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Persistence is my best friend | Ebru Tuay | TEDxYouth@EyüboğluHS


I love jogging by the seaside three

I love jogging by the seaside three years ago and at the same time

years ago and at the same time

years ago and at the same time multitasking listening to a TED talk as

multitasking listening to a TED talk as

multitasking listening to a TED talk as a matter of fact and I was checking my

a matter of fact and I was checking my

a matter of fact and I was checking my Twitter let’s see and I sort wit it was

Twitter let’s see and I sort wit it was

Twitter let’s see and I sort wit it was about a little Yazidi girl in a refugee

about a little Yazidi girl in a refugee

about a little Yazidi girl in a refugee camp

camp

camp apparently she was deaf and she needed

apparently she was deaf and she needed

apparently she was deaf and she needed to have an operation and you know our

to have an operation and you know our

to have an operation and you know our Twitter is a rather short you know post

Twitter is a rather short you know post

Twitter is a rather short you know post and the person included a phone number

and the person included a phone number

and the person included a phone number so I thought I called because being a

so I thought I called because being a

so I thought I called because being a refugee you are a minority and being a

refugee you are a minority and being a

refugee you are a minority and being a little girl you have other disadvantages

little girl you have other disadvantages

little girl you have other disadvantages in this world on the top of the rose

in this world on the top of the rose

in this world on the top of the rose being easily and disabled now you are

being easily and disabled now you are

being easily and disabled now you are minority even among the minorities so I

minority even among the minorities so I

minority even among the minorities so I decided to call the person I’ll talk to

decided to call the person I’ll talk to

decided to call the person I’ll talk to she’s a nurse and she’s volunteering at

she’s a nurse and she’s volunteering at

she’s a nurse and she’s volunteering at this camp refugee camp and she told me

this camp refugee camp and she told me

this camp refugee camp and she told me about this girl named Emile de four and

about this girl named Emile de four and

about this girl named Emile de four and a half years old then she was given a

a half years old then she was given a

a half years old then she was given a wrong injection when she was a baby that

wrong injection when she was a baby that

wrong injection when she was a baby that left her death now she she had to have

left her death now she she had to have

left her death now she she had to have an operation before the age of 6 or else

an operation before the age of 6 or else

an operation before the age of 6 or else she could never regain her hearing back

she could never regain her hearing back

she could never regain her hearing back I knew that the government was helping

I knew that the government was helping

I knew that the government was helping the refugees they were treated for free

the refugees they were treated for free

the refugees they were treated for free in hospitals in I am a good social

in hospitals in I am a good social

in hospitals in I am a good social network so I started making some phone

network so I started making some phone

network so I started making some phone calls

calls

calls well I call people who know people you

well I call people who know people you

well I call people who know people you know to get this thing done however

know to get this thing done however

know to get this thing done however after a lot of calls

after a lot of calls

after a lot of calls after they are not 67 call I realized

after they are not 67 call I realized

after they are not 67 call I realized that Imelda was not in the circle of

that Imelda was not in the circle of

that Imelda was not in the circle of refugees eligible for help

refugees eligible for help

refugees eligible for help mainly because she visited having a page

mainly because she visited having a page

mainly because she visited having a page different than the majority I know how

different than the majority I know how

different than the majority I know how how things can get difficult so I

how things can get difficult so I

how things can get difficult so I decided to help I inquired the cost of

decided to help I inquired the cost of

decided to help I inquired the cost of the operation it was just like $2,000 so

the operation it was just like $2,000 so

the operation it was just like $2,000 so I called a friend whom I was sure would

I called a friend whom I was sure would

I called a friend whom I was sure would help he and I put together the money and

help he and I put together the money and

help he and I put together the money and called the family and said that okay

called the family and said that okay

called the family and said that okay this operation can be done with the

this operation can be done with the

this operation can be done with the money so when we talked to the hospital

money so when we talked to the hospital

money so when we talked to the hospital though we realized to get this operation

though we realized to get this operation

though we realized to get this operation done they needed to be the day they

done they needed to be the day they

done they needed to be the day they needed device a medical device that will

needed device a medical device that will

needed device a medical device that will be implemented through this operation I

be implemented through this operation I

be implemented through this operation I was like what device well okay let’s get

was like what device well okay let’s get

was like what device well okay let’s get this also and I checked it out and it

this also and I checked it out and it

this also and I checked it out and it costed something like $25,000 well first

costed something like $25,000 well first

costed something like $25,000 well first I pride and secondly I thought how can I

I pride and secondly I thought how can I

I pride and secondly I thought how can I get this money together now because I’m

get this money together now because I’m

get this money together now because I’m a persistent person and if you know I

a persistent person and if you know I

a persistent person and if you know I want to do something I won’t stop until

want to do something I won’t stop until

want to do something I won’t stop until I I you know I do it it’s done so now I

I I you know I do it it’s done so now I

I I you know I do it it’s done so now I needed a lot of money I started calling

needed a lot of money I started calling

needed a lot of money I started calling people asking for any kind of help give

people asking for any kind of help give

people asking for any kind of help give me ideas

me ideas

me ideas can I get this done so a friend of mine

can I get this done so a friend of mine

can I get this done so a friend of mine she’s a nurse in a government hospital

she’s a nurse in a government hospital

she’s a nurse in a government hospital in Andhra that’s Percy by the way my you

in Andhra that’s Percy by the way my you

in Andhra that’s Percy by the way my you know persistency meet me Percy here so

know persistency meet me Percy here so

know persistency meet me Percy here so this friend of mine she’s a nurse in

this friend of mine she’s a nurse in

this friend of mine she’s a nurse in Ankara and she called me she said oh she

Ankara and she called me she said oh she

Ankara and she called me she said oh she knows just the right people and they do

knows just the right people and they do

knows just the right people and they do those operations all the time in that

those operations all the time in that

those operations all the time in that hospital so I shouldn’t be worried she

hospital so I shouldn’t be worried she

hospital so I shouldn’t be worried she really talked to the professors and you

really talked to the professors and you

really talked to the professors and you know they’ve been in touch they sent me

know they’ve been in touch they sent me

know they’ve been in touch they sent me to sneak two things one a permit from

to sneak two things one a permit from

to sneak two things one a permit from the camp to get her out of the refugee

the camp to get her out of the refugee

the camp to get her out of the refugee camp and second we needed a transfer

camp and second we needed a transfer

camp and second we needed a transfer from the hospital in the Arabic er to

from the hospital in the Arabic er to

from the hospital in the Arabic er to Ankara so we started working on doors

Ankara so we started working on doors

Ankara so we started working on doors and we made you know many phone calls

and we made you know many phone calls

and we made you know many phone calls and people who know people again you

and people who know people again you

and people who know people again you know the same lobbying and then finally

know the same lobbying and then finally

know the same lobbying and then finally we got those papers oh yeah we were

we got those papers oh yeah we were

we got those papers oh yeah we were close now and the family was very

close now and the family was very

close now and the family was very excited they all got ready for the

excited they all got ready for the

excited they all got ready for the operation and the day before her

operation and the day before her

operation and the day before her transfer from Jericho to Ankara my

transfer from Jericho to Ankara my

transfer from Jericho to Ankara my friend the nurse she called and she was

friend the nurse she called and she was

friend the nurse she called and she was crying she said that the operation was

crying she said that the operation was

crying she said that the operation was cancelled without an explanation we both

cancelled without an explanation we both

cancelled without an explanation we both were heartbroken and very furious Percy

were heartbroken and very furious Percy

were heartbroken and very furious Percy told me that this this story will come

told me that this this story will come

told me that this this story will come to a stop only when and Milner hears

to a stop only when and Milner hears

to a stop only when and Milner hears again so I started thinking what else

again so I started thinking what else

again so I started thinking what else could be done then I thought oh maybe we

could be done then I thought oh maybe we

could be done then I thought oh maybe we could talk to the a medical company that

could talk to the a medical company that

could talk to the a medical company that we’re going to buy the device from and

we’re going to buy the device from and

we’re going to buy the device from and they may help us you know they may give

they may help us you know they may give

they may help us you know they may give us a pardon so so we found a friend who

us a pardon so so we found a friend who

us a pardon so so we found a friend who has a connection in the middle

has a connection in the middle

has a connection in the middle company theta-two bargaining and yes we

company theta-two bargaining and yes we

company theta-two bargaining and yes we got it so now the gap has gotten smaller

got it so now the gap has gotten smaller

got it so now the gap has gotten smaller hence that hopes higher still we needed

hence that hopes higher still we needed

hence that hopes higher still we needed the money though so what happened is

the money though so what happened is

the money though so what happened is I’ve got some news from the camp though

I’ve got some news from the camp though

I’ve got some news from the camp though and they said the camp was going to be

and they said the camp was going to be

and they said the camp was going to be closed soon so we should get it done

closed soon so we should get it done

closed soon so we should get it done quickly

quickly

quickly really at that time somebody called from

really at that time somebody called from

really at that time somebody called from Ankara again a person who is a very

Ankara again a person who is a very

Ankara again a person who is a very close relative to a politician and this

close relative to a politician and this

close relative to a politician and this politician is in a very high position in

politician is in a very high position in

politician is in a very high position in the government and life I mean he said

the government and life I mean he said

the government and life I mean he said he has a daughter who’s at the same

he has a daughter who’s at the same

he has a daughter who’s at the same condition she was there had the same

condition she was there had the same

condition she was there had the same operation could hear and speak now and

operation could hear and speak now and

operation could hear and speak now and he almost cried on the phone and he

he almost cried on the phone and he

he almost cried on the phone and he talked over an hour and money wasn’t an

talked over an hour and money wasn’t an

talked over an hour and money wasn’t an issue he was gonna help and I said

issue he was gonna help and I said

issue he was gonna help and I said thanks God you know that night I danced

thanks God you know that night I danced

thanks God you know that night I danced at home really and the next morning I

at home really and the next morning I

at home really and the next morning I went to meet him but a huge smile on my

went to meet him but a huge smile on my

went to meet him but a huge smile on my face I was waiting I kept waiting and

face I was waiting I kept waiting and

face I was waiting I kept waiting and waiting and after a while the huge smile

waiting and after a while the huge smile

waiting and after a while the huge smile turned into a nervous giggle and I

turned into a nervous giggle and I

turned into a nervous giggle and I called the number and the number I

called the number and the number I

called the number and the number I called could not be reached he was a

called could not be reached he was a

called could not be reached he was a no-show I could never reach him and I

no-show I could never reach him and I

no-show I could never reach him and I tried once more that day

and then I started asking for help

and then I started asking for help because at that time I got pictures from

because at that time I got pictures from

because at that time I got pictures from the camp and Amanda’s got her fifth

the camp and Amanda’s got her fifth

the camp and Amanda’s got her fifth birthday already and the medical company

birthday already and the medical company

birthday already and the medical company they were calling and saying that they

they were calling and saying that they

they were calling and saying that they can’t keep the price down forever the

can’t keep the price down forever the

can’t keep the price down forever the value of a dollar bill goes higher and

value of a dollar bill goes higher and

value of a dollar bill goes higher and higher each and every day so we should

higher each and every day so we should

higher each and every day so we should be quick so I started asking for help

be quick so I started asking for help

be quick so I started asking for help from people and people will tell but

from people and people will tell but

from people and people will tell but they would be discouraged when they will

they would be discouraged when they will

they would be discouraged when they will hear how much money needed they would

hear how much money needed they would

hear how much money needed they would say things like you know what when you

say things like you know what when you

say things like you know what when you come close let me know I promise I’ll

come close let me know I promise I’ll

come close let me know I promise I’ll give me the last 500 bucks that’s on me

give me the last 500 bucks that’s on me

give me the last 500 bucks that’s on me well I was not closed however they gave

well I was not closed however they gave

well I was not closed however they gave me a great idea well I started telling

me a great idea well I started telling

me a great idea well I started telling people we needed twenty-five thousand

people we needed twenty-five thousand

people we needed twenty-five thousand dollars at the beginning and we already

dollars at the beginning and we already

dollars at the beginning and we already collected between a third of women

collected between a third of women

collected between a third of women twenty three thousand of it so only two

twenty three thousand of it so only two

twenty three thousand of it so only two thousand more to go to cross the finish

thousand more to go to cross the finish

thousand more to go to cross the finish line then the helps the donations pure

line then the helps the donations pure

line then the helps the donations pure and finally we were able to get the

and finally we were able to get the

and finally we were able to get the money now I was very happy we get the

money now I was very happy we get the

money now I was very happy we get the hospital ready everything was just fine

hospital ready everything was just fine

hospital ready everything was just fine she’s going to incorporation I’ve talked

she’s going to incorporation I’ve talked

she’s going to incorporation I’ve talked to the doctor the doctor was a great man

to the doctor the doctor was a great man

to the doctor the doctor was a great man actually he took the time to explain me

actually he took the time to explain me

actually he took the time to explain me the whole procedure and just left me

the whole procedure and just left me

the whole procedure and just left me with another struggle because obviously

with another struggle because obviously

with another struggle because obviously this operation was only the tip of the

this operation was only the tip of the

this operation was only the tip of the iceberg and once the operations

iceberg and once the operations

iceberg and once the operations done and media needed to have with a

done and media needed to have with a

done and media needed to have with a year or even more long rehabilitation

year or even more long rehabilitation

year or even more long rehabilitation sessions in order to hear and speak

sessions in order to hear and speak

sessions in order to hear and speak also this device that will be

also this device that will be

also this device that will be implemented with the operation they

implemented with the operation they

implemented with the operation they needed to do tunings on it on a regular

needed to do tunings on it on a regular

needed to do tunings on it on a regular basis and the rehabilitation center and

basis and the rehabilitation center and

basis and the rehabilitation center and the camp there like so far away now how

the camp there like so far away now how

the camp there like so far away now how are we going to do that and then came

are we going to do that and then came

are we going to do that and then came into play the actors and actresses of

into play the actors and actresses of

into play the actors and actresses of the arbiter municipality theater they

the arbiter municipality theater they

the arbiter municipality theater they found a person to help and just the

found a person to help and just the

found a person to help and just the right person that was a driver who said

right person that was a driver who said

right person that was a driver who said booked two songs both blind so he could

booked two songs both blind so he could

booked two songs both blind so he could have a great empathy with a Midwest

have a great empathy with a Midwest

have a great empathy with a Midwest family and he helped us for the transfer

family and he helped us for the transfer

family and he helped us for the transfer and everything so a lot of wonderful

and everything so a lot of wonderful

and everything so a lot of wonderful people you know gathering together to

people you know gathering together to

people you know gathering together to help him ylva then there was the summer

meanwhile in the rehabilitation center a

meanwhile in the rehabilitation center a child development specialist she was

child development specialist she was

child development specialist she was following imelda great doctor while she

following imelda great doctor while she

following imelda great doctor while she and I kept in touch she was telling me

and I kept in touch she was telling me

and I kept in touch she was telling me every time

every time

every time having a progress and I was very happy

having a progress and I was very happy

having a progress and I was very happy went for holidays in the summer when I

went for holidays in the summer when I

went for holidays in the summer when I came back we talked and she said to me

came back we talked and she said to me

came back we talked and she said to me the family has gone back to Iraq how

the family has gone back to Iraq how

the family has gone back to Iraq how because without the rehabilitation

because without the rehabilitation

because without the rehabilitation everything the operation all was just

everything the operation all was just

everything the operation all was just garbage how could that be

garbage how could that be

garbage how could that be I was you know had it but then she said

I was you know had it but then she said

I was you know had it but then she said this this angel she said that she’s

this this angel she said that she’s

this this angel she said that she’s going to Iraq actually on a voluntary

going to Iraq actually on a voluntary

going to Iraq actually on a voluntary basis to follow up with Imelda and do

basis to follow up with Imelda and do

basis to follow up with Imelda and do her rehabilitation and she said the last

her rehabilitation and she said the last

her rehabilitation and she said the last time she was there some 30 families

time she was there some 30 families

time she was there some 30 families gathered and they each holding hands of

gathered and they each holding hands of

gathered and they each holding hands of a child and they were asking for help

a child and they were asking for help

a child and they were asking for help because these were children of the same

because these were children of the same

because these were children of the same town and they had the same wrong

town and they had the same wrong

town and they had the same wrong injection and they all went back and now

injection and they all went back and now

injection and they all went back and now that Imelda could hear and speak could

that Imelda could hear and speak could

that Imelda could hear and speak could they also will she help them since then

they also will she help them since then

they also will she help them since then she’s been in talks with the authorities

she’s been in talks with the authorities

she’s been in talks with the authorities both in Turkey and in Iraq as a result

both in Turkey and in Iraq as a result

both in Turkey and in Iraq as a result four more children had the operation and

four more children had the operation and

four more children had the operation and all other children will be operated as

all other children will be operated as

all other children will be operated as well now this this angel is child

well now this this angel is child

well now this this angel is child development specialist dr. Mericle agus

development specialist dr. Mericle agus

development specialist dr. Mericle agus is here with us today she can

is here with us today she can

is here with us today she can [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] three conclusions I got from this one

three conclusions I got from this one

three conclusions I got from this one jogging is good

jogging is good

jogging is good seriously well second did you notice how

seriously well second did you notice how

seriously well second did you notice how every struggle is be overcame it more

every struggle is be overcame it more

every struggle is be overcame it more and more good came out of that oh this

and more good came out of that oh this

and more good came out of that oh this is a milder mind area there and thirdly

is a milder mind area there and thirdly

is a milder mind area there and thirdly if there wasn’t persistency on my part

if there wasn’t persistency on my part

if there wasn’t persistency on my part on dr. Maia’s part this story

on dr. Maia’s part this story

on dr. Maia’s part this story amid the story will be untold so

amid the story will be untold so

amid the story will be untold so pleasing system who you are what you

pleasing system who you are what you

pleasing system who you are what you want to do and your story will be told

want to do and your story will be told

want to do and your story will be told as well thank you

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