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Planting of Purpose: There’s No Such Thing As Can’t | Rebecca Priest | TEDxFlourCity


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[Applause] for a thousand years alleges the legends

for a thousand years alleges the legends

for a thousand years alleges the legends have habit that this could not be broken

have habit that this could not be broken

have habit that this could not be broken experts said it is not possible doctors

experts said it is not possible doctors

experts said it is not possible doctors and physicians said it is humanly

and physicians said it is humanly

and physicians said it is humanly insurmountable someone would die if they

insurmountable someone would die if they

insurmountable someone would die if they broke this yeah in 1954 Roger Bannister

broke this yeah in 1954 Roger Bannister

broke this yeah in 1954 Roger Bannister broke the record for the mile and ran it

broke the record for the mile and ran it

broke the record for the mile and ran it in under four minutes something thought

in under four minutes something thought

in under four minutes something thought two believed to be impossible the funny

two believed to be impossible the funny

two believed to be impossible the funny thing is after he broke this many people

thing is after he broke this many people

thing is after he broke this many people broke this after hundreds and hundreds

broke this after hundreds and hundreds

broke this after hundreds and hundreds of people in fact today it’s kind of a

of people in fact today it’s kind of a

of people in fact today it’s kind of a routine thing for some people not for me

routine thing for some people not for me

routine thing for some people not for me but for some people to run a mile in

but for some people to run a mile in

but for some people to run a mile in under four minutes Roger ran to escape a

under four minutes Roger ran to escape a

under four minutes Roger ran to escape a life of poverty and violence it was his

life of poverty and violence it was his

life of poverty and violence it was his purpose it was his passion and I love

purpose it was his passion and I love

purpose it was his passion and I love this story because I think we can learn

this story because I think we can learn

this story because I think we can learn lots from it but especially two things

lots from it but especially two things

lots from it but especially two things one sometimes people need someone to

one sometimes people need someone to

one sometimes people need someone to show them that’s something that’s

show them that’s something that’s

show them that’s something that’s impossible really isn’t impossible and

impossible really isn’t impossible and

impossible really isn’t impossible and sometimes people need a purpose or a

sometimes people need a purpose or a

sometimes people need a purpose or a passion that drives them to look those

passion that drives them to look those

passion that drives them to look those naysayers in the face and say there is

naysayers in the face and say there is

naysayers in the face and say there is no such thing as can’t many of you

no such thing as can’t many of you

no such thing as can’t many of you encountered something like that in your

encountered something like that in your

encountered something like that in your life where someone said it can’t be done

life where someone said it can’t be done

life where someone said it can’t be done it’s not possible hold on to that

it’s not possible hold on to that

it’s not possible hold on to that because it may just be the planting of

because it may just be the planting of

because it may just be the planting of your purpose in the 1970s when my

your purpose in the 1970s when my

your purpose in the 1970s when my amazing sister was brought into the

amazing sister was brought into the

amazing sister was brought into the world to my wonderful parents the

world to my wonderful parents the

world to my wonderful parents the physician said to them your daughter has

physician said to them your daughter has

physician said to them your daughter has severe intellectual and developmental

severe intellectual and developmental

severe intellectual and developmental disabilities he recommended

disabilities he recommended

disabilities he recommended institutional care and that my parents

institutional care and that my parents

institutional care and that my parents move forward with their lives you cannot

move forward with their lives you cannot

move forward with their lives you cannot raise a child with this level of need in

raise a child with this level of need in

raise a child with this level of need in a community he said my parents said yes

a community he said my parents said yes

a community he said my parents said yes we can there is no such thing as can’t

we can there is no such thing as can’t

we can there is no such thing as can’t in Rochester New York

in Rochester New York

in Rochester New York across the lake from where we were

across the lake from where we were

across the lake from where we were living at the time

living at the time

living at the time there was a group of parents facing the

there was a group of parents facing the

there was a group of parents facing the very same challenges with their with

very same challenges with their with

very same challenges with their with their loved ones see they rejected the

their loved ones see they rejected the

their loved ones see they rejected the idea that institutional care was okay

idea that institutional care was okay

idea that institutional care was okay this was the reality that they were

this was the reality that they were

this was the reality that they were saying no to it’s not acceptable

saying no to it’s not acceptable

saying no to it’s not acceptable and instead of just saying no it’s not

and instead of just saying no it’s not

and instead of just saying no it’s not acceptable but letting it be they

acceptable but letting it be they

acceptable but letting it be they started to digging and figure out how

started to digging and figure out how

started to digging and figure out how did institutional care come to be they

did institutional care come to be they

did institutional care come to be they looked at the regulations the Quality

looked at the regulations the Quality

looked at the regulations the Quality Assurance structure the reimbursement

Assurance structure the reimbursement

Assurance structure the reimbursement structure and what they started to do as

structure and what they started to do as

structure and what they started to do as parents who loved their children and

parents who loved their children and

parents who loved their children and wanted something different was reimagine

wanted something different was reimagine

wanted something different was reimagine how they could operationalize something

how they could operationalize something

how they could operationalize something for the people who they loved 40 years

for the people who they loved 40 years

for the people who they loved 40 years later the organization they founded

later the organization they founded

later the organization they founded heritage Christian services serves my

heritage Christian services serves my

heritage Christian services serves my sister in a community she may just be

sister in a community she may just be

sister in a community she may just be your neighbor

your neighbor

your neighbor she lives in Webster New York the place

she lives in Webster New York the place

she lives in Webster New York the place where life is worth living any of you

where life is worth living any of you

where life is worth living any of you certainly worth living for her she has a

certainly worth living for her she has a

certainly worth living for her she has a more active social life than I suspect

more active social life than I suspect

more active social life than I suspect most of us in this room so they have

most of us in this room so they have

most of us in this room so they have proved there is nothing but instead is

proved there is nothing but instead is

proved there is nothing but instead is insurmountable growing up with this you

insurmountable growing up with this you

insurmountable growing up with this you can imagine it was quite an incredible

can imagine it was quite an incredible

can imagine it was quite an incredible experience for me I really learned that

experience for me I really learned that

experience for me I really learned that there’s nothing that people can’t do

there’s nothing that people can’t do

there’s nothing that people can’t do when they come together in that feed of

when they come together in that feed of

when they come together in that feed of there’s no such thing as can’t

there’s no such thing as can’t

there’s no such thing as can’t Rebecca was planted in me this would

Rebecca was planted in me this would

Rebecca was planted in me this would take shape years later in my work in

take shape years later in my work in

take shape years later in my work in nursing homes I work in the nursing home

nursing homes I work in the nursing home

nursing homes I work in the nursing home usually when I tell people that they

usually when I tell people that they

usually when I tell people that they kind of go oh I don’t know how you do

kind of go oh I don’t know how you do

kind of go oh I don’t know how you do that well I know how I do it but here’s

that well I know how I do it but here’s

that well I know how I do it but here’s what the truth is it makes me a little

what the truth is it makes me a little

what the truth is it makes me a little bit uncomfortable to want to know why

bit uncomfortable to want to know why

bit uncomfortable to want to know why because institutional care still lives

because institutional care still lives

because institutional care still lives today even in the last 40 years

today even in the last 40 years

today even in the last 40 years long-term care hasn’t come near far

long-term care hasn’t come near far

long-term care hasn’t come near far enough to get rid of those medicalised

enough to get rid of those medicalised

enough to get rid of those medicalised principles that institutions exonerate

principles that institutions exonerate

principles that institutions exonerate to people so here’s what institutions do

to people so here’s what institutions do

to people so here’s what institutions do right they take people with the highest

right they take people with the highest

right they take people with the highest level of need they put them all together

level of need they put them all together

level of need they put them all together cohorted and then they strip them from

cohorted and then they strip them from

cohorted and then they strip them from their natural connections their family

their natural connections their family

their natural connections their family their friends their informal community

their friends their informal community

their friends their informal community support their faith support they

support their faith support they

support their faith support they separate them and then they understaffed

separate them and then they understaffed

separate them and then they understaffed so that it’s barely able to execute the

so that it’s barely able to execute the

so that it’s barely able to execute the basic care needs of human beings never

basic care needs of human beings never

basic care needs of human beings never less the social or spiritual needs of

less the social or spiritual needs of

less the social or spiritual needs of these people I remember starting in my

these people I remember starting in my

these people I remember starting in my first job in

first job in

first job in in need or 2001 it was a nursing home

in need or 2001 it was a nursing home

in need or 2001 it was a nursing home and I met someone named Anthony I was a

and I met someone named Anthony I was a

and I met someone named Anthony I was a social worker at the time and if you can

social worker at the time and if you can

social worker at the time and if you can believe it

believe it

believe it a social worker supporting 75 elders in

a social worker supporting 75 elders in

a social worker supporting 75 elders in this home was a great home with great

this home was a great home with great

this home was a great home with great people who worked there please be

people who worked there please be

people who worked there please be assured but I want to tell you that when

assured but I want to tell you that when

assured but I want to tell you that when I met Anthony he had just had a stroke

I met Anthony he had just had a stroke

I met Anthony he had just had a stroke and he couldn’t feed himself he was too

and he couldn’t feed himself he was too

and he couldn’t feed himself he was too embarrassed to come out of his room and

embarrassed to come out of his room and

embarrassed to come out of his room and have meals with other people and I was

have meals with other people and I was

have meals with other people and I was the social worker trying to figure out

the social worker trying to figure out

the social worker trying to figure out how can I help this man get a little bit

how can I help this man get a little bit

how can I help this man get a little bit more acclimated to his community his new

more acclimated to his community his new

more acclimated to his community his new community after several failed attempts

community after several failed attempts

community after several failed attempts I said you know what Rebecca just go in

I said you know what Rebecca just go in

I said you know what Rebecca just go in and have breakfast with him so I took my

and have breakfast with him so I took my

and have breakfast with him so I took my oatmeal and my tea I brought his food in

oatmeal and my tea I brought his food in

oatmeal and my tea I brought his food in and I sat down and I said Anthony can we

and I sat down and I said Anthony can we

and I sat down and I said Anthony can we eat breakfast together as I helped him

eat breakfast together as I helped him

eat breakfast together as I helped him eat and I ate myself we talked about

eat and I ate myself we talked about

eat and I ate myself we talked about life I was expecting my first baby at

life I was expecting my first baby at

life I was expecting my first baby at the time and I shared with him how my

the time and I shared with him how my

the time and I shared with him how my husband my patient husband was

husband my patient husband was

husband my patient husband was procrastinating painting the nursery

procrastinating painting the nursery

procrastinating painting the nursery something I’m sure nobody can relate to

something I’m sure nobody can relate to

something I’m sure nobody can relate to he laughed and one up to me he said when

he laughed and one up to me he said when

he laughed and one up to me he said when I found out we were pregnant from my

I found out we were pregnant from my

I found out we were pregnant from my wife not only did she ask me to paint a

wife not only did she ask me to paint a

wife not only did she ask me to paint a nursery for her Rebecca but she asked me

nursery for her Rebecca but she asked me

nursery for her Rebecca but she asked me to construct her an entirely new home

to construct her an entirely new home

to construct her an entirely new home she wanted it done in four weeks time we

she wanted it done in four weeks time we

she wanted it done in four weeks time we lamented the journey of marriage and

lamented the journey of marriage and

lamented the journey of marriage and expecting babies and it was just the

expecting babies and it was just the

expecting babies and it was just the normal talk while we had breakfast

normal talk while we had breakfast

normal talk while we had breakfast together and at the end he looked at me

together and at the end he looked at me

together and at the end he looked at me and he said thank you and I kind of said

and he said thank you and I kind of said

and he said thank you and I kind of said okay for what for makes me feel like a

okay for what for makes me feel like a

okay for what for makes me feel like a human again he said oh here I am a

human again he said oh here I am a

human again he said oh here I am a social worker supporting 75 people and I

social worker supporting 75 people and I

social worker supporting 75 people and I made him feel human again by having

made him feel human again by having

made him feel human again by having breakfast with him but here’s the thing

breakfast with him but here’s the thing

breakfast with him but here’s the thing the direct care staff incredible direct

the direct care staff incredible direct

the direct care staff incredible direct care staff CNAs and nurses they were

care staff CNAs and nurses they were

care staff CNAs and nurses they were taking care of eight to ten people

taking care of eight to ten people

taking care of eight to ten people sometimes often more I had 75 people on

sometimes often more I had 75 people on

sometimes often more I had 75 people on my caseload breakfast like that was a

my caseload breakfast like that was a

my caseload breakfast like that was a luxury but I knew in my gut breakfast

luxury but I knew in my gut breakfast

luxury but I knew in my gut breakfast like that was a necessity I can

like that was a necessity I can

like that was a necessity I can distinctly remember going this system is

distinctly remember going this system is

distinctly remember going this system is so broken it is insurmountable and a

so broken it is insurmountable and a

so broken it is insurmountable and a still small voice saying but there’s no

still small voice saying but there’s no

still small voice saying but there’s no such thing as can’t when I started in my

such thing as can’t when I started in my

such thing as can’t when I started in my next job we had an opportunity to

next job we had an opportunity to

next job we had an opportunity to redefine what nursing homes look

redefine what nursing homes look

redefine what nursing homes look and I wanted to take a minute to figure

and I wanted to take a minute to figure

and I wanted to take a minute to figure out why is there such a big challenge

out why is there such a big challenge

out why is there such a big challenge and the big challenge really starts with

and the big challenge really starts with

and the big challenge really starts with staffing just as I described one social

staffing just as I described one social

staffing just as I described one social worker seventy-five people eight to ten

worker seventy-five people eight to ten

worker seventy-five people eight to ten per direct care staff but here’s the

per direct care staff but here’s the

per direct care staff but here’s the bigger challenge we have ahead of us is

bigger challenge we have ahead of us is

bigger challenge we have ahead of us is even though that’s inadequate in itself

even though that’s inadequate in itself

even though that’s inadequate in itself the challenge is only going to grow

the challenge is only going to grow

the challenge is only going to grow there’s 1.2 million people in this

there’s 1.2 million people in this

there’s 1.2 million people in this nation who need skilled level of care

nation who need skilled level of care

nation who need skilled level of care right now 1.2 so if you would just take

right now 1.2 so if you would just take

right now 1.2 so if you would just take a minute I want to make this real for

a minute I want to make this real for

a minute I want to make this real for you all look next to you hello

you all look next to you hello

you all look next to you hello one of the two of you is gonna need

one of the two of you is gonna need

one of the two of you is gonna need nursing home care at some point in your

nursing home care at some point in your

nursing home care at some point in your life I can see everybody going yup it’s

life I can see everybody going yup it’s

life I can see everybody going yup it’s them you never know three out of four of

them you never know three out of four of

them you never know three out of four of you that 75% of you all in this audience

you that 75% of you all in this audience

you that 75% of you all in this audience will need nursing home level of care for

will need nursing home level of care for

will need nursing home level of care for someone that you love care needs do not

someone that you love care needs do not

someone that you love care needs do not discriminate so we have to figure out a

discriminate so we have to figure out a

discriminate so we have to figure out a way to do this differently but the

way to do this differently but the

way to do this differently but the challenge is the direct care staff

challenge is the direct care staff

challenge is the direct care staff aren’t there so here’s the 1.2 million

aren’t there so here’s the 1.2 million

aren’t there so here’s the 1.2 million million people who need care and in the

million people who need care and in the

million people who need care and in the blue bar on the Left what you see is the

blue bar on the Left what you see is the

blue bar on the Left what you see is the amount of staff that we need to

amount of staff that we need to

amount of staff that we need to basically take care of those people in a

basically take care of those people in a

basically take care of those people in a traditional model of long-term care the

traditional model of long-term care the

traditional model of long-term care the problem is on the red right next to it

problem is on the red right next to it

problem is on the red right next to it you can see how many staff we actually

you can see how many staff we actually

you can see how many staff we actually have employed today this issue goes

have employed today this issue goes

have employed today this issue goes across industry lines into my sister’s

across industry lines into my sister’s

across industry lines into my sister’s work into across our nation for anyone

work into across our nation for anyone

work into across our nation for anyone who’s looking for a direct care we have

who’s looking for a direct care we have

who’s looking for a direct care we have to start thinking about this different

to start thinking about this different

to start thinking about this different because in five 10 15 years our

because in five 10 15 years our

because in five 10 15 years our population that needs skilled nursing

population that needs skilled nursing

population that needs skilled nursing care is going to double that means 2.7

care is going to double that means 2.7

care is going to double that means 2.7 million people will need skilled level

million people will need skilled level

million people will need skilled level of care it doesn’t matter if you think

of care it doesn’t matter if you think

of care it doesn’t matter if you think you can stay home that’s not gonna work

you can stay home that’s not gonna work

you can stay home that’s not gonna work because it’s shown that it hasn’t worked

because it’s shown that it hasn’t worked

because it’s shown that it hasn’t worked for all people so at some point some

for all people so at some point some

for all people so at some point some people will need it

people will need it

people will need it 2.7 million dollar in people yet the

2.7 million dollar in people yet the

2.7 million dollar in people yet the work force according to the Bureau of

work force according to the Bureau of

work force according to the Bureau of Labor and Statistics is saying

Labor and Statistics is saying

Labor and Statistics is saying effectively the same that is a startling

effectively the same that is a startling

effectively the same that is a startling statistic friends and we have to figure

statistic friends and we have to figure

statistic friends and we have to figure something out so what do we do what do I

something out so what do we do what do I

something out so what do we do what do I do I run a nursing home do I just stop

do I run a nursing home do I just stop

do I run a nursing home do I just stop and go well it is what it is we’ll let

and go well it is what it is we’ll let

and go well it is what it is we’ll let them deal with it when they get there

them deal with it when they get there

them deal with it when they get there that’s us we’re gonna have to deal with

that’s us we’re gonna have to deal with

that’s us we’re gonna have to deal with it or do we really step back and be

it or do we really step back and be

it or do we really step back and be inspired by

inspired by

inspired by those who’ve gone before us and say now

those who’ve gone before us and say now

those who’ve gone before us and say now I think we can do something else and

I think we can do something else and

I think we can do something else and that’s what I’m here to share with you

that’s what I’m here to share with you

that’s what I’m here to share with you today is that we can do something else

today is that we can do something else

today is that we can do something else and I have and it’s been successful and

and I have and it’s been successful and

and I have and it’s been successful and I want to keep doing it in 2012

I want to keep doing it in 2012

I want to keep doing it in 2012 we opened in Penfield New York the first

we opened in Penfield New York the first

we opened in Penfield New York the first homestyle nursing home planted right

homestyle nursing home planted right

homestyle nursing home planted right into a community if you drove by it you

into a community if you drove by it you

into a community if you drove by it you wouldn’t know it was a nursing home we

wouldn’t know it was a nursing home we

wouldn’t know it was a nursing home we really sat down as a staff and figured

really sat down as a staff and figured

really sat down as a staff and figured out how can we do this in a different

out how can we do this in a different

out how can we do this in a different way and what we realized is that for

way and what we realized is that for

way and what we realized is that for every direct care staff lets they’d be a

every direct care staff lets they’d be a

every direct care staff lets they’d be a 15 direct care staff we had around six

15 direct care staff we had around six

15 direct care staff we had around six or seven indirect employees social

or seven indirect employees social

or seven indirect employees social workers activities staff dieticians

workers activities staff dieticians

workers activities staff dieticians dining support staff Environmental

dining support staff Environmental

dining support staff Environmental Services Quality Assurance clerical

Services Quality Assurance clerical

Services Quality Assurance clerical teams seven in direct staff 215 direct

teams seven in direct staff 215 direct

teams seven in direct staff 215 direct care staff and I looked at my team and I

care staff and I looked at my team and I

care staff and I looked at my team and I said guys this is gonna be hard

said guys this is gonna be hard

said guys this is gonna be hard because we’re gonna have to figure out a

because we’re gonna have to figure out a

because we’re gonna have to figure out a way to put those resources from indirect

way to put those resources from indirect

way to put those resources from indirect care into a direct care workforce I call

care into a direct care workforce I call

care into a direct care workforce I call those indirect staff by the way

those indirect staff by the way

those indirect staff by the way experienced Bridgers because the reason

experienced Bridgers because the reason

experienced Bridgers because the reason that they’re there for a big part is

that they’re there for a big part is

that they’re there for a big part is because there’s not adequate direct care

because there’s not adequate direct care

because there’s not adequate direct care staff there’s not enough numbers of them

staff there’s not enough numbers of them

staff there’s not enough numbers of them to do what we need them to do and then

to do what we need them to do and then

to do what we need them to do and then they’re not trained well enough to be

they’re not trained well enough to be

they’re not trained well enough to be compliant so we have to add in all these

compliant so we have to add in all these

compliant so we have to add in all these fillers and then the last reason that we

fillers and then the last reason that we

fillers and then the last reason that we need those experience gaps is because we

need those experience gaps is because we

need those experience gaps is because we can’t compensate or haven’t been able to

can’t compensate or haven’t been able to

can’t compensate or haven’t been able to compensate direct care staff in a way

compensate direct care staff in a way

compensate direct care staff in a way that makes it a career so it’s a

that makes it a career so it’s a

that makes it a career so it’s a constant churn of people who are burning

constant churn of people who are burning

constant churn of people who are burning out and fizzling out and moving through

out and fizzling out and moving through

out and fizzling out and moving through in 2012 we opened with a revelatory

in 2012 we opened with a revelatory

in 2012 we opened with a revelatory staffing model and physical model in

staffing model and physical model in

staffing model and physical model in which there are adequate staff and they

which there are adequate staff and they

which there are adequate staff and they are adequately trained and they are

are adequately trained and they are

are adequately trained and they are compensated in a way that rivals

compensated in a way that rivals

compensated in a way that rivals entry-level professional careers so that

entry-level professional careers so that

entry-level professional careers so that they continue to can continue to grow in

they continue to can continue to grow in

they continue to can continue to grow in their skill set and really make a

their skill set and really make a

their skill set and really make a difference in a system this model has

difference in a system this model has

difference in a system this model has been incredibly successful 100 percent

been incredibly successful 100 percent

been incredibly successful 100 percent satisfaction from the elders and staff

satisfaction from the elders and staff

satisfaction from the elders and staff and family members who are a part of it

and family members who are a part of it

and family members who are a part of it for the last five years less than 1%

for the last five years less than 1%

for the last five years less than 1% staffing turnover in five years time in

staffing turnover in five years time in

staffing turnover in five years time in an industry where thirty to forty

an industry where thirty to forty

an industry where thirty to forty percent turnover does it make us balk at

percent turnover does it make us balk at

percent turnover does it make us balk at all the best experience has been the

all the best experience has been the

all the best experience has been the Quality Assurance because this is such a

Quality Assurance because this is such a

Quality Assurance because this is such a new model and we had to figure out could

new model and we had to figure out could

new model and we had to figure out could it be compliant

it be compliant

it be compliant could this really work in an industry

could this really work in an industry

could this really work in an industry more regulated than nuclear power in

more regulated than nuclear power in

more regulated than nuclear power in seven surveys by the state and federal

seven surveys by the state and federal

seven surveys by the state and federal government this is a new model so it’s

government this is a new model so it’s

government this is a new model so it’s heavily scrutinized it has been near

heavily scrutinized it has been near

heavily scrutinized it has been near perfect including two weeks ago where

perfect including two weeks ago where

perfect including two weeks ago where they had an exemplar state

they had an exemplar state

they had an exemplar state recertification survey yet again the

recertification survey yet again the

recertification survey yet again the second big challenge that we had to

second big challenge that we had to

second big challenge that we had to tackle was can I convince that indirect

tackle was can I convince that indirect

tackle was can I convince that indirect staff that this is okay imagine you go

staff that this is okay imagine you go

staff that this is okay imagine you go to school to be a social worker

to school to be a social worker

to school to be a social worker expecting a traditional 75 person

expecting a traditional 75 person

expecting a traditional 75 person caseload and what this administrator is

caseload and what this administrator is

caseload and what this administrator is saying is that you need to teach the

saying is that you need to teach the

saying is that you need to teach the people who take care of those elders

people who take care of those elders

people who take care of those elders every single day how to make sure they

every single day how to make sure they

every single day how to make sure they are doing all the things that you’re

are doing all the things that you’re

are doing all the things that you’re there to support it’s a bit of a

there to support it’s a bit of a

there to support it’s a bit of a paradigm shift but if you look at our

paradigm shift but if you look at our

paradigm shift but if you look at our direct care numbers it’s hard to

direct care numbers it’s hard to

direct care numbers it’s hard to convince somebody that we can’t we don’t

convince somebody that we can’t we don’t

convince somebody that we can’t we don’t have to do something different there

have to do something different there

have to do something different there were some great successes at this story

were some great successes at this story

were some great successes at this story but just remember Anthony who I

but just remember Anthony who I

but just remember Anthony who I introduced you to when I first started

introduced you to when I first started

introduced you to when I first started in my nursing home career breakfast with

in my nursing home career breakfast with

in my nursing home career breakfast with like I had with Anthony and this model

like I had with Anthony and this model

like I had with Anthony and this model happens every single day seven days a

happens every single day seven days a

happens every single day seven days a week with every single elder but it’s

week with every single elder but it’s

week with every single elder but it’s not done by a social worker if done by

not done by a social worker if done by

not done by a social worker if done by the direct care staff who supports all

the direct care staff who supports all

the direct care staff who supports all of Anthony’s needs from spiritual needs

of Anthony’s needs from spiritual needs

of Anthony’s needs from spiritual needs to social needs to physical care needs

to social needs to physical care needs

to social needs to physical care needs to meal needs it’s pretty remarkable

to meal needs it’s pretty remarkable

to meal needs it’s pretty remarkable another great example of success in this

another great example of success in this

another great example of success in this model comes from my friend Lou Lou moved

model comes from my friend Lou Lou moved

model comes from my friend Lou Lou moved in after he had lost both of his legs

in after he had lost both of his legs

in after he had lost both of his legs and he was out with his amazing

and he was out with his amazing

and he was out with his amazing Universal work staff foraging for

Universal work staff foraging for

Universal work staff foraging for cartoons in the woods behind the home

cartoons in the woods behind the home

cartoons in the woods behind the home any of you guys know what cartoons are

any of you guys know what cartoons are

any of you guys know what cartoons are not too many Italians in the area okay

not too many Italians in the area okay

not too many Italians in the area okay so apparently they grow in the wild they

so apparently they grow in the wild they

so apparently they grow in the wild they were foraging for them in the woods and

were foraging for them in the woods and

were foraging for them in the woods and when they brought them in to fry them

when they brought them in to fry them

when they brought them in to fry them because I guess that’s what you do with

because I guess that’s what you do with

because I guess that’s what you do with cartoons while they were out talking he

cartoons while they were out talking he

cartoons while they were out talking he had mentioned how much he missed hunting

had mentioned how much he missed hunting

had mentioned how much he missed hunting and she came in and she said you know

and she came in and she said you know

and she came in and she said you know Lou I think we could figure out a way to

Lou I think we could figure out a way to

Lou I think we could figure out a way to get you out hunting again kind of looked

get you out hunting again kind of looked

get you out hunting again kind of looked down at his chair and he was like really

down at his chair and he was like really

down at his chair and he was like really and she goes well there’s no such thing

and she goes well there’s no such thing

and she goes well there’s no such thing as can’t really well trained this girl

as can’t really well trained this girl

as can’t really well trained this girl was so long story short he got to the

was so long story short he got to the

was so long story short he got to the field where he was typically hunting in

field where he was typically hunting in

field where he was typically hunting in into a tree stand where he was familiar

into a tree stand where he was familiar

into a tree stand where he was familiar with and doesn’t a five plate flashy

with and doesn’t a five plate flashy

with and doesn’t a five plate flashy buck walk right by going shoot me Lou

buck walk right by going shoot me Lou

buck walk right by going shoot me Lou me and sure enough he did he then

me and sure enough he did he then

me and sure enough he did he then proceeded to bring that buck home to his

proceeded to bring that buck home to his

proceeded to bring that buck home to his home in Penfield New York upstate New

home in Penfield New York upstate New

home in Penfield New York upstate New York and he asked to hang it in the

York and he asked to hang it in the

York and he asked to hang it in the garage to dress it out I don’t know if

garage to dress it out I don’t know if

garage to dress it out I don’t know if anyone knows what that means but the

anyone knows what that means but the

anyone knows what that means but the people in the house said absolutely not

people in the house said absolutely not

people in the house said absolutely not what they finally decided on was that

what they finally decided on was that

what they finally decided on was that they would get it processed externally

they would get it processed externally

they would get it processed externally and make venison sausage together and

and make venison sausage together and

and make venison sausage together and celebrate lose victory over venison

celebrate lose victory over venison

celebrate lose victory over venison sausage I would be hard pressed to find

sausage I would be hard pressed to find

sausage I would be hard pressed to find a traditional nursing home that would

a traditional nursing home that would

a traditional nursing home that would have a story like that in its history

have a story like that in its history

have a story like that in its history I’ve got ages of them but here’s my

I’ve got ages of them but here’s my

I’ve got ages of them but here’s my challenge I also run a big building on

challenge I also run a big building on

challenge I also run a big building on Highland Avenue where four hundred and

Highland Avenue where four hundred and

Highland Avenue where four hundred and seventy people live and most of the time

seventy people live and most of the time

seventy people live and most of the time that’s where I spend my life we needed

that’s where I spend my life we needed

that’s where I spend my life we needed to do something different there – I

to do something different there – I

to do something different there – I couldn’t wrestle

couldn’t wrestle

couldn’t wrestle I couldn’t reconcile the dichotomy of

I couldn’t reconcile the dichotomy of

I couldn’t reconcile the dichotomy of care so here we had this home with 475

care so here we had this home with 475

care so here we had this home with 475 people in it and an amazing staff

people in it and an amazing staff

people in it and an amazing staff struggling to convert to something

struggling to convert to something

struggling to convert to something different but what we’ve done in the

different but what we’ve done in the

different but what we’ve done in the last three years with this incredible

last three years with this incredible

last three years with this incredible team is start to emulate the model that

team is start to emulate the model that

team is start to emulate the model that we’ve seen in Penfield no longer is this

we’ve seen in Penfield no longer is this

we’ve seen in Penfield no longer is this one home this is 20 homes for elders

one home this is 20 homes for elders

one home this is 20 homes for elders staffed in the same Universal work model

staffed in the same Universal work model

staffed in the same Universal work model with the same well staffed well trained

with the same well staffed well trained

with the same well staffed well trained and well compensated direct care worker

and well compensated direct care worker

and well compensated direct care worker that we need again seven homes have been

that we need again seven homes have been

that we need again seven homes have been open for the last two years the expect

open for the last two years the expect

open for the last two years the expect or the result are just what you would

or the result are just what you would

or the result are just what you would expect improves quality improves

expect improves quality improves

expect improves quality improves satisfaction and improve staff retention

satisfaction and improve staff retention

satisfaction and improve staff retention we’re talking about redefining a

we’re talking about redefining a

we’re talking about redefining a workforce here and I want to give you

workforce here and I want to give you

workforce here and I want to give you some tips about doing something

some tips about doing something

some tips about doing something insurmountable so that you too can

insurmountable so that you too can

insurmountable so that you too can remember there’s no such thing as can’t

remember there’s no such thing as can’t

remember there’s no such thing as can’t in your life the first thing that you

in your life the first thing that you

in your life the first thing that you need to do stop commiserating it is so

need to do stop commiserating it is so

need to do stop commiserating it is so easy to talk about how bad the system is

easy to talk about how bad the system is

easy to talk about how bad the system is or how unjust life is or how broken

or how unjust life is or how broken

or how unjust life is or how broken things are but you know what it really

things are but you know what it really

things are but you know what it really doesn’t take us anywhere so instead of

doesn’t take us anywhere so instead of

doesn’t take us anywhere so instead of commiserating and saying well just the

commiserating and saying well just the

commiserating and saying well just the way it is start saying it’s the way it

way it is start saying it’s the way it

way it is start saying it’s the way it is now and I’m gonna work to make it

is now and I’m gonna work to make it

is now and I’m gonna work to make it different in the future collaborate this

different in the future collaborate this

different in the future collaborate this community is so rich in academia and

community is so rich in academia and

community is so rich in academia and cotton collegial relationships in

cotton collegial relationships in

cotton collegial relationships in organizations like here who people are

organizations like here who people are

organizations like here who people are really trying to do something different

really trying to do something different

really trying to do something different together you can’t tackle the

together you can’t tackle the

together you can’t tackle the insurmountable on your own don’t even

insurmountable on your own don’t even

insurmountable on your own don’t even try

try

try I finally probably most importantly have

I finally probably most importantly have

I finally probably most importantly have some courage there’s a lot of naysayers

some courage there’s a lot of naysayers

some courage there’s a lot of naysayers out there especially when you’re trying

out there especially when you’re trying

out there especially when you’re trying to do something different

to do something different

to do something different people are going you’re gonna die if you

people are going you’re gonna die if you

people are going you’re gonna die if you run faster than a four-minute mile kind

run faster than a four-minute mile kind

run faster than a four-minute mile kind of I might so right just being honest

of I might so right just being honest

of I might so right just being honest but seriously have some courage through

but seriously have some courage through

but seriously have some courage through this work force conversion at st. John’s

this work force conversion at st. John’s

this work force conversion at st. John’s I can assure you I have been effective

I can assure you I have been effective

I can assure you I have been effective and I have been woefully ineffective I

and I have been woefully ineffective I

and I have been woefully ineffective I have been loved and I have been

have been loved and I have been

have been loved and I have been painfully loathed I have been incredibly

painfully loathed I have been incredibly

painfully loathed I have been incredibly proud of our accomplishment and yet I am

proud of our accomplishment and yet I am

proud of our accomplishment and yet I am desperate for a faster transition

desperate for a faster transition

desperate for a faster transition because we cannot continue to provide

because we cannot continue to provide

because we cannot continue to provide institutional care for people who need

institutional care for people who need

institutional care for people who need real life support in a home so as we’re

real life support in a home so as we’re

real life support in a home so as we’re talking about reimagining this nursing

talking about reimagining this nursing

talking about reimagining this nursing home I want you to take heart and if

home I want you to take heart and if

home I want you to take heart and if you’re curious about how you might be

you’re curious about how you might be

you’re curious about how you might be able to collaborate please talk with me

able to collaborate please talk with me

able to collaborate please talk with me there’s always room for more right but I

there’s always room for more right but I

there’s always room for more right but I want you to take some solace in the fact

want you to take some solace in the fact

want you to take some solace in the fact that when one or the person you or the

that when one or the person you or the

that when one or the person you or the person to your right needs a nursing

person to your right needs a nursing

person to your right needs a nursing home care or someone in your family

home care or someone in your family

home care or someone in your family needs that level of care that you just

needs that level of care that you just

needs that level of care that you just might be able to go to another home if

might be able to go to another home if

might be able to go to another home if your own home might work and you’ll be

your own home might work and you’ll be

your own home might work and you’ll be able to do that with a staff that’s

able to do that with a staff that’s

able to do that with a staff that’s rewarded with the ability and the

rewarded with the ability and the

rewarded with the ability and the resources and the compensation that they

resources and the compensation that they

resources and the compensation that they deserve to take full care of you in your

deserve to take full care of you in your

deserve to take full care of you in your life and then finally I just want to

life and then finally I just want to

life and then finally I just want to celebrate and give gratitude to those

celebrate and give gratitude to those

celebrate and give gratitude to those who’ve given purpose and clarity in my

who’ve given purpose and clarity in my

who’ve given purpose and clarity in my life including Tony Anthony and Lou and

life including Tony Anthony and Lou and

life including Tony Anthony and Lou and of course my incredible sisty and as you

of course my incredible sisty and as you

of course my incredible sisty and as you depart from here today I wish you great

depart from here today I wish you great

depart from here today I wish you great clarity in your purpose so that you too

clarity in your purpose so that you too

clarity in your purpose so that you too can look those naysayers in the face and

can look those naysayers in the face and

can look those naysayers in the face and say there’s no such thing as can’t thank

say there’s no such thing as can’t thank

say there’s no such thing as can’t thank you

you

you [Applause]

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