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Quién se adueño de mis deseos? | Veronica Antin | TEDxPinamar


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women pass with our wishes

If I wish not to have children, they tell me

how are you not going to have children

all women have children so that

you have the uterus

that vindicates you as a woman if I say a

only son, not just one, because if not

I’m selfish you have to have more than

one as if the fact of having a brother

it will mean that you will be accompanied

all his life and yes he raised maybe

postpone my motherhood because I want

travel I want to work I want to study

simply because I do not feel like it

they say but it does not happen to be mother and grandmother

at the same time hurry of we have a

biological clock and so we go

postponing no and if he managed to work

study a profession

and I’m leaving my house

I must leave my children maybe I do

with strange people in a daycare and

they tell me and that does not give you guilt to leave

your children and it suits you not to change the

silver as if I just left to

work for money I can also

work because I like it because I studied

and tired of the routine of being good

good good good lover mother nurse

housewife good cook good

good party manager

children good lawyer because I defend

to my son

good gps because he finds everything at home

I decide to go on vacation I say to my

husband

this year I want to go on vacation to a

hotel with spa has rested so that

nothing more than to paint me the

nails to be taken care of and husband of

a spa hotel we already do with the

bottles for but do not go to a

department that more like others

extended the mandate when we have the

guys play and there we are

being the first ones that we

we raised at breakfast

we prepare the sanguchitos to go to the

Beach

we do everything the same, the only thing that changes

is the stage and if we say something to me

they say that women who would like

be in everything

and so we spend our life not

always satisfying the desire of the

others and when we get around the

50 years we do not have a lot of

changes physical changes our body

it is rounded and nevertheless we put it to

gym to diet all because

we need to be skinny and young and

splendid to continue belonging

we also have emotional changes

our children leave home

that gives us a bit of anguish and also

we will be more the mask our our husband

and we also have sexual changes

my name is veronica have said yes

gynecologist almost 20 years ago and

this he heard it followed in the

doctor’s office I have no desire

sexual

I do not feel like it is with my husband is what

same have a point your husband I do not have

you care what he watered he gives the same

everything yes but I do not have desire and you what

do and nothing

fill up because he is poor man he

you need and that tells you the bonus is

all right

something happens to you because not to your doctor

so that a pill that has something does not

it’s normal what happens to you before was not

A) Yes

good is good or it will not be that you are

with another

it will not be that both with others not now

this height of my life I have I come

to find out in this way you like to walk

with another

no sir around 50 years

we have the cessation of menstruation and

that’s called menopause and that’s a

biological issue has nothing to do

with love

if we lose sexual desire a woman

he said now solve it all the

My husband’s nights put him to participate

to sleep in the cafe he took them

lovingly at night I stay in the

dining room making time and then I go to

the bed and so it does not bother me

I ask the gentlemen to close

the eyes a moment and imagine that in

the next 20 years

moon to eight times per month are going to do

something they do not want they do not feel like

that burns who bothers you but

you are going to do it

Of course they are going to do it

with it for the woman who loves not then

why do they believe that we and we should

do it because they believe that we do

we can do it but good calm

this has a solution

since the doctor has a solution

we can accompany the woman in this

new stage and the most important thing is that

we women must identify our

wishes

we must say what happens to us we must

tell what happens

we should try to generate agreements with

our couples

if so that we have a space of

choice that is satisfactory for

yes voice and I think we can do that

to achieve and to the ogando to converse it to us

we have to allow to express what

sorry

you do not know how good it is going to happen

many things

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