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goodnight to savage there are several

years

i go to italy i just got married

with my husband is french and together

we moved in a superb

small town near city ive

one day I looked at the info and the

journalists announce the results

an intriguing survey of what the

children and callian had he and more afraid

kwh were you most scared when

you were small and well those whose

Italian children had the most scared I

were not losing their parents nor

to get lost or black what they

feared the most it was the extras

as in italy

immigrants from outside of

the european union the children in

italy were more afraid of immigrants

who is the traditional bastard father

and all of a sudden I realized

account that I myself was in extra

community since I am Brazilian

it turns out that at those times I

already a memoir on immigration and

many studies showed

the positive impact of immigration on

the italian economy

I told myself how a thing too

positive from a strictly point of view

rational can it be perceived as

being such a negative thing from a

emotional point of view of then I

I am fascinated by the reports of

human beings unlike and at

during my professional life I

noticed that these are often the

people the most different of the months

which made me grow and that’s

as well as I became

diversity diversity diversity is the

mixture of human differences

visible and invisible

there are differences that are enough

obvious as those related to gender

at the age at the origins there are

differences that are all useful as

those related to different types of

personalities like those related to

different who of sexual orientation

to certain types of disability

inclusion is a culture in

which one feels valued is free

to be yourself

even when one is different from the

majority

diversity and inclusion

but you have to think about good food

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diversity are the ingredients

and inclusion is the recipe for

mix the ingredients so

that they have final result be a

delicious dish in which the

ingredients get married well while

revealing their best flavors and

In the enterprises

I found a paradox similar to

Italy’s one of the many studies

show that diversity and

inclusion can improve

sales

motivation productivity

innovation and even results

financial companies for example

-according to catalyst companies with

more women in the posts of

direction are on average 34 % more

profitable according to even acquired and the

companies with more diversities

ethnic groups are on average 35% more

profitable yet companies have

a lot of trouble moving forward in these

areas why often one evokes the

corporate culture as being one

factors that prevent

business

to promote diversity and

inclusion one of the major obstacles

but what is that

it’s that a corporate culture says

simply a corporate culture

it’s the way people

interact within an organization

given there are no crops

of companies outside people

who do it yet I interviewed

thousands of employees and

employees of people in 17 in

different sectors different countries and

often that people talk about their

corporate culture

he talks about it as if it were something

separate from them as if

I was there for nothing

with regard to diversity and

inclusion when I have months of

collaborators what are you doing

you to contribute to an environment

working more open to all they me

say ah see you that with the

managers

I see the managers I ask them the

same question like pumps to you

see that with the management

I’m going to see the directors and what is

that he tells me of your opinion very good

question to see that with the management

human resources and you know this

that they often tell me but direction

human resources

1 it really really depends on

management and so on

the truth is that there is a chain

responsabilities

no one can by himself create

an inclusive culture but everyone

of us a role to play because we

we all have an area of ​​influence

so of course the more you have some

responsibilities over this area

of influenced is important but everyone

of us an anthem zone of influence

what I propose to you today

these are two simple actions at the

reach of all to promote the

diversity and inclusion in business

two actions that you could take

in any organization and

whatever your status

two actions that will make your place

work a place much more

rewarding and pleasant to live

for all and especially for you even

first action and his passes your

head and it is to exceed your

first impressions

do you know how long it takes for

to form an opinion about a stranger a

tenth of a second

subconsciously we classify

people automatically

used criteria easily

observables like size the color

skin sex age 7 mechanism

categorizations even allows us

helpers to cope with the

complexity of the world but it is also

at the origin of prejudices

we would all like most

of us do not have any prejudices

is not it maybe our

intention a conscious level but our

unconscious that dictate our

behaviors 95% of the time it is

all the time trying people

on appearances that can be

misleading and no one is immune

once I spoke with a

receptionist who was visually impaired

and she told me that even she could

judge people before you know them

according to the time of their voice

harvard university has developed

an amazing tool it’s called the

implicit association test

to measure our prejudices

unconscious or like the ten very

nicely scientists our tickets

are aware in different

categories

for example you can measure if you

have or not unconscious goods

negative or positive

towards people according to their

weight according to their age and

you’re just waiting for a moment

are you listening to me there is

differently

they were older

did you know that according to the groups of

search thunderstorms

age is the first factor of

discrimination in europe

here I was here I was black is this

that you listen to me there is the same

way maybe if I was I I

would not even be the room and why

according to the observatory of discrimination

in France

ac v and win a person with a name

African population at 3 times less than

get hired who we person

with a non-European now theirs

who are you listening to me

same way if I were a man

housed a style you must have noticed

I have a communication style that is

very sweet that we find more

frequently in women and our

companies

we often confuse softness and weaknesses

and that’s one of the reasons

which women are less chosen

for management positions once

I had an American chef who

call me who told me you have his

need to speak seen scared but he has me

looked straight into the eyes and he told me

said I wanted to apologize to you

because when I was hired

I had a lot of doubts about his

ability to carry out your strategy

looked so nice and time

showed me how much

cheated on your abilities my old

chef he knew how to surpass the premiums

his first impressions and he told me

given a chance the chance to them

surprise

it appears obvious is not it but

tell me you when is the last

once you have passed your

first impressions and that you have

given a chance to someone lucky

to surprise you

in other words, when is the last

time they noticed you

little critical voices in your head

and that you did not follow had it

not tracked them let’s move on to the second

action

this one is external and it consists of

to meet people who do not

wanted to seem not unconsciously we

constantly sweep the environment to

looking for danger signs

this is part of our instinct of

survival

but it’s also because of the one in

which we have a tendency to see

people different from us including

drives unconscious go see

as of threat and so we have

tendency to get in touch with

people who are like us from the middle

socioeconomic with the same

origins the same taste as us and

and so on

that’s what scientists call

the infinity bias and everyone to

this subject to the gua of affinities me there

including

once I went in a

convention of senior executives

which there were many more

and little by little it but give an account

I got closer to the few women

present and after a while all

the women ended up together

we understand that it can happen from

from time to time but repeatedly

can be very harmful

personally my biggest

inclusion experience and

of belonging to the company makes

move on to a place where people they

came to me and knew me

not necessarily passed but good

day but invited to have coffee at

two geniuses together and it was

colleagues very different from me there

could be younger older

they came from other departments he

had other hierarchical levels

month

inclusion it materializes in these

little moments of life interaction

daily

some companies are trying dice

promote these exchanges which are source

of well-being and innovation by

pixar example at pixar the toilet

found a central location

know why

so that employees of all

horizons converge towards one and the same

place and meetings there are

large groups that use

mobile apps to put in

relationship the collaborators to the

looking for colleagues to go

lunch but nothing can replace

your willingness to go to people

it sounds obvious is not it but

tell me when is the last time

who had you two young people and with one

colleague who you did not know

very well when is the last time

that you have a

but the conversation with someone from

different in your workplace and

that you see someone new

different what are you

make this person feel

welcome exceed your first

impressions and go to meet

people who do not look like you this

two actions one inter in the other

external

they are simple or very simple but

they are not easy because it

request to unplug our driver

Automatic and out of our area

comfort but together these two actions

can is programmed our brain

expand our comfort zone and even

listen well they can make it

smarter and more creative according

researchers from the University of

columbia before evoking t I you

proposes to do very things

concrete

the first is to go on google and

Steps and Harvard Association Testing

implicit and facts a test in the

category of your choice you go

to be surprised

and the second simple thing is

to invite a colleague that you do not

do not know very well to take a

coffee

italian children

they may have heard their parents

to say speak to the shares to strangers

as an adult we must do

exactly the opposite speak to

unknown

because as so well said victor hugo the

happiness is sometimes hidden in

the unknown

thank you

[Applause]

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