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Poor women are heroes, not victims | Fartun Weli | TEDxMinneapolisWomen


too often in our society those who are

too often in our society those who are poor especially women are invisible to

poor especially women are invisible to

poor especially women are invisible to the world especially in USA because they

the world especially in USA because they

the world especially in USA because they don’t have the money nor the possessions

don’t have the money nor the possessions

don’t have the money nor the possessions nor the power our society values but

nor the power our society values but

nor the power our society values but what I saw from my mother growing up or

what I saw from my mother growing up or

what I saw from my mother growing up or as a child I know that poor women are

as a child I know that poor women are

as a child I know that poor women are the most resilient creative

the most resilient creative

the most resilient creative compassionate alive skilled among us

compassionate alive skilled among us

compassionate alive skilled among us that I know that our communities our own

that I know that our communities our own

that I know that our communities our own society can benefit from there are many

society can benefit from there are many

society can benefit from there are many ways Muslim women are become invisible

ways Muslim women are become invisible

ways Muslim women are become invisible or visible rather two of the biggest

or visible rather two of the biggest

or visible rather two of the biggest reason is these thieves are to number

reason is these thieves are to number

reason is these thieves are to number one a potential breeder for future

one a potential breeder for future

one a potential breeder for future terrorists and I kid you not I hear all

terrorists and I kid you not I hear all

terrorists and I kid you not I hear all the time you Somalis have too many

the time you Somalis have too many

the time you Somalis have too many babies stop some people ask how many

babies stop some people ask how many

babies stop some people ask how many Somali terrorist do I know are potential

Somali terrorist do I know are potential

Somali terrorist do I know are potential terrorists so are even reproductive

terrorists so are even reproductive

terrorists so are even reproductive there is a worry about carrying a baby

there is a worry about carrying a baby

there is a worry about carrying a baby that it gonna explode

that it gonna explode

that it gonna explode the second issue that Somali woman and

the second issue that Somali woman and

the second issue that Somali woman and Muslim an immigrant refugee woman become

Muslim an immigrant refugee woman become

Muslim an immigrant refugee woman become visible as the victims of their religion

visible as the victims of their religion

visible as the victims of their religion they need to be rescued they are not

they need to be rescued they are not

they need to be rescued they are not free what I wanted to start with I wanna

free what I wanted to start with I wanna

free what I wanted to start with I wanna ask you how poor are you really many

ask you how poor are you really many

ask you how poor are you really many societies around the world define

societies around the world define

societies around the world define poverty other than resources but it also

poverty other than resources but it also

poverty other than resources but it also focuses squarely on the individual’s

focuses squarely on the individual’s

focuses squarely on the individual’s characteristics for example if you have

characteristics for example if you have

characteristics for example if you have if your lack of empathy and

if your lack of empathy and

if your lack of empathy and untrustworthiness

untrustworthiness

untrustworthiness is a form of poverty all of us including

is a form of poverty all of us including

is a form of poverty all of us including myself since I’ve been here 70 years we

myself since I’ve been here 70 years we

myself since I’ve been here 70 years we get used our perfect organized we have a

get used our perfect organized we have a

get used our perfect organized we have a calendar for the kids calendar for our

calendar for the kids calendar for our

calendar for the kids calendar for our work color for the church everything is

work color for the church everything is

work color for the church everything is perfect organized but if we take that a

perfect organized but if we take that a

perfect organized but if we take that a moment and say use everything excuse

moment and say use everything excuse

moment and say use everything excuse everything except your brain and

everything except your brain and

everything except your brain and organize by using nothing no gadgets and

organize by using nothing no gadgets and

organize by using nothing no gadgets and think what do you think is gonna happen

think what do you think is gonna happen

think what do you think is gonna happen we’re all gonna melt down a crisis I

we’re all gonna melt down a crisis I

we’re all gonna melt down a crisis I would say a public health crisis what

would say a public health crisis what

would say a public health crisis what happened but women who lack resources

happened but women who lack resources

happened but women who lack resources specially money they do everything

specially money they do everything

specially money they do everything utilizing their brain they become

utilizing their brain they become

utilizing their brain they become resilient they become resourceful so the

resilient they become resourceful so the

resilient they become resourceful so the question I really wanted to ask while

question I really wanted to ask while

question I really wanted to ask while I’m also talking is how really are you

I’m also talking is how really are you

I’m also talking is how really are you poor my father passed away when I was

poor my father passed away when I was

poor my father passed away when I was seven and left a mother six kids with

seven and left a mother six kids with

seven and left a mother six kids with one of whom had polio which he was

one of whom had polio which he was

one of whom had polio which he was disabled at woman at that time my father

disabled at woman at that time my father

disabled at woman at that time my father was the bread on mother stayed home my

was the bread on mother stayed home my

was the bread on mother stayed home my mother also had another challenge which

mother also had another challenge which

mother also had another challenge which was in unique to her she was in litter

was in unique to her she was in litter

was in unique to her she was in litter of the books remember I said a litters

of the books remember I said a litters

of the books remember I said a litters of the books losing my dad only source

of the books losing my dad only source

of the books losing my dad only source of income through my mother into the

of income through my mother into the

of income through my mother into the front line for six kids feeding us

front line for six kids feeding us

front line for six kids feeding us clothing us but even though mother was

clothing us but even though mother was

clothing us but even though mother was illiterate the books I believe and I

illiterate the books I believe and I

illiterate the books I believe and I could testify that she had a PhD of

could testify that she had a PhD of

could testify that she had a PhD of lifetime experience how to live in the

lifetime experience how to live in the

lifetime experience how to live in the morning for breakfast for food she wake

morning for breakfast for food she wake

morning for breakfast for food she wake up early morning before anyone wakes up

up early morning before anyone wakes up

up early morning before anyone wakes up and she will start making big breakfast

and she will start making big breakfast

and she will start making big breakfast we call it flat bread or injera

we call it flat bread or injera

we call it flat bread or injera some of you I think if you went to

some of you I think if you went to

some of you I think if you went to ethnic restaurants that I degenerate

ethnic restaurants that I degenerate

ethnic restaurants that I degenerate that morning breakfast will be many she

that morning breakfast will be many she

that morning breakfast will be many she knows that that we will eat leftovers as

knows that that we will eat leftovers as

knows that that we will eat leftovers as a lunch and sometimes we eat as a dinner

a lunch and sometimes we eat as a dinner

a lunch and sometimes we eat as a dinner our goal was to really have food on the

our goal was to really have food on the

our goal was to really have food on the table it didn’t matter what it was it

table it didn’t matter what it was it

table it didn’t matter what it was it was delicious I can tell you about if

was delicious I can tell you about if

was delicious I can tell you about if you’re hungry kid you can eat anything

you’re hungry kid you can eat anything

you’re hungry kid you can eat anything second an education all of us weren’t at

second an education all of us weren’t at

second an education all of us weren’t at school no one at home was able to

school no one at home was able to

school no one at home was able to negotiate education with my mother

negotiate education with my mother

negotiate education with my mother because she knew that was the only exit

because she knew that was the only exit

because she knew that was the only exit way to really avoid financial hardship

way to really avoid financial hardship

way to really avoid financial hardship especially my three sister line she used

especially my three sister line she used

especially my three sister line she used to say I don’t care how rich your future

to say I don’t care how rich your future

to say I don’t care how rich your future has been to be I want you to earn ten

has been to be I want you to earn ten

has been to be I want you to earn ten shillings the point she was making was

shillings the point she was making was

shillings the point she was making was you

you

you to be independent financially also at

to be independent financially also at

to be independent financially also at the evening time was a family gathering

the evening time was a family gathering

the evening time was a family gathering time also it’s time for who had a

time also it’s time for who had a

time also it’s time for who had a homework who needed help she couldn’t

homework who needed help she couldn’t

homework who needed help she couldn’t read and write but she will do

read and write but she will do

read and write but she will do everything in her power to find a tutor

everything in her power to find a tutor

everything in her power to find a tutor for us the last thing we also did before

for us the last thing we also did before

for us the last thing we also did before went to bed

went to bed

went to bed was check our brother who was disabled

was check our brother who was disabled

was check our brother who was disabled bruce’s because he crawled to school and

bruce’s because he crawled to school and

bruce’s because he crawled to school and usually he had bruises and he had his

usually he had bruises and he had his

usually he had bruises and he had his hands and knees

hands and knees

hands and knees because disabled people at that time

because disabled people at that time

because disabled people at that time didn’t have any specific services still

didn’t have any specific services still

didn’t have any specific services still disabled people in Africa don’t receive

disabled people in Africa don’t receive

disabled people in Africa don’t receive a lot of services at that time in that

a lot of services at that time in that

a lot of services at that time in that moment before we went to bed that

moment before we went to bed that

moment before we went to bed that gathering and crawling around her was

gathering and crawling around her was

gathering and crawling around her was the best thing ever it didn’t matter

the best thing ever it didn’t matter

the best thing ever it didn’t matter what we didn’t have we had each other

what we didn’t have we had each other

what we didn’t have we had each other I watched mother had only one dress that

I watched mother had only one dress that

I watched mother had only one dress that orange there you see on the screen as we

orange there you see on the screen as we

orange there you see on the screen as we go to bed she would wrap herself a

go to bed she would wrap herself a

go to bed she would wrap herself a bedsheet start to wash that dress hang

bedsheet start to wash that dress hang

bedsheet start to wash that dress hang her outside try to cook get quick sleep

her outside try to cook get quick sleep

her outside try to cook get quick sleep before we woke up because she’s getting

before we woke up because she’s getting

before we woke up because she’s getting off for the breakfast she’ll take that

off for the breakfast she’ll take that

off for the breakfast she’ll take that dress out of the drapes fold it and

dress out of the drapes fold it and

dress out of the drapes fold it and that’s where she puts another big

that’s where she puts another big

that’s where she puts another big mattress to make it neat and clean

mattress to make it neat and clean

mattress to make it neat and clean she makes the breakfast and she wears a

she makes the breakfast and she wears a

she makes the breakfast and she wears a dress

dress

dress who said that poor person cannot be

who said that poor person cannot be

who said that poor person cannot be clean and need neighbors noticed they

clean and need neighbors noticed they

clean and need neighbors noticed they said Fatima what’s going on with your

said Fatima what’s going on with your

said Fatima what’s going on with your dress how many of them do you have

dress how many of them do you have

dress how many of them do you have she’ll mumble because she didn’t wanna

she’ll mumble because she didn’t wanna

she’ll mumble because she didn’t wanna lie and I would say my three sisters and

lie and I would say my three sisters and

lie and I would say my three sisters and I knew that she only had that one dress

I knew that she only had that one dress

I knew that she only had that one dress as our lives continued mother had our

as our lives continued mother had our

as our lives continued mother had our lives changed by because someone our

lives changed by because someone our

lives changed by because someone our offer our job our housekeeper job and we

offer our job our housekeeper job and we

offer our job our housekeeper job and we were able to mother was able to get

were able to mother was able to get

were able to mother was able to get another dress quickly I will be happy

another dress quickly I will be happy

another dress quickly I will be happy also that we don’t have to eat the

also that we don’t have to eat the

also that we don’t have to eat the leftovers you know we started eating

leftovers you know we started eating

leftovers you know we started eating large pasta or rice I didn’t care much

large pasta or rice I didn’t care much

large pasta or rice I didn’t care much about supper because who cares about if

about supper because who cares about if

about supper because who cares about if you eat breakfast and lunch in those

you eat breakfast and lunch in those

you eat breakfast and lunch in those days still some places in Africa there’s

days still some places in Africa there’s

days still some places in Africa there’s a famine so I would feel good

a famine so I would feel good

a famine so I would feel good eating dinner a lot along those days

eventually our lives changed and we

eventually our lives changed and we moved to Mogadishu the capital of

moved to Mogadishu the capital of

moved to Mogadishu the capital of Somalia and our lives continue to change

Somalia and our lives continue to change

Somalia and our lives continue to change my older brother got a scholarship and

my older brother got a scholarship and

my older brother got a scholarship and came to Florida and he was trained as a

came to Florida and he was trained as a

came to Florida and he was trained as a geologist and he started working for a

geologist and he started working for a

geologist and he started working for a company that was in Mogadishu and

company that was in Mogadishu and

company that was in Mogadishu and created clean waters for the communities

created clean waters for the communities

created clean waters for the communities and our lives continue to get better

and our lives continue to get better

and our lives continue to get better that orange dress though it didn’t go

that orange dress though it didn’t go

that orange dress though it didn’t go away we put it one of our rooms as a

away we put it one of our rooms as a

away we put it one of our rooms as a reminder of the hard work that mother

reminder of the hard work that mother

reminder of the hard work that mother did as a reminder that we really have to

did as a reminder that we really have to

did as a reminder that we really have to work hard never give up but also the

work hard never give up but also the

work hard never give up but also the most important thing to be kind human

most important thing to be kind human

most important thing to be kind human beings to be compassionate after a

beings to be compassionate after a

beings to be compassionate after a couple years later mother got ill and

couple years later mother got ill and

couple years later mother got ill and passed away but though I focused on her

passed away but though I focused on her

passed away but though I focused on her I I loved her even though she’s passed

I I loved her even though she’s passed

I I loved her even though she’s passed away and I want to follow her footsteps

away and I want to follow her footsteps

away and I want to follow her footsteps I wanna I wanted so badly do everything

I wanna I wanted so badly do everything

I wanna I wanted so badly do everything that she wanted us to do but also work

that she wanted us to do but also work

that she wanted us to do but also work for Humanity whenever I face challenges

for Humanity whenever I face challenges

for Humanity whenever I face challenges or some experience episodes of racism I

or some experience episodes of racism I

or some experience episodes of racism I seek a refuge of those days with orange

seek a refuge of those days with orange

seek a refuge of those days with orange dress I go there totally disappear in

dress I go there totally disappear in

dress I go there totally disappear in there it has so much cooling effect on

there it has so much cooling effect on

there it has so much cooling effect on me I hear a saying hey get going don’t

me I hear a saying hey get going don’t

me I hear a saying hey get going don’t get comfortable in this arena I know

get comfortable in this arena I know

get comfortable in this arena I know you’ll do fine get going

you’ll do fine get going

you’ll do fine get going other people are waiting for you there

other people are waiting for you there

other people are waiting for you there are other Somalis who have one dress get

are other Somalis who have one dress get

are other Somalis who have one dress get going her values that she left for us in

going her values that she left for us in

going her values that she left for us in Somalia is used to say beer Saba da de

Somalia is used to say beer Saba da de

Somalia is used to say beer Saba da de la Turca

la Turca

la Turca in English it means to quench thirst you

in English it means to quench thirst you

in English it means to quench thirst you must use your own pounds in

must use your own pounds in

must use your own pounds in other words if you want to drink water

other words if you want to drink water

other words if you want to drink water you cannot clean someone else’s hands

you cannot clean someone else’s hands

you cannot clean someone else’s hands you will never get satisfaction from

you will never get satisfaction from

you will never get satisfaction from that because you weren’t able to get

that because you weren’t able to get

that because you weren’t able to get need for me the water you need I didn’t

need for me the water you need I didn’t

need for me the water you need I didn’t know America then I didn’t know what

know America then I didn’t know what

know America then I didn’t know what America’s values was then that was my

America’s values was then that was my

America’s values was then that was my mom’s there was Somali value those

mom’s there was Somali value those

mom’s there was Somali value those African value so what do you see here

African value so what do you see here

African value so what do you see here what is the first reaction I show some

what is the first reaction I show some

what is the first reaction I show some of my friends first thing they see is

of my friends first thing they see is

of my friends first thing they see is what’s missing around her the life that

what’s missing around her the life that

what’s missing around her the life that she’s in the share of the house the

she’s in the share of the house the

she’s in the share of the house the clothes she’s wearing the dying or the

clothes she’s wearing the dying or the

clothes she’s wearing the dying or the dead infant that is laying on the near

dead infant that is laying on the near

dead infant that is laying on the near side her it’s fact that Somalia has one

side her it’s fact that Somalia has one

side her it’s fact that Somalia has one of the highest maternal infant mortality

of the highest maternal infant mortality

of the highest maternal infant mortality rate so one in four children isn’t even

rate so one in four children isn’t even

rate so one in four children isn’t even reaching one year one in nine women died

reaching one year one in nine women died

reaching one year one in nine women died in labor it has nothing to do with

in labor it has nothing to do with

in labor it has nothing to do with religion it has to do everything with

religion it has to do everything with

religion it has to do everything with the circumstances that women face but

the circumstances that women face but

the circumstances that women face but what I see though I see determination I

what I see though I see determination I

what I see though I see determination I see women who face challenges that a

see women who face challenges that a

see women who face challenges that a warden wasn’t by her doing

warden wasn’t by her doing

warden wasn’t by her doing I see determination I see compassion and

I see determination I see compassion and

I see determination I see compassion and I see a concern I see a survivor I see a

I see a concern I see a survivor I see a

I see a concern I see a survivor I see a woman who’s saying if I had

woman who’s saying if I had

woman who’s saying if I had opportunities she was educated when she

opportunities she was educated when she

opportunities she was educated when she was a girl and she was earning income

was a girl and she was earning income

was a girl and she was earning income she wasn’t be the victim of war we give

she wasn’t be the victim of war we give

she wasn’t be the victim of war we give so much money into supporting women like

so much money into supporting women like

so much money into supporting women like this but we never ask what you want we

this but we never ask what you want we

this but we never ask what you want we want to feed them clothe them do

want to feed them clothe them do

want to feed them clothe them do something prepare prepackaged

something prepare prepackaged

something prepare prepackaged ideas and solutions and here’s like Wham

ideas and solutions and here’s like Wham

ideas and solutions and here’s like Wham do it take it we care about you we love

do it take it we care about you we love

do it take it we care about you we love you but never never asking what is it

you but never never asking what is it

you but never never asking what is it that she wants to do because we so feel

that she wants to do because we so feel

that she wants to do because we so feel compelled to help

compelled to help

compelled to help and and do some things that so the

and and do some things that so the

and and do some things that so the problem

problem

problem that was women are still struggling

that was women are still struggling

that was women are still struggling poverty and everything it’s really we’re

poverty and everything it’s really we’re

poverty and everything it’s really we’re looking up to fix something

looking up to fix something

looking up to fix something it’s a deficit based approach and so

it’s a deficit based approach and so

it’s a deficit based approach and so when I find this code from tojiko Lee

when I find this code from tojiko Lee

when I find this code from tojiko Lee that the white savers force brutal

that the white savers force brutal

that the white savers force brutal policies in the morning funds chairs in

policies in the morning funds chairs in

policies in the morning funds chairs in the afternoon and receives hours in the

the afternoon and receives hours in the

the afternoon and receives hours in the evening though I Xavier industrial

evening though I Xavier industrial

evening though I Xavier industrial complex is not our justice it’s not

complex is not our justice it’s not

complex is not our justice it’s not about justice it’s about having big

about justice it’s about having big

about justice it’s about having big emotional experience that validates

emotional experience that validates

emotional experience that validates privilege I thought I went I thought I

privilege I thought I went I thought I

privilege I thought I went I thought I went to heaven when I saw this code

went to heaven when I saw this code

went to heaven when I saw this code because if I try to explain to you would

because if I try to explain to you would

because if I try to explain to you would have taken maybe an hour but he

have taken maybe an hour but he

have taken maybe an hour but he summarized it so well a lot of people

summarized it so well a lot of people

summarized it so well a lot of people got offended when these sign things have

got offended when these sign things have

got offended when these sign things have done you tell you’re giving so much but

done you tell you’re giving so much but

done you tell you’re giving so much but nothing is happening here in Minnesota

nothing is happening here in Minnesota

nothing is happening here in Minnesota we have the highest inequality of native

we have the highest inequality of native

we have the highest inequality of native and african-american women yeah we pay

and african-american women yeah we pay

and african-american women yeah we pay so much money where is that going you’re

so much money where is that going you’re

so much money where is that going you’re trying to fix and make everyone a white

trying to fix and make everyone a white

trying to fix and make everyone a white you’re trying to make everybody look

you’re trying to make everybody look

you’re trying to make everybody look like you so it’s the it’s the other way

like you so it’s the it’s the other way

like you so it’s the it’s the other way around I’m going to tell you two stories

around I’m going to tell you two stories

around I’m going to tell you two stories quickly from the Somali community in

quickly from the Somali community in

quickly from the Somali community in Minnesota and even Europe number one is

Minnesota and even Europe number one is

Minnesota and even Europe number one is the female genital cutting AKA female

the female genital cutting AKA female

the female genital cutting AKA female genital mutilation according to the

genital mutilation according to the

genital mutilation according to the World Health Organization 200 million

World Health Organization 200 million

World Health Organization 200 million women and girls have been already cut

women and girls have been already cut

women and girls have been already cut they’re living in right but you hear the

they’re living in right but you hear the

they’re living in right but you hear the media even talk about those 200 women’s

media even talk about those 200 women’s

media even talk about those 200 women’s vaginas without yes I said yeah you

vaginas without yes I said yeah you

vaginas without yes I said yeah you heard that without their their

heard that without their their

heard that without their their experience or their values or who talk

experience or their values or who talk

experience or their values or who talk to them latest argument that I heard was

to them latest argument that I heard was

to them latest argument that I heard was arguments between Bill Maher and

arguments between Bill Maher and

arguments between Bill Maher and Professor Isaiah Sava well bill bill was

Professor Isaiah Sava well bill bill was

Professor Isaiah Sava well bill bill was saying it’s Islam’s cause that

saying it’s Islam’s cause that

saying it’s Islam’s cause that oppressing women’s our sexuality and

oppressing women’s our sexuality and

oppressing women’s our sexuality and professor Azurill Azurill saying no it’s

professor Azurill Azurill saying no it’s

professor Azurill Azurill saying no it’s not in fact 80% of the countries that

not in fact 80% of the countries that

not in fact 80% of the countries that practice female genital cutting are

practice female genital cutting are

practice female genital cutting are Christians but it doesn’t matter though

Christians but it doesn’t matter though

Christians but it doesn’t matter though what

what

what religion you are it matters to me

religion you are it matters to me

religion you are it matters to me because we’ve been asked this is the SLM

because we’ve been asked this is the SLM

because we’ve been asked this is the SLM thing doing nobody talks to us but

thing doing nobody talks to us but

thing doing nobody talks to us but everybody talks about us so usually what

everybody talks about us so usually what

everybody talks about us so usually what do I do I say it’s none of your damn

do I do I say it’s none of your damn

do I do I say it’s none of your damn business

business

business right but not so fast I won’t let you

right but not so fast I won’t let you

right but not so fast I won’t let you have the hook anymore I want to tell you

have the hook anymore I want to tell you

have the hook anymore I want to tell you how it makes us feel the worm mutilation

how it makes us feel the worm mutilation

how it makes us feel the worm mutilation it makes it toss me and the 200 million

it makes it toss me and the 200 million

it makes it toss me and the 200 million women around the world and girls that

women around the world and girls that

women around the world and girls that our bodies disgust there’s something

our bodies disgust there’s something

our bodies disgust there’s something wrong with us it makes us feel awful

wrong with us it makes us feel awful

wrong with us it makes us feel awful imagine if you are a provider imagine if

imagine if you are a provider imagine if

imagine if you are a provider imagine if you are a friend with a psychiatrist a

you are a friend with a psychiatrist a

you are a friend with a psychiatrist a social worker if you imagine you’re a

social worker if you imagine you’re a

social worker if you imagine you’re a classmate you feel that way about my

classmate you feel that way about my

classmate you feel that way about my body how on earth am I going to trust

body how on earth am I going to trust

body how on earth am I going to trust you how my community here women who are

you how my community here women who are

you how my community here women who are gone through not only the Somalis but

gone through not only the Somalis but

gone through not only the Somalis but other Africans have the lowest

other Africans have the lowest

other Africans have the lowest preventive care access

preventive care access

preventive care access we’re losing infants due to lack of

we’re losing infants due to lack of

we’re losing infants due to lack of cultural understanding because no woman

cultural understanding because no woman

cultural understanding because no woman despite of all the health education we

despite of all the health education we

despite of all the health education we do will not go to when they feel their

do will not go to when they feel their

do will not go to when they feel their providers feel disgust by what they’re

providers feel disgust by what they’re

providers feel disgust by what they’re doing so what can you spend your time

doing so what can you spend your time

doing so what can you spend your time cut off your heels it’s not about you

cut off your heels it’s not about you

cut off your heels it’s not about you what you feel it’s your up to you you’re

what you feel it’s your up to you you’re

what you feel it’s your up to you you’re just making us feel bad you’re not

just making us feel bad you’re not

just making us feel bad you’re not helping you’re destroying us some of us

helping you’re destroying us some of us

helping you’re destroying us some of us leave our sexual feelings on early age

leave our sexual feelings on early age

leave our sexual feelings on early age we don’t talk about our sexual needs we

we don’t talk about our sexual needs we

we don’t talk about our sexual needs we are kind of isolated what can you do

are kind of isolated what can you do

are kind of isolated what can you do you’re so smart try to figure out ways

you’re so smart try to figure out ways

you’re so smart try to figure out ways to do rejuvenation practices to help

to do rejuvenation practices to help

to do rejuvenation practices to help women feel sexual sexuality or whatever

women feel sexual sexuality or whatever

women feel sexual sexuality or whatever you call it how about we do

you call it how about we do

you call it how about we do reconstructive surgery in which

reconstructive surgery in which

reconstructive surgery in which reconstructing women that are women

reconstructing women that are women

reconstructing women that are women girls that have already gone through

girls that have already gone through

girls that have already gone through female gender correct how about you

female gender correct how about you

female gender correct how about you spend your time listening less judgment

spend your time listening less judgment

spend your time listening less judgment how about that could it be a better that

how about that could it be a better that

how about that could it be a better that we could save so much of death and so

we could save so much of death and so

we could save so much of death and so much depression and so much social

much depression and so much social

much depression and so much social isolation the second thing is about

isolation the second thing is about

isolation the second thing is about you job everyday I hear people saying

you job everyday I hear people saying

you job everyday I hear people saying hey for two now you’re in Minnesota

hey for two now you’re in Minnesota

hey for two now you’re in Minnesota you’re American

you’re American

you’re American get rid of your scarf and I would say

get rid of your scarf and I would say

get rid of your scarf and I would say what is that guy to do me being me in

what is that guy to do me being me in

what is that guy to do me being me in America in the United States because

America in the United States because

America in the United States because your men are oppressing you to wear the

your men are oppressing you to wear the

your men are oppressing you to wear the job there’s this woman that she lives

job there’s this woman that she lives

job there’s this woman that she lives one of the wealthier districts that I

one of the wealthier districts that I

one of the wealthier districts that I wouldn’t mention because she’ll be mad

wouldn’t mention because she’ll be mad

wouldn’t mention because she’ll be mad at me to know that says look fortune I

at me to know that says look fortune I

at me to know that says look fortune I made this woman the other day she’s

made this woman the other day she’s

made this woman the other day she’s wearing all these big things because she

wearing all these big things because she

wearing all these big things because she doesn’t know the words used the I buy or

doesn’t know the words used the I buy or

doesn’t know the words used the I buy or the hijab she’s wearing and I would say

the hijab she’s wearing and I would say

the hijab she’s wearing and I would say uh-oh oh my god was she’s gonna tell me

uh-oh oh my god was she’s gonna tell me

uh-oh oh my god was she’s gonna tell me now oh this woman has seen so many kids

now oh this woman has seen so many kids

now oh this woman has seen so many kids she was kids were screaming it was 78

she was kids were screaming it was 78

she was kids were screaming it was 78 degree was so hot I don’t know how she

degree was so hot I don’t know how she

degree was so hot I don’t know how she manages wearing this awful looking dress

manages wearing this awful looking dress

manages wearing this awful looking dress this is she know that now she’s in

this is she know that now she’s in

this is she know that now she’s in America she can remove that and my

America she can remove that and my

America she can remove that and my temperature is if I were the common

temperature is if I were the common

temperature is if I were the common person at that time my temperature goes

person at that time my temperature goes

person at that time my temperature goes into my body goes into shock and I’m

into my body goes into shock and I’m

into my body goes into shock and I’m trying to say take a deep breathe I

trying to say take a deep breathe I

trying to say take a deep breathe I would love to do so much fantasize of

would love to do so much fantasize of

would love to do so much fantasize of fighting her doing things but I can’t I

fighting her doing things but I can’t I

fighting her doing things but I can’t I can’t I take a deep breath and I say

can’t I take a deep breath and I say

can’t I take a deep breath and I say okay this woman in two minutes she

okay this woman in two minutes she

okay this woman in two minutes she dismantled another human being she

dismantled another human being she

dismantled another human being she attacked her codes which is the religion

attacked her codes which is the religion

attacked her codes which is the religion she attacked the kids she had negative

she attacked the kids she had negative

she attacked the kids she had negative negative negative negative I would

negative negative negative I would

negative negative negative I would switch that into positive and say that

switch that into positive and say that

switch that into positive and say that mother was told she’s telling her kids

mother was told she’s telling her kids

mother was told she’s telling her kids drink water from your hands someone told

drink water from your hands someone told

drink water from your hands someone told her that library has tutors and she’s

her that library has tutors and she’s

her that library has tutors and she’s taking one of our kids

taking one of our kids

taking one of our kids there is no one babysit the rest of the

there is no one babysit the rest of the

there is no one babysit the rest of the kids so what does she do she kid takes

kids so what does she do she kid takes

kids so what does she do she kid takes all of them what is driving that mother

all of them what is driving that mother

all of them what is driving that mother wouldn’t you say here let me hold one go

wouldn’t you say here let me hold one go

wouldn’t you say here let me hold one go ahead

ahead

ahead why can’t the libraries give space for

why can’t the libraries give space for

why can’t the libraries give space for the families why but the negative

the families why but the negative

the families why but the negative negative negative negative

negative negative negative

negative negative negative so where do we go from here cousins

so where do we go from here cousins

so where do we go from here cousins brothers sisters Minnesotans and around

brothers sisters Minnesotans and around

brothers sisters Minnesotans and around the world there is a fight here we are

the world there is a fight here we are

the world there is a fight here we are standing because where Minnesota will

standing because where Minnesota will

standing because where Minnesota will use the Mississippi River were on this

use the Mississippi River were on this

use the Mississippi River were on this side and all white feminists are this

side and all white feminists are this

side and all white feminists are this side don’t think you’re off the hook

side don’t think you’re off the hook

side don’t think you’re off the hook right you are because we’re the closest

right you are because we’re the closest

right you are because we’re the closest audience but you’re so passionate that

audience but you’re so passionate that

audience but you’re so passionate that you also destroy your are your closest

you also destroy your are your closest

you also destroy your are your closest allies how do we come together deficit

allies how do we come together deficit

allies how do we come together deficit approach based deficit based approach is

approach based deficit based approach is

approach based deficit based approach is not working we don’t feel we’re the step

not working we don’t feel we’re the step

not working we don’t feel we’re the step deficit were struggling deficit you just

deficit were struggling deficit you just

deficit were struggling deficit you just don’t want us to you want us to be like

don’t want us to you want us to be like

don’t want us to you want us to be like you America will not be the same if

you America will not be the same if

you America will not be the same if everyone became Irish or Italian or

everyone became Irish or Italian or

everyone became Irish or Italian or German or everybody the diversity is

German or everybody the diversity is

German or everybody the diversity is what makes us stronger and makes us very

what makes us stronger and makes us very

what makes us stronger and makes us very innovative I and others Muslim women and

innovative I and others Muslim women and

innovative I and others Muslim women and immigrant women of color know where

immigrant women of color know where

immigrant women of color know where we’re going my or mother’s told us I

we’re going my or mother’s told us I

we’re going my or mother’s told us I would be so offended actually I’m trying

would be so offended actually I’m trying

would be so offended actually I’m trying to be Minnesota nice I’ll be so angry to

to be Minnesota nice I’ll be so angry to

to be Minnesota nice I’ll be so angry to make women like my mother invisible

make women like my mother invisible

make women like my mother invisible because she doesn’t identify with you

because she doesn’t identify with you

because she doesn’t identify with you what can we do where do we go from here

what can we do where do we go from here

what can we do where do we go from here please listen it’s not about you really

please listen it’s not about you really

please listen it’s not about you really it’s not really about you let’s talk to

it’s not really about you let’s talk to

it’s not really about you let’s talk to each other come over without agenda

each other come over without agenda

each other come over without agenda without any project come be amazed be

without any project come be amazed be

without any project come be amazed be loved and be challenged be vulnerable

loved and be challenged be vulnerable

loved and be challenged be vulnerable I’m from there I can see us crossing the

I’m from there I can see us crossing the

I’m from there I can see us crossing the bridges together thank you very much

bridges together thank you very much

bridges together thank you very much [Music]

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[Music] [Applause]

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