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[Applause] I remember I was once ready to go up on

I remember I was once ready to go up on

I remember I was once ready to go up on stage just like today and my heart was

stage just like today and my heart was

stage just like today and my heart was really beating hard my palms were sweaty

really beating hard my palms were sweaty

really beating hard my palms were sweaty and I was wondering if I can ever

and I was wondering if I can ever

and I was wondering if I can ever breathe I was about to go on stage for a

breathe I was about to go on stage for a

breathe I was about to go on stage for a play that I had worked really hard I was

play that I had worked really hard I was

play that I had worked really hard I was ready to perform but I could not think

ready to perform but I could not think

ready to perform but I could not think of the last five months all I could

of the last five months all I could

of the last five months all I could think of was that one moment of over and

think of was that one moment of over and

think of was that one moment of over and over thinking if this is gonna work well

over thinking if this is gonna work well

over thinking if this is gonna work well what I did not realize I did was I

what I did not realize I did was I

what I did not realize I did was I raised my right hand up I crossed my

raised my right hand up I crossed my

raised my right hand up I crossed my fingers behind my back and I wished for

fingers behind my back and I wished for

fingers behind my back and I wished for luck – really bestow upon me I wish for

luck – really bestow upon me I wish for

luck – really bestow upon me I wish for that play to have been absolutely

that play to have been absolutely

that play to have been absolutely awesome

awesome

awesome and it was the play was brilliant but

and it was the play was brilliant but

and it was the play was brilliant but what I didn’t realize I was doing was I

what I didn’t realize I was doing was I

what I didn’t realize I was doing was I was counting on my very own ritual have

was counting on my very own ritual have

was counting on my very own ritual have you ever witnessed yourself have a

you ever witnessed yourself have a

you ever witnessed yourself have a ritual have you ever prepared for

ritual have you ever prepared for

ritual have you ever prepared for something that was really important for

something that was really important for

something that was really important for you have you ever gone in for let’s say

you have you ever gone in for let’s say

you have you ever gone in for let’s say an interview and part of the company you

an interview and part of the company you

an interview and part of the company you would have prepared about the background

would have prepared about the background

would have prepared about the background of the company about where you want to

of the company about where you want to

of the company about where you want to go about what package you want you would

go about what package you want you would

go about what package you want you would have done everything that you could have

have done everything that you could have

have done everything that you could have thought of in that very moment also

thought of in that very moment also

thought of in that very moment also ensure that you’ve gotten a good night’s

ensure that you’ve gotten a good night’s

ensure that you’ve gotten a good night’s sleep you would have woken in the

sleep you would have woken in the

sleep you would have woken in the morning and you would have probably

morning and you would have probably

morning and you would have probably indulged into something that would sound

indulged into something that would sound

indulged into something that would sound as familiar as this would you have

as familiar as this would you have

as familiar as this would you have probably tried sweet curd before you

probably tried sweet curd before you

probably tried sweet curd before you left your home or ensured that you don’t

left your home or ensured that you don’t

left your home or ensured that you don’t leave your home when the clock strikes

leave your home when the clock strikes

leave your home when the clock strikes 12:00 or even played the classic Phoebe

12:00 or even played the classic Phoebe

12:00 or even played the classic Phoebe Buffay of taking some salt and putting

Buffay of taking some salt and putting

Buffay of taking some salt and putting it behind you

it behind you

it behind you all of it hoping for you to bring in

all of it hoping for you to bring in

all of it hoping for you to bring in some luck for you to overcome that heart

some luck for you to overcome that heart

some luck for you to overcome that heart beating really really really fast for

beating really really really fast for

beating really really really fast for you to overcome that four-letter word

you to overcome that four-letter word

you to overcome that four-letter word called fear well I know that each one of

called fear well I know that each one of

called fear well I know that each one of us often indulge into these rituals the

us often indulge into these rituals the

us often indulge into these rituals the question is what is the deeper meaning

question is what is the deeper meaning

question is what is the deeper meaning of these rituals

of these rituals

of these rituals I ever thought why do you indulge into

I ever thought why do you indulge into

I ever thought why do you indulge into these rituals is it to calm your nerves

these rituals is it to calm your nerves

these rituals is it to calm your nerves down is it to overcome the fear that you

down is it to overcome the fear that you

down is it to overcome the fear that you are feeling at that moment or is it to

are feeling at that moment or is it to

are feeling at that moment or is it to bring in some good luck

bring in some good luck

bring in some good luck most of us knowingly or mindlessly

most of us knowingly or mindlessly

most of us knowingly or mindlessly indulge into these rituals at some point

indulge into these rituals at some point

indulge into these rituals at some point or another most of us are scared at some

or another most of us are scared at some

or another most of us are scared at some point or another the question is is it

point or another the question is is it

point or another the question is is it okay to let fear overcome the situation

okay to let fear overcome the situation

okay to let fear overcome the situation and you or is it important to find a way

and you or is it important to find a way

and you or is it important to find a way to have overcome that fear about 10

to have overcome that fear about 10

to have overcome that fear about 10 years ago I remember I was working a

years ago I remember I was working a

years ago I remember I was working a similar path as each one of you was

similar path as each one of you was

similar path as each one of you was about 10 years ago I was in search of

about 10 years ago I was in search of

about 10 years ago I was in search of that ritual a ritual that would give me

that ritual a ritual that would give me

that ritual a ritual that would give me strength a ritual that would give me

strength a ritual that would give me

strength a ritual that would give me courage a ritual that would tell me

courage a ritual that would tell me

courage a ritual that would tell me really you know what you are safe a

really you know what you are safe a

really you know what you are safe a ritual that at that point of time I did

ritual that at that point of time I did

ritual that at that point of time I did not know had the power to change

not know had the power to change

not know had the power to change everything for me and then I found my

everything for me and then I found my

everything for me and then I found my ritual my ritual is called a ritual 108

ritual my ritual is called a ritual 108

ritual my ritual is called a ritual 108 what is ritual 108 first of August it’s

what is ritual 108 first of August it’s

what is ritual 108 first of August it’s the day that I was born every single

the day that I was born every single

the day that I was born every single year I have indulged into a ritual on

year I have indulged into a ritual on

year I have indulged into a ritual on the day that I was born and what I call

the day that I was born and what I call

the day that I was born and what I call it I call it my birdly ritual now my

it I call it my birdly ritual now my

it I call it my birdly ritual now my birthday ritual had experiments like a

birthday ritual had experiments like a

birthday ritual had experiments like a trek in the Himalayas or a bungee jump

trek in the Himalayas or a bungee jump

trek in the Himalayas or a bungee jump in Thailand a quad biking at the by

in Thailand a quad biking at the by

in Thailand a quad biking at the by surfing at Bali or let us say scuba

surfing at Bali or let us say scuba

surfing at Bali or let us say scuba diving at Maldives or did it have

diving at Maldives or did it have

diving at Maldives or did it have snorkeling zipline zorbing horse riding

snorkeling zipline zorbing horse riding

snorkeling zipline zorbing horse riding now each one of you would say Ronnie

now each one of you would say Ronnie

now each one of you would say Ronnie wait those words don’t sound like a

wait those words don’t sound like a

wait those words don’t sound like a ritual

ritual

ritual whoever said rituals had to be

whoever said rituals had to be

whoever said rituals had to be traditional or sacred while each of

traditional or sacred while each of

traditional or sacred while each of these ritual offbeat has

these ritual offbeat has

these ritual offbeat has given me immense strength to move and go

given me immense strength to move and go

given me immense strength to move and go and be where I am today

and be where I am today

and be where I am today I remember my bungee jump in Thailand

I remember my bungee jump in Thailand

I remember my bungee jump in Thailand people would often say the droney these

people would often say the droney these

people would often say the droney these rituals are insane and I would probably

rituals are insane and I would probably

rituals are insane and I would probably agree with them

agree with them

agree with them insanity is something that each one of

insanity is something that each one of

insanity is something that each one of us indulge into at some point or another

us indulge into at some point or another

us indulge into at some point or another but well I have been known to always try

but well I have been known to always try

but well I have been known to always try doing the impossible but it did not

doing the impossible but it did not

doing the impossible but it did not sound that exciting when I stood there

sound that exciting when I stood there

sound that exciting when I stood there and I spoke to myself you’ve got to be

and I spoke to myself you’ve got to be

and I spoke to myself you’ve got to be insane you’re standing six hundred feet

insane you’re standing six hundred feet

insane you’re standing six hundred feet high just about to take that jump and

high just about to take that jump and

high just about to take that jump and I’m looking down and I’m saying oh my

I’m looking down and I’m saying oh my

I’m looking down and I’m saying oh my god what if the rope snapped but Roni

god what if the rope snapped but Roni

god what if the rope snapped but Roni you’ve got to see this through this is

you’ve got to see this through this is

you’ve got to see this through this is after all a ritual that’s me by the way

after all a ritual that’s me by the way

after all a ritual that’s me by the way I remember on the Himalayas when I took

I remember on the Himalayas when I took

I remember on the Himalayas when I took every single step to reach twenty two

every single step to reach twenty two

every single step to reach twenty two thousand nine hundred and forty three

thousand nine hundred and forty three

thousand nine hundred and forty three feet high I remember the last few steps

feet high I remember the last few steps

feet high I remember the last few steps that would have put me on the top of the

that would have put me on the top of the

that would have put me on the top of the mountain those last few steps spoke to

mountain those last few steps spoke to

mountain those last few steps spoke to me lonely you’ve gotta be insane cuz

me lonely you’ve gotta be insane cuz

me lonely you’ve gotta be insane cuz what if I slipped but you’ve got to see

what if I slipped but you’ve got to see

what if I slipped but you’ve got to see it through because this is a ritual I

it through because this is a ritual I

it through because this is a ritual I remember going to Maldives and diving

remember going to Maldives and diving

remember going to Maldives and diving deep diving about 100 feet deep and 100

deep diving about 100 feet deep and 100

deep diving about 100 feet deep and 100 feet deep I remember asking myself what

feet deep I remember asking myself what

feet deep I remember asking myself what if I drown but Roni you’ve got to see

if I drown but Roni you’ve got to see

if I drown but Roni you’ve got to see this true because this is a ritual I

this true because this is a ritual I

this true because this is a ritual I remember going to Bali and surfing

remember going to Bali and surfing

remember going to Bali and surfing looking for the highest tide and then

looking for the highest tide and then

looking for the highest tide and then using every ounce of my strength

using every ounce of my strength

using every ounce of my strength to beat that tide and balance on that

to beat that tide and balance on that

to beat that tide and balance on that surfboard at that point of time I was

surfboard at that point of time I was

surfboard at that point of time I was thinking are you insane

thinking are you insane

thinking are you insane but Roni you’ve gotta see this through

but Roni you’ve gotta see this through

but Roni you’ve gotta see this through because this is a rich world I remember

because this is a rich world I remember

because this is a rich world I remember every single time that I have indulged

every single time that I have indulged

every single time that I have indulged in one of these ritual

in one of these ritual

in one of these ritual I remember the sand acting a storm me

I remember the sand acting a storm me

I remember the sand acting a storm me during my quadbiking I remember the

during my quadbiking I remember the

during my quadbiking I remember the water acting as crazy during my surfing

water acting as crazy during my surfing

water acting as crazy during my surfing I remember the horse being wilder than

I remember the horse being wilder than

I remember the horse being wilder than my appetite to ride it I remember every

my appetite to ride it I remember every

my appetite to ride it I remember every single time that I decided to play one

single time that I decided to play one

single time that I decided to play one of my rituals I ask myself am i insane

of my rituals I ask myself am i insane

of my rituals I ask myself am i insane at that point of time when the insanity

at that point of time when the insanity

at that point of time when the insanity indulged over and over and over again

indulged over and over and over again

indulged over and over and over again helped me overcome something that runs

helped me overcome something that runs

helped me overcome something that runs in each of our mind over and over and

in each of our mind over and over and

in each of our mind over and over and over again it helps each one of us

over again it helps each one of us

over again it helps each one of us eliminate fear fear that often told you

eliminate fear fear that often told you

eliminate fear fear that often told you that you couldn’t you wouldn’t you

that you couldn’t you wouldn’t you

that you couldn’t you wouldn’t you shouldn’t why should you what if you

shouldn’t why should you what if you

shouldn’t why should you what if you fail what if you cannot move ahead what

fail what if you cannot move ahead what

fail what if you cannot move ahead what if this is the end of it what if and

if this is the end of it what if and

if this is the end of it what if and that what has never lets each one of us

that what has never lets each one of us

that what has never lets each one of us move to the real destiny that each one

move to the real destiny that each one

move to the real destiny that each one of us are designed for a fear that often

of us are designed for a fear that often

of us are designed for a fear that often spoke to me when I walked and whispered

spoke to me when I walked and whispered

spoke to me when I walked and whispered in my ear when I talked but what I did

in my ear when I talked but what I did

in my ear when I talked but what I did not know at that point of time was the

not know at that point of time was the

not know at that point of time was the power of my ritual what I did not know

power of my ritual what I did not know

power of my ritual what I did not know was that that one jump would on that day

was that that one jump would on that day

was that that one jump would on that day teach me

teach me

teach me what it is to be courageous what I did

what it is to be courageous what I did

what it is to be courageous what I did not know at that point of time that

not know at that point of time that

not know at that point of time that those last steps on the Himalaya would

those last steps on the Himalaya would

those last steps on the Himalaya would teach me persistence what I did not know

teach me persistence what I did not know

teach me persistence what I did not know at that point of time that that surfing

at that point of time that that surfing

at that point of time that that surfing and that paragliding and that scuba dive

and that paragliding and that scuba dive

and that paragliding and that scuba dive would teach me strength what I did not

would teach me strength what I did not

would teach me strength what I did not know ladies and gentlemen was the fact

know ladies and gentlemen was the fact

know ladies and gentlemen was the fact that every single time you play your

that every single time you play your

that every single time you play your ritual the way I’ve been playing it for

ritual the way I’ve been playing it for

ritual the way I’ve been playing it for the last ten years will teach you

the last ten years will teach you

the last ten years will teach you how to beat Phil so if you are sitting

how to beat Phil so if you are sitting

how to beat Phil so if you are sitting here today I’m gonna ask you what is

here today I’m gonna ask you what is

here today I’m gonna ask you what is that

that

that offbeat fear of yours and what is that

offbeat fear of yours and what is that

offbeat fear of yours and what is that offbeat ritual of yours have you ever

offbeat ritual of yours have you ever

offbeat ritual of yours have you ever said and done something absolutely crazy

said and done something absolutely crazy

said and done something absolutely crazy have you ever said and had a

have you ever said and had a

have you ever said and had a conversation with yourself have you ever

conversation with yourself have you ever

conversation with yourself have you ever said and understood the real power of

said and understood the real power of

said and understood the real power of your ritual have you ever thought why is

your ritual have you ever thought why is

your ritual have you ever thought why is it that you cannot do what you are meant

it that you cannot do what you are meant

it that you cannot do what you are meant to do have you ever thought how

to do have you ever thought how

to do have you ever thought how beautiful your mind is designed to

beautiful your mind is designed to

beautiful your mind is designed to overcome every single instance when it

overcome every single instance when it

overcome every single instance when it has topped you have you ever thought

has topped you have you ever thought

has topped you have you ever thought that is the same mind that holds fear

that is the same mind that holds fear

that is the same mind that holds fear also holds the strength to overpower

also holds the strength to overpower

also holds the strength to overpower your very fear have you ever thought of

your very fear have you ever thought of

your very fear have you ever thought of unleashing yourself if you have then

unleashing yourself if you have then

unleashing yourself if you have then let’s start it at will now well I take

let’s start it at will now well I take

let’s start it at will now well I take this candle and place it in my hand why

this candle and place it in my hand why

this candle and place it in my hand why don’t you put your right hand out go on

don’t you put your right hand out go on

don’t you put your right hand out go on put your right hand out and when I light

put your right hand out and when I light

put your right hand out and when I light this flame why don’t each one of you

this flame why don’t each one of you

this flame why don’t each one of you imagine the flame lighting in your very

imagine the flame lighting in your very

imagine the flame lighting in your very hands

so what I would like you to do is I

so what I would like you to do is I would like you to imagine this flame on

would like you to imagine this flame on

would like you to imagine this flame on your palm and I would like you to have a

your palm and I would like you to have a

your palm and I would like you to have a conversation with this flame and I would

conversation with this flame and I would

conversation with this flame and I would like you to believe that if someone else

like you to believe that if someone else

like you to believe that if someone else standing here can then what can you not

standing here can then what can you not

standing here can then what can you not and every time you do that ask yourself

and every time you do that ask yourself

and every time you do that ask yourself are you ready to unleash the Warrior

are you ready to unleash the Warrior

are you ready to unleash the Warrior Within are you ready to witness the

Within are you ready to witness the

Within are you ready to witness the power of ritual are you ready for

power of ritual are you ready for

power of ritual are you ready for yourself to be you so go home today and

yourself to be you so go home today and

yourself to be you so go home today and think of that one ritual that is very

think of that one ritual that is very

think of that one ritual that is very very very close to your heart

very very close to your heart

very very close to your heart one ritual that need not necessarily be

one ritual that need not necessarily be

one ritual that need not necessarily be traditional or sacred but a ritual that

traditional or sacred but a ritual that

traditional or sacred but a ritual that will help you redefine you thank you

will help you redefine you thank you

will help you redefine you thank you [Applause]

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