate so

ladies grow beards when they meditate so

ladies grow beards when they meditate so in store baba ramdev you become Bobby

in store baba ramdev you become Bobby

in store baba ramdev you become Bobby Romney now a lot of us are afraid and

Romney now a lot of us are afraid and

Romney now a lot of us are afraid and I’ve seen this in my very young

I’ve seen this in my very young

I’ve seen this in my very young childhood of fifty years of good

childhood of fifty years of good

childhood of fifty years of good experience and I’m going on sharing this

experience and I’m going on sharing this

experience and I’m going on sharing this with you because you’re only as young as

with you because you’re only as young as

with you because you’re only as young as you think

you think

you think so whenever anybody asked me how old are

so whenever anybody asked me how old are

so whenever anybody asked me how old are you I’m 18 plus fifty years of wisdom so

you I’m 18 plus fifty years of wisdom so

you I’m 18 plus fifty years of wisdom so the biological age and my definitions

the biological age and my definitions

the biological age and my definitions have never mattered but what has

have never mattered but what has

have never mattered but what has mattered then what you are that is I am

mattered then what you are that is I am

mattered then what you are that is I am it has mattered a lot to me what I have

it has mattered a lot to me what I have

it has mattered a lot to me what I have has mattered tremendously to me I have

has mattered tremendously to me I have

has mattered tremendously to me I have my life I have something which I dream

my life I have something which I dream

my life I have something which I dream off every day I have something which is

off every day I have something which is

off every day I have something which is called perspective I have something

called perspective I have something

called perspective I have something which I can see clearly in front of me

which I can see clearly in front of me

which I can see clearly in front of me and most of all I have something called

and most of all I have something called

and most of all I have something called immunity to other people’s opinions and

immunity to other people’s opinions and

immunity to other people’s opinions and I feel it’s a very very important trait

I feel it’s a very very important trait

I feel it’s a very very important trait with children are have you seen them

with children are have you seen them

with children are have you seen them they care two hoots what anybody thinks

they care two hoots what anybody thinks

they care two hoots what anybody thinks of them and they will speak out the

of them and they will speak out the

of them and they will speak out the truth you go and ask a child what is

truth you go and ask a child what is

truth you go and ask a child what is motivating he will say motivating I mean

motivating he will say motivating I mean

motivating he will say motivating I mean there’s no explanations which are

there’s no explanations which are

there’s no explanations which are Shakespeare and which comes in with a

Shakespeare and which comes in with a

Shakespeare and which comes in with a child and the most and the and the most

child and the most and the and the most

child and the most and the and the most I would say the least understood by many

I would say the least understood by many

I would say the least understood by many people but well understood by children

people but well understood by children

people but well understood by children is a last question what can

is a last question what can

is a last question what can you so if I asked you I can what are you

you so if I asked you I can what are you

you so if I asked you I can what are you going to say dream yes you got to sleep

going to say dream yes you got to sleep

going to say dream yes you got to sleep before that the whole world lacks sleep

before that the whole world lacks sleep

before that the whole world lacks sleep a lot of people come to me and say

a lot of people come to me and say

a lot of people come to me and say please allow me some sleep yes anything

please allow me some sleep yes anything

please allow me some sleep yes anything else any one thing but me I can lie

else any one thing but me I can lie

else any one thing but me I can lie well sometimes you need to and that’s

well sometimes you need to and that’s

well sometimes you need to and that’s exactly what I would not propagate

exactly what I would not propagate

exactly what I would not propagate because I live by the truth it’s a far

because I live by the truth it’s a far

because I live by the truth it’s a far more difficult part and why am I going

more difficult part and why am I going

more difficult part and why am I going on saying this to you because when

on saying this to you because when

on saying this to you because when people ask me how come you have a wildly

people ask me how come you have a wildly

people ask me how come you have a wildly fulfilling lives juggling between 12

fulfilling lives juggling between 12

fulfilling lives juggling between 12 jobs at the same time earning from 12

jobs at the same time earning from 12

jobs at the same time earning from 12 different jobs still having friends

different jobs still having friends

different jobs still having friends still having time to spend with each

still having time to spend with each

still having time to spend with each other still finding time for normal

other still finding time for normal

other still finding time for normal routine communication conversations

routine communication conversations

routine communication conversations sometimes chai sometimes coffee

sometimes chai sometimes coffee

sometimes chai sometimes coffee definitely not with Karen I will say

definitely not with Karen I will say

definitely not with Karen I will say that I make time and time in many

that I make time and time in many

that I make time and time in many people’s definition is found and in a

people’s definition is found and in a

people’s definition is found and in a child’s definition if you observe even

child’s definition if you observe even

child’s definition if you observe even if he comes back after a hectic day of

if he comes back after a hectic day of

if he comes back after a hectic day of work he still finds time to be with

work he still finds time to be with

work he still finds time to be with himself and what is this entire concept

himself and what is this entire concept

himself and what is this entire concept called this entire concept of what I’m

called this entire concept of what I’m

called this entire concept of what I’m trying to share is the fact that you

trying to share is the fact that you

trying to share is the fact that you juggle between work and life is the fact

juggle between work and life is the fact

juggle between work and life is the fact that whenever faced with a challenge

that whenever faced with a challenge

that whenever faced with a challenge which I’m faced with in many many

which I’m faced with in many many

which I’m faced with in many many circumstances there is that one quality

circumstances there is that one quality

circumstances there is that one quality which makes me bounce back ladies and

which makes me bounce back ladies and

which makes me bounce back ladies and gentlemen it’s called resilience and I

gentlemen it’s called resilience and I

gentlemen it’s called resilience and I feel resilience is one of the primary

feel resilience is one of the primary

feel resilience is one of the primary traits of a child even if they fall they

traits of a child even if they fall they

traits of a child even if they fall they get up and continue running even if they

get up and continue running even if they

get up and continue running even if they come last in the race they are ready to

come last in the race they are ready to

come last in the race they are ready to run the race again but as if you and me

run the race again but as if you and me

run the race again but as if you and me run a race it takes a lot of courage to

run a race it takes a lot of courage to

run a race it takes a lot of courage to do that again because we are governed by

do that again because we are governed by

do that again because we are governed by something called fear and fear can be a

something called fear and fear can be a

something called fear and fear can be a driver for resilience and I’m here only

driver for resilience and I’m here only

driver for resilience and I’m here only to share with you there are three

to share with you there are three

to share with you there are three important things every time you’re faced

important things every time you’re faced

important things every time you’re faced with a challenge

with a challenge

with a challenge you’re afraid what will you do ask

you’re afraid what will you do ask

you’re afraid what will you do ask yourself I am I have and I can when

yourself I am I have and I can when

yourself I am I have and I can when these answers come to you you will have

these answers come to you you will have

these answers come to you you will have solutions to those challenges

solutions to those challenges

solutions to those challenges that you have because you become

that you have because you become

that you have because you become something that you already are but live

something that you already are but live

something that you already are but live in a state of denial because you’re

in a state of denial because you’re

in a state of denial because you’re refusing to accept the truth what is the

refusing to accept the truth what is the

refusing to accept the truth what is the truth that I’m going through something

truth that I’m going through something

truth that I’m going through something horrible I need to grab on to what I can

horrible I need to grab on to what I can

horrible I need to grab on to what I can what I am and what I have in order for

what I am and what I have in order for

what I am and what I have in order for me to find some meaning in that

me to find some meaning in that

me to find some meaning in that difficulty and when I find meaning in

difficulty and when I find meaning in

difficulty and when I find meaning in that difficulty I will be able to use

that difficulty I will be able to use

that difficulty I will be able to use everything that I have to just move on

everything that I have to just move on

everything that I have to just move on from the challenge to a better situation

from the challenge to a better situation

from the challenge to a better situation and that sums up resilience for me

and that sums up resilience for me

and that sums up resilience for me because fear is the key why do I say

because fear is the key why do I say

because fear is the key why do I say fear is the key you can use fear to fly

fear is the key you can use fear to fly

fear is the key you can use fear to fly higher or you can use fear to get you

higher or you can use fear to get you

higher or you can use fear to get you buried deeper it’s all about how we

buried deeper it’s all about how we

buried deeper it’s all about how we leverage fear and the most important

leverage fear and the most important

leverage fear and the most important thing for fear to convert into fire is

thing for fear to convert into fire is

thing for fear to convert into fire is something I would call resilience and

something I would call resilience and

something I would call resilience and the acronym fire defines everything what

the acronym fire defines everything what

the acronym fire defines everything what is that F is nothing but fathoming your

is that F is nothing but fathoming your

is that F is nothing but fathoming your inner self how many of us look we didn’t

inner self how many of us look we didn’t

inner self how many of us look we didn’t everyone loves to dress well everyone

everyone loves to dress well everyone

everyone loves to dress well everyone loves to just stay there and do your own

loves to just stay there and do your own

loves to just stay there and do your own thing but how many of us actually look

thing but how many of us actually look

thing but how many of us actually look in look we didn’t how many of us are

in look we didn’t how many of us are

in look we didn’t how many of us are internally focused we are not how many

internally focused we are not how many

internally focused we are not how many of us are externally open if someone

of us are externally open if someone

of us are externally open if someone comes and tells me that you’re looking

comes and tells me that you’re looking

comes and tells me that you’re looking terrible it takes a lot of guts to

terrible it takes a lot of guts to

terrible it takes a lot of guts to digest that if someone comes to you and

digest that if someone comes to you and

digest that if someone comes to you and say this talk was it takes a lot of

say this talk was it takes a lot of

say this talk was it takes a lot of courage to digest that and say yes what

courage to digest that and say yes what

courage to digest that and say yes what could I have done better and I feel that

could I have done better and I feel that

could I have done better and I feel that when you are open to the external you

when you are open to the external you

when you are open to the external you can take suggestions wherein it mandates

can take suggestions wherein it mandates

can take suggestions wherein it mandates change if you do not change ladies and

change if you do not change ladies and

change if you do not change ladies and gentlemen you can never grow as a person

gentlemen you can never grow as a person

gentlemen you can never grow as a person and resilience is the foundation for

and resilience is the foundation for

and resilience is the foundation for evolution you cannot beat anybody the

evolution you cannot beat anybody the

evolution you cannot beat anybody the only person you can beat is the person

only person you can beat is the person

only person you can beat is the person you see every day in the mirror whenever

you see every day in the mirror whenever

you see every day in the mirror whenever you wake up and for me life has only

you wake up and for me life has only

you wake up and for me life has only been a competition with myself I believe

been a competition with myself I believe

been a competition with myself I believe every single day if I’m not evolved if I

every single day if I’m not evolved if I

every single day if I’m not evolved if I have not done things which have taken me

have not done things which have taken me

have not done things which have taken me to the next level I have failed in my

to the next level I have failed in my

to the next level I have failed in my duty not only to become resilient but to

duty not only to become resilient but to

duty not only to become resilient but to do something give

do something give

do something give to the society what I think is a

to the society what I think is a

to the society what I think is a mandatory need for the future not only

mandatory need for the future not only

mandatory need for the future not only of this country but for each one of us

of this country but for each one of us

of this country but for each one of us if I ask a person can you do something

if I ask a person can you do something

if I ask a person can you do something for the society

for the society

for the society can you bring on some change oh no no

can you bring on some change oh no no

can you bring on some change oh no no it’s a big headache oh no we need a

it’s a big headache oh no we need a

it’s a big headache oh no we need a large group for this well let me share

large group for this well let me share

large group for this well let me share with you if there is a single window

with you if there is a single window

with you if there is a single window medical entrance today it is thanks to

medical entrance today it is thanks to

medical entrance today it is thanks to all the torture that I have undergone

all the torture that I have undergone

all the torture that I have undergone myself maybe 15 years ago

myself maybe 15 years ago

myself maybe 15 years ago when I was in the plum of my position I

when I was in the plum of my position I

when I was in the plum of my position I was a Dean of a medical school all it

was a Dean of a medical school all it

was a Dean of a medical school all it took was me speaking the truth saying

took was me speaking the truth saying

took was me speaking the truth saying what is happening in medical education

what is happening in medical education

what is happening in medical education is not the truth they came up to me and

is not the truth they came up to me and

is not the truth they came up to me and said pull back your statement or you’ll

said pull back your statement or you’ll

said pull back your statement or you’ll lose your job 35 years of my life of

lose your job 35 years of my life of

lose your job 35 years of my life of teaching and that also becoming a good

teaching and that also becoming a good

teaching and that also becoming a good teacher what happened I had a choice

teacher what happened I had a choice

teacher what happened I had a choice what did I do I walked out of that door

what did I do I walked out of that door

what did I do I walked out of that door and then the rest is history

and then the rest is history

and then the rest is history so what did I do I used to be a speaker

so what did I do I used to be a speaker

so what did I do I used to be a speaker I used to sing I used to have music as

I used to sing I used to have music as

I used to sing I used to have music as my passion I capitalized on every

my passion I capitalized on every

my passion I capitalized on every resource that I’ve been indulging in as

resource that I’ve been indulging in as

resource that I’ve been indulging in as a passion to make it a profession and

a passion to make it a profession and

a passion to make it a profession and this is what resilience is all about

this is what resilience is all about

this is what resilience is all about because you become internally focused

because you become internally focused

because you become internally focused you become externally open very

you become externally open very

you become externally open very important you become result oriented and

important you become result oriented and

important you become result oriented and the result is just a byproduct of what

the result is just a byproduct of what

the result is just a byproduct of what you end up doing when everyone told me

you end up doing when everyone told me

you end up doing when everyone told me ten years ago please

ten years ago please

ten years ago please compromise and stay in the job we need

compromise and stay in the job we need

compromise and stay in the job we need people like you in the profession I

people like you in the profession I

people like you in the profession I walked out of that door but did I stop

walked out of that door but did I stop

walked out of that door but did I stop there no I fought it legally and last

there no I fought it legally and last

there no I fought it legally and last Saturday I’ve been reinstated into the

Saturday I’ve been reinstated into the

Saturday I’ve been reinstated into the position of Dean so I’m just telling all

position of Dean so I’m just telling all

position of Dean so I’m just telling all of you that it takes 10 good long years

of you that it takes 10 good long years

of you that it takes 10 good long years for somebody to fight a battle which is

for somebody to fight a battle which is

for somebody to fight a battle which is primarily beginning between your ears

primarily beginning between your ears

primarily beginning between your ears ladies and gentlemen the six inches

ladies and gentlemen the six inches

ladies and gentlemen the six inches between your ears they can be really

between your ears they can be really

between your ears they can be really really dangerous they come in the way of

really dangerous they come in the way of

really dangerous they come in the way of this which is called flexibility

this which is called flexibility

this which is called flexibility innovation resilience and finally

innovation resilience and finally

innovation resilience and finally resultant and energy you have to

resultant and energy you have to

resultant and energy you have to generate it because no one is going to

generate it because no one is going to

generate it because no one is going to give to you what resilience is children

give to you what resilience is children

give to you what resilience is children are naturally resilient children are

are naturally resilient children are

are naturally resilient children are naturally resilient and that’s why I

naturally resilient and that’s why I

naturally resilient and that’s why I tell people resilience is a trait of the

tell people resilience is a trait of the

tell people resilience is a trait of the brain and resilience needs to be

brain and resilience needs to be

brain and resilience needs to be cultivated

cultivated

cultivated for some people it needs to be plowed

for some people it needs to be plowed

for some people it needs to be plowed under it just doesn’t come out naturally

under it just doesn’t come out naturally

under it just doesn’t come out naturally the first thing people say is like why

the first thing people say is like why

the first thing people say is like why me why this happened to me and I’ll ask

me why this happened to me and I’ll ask

me why this happened to me and I’ll ask you why not me

you why not me

you why not me and it’s very easy because you’re the

and it’s very easy because you’re the

and it’s very easy because you’re the chosen one and you can do a lot more

chosen one and you can do a lot more

chosen one and you can do a lot more with your life ladies and gentlemen my

with your life ladies and gentlemen my

with your life ladies and gentlemen my life has been about gut and grit and

life has been about gut and grit and

life has been about gut and grit and that’s why I’m sharing this with you

that’s why I’m sharing this with you

that’s why I’m sharing this with you because not a single window medical when

because not a single window medical when

because not a single window medical when I said we need a single window medical

I said we need a single window medical

I said we need a single window medical entrance like your management entrance

entrance like your management entrance

entrance like your management entrance everyone said impossible

everyone said impossible

everyone said impossible it was shelved even in the highest court

it was shelved even in the highest court

it was shelved even in the highest court of this country but guess what three

of this country but guess what three

of this country but guess what three years I stood on my head with the

years I stood on my head with the

years I stood on my head with the resolve to bring it out today you have

resolve to bring it out today you have

resolve to bring it out today you have neat and that’s why I’m going on telling

neat and that’s why I’m going on telling

neat and that’s why I’m going on telling you that you have a single window

you that you have a single window

you that you have a single window entrance is there a big body behind it

entrance is there a big body behind it

entrance is there a big body behind it of course not

of course not

of course not I run a huge organization which is

I run a huge organization which is

I run a huge organization which is called doctors Against Corruption and

called doctors Against Corruption and

called doctors Against Corruption and any malpractice which happens in the

any malpractice which happens in the

any malpractice which happens in the medical education of practice is

medical education of practice is

medical education of practice is somebody who walks up to me and says the

somebody who walks up to me and says the

somebody who walks up to me and says the other day when there was a case which is

other day when there was a case which is

other day when there was a case which is on all TV channels being spoken about

on all TV channels being spoken about

on all TV channels being spoken about about a live child being declared dead

about a live child being declared dead

about a live child being declared dead by some of the most competent doctors

by some of the most competent doctors

by some of the most competent doctors everyone said don’t talk about it I

everyone said don’t talk about it I

everyone said don’t talk about it I spoke about it and sadly and of course

spoke about it and sadly and of course

spoke about it and sadly and of course for the better of the profession

for the better of the profession

for the better of the profession yesterday the hospital’s license was

yesterday the hospital’s license was

yesterday the hospital’s license was taken away it is just one day where

taken away it is just one day where

taken away it is just one day where you’ve got to burn and you’ve got to

you’ve got to burn and you’ve got to

you’ve got to burn and you’ve got to really burn in your fire my dear friends

really burn in your fire my dear friends

really burn in your fire my dear friends because like I said those three

because like I said those three

because like I said those three questions will answer a lot of critical

questions will answer a lot of critical

questions will answer a lot of critical things to make you more resilient after

things to make you more resilient after

things to make you more resilient after today those are very simple I am I can

today those are very simple I am I can

today those are very simple I am I can and I have so where is the resource

and I have so where is the resource

and I have so where is the resource coming from you you don’t need to work

coming from you you don’t need to work

coming from you you don’t need to work hard you don’t need your diplomas your

hard you don’t need your diplomas your

hard you don’t need your diplomas your degrees or anything else that adds value

degrees or anything else that adds value

degrees or anything else that adds value in a different way I said resilience

in a different way I said resilience

in a different way I said resilience needs to be cultivated you need to set

needs to be cultivated you need to set

needs to be cultivated you need to set yourself a target you cannot sprint the

yourself a target you cannot sprint the

yourself a target you cannot sprint the marathon remember this and most of us

marathon remember this and most of us

marathon remember this and most of us make the biggest mistake because we want

make the biggest mistake because we want

make the biggest mistake because we want results overnight

results overnight

results overnight a baby needs gestation a certain amount

a baby needs gestation a certain amount

a baby needs gestation a certain amount of time is required a certain action

of time is required a certain action

of time is required a certain action plan is required and the action plan is

plan is required and the action plan is

plan is required and the action plan is very simple please get real and shift to

very simple please get real and shift to

very simple please get real and shift to your lives and take a real view of your

your lives and take a real view of your

your lives and take a real view of your life instead of living in a different

life instead of living in a different

life instead of living in a different fantasy world the second and the most

fantasy world the second and the most

fantasy world the second and the most important thing is stop viewing yourself

important thing is stop viewing yourself

important thing is stop viewing yourself as a victim and say why me why me and

as a victim and say why me why me and

as a victim and say why me why me and the most important I’ve never seen a

the most important I’ve never seen a

the most important I’ve never seen a child who says why me why me and if you

child who says why me why me and if you

child who says why me why me and if you look at a child and give it a nice

look at a child and give it a nice

look at a child and give it a nice difficulty immediately it will come out

difficulty immediately it will come out

difficulty immediately it will come out with a nice innovative solution and

with a nice innovative solution and

with a nice innovative solution and today innovative brains are rare ladies

today innovative brains are rare ladies

today innovative brains are rare ladies and gentlemen I call it preferential

and gentlemen I call it preferential

and gentlemen I call it preferential thinking it took me 40 years to be an

thinking it took me 40 years to be an

thinking it took me 40 years to be an overnight success and I’m given 20

overnight success and I’m given 20

overnight success and I’m given 20 minutes to share all what I studied in

minutes to share all what I studied in

minutes to share all what I studied in that amount of time

that amount of time

that amount of time I call it preferential thinking I prefer

I call it preferential thinking I prefer

I call it preferential thinking I prefer to is a very strong phrase and a lot of

to is a very strong phrase and a lot of

to is a very strong phrase and a lot of us use the word but you’re looking very

us use the word but you’re looking very

us use the word but you’re looking very beautiful bad so I would in my research

beautiful bad so I would in my research

beautiful bad so I would in my research share with you that the word but is a

share with you that the word but is a

share with you that the word but is a disconnect er in your life it takes you

disconnect er in your life it takes you

disconnect er in your life it takes you away from being resilient whereas the

away from being resilient whereas the

away from being resilient whereas the word end is a connector it ignites

word end is a connector it ignites

word end is a connector it ignites resilience within the brain words are

resilience within the brain words are

resilience within the brain words are one of the ways in which you can access

one of the ways in which you can access

one of the ways in which you can access your brain a child never uses the word

your brain a child never uses the word

your brain a child never uses the word but they always the end and you know and

but they always the end and you know and

but they always the end and you know and you know see the enthusiasm with which

you know see the enthusiasm with which

you know see the enthusiasm with which they speak whereas we are always so but

they speak whereas we are always so but

they speak whereas we are always so but this is awesome Hall but this is an

this is awesome Hall but this is an

this is awesome Hall but this is an awesome session but you always have the

awesome session but you always have the

awesome session but you always have the but coming in between that and we all

but coming in between that and we all

but coming in between that and we all know what happens to the but I’m talking

know what happens to the but I’m talking

know what happens to the but I’m talking about the be you with a single T that’s

about the be you with a single T that’s

about the be you with a single T that’s Maya – before I actually bring it down

Maya – before I actually bring it down

Maya – before I actually bring it down to what it is every time you’re faced

to what it is every time you’re faced

to what it is every time you’re faced with the difficulty please ask yourself

with the difficulty please ask yourself

with the difficulty please ask yourself three questions what am i I am answer I

three questions what am i I am answer I

three questions what am i I am answer I have an answer I can believe me the

have an answer I can believe me the

have an answer I can believe me the answer lies in those three villains in

answer lies in those three villains in

answer lies in those three villains in those three will lie the entire way of

those three will lie the entire way of

those three will lie the entire way of overcoming your challenge the

overcoming your challenge the

overcoming your challenge the transformatory questions which I already

transformatory questions which I already

transformatory questions which I already discussed is one are you result-oriented

discussed is one are you result-oriented

discussed is one are you result-oriented do you want something with your life do

do you want something with your life do

do you want something with your life do you want something specific second are

you want something specific second are

you want something specific second are you internally focused how many of us

you internally focused how many of us

you internally focused how many of us mine yourself

mine yourself

mine yourself nobody does you have a bath what are you

nobody does you have a bath what are you

nobody does you have a bath what are you going to do for your brain

going to do for your brain

going to do for your brain you can’t use Harvick not going to work

you can’t use Harvick not going to work

you can’t use Harvick not going to work very important do you care about other

very important do you care about other

very important do you care about other people and in this context I’d love to

people and in this context I’d love to

people and in this context I’d love to share with you where there is the will

share with you where there is the will

share with you where there is the will ladies and gentlemen there’s not a way

ladies and gentlemen there’s not a way

ladies and gentlemen there’s not a way there’s a highway when you’re resilient

there’s a highway when you’re resilient

there’s a highway when you’re resilient I end in the favorite words of someone I

I end in the favorite words of someone I

I end in the favorite words of someone I have followed all my life and strictly

have followed all my life and strictly

have followed all my life and strictly lived by ladies and gentlemen in the

lived by ladies and gentlemen in the

lived by ladies and gentlemen in the words of Rumi Jalal Aldin

words of Rumi Jalal Aldin

words of Rumi Jalal Aldin one of the most famous poets and

one of the most famous poets and

one of the most famous poets and philosophers that I follow so strongly

philosophers that I follow so strongly

philosophers that I follow so strongly he says you have a fountain inside of

he says you have a fountain inside of

he says you have a fountain inside of you and why the hell are you walking

you and why the hell are you walking

you and why the hell are you walking around with the empty bucket if you

around with the empty bucket if you

around with the empty bucket if you believe that you can echo my thoughts I

believe that you can echo my thoughts I

believe that you can echo my thoughts I would say a big thank you for your time

would say a big thank you for your time

would say a big thank you for your time and your patience and there’s

and your patience and there’s

and your patience and there’s opportunity to share one word which has

opportunity to share one word which has

opportunity to share one word which has changed my whole life called resilience

changed my whole life called resilience

changed my whole life called resilience thank you very much for your time and

thank you very much for your time and

thank you very much for your time and patience

patience

patience [Applause]

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