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hyah so hello ladies gentlemen and all

hyah so hello ladies gentlemen and all my friends in the queue si who checked

my friends in the queue si who checked

my friends in the queue si who checked the other box my name is Kiran ward I am

the other box my name is Kiran ward I am

the other box my name is Kiran ward I am a junior here at Mountain View High

a junior here at Mountain View High

a junior here at Mountain View High School and I’m here today because I

School and I’m here today because I

School and I’m here today because I think I have an idea worth spreading now

think I have an idea worth spreading now

think I have an idea worth spreading now I want to ask you all a question

I want to ask you all a question

I want to ask you all a question what do you think of when you hear the

what do you think of when you hear the

what do you think of when you hear the word change

word change

word change some people think of change for the

some people think of change for the

some people think of change for the better

better

better some people think of change for the

some people think of change for the

some people think of change for the worse

worse

worse some people think of changing for PE

some people think of changing for PE

some people think of changing for PE some people think of like you know that

some people think of like you know that

some people think of like you know that one older guy at the supermarket who’s

one older guy at the supermarket who’s

one older guy at the supermarket who’s like taking a really long time to like

like taking a really long time to like

like taking a really long time to like is taking a really long time and he’s

is taking a really long time and he’s

is taking a really long time and he’s just like fishing around in his pocket

just like fishing around in his pocket

just like fishing around in his pocket for change and like they have to open up

for change and like they have to open up

for change and like they have to open up 12 lanes behind all right let’s just

12 lanes behind all right let’s just

12 lanes behind all right let’s just stick with this whose so-called change

stick with this whose so-called change

stick with this whose so-called change for the better and change for the worse

for the better and change for the worse

for the better and change for the worse now I’m here today because some because

now I’m here today because some because

now I’m here today because some because people don’t really seem to realize that

people don’t really seem to realize that

people don’t really seem to realize that not all of this changed for the worse

not all of this changed for the worse

not all of this changed for the worse this stays as change for the worse to

this stays as change for the worse to

this stays as change for the worse to get more into it let I’m gonna tell you

get more into it let I’m gonna tell you

get more into it let I’m gonna tell you all a story let me take you back to 8th

all a story let me take you back to 8th

all a story let me take you back to 8th grade living in Menlo Park California

grade living in Menlo Park California

grade living in Menlo Park California going to Hill View middle school and

going to Hill View middle school and

going to Hill View middle school and looking fly as hell as usual

looking fly as hell as usual

looking fly as hell as usual I had a bunch of friends fun

I had a bunch of friends fun

I had a bunch of friends fun extracurricular activities and I thought

extracurricular activities and I thought

extracurricular activities and I thought everything would just be smooth sailing

everything would just be smooth sailing

everything would just be smooth sailing from here that is until one day my

from here that is until one day my

from here that is until one day my father told me that I would not be going

father told me that I would not be going

father told me that I would not be going to Menlo Atherton high school like I had

to Menlo Atherton high school like I had

to Menlo Atherton high school like I had planned instead he was forcing me to go

planned instead he was forcing me to go

planned instead he was forcing me to go to Mountain View and become educated at

to Mountain View and become educated at

to Mountain View and become educated at Mountain View High School all right I

Mountain View High School all right I

Mountain View High School all right I mean all right first of all this is

mean all right first of all this is

mean all right first of all this is literally ruining my life for like the

literally ruining my life for like the

literally ruining my life for like the rest of it even though all of my friends

rest of it even though all of my friends

rest of it even though all of my friends are like half an hour drive away I

are like half an hour drive away I

are like half an hour drive away I thought I would never see them again

thought I would never see them again

thought I would never see them again and yeah and also Mountain View High

and yeah and also Mountain View High

and yeah and also Mountain View High School how in our original of a name can

School how in our original of a name can

School how in our original of a name can you get all right I’ve never heard of

you get all right I’ve never heard of

you get all right I’ve never heard of anybody successful or cool coming out of

anybody successful or cool coming out of

anybody successful or cool coming out of Mountain View High School and worst of

Mountain View High School and worst of

Mountain View High School and worst of all I’ve never even been to Mountain

all I’ve never even been to Mountain

all I’ve never even been to Mountain View all right I I only knew like two

View all right I I only knew like two

View all right I I only knew like two people who had ever seen Mountain View

people who had ever seen Mountain View

people who had ever seen Mountain View so obviously this was the worst place

so obviously this was the worst place

so obviously this was the worst place forever times infinity

now as you may or may not be able to

now as you may or may not be able to tell I was a bit of a drama queen I at

tell I was a bit of a drama queen I at

tell I was a bit of a drama queen I at first I didn’t want to give mountain

first I didn’t want to give mountain

first I didn’t want to give mountain view its chance between being so being a

view its chance between being so being a

view its chance between being so being a socially awkward freshman put out of my

socially awkward freshman put out of my

socially awkward freshman put out of my element I thought I wouldn’t ever make

element I thought I wouldn’t ever make

element I thought I wouldn’t ever make friends again and it really doesn’t help

friends again and it really doesn’t help

friends again and it really doesn’t help when within the first few weeks of

when within the first few weeks of

when within the first few weeks of school you get your backpack texts and

school you get your backpack texts and

school you get your backpack texts and house search because they think you’re

house search because they think you’re

house search because they think you’re going to kill the passage of time itself

going to kill the passage of time itself

going to kill the passage of time itself but that’s a story for another day

but that’s a story for another day

but that’s a story for another day nope I kind of felt lost like friendless

nope I kind of felt lost like friendless

nope I kind of felt lost like friendless and pretty damn lonely that all changed

and pretty damn lonely that all changed

and pretty damn lonely that all changed though one day in room 420 miss goods

though one day in room 420 miss goods

though one day in room 420 miss goods room all right now the room is awesome

room all right now the room is awesome

room all right now the room is awesome enough with miss code in there but it’s

enough with miss code in there but it’s

enough with miss code in there but it’s made even better by the fact that every

made even better by the fact that every

made even better by the fact that every day a bunch of people gather to play

day a bunch of people gather to play

day a bunch of people gather to play super smash brothers melee on the

super smash brothers melee on the

super smash brothers melee on the Nintendo game now most of you know super

Nintendo game now most of you know super

Nintendo game now most of you know super smash brothers as that game that

smash brothers as that game that

smash brothers as that game that everyone had on their weak you know it

everyone had on their weak you know it

everyone had on their weak you know it has like Mario and like 400 other

has like Mario and like 400 other

has like Mario and like 400 other characters you never heard of oh you

characters you never heard of oh you

characters you never heard of oh you know that Meta Knight is like really

know that Meta Knight is like really

know that Meta Knight is like really good and Kirby has that one move that

good and Kirby has that one move that

good and Kirby has that one move that turns them into a rock that your little

turns them into a rock that your little

turns them into a rock that your little cousin always spans but what you may not

cousin always spans but what you may not

cousin always spans but what you may not know is that melee which is the second

know is that melee which is the second

know is that melee which is the second game in a series of four is

has a has a gigantic metagame millions

has a has a gigantic metagame millions of tournaments and play and players

of tournaments and play and players

of tournaments and play and players worldwide and some players so skilled

worldwide and some players so skilled

worldwide and some players so skilled they can take one of your lives without

they can take one of your lives without

they can take one of your lives without a second thought

a second thought

a second thought and I certainly didn’t know that going

and I certainly didn’t know that going

and I certainly didn’t know that going in I just thought of this as that older

in I just thought of this as that older

in I just thought of this as that older one that older version of that game that

one that older version of that game that

one that older version of that game that I kind of played a few times on my way

I kind of played a few times on my way

I kind of played a few times on my way so I watched this small group of people

so I watched this small group of people

so I watched this small group of people playing this 15 year old game on a

playing this 15 year old game on a

playing this 15 year old game on a console of the same age and I just

console of the same age and I just

console of the same age and I just watched and watched and watched and as I

watched and watched and watched and as I

watched and watched and watched and as I as I watch and as I watched these people

as I watch and as I watched these people

as I watch and as I watched these people play from Jared the amazing Foxx player

play from Jared the amazing Foxx player

play from Jared the amazing Foxx player to Lincoln the spammy peach and

to Lincoln the spammy peach and

to Lincoln the spammy peach and broadcasting zone thinker SAE Angeles

broadcasting zone thinker SAE Angeles

broadcasting zone thinker SAE Angeles usually one of them would just ask me do

usually one of them would just ask me do

usually one of them would just ask me do you want to play too

you want to play too

you want to play too so well usually I declined because I

so well usually I declined because I

so well usually I declined because I mean I was afraid of getting like beaten

mean I was afraid of getting like beaten

mean I was afraid of getting like beaten so bad that my parents would disown me

so bad that my parents would disown me

so bad that my parents would disown me or something I I was afraid I was way

or something I I was afraid I was way

or something I I was afraid I was way too afraid of losing to give it a chance

too afraid of losing to give it a chance

too afraid of losing to give it a chance so I just kind of sat on the sidelines

so I just kind of sat on the sidelines

so I just kind of sat on the sidelines and watched but one day I just kind of

and watched but one day I just kind of

and watched but one day I just kind of started thinking nobody gets anywhere in

started thinking nobody gets anywhere in

started thinking nobody gets anywhere in life by just sitting around doing

life by just sitting around doing

life by just sitting around doing nothing if you don’t try you have no

nothing if you don’t try you have no

nothing if you don’t try you have no chance of succeeding but if you lose you

chance of succeeding but if you lose you

chance of succeeding but if you lose you still gain new experiences from it like

still gain new experiences from it like

still gain new experiences from it like Wayne Gretzky said you miss a hundred

Wayne Gretzky said you miss a hundred

Wayne Gretzky said you miss a hundred percent of the shots you don’t take

percent of the shots you don’t take

percent of the shots you don’t take and I mean Lance Armstrong wasn’t the

and I mean Lance Armstrong wasn’t the

and I mean Lance Armstrong wasn’t the first man on the mood by doing nothing

first man on the mood by doing nothing

first man on the mood by doing nothing he wrote the eye of a dream speech and

he wrote the eye of a dream speech and

he wrote the eye of a dream speech and freed the slaves making him the first

freed the slaves making him the first

freed the slaves making him the first man on Mars yes I did fail freshman

man on Mars yes I did fail freshman

man on Mars yes I did fail freshman history how did you know so on that

history how did you know so on that

history how did you know so on that particular day someone asked me as usual

particular day someone asked me as usual

particular day someone asked me as usual if I wanted to play next game and think

if I wanted to play next game and think

if I wanted to play next game and think back on the idea of how I wouldn’t

back on the idea of how I wouldn’t

back on the idea of how I wouldn’t change if I didn’t try I finally

change if I didn’t try I finally

change if I didn’t try I finally responded with yes now I was finally

responded with yes now I was finally

responded with yes now I was finally ready I had seen many of the characters

ready I had seen many of the characters

ready I had seen many of the characters and time in my time watching them play

and time in my time watching them play

and time in my time watching them play and

and

and I thought Samus sounds pretty easy so I

I thought Samus sounds pretty easy so I

I thought Samus sounds pretty easy so I decided to go with her and with that we

decided to go with her and with that we

decided to go with her and with that we hopped into the match simply by pressing

hopped into the match simply by pressing

hopped into the match simply by pressing the a button unsurprisingly I got my ass

the a button unsurprisingly I got my ass

the a button unsurprisingly I got my ass kicked

kicked

kicked chopped cooked and handed back to me on

chopped cooked and handed back to me on

chopped cooked and handed back to me on a silver platter apparently people who

a silver platter apparently people who

a silver platter apparently people who three people who play this game every

three people who play this game every

three people who play this game every day of their life somehow managed to

day of their life somehow managed to

day of their life somehow managed to beat a first-time player but I was not

beat a first-time player but I was not

beat a first-time player but I was not deterred I kept playing and playing and

deterred I kept playing and playing and

deterred I kept playing and playing and playing and losing and losing and losing

playing and losing and losing and losing

playing and losing and losing and losing and losing and but I like played this

and losing and but I like played this

and losing and but I like played this game I started to a death I started to

game I started to a death I started to

game I started to a death I started to adjust I started to learn how to get

adjust I started to learn how to get

adjust I started to learn how to get better for instance I learned that knew

better for instance I learned that knew

better for instance I learned that knew that that B wasn’t the only button you

that that B wasn’t the only button you

that that B wasn’t the only button you could press to do attacks new attacks

could press to do attacks new attacks

could press to do attacks new attacks were as simple as press o press oh no no

were as simple as press o press oh no no

were as simple as press o press oh no no no well that my slides are all up

no well that my slides are all up

no well that my slides are all up pressing the a button to get better I

pressing the a button to get better I

pressing the a button to get better I had to change an idea that free freshman

had to change an idea that free freshman

had to change an idea that free freshman me would have hated and one of the

me would have hated and one of the

me would have hated and one of the greatest things of this experience is as

greatest things of this experience is as

greatest things of this experience is as I fell in love with this game it started

I fell in love with this game it started

I fell in love with this game it started to open up new op and new opportunities

to open up new op and new opportunities

to open up new op and new opportunities and make me Pete and meet and socialize

and make me Pete and meet and socialize

and make me Pete and meet and socialize with people that I never even knew

with people that I never even knew

with people that I never even knew existed

existed

existed alright I want you all to raise your

alright I want you all to raise your

alright I want you all to raise your hand if you have ever became super close

hand if you have ever became super close

hand if you have ever became super close friends with someone because of like a

friends with someone because of like a

friends with someone because of like a single thing you had in common a lot of

single thing you had in common a lot of

single thing you had in common a lot of you see it’s quite a common thing like

you see it’s quite a common thing like

you see it’s quite a common thing like for instance one of my best friends ever

for instance one of my best friends ever

for instance one of my best friends ever since second grade became my friend

since second grade became my friend

since second grade became my friend because I told him about World of

because I told him about World of

because I told him about World of Warcraft all right and one of em and one

Warcraft all right and one of em and one

Warcraft all right and one of em and one of my friends that go to this school we

of my friends that go to this school we

of my friends that go to this school we became fret one of the main reasons we

became fret one of the main reasons we

became fret one of the main reasons we became friends was through our love of

became friends was through our love of

became friends was through our love of acting and hatred for eight frames of

acting and hatred for eight frames of

acting and hatred for eight frames of input lag it’s only only a few of what

input lag it’s only only a few of what

input lag it’s only only a few of what you will get that joke I’m sorry about

you will get that joke I’m sorry about

you will get that joke I’m sorry about that

that

that as I fell in love with the game it gave

as I fell in love with the game it gave

as I fell in love with the game it gave me new opportunities and access to more

me new opportunities and access to more

me new opportunities and access to more friendships and it all started with a

friendships and it all started with a

friendships and it all started with a party game

party game

party game from 2001 so by now you’re probably

from 2001 so by now you’re probably

from 2001 so by now you’re probably thinking kiri what is this hot talk have

thinking kiri what is this hot talk have

thinking kiri what is this hot talk have to do with me

to do with me

to do with me also you’re incredibly attractive and I

also you’re incredibly attractive and I

also you’re incredibly attractive and I want to go on a date with you to which I

want to go on a date with you to which I

want to go on a date with you to which I say to which I say I am thank you for

say to which I say I am thank you for

say to which I say I am thank you for noticing but I kind of want to get to

noticing but I kind of want to get to

noticing but I kind of want to get to the main point of this talk I want to

the main point of this talk I want to

the main point of this talk I want to tell you now that the reason I’ve been

tell you now that the reason I’ve been

tell you now that the reason I’ve been rambling for at you for eight straight

rambling for at you for eight straight

rambling for at you for eight straight minutes is because I want to get is

minutes is because I want to get is

minutes is because I want to get is because I want to give you a message

because I want to give you a message

because I want to give you a message friends can come and friends can go

friends can come and friends can go

friends can come and friends can go making making friends is it can be easy

making making friends is it can be easy

making making friends is it can be easy as just starting a conversation and

as just starting a conversation and

as just starting a conversation and finding a common point friends and if

finding a common point friends and if

finding a common point friends and if friends go don’t be discouraged because

friends go don’t be discouraged because

friends go don’t be discouraged because everyone changes and sometimes people

everyone changes and sometimes people

everyone changes and sometimes people change into things that may or may not

change into things that may or may not

change into things that may or may not be compatible with you so well one

be compatible with you so well one

be compatible with you so well one friend may change into someone who’s not

friend may change into someone who’s not

friend may change into someone who’s not compatible maybe another person’s

compatible maybe another person’s

compatible maybe another person’s changed into someone who you’d really

changed into someone who you’d really

changed into someone who you’d really like friends don’t become discouraged

like friends don’t become discouraged

like friends don’t become discouraged when something changes instead keep an

when something changes instead keep an

when something changes instead keep an open mind because just letting yourself

open mind because just letting yourself

open mind because just letting yourself be changed is one of the greatest

be changed is one of the greatest

be changed is one of the greatest possible things you can do I found out

possible things you can do I found out

possible things you can do I found out from coming to the school that change

from coming to the school that change

from coming to the school that change can lead you to places that you’ve never

can lead you to places that you’ve never

can lead you to places that you’ve never imagined like falling in love with a

imagined like falling in love with a

imagined like falling in love with a 2001 party game developed by nintendo

2001 party game developed by nintendo

2001 party game developed by nintendo entertainment in Hal laboratories or

entertainment in Hal laboratories or

entertainment in Hal laboratories or when your dad asks you if you want to be

when your dad asks you if you want to be

when your dad asks you if you want to be in a play in third grade and you just

in a play in third grade and you just

in a play in third grade and you just say yes

change can lead you down hundreds of

change can lead you down hundreds of different roads some and sometimes just

different roads some and sometimes just

different roads some and sometimes just it just helps to let it come to you

it just helps to let it come to you

it just helps to let it come to you even philosophers who are thought to be

even philosophers who are thought to be

even philosophers who are thought to be some of the smartest minds in history

some of the smartest minds in history

some of the smartest minds in history have made a ton of comments on this

have made a ton of comments on this

have made a ton of comments on this whether they’re recent or ancient chain

whether they’re recent or ancient chain

whether they’re recent or ancient chain starts and change ends things from the

starts and change ends things from the

starts and change ends things from the game from a game of hopscotch on the

game from a game of hopscotch on the

game from a game of hopscotch on the street to the mightiest empires and

street to the mightiest empires and

street to the mightiest empires and civilizations of the entire history of

civilizations of the entire history of

civilizations of the entire history of the world change is a natural part of

the world change is a natural part of

the world change is a natural part of life and it will happen to you I was

life and it will happen to you I was

life and it will happen to you I was changed in so many great ways from

changed in so many great ways from

changed in so many great ways from coming to this school meeting friends

coming to this school meeting friends

coming to this school meeting friends discovering a new favorite hobby and

discovering a new favorite hobby and

discovering a new favorite hobby and even getting to talk in front of a crowd

even getting to talk in front of a crowd

even getting to talk in front of a crowd vote people at a TEDx event and that all

vote people at a TEDx event and that all

vote people at a TEDx event and that all started simply by pressing the a button

started simply by pressing the a button

started simply by pressing the a button thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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