today in this room a lot of people are going to get offended so small
going to get offended so small
going to get offended so small disclaimer to all of them the world is
disclaimer to all of them the world is
disclaimer to all of them the world is not black and white but all the colors
not black and white but all the colors
not black and white but all the colors of the rainbow today I am dressed up as
of the rainbow today I am dressed up as
of the rainbow today I am dressed up as Shiva and Shakti because Indian
Shiva and Shakti because Indian
Shiva and Shakti because Indian mythology talks about it as the ideal
mythology talks about it as the ideal
mythology talks about it as the ideal form of equal ism between a man and a
form of equal ism between a man and a
form of equal ism between a man and a woman today it’s not about feminism it’s
woman today it’s not about feminism it’s
woman today it’s not about feminism it’s about equal ism about all the colors of
about equal ism about all the colors of
about equal ism about all the colors of the rainbow how many of you must have
the rainbow how many of you must have
the rainbow how many of you must have seen an alpha male like a typical mother
seen an alpha male like a typical mother
seen an alpha male like a typical mother hindi may K Thomas I’m Marco Darden
hindi may K Thomas I’m Marco Darden
hindi may K Thomas I’m Marco Darden Anita that is a myth that does not exist
Anita that is a myth that does not exist
Anita that is a myth that does not exist there is nothing like a hundred percent
there is nothing like a hundred percent
there is nothing like a hundred percent man or a hundred percent woman this they
man or a hundred percent woman this they
man or a hundred percent woman this they can be eighty percent man and twenty
can be eighty percent man and twenty
can be eighty percent man and twenty percent of feminine energy in everyone
percent of feminine energy in everyone
percent of feminine energy in everyone all of you in this room have a feminine
all of you in this room have a feminine
all of you in this room have a feminine energy inside of you some have it more
energy inside of you some have it more
energy inside of you some have it more and some have it less you might find a
and some have it less you might find a
and some have it less you might find a girly girl on one end but on the other
girly girl on one end but on the other
girly girl on one end but on the other you find a tomboy you might find a woman
you find a tomboy you might find a woman
you find a tomboy you might find a woman who has facial hair that’s how God made
who has facial hair that’s how God made
who has facial hair that’s how God made her unique but that doesn’t mean she’s
her unique but that doesn’t mean she’s
her unique but that doesn’t mean she’s not a woman she does not have feminine
not a woman she does not have feminine
not a woman she does not have feminine energy inside of her this feminine
energy inside of her this feminine
energy inside of her this feminine energy allows us to empathize more
energy allows us to empathize more
energy allows us to empathize more create more
create more
create more and even have a wider perspective all of
and even have a wider perspective all of
and even have a wider perspective all of you must have this one uncle in your
you must have this one uncle in your
you must have this one uncle in your family who must have used this line that
family who must have used this line that
family who must have used this line that this does not happen in our time like
this does not happen in our time like
this does not happen in our time like hamare time pay asana he mutata
hamare time pay asana he mutata
hamare time pay asana he mutata a common compliment comment most of the
a common compliment comment most of the
a common compliment comment most of the girls over here get are you going out
girls over here get are you going out
girls over here get are you going out dressed like this and this uncle would
dressed like this and this uncle would
dressed like this and this uncle would turn up our daughters are always fully
turn up our daughters are always fully
turn up our daughters are always fully covered whereas our men are always
covered whereas our men are always
covered whereas our men are always portraying their body a second comment
portraying their body a second comment
portraying their body a second comment which most of the girls get are you
which most of the girls get are you
which most of the girls get are you drinking or do you drink and this uncle
drinking or do you drink and this uncle
drinking or do you drink and this uncle would turn up our girls they don’t drink
would turn up our girls they don’t drink
would turn up our girls they don’t drink but I men are always hung over at one
but I men are always hung over at one
but I men are always hung over at one place or another and the most common one
place or another and the most common one
place or another and the most common one do you have boyfriends are girls no boys
do you have boyfriends are girls no boys
do you have boyfriends are girls no boys but are men playboys
but are men playboys
but are men playboys a very common comment so I was in the US
a very common comment so I was in the US
a very common comment so I was in the US this year and I attended something
this year and I attended something
this year and I attended something called as a pride parade and there I got
called as a pride parade and there I got
called as a pride parade and there I got something which I call which they call
something which I call which they call
something which I call which they call as a pride shades and suddenly
as a pride shades and suddenly
as a pride shades and suddenly everything changed because at that
everything changed because at that
everything changed because at that moment I realize the world is not black
moment I realize the world is not black
moment I realize the world is not black and white it’s all the colors of the
and white it’s all the colors of the
and white it’s all the colors of the rainbow so please whenever you meet this
rainbow so please whenever you meet this
rainbow so please whenever you meet this uncle of yours
uncle of yours
uncle of yours please hold both of your hands and tell
please hold both of your hands and tell
please hold both of your hands and tell him that the world is changing that
him that the world is changing that
him that the world is changing that women are not only leaving their house
women are not only leaving their house
women are not only leaving their house their cities their countries but they
their cities their countries but they
their cities their countries but they have left the planet as well they have
have left the planet as well they have
have left the planet as well they have gone into space our soul does not have a
gone into space our soul does not have a
gone into space our soul does not have a gender it’s not male or female No
gender it’s not male or female No
gender it’s not male or female No it has only one gender that’s human the
it has only one gender that’s human the
it has only one gender that’s human the future does not lie in the domination of
future does not lie in the domination of
future does not lie in the domination of one gender over another but in the
one gender over another but in the
one gender over another but in the fusion of both the genders working women
fusion of both the genders working women
fusion of both the genders working women metrosexual men gender fluid fashion
metrosexual men gender fluid fashion
metrosexual men gender fluid fashion house husbands and even pregnant men
house husbands and even pregnant men
house husbands and even pregnant men ladies and gentlemen these are not
ladies and gentlemen these are not
ladies and gentlemen these are not innovations no but just cause of less
innovations no but just cause of less
innovations no but just cause of less censorship of the media and more
censorship of the media and more
censorship of the media and more Connection we are able to see all these
Connection we are able to see all these
Connection we are able to see all these possibilities which always existed in
possibilities which always existed in
possibilities which always existed in our society the purpose of life is to
our society the purpose of life is to
our society the purpose of life is to create something that outlasts it human
create something that outlasts it human
create something that outlasts it human animals can only create babies but
animals can only create babies but
animals can only create babies but humans can create their art form music
humans can create their art form music
humans can create their art form music company building whatever they want they
company building whatever they want they
company building whatever they want they can create them and for this we don’t
can create them and for this we don’t
can create them and for this we don’t just need laws no we need a gender-fluid
just need laws no we need a gender-fluid
just need laws no we need a gender-fluid system most of you must be thinking how
system most of you must be thinking how
system most of you must be thinking how is it possible how when I was born my
is it possible how when I was born my
is it possible how when I was born my grandparents wanted a girl at that
grandparents wanted a girl at that
grandparents wanted a girl at that moment I was rejected at birth and I
moment I was rejected at birth and I
moment I was rejected at birth and I realized how a woman actually feels
realized how a woman actually feels
realized how a woman actually feels being rejected at birth rape a very
being rejected at birth rape a very
being rejected at birth rape a very common topic nowadays but as men we will
common topic nowadays but as men we will
common topic nowadays but as men we will never be able to empathize it a woman
never be able to empathize it a woman
never be able to empathize it a woman being raped by four men is a serious
being raped by four men is a serious
being raped by four men is a serious issue but a man being raped by four
issue but a man being raped by four
issue but a man being raped by four women is still a joke we’ll never be
women is still a joke we’ll never be
women is still a joke we’ll never be able to understand and in return the
able to understand and in return the
able to understand and in return the argument which we give is that cause
argument which we give is that cause
argument which we give is that cause you’re wearing short clothes or you’re
you’re wearing short clothes or you’re
you’re wearing short clothes or you’re going out in the night that’s why you
going out in the night that’s why you
going out in the night that’s why you got raped so next time if somebody gives
got raped so next time if somebody gives
got raped so next time if somebody gives you this comment I want all of you in
you this comment I want all of you in
you this comment I want all of you in this room to do this to them one hand
this room to do this to them one hand
this room to do this to them one hand like this I want everyone to have their
like this I want everyone to have their
like this I want everyone to have their right hands like this right hand like
right hands like this right hand like
right hands like this right hand like this and left one like this
this and left one like this
this and left one like this in sign language it’s called or
in sign language it’s called or
in sign language it’s called or goober yes why am I saying this most of
goober yes why am I saying this most of
goober yes why am I saying this most of you must be thinking last year I was
you must be thinking last year I was
you must be thinking last year I was attending an event when a man came up to
attending an event when a man came up to
attending an event when a man came up to me and it was daytime and he flattered
me and it was daytime and he flattered
me and it was daytime and he flattered me with his compliments literally
me with his compliments literally
me with his compliments literally flattered me and the next moment he told
flattered me and the next moment he told
flattered me and the next moment he told me oh god can I sit with you during the
me oh god can I sit with you during the
me oh god can I sit with you during the event I was like great please do during
event I was like great please do during
event I was like great please do during the event his hand was on my tie he kept
the event his hand was on my tie he kept
the event his hand was on my tie he kept on caressing it and I kept on telling
on caressing it and I kept on telling
on caressing it and I kept on telling him sir I’m not interested in men sorry
him sir I’m not interested in men sorry
him sir I’m not interested in men sorry but he said I can’t control myself I
but he said I can’t control myself I
but he said I can’t control myself I just hope for the event to get over
just hope for the event to get over
just hope for the event to get over because at that particular moment I felt
because at that particular moment I felt
because at that particular moment I felt like a woman I felt so scared that how
like a woman I felt so scared that how
like a woman I felt so scared that how how a woman actually feels because as
how a woman actually feels because as
how a woman actually feels because as soon as the event got over he invited me
soon as the event got over he invited me
soon as the event got over he invited me home for coffee I was like a bad idea I
home for coffee I was like a bad idea I
home for coffee I was like a bad idea I need to run so we men don’t realize the
need to run so we men don’t realize the
need to run so we men don’t realize the problem until we face it ourselves so
problem until we face it ourselves so
problem until we face it ourselves so the solution is very simple we need to
the solution is very simple we need to
the solution is very simple we need to step in your shoes yes we need to step
step in your shoes yes we need to step
step in your shoes yes we need to step in your shoes to gain that empathy any
in your shoes to gain that empathy any
in your shoes to gain that empathy any and all of you can do it all the men
and all of you can do it all the men
and all of you can do it all the men over here can do it any law any ritual
over here can do it any law any ritual
over here can do it any law any ritual which you find in your family in your
which you find in your family in your
which you find in your family in your office in your business you think that
office in your business you think that
office in your business you think that it doesn’t make sense or is not viable
it doesn’t make sense or is not viable
it doesn’t make sense or is not viable test it out for a week whatever has been
test it out for a week whatever has been
test it out for a week whatever has been passed on by our forefathers we as men
passed on by our forefathers we as men
passed on by our forefathers we as men need to test it once again what do I
need to test it once again what do I
need to test it once again what do I mean with that okay so as a woman most
mean with that okay so as a woman most
mean with that okay so as a woman most of the times you are banned it’s a part
of the times you are banned it’s a part
of the times you are banned it’s a part of a ritual that you cannot fart or burp
of a ritual that you cannot fart or burp
of a ritual that you cannot fart or burp in a public place fine as a man tried
in a public place fine as a man tried
in a public place fine as a man tried out for a week not farting or burping in
out for a week not farting or burping in
out for a week not farting or burping in a public place as a woman they’re always
a public place as a woman they’re always
a public place as a woman they’re always told to wear covered clothes or to wear
told to wear covered clothes or to wear
told to wear covered clothes or to wear or to cover their heads when going
or to cover their heads when going
or to cover their heads when going outside the house so as a man I would
outside the house so as a man I would
outside the house so as a man I would request you try that for a week if you
request you try that for a week if you
request you try that for a week if you find that to be a logical
find that to be a logical
find that to be a logical idea or a ritual passed on by your
idea or a ritual passed on by your
idea or a ritual passed on by your elders Azzam as a woman
elders Azzam as a woman
elders Azzam as a woman most women are told to stay in the house
most women are told to stay in the house
most women are told to stay in the house after dark after seven o clock after
after dark after seven o clock after
after dark after seven o clock after eight o’clock so if you as a man if you
eight o’clock so if you as a man if you
eight o’clock so if you as a man if you find that viable try staying in the
find that viable try staying in the
find that viable try staying in the house as well after seven for a week and
house as well after seven for a week and
house as well after seven for a week and see how it actually feels you consider
see how it actually feels you consider
see how it actually feels you consider dowry to be viable fine then you
dowry to be viable fine then you
dowry to be viable fine then you yourself need to give some dowdy when
yourself need to give some dowdy when
yourself need to give some dowdy when you get married you think her virginity
you get married you think her virginity
you get married you think her virginity matters before marriage then as a man I
matters before marriage then as a man I
matters before marriage then as a man I challenge you to remain a virgin before
challenge you to remain a virgin before
challenge you to remain a virgin before marriage if you can do it only then
marriage if you can do it only then
marriage if you can do it only then convince her to stay as that and not
convince her to stay as that and not
convince her to stay as that and not only preach I even try starts off such
only preach I even try starts off such
only preach I even try starts off such stuff so Karva Chauth an Indian ritual
stuff so Karva Chauth an Indian ritual
stuff so Karva Chauth an Indian ritual where women get up at 4 o clock eat
where women get up at 4 o clock eat
where women get up at 4 o clock eat something and keep a fast for the entire
something and keep a fast for the entire
something and keep a fast for the entire day you’re not even allowed to drink
day you’re not even allowed to drink
day you’re not even allowed to drink anything all of you must be knowing that
anything all of you must be knowing that
anything all of you must be knowing that so as a man I thought even I should do
so as a man I thought even I should do
so as a man I thought even I should do it okay I miserably failed really I have
it okay I miserably failed really I have
it okay I miserably failed really I have failed instead of getting up at 4 o
failed instead of getting up at 4 o
failed instead of getting up at 4 o clock I couldn’t sleep the entire night
clock I couldn’t sleep the entire night
clock I couldn’t sleep the entire night by the sheer idea that I need to stay
by the sheer idea that I need to stay
by the sheer idea that I need to stay hungry for the entire day for my lover
hungry for the entire day for my lover
hungry for the entire day for my lover so instead I got up at 8 o clock then I
so instead I got up at 8 o clock then I
so instead I got up at 8 o clock then I ate something and within the next 3
ate something and within the next 3
ate something and within the next 3 hours I had extreme amounts of acidity
hours I had extreme amounts of acidity
hours I had extreme amounts of acidity inside my stomach and I was running from
inside my stomach and I was running from
inside my stomach and I was running from one place to another literally I went up
one place to another literally I went up
one place to another literally I went up to my mother and touched her feet and
to my mother and touched her feet and
to my mother and touched her feet and told her that just cause she is forced
told her that just cause she is forced
told her that just cause she is forced to do it
to do it
to do it as part of our ritual that doesn’t make
as part of our ritual that doesn’t make
as part of our ritual that doesn’t make my wife or my partner to take up that
my wife or my partner to take up that
my wife or my partner to take up that particular activity so yeah you can
particular activity so yeah you can
particular activity so yeah you can challenge any ritual any law which you
challenge any ritual any law which you
challenge any ritual any law which you don’t think is viable for your partner
don’t think is viable for your partner
don’t think is viable for your partner or for any gender out there ladies and
or for any gender out there ladies and
or for any gender out there ladies and gentlemen one last request before I end
gentlemen one last request before I end
gentlemen one last request before I end I am just asking for relationships where
I am just asking for relationships where
I am just asking for relationships where there are no gender rules
there are no gender rules
there are no gender rules where
where
where both of them can pay and both of them
both of them can pay and both of them
both of them can pay and both of them can equally earn where both of them can
can equally earn where both of them can
can equally earn where both of them can clean the house and both of them can
clean the house and both of them can
clean the house and both of them can cook where both of them can love each
cook where both of them can love each
cook where both of them can love each other and both of them can respect
other and both of them can respect
other and both of them can respect because at the end of the day the world
because at the end of the day the world
because at the end of the day the world is not black and white it’s all the
is not black and white it’s all the
is not black and white it’s all the colors of the rainbow thank you and have
colors of the rainbow thank you and have
colors of the rainbow thank you and have a nice day
a nice day
a nice day [Applause]
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