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Personal Growth: The Limits of Intention | Brendan Belz | TEDxNorthwesternU


is it possible to be

is it possible to be intentionally unintentional

intentionally unintentional

intentionally unintentional or asked in another way is there power

or asked in another way is there power

or asked in another way is there power in the absence of intention

in the absence of intention

in the absence of intention these are provocative questions that

these are provocative questions that

these are provocative questions that I’ve spent a good part of my

I’ve spent a good part of my

I’ve spent a good part of my professional career exploring if true

professional career exploring if true

professional career exploring if true the implication is in many ways contrary

the implication is in many ways contrary

the implication is in many ways contrary to what we are taught growing up to make

to what we are taught growing up to make

to what we are taught growing up to make decisions deliberately to actively seek

decisions deliberately to actively seek

decisions deliberately to actively seek those experiences that are uniquely

those experiences that are uniquely

those experiences that are uniquely capable of preparing us to achieve our

capable of preparing us to achieve our

capable of preparing us to achieve our life goals this is definitely true in

life goals this is definitely true in

life goals this is definitely true in Business School where from day one we

Business School where from day one we

Business School where from day one we are encouraged to be methodical as we

are encouraged to be methodical as we

are encouraged to be methodical as we chart our future paths from selecting

chart our future paths from selecting

chart our future paths from selecting classes to Club leadership positions to

classes to Club leadership positions to

classes to Club leadership positions to picking that perfect summer internship

picking that perfect summer internship

picking that perfect summer internship between the first and the second year

between the first and the second year

between the first and the second year everything is framed in terms of how do

everything is framed in terms of how do

everything is framed in terms of how do we make this to achieve our life how do

we make this to achieve our life how do

we make this to achieve our life how do we help achieve our life goals today

we help achieve our life goals today

we help achieve our life goals today however I’d like to offer a contrarian

however I’d like to offer a contrarian

however I’d like to offer a contrarian view I’d like to take you on a journey

view I’d like to take you on a journey

view I’d like to take you on a journey through my time in India and in Africa

through my time in India and in Africa

through my time in India and in Africa that led me to the belief that by

that led me to the belief that by

that led me to the belief that by actively seeking unfamiliar and

actively seeking unfamiliar and

actively seeking unfamiliar and uncomfortable environments I could

uncomfortable environments I could

uncomfortable environments I could actually achieve much greater personal

actually achieve much greater personal

actually achieve much greater personal leadership development rather than

leadership development rather than

leadership development rather than pursuing a specific experience or lesson

pursuing a specific experience or lesson

pursuing a specific experience or lesson I learned – I learned to be intentional

I learned – I learned to be intentional

I learned – I learned to be intentional but only to a certain point after which

but only to a certain point after which

but only to a certain point after which by definition I could no longer dictate

by definition I could no longer dictate

by definition I could no longer dictate outcomes what I found is it is from

outcomes what I found is it is from

outcomes what I found is it is from these spaces of ambiguity or at times

these spaces of ambiguity or at times

these spaces of ambiguity or at times personal chaos that come some of the

personal chaos that come some of the

personal chaos that come some of the most impactful personal professional

most impactful personal professional

most impactful personal professional growth now to understand how this all

growth now to understand how this all

growth now to understand how this all started this is this isn’t a belief I’ve

started this is this isn’t a belief I’ve

started this is this isn’t a belief I’ve always held to understand how this all

always held to understand how this all

always held to understand how this all got started I need to take you on a trip

got started I need to take you on a trip

got started I need to take you on a trip down memory lane to 2006

down memory lane to 2006

down memory lane to 2006 now I’m sufficiently awkward high school

now I’m sufficiently awkward high school

now I’m sufficiently awkward high school senior let’s see yeah there we go

senior let’s see yeah there we go

senior let’s see yeah there we go maybe not this awkward all of the time

maybe not this awkward all of the time

maybe not this awkward all of the time okay there we go that’s a little bit

okay there we go that’s a little bit

okay there we go that’s a little bit better now I just read Thomas Friedman’s

better now I just read Thomas Friedman’s

better now I just read Thomas Friedman’s book the world is flat and had become

book the world is flat and had become

book the world is flat and had become fascinated with emerging markets in

fascinated with emerging markets in

fascinated with emerging markets in particular China and India were growing

particular China and India were growing

particular China and India were growing at in excess of 8% annually GDP and and

at in excess of 8% annually GDP and and

at in excess of 8% annually GDP and and I really wanted to go to those places so

I really wanted to go to those places so

I really wanted to go to those places so now fast forward a few years later and

now fast forward a few years later and

now fast forward a few years later and alum a sophomore at DePaul University

alum a sophomore at DePaul University

alum a sophomore at DePaul University and a new internship is created a

and a new internship is created a

and a new internship is created a semester long internship is created

semester long internship is created

semester long internship is created through a special partnership between

through a special partnership between

through a special partnership between DePauw & Cummins a fortune 500 diesel

DePauw & Cummins a fortune 500 diesel

DePauw & Cummins a fortune 500 diesel engine and power generation manufacturer

engine and power generation manufacturer

engine and power generation manufacturer I immediately apply and I’m fortunate

I immediately apply and I’m fortunate

I immediately apply and I’m fortunate enough to be named one of the first to

enough to be named one of the first to

enough to be named one of the first to interns

interns

interns I am beyond excited I feel on top of the

I am beyond excited I feel on top of the

I am beyond excited I feel on top of the world

world

world I’ve clinched a international finance

I’ve clinched a international finance

I’ve clinched a international finance internship let’s sit here and I clinch

internship let’s sit here and I clinch

internship let’s sit here and I clinch the International Finance internship at

the International Finance internship at

the International Finance internship at a fortune 500 company in one of the

a fortune 500 company in one of the

a fortune 500 company in one of the hottest two emerging markets I’ve hit

hottest two emerging markets I’ve hit

hottest two emerging markets I’ve hit the trifecta in my mind I’m going to

the trifecta in my mind I’m going to

the trifecta in my mind I’m going to India and I’m going to learn all about

India and I’m going to learn all about

India and I’m going to learn all about international finance and strategy and

international finance and strategy and

international finance and strategy and set the foundation for incredible

set the foundation for incredible

set the foundation for incredible international business career can you

international business career can you

international business career can you sense the calculation my decision-making

sense the calculation my decision-making

sense the calculation my decision-making process it turns out none of that

process it turns out none of that

process it turns out none of that actually happens despite asking for work

actually happens despite asking for work

actually happens despite asking for work repeatedly I mostly just sit around for

repeatedly I mostly just sit around for

repeatedly I mostly just sit around for six months you see the concept of an

six months you see the concept of an

six months you see the concept of an internship at least how we all think

internship at least how we all think

internship at least how we all think about it didn’t really exist in India at

about it didn’t really exist in India at

about it didn’t really exist in India at the time they thought of it more of a

the time they thought of it more of a

the time they thought of it more of a Job Shadow that coupled with the fact

Job Shadow that coupled with the fact

Job Shadow that coupled with the fact that my internship my internship host

that my internship my internship host

that my internship my internship host hadn’t really prepared for my arrival

hadn’t really prepared for my arrival

hadn’t really prepared for my arrival led to a really disappointing work

led to a really disappointing work

led to a really disappointing work experience I returned to the US feeling

experience I returned to the US feeling

experience I returned to the US feeling devastated thinking how did I blow this

devastated thinking how did I blow this

devastated thinking how did I blow this incredible opportunity on such a

incredible opportunity on such a

incredible opportunity on such a fruitless experience however as I think

fruitless experience however as I think

fruitless experience however as I think about it more and more and I reflect on

about it more and more and I reflect on

about it more and more and I reflect on my time in India I realized I’d actually

my time in India I realized I’d actually

my time in India I realized I’d actually learned a whole lot but the growth had

learned a whole lot but the growth had

learned a whole lot but the growth had come from what at the time seemed like a

come from what at the time seemed like a

come from what at the time seemed like a really odd place daily life activities

really odd place daily life activities

really odd place daily life activities like buying groceries getting my hair

like buying groceries getting my hair

like buying groceries getting my hair cut had become new experiences and

cut had become new experiences and

cut had become new experiences and challenges sources of growth let me give

challenges sources of growth let me give

challenges sources of growth let me give an example

an example

an example there’s a saying that goes in the US

there’s a saying that goes in the US

there’s a saying that goes in the US traffic lights are the rule in China

traffic lights are the rule in China

traffic lights are the rule in China they are a recommendation and in India

they are a recommendation and in India

they are a recommendation and in India they are decorations now it probably

they are decorations now it probably

they are decorations now it probably doesn’t come as much of a surprise that

doesn’t come as much of a surprise that

doesn’t come as much of a surprise that traffic in India’s major cities is

traffic in India’s major cities is

traffic in India’s major cities is really bad

really bad

really bad it rarely stops for anything part of my

it rarely stops for anything part of my

it rarely stops for anything part of my daily commute to the office involved

daily commute to the office involved

daily commute to the office involved crossing this really major street

crossing this really major street

crossing this really major street walking I remember walking up to it the

walking I remember walking up to it the

walking I remember walking up to it the first day and thinking how on earth am I

first day and thinking how on earth am I

first day and thinking how on earth am I going to get across this thing I feel

going to get across this thing I feel

going to get across this thing I feel petrified out of desperation I do the

petrified out of desperation I do the

petrified out of desperation I do the only thing I can I start to observe

only thing I can I start to observe

only thing I can I start to observe those around me I watch how they cross

those around me I watch how they cross

those around me I watch how they cross the street they take a few steps out let

the street they take a few steps out let

the street they take a few steps out let traffic flow in front and behind them

traffic flow in front and behind them

traffic flow in front and behind them take another couple of steps let some

take another couple of steps let some

take another couple of steps let some more traffic flow in front and behind

more traffic flow in front and behind

more traffic flow in front and behind them and they eventually get across the

them and they eventually get across the

them and they eventually get across the street when I muster up enough courage

street when I muster up enough courage

street when I muster up enough courage of my own I attach myself to the hip of

of my own I attach myself to the hip of

of my own I attach myself to the hip of a complete stranger and do my best to

a complete stranger and do my best to

a complete stranger and do my best to follow along slowly but surely I learn

follow along slowly but surely I learn

follow along slowly but surely I learn how to cross these streets I learned a

how to cross these streets I learned a

how to cross these streets I learned a profound lesson from this rather mundane

profound lesson from this rather mundane

profound lesson from this rather mundane and unremarkable activity of crossing

and unremarkable activity of crossing

and unremarkable activity of crossing the street I learned the power of

the street I learned the power of

the street I learned the power of intention of sorry imitation in this

intention of sorry imitation in this

intention of sorry imitation in this case it was imitation out of desperation

case it was imitation out of desperation

case it was imitation out of desperation as without

as without

as without mimicking others I quite literally would

mimicking others I quite literally would

mimicking others I quite literally would have never learned how to cross the

have never learned how to cross the

have never learned how to cross the street but there was a more meaningful

street but there was a more meaningful

street but there was a more meaningful message here

message here

message here imitation had become a key part of

imitation had become a key part of

imitation had become a key part of integrating culturally for me in within

integrating culturally for me in within

integrating culturally for me in within a week this was especially true within

a week this was especially true within

a week this was especially true within when it came to the nonverbal

when it came to the nonverbal

when it came to the nonverbal communication that is prevalent in India

communication that is prevalent in India

communication that is prevalent in India within a week of arriving I started to

within a week of arriving I started to

within a week of arriving I started to notice the ubiquitous head nod that I’m

notice the ubiquitous head nod that I’m

notice the ubiquitous head nod that I’m sure those of you who have been to India

sure those of you who have been to India

sure those of you who have been to India are familiar with its it’s somewhere

are familiar with its it’s somewhere

are familiar with its it’s somewhere between a yes and a no looks like this

between a yes and a no looks like this

between a yes and a no looks like this and it can kind of be used to answer any

and it can kind of be used to answer any

and it can kind of be used to answer any question now initially I have no idea

question now initially I have no idea

question now initially I have no idea what it means or how to interpret it I

what it means or how to interpret it I

what it means or how to interpret it I remember on one occasion I’d asked a

remember on one occasion I’d asked a

remember on one occasion I’d asked a colleague a question and he responded

colleague a question and he responded

colleague a question and he responded with the head nod and I had to say

with the head nod and I had to say

with the head nod and I had to say submit I don’t know what you’re saying

submit I don’t know what you’re saying

submit I don’t know what you’re saying is that a yes or is that a no without

is that a yes or is that a no without

is that a yes or is that a no without fully understanding it I just start to

fully understanding it I just start to

fully understanding it I just start to imitate it because at the very least I

imitate it because at the very least I

imitate it because at the very least I can tell it’s an important part of

can tell it’s an important part of

can tell it’s an important part of communication through trial and error I

communication through trial and error I

communication through trial and error I do slowly learn how to use the head nod

do slowly learn how to use the head nod

do slowly learn how to use the head nod properly

properly

properly now imitation has a lot of negative

now imitation has a lot of negative

now imitation has a lot of negative connotations some people call it

connotations some people call it

connotations some people call it unoriginal others go as far as calling

unoriginal others go as far as calling

unoriginal others go as far as calling it condescending or patronizing

it condescending or patronizing

it condescending or patronizing however imitation can come from a place

however imitation can come from a place

however imitation can come from a place of great sincerity and vulnerability

of great sincerity and vulnerability

of great sincerity and vulnerability when you let your guard down and accept

when you let your guard down and accept

when you let your guard down and accept you you accept you don’t know how to do

you you accept you don’t know how to do

you you accept you don’t know how to do something imitating others can be seen

something imitating others can be seen

something imitating others can be seen as a sign of respect or a desire to

as a sign of respect or a desire to

as a sign of respect or a desire to learn think about if you’ve traveled

learn think about if you’ve traveled

learn think about if you’ve traveled internationally to a place you don’t

internationally to a place you don’t

internationally to a place you don’t speak the local language any attempt you

speak the local language any attempt you

speak the local language any attempt you make to even learn a few words is often

make to even learn a few words is often

make to even learn a few words is often received with great warmth at least this

received with great warmth at least this

received with great warmth at least this has been my experience edit score this

has been my experience edit score this

has been my experience edit score this is imitation and I now tie and I now try

is imitation and I now tie and I now try

is imitation and I now tie and I now try to embrace it when I’m placed in

to embrace it when I’m placed in

to embrace it when I’m placed in unfamiliar and uncomfortable situations

unfamiliar and uncomfortable situations

unfamiliar and uncomfortable situations my time in India was Oh Leslie yeah my

my time in India was Oh Leslie yeah my

my time in India was Oh Leslie yeah my time in India was transformative well I

time in India was transformative well I

time in India was transformative well I had gone there to learn a specific set

had gone there to learn a specific set

had gone there to learn a specific set of finance and business

of finance and business

of finance and business I went there to learn a specific finance

I went there to learn a specific finance

I went there to learn a specific finance and business skillset I instead walked

and business skillset I instead walked

and business skillset I instead walked away having started down in Credle path

away having started down in Credle path

away having started down in Credle path of personal growth marked by life

of personal growth marked by life

of personal growth marked by life lessons such as this greater

lessons such as this greater

lessons such as this greater appreciation for imitation more

appreciation for imitation more

appreciation for imitation more importantly though I walked away with a

importantly though I walked away with a

importantly though I walked away with a profoundly different perspective of what

profoundly different perspective of what

profoundly different perspective of what it means to be intentional what struck

it means to be intentional what struck

it means to be intentional what struck me was how the growth I had had had come

me was how the growth I had had had come

me was how the growth I had had had come not as the result of a specific action

not as the result of a specific action

not as the result of a specific action but instead of just putting myself in a

but instead of just putting myself in a

but instead of just putting myself in a certain type of environment in the first

certain type of environment in the first

certain type of environment in the first place this was a turning point for me

place this was a turning point for me

place this was a turning point for me whereas in India the growth was largely

whereas in India the growth was largely

whereas in India the growth was largely accidental I now started to seek out

accidental I now started to seek out

accidental I now started to seek out opportunities where I knew I’d be placed

opportunities where I knew I’d be placed

opportunities where I knew I’d be placed back into these types of environments

back into these types of environments

back into these types of environments despite a disappointing work experience

despite a disappointing work experience

despite a disappointing work experience in India I now despite a disappointing

in India I now despite a disappointing

in India I now despite a disappointing work experience in India I grown quite

work experience in India I grown quite

work experience in India I grown quite fond of Commons as a company and I

fond of Commons as a company and I

fond of Commons as a company and I joined full-time in 2010 about after 18

joined full-time in 2010 about after 18

joined full-time in 2010 about after 18 months of persistently lobbying for an

months of persistently lobbying for an

months of persistently lobbying for an overseas work assignment I had two

overseas work assignment I had two

overseas work assignment I had two opportunities represented to me one was

opportunities represented to me one was

opportunities represented to me one was in Belgium and one was in South Africa

in Belgium and one was in South Africa

in Belgium and one was in South Africa in deciding between the two I asked

in deciding between the two I asked

in deciding between the two I asked myself one simple question which role

myself one simple question which role

myself one simple question which role would put me back

would put me back

would put me back most consistently put me back into those

most consistently put me back into those

most consistently put me back into those types of environments where I knew

types of environments where I knew

types of environments where I knew growth would occur needless to say I

growth would occur needless to say I

growth would occur needless to say I packed my bags and I was on my way to

packed my bags and I was on my way to

packed my bags and I was on my way to Africa well in the end I had four

Africa well in the end I had four

Africa well in the end I had four amazing years in Africa and while I was

amazing years in Africa and while I was

amazing years in Africa and while I was based in South Africa I spent the

based in South Africa I spent the

based in South Africa I spent the majority of my time traveling across the

majority of my time traveling across the

majority of my time traveling across the continent helping cummins establish and

continent helping cummins establish and

continent helping cummins establish and grow new businesses in total I visited

grow new businesses in total I visited

grow new businesses in total I visited over a dozen African countries and I

over a dozen African countries and I

over a dozen African countries and I made many lifelong friends along the way

made many lifelong friends along the way

made many lifelong friends along the way growth continued to come from where from

growth continued to come from where from

growth continued to come from where from unusual places where I was least

unusual places where I was least

unusual places where I was least expecting it and most importantly as the

expecting it and most importantly as the

expecting it and most importantly as the result of no specific action a perfect

result of no specific action a perfect

result of no specific action a perfect example of this is a trip I took early

example of this is a trip I took early

example of this is a trip I took early last year to attend a friend’s wedding

last year to attend a friend’s wedding

last year to attend a friend’s wedding now it’s a warm Saturday morning and I’m

now it’s a warm Saturday morning and I’m

now it’s a warm Saturday morning and I’m driving about an hour south of

driving about an hour south of

driving about an hour south of Johannesburg to a small Township named

Johannesburg to a small Township named

Johannesburg to a small Township named Sybil cane with the name of the church

Sybil cane with the name of the church

Sybil cane with the name of the church and my smartphone I feel I have

and my smartphone I feel I have

and my smartphone I feel I have everything I need to navigate to the

everything I need to navigate to the

everything I need to navigate to the wedding in the three and a half years

wedding in the three and a half years

wedding in the three and a half years I’d lived in South Africa never once had

I’d lived in South Africa never once had

I’d lived in South Africa never once had I had a problem navigating with GPS but

I had a problem navigating with GPS but

I had a problem navigating with GPS but by the third failed attempt to find the

by the third failed attempt to find the

by the third failed attempt to find the Dutch Reformed Church I had run into

Dutch Reformed Church I had run into

Dutch Reformed Church I had run into four other cars full of equally lost

four other cars full of equally lost

four other cars full of equally lost wedding guests for the next two hours we

wedding guests for the next two hours we

wedding guests for the next two hours we aimlessly caravan across the township

aimlessly caravan across the township

aimlessly caravan across the township asking dozens of local townspeople if

asking dozens of local townspeople if

asking dozens of local townspeople if they know where the church is

they know where the church is

they know where the church is and we’re consistently met with puzzled

and we’re consistently met with puzzled

and we’re consistently met with puzzled looks almost as if they don’t even know

looks almost as if they don’t even know

looks almost as if they don’t even know what we’re asking them and this is not a

what we’re asking them and this is not a

what we’re asking them and this is not a language barrier issue everyone is

language barrier issue everyone is

language barrier issue everyone is speaking English we then stumble we send

speaking English we then stumble we send

speaking English we then stumble we send stumble upon an elderly woman gardening

stumble upon an elderly woman gardening

stumble upon an elderly woman gardening in her front lawn in her front yard

in her front lawn in her front yard

in her front lawn in her front yard tired stressed beyond fashionably late

tired stressed beyond fashionably late

tired stressed beyond fashionably late and in what I am sure to be the 15th

and in what I am sure to be the 15th

and in what I am sure to be the 15th futile attempt to ascertain the location

futile attempt to ascertain the location

futile attempt to ascertain the location of the church I ask her I say hey mum do

of the church I ask her I say hey mum do

of the church I ask her I say hey mum do you know where the Dutch Reformed

you know where the Dutch Reformed

you know where the Dutch Reformed churches she looks at me and she says

churches she looks at me and she says

churches she looks at me and she says the church with red bricks and a green

the church with red bricks and a green

the church with red bricks and a green roof is just over there but I don’t know

roof is just over there but I don’t know

roof is just over there but I don’t know what its name is and that’s when it hits

what its name is and that’s when it hits

what its name is and that’s when it hits me

me

me I’d been approaching the problem in

I’d been approaching the problem in

I’d been approaching the problem in completely the wrong way the church was

completely the wrong way the church was

completely the wrong way the church was not known by its English name but

not known by its English name but

not known by its English name but instead by its physical description

instead by its physical description

instead by its physical description addresses street names maps this was not

addresses street names maps this was not

addresses street names maps this was not the system through

the system through

the system through this community primarily navigated they

this community primarily navigated they

this community primarily navigated they navigated by landmark in physical

navigated by landmark in physical

navigated by landmark in physical description

description

description thus the church didn’t have an address

thus the church didn’t have an address

thus the church didn’t have an address wasn’t really on a map that wouldn’t

wasn’t really on a map that wouldn’t

wasn’t really on a map that wouldn’t have made any sense offering to show us

have made any sense offering to show us

have made any sense offering to show us the way

the way

the way the elderly woman climbed into my Jeep

the elderly woman climbed into my Jeep

the elderly woman climbed into my Jeep and we arrived at the church within five

and we arrived at the church within five

and we arrived at the church within five minutes

minutes

minutes luckily the pastor was still preaching

luckily the pastor was still preaching

luckily the pastor was still preaching and we hadn’t missed the whole ceremony

and we hadn’t missed the whole ceremony

and we hadn’t missed the whole ceremony now it took me a few weeks to fully

now it took me a few weeks to fully

now it took me a few weeks to fully synthesize the implications of the

synthesize the implications of the

synthesize the implications of the experience I’d had in see looking

experience I’d had in see looking

experience I’d had in see looking ultimately I failed to locate the church

ultimately I failed to locate the church

ultimately I failed to locate the church because I was operating within a frame

because I was operating within a frame

because I was operating within a frame with a framework that wasn’t compatible

with a framework that wasn’t compatible

with a framework that wasn’t compatible with the environment I was in at the

with the environment I was in at the

with the environment I was in at the time furthermore the correct framework

time furthermore the correct framework

time furthermore the correct framework to use never once crossed my mind

to use never once crossed my mind

to use never once crossed my mind navigating by physical description in

navigating by physical description in

navigating by physical description in landmark never once crossed my mind to

landmark never once crossed my mind to

landmark never once crossed my mind to use the common idiom it goes beyond

use the common idiom it goes beyond

use the common idiom it goes beyond putting yourself in someone else’s shoes

putting yourself in someone else’s shoes

putting yourself in someone else’s shoes because you potentially don’t even know

because you potentially don’t even know

because you potentially don’t even know what those shoes look like now when I

what those shoes look like now when I

what those shoes look like now when I face a particularly challenging problem

face a particularly challenging problem

face a particularly challenging problem I attempt to relinquish everything I

I attempt to relinquish everything I

I attempt to relinquish everything I think I know and actively try to think

think I know and actively try to think

think I know and actively try to think about the situation from a different

about the situation from a different

about the situation from a different perspective and most importantly be

perspective and most importantly be

perspective and most importantly be cognizant they may not even know what

cognizant they may not even know what

cognizant they may not even know what that what some of those alternative

that what some of those alternative

that what some of those alternative perspectives look like my time in Africa

perspectives look like my time in Africa

perspectives look like my time in Africa was was highlighted by experiences such

was was highlighted by experiences such

was was highlighted by experiences such as these great personal leadership

as these great personal leadership

as these great personal leadership insights that came from nothing more

insights that came from nothing more

insights that came from nothing more than putting myself in uncomfortable

than putting myself in uncomfortable

than putting myself in uncomfortable environments so why does all of this

environments so why does all of this

environments so why does all of this matter I’ve noticed the connection

matter I’ve noticed the connection

matter I’ve noticed the connection between the types of personal leadership

between the types of personal leadership

between the types of personal leadership at the types of personal leadership

at the types of personal leadership

at the types of personal leadership insights that come when you place

insights that come when you place

insights that come when you place yourself in what in uncomfortable

yourself in what in uncomfortable

yourself in what in uncomfortable environments and the attributes of

environments and the attributes of

environments and the attributes of successful global leaders leadership

successful global leaders leadership

successful global leaders leadership today consists of operating in an

today consists of operating in an

today consists of operating in an increasingly interconnected world in a

increasingly interconnected world in a

increasingly interconnected world in a world that has increasingly diverse

world that has increasingly diverse

world that has increasingly diverse teams yet diverse teams are not in and

teams yet diverse teams are not in and

teams yet diverse teams are not in and of themselves enough to solve today’s

of themselves enough to solve today’s

of themselves enough to solve today’s greatest challenges leaders need to know

greatest challenges leaders need to know

greatest challenges leaders need to know how to harness the different

how to harness the different

how to harness the different perspectives and life experiences of

perspectives and life experiences of

perspectives and life experiences of their teams in order to come up with

their teams in order to come up with

their teams in order to come up with innovative solutions if you think about

innovative solutions if you think about

innovative solutions if you think about it

it

it it’s actually silly to think that one

it’s actually silly to think that one

it’s actually silly to think that one person with one set of life experiences

person with one set of life experiences

person with one set of life experiences knows the right path forward all of the

knows the right path forward all of the

knows the right path forward all of the time great leaders are a great leaders

time great leaders are a great leaders

time great leaders are a great leaders not only someone who is confident enough

not only someone who is confident enough

not only someone who is confident enough to accept when they don’t know the right

to accept when they don’t know the right

to accept when they don’t know the right path forward but someone who’s willing

path forward but someone who’s willing

path forward but someone who’s willing who’s willing to consciously think about

who’s willing to consciously think about

who’s willing to consciously think about and leverage perspectives other than

and leverage perspectives other than

and leverage perspectives other than their own even if they’re not fully

their own even if they’re not fully

their own even if they’re not fully comfortable or they don’t fully

comfortable or they don’t fully

comfortable or they don’t fully understand those alternative

understand those alternative

understand those alternative perspectives leaders need to know when

perspectives leaders need to know when

perspectives leaders need to know when to imitate others or more importantly

to imitate others or more importantly

to imitate others or more importantly when to broaden their horizons to

when to broaden their horizons to

when to broaden their horizons to consider perspectives they didn’t know

consider perspectives they didn’t know

consider perspectives they didn’t know existed before and make no mistake this

existed before and make no mistake this

existed before and make no mistake this is that this takes deliberate action

is that this takes deliberate action

is that this takes deliberate action taking a step back and saying hey maybe

taking a step back and saying hey maybe

taking a step back and saying hey maybe there’s a solution to this problem I

there’s a solution to this problem I

there’s a solution to this problem I haven’t thought of yet that’s that takes

haven’t thought of yet that’s that takes

haven’t thought of yet that’s that takes intention but wait haven’t I been saying

intention but wait haven’t I been saying

intention but wait haven’t I been saying all along

all along

all along don’t be intentional herein lies the

don’t be intentional herein lies the

don’t be intentional herein lies the paradox of what I’m suggesting in order

paradox of what I’m suggesting in order

paradox of what I’m suggesting in order to truly learn and embrace these types

to truly learn and embrace these types

to truly learn and embrace these types of personal leadership insights you

of personal leadership insights you

of personal leadership insights you cannot intentionally seek them out you

cannot intentionally seek them out you

cannot intentionally seek them out you can only intentionally put yourself in

can only intentionally put yourself in

can only intentionally put yourself in the types of environments where these

the types of environments where these

the types of environments where these lessons emerge naturally emerge you have

lessons emerge naturally emerge you have

lessons emerge naturally emerge you have to be intentionally unintentional what’s

to be intentionally unintentional what’s

to be intentionally unintentional what’s what’s important here is not the

what’s important here is not the

what’s important here is not the specific lesson or experience but rather

specific lesson or experience but rather

specific lesson or experience but rather the willingness to put yourself in the

the willingness to put yourself in the

the willingness to put yourself in the types of situations where these lessons

types of situations where these lessons

types of situations where these lessons present themselves in the first place

present themselves in the first place

present themselves in the first place well I’ve highlighted two personal

well I’ve highlighted two personal

well I’ve highlighted two personal leadership insights today there are many

leadership insights today there are many

leadership insights today there are many other lessons that only that can only

other lessons that only that can only

other lessons that only that can only truly emerge when you put yourself in

truly emerge when you put yourself in

truly emerge when you put yourself in uncomfortable situations actively seek

uncomfortable situations actively seek

uncomfortable situations actively seek uncomfortable and unfamiliar

uncomfortable and unfamiliar

uncomfortable and unfamiliar environments consciously aware that

environments consciously aware that

environments consciously aware that these are the spaces where the greatest

these are the spaces where the greatest

these are the spaces where the greatest growth naturally occurs thank

growth naturally occurs thank

growth naturally occurs thank [Applause]

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