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Refugee women — feminists on the move | Priyali Sur | TEDxJHUDC


okay thank you thank you for being yeah

okay thank you thank you for being yeah but yeah we can stop this alright so um

but yeah we can stop this alright so um

but yeah we can stop this alright so um I hope the lunch was good but I really

I hope the lunch was good but I really

I hope the lunch was good but I really hope that the coffee was better and

hope that the coffee was better and

hope that the coffee was better and stronger because I’m awake then and so

stronger because I’m awake then and so

stronger because I’m awake then and so are you all and that makes my work

are you all and that makes my work

are you all and that makes my work easier so so let’s start

[Music]

[Music] [Laughter]

so I want to begin by talking about the

so I want to begin by talking about the power of one woman just one woman it

power of one woman just one woman it

power of one woman just one woman it could be one of you sitting here in the

could be one of you sitting here in the

could be one of you sitting here in the audience it could be one of you later

audience it could be one of you later

audience it could be one of you later watching this on a YouTube video or each

watching this on a YouTube video or each

watching this on a YouTube video or each one of you or maybe even me and someone

one of you or maybe even me and someone

one of you or maybe even me and someone we all know that just one step by a

we all know that just one step by a

we all know that just one step by a determined woman can actually change

determined woman can actually change

determined woman can actually change destinies exactly 70 years ago in 1947

destinies exactly 70 years ago in 1947

destinies exactly 70 years ago in 1947 during the india-pakistan partition when

during the india-pakistan partition when

during the india-pakistan partition when there was bloodshed killings and carnage

there was bloodshed killings and carnage

there was bloodshed killings and carnage everywhere my grandmother who must have

everywhere my grandmother who must have

everywhere my grandmother who must have been just about 1617 years old had to

been just about 1617 years old had to

been just about 1617 years old had to flee her homeland with her father and

flee her homeland with her father and

flee her homeland with her father and her brothers leaving everything behind I

her brothers leaving everything behind I

her brothers leaving everything behind I don’t think at that point she realized

don’t think at that point she realized

don’t think at that point she realized that that one move of hers was actually

that that one move of hers was actually

that that one move of hers was actually shaping the destiny of a future

shaping the destiny of a future

shaping the destiny of a future daughters and granddaughters and the

daughters and granddaughters and the

daughters and granddaughters and the very fact perhaps that I stand here

very fact perhaps that I stand here

very fact perhaps that I stand here today talking about feminism and women’s

today talking about feminism and women’s

today talking about feminism and women’s rights is because of her I don’t think

rights is because of her I don’t think

rights is because of her I don’t think that most of us realize that how the

that most of us realize that how the

that most of us realize that how the acts of our ancestors or how the acts of

acts of our ancestors or how the acts of

acts of our ancestors or how the acts of our previous generations impact our

our previous generations impact our

our previous generations impact our lives today in the best way as possible

lives today in the best way as possible

lives today in the best way as possible about two years ago when I was in an

about two years ago when I was in an

about two years ago when I was in an extremely physically and emotionally

extremely physically and emotionally

extremely physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I was trying

abusive relationship and I was trying

abusive relationship and I was trying for a very long time to actually get out

for a very long time to actually get out

for a very long time to actually get out of it but every time I’ve tried I failed

of it but every time I’ve tried I failed

of it but every time I’ve tried I failed I did not have the courage to get out of

I did not have the courage to get out of

I did not have the courage to get out of it

it

it I tried to think about all the

I tried to think about all the

I tried to think about all the sacrifices that my grandmother and my

sacrifices that my grandmother and my

sacrifices that my grandmother and my mother had made to ensure that I get to

mother had made to ensure that I get to

mother had made to ensure that I get to where I am that I can get what they did

where I am that I can get what they did

where I am that I can get what they did not get in life and their sacrifices and

not get in life and their sacrifices and

not get in life and their sacrifices and thinking about every sacrifice that they

thinking about every sacrifice that they

thinking about every sacrifice that they made along their lives actually made me

made along their lives actually made me

made along their lives actually made me stronger and made that move easier for

stronger and made that move easier for

stronger and made that move easier for me and you to have felt the power of the

me and you to have felt the power of the

me and you to have felt the power of the women in you in your lives and in fact

women in you in your lives and in fact

women in you in your lives and in fact the woman in you when all of you marched

the woman in you when all of you marched

the woman in you when all of you marched a few weeks ago in the women’s March you

a few weeks ago in the women’s March you

a few weeks ago in the women’s March you all marched in Washington DC in Paris in

all marched in Washington DC in Paris in

all marched in Washington DC in Paris in New York and Geneva in every city around

New York and Geneva in every city around

New York and Geneva in every city around the world and you rallied and dissent

the world and you rallied and dissent

the world and you rallied and dissent and watch to claim what is rightfully

and watch to claim what is rightfully

and watch to claim what is rightfully yours and perhaps with every step that

yours and perhaps with every step that

yours and perhaps with every step that you took you realize that you were

you took you realize that you were

you took you realize that you were changing something you were demanding

changing something you were demanding

changing something you were demanding something for not just to your country

something for not just to your country

something for not just to your country but you were also demanding something

but you were also demanding something

but you were also demanding something for the women of the world but I’m not

for the women of the world but I’m not

for the women of the world but I’m not here to talk about my story or about the

here to talk about my story or about the

here to talk about my story or about the story of my grandmother or even your

story of my grandmother or even your

story of my grandmother or even your story I’m here to talk about a new breed

story I’m here to talk about a new breed

story I’m here to talk about a new breed of feminist women who are on the move

of feminist women who are on the move

of feminist women who are on the move every day every night thousands and

every day every night thousands and

every day every night thousands and millions of refugee women who are

millions of refugee women who are

millions of refugee women who are navigating through life-threatening

navigating through life-threatening

navigating through life-threatening conditions only to claim what they

conditions only to claim what they

conditions only to claim what they rightly deserves basic human dignity

rightly deserves basic human dignity

rightly deserves basic human dignity over the last two years I spent a lot of

over the last two years I spent a lot of

over the last two years I spent a lot of time filming and reporting with these

time filming and reporting with these

time filming and reporting with these women at refugee camps in Greece in

women at refugee camps in Greece in

women at refugee camps in Greece in Athens in Eastern Europe and what struck

Athens in Eastern Europe and what struck

Athens in Eastern Europe and what struck me the most about them was the tenacity

me the most about them was the tenacity

me the most about them was the tenacity their resilience and their optimism

their resilience and their optimism

their resilience and their optimism these are not weak women these are

these are not weak women these are

these are not weak women these are perhaps the strongest women of our times

it takes a special kind of strength it

it takes a special kind of strength it takes a special kind of feminism to

takes a special kind of feminism to

takes a special kind of feminism to actually leave your country behind

actually leave your country behind

actually leave your country behind knowing that you’re never going to

knowing that you’re never going to

knowing that you’re never going to return it takes a special kind of

return it takes a special kind of

return it takes a special kind of strength to leave your men behind with

strength to leave your men behind with

strength to leave your men behind with your babies clinging to your chest to

your babies clinging to your chest to

your babies clinging to your chest to cross the high seas to sleep outside

cross the high seas to sleep outside

cross the high seas to sleep outside close borders at freezing temperatures

close borders at freezing temperatures

close borders at freezing temperatures and mind you doing all of this proudly

and mind you doing all of this proudly

and mind you doing all of this proudly wearing their identity the hijab that

wearing their identity the hijab that

wearing their identity the hijab that the world feels today and the spiral

the world feels today and the spiral

the world feels today and the spiral piece that it takes a special kind of

piece that it takes a special kind of

piece that it takes a special kind of strength to be those kind of feminists

strength to be those kind of feminists

strength to be those kind of feminists and their optimism does not really come

and their optimism does not really come

and their optimism does not really come from ignorance these are not ignorant

from ignorance these are not ignorant

from ignorance these are not ignorant women they know about every political

women they know about every political

women they know about every political move every rule every order that is

move every rule every order that is

move every rule every order that is actually directing they move ahead or in

actually directing they move ahead or in

actually directing they move ahead or in fact even halting their migration their

fact even halting their migration their

fact even halting their migration their optimism comes from a relentless self

optimism comes from a relentless self

optimism comes from a relentless self belief I wanted to talk here about a

belief I wanted to talk here about a

belief I wanted to talk here about a night in September 2015 this was outside

night in September 2015 this was outside

night in September 2015 this was outside the hungarian serbia border this was the

the hungarian serbia border this was the

the hungarian serbia border this was the very day that the prime minister of

very day that the prime minister of

very day that the prime minister of Hungary Viktor Orban had

Hungary Viktor Orban had

Hungary Viktor Orban had chillie shut all the borders of his

chillie shut all the borders of his

chillie shut all the borders of his country to stop the refugees from

country to stop the refugees from

country to stop the refugees from entering so a few journalists and a few

entering so a few journalists and a few

entering so a few journalists and a few activists we wanted to get across to the

activists we wanted to get across to the

activists we wanted to get across to the Serbian side because all the refugees

Serbian side because all the refugees

Serbian side because all the refugees were halted at the Serbian border

were halted at the Serbian border

were halted at the Serbian border because they were not being allowed to

because they were not being allowed to

because they were not being allowed to come inside so when we got there in the

come inside so when we got there in the

come inside so when we got there in the middle of the night nobody was prepared

middle of the night nobody was prepared

middle of the night nobody was prepared for it so obviously there were no turns

for it so obviously there were no turns

for it so obviously there were no turns there was no camp there were no toilet

there was no camp there were no toilet

there was no camp there were no toilet facility people were just actually

facility people were just actually

facility people were just actually sleeping outside at freezing

sleeping outside at freezing

sleeping outside at freezing temperatures and I found this 1617 year

temperatures and I found this 1617 year

temperatures and I found this 1617 year old girl who you can see in this picture

old girl who you can see in this picture

old girl who you can see in this picture she must have been she must have been

she must have been she must have been

she must have been she must have been brought up in an extremely sheltered

brought up in an extremely sheltered

brought up in an extremely sheltered environment so she wanted to go to the

environment so she wanted to go to the

environment so she wanted to go to the toilet and she couldn’t get herself to

toilet and she couldn’t get herself to

toilet and she couldn’t get herself to go to the woods there were also hundreds

go to the woods there were also hundreds

go to the woods there were also hundreds of men actually lined up right there in

of men actually lined up right there in

of men actually lined up right there in the woods the picture clearly does not

the woods the picture clearly does not

the woods the picture clearly does not show a great deal but there’s a man

show a great deal but there’s a man

show a great deal but there’s a man there so I could feel the physical

there so I could feel the physical

there so I could feel the physical stress the emotional trauma that she was

stress the emotional trauma that she was

stress the emotional trauma that she was going through and as a woman I

going through and as a woman I

going through and as a woman I understood it I didn’t even have the

understood it I didn’t even have the

understood it I didn’t even have the heart to ask her how was she planning

heart to ask her how was she planning

heart to ask her how was she planning you know like what was she planning to

you know like what was she planning to

you know like what was she planning to do I just couldn’t even ask her that so

do I just couldn’t even ask her that so

do I just couldn’t even ask her that so after some time she just turned around

after some time she just turned around

after some time she just turned around to and looked at me and said that maybe

to and looked at me and said that maybe

to and looked at me and said that maybe in a few years I’m going to look back

in a few years I’m going to look back

in a few years I’m going to look back and laugh at all of this and at that

and laugh at all of this and at that

and laugh at all of this and at that time I shook my head and disbelief in

time I shook my head and disbelief in

time I shook my head and disbelief in respect and admiration for the courage

respect and admiration for the courage

respect and admiration for the courage of the 17 year old girl who could

of the 17 year old girl who could

of the 17 year old girl who could actually laugh about such a distressful

actually laugh about such a distressful

actually laugh about such a distressful situation

situation

situation the courage does not always mean

the courage does not always mean

the courage does not always mean fighting wars and battles courage comes

fighting wars and battles courage comes

fighting wars and battles courage comes in everyday acts from ordinary people

in everyday acts from ordinary people

in everyday acts from ordinary people like her and like others there’s a

like her and like others there’s a

like her and like others there’s a report which says that about 70% of the

report which says that about 70% of the

report which says that about 70% of the Syrian refugees are women and children

Syrian refugees are women and children

Syrian refugees are women and children women mostly move in groups or they find

women mostly move in groups or they find

women mostly move in groups or they find each other along the way supporting each

each other along the way supporting each

each other along the way supporting each other and thriving on the bond of

other and thriving on the bond of

other and thriving on the bond of sisterhood another person I want to talk

sisterhood another person I want to talk

sisterhood another person I want to talk about is this woman I met her last

about is this woman I met her last

about is this woman I met her last summer August 2016 at a refugee camp in

summer August 2016 at a refugee camp in

summer August 2016 at a refugee camp in Athens it’s called the scar mangas

Athens it’s called the scar mangas

Athens it’s called the scar mangas refugee camp

refugee camp

refugee camp she’s the funkiest 33 year old at

she’s the funkiest 33 year old at

she’s the funkiest 33 year old at meant she had a little daughter was

meant she had a little daughter was

meant she had a little daughter was bouncing all around her she was there in

bouncing all around her she was there in

bouncing all around her she was there in the refugee camp for three months before

the refugee camp for three months before

the refugee camp for three months before I could get there and she told me that

I could get there and she told me that

I could get there and she told me that she used to be a schoolteacher back in

she used to be a schoolteacher back in

she used to be a schoolteacher back in Syria she was a single mother and her

Syria she was a single mother and her

Syria she was a single mother and her parents and she had put in all her life

parents and she had put in all her life

parents and she had put in all her life savings just to ensure that she and her

savings just to ensure that she and her

savings just to ensure that she and her daughters could get to a safer country

daughters could get to a safer country

daughters could get to a safer country there was only enough money for her and

there was only enough money for her and

there was only enough money for her and her daughters to travel so her parents

her daughters to travel so her parents

her daughters to travel so her parents had to stay back and she did realize

had to stay back and she did realize

had to stay back and she did realize that she if she actually does get to

that she if she actually does get to

that she if she actually does get to another safer country she might never

another safer country she might never

another safer country she might never see her parents again and that’s

see her parents again and that’s

see her parents again and that’s somewhere the fact that her parents had

somewhere the fact that her parents had

somewhere the fact that her parents had put in so much for the safety of her and

put in so much for the safety of her and

put in so much for the safety of her and her daughters made her more determined

her daughters made her more determined

her daughters made her more determined despite the eu-turkey deal in place

despite the eu-turkey deal in place

despite the eu-turkey deal in place which was actually making it difficult

which was actually making it difficult

which was actually making it difficult for her to move ahead from Greece you

for her to move ahead from Greece you

for her to move ahead from Greece you might probably go back to Turkey she was

might probably go back to Turkey she was

might probably go back to Turkey she was all the more determined that she should

all the more determined that she should

all the more determined that she should get her and her daughters to a better

get her and her daughters to a better

get her and her daughters to a better place so after that what if she actually

place so after that what if she actually

place so after that what if she actually manages to get to the US or she manages

manages to get to the US or she manages

manages to get to the US or she manages to get to Germany what would she do and

to get to Germany what would she do and

to get to Germany what would she do and she told me my parents had given me the

she told me my parents had given me the

she told me my parents had given me the best gift of an education she said I can

best gift of an education she said I can

best gift of an education she said I can teach I am sure I’ll be able to do

teach I am sure I’ll be able to do

teach I am sure I’ll be able to do something for myself and my daughters

something for myself and my daughters

something for myself and my daughters but I want to ensure that my daughter’s

but I want to ensure that my daughter’s

but I want to ensure that my daughter’s also learn and live in a free country

also learn and live in a free country

also learn and live in a free country when they found out that I was Indian

when they found out that I was Indian

when they found out that I was Indian they got very excited about Bollywood

they got very excited about Bollywood

they got very excited about Bollywood songs in Bollywood movies somehow

songs in Bollywood movies somehow

songs in Bollywood movies somehow Bollywood always connects so I want to

Bollywood always connects so I want to

Bollywood always connects so I want to show you a video and I want to play that

show you a video and I want to play that

show you a video and I want to play that video so she can be plain it so she her

video so she can be plain it so she her

video so she can be plain it so she her daughters and I actually danced a

daughters and I actually danced a

daughters and I actually danced a Bollywood music that afternoon all I

Bollywood music that afternoon all I

Bollywood music that afternoon all I remember is songs playing out of an

remember is songs playing out of an

remember is songs playing out of an almost broken mobile phone in a small

almost broken mobile phone in a small

almost broken mobile phone in a small little car

little car

little car in a very dusty refugee camp totally

in a very dusty refugee camp totally

in a very dusty refugee camp totally unaware upon the future health there but

unaware upon the future health there but

unaware upon the future health there but I think I will always remember them

I think I will always remember them

I think I will always remember them smiling shiny resilient faces and I

smiling shiny resilient faces and I

smiling shiny resilient faces and I think that’s how we should always

think that’s how we should always

think that’s how we should always remember these people I know you might

remember these people I know you might

remember these people I know you might feel that these stories are of other

feel that these stories are of other

feel that these stories are of other people that these stories come from a

people that these stories come from a

people that these stories come from a distant land and you do not connect to

distant land and you do not connect to

distant land and you do not connect to them but look a little bit deeper and

them but look a little bit deeper and

them but look a little bit deeper and these are our stories as well we know

these are our stories as well we know

these are our stories as well we know what it means to fight harder to get to

what it means to fight harder to get to

what it means to fight harder to get to where we want to be and as women we know

where we want to be and as women we know

where we want to be and as women we know that we need to put in a little bit in

that we need to put in a little bit in

that we need to put in a little bit in fact sometimes even more than a little

fact sometimes even more than a little

fact sometimes even more than a little bit extra effort to even get to an equal

bit extra effort to even get to an equal

bit extra effort to even get to an equal at form and I strongly believe that

at form and I strongly believe that

at form and I strongly believe that these women their feminism goes a step

these women their feminism goes a step

these women their feminism goes a step further than us the last woman I want to

further than us the last woman I want to

further than us the last woman I want to talk about is her the day I was at the

talk about is her the day I was at the

talk about is her the day I was at the camp at the refugee camp in Athens she

camp at the refugee camp in Athens she

camp at the refugee camp in Athens she actually just reached that very day so

actually just reached that very day so

actually just reached that very day so she was very harassed she’d just come in

she was very harassed she’d just come in

she was very harassed she’d just come in she didn’t know what to do she had been

she didn’t know what to do she had been

she didn’t know what to do she had been separated from a husband and her baby

separated from a husband and her baby

separated from a husband and her baby for almost a year her husband and a baby

for almost a year her husband and a baby

for almost a year her husband and a baby were already in Germany and she but she

were already in Germany and she but she

were already in Germany and she but she was trying to get there she didn’t speak

was trying to get there she didn’t speak

was trying to get there she didn’t speak anything but Arabic and unfortunately I

anything but Arabic and unfortunately I

anything but Arabic and unfortunately I struggle maybe know a few words of

struggle maybe know a few words of

struggle maybe know a few words of Arabic so she was enterprising enough

Arabic so she was enterprising enough

Arabic so she was enterprising enough and she said we could use the Google

and she said we could use the Google

and she said we could use the Google Voice translator so she would talk into

Voice translator so she would talk into

Voice translator so she would talk into the phone and it would throw up English

the phone and it would throw up English

the phone and it would throw up English words for me and I would do the same and

words for me and I would do the same and

words for me and I would do the same and that’s how we communicated so I asked

that’s how we communicated so I asked

that’s how we communicated so I asked her that most likely she would be back

her that most likely she would be back

her that most likely she would be back in Turkey and that she would never get

in Turkey and that she would never get

in Turkey and that she would never get to see her husband and a little baby and

to see her husband and a little baby and

to see her husband and a little baby and she looked into the phone and she said

she looked into the phone and she said

she looked into the phone and she said that I would walk mountains I would

that I would walk mountains I would

that I would walk mountains I would cross borders about boundaries and I

cross borders about boundaries and I

cross borders about boundaries and I would crawl on my knees if I had to but

would crawl on my knees if I had to but

would crawl on my knees if I had to but nobody can keep me away ever from

nobody can keep me away ever from

nobody can keep me away ever from meeting my baby and at that point I felt

meeting my baby and at that point I felt

meeting my baby and at that point I felt that not this woman not the 33 year old

that not this woman not the 33 year old

that not this woman not the 33 year old spunky mother needed at 17 18 year old

spunky mother needed at 17 18 year old

spunky mother needed at 17 18 year old girl are always refugee woman none of

girl are always refugee woman none of

girl are always refugee woman none of them realized their acts of resistance

them realized their acts of resistance

them realized their acts of resistance to

to

to day that there steps of determination

day that there steps of determination

day that there steps of determination today is actually building a future not

today is actually building a future not

today is actually building a future not just for them and their children but for

just for them and their children but for

just for them and their children but for all of us so the next time we march I

all of us so the next time we march I

all of us so the next time we march I think we should March that these new

think we should March that these new

think we should March that these new breed of feminists we should march for

breed of feminists we should march for

breed of feminists we should march for their right to life we should march

their right to life we should march

their right to life we should march against every rule and order the

against every rule and order the

against every rule and order the dehumanizes on the basis of religion and

dehumanizes on the basis of religion and

dehumanizes on the basis of religion and gender I want to play a video to end

gender I want to play a video to end

gender I want to play a video to end with I started with Maya Angela I want

with I started with Maya Angela I want

with I started with Maya Angela I want to end with a favorite poem of like of

to end with a favorite poem of like of

to end with a favorite poem of like of Maya Angela’s that I like it’s called

Maya Angela’s that I like it’s called

Maya Angela’s that I like it’s called still I rise and I want to play it over

still I rise and I want to play it over

still I rise and I want to play it over photographs images of these refugee

photographs images of these refugee

photographs images of these refugee women of how I saw them through the lens

women of how I saw them through the lens

women of how I saw them through the lens of my camera can we play the video yeah

of my camera can we play the video yeah

of my camera can we play the video yeah okay you may write me down in history

okay you may write me down in history

okay you may write me down in history with your bitter twisted lies

with your bitter twisted lies

with your bitter twisted lies you may trod me in the very dirt but

you may trod me in the very dirt but

you may trod me in the very dirt but still like dust I rise did you want to

still like dust I rise did you want to

still like dust I rise did you want to see me broken bowed head and lowered

see me broken bowed head and lowered

see me broken bowed head and lowered eyes shoulders falling down like

eyes shoulders falling down like

eyes shoulders falling down like teardrops weakened by my soulful cry

teardrops weakened by my soulful cry

teardrops weakened by my soulful cry as my haughtiness offend you don’t you

as my haughtiness offend you don’t you

as my haughtiness offend you don’t you take it awful hard because I laugh like

take it awful hard because I laugh like

take it awful hard because I laugh like I’ve got gold mines digging in my own

I’ve got gold mines digging in my own

I’ve got gold mines digging in my own backyard

backyard

backyard Yuma should be with your words you may

Yuma should be with your words you may

Yuma should be with your words you may cut me with your eyes you may kill me

cut me with your eyes you may kill me

cut me with your eyes you may kill me with your hatefulness but still like air

with your hatefulness but still like air

with your hatefulness but still like air I’ll rise leaving behind nights of

I’ll rise leaving behind nights of

I’ll rise leaving behind nights of terror and fear I rise into a daybreak

terror and fear I rise into a daybreak

terror and fear I rise into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear I rise I am the

that’s wondrously clear I rise I am the

that’s wondrously clear I rise I am the dream and the hope

dream and the hope

dream and the hope I rise I rise I rise

I rise I rise I rise

I rise I rise I rise [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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