before anything
know that it is a great joy to be
here I have my arm plastered by some
months
Thais called me and made me a
invitation paulo we will hold in
Maceió a ted and we would love it
you were present to talk about
change of life
in my heart lit in changing
Life is really a subject that makes me
overflowing is here today to speak
on the small grenades that move the
world is talking about life changing and
talk about life change is to talk
on the full acceptance of the present and
at the same time remind us of our
finitude condition
because if we are in search of changes
if we are in search of something that does the
our heart vibrate
we are in search of enthusiasm
we are in search of a more
performed a happier life and a life
that at that moment we said goodbye
her
we felt that it actually made sense and
This life of mine started very early.
started very early when I was 14 years old.
I became pregnant
the clear next week turns 18
and at that moment I was sure that
I was going to die I was not going to light I was going
die
It was so difficult that it seemed to me that
scenery so difficult it did not even seem
one
my life both seems that way
inconceivable how can I survive
to such a great change and not only I
but the people who were around me
My father, my mother, my heart was
completely shaken imagining my
father and mother living a change so
so unexpected so I fills me with
some strength
you know where those moments come from.
change and the pregnancy followed well after
that my parents had next to me
They helped me in everything I needed.
I followed my studies
next to my growing daughter
learning by developing and perceiving
thanks to that lesson of that moment
that instead of dying
I was feeling much more alive than
that before
I was feeling much stronger.
than before
and that was the first glimmer of a
history of succession of changes that
taught a lot to the rest of the
story I was still waiting for
when the clear had around its
11 years I joined bag and gourd and we
we moved to manaus
the clear cuia to see a mother I hate you I
I do not want to change mine to rotate them
In Manaus
wow what diversity and how much learning
five years in that city surrounded by
trees by rivers as the forest
how many warm people I
I learned about being water in that city.
How much did I learn about being the flow?
that we came to be and the target
I gained an arm in need 15 days before
of glass
I was able to see not only a
marriage, why did I get married?
a week before I moved to Manaus
lasted a year
few years later I do not know how it fit
five years of manaus, everything that happened
does not make any sense within the
history
two years later she was already married
New, my wedding lasted a year again.
I have skills and learn how much
I learned about living and accepting
change and live and bring about change
in Manaus and I that I am sedentary for
historical constitution, including a
great advantage of adolescence when
I saw myself pregnant and mother I was released
of the physical education of the college
wonderful that was the big plus looks
You do not need to do education anymore.
physical it was because you are a mother so I
I accept, no problem, I get on
Manaus I lived suddenly wishing my
Eyes shine in dreaming of following
to the top of a mountain the monte roraima
it was as if he had lit up
before my eyes and you know well
what I’m talking about
there are moments in life that something
light before us that becomes
like a light you want in that
and others may say, ‘You are
crazy does not make the slightest sense you only
may be going crazy like the cimpor
a mountain if it does not leave nor without leaving
from your city to take a walk
longer
I was sure my heart knew
go to the mountain, I prepared myself
sedentary that I am at least I
I went to the gym with my backpack in
back doing something stupid do some
thing in 2011 in June of 2011
I would take my backpack he would
my fears and towards that mountain
which became a great symbol
of all the change I already had
experienced in my life
At that moment I had just finished
separate from my first marriage already
I was already 12 years old and I was
I think I already knew from the force that
changes in us but I do not
had the size of the force that
experience and the symbols that
experience would bring for my walk
like a water that I am like a river that
we’re heading to the top of that
mountain with all my fears in the
schoolbag
aware that the most important
that look at the greatness of that mountain
all the time
I want to look at my feet and I
concentrate on the given step
look where you were going to have a
place reference has a reference
dream goal but stay confident
looking at my foot because the step seems
which does not yield much more yields
too I got to that top and I came back
home with so much clarity of
that the tops of our life
are many small and large that
the tops of our life is a great symbol
of the change we seek from everything
what makes sense for our
heart each one has its own tops
and it is not the mother who is the father
It’s the others who will say it there.
That top that shines for you is yours.
My heart and heart told me
and that mountain brought me from
come back to my house with the certainty that I
I needed to make my life a
more time
integrating
both parts being performed
as much as I could in each of the
areas of my life as a mother as
professional and wife as daughter
any paula being performed
fully
I started at that moment the greatest
movement of transformation of my
history
collecting all that was valuable
inside me and reminding me of being
valuable that I am and that we are all
for the singularity that we carry
remembering my finitude and therefore
the urgency I felt in making
that change and transforming my
life for her to be as good as she was
life when I went to the mountain
I went back to Monte Roraima three more
times in a single year and no one
I was talking about mountain but the
paper is much more patient and
That’s why I wrote my first
book and seem to the new error
He was born because I needed to put
somewhere else the story of car
strong that he was living and then
three times I’ve seen myself building a new
fulfill my life of a profession
that made me feel full realized of
a life next to my daughter that I
made her feel even more mother than
but mainly the transformation
that life is this flow that life
It is a constant change that life is
this surprise and she is so and we
remember that we are water and that we are
beings in transformation and that we can
do everything that our dreams say
is there anything that our heart sees
as shining before our eyes
to learn about all this I learned
on the most important value that today
I charge whether it’s writing my books
in my courses being here that my
big mission is to save myself
save me remember that I am being more
important in this world
and by saving myself and reminding me that I
am be more important in this world I
except the others I save the world with this
perspective
I wake up every morning I remember the
My finitude connects me with what I
I’m feeling and I’m asking myself so simple.
What change do I need to make today?
to live the life I want to live
that day and 15 days before coming to
here
being on a trip with my daughter
not jumping from parachute not going up
a mountain but at home in the apartment
of a trip
I fell down the stairs and broke my wrist is
only one writer describes as a right to
more left is as valuable as
when I ‘m there on the computer
typing my texts
I was faced with a certain certainty of
that my only is the only function there was
identify what that situation was
Teaching me what this situation to come
here in my ted talk about change of
life taking care of my arm that is
broken and plastered and thus
to look at my
finitude that does not have to be a fist
broken a rollover as I lived
being there in the Amazon
It does not have to be a big event for me.
remember my finitude I am us
sounds and achievement is my goal of
life make it worth living
wonderful this life that I was given
as a gift
now the change of life is this sensation
here something can be done
that we feel we have to do something
What does something call us?
but it’s scary
It’s scary and I felt scared when I saw myself.
lying on the floor I saw that the fist was
out of place he was not ok
Clearly I broke my fist.
Let’s go to the hospital until I was there.
Calm down when I remembered I’m in
spain like these Spaniards use things
Spanish methods to put a fist
place
I started my god now why these
they are not very gentle in traffic
I had already come screaming I will put
my fist as a method and be fearless
Fear also when I feel like I
I felt when I was in my
parachute because manaus also me
provided this is its fullness
then you get the parachuting course
just like the mountains it has symbols
wonderful there you are before
something you do not know you’re in
that plane’s door
You’re on the solid platform up there but
When will you step beyond that?
platform you do not know is the new one is
change that you have the same
sensation of the one I experienced
when I was there in my 14 years
Pregnant I’m going to die I’m going to die
change does it but does not
because it’s bad because the sock
be an alert for you to avoid change
at all costs in your life
but why does fear remind us that we
we are before the new and the new is like
we are facing and experiencing a
area beyond the limits that people
knows
that is why death puts us so
increase the limits are here and all
known area is the area that is within
of our comfort zone and this was a
of the great lessons that parachuting
I brought that plane that flight was
inside my comfort zone and everything
What we try out is going to
causing fear will cause discomfort but
something magical happens when we go
toward discomfort
consciously
when we choose the discomfort
happens that instead of being in an area
this size as we go
trying a new one out of this area
I go there once I go there twice
I go there three times what happens is
that in a little while to go there in the new
he becomes known and thanks to be
known it becomes a
part of their comfort zones and there the
your comfort zone increases and less
situations become uncomfortable in less
a teenage pregnancy will do
you feel like you’re going to die and – a leap
parachute will be placed in a
I’m going to die and – the
transformation you feel you need
creating for your life will paralyze by
that you faced a new and the new
people do not face a thousand
miles
we face taking a step from each
turn
these steps have led me to have a
daughter celebrating her 18th birthday
Those steps took me to the top of the hill.
roraima have taken to the 800
miles of roads of Santiago and me
brought here these steps are capable
to save me
saving my life I save the world
thank you thank you
[Applause]
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