hi so take a moment to think about a kaleidoscope
kaleidoscope
kaleidoscope it contains different patterns of colors
it contains different patterns of colors
it contains different patterns of colors and shapes on the outside but on the
and shapes on the outside but on the
and shapes on the outside but on the inside there are even more patterns this
inside there are even more patterns this
inside there are even more patterns this makes me think more about people how we
makes me think more about people how we
makes me think more about people how we are so easily irritated with someone
are so easily irritated with someone
are so easily irritated with someone based on the way they behave and
based on the way they behave and
based on the way they behave and represent themselves in public as people
represent themselves in public as people
represent themselves in public as people we go through so many different things
we go through so many different things
we go through so many different things in our lives and we are all different so
in our lives and we are all different so
in our lives and we are all different so no matter how close and attached you’re
no matter how close and attached you’re
no matter how close and attached you’re with someone we will never know that
with someone we will never know that
with someone we will never know that person completely so when we make a
person completely so when we make a
person completely so when we make a quick assumption on that person we tend
quick assumption on that person we tend
quick assumption on that person we tend to think and do the wrong thing since we
to think and do the wrong thing since we
to think and do the wrong thing since we don’t even try to think and stand on
don’t even try to think and stand on
don’t even try to think and stand on their shoes my name is sue and I’m going
their shoes my name is sue and I’m going
their shoes my name is sue and I’m going to prove to you that most of your
to prove to you that most of your
to prove to you that most of your perceptions about others are wrong so I
perceptions about others are wrong so I
perceptions about others are wrong so I want to start off with me and my brother
want to start off with me and my brother
want to start off with me and my brother this is me and my brother as kids so we
this is me and my brother as kids so we
this is me and my brother as kids so we were very close back then however as we
were very close back then however as we
were very close back then however as we grew up we had a lot of different values
grew up we had a lot of different values
grew up we had a lot of different values and personalities that we just couldn’t
and personalities that we just couldn’t
and personalities that we just couldn’t talk to each other that much he’s the
talk to each other that much he’s the
talk to each other that much he’s the type of person who prefer to say to stay
type of person who prefer to say to stay
type of person who prefer to say to stay at home and he rarely knows how to
at home and he rarely knows how to
at home and he rarely knows how to initiate a conversation with anyone well
initiate a conversation with anyone well
initiate a conversation with anyone well I like to talk to others and go outside
I like to talk to others and go outside
I like to talk to others and go outside as much as I can I think many of us have
as much as I can I think many of us have
as much as I can I think many of us have this personality like me the extroverted
this personality like me the extroverted
this personality like me the extroverted personality or at least one soon because
personality or at least one soon because
personality or at least one soon because in a world with a growing population
in a world with a growing population
in a world with a growing population sometimes in order to get more attention
sometimes in order to get more attention
sometimes in order to get more attention from businesses you need to be bold and
from businesses you need to be bold and
from businesses you need to be bold and you need to have good communication
you need to have good communication
you need to have good communication skills sometimes in order to gain more
skills sometimes in order to gain more
skills sometimes in order to gain more attention from friends you need to be
attention from friends you need to be
attention from friends you need to be loud and energetic and I used to think
loud and energetic and I used to think
loud and energetic and I used to think this way and I have this misconception
this way and I have this misconception
this way and I have this misconception however after I watch a video and read a
however after I watch a video and read a
however after I watch a video and read a book about introverts I changed my mind
book about introverts I changed my mind
book about introverts I changed my mind I think the idea of valuing extroverts
I think the idea of valuing extroverts
I think the idea of valuing extroverts over introverts is an ingrained
over introverts is an ingrained
over introverts is an ingrained perception and it is so unfair for
perception and it is so unfair for
perception and it is so unfair for introverts so I started reflecting about
introverts so I started reflecting about
introverts so I started reflecting about my brother he has a lot of good traits
my brother he has a lot of good traits
my brother he has a lot of good traits that I just didn’t think about it before
that I just didn’t think about it before
that I just didn’t think about it before he listened deeply before he speaks
he listened deeply before he speaks
he listened deeply before he speaks he is very disciplined in a lot of areas
he is very disciplined in a lot of areas
he is very disciplined in a lot of areas and he is very smart and if you know him
and he is very smart and if you know him
and he is very smart and if you know him personally he helps you whenever you
personally he helps you whenever you
personally he helps you whenever you need him so as you can see in this
need him so as you can see in this
need him so as you can see in this picture him and mr. John it looks like
picture him and mr. John it looks like
picture him and mr. John it looks like he’s a very calm guy right so I don’t
he’s a very calm guy right so I don’t
he’s a very calm guy right so I don’t think he only introverts out there that
think he only introverts out there that
think he only introverts out there that has these good traits
has these good traits
has these good traits just think about all the famous
just think about all the famous
just think about all the famous introverts for a second people like Mark
introverts for a second people like Mark
introverts for a second people like Mark Zuckerberg Bill Gates some of the most
Zuckerberg Bill Gates some of the most
Zuckerberg Bill Gates some of the most famous artists and designers out there
famous artists and designers out there
famous artists and designers out there or are the introverts that you know like
or are the introverts that you know like
or are the introverts that you know like some of your friends well extroverts
some of your friends well extroverts
some of your friends well extroverts have the ability to bring and connect
have the ability to bring and connect
have the ability to bring and connect everyone together introverts have blab
everyone together introverts have blab
everyone together introverts have blab and in spoken thoughts and ideas inside
and in spoken thoughts and ideas inside
and in spoken thoughts and ideas inside their minds because when you actually
their minds because when you actually
their minds because when you actually look beyond the surface you can see that
look beyond the surface you can see that
look beyond the surface you can see that both personalities are so spectacular so
both personalities are so spectacular so
both personalities are so spectacular so why should we value one type of
why should we value one type of
why should we value one type of personality over my talk is not just
personality over my talk is not just
personality over my talk is not just about introverts because not only did I
about introverts because not only did I
about introverts because not only did I have misconceptions for my brother I
have misconceptions for my brother I
have misconceptions for my brother I also have misconceptions towards the way
also have misconceptions towards the way
also have misconceptions towards the way my parents treat me only on the public
my parents treat me only on the public
my parents treat me only on the public surface so I had admitted that growing
surface so I had admitted that growing
surface so I had admitted that growing up with them I had a lot of grudge I
up with them I had a lot of grudge I
up with them I had a lot of grudge I felt tired of being compared to others I
felt tired of being compared to others I
felt tired of being compared to others I felt hopeless that no matter how well I
felt hopeless that no matter how well I
felt hopeless that no matter how well I did something they always have some
did something they always have some
did something they always have some complaints for me
complaints for me
complaints for me and I felt a little angry that they kept
and I felt a little angry that they kept
and I felt a little angry that they kept wanting me to show more love for them so
wanting me to show more love for them so
wanting me to show more love for them so I felt very lucky back then and I even
I felt very lucky back then and I even
I felt very lucky back then and I even wanted other parents parents who I could
wanted other parents parents who I could
wanted other parents parents who I could talk to and who I could be completely
talk to and who I could be completely
talk to and who I could be completely comfortable with
comfortable with
comfortable with however after going through many
however after going through many
however after going through many conflicts with them and after finishing
conflicts with them and after finishing
conflicts with them and after finishing a book called being a happy team by
a book called being a happy team by
a book called being a happy team by Andrew Mackey
Andrew Mackey
Andrew Mackey I should totally read this book I
I should totally read this book I
I should totally read this book I finally had more understanding and
finally had more understanding and
finally had more understanding and empathy for my parents and I really
empathy for my parents and I really
empathy for my parents and I really respected them so I started thinking
respected them so I started thinking
respected them so I started thinking about their anxieties the things they
about their anxieties the things they
about their anxieties the things they have to worry about every single day the
have to worry about every single day the
have to worry about every single day the boots while they’re the electronic bills
boots while they’re the electronic bills
boots while they’re the electronic bills taxes they have to pay a school solution
taxes they have to pay a school solution
taxes they have to pay a school solution the conference’s they have to attend to
the conference’s they have to attend to
the conference’s they have to attend to and the different people they have to
and the different people they have to
and the different people they have to meet with every single day so every day
meet with every single day so every day
meet with every single day so every day it’s just so exhausting for them so I
it’s just so exhausting for them so I
it’s just so exhausting for them so I realized that you can’t always be fun
realized that you can’t always be fun
realized that you can’t always be fun and happy around me because I have
and happy around me because I have
and happy around me because I have nothing to worry about I also thought
nothing to worry about I also thought
nothing to worry about I also thought about the values and knowledge they
about the values and knowledge they
about the values and knowledge they learn back then how it is so different
learn back then how it is so different
learn back then how it is so different from my generation so it’s ok we don’t
from my generation so it’s ok we don’t
from my generation so it’s ok we don’t agree on every perspective because at
agree on every perspective because at
agree on every perspective because at the end of the day you’re still my
the end of the day you’re still my
the end of the day you’re still my parents and I am still a child so I also
parents and I am still a child so I also
parents and I am still a child so I also want to make a confession that I know
want to make a confession that I know
want to make a confession that I know that I heard it my parents a few times
that I heard it my parents a few times
that I heard it my parents a few times in the past and they are here today so I
in the past and they are here today so I
in the past and they are here today so I just want just the sake of time to say
just want just the sake of time to say
just want just the sake of time to say sorry
sorry
sorry and yeah I’m doing my best to become
and yeah I’m doing my best to become
and yeah I’m doing my best to become better
there are other types of people out
there are other types of people out there too you think that men’s life is
there too you think that men’s life is
there too you think that men’s life is perfect because he has all the money and
perfect because he has all the money and
perfect because he has all the money and he can do whatever he wants in this
he can do whatever he wants in this
he can do whatever he wants in this world perhaps he’s not happy with the
world perhaps he’s not happy with the
world perhaps he’s not happy with the relationships around him you think the
relationships around him you think the
relationships around him you think the person who bullies deserves even more
person who bullies deserves even more
person who bullies deserves even more punishment there has what they need is
punishment there has what they need is
punishment there has what they need is more help and more understanding from
more help and more understanding from
more help and more understanding from others you think your joke was funny to
others you think your joke was funny to
others you think your joke was funny to someone perhaps to you but not to that
someone perhaps to you but not to that
someone perhaps to you but not to that person don’t just think about your own
person don’t just think about your own
person don’t just think about your own perspective and have a fixed mindset try
perspective and have a fixed mindset try
perspective and have a fixed mindset try to observe others around you and look on
to observe others around you and look on
to observe others around you and look on a deeper level look beyond the surface
a deeper level look beyond the surface
a deeper level look beyond the surface get out of your comfort zone talk to
get out of your comfort zone talk to
get out of your comfort zone talk to someone who you don’t even talk much to
someone who you don’t even talk much to
someone who you don’t even talk much to because you’ll be so surprised at how
because you’ll be so surprised at how
because you’ll be so surprised at how much you learn about that person because
much you learn about that person because
much you learn about that person because as humans we are so interesting and
as humans we are so interesting and
as humans we are so interesting and diverse in our backgrounds connections
diverse in our backgrounds connections
diverse in our backgrounds connections experiences and personalities and no
experiences and personalities and no
experiences and personalities and no matter how different we are at the end
matter how different we are at the end
matter how different we are at the end of the day we are all the same very
of the day we are all the same very
of the day we are all the same very beautiful and vulnerable inside so for
beautiful and vulnerable inside so for
beautiful and vulnerable inside so for the next time if you think that you know
the next time if you think that you know
the next time if you think that you know someone thinks by
someone thinks by
someone thinks by [Applause]
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