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Red Shoes | Kiki Oosterbroek | TEDxYeongheungForest


let’s go to the land of The Wonderful

let’s go to the land of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz the main character a girl

Wizard of Oz the main character a girl

Wizard of Oz the main character a girl named Dorothy gets swept up by the

named Dorothy gets swept up by the

named Dorothy gets swept up by the cyclone

cyclone

cyclone and as she flies through the air she

and as she flies through the air she

and as she flies through the air she lands in the world of Oz she kills the

lands in the world of Oz she kills the

lands in the world of Oz she kills the Wicked Witch during her landing and she

Wicked Witch during her landing and she

Wicked Witch during her landing and she received his powerful red shoes as a

received his powerful red shoes as a

received his powerful red shoes as a reward even though she’s fascinated but

reward even though she’s fascinated but

reward even though she’s fascinated but it’s new and colorful worlds he arrived

it’s new and colorful worlds he arrived

it’s new and colorful worlds he arrived in she has only one goal and that is to

in she has only one goal and that is to

in she has only one goal and that is to return home

return home

return home spoiler alert at the end she is told

spoiler alert at the end she is told

spoiler alert at the end she is told that she can by simply closing her eyes

that she can by simply closing her eyes

that she can by simply closing her eyes and clicking her heels three times while

and clicking her heels three times while

and clicking her heels three times while repeating there is no place like home

repeating there is no place like home

repeating there is no place like home what we can learn from her adventures is

what we can learn from her adventures is

what we can learn from her adventures is that it takes four attributes to get you

that it takes four attributes to get you

that it takes four attributes to get you home

home

home brains heart courage and red shoes

brains heart courage and red shoes

brains heart courage and red shoes fortunately all of us here are blessed

fortunately all of us here are blessed

fortunately all of us here are blessed with brains heart and the guts for

with brains heart and the guts for

with brains heart and the guts for courage so the real question here is do

courage so the real question here is do

courage so the real question here is do you have red shoes and if not how do you

you have red shoes and if not how do you

you have red shoes and if not how do you get home this girl her name is Ikki he

get home this girl her name is Ikki he

get home this girl her name is Ikki he up until the age of three and health she

up until the age of three and health she

up until the age of three and health she lived with her Korean mother and

lived with her Korean mother and

lived with her Korean mother and siblings it was also around that age

siblings it was also around that age

siblings it was also around that age that she was brought to an orphanage

that she was brought to an orphanage

that she was brought to an orphanage where she waited for adoption

where she waited for adoption

where she waited for adoption now imagine one day you get to wear this

now imagine one day you get to wear this

now imagine one day you get to wear this fancy dress

fancy dress

fancy dress and these beautiful red shiny shoes and

and these beautiful red shiny shoes and

and these beautiful red shiny shoes and you step into this machine and if the

you step into this machine and if the

you step into this machine and if the machine flies you through the air and

machine flies you through the air and

machine flies you through the air and when you get out the people in that

when you get out the people in that

when you get out the people in that world speak gibberish and they have big

world speak gibberish and they have big

world speak gibberish and they have big blue eyes and big noses have funny hair

blue eyes and big noses have funny hair

blue eyes and big noses have funny hair and they drive cars and they live in

and they drive cars and they live in

and they drive cars and they live in brick houses and they’ve got this big

brick houses and they’ve got this big

brick houses and they’ve got this big dog living inside the house as a pad and

dog living inside the house as a pad and

dog living inside the house as a pad and they have a garden with a slide and a

they have a garden with a slide and a

they have a garden with a slide and a swing and the sandbox and a piano and a

swing and the sandbox and a piano and a

swing and the sandbox and a piano and a bird and a cage and cookies delicious

bird and a cage and cookies delicious

bird and a cage and cookies delicious cookies and an antique doll that you’re

cookies and an antique doll that you’re

cookies and an antique doll that you’re not allowed to touch so all these new

not allowed to touch so all these new

not allowed to touch so all these new experiences and impressions in one day

experiences and impressions in one day

experiences and impressions in one day were exciting and overwhelming so by the

were exciting and overwhelming so by the

were exciting and overwhelming so by the end of the day key he was exhausted and

end of the day key he was exhausted and

end of the day key he was exhausted and ready to go home but she didn’t she

ready to go home but she didn’t she

ready to go home but she didn’t she stayed that night and the next day in

stayed that night and the next day in

stayed that night and the next day in fact she stayed all following nights and

fact she stayed all following nights and

fact she stayed all following nights and days who of you has ever been in a

days who of you has ever been in a

days who of you has ever been in a situation like Dorothea and Kiki where

situation like Dorothea and Kiki where

situation like Dorothea and Kiki where you wished you could go home by simply

you wished you could go home by simply

you wished you could go home by simply three clicks of your heels right yes I

three clicks of your heels right yes I

three clicks of your heels right yes I know I’ve been in those situations and

know I’ve been in those situations and

know I’ve been in those situations and one that I would like to share with you

one that I would like to share with you

one that I would like to share with you was in September 2006 that’s when we

was in September 2006 that’s when we

was in September 2006 that’s when we moved from the Netherlands to Korea now

moved from the Netherlands to Korea now

moved from the Netherlands to Korea now the first two years were filled with all

the first two years were filled with all

the first two years were filled with all these new experiences and impressions

these new experiences and impressions

these new experiences and impressions that were both exciting and overwhelming

that were both exciting and overwhelming

that were both exciting and overwhelming so by the end of those two years I was

so by the end of those two years I was

so by the end of those two years I was ready to go home but I didn’t I stayed

ready to go home but I didn’t I stayed

ready to go home but I didn’t I stayed and not a year and another one and

and not a year and another one and

and not a year and another one and another one and I’m still here eleven

another one and I’m still here eleven

another one and I’m still here eleven years later and that is also exactly the

years later and that is also exactly the

years later and that is also exactly the time that it has taken me to discover

time that it has taken me to discover

time that it has taken me to discover the power

the power

the power of my red shoes and how they can bring

of my red shoes and how they can bring

of my red shoes and how they can bring you home the thing is that in order to

you home the thing is that in order to

you home the thing is that in order to return home you first have to be taken

return home you first have to be taken

return home you first have to be taken away from it for me I had to be in a

away from it for me I had to be in a

away from it for me I had to be in a place where I felt anything but home and

place where I felt anything but home and

place where I felt anything but home and that was in Korea if any of you like me

that was in Korea if any of you like me

that was in Korea if any of you like me experience being taken away from your

experience being taken away from your

experience being taken away from your home the reason why it’s because it’s

home the reason why it’s because it’s

home the reason why it’s because it’s the most effective way to discover it at

the most effective way to discover it at

the most effective way to discover it at home is not a place or a country or

home is not a place or a country or

home is not a place or a country or people out here home is a place within

people out here home is a place within

people out here home is a place within ourselves the place within where I

ourselves the place within where I

ourselves the place within where I learned to fully trust myself or I

learned to fully trust myself or I

learned to fully trust myself or I should say my selves because within all

should say my selves because within all

should say my selves because within all of us there is this whole community

of us there is this whole community

of us there is this whole community waiting to be discovered

waiting to be discovered

waiting to be discovered to be listened to to be seen to be known

to be listened to to be seen to be known

to be listened to to be seen to be known and to be accepted and loved just like

and to be accepted and loved just like

and to be accepted and loved just like Dorothy needed the brains the Scarecrow

Dorothy needed the brains the Scarecrow

Dorothy needed the brains the Scarecrow heart Tin Man and cur it’s the lion to

heart Tin Man and cur it’s the lion to

heart Tin Man and cur it’s the lion to bring her home her community so do we

bring her home her community so do we

bring her home her community so do we all need that community to bring us home

all need that community to bring us home

all need that community to bring us home and red shoes so the good news for all

and red shoes so the good news for all

and red shoes so the good news for all of us here especially the men you don’t

of us here especially the men you don’t

of us here especially the men you don’t have to go out to buy shiny red shoes

have to go out to buy shiny red shoes

have to go out to buy shiny red shoes in order to get connected to your inner

in order to get connected to your inner

in order to get connected to your inner community the red shoes as you I’m sure

community the red shoes as you I’m sure

community the red shoes as you I’m sure you figured out by now symbolizes our

you figured out by now symbolizes our

you figured out by now symbolizes our ability to connect and integrate how to

ability to connect and integrate how to

ability to connect and integrate how to practice that ability is through kind

practice that ability is through kind

practice that ability is through kind and compassionate conversations with

and compassionate conversations with

and compassionate conversations with yourself first that’s how you integrate

yourself first that’s how you integrate

yourself first that’s how you integrate your inner community courage heart and

your inner community courage heart and

your inner community courage heart and brains

brains

brains when you build a timeline of your life

when you build a timeline of your life

when you build a timeline of your life you can see and understand how every

you can see and understand how every

you can see and understand how every experience has made you become the

experience has made you become the

experience has made you become the person you are today and to love that

person you are today and to love that

person you are today and to love that person and to trust that person and to

person and to trust that person and to

person and to trust that person and to know that who you are is exactly who you

know that who you are is exactly who you

know that who you are is exactly who you are meant to be it’s in the wholeness of

are meant to be it’s in the wholeness of

are meant to be it’s in the wholeness of becoming that we come home there is this

becoming that we come home there is this

becoming that we come home there is this concern that we are raising a

concern that we are raising a

concern that we are raising a disconnected generation because of

disconnected generation because of

disconnected generation because of devices and social media I don’t think

devices and social media I don’t think

devices and social media I don’t think that the disconnect in people is because

that the disconnect in people is because

that the disconnect in people is because of those things I think it is thanks to

of those things I think it is thanks to

of those things I think it is thanks to devices and social media that the

devices and social media that the

devices and social media that the disconnect in us as individuals and

disconnect in us as individuals and

disconnect in us as individuals and community has become so visible we are

community has become so visible we are

community has become so visible we are not more disconnected we are however

not more disconnected we are however

not more disconnected we are however required to challenge and grow our

required to challenge and grow our

required to challenge and grow our ability to connect we live in an amazing

ability to connect we live in an amazing

ability to connect we live in an amazing time of abundance and opportunities and

time of abundance and opportunities and

time of abundance and opportunities and to make the next level of growth

to make the next level of growth

to make the next level of growth possible makes the need for

possible makes the need for

possible makes the need for collaboration integration and

collaboration integration and

collaboration integration and relationship more urgent in a world of

relationship more urgent in a world of

relationship more urgent in a world of disconnect let’s create environments

disconnect let’s create environments

disconnect let’s create environments that are safe and inviting for people to

that are safe and inviting for people to

that are safe and inviting for people to share their life experiences we all have

share their life experiences we all have

share their life experiences we all have holes of disconnect in our stories holes

holes of disconnect in our stories holes

holes of disconnect in our stories holes that we keep falling into unless we

that we keep falling into unless we

that we keep falling into unless we recognize and acknowledge those holes

recognize and acknowledge those holes

recognize and acknowledge those holes and fill them make time to connect

and fill them make time to connect

and fill them make time to connect yourself with your experiences so you

yourself with your experiences so you

yourself with your experiences so you can help others to connect with theirs

can help others to connect with theirs

can help others to connect with theirs that’s how we build

that’s how we build

that’s how we build beautiful relationships of trust and

beautiful relationships of trust and

beautiful relationships of trust and communities that are collaborative

communities that are collaborative

communities that are collaborative integrated and creative the we as in

integrated and creative the we as in

integrated and creative the we as in communities fill the holes in our story

communities fill the holes in our story

communities fill the holes in our story making us whole again whether you are a

making us whole again whether you are a

making us whole again whether you are a parent teacher leader when you are

parent teacher leader when you are

parent teacher leader when you are invested in unlocking people’s potential

invested in unlocking people’s potential

invested in unlocking people’s potential the key is in kind and compassionate

the key is in kind and compassionate

the key is in kind and compassionate conversations it’s in the willingness to

conversations it’s in the willingness to

conversations it’s in the willingness to deeply understand yourself and others

deeply understand yourself and others

deeply understand yourself and others that you will find your red shoes that

that you will find your red shoes that

that you will find your red shoes that connects you and brings you home when I

connects you and brings you home when I

connects you and brings you home when I was preparing these presentation slides

was preparing these presentation slides

was preparing these presentation slides my nine-year-old son saw this picture of

my nine-year-old son saw this picture of

my nine-year-old son saw this picture of Kiki laying on the floor with her red

Kiki laying on the floor with her red

Kiki laying on the floor with her red shoes so he asked me is this girl your

shoes so he asked me is this girl your

shoes so he asked me is this girl your friend and I said yes she is and then he

friend and I said yes she is and then he

friend and I said yes she is and then he wanted to know do you still have contact

wanted to know do you still have contact

wanted to know do you still have contact with her and I answered yes better than

with her and I answered yes better than

with her and I answered yes better than ever

Kiki or Kiki as most people know her by

Kiki or Kiki as most people know her by has got herself some new pair of red

has got herself some new pair of red

has got herself some new pair of red shoes and with these red shoes I can

shoes and with these red shoes I can

shoes and with these red shoes I can return home anytime

Vons of Agnew main open open of dictum

Vons of Agnew main open open of dictum it been all dieters let me translate the

it been all dieters let me translate the

it been all dieters let me translate the strippers for you because this time

strippers for you because this time

strippers for you because this time whether my eyes are open or closed I’m

whether my eyes are open or closed I’m

whether my eyes are open or closed I’m always home thank you

always home thank you

always home thank you [Applause]

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