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Reframing Success and Vanquishing Shame | Stefan Haves | TEDxIMINewDelhi


Oh Oh the lights change the little kid

Oh Oh the lights change the little kid has been here since 10:00 a.m. let’s

has been here since 10:00 a.m. let’s

has been here since 10:00 a.m. let’s give him a hand okay look at that kid

and not only do I have these cameras but

and not only do I have these cameras but I have a drone up in the air taking my

I have a drone up in the air taking my

I have a drone up in the air taking my picture man this is awesome thank you so

picture man this is awesome thank you so

picture man this is awesome thank you so much thank you so much for for allowing

much thank you so much for for allowing

much thank you so much for for allowing me to share some things with you I’m not

me to share some things with you I’m not

me to share some things with you I’m not here to teach I’m here to learn and I’m

here to teach I’m here to learn and I’m

here to teach I’m here to learn and I’m gonna learn from you right now oh you

gonna learn from you right now oh you

gonna learn from you right now oh you know I’m reminded right now I want you

know I’m reminded right now I want you

know I’m reminded right now I want you to think not I want you to think not I

to think not I want you to think not I

to think not I want you to think not I want you to think not about what I’m

want you to think not about what I’m

want you to think not about what I’m saying

saying

saying but I want you to think about what I’m

but I want you to think about what I’m

but I want you to think about what I’m doing – okay there’s a whole other

doing – okay there’s a whole other

doing – okay there’s a whole other physical world that is happening right

physical world that is happening right

physical world that is happening right now we are so used to in TEDx talks for

now we are so used to in TEDx talks for

now we are so used to in TEDx talks for someone to say I went here ended the

someone to say I went here ended the

someone to say I went here ended the click click click but there is so much

click click click but there is so much

click click click but there is so much physically going on I want to

physically going on I want to

physically going on I want to communicate to you with my entire body I

communicate to you with my entire body I

communicate to you with my entire body I don’t want to communicate thoughts I

don’t want to communicate thoughts I

don’t want to communicate thoughts I want to communicate a whole experience

want to communicate a whole experience

want to communicate a whole experience and that’s what we’re going to do today

and that’s what we’re going to do today

and that’s what we’re going to do today we’re also worried about technology and

we’re also worried about technology and

we’re also worried about technology and we’re also worried about robotics and

we’re also worried about robotics and

we’re also worried about robotics and we’re also worried about them taking our

we’re also worried about them taking our

we’re also worried about them taking our place and you know something it’s so

place and you know something it’s so

place and you know something it’s so funny because I work with clowns they

funny because I work with clowns they

funny because I work with clowns they will never take my place so I can act

will never take my place so I can act

will never take my place so I can act like a fool I can act like a fool in

like a fool I can act like a fool in

like a fool I can act like a fool in front of you now in your world acting

front of you now in your world acting

front of you now in your world acting like a fool is being a failure but I

like a fool is being a failure but I

like a fool is being a failure but I work with clowns

work with clowns

work with clowns and so acting like a fool as a clown I

and so acting like a fool as a clown I

and so acting like a fool as a clown I do it on purpose and I love doing it on

do it on purpose and I love doing it on

do it on purpose and I love doing it on purpose and what this talk is all about

purpose and what this talk is all about

purpose and what this talk is all about is what I like to call reframing success

is what I like to call reframing success

is what I like to call reframing success and vanquishing shame

and vanquishing shame

and vanquishing shame without running away to the circus we

without running away to the circus we

without running away to the circus we want to be able to look at success as

want to be able to look at success as

want to be able to look at success as sharing ourselves not withholding

sharing ourselves not withholding

sharing ourselves not withholding ourselves it is so easy for us to be shy

ourselves it is so easy for us to be shy

ourselves it is so easy for us to be shy but shy is selfish okay

but shy is selfish okay

but shy is selfish okay we all have a once-upon-a-time everybody

we all have a once-upon-a-time everybody

we all have a once-upon-a-time everybody can say oh oh come on everybody say oh

can say oh oh come on everybody say oh

can say oh oh come on everybody say oh oh yeah I know I I had trouble as a kid

oh yeah I know I I had trouble as a kid

oh yeah I know I I had trouble as a kid I ran away to the circus for a good

I ran away to the circus for a good

I ran away to the circus for a good reason because I was not a happy camper

reason because I was not a happy camper

reason because I was not a happy camper as a kid and you know I was adopted and

as a kid and you know I was adopted and

as a kid and you know I was adopted and my father died when I was young and I

my father died when I was young and I

my father died when I was young and I there was a my job description in the

there was a my job description in the

there was a my job description in the family was to keep everybody happy was

family was to keep everybody happy was

family was to keep everybody happy was to keep everybody laughing and

to keep everybody laughing and

to keep everybody laughing and regardless of how I felt I didn’t want

regardless of how I felt I didn’t want

regardless of how I felt I didn’t want to show my real feelings I wanted to

to show my real feelings I wanted to

to show my real feelings I wanted to just make everybody else happy and then

just make everybody else happy and then

just make everybody else happy and then I went on to school and then my job

I went on to school and then my job

I went on to school and then my job there I got promoted to class clown and

there I got promoted to class clown and

there I got promoted to class clown and I made everybody in school happy too

I made everybody in school happy too

I made everybody in school happy too it was awesome and then I went on to

it was awesome and then I went on to

it was awesome and then I went on to college and then I went to a clown

college and then I went to a clown

college and then I went to a clown school and in that clown school I was

school and in that clown school I was

school and in that clown school I was very opinionated as a kid and I thought

very opinionated as a kid and I thought

very opinionated as a kid and I thought I was all that and so I dropped out of

I was all that and so I dropped out of

I was all that and so I dropped out of clown school which I’m kind of you know

clown school which I’m kind of you know

clown school which I’m kind of you know I’m kind of proud of and um and then I

I’m kind of proud of and um and then I

I’m kind of proud of and um and then I went to the streets of Paris juggling

went to the streets of Paris juggling

went to the streets of Paris juggling and from there I met the best clown in

and from there I met the best clown in

and from there I met the best clown in the world from there I went on to work

the world from there I went on to work

the world from there I went on to work with circuses worldwide from there it

with circuses worldwide from there it

with circuses worldwide from there it was a circus world it was the most

was a circus world it was the most

was a circus world it was the most awesome circus world that I could have

awesome circus world that I could have

awesome circus world that I could have ever imagined I could come together with

ever imagined I could come together with

ever imagined I could come together with people and make beautiful things the

people and make beautiful things the

people and make beautiful things the thing that’s incredible about the circus

thing that’s incredible about the circus

thing that’s incredible about the circus is that you in the audience are

is that you in the audience are

is that you in the audience are participants you are not spectators I

participants you are not spectators I

participants you are not spectators I could come really close to you

could come really close to you

could come really close to you you all look up and there’s a high-wire

you all look up and there’s a high-wire

you all look up and there’s a high-wire act where peril meets connection that’s

act where peril meets connection that’s

act where peril meets connection that’s where we live it’s that moment it’s that

where we live it’s that moment it’s that

where we live it’s that moment it’s that beautiful moment where the high wire guy

beautiful moment where the high wire guy

beautiful moment where the high wire guy is going across and the mother goes over

is going across and the mother goes over

is going across and the mother goes over to the son and holds the hand peril and

to the son and holds the hand peril and

to the son and holds the hand peril and connection that’s what I live for

connection that’s what I live for

connection that’s what I live for so in terms of anything I do I’m feeling

so in terms of anything I do I’m feeling

so in terms of anything I do I’m feeling a pretty good connection with you guys

a pretty good connection with you guys

a pretty good connection with you guys but I don’t feel there’s enough peril

but I don’t feel there’s enough peril

but I don’t feel there’s enough peril for you so so that means I’m gonna bring

for you so so that means I’m gonna bring

for you so so that means I’m gonna bring someone up on stage you and the white

someone up on stage you and the white

someone up on stage you and the white come on up let’s give her a hand come on

come on up let’s give her a hand come on

come on up let’s give her a hand come on up hello what’s your name

up hello what’s your name

up hello what’s your name Steffi I’m Stefan Stefan Stefan we’re a

Steffi I’m Stefan Stefan Stefan we’re a

Steffi I’m Stefan Stefan Stefan we’re a comedy team were great that day and

comedy team were great that day and

comedy team were great that day and Stefan adovada Wow

Stefan adovada Wow

Stefan adovada Wow she’s beautiful what’s your I want you

she’s beautiful what’s your I want you

she’s beautiful what’s your I want you to wait three seconds and say your name

to wait three seconds and say your name

to wait three seconds and say your name ready go good she’s she’s amazing

ready go good she’s she’s amazing

ready go good she’s she’s amazing because she waited three seconds and she

because she waited three seconds and she

because she waited three seconds and she said her name loudly she was

said her name loudly she was

said her name loudly she was extraordinary because right now she’s

extraordinary because right now she’s

extraordinary because right now she’s got what I do when I see someone on

got what I do when I see someone on

got what I do when I see someone on stage like this and you did better than

stage like this and you did better than

stage like this and you did better than most people I know are you an actress no

most people I know are you an actress no

most people I know are you an actress no are you a performer yes

are you a performer yes

are you a performer yes okay good yes okay she is a performer

okay good yes okay she is a performer

okay good yes okay she is a performer awesome she’s a performer she is it and

awesome she’s a performer she is it and

awesome she’s a performer she is it and all she has to do as a performer and I

all she has to do as a performer and I

all she has to do as a performer and I got to tell you I do this with thousands

got to tell you I do this with thousands

got to tell you I do this with thousands of people usually they say their name

of people usually they say their name

of people usually they say their name right away you waited three seconds said

right away you waited three seconds said

right away you waited three seconds said your first and last name all you have to

your first and last name all you have to

your first and last name all you have to do as an actor is follow directions it’s

do as an actor is follow directions it’s

do as an actor is follow directions it’s like Spencer Tracy said I’ll tell you

like Spencer Tracy said I’ll tell you

like Spencer Tracy said I’ll tell you what acting is remember your lines and

what acting is remember your lines and

what acting is remember your lines and don’t bump into furniture that’s all you

don’t bump into furniture that’s all you

don’t bump into furniture that’s all you got to do so you’re halfway there okay

got to do so you’re halfway there okay

got to do so you’re halfway there okay there’s something we have and that

there’s something we have and that

there’s something we have and that something is called the performers

something is called the performers

something is called the performers instrument

instrument

instrument that’s body voice speech and imagination

that’s body voice speech and imagination

that’s body voice speech and imagination okay now there’s the this this is all we

okay now there’s the this this is all we

okay now there’s the this this is all we have to do

have to do

have to do we’re like if you’re a piano that’s what

we’re like if you’re a piano that’s what

we’re like if you’re a piano that’s what your piano is emotions are like the song

your piano is emotions are like the song

your piano is emotions are like the song body voice speech and imagination is

body voice speech and imagination is

body voice speech and imagination is what you have to perform okay

what you have to perform okay

what you have to perform okay so right now how are you feeling right

so right now how are you feeling right

so right now how are you feeling right now okay good

now okay good

now okay good she’s feeling confused so that’s the

she’s feeling confused so that’s the

she’s feeling confused so that’s the imagination isn’t really working if I

imagination isn’t really working if I

imagination isn’t really working if I were to ask you to take two steps take a

were to ask you to take two steps take a

were to ask you to take two steps take a drink of water and step back ready go

okay good she just said I don’t have a

okay good she just said I don’t have a glass of water but that was her saying

glass of water but that was her saying

glass of water but that was her saying Oh imagination hasn’t kicked in okay so

Oh imagination hasn’t kicked in okay so

Oh imagination hasn’t kicked in okay so it’s amazing how like this moment in

it’s amazing how like this moment in

it’s amazing how like this moment in time you going forward why do you go

time you going forward why do you go

time you going forward why do you go forward for water are you thirsty

forward for water are you thirsty

forward for water are you thirsty how heavy is the water what does it feel

how heavy is the water what does it feel

how heavy is the water what does it feel like on your lips how does it go down

like on your lips how does it go down

like on your lips how does it go down emotions come from senses so I have to

emotions come from senses so I have to

emotions come from senses so I have to replicate sensory work it’s incredible

replicate sensory work it’s incredible

replicate sensory work it’s incredible okay good now the thing that is

okay good now the thing that is

okay good now the thing that is preventing you from being an awesome

preventing you from being an awesome

preventing you from being an awesome actor to begin with his adrenaline now I

actor to begin with his adrenaline now I

actor to begin with his adrenaline now I am addicted to adrenaline because I’m a

am addicted to adrenaline because I’m a

am addicted to adrenaline because I’m a performer okay now what is what what am

performer okay now what is what what am

performer okay now what is what what am i addicted to possible public

i addicted to possible public

i addicted to possible public humiliation the fact that you people

humiliation the fact that you people

humiliation the fact that you people might not like me the fact that

might not like me the fact that

might not like me the fact that everybody will throw tomatoes and I’ll

everybody will throw tomatoes and I’ll

everybody will throw tomatoes and I’ll be running out of here okay I but I’m

be running out of here okay I but I’m

be running out of here okay I but I’m addicted to that that possible public

addicted to that that possible public

addicted to that that possible public humiliation with with the emphasis on

humiliation with with the emphasis on

humiliation with with the emphasis on possible and then ultimately surviving

possible and then ultimately surviving

possible and then ultimately surviving that’s what I need to do now you in

that’s what I need to do now you in

that’s what I need to do now you in terms of what you if you’re not a

terms of what you if you’re not a

terms of what you if you’re not a performer I’m going to ask you to be a

performer I’m going to ask you to be a

performer I’m going to ask you to be a participant I’m going to I want you to

participant I’m going to I want you to

participant I’m going to I want you to prevent adrenaline from hijacking your

prevent adrenaline from hijacking your

prevent adrenaline from hijacking your expressive freedom

expressive freedom

expressive freedom okay she just said okay but did she said

okay she just said okay but did she said

okay she just said okay but did she said it very softly so I go back to the

it very softly so I go back to the

it very softly so I go back to the instrument and I go oh the voice she

instrument and I go oh the voice she

instrument and I go oh the voice she didn’t breathe

didn’t breathe

didn’t breathe she didn’t say okay now it’s like if you

she didn’t say okay now it’s like if you

she didn’t say okay now it’s like if you place I see we I got some guys in the

place I see we I got some guys in the

place I see we I got some guys in the front if you guys play soccer okay

front if you guys play soccer okay

front if you guys play soccer okay you’re playing soccer and then the ball

you’re playing soccer and then the ball

you’re playing soccer and then the ball goes into the the street you guys would

goes into the the street you guys would

goes into the the street you guys would go hey watch out and you would inhale

go hey watch out and you would inhale

go hey watch out and you would inhale before you spoke because that’s what we

before you spoke because that’s what we

before you spoke because that’s what we do but when people are nervous on stage

do but when people are nervous on stage

do but when people are nervous on stage they don’t breathe when you don’t

they don’t breathe when you don’t

they don’t breathe when you don’t breathe you die so so let’s thank her

breathe you die so so let’s thank her

breathe you die so so let’s thank her for coming up and helping me thank you

all right the the reason we have to be

all right the the reason we have to be good with our instrument is we don’t

good with our instrument is we don’t

good with our instrument is we don’t want to be selfish with our art what

want to be selfish with our art what

want to be selfish with our art what does that mean to be selfish with our

does that mean to be selfish with our

does that mean to be selfish with our art that means I’m shy shy is selfish

art that means I’m shy shy is selfish

art that means I’m shy shy is selfish because you are withholding your spirit

because you are withholding your spirit

because you are withholding your spirit your ideas your innovation your

your ideas your innovation your

your ideas your innovation your individuality your possible mistakes and

individuality your possible mistakes and

individuality your possible mistakes and those mistakes please make them please

those mistakes please make them please

those mistakes please make them please make mistakes because no one is gonna

make mistakes because no one is gonna

make mistakes because no one is gonna hurt you when they say no they’re just

hurt you when they say no they’re just

hurt you when they say no they’re just gonna say hey what about this no that’s

gonna say hey what about this no that’s

gonna say hey what about this no that’s all that’s gonna happen so I urge you to

all that’s gonna happen so I urge you to

all that’s gonna happen so I urge you to not be selfish with your art and to

not be selfish with your art and to

not be selfish with your art and to change your story remember my sad story

change your story remember my sad story

change your story remember my sad story about being adopted and all that I have

about being adopted and all that I have

about being adopted and all that I have to let that go and I have to go how can

to let that go and I have to go how can

to let that go and I have to go how can I change that and we have that capacity

I change that and we have that capacity

I change that and we have that capacity we do have that capacity in the way okay

we do have that capacity in the way okay

we do have that capacity in the way okay summon the courage to edit your life

summon the courage to edit your life

summon the courage to edit your life movie okay close-up on freeing personal

movie okay close-up on freeing personal

movie okay close-up on freeing personal contempt you don’t need to be angry with

contempt you don’t need to be angry with

contempt you don’t need to be angry with yourself you don’t have to be hard on

yourself you don’t have to be hard on

yourself you don’t have to be hard on yourself cutting all scenes with a false

yourself cutting all scenes with a false

yourself cutting all scenes with a false narrative of cruel judgment of

narrative of cruel judgment of

narrative of cruel judgment of turning the camera towards anyone but

turning the camera towards anyone but

turning the camera towards anyone but you because if I had the camera on me

you because if I had the camera on me

you because if I had the camera on me right now folks I would be worried about

right now folks I would be worried about

right now folks I would be worried about my wrinkles here my my bald spot here

my wrinkles here my my bald spot here

my wrinkles here my my bald spot here what the heck is going on they don’t

what the heck is going on they don’t

what the heck is going on they don’t like me but if I go like this and I put

like me but if I go like this and I put

like me but if I go like this and I put the lens to you and I want to be

the lens to you and I want to be

the lens to you and I want to be generous oh that’s a better feeling I

generous oh that’s a better feeling I

generous oh that’s a better feeling I want to communicate

want to communicate

want to communicate I want to engage I want to have a

I want to engage I want to have a

I want to engage I want to have a dialogue okay focus on empathy and

dialogue okay focus on empathy and

dialogue okay focus on empathy and service to others craft a script

service to others craft a script

service to others craft a script promoting community and tolerance and

promoting community and tolerance and

promoting community and tolerance and finally risk a long shot chance and

finally risk a long shot chance and

finally risk a long shot chance and support fellow risk takers a long shot

support fellow risk takers a long shot

support fellow risk takers a long shot chance that’s what you got to give

chance that’s what you got to give

chance that’s what you got to give yourself let me take a risk let me take

yourself let me take a risk let me take

yourself let me take a risk let me take a risk why not it really the the

a risk why not it really the the

a risk why not it really the the punishment in your brain is so much

punishment in your brain is so much

punishment in your brain is so much worse than the self involved people that

worse than the self involved people that

worse than the self involved people that you’re dealing with they’re all thinking

you’re dealing with they’re all thinking

you’re dealing with they’re all thinking about themselves they’re not thinking

about themselves they’re not thinking

about themselves they’re not thinking about you failing okay so we try to

about you failing okay so we try to

about you failing okay so we try to release the work of pain and then awaken

release the work of pain and then awaken

release the work of pain and then awaken the childlike wonder of play I have been

the childlike wonder of play I have been

the childlike wonder of play I have been doing this work in China Romania India

doing this work in China Romania India

doing this work in China Romania India USA France Spain Italy all over the

USA France Spain Italy all over the

USA France Spain Italy all over the world were all the same we all love to

world were all the same we all love to

world were all the same we all love to play and we were all perfect actors we

play and we were all perfect actors we

play and we were all perfect actors we were all perfect performers we were all

were all perfect performers we were all

were all perfect performers we were all perfect clowns before puberty when we

perfect clowns before puberty when we

perfect clowns before puberty when we were seven eight nine years old ten

were seven eight nine years old ten

were seven eight nine years old ten years old we were we just played with

years old we were we just played with

years old we were we just played with our friends we played outside we played

our friends we played outside we played

our friends we played outside we played in in our rooms we just did that and

in in our rooms we just did that and

in in our rooms we just did that and then our bodies started changing and

then our bodies started changing and

then our bodies started changing and things got more complicated and I’m

things got more complicated and I’m

things got more complicated and I’m sorry about that we spend you know three

sorry about that we spend you know three

sorry about that we spend you know three four years going through that time of

four years going through that time of

four years going through that time of our lives and then we spend the rest of

our lives and then we spend the rest of

our lives and then we spend the rest of our lives healing from it okay I

our lives healing from it okay I

our lives healing from it okay I remember being with some friends and

remember being with some friends and

remember being with some friends and and I was I was I reached puberty late

and I was I was I reached puberty late

and I was I was I reached puberty late so I’m I’m with friends and they’re big

so I’m I’m with friends and they’re big

so I’m I’m with friends and they’re big guys and they’re like hey how are ya and

guys and they’re like hey how are ya and

guys and they’re like hey how are ya and I go hey you guys want to play on the

I go hey you guys want to play on the

I go hey you guys want to play on the jungle gym over there and I started to

jungle gym over there and I started to

jungle gym over there and I started to run to the jungle gym and I look back

run to the jungle gym and I look back

run to the jungle gym and I look back and they were laughing at me they were

and they were laughing at me they were

and they were laughing at me they were going yeah go to the jungle gym

going yeah go to the jungle gym

going yeah go to the jungle gym yeah and I remember going like turning

yeah and I remember going like turning

yeah and I remember going like turning around thinking I’m never gonna play

around thinking I’m never gonna play

around thinking I’m never gonna play again it’s not safe to play again we all

again it’s not safe to play again we all

again it’s not safe to play again we all have that experience globally and we all

have that experience globally and we all

have that experience globally and we all have the beauty of bringing imagination

have the beauty of bringing imagination

have the beauty of bringing imagination into our life again we got really good

into our life again we got really good

into our life again we got really good at it at age six seven and eight and now

at it at age six seven and eight and now

at it at age six seven and eight and now as adults I welcome you to bring

as adults I welcome you to bring

as adults I welcome you to bring imagination back into your life it’s

imagination back into your life it’s

imagination back into your life it’s about us a global week it’s magic part

about us a global week it’s magic part

about us a global week it’s magic part of us being so technologically oh but

of us being so technologically oh but

of us being so technologically oh but consumed is the masculine logic has

consumed is the masculine logic has

consumed is the masculine logic has taken over our heads are are getting so

taken over our heads are are getting so

taken over our heads are are getting so big with information and at the same

big with information and at the same

big with information and at the same time our feminine intuition is being

time our feminine intuition is being

time our feminine intuition is being back-burnered now let’s let’s talk a

back-burnered now let’s let’s talk a

back-burnered now let’s let’s talk a little bit about what intuition is when

little bit about what intuition is when

little bit about what intuition is when I’m walking down a road and it feels

I’m walking down a road and it feels

I’m walking down a road and it feels creepy I feel low that’s not a brain

creepy I feel low that’s not a brain

creepy I feel low that’s not a brain thing that’s a body thing okay so

thing that’s a body thing okay so

thing that’s a body thing okay so intuition we need to be able to balance

intuition we need to be able to balance

intuition we need to be able to balance the masculine and the feminine in our

the masculine and the feminine in our

the masculine and the feminine in our lives sweet breath is with inhale and

lives sweet breath is with inhale and

lives sweet breath is with inhale and exhale if I was a TEDTalk ER right now

exhale if I was a TEDTalk ER right now

exhale if I was a TEDTalk ER right now and I was just like hey okay everybody

and I was just like hey okay everybody

and I was just like hey okay everybody I’m gonna be doing this and better da da

I’m gonna be doing this and better da da

I’m gonna be doing this and better da da da da da da you don’t like me right

da da da da you don’t like me right

da da da da you don’t like me right there but if I come in and I’m inhaling

there but if I come in and I’m inhaling

there but if I come in and I’m inhaling and I’m intuitive and I let the feminine

and I’m intuitive and I let the feminine

and I’m intuitive and I let the feminine inhale speak I go here

hello I’m here to talk to you about

hello I’m here to talk to you about imagination and I let it in

imagination and I let it in

imagination and I let it in but our adrenaline forces us to actually

but our adrenaline forces us to actually

but our adrenaline forces us to actually ignore the intuitive well I’m almost at

ignore the intuitive well I’m almost at

ignore the intuitive well I’m almost at the end of my talk and it always should

the end of my talk and it always should

the end of my talk and it always should end with love okay

end with love okay

end with love okay and love I am I have found the person

and love I am I have found the person

and love I am I have found the person that I have to fall in love with

that I have to fall in love with

that I have to fall in love with unfortunately that person is me I’m

unfortunately that person is me I’m

unfortunately that person is me I’m discovering love through humor and

discovering love through humor and

discovering love through humor and through personal acceptance I just want

through personal acceptance I just want

through personal acceptance I just want to let you know I have to that the bad

to let you know I have to that the bad

to let you know I have to that the bad news is I’m the problem when it comes to

news is I’m the problem when it comes to

news is I’m the problem when it comes to love and bringing in other people I’m

love and bringing in other people I’m

love and bringing in other people I’m the problem that’s the bad news the good

the problem that’s the bad news the good

the problem that’s the bad news the good news is I’m the problem because I can

news is I’m the problem because I can

news is I’m the problem because I can fix me

fix me

fix me I can change me I can do anything to be

I can change me I can do anything to be

I can change me I can do anything to be better so when it comes to relationships

better so when it comes to relationships

better so when it comes to relationships one plus one does not equal two it

one plus one does not equal two it

one plus one does not equal two it equals eleven a complete one next to a

equals eleven a complete one next to a

equals eleven a complete one next to a complete one

now I want you guys to what I want you

now I want you guys to what I want you guys to follow your bliss manifest and

guys to follow your bliss manifest and

guys to follow your bliss manifest and I’m gonna end with a real treat for you

I’m gonna end with a real treat for you

I’m gonna end with a real treat for you guys okay so what I’m going to do is I’m

guys okay so what I’m going to do is I’m

guys okay so what I’m going to do is I’m going to share a little thing that is

going to share a little thing that is

going to share a little thing that is body body intelligence not mind

body body intelligence not mind

body body intelligence not mind intelligence because if I have any kind

intelligence because if I have any kind

intelligence because if I have any kind of thing to give you it’s stay out of

of thing to give you it’s stay out of

of thing to give you it’s stay out of the logic and into the intuitive so

the logic and into the intuitive so

the logic and into the intuitive so ladies and gentlemen may I present to

ladies and gentlemen may I present to

ladies and gentlemen may I present to you back man

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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