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One Thing We All Have In Common: Being Human | Chiwoo Lee | TEDxDaeguInternationalSchool


what is culture culture is practice it

what is culture culture is practice it is practiced by a particular group of

is practiced by a particular group of

is practiced by a particular group of people for a significant period of time

people for a significant period of time

people for a significant period of time this time period can range from a couple

this time period can range from a couple

this time period can range from a couple of days or weeks for example when you

of days or weeks for example when you

of days or weeks for example when you make new friends or it can range all the

make new friends or it can range all the

make new friends or it can range all the way up to centuries and centuries for

way up to centuries and centuries for

way up to centuries and centuries for example informing organized religion

example informing organized religion

example informing organized religion suggests Christianity Buddhism so on and

suggests Christianity Buddhism so on and

suggests Christianity Buddhism so on and so forth now throughout this time period

so forth now throughout this time period

so forth now throughout this time period more often than not certain social norms

more often than not certain social norms

more often than not certain social norms tend to form and while these social

tend to form and while these social

tend to form and while these social norms aren’t bad per se it can get

norms aren’t bad per se it can get

norms aren’t bad per se it can get dangerous when people start to get too

dangerous when people start to get too

dangerous when people start to get too comfortable within their social norms

comfortable within their social norms

comfortable within their social norms and start differentiating each other

and start differentiating each other

and start differentiating each other according to it I right now am 19 which

according to it I right now am 19 which

according to it I right now am 19 which makes me a young adult and I think I

makes me a young adult and I think I

makes me a young adult and I think I could say that I’ve lived a relatively

could say that I’ve lived a relatively

could say that I’ve lived a relatively dynamic life when it comes to my

dynamic life when it comes to my

dynamic life when it comes to my educational career and that is to say

educational career and that is to say

educational career and that is to say I’ve moved around a lot during my

I’ve moved around a lot during my

I’ve moved around a lot during my student life I was born in Seoul South

student life I was born in Seoul South

student life I was born in Seoul South Korea

Korea

Korea and when I was about five I moved to a

and when I was about five I moved to a

and when I was about five I moved to a moved to Arizona and went to

moved to Arizona and went to

moved to Arizona and went to kindergarten there after that I came to

kindergarten there after that I came to

kindergarten there after that I came to Daegu and then I started my elementary

Daegu and then I started my elementary

Daegu and then I started my elementary years at the fifth grade I moved to

years at the fifth grade I moved to

years at the fifth grade I moved to Atlanta and after that I came back to

Atlanta and after that I came back to

Atlanta and after that I came back to Daegu to start middle school here in D

Daegu to start middle school here in D

Daegu to start middle school here in D is I graduated D is then I went straight

is I graduated D is then I went straight

is I graduated D is then I went straight to a regular Korean public high school

to a regular Korean public high school

to a regular Korean public high school currently I just finished my freshman

currently I just finished my freshman

currently I just finished my freshman year at Kelly University so you can see

year at Kelly University so you can see

year at Kelly University so you can see that I’ve done a lot of moving and

that I’ve done a lot of moving and

that I’ve done a lot of moving and shifting around so I think it’s safe for

shifting around so I think it’s safe for

shifting around so I think it’s safe for me to say that I was involved in many

me to say that I was involved in many

me to say that I was involved in many different cultures now seemed to me that

different cultures now seemed to me that

different cultures now seemed to me that everywhere I went there always seemed to

everywhere I went there always seemed to

everywhere I went there always seemed to be some type of discrimination that was

be some type of discrimination that was

be some type of discrimination that was present now I’m not talking about the

present now I’m not talking about the

present now I’m not talking about the explicit discrimination that we’re all

explicit discrimination that we’re all

explicit discrimination that we’re all used to hearing about what I’m talking

used to hearing about what I’m talking

used to hearing about what I’m talking about

about

about the more implicit and subtle ones I

the more implicit and subtle ones I

the more implicit and subtle ones I really enjoyed my two years in Atlanta I

really enjoyed my two years in Atlanta I

really enjoyed my two years in Atlanta I would even consider the two most

would even consider the two most

would even consider the two most significant years of my life in terms of

significant years of my life in terms of

significant years of my life in terms of shaping Who I am today

shaping Who I am today

shaping Who I am today however now that I look back there are

however now that I look back there are

however now that I look back there are some

some

some eyebrow-raising moments that I’ve faced

eyebrow-raising moments that I’ve faced

eyebrow-raising moments that I’ve faced for example all of my best friends and

for example all of my best friends and

for example all of my best friends and the friends that I still keep in touch

the friends that I still keep in touch

the friends that I still keep in touch with today they’re all Korean now I

with today they’re all Korean now I

with today they’re all Korean now I thought that was pretty interesting

thought that was pretty interesting

thought that was pretty interesting because while I’m not trying to cause

because while I’m not trying to cause

because while I’m not trying to cause any speculation about all the other

any speculation about all the other

any speculation about all the other friends being being a racist or

friends being being a racist or

friends being being a racist or discriminating me I am saying there’s a

discriminating me I am saying there’s a

discriminating me I am saying there’s a possibility that they weren’t as

possibility that they weren’t as

possibility that they weren’t as comfortable with me them and everyone

comfortable with me them and everyone

comfortable with me them and everyone else mainly because at that part of it

else mainly because at that part of it

else mainly because at that part of it at that part of their life they really

at that part of their life they really

at that part of their life they really haven’t seen anyone outside of America

haven’t seen anyone outside of America

haven’t seen anyone outside of America and whose first language isn’t English

and whose first language isn’t English

and whose first language isn’t English then I’ve noticed something a little bit

then I’ve noticed something a little bit

then I’ve noticed something a little bit more significant here Indy is I joined

more significant here Indy is I joined

more significant here Indy is I joined the is a little bit late a semester to

the is a little bit late a semester to

the is a little bit late a semester to be exact and D is at the time although

be exact and D is at the time although

be exact and D is at the time although it was an international school it was a

it was an international school it was a

it was an international school it was a Korean majority school that there are

Korean majority school that there are

Korean majority school that there are four there were a little bit of

four there were a little bit of

four there were a little bit of foreigners here and there but then at

foreigners here and there but then at

foreigners here and there but then at the time I was mostly Korean so so like

the time I was mostly Korean so so like

the time I was mostly Korean so so like at that time when people are talking I

at that time when people are talking I

at that time when people are talking I could instantly tell on my first day of

could instantly tell on my first day of

could instantly tell on my first day of school

school

school that difference and the intimacy between

that difference and the intimacy between

that difference and the intimacy between the Korean friends and the foreign

the Korean friends and the foreign

the Korean friends and the foreign friends no one like a group of people

friends no one like a group of people

friends no one like a group of people are trying to have a conversation so

are trying to have a conversation so

are trying to have a conversation so they’re like in a circle and there’s

they’re like in a circle and there’s

they’re like in a circle and there’s always the one or two people like on the

always the one or two people like on the

always the one or two people like on the edge of the circle or trying to get in

edge of the circle or trying to get in

edge of the circle or trying to get in the conversation that aren’t doing it

the conversation that aren’t doing it

the conversation that aren’t doing it very successfully those are always the

very successfully those are always the

very successfully those are always the foreigners and one of these foreigners

foreigners and one of these foreigners

foreigners and one of these foreigners actually ended up becoming one of my

actually ended up becoming one of my

actually ended up becoming one of my best friends so I asked him one day if

best friends so I asked him one day if

best friends so I asked him one day if he ever felt like he was left out just

he ever felt like he was left out just

he ever felt like he was left out just because he was a foreigner in a Korean

because he was a foreigner in a Korean

because he was a foreigner in a Korean majority society and he replied by

majority society and he replied by

majority society and he replied by saying that on his first day of school

saying that on his first day of school

saying that on his first day of school there were seven boys including himself

there were seven boys including himself

there were seven boys including himself six of them or Korean and in that

six of them or Korean and in that

six of them or Korean and in that classroom you are loved seven pairs so

classroom you are loved seven pairs so

classroom you are loved seven pairs so one person automatically had to be left

one person automatically had to be left

one person automatically had to be left out guess what that person was you

out guess what that person was you

out guess what that person was you guessed it so on his first day of school

guessed it so on his first day of school

guessed it so on his first day of school right off the bat he was the person to

right off the bat he was the person to

right off the bat he was the person to be left out

be left out

be left out and notice similar things in my college

and notice similar things in my college

and notice similar things in my college life in almost every lecture there are a

life in almost every lecture there are a

life in almost every lecture there are a few foreign students and I counted these

few foreign students and I counted these

few foreign students and I counted these students some of them are exchange

students some of them are exchange

students some of them are exchange students some of them just completely

students some of them just completely

students some of them just completely moved to Korea and

moved to Korea and

moved to Korea and all their their students just like us

all their their students just like us

all their their students just like us college students just like us it’s

college students just like us it’s

college students just like us it’s sometimes or more times than not the

sometimes or more times than not the

sometimes or more times than not the Korean friends end up sitting with their

Korean friends end up sitting with their

Korean friends end up sitting with their friends leaving the foreigners at what

friends leaving the foreigners at what

friends leaving the foreigners at what part of the room by themselves that I’ll

part of the room by themselves that I’ll

part of the room by themselves that I’ll be the first person to admit I find

be the first person to admit I find

be the first person to admit I find myself doing with this from time to time

myself doing with this from time to time

myself doing with this from time to time and I can confidently say it’s not

and I can confidently say it’s not

and I can confidently say it’s not because we have any negative feelings

because we have any negative feelings

because we have any negative feelings towards these foreigners it’s probably

towards these foreigners it’s probably

towards these foreigners it’s probably because we’re not as comfortable with

because we’re not as comfortable with

because we’re not as comfortable with them than we are with other Koreans now

them than we are with other Koreans now

them than we are with other Koreans now these are just discrimination or

these are just discrimination or

these are just discrimination or differentiation based on one’s ethnicity

differentiation based on one’s ethnicity

differentiation based on one’s ethnicity I’d like to talk to you about a

I’d like to talk to you about a

I’d like to talk to you about a different type of discrimination I told

different type of discrimination I told

different type of discrimination I told you already after I graduated from Dee

you already after I graduated from Dee

you already after I graduated from Dee is I went to a regular Korean public

is I went to a regular Korean public

is I went to a regular Korean public high school and this is a pretty rare

high school and this is a pretty rare

high school and this is a pretty rare path-to-tape

path-to-tape

path-to-tape because once you graduate from an

because once you graduate from an

because once you graduate from an international school you either stay at

international school you either stay at

international school you either stay at that school go to a different

that school go to a different

that school go to a different international school or go abroad none

international school or go abroad none

international school or go abroad none of them were the case for me so on my

of them were the case for me so on my

of them were the case for me so on my first day of school it’s pretty hard for

first day of school it’s pretty hard for

first day of school it’s pretty hard for me to make friends groups are already

me to make friends groups are already

me to make friends groups are already formed based on because everyone already

formed based on because everyone already

formed based on because everyone already had someone they were familiar with no

had someone they were familiar with no

had someone they were familiar with no it’s mainly because they probably went

it’s mainly because they probably went

it’s mainly because they probably went to the same middle school or they went

to the same middle school or they went

to the same middle school or they went to the same Academy and so on and so

to the same Academy and so on and so

to the same Academy and so on and so forth but so it was really hard for me

forth but so it was really hard for me

forth but so it was really hard for me in the beginning but this all changed on

in the beginning but this all changed on

in the beginning but this all changed on my first English class of my high school

my first English class of my high school

my first English class of my high school because in a regular Korean public high

because in a regular Korean public high

because in a regular Korean public high school not a lot of people really have a

school not a lot of people really have a

school not a lot of people really have a chance to study abroad for a significant

chance to study abroad for a significant

chance to study abroad for a significant period of time and does they’re not

period of time and does they’re not

period of time and does they’re not asked fluent in English and it was

asked fluent in English and it was

asked fluent in English and it was likewise our Korean public high school

likewise our Korean public high school

likewise our Korean public high school was the same I was pretty much the only

was the same I was pretty much the only

was the same I was pretty much the only one only person to be phoned in English

one only person to be phoned in English

one only person to be phoned in English so when this teacher asked me to read a

so when this teacher asked me to read a

so when this teacher asked me to read a paragraph though in textbook and I

paragraph though in textbook and I

paragraph though in textbook and I started reading I could feel everyone’s

started reading I could feel everyone’s

started reading I could feel everyone’s attention shipping towards me now after

attention shipping towards me now after

attention shipping towards me now after that class a good 10 to 20 people

that class a good 10 to 20 people

that class a good 10 to 20 people approached me asked me for my name and

approached me asked me for my name and

approached me asked me for my name and wanted to get to know me better so I met

wanted to get to know me better so I met

wanted to get to know me better so I met a lot of I left I met a lot of my high

a lot of I left I met a lot of my high

a lot of I left I met a lot of my high school friends through that incident I

school friends through that incident I

school friends through that incident I have a similar story in college recently

have a similar story in college recently

have a similar story in college recently I was recently I mean I was um

I was recently I mean I was um

I was recently I mean I was um I was pretty much a regular freshman

I was pretty much a regular freshman

I was pretty much a regular freshman during my college life and one day I was

during my college life and one day I was

during my college life and one day I was lucky enough to get a decent score and

lucky enough to get a decent score and

lucky enough to get a decent score and this supposed to be hard class now it

this supposed to be hard class now it

this supposed to be hard class now it was good for first in the entire class

was good for first in the entire class

was good for first in the entire class but I was happy but I didn’t really tell

but I was happy but I didn’t really tell

but I was happy but I didn’t really tell anybody but then this fact somehow got

anybody but then this fact somehow got

anybody but then this fact somehow got leaked because you know Koreans they’re

leaked because you know Koreans they’re

leaked because you know Koreans they’re very into which person getting which

very into which person getting which

very into which person getting which grade so and how they figured out is a

grade so and how they figured out is a

grade so and how they figured out is a different story for another day but the

different story for another day but the

different story for another day but the fact is that it got leaked and then as

fact is that it got leaked and then as

fact is that it got leaked and then as soon as I got leaked people have never

soon as I got leaked people have never

soon as I got leaked people have never talked before started approaching me

talked before started approaching me

talked before started approaching me asked me for advice and help for that

asked me for advice and help for that

asked me for advice and help for that class’s final exam now I’ve noticed that

class’s final exam now I’ve noticed that

class’s final exam now I’ve noticed that once you’re good at something or you’ve

once you’re good at something or you’ve

once you’re good at something or you’ve done something good people automatically

done something good people automatically

done something good people automatically approach you that is to say people

approach you that is to say people

approach you that is to say people selectively choose who they want to be

selectively choose who they want to be

selectively choose who they want to be friends with that is to say they choose

friends with that is to say they choose

friends with that is to say they choose who they want to be friends with based

who they want to be friends with based

who they want to be friends with based on how beneficial they think you could

on how beneficial they think you could

on how beneficial they think you could be now this action in and of itself is

be now this action in and of itself is

be now this action in and of itself is discrimination because the

discrimination because the

discrimination because the subconsciously ranks people from top to

subconsciously ranks people from top to

subconsciously ranks people from top to bottom

bottom

bottom based on how valuable they think you are

based on how valuable they think you are

based on how valuable they think you are it’s preposterous to think that people

it’s preposterous to think that people

it’s preposterous to think that people still to this day think they’re better

still to this day think they’re better

still to this day think they’re better or worse than a certain person but we

or worse than a certain person but we

or worse than a certain person but we still do this anyways because

still do this anyways because

still do this anyways because subconsciously when we start forgetting

subconsciously when we start forgetting

subconsciously when we start forgetting the simple on a an unequivocal fact that

the simple on a an unequivocal fact that

the simple on a an unequivocal fact that every single person here is equal where

every single person here is equal where

every single person here is equal where everywhere is equal that’s when society

everywhere is equal that’s when society

everywhere is equal that’s when society starts to be real we have plenty of

starts to be real we have plenty of

starts to be real we have plenty of examples that happened recently in real

examples that happened recently in real

examples that happened recently in real life let’s start with the row hinga

life let’s start with the row hinga

life let’s start with the row hinga where either Bangladesh normil Maher

where either Bangladesh normil Maher

where either Bangladesh normil Maher wanted to UM wanted to accept these

wanted to UM wanted to accept these

wanted to UM wanted to accept these Muslim minorities into your society the

Muslim minorities into your society the

Muslim minorities into your society the Catalonians thought they were better

Catalonians thought they were better

Catalonians thought they were better than every other region in Spain and

than every other region in Spain and

than every other region in Spain and does subscribe for independence prompt

does subscribe for independence prompt

does subscribe for independence prompt it looks like seems like he thinks less

it looks like seems like he thinks less

it looks like seems like he thinks less of every other country that’s not named

of every other country that’s not named

of every other country that’s not named America and he he doesn’t he refuses to

America and he he doesn’t he refuses to

America and he he doesn’t he refuses to help country

help country

help country that are in need most most notably

that are in need most most notably

that are in need most most notably recently puro Rico all these happened

recently puro Rico all these happened

recently puro Rico all these happened fundamentally because one group thought

fundamentally because one group thought

fundamentally because one group thought they were superior to another so how do

they were superior to another so how do

they were superior to another so how do we fix this

we fix this

we fix this there isn’t a tangible solution but

there isn’t a tangible solution but

there isn’t a tangible solution but rather an intangible one and that is to

rather an intangible one and that is to

rather an intangible one and that is to always remember and keep in mind that

always remember and keep in mind that

always remember and keep in mind that there’s only one thing and one of the

there’s only one thing and one of the

there’s only one thing and one of the only thing all seven billion of us on

only thing all seven billion of us on

only thing all seven billion of us on earth have in common and that is that we

earth have in common and that is that we

earth have in common and that is that we are human beings you’re not better than

are human beings you’re not better than

are human beings you’re not better than anyone just because you loved into a

anyone just because you loved into a

anyone just because you loved into a wealthier family just because you you

wealthier family just because you you

wealthier family just because you you happen to have a higher IQ

happen to have a higher IQ

happen to have a higher IQ so you’re smarter at a particular field

so you’re smarter at a particular field

so you’re smarter at a particular field just because you want the birth Lottery

just because you want the birth Lottery

just because you want the birth Lottery and you’re considered more beautiful in

and you’re considered more beautiful in

and you’re considered more beautiful in this society

this society

this society none of these arbitrary things factored

none of these arbitrary things factored

none of these arbitrary things factored into you fundamentally being human so

into you fundamentally being human so

into you fundamentally being human so all in all and the status quo and

all in all and the status quo and

all in all and the status quo and especially in a capitalistic society

especially in a capitalistic society

especially in a capitalistic society although we preach equality there seems

although we preach equality there seems

although we preach equality there seems to be an invisible or transparent

to be an invisible or transparent

to be an invisible or transparent hierarchy that exists we must learn to

hierarchy that exists we must learn to

hierarchy that exists we must learn to break this hierarchy down and the first

break this hierarchy down and the first

break this hierarchy down and the first step and the cornerstone in doing so is

step and the cornerstone in doing so is

step and the cornerstone in doing so is acknowledging every single one of you

acknowledging every single one of you

acknowledging every single one of you are the same thank you

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