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One secret to success – Ignore the social myth of you | Christine Timm | TEDxWCC


Thanks

Thanks we excited yeah I’m excited

we excited yeah I’m excited

we excited yeah I’m excited um as iboard said I’m an English

um as iboard said I’m an English

um as iboard said I’m an English professor I teach academic writing

professor I teach academic writing

professor I teach academic writing creative writing literary analysis and

creative writing literary analysis and

creative writing literary analysis and poetry I have my PhD from the City

poetry I have my PhD from the City

poetry I have my PhD from the City University of New York but before all

University of New York but before all

University of New York but before all this I was a teenage mom I remember when

this I was a teenage mom I remember when

this I was a teenage mom I remember when I stopped her started college I just

I stopped her started college I just

I stopped her started college I just wanted to get through those 15 weeks I

wanted to get through those 15 weeks I

wanted to get through those 15 weeks I had no big plan for the future

had no big plan for the future

had no big plan for the future I just wanted to survive this semester

I just wanted to survive this semester

I just wanted to survive this semester but after a few classes I gained some

but after a few classes I gained some

but after a few classes I gained some confidence and I thought okay maybe I

confidence and I thought okay maybe I

confidence and I thought okay maybe I can do this you know maybe I can succeed

can do this you know maybe I can succeed

can do this you know maybe I can succeed in college and I thought okay maybe I

in college and I thought okay maybe I

in college and I thought okay maybe I want to teach so when a professor called

want to teach so when a professor called

want to teach so when a professor called me into his office and asked Christine

me into his office and asked Christine

me into his office and asked Christine what are you going to do with your

what are you going to do with your

what are you going to do with your future what are you going to do after

future what are you going to do after

future what are you going to do after you leave college I had my answer I said

you leave college I had my answer I said

you leave college I had my answer I said well I think I want to go to graduate

well I think I want to go to graduate

well I think I want to go to graduate school get my PhD and become a professor

school get my PhD and become a professor

school get my PhD and become a professor like you now this professor was really

like you now this professor was really

like you now this professor was really smart he had a lot of data in his head

smart he had a lot of data in his head

smart he had a lot of data in his head and he knew he knew I’d been a teenage

and he knew he knew I’d been a teenage

and he knew he knew I’d been a teenage mom and he also knew that 66 percent of

mom and he also knew that 66 percent of

mom and he also knew that 66 percent of mothers who begin their families as

mothers who begin their families as

mothers who begin their families as teenagers live in poverty and it was

teenagers live in poverty and it was

teenagers live in poverty and it was true my son and I did live below the

true my son and I did live below the

true my son and I did live below the poverty line at the time and he also

poverty line at the time and he also

poverty line at the time and he also knew that 52% of teenage moms live with

knew that 52% of teenage moms live with

knew that 52% of teenage moms live with the help of some kind of federal

the help of some kind of federal

the help of some kind of federal assistance and that was also true my son

assistance and that was also true my son

assistance and that was also true my son and I were getting food stamps and we

and I were getting food stamps and we

and I were getting food stamps and we were part of a federal program so with

were part of a federal program so with

were part of a federal program so with these statistics in mind he said to me

these statistics in mind he said to me

these statistics in mind he said to me well Christine I get this be all you can

well Christine I get this be all you can

well Christine I get this be all you can be attitude it’s very positive it’s very

be attitude it’s very positive it’s very

be attitude it’s very positive it’s very admirable but you have to be realistic

admirable but you have to be realistic

admirable but you have to be realistic graduate school is expensive and it’s a

graduate school is expensive and it’s a

graduate school is expensive and it’s a long haul you can’t go through years and

long haul you can’t go through years and

long haul you can’t go through years and years of graduate school and then come

years of graduate school and then come

years of graduate school and then come out with a degree and you may or may not

out with a degree and you may or may not

out with a degree and you may or may not get a position you just need a job to

get a position you just need a job to

get a position you just need a job to pay the bills

pay the bills

pay the bills so I thanked him I left his office and I

so I thanked him I left his office and I

so I thanked him I left his office and I thought okay he knows his data but he

thought okay he knows his data but he

thought okay he knows his data but he doesn’t know real teenage moms real

doesn’t know real teenage moms real

doesn’t know real teenage moms real teenage moms like Sacagawea she was 17

teenage moms like Sacagawea she was 17

teenage moms like Sacagawea she was 17 when she had her son she was a

when she had her son she was a

when she had her son she was a translator for Lewis and Clark

translator for Lewis and Clark

translator for Lewis and Clark she took her infant with him with it

she took her infant with him with it

she took her infant with him with it with her on the expedition to the

with her on the expedition to the

with her on the expedition to the Pacific coast and back she’s the only

Pacific coast and back she’s the only

Pacific coast and back she’s the only woman on that expedition

woman on that expedition

woman on that expedition I thought he doesn’t know teenage moms

I thought he doesn’t know teenage moms

I thought he doesn’t know teenage moms like Maya Angelou she had her son when

like Maya Angelou she had her son when

like Maya Angelou she had her son when she was 16 and as you know right she

she was 16 and as you know right she

she was 16 and as you know right she went on to become a celebrated even

went on to become a celebrated even

went on to become a celebrated even historic writer and he didn’t really

historic writer and he didn’t really

historic writer and he didn’t really know me and I thought back to even

know me and I thought back to even

know me and I thought back to even before I started college started taking

before I started college started taking

before I started college started taking classes to the orientation and I

classes to the orientation and I

classes to the orientation and I remembered you know the professor’s

remembered you know the professor’s

remembered you know the professor’s coming in and out of that lecture hall

coming in and out of that lecture hall

coming in and out of that lecture hall they were giving us information and

they were giving us information and

they were giving us information and details and just the tools we needed to

details and just the tools we needed to

details and just the tools we needed to be successful in college but I

be successful in college but I

be successful in college but I specifically remember the last professor

specifically remember the last professor

specifically remember the last professor to come into that room because he said

to come into that room because he said

to come into that room because he said look around you 80% of you will not be

look around you 80% of you will not be

look around you 80% of you will not be walking down that aisle and graduation

walking down that aisle and graduation

walking down that aisle and graduation at graduation four years from now

at graduation four years from now

at graduation four years from now I remember thinking really you mean this

I remember thinking really you mean this

I remember thinking really you mean this program has a 20 percent success rate I

program has a 20 percent success rate I

program has a 20 percent success rate I was really sort of daunted but I

was really sort of daunted but I

was really sort of daunted but I physically did look around me at the

physically did look around me at the

physically did look around me at the students in that lecture hall and I

students in that lecture hall and I

students in that lecture hall and I thought what’s wrong with you people I

thought what’s wrong with you people I

thought what’s wrong with you people I don’t know where you’re going to be in

don’t know where you’re going to be in

don’t know where you’re going to be in four years but I’m gonna be walking down

four years but I’m gonna be walking down

four years but I’m gonna be walking down that aisle with that diploma in my hand

that aisle with that diploma in my hand

that aisle with that diploma in my hand I was 22 I was already divorced of a

I was 22 I was already divorced of a

I was 22 I was already divorced of a single mother of a four-year-old and I

single mother of a four-year-old and I

single mother of a four-year-old and I was on welfare but I was determined I

was on welfare but I was determined I

was on welfare but I was determined I knew I was going to be part of that 20

knew I was going to be part of that 20

knew I was going to be part of that 20 percent success rate but I was wrong

percent success rate but I was wrong

percent success rate but I was wrong I was the 80 percent and the reason I

I was the 80 percent and the reason I

I was the 80 percent and the reason I was the 80 percent had nothing to do

was the 80 percent had nothing to do

was the 80 percent had nothing to do with natural talent or intelligence or

with natural talent or intelligence or

with natural talent or intelligence or IQ or determination or grit or any of

IQ or determination or grit or any of

IQ or determination or grit or any of those success factors that we like to

those success factors that we like to

those success factors that we like to talk about today but it had everything

talk about today but it had everything

talk about today but it had everything to do with my personal journey as having

to do with my personal journey as having

to do with my personal journey as having been a former team Jane

been a former team Jane

been a former team Jane teenage mom and a single mom I had two

teenage mom and a single mom I had two

teenage mom and a single mom I had two jobs I was raising a son so I actually

jobs I was raising a son so I actually

jobs I was raising a son so I actually did get my a degree of course after 11

did get my a degree of course after 11

did get my a degree of course after 11 semester so it took me 11 semesters

semester so it took me 11 semesters

semester so it took me 11 semesters instead of 8 but still I couldn’t be

instead of 8 but still I couldn’t be

instead of 8 but still I couldn’t be part of that 20 percent success rate I’d

part of that 20 percent success rate I’d

part of that 20 percent success rate I’d like to take a look at some data for

like to take a look at some data for

like to take a look at some data for this college Westchester Community

this college Westchester Community

this college Westchester Community College and this study follows the 2012

College and this study follows the 2012

College and this study follows the 2012 student cohort so that’s the 2012 body

student cohort so that’s the 2012 body

student cohort so that’s the 2012 body of incoming students so in 2012 we had

of incoming students so in 2012 we had

of incoming students so in 2012 we had two thousand and two hundred and

two thousand and two hundred and

two thousand and two hundred and thirty-one students coming into the

thirty-one students coming into the

thirty-one students coming into the college and over of those two thousand

college and over of those two thousand

college and over of those two thousand two hundred and thirty one 330 graduated

two hundred and thirty one 330 graduated

two hundred and thirty one 330 graduated with their associate’s degree within

with their associate’s degree within

with their associate’s degree within three years so that’s a 14 point 8

three years so that’s a 14 point 8

three years so that’s a 14 point 8 percent success rate now fourteen point

percent success rate now fourteen point

percent success rate now fourteen point eight percent that’s a little scary if

eight percent that’s a little scary if

eight percent that’s a little scary if you’re an incoming freshman right

you’re an incoming freshman right

you’re an incoming freshman right because that means you have an eighty

because that means you have an eighty

because that means you have an eighty five point two percent chance of not

five point two percent chance of not

five point two percent chance of not getting your degree within three years

getting your degree within three years

getting your degree within three years but wait the study expands that notion

but wait the study expands that notion

but wait the study expands that notion of the successful student a little bit

of the successful student a little bit

of the successful student a little bit the study includes also the transfer

the study includes also the transfer

the study includes also the transfer students so these are students who come

students so these are students who come

students so these are students who come to the two-year college with the idea of

to the two-year college with the idea of

to the two-year college with the idea of getting the associate’s degree but then

getting the associate’s degree but then

getting the associate’s degree but then decide to transfer to the four-year

decide to transfer to the four-year

decide to transfer to the four-year college so they’re still engaged in the

college so they’re still engaged in the

college so they’re still engaged in the academic process they’re still on a

academic process they’re still on a

academic process they’re still on a track to get their degree they’ve just

track to get their degree they’ve just

track to get their degree they’ve just transferred a bit early so we’ve got

transferred a bit early so we’ve got

transferred a bit early so we’ve got three hundred and ninety eight of the

three hundred and ninety eight of the

three hundred and ninety eight of the transfer students for a total of 17.8%

transfer students for a total of 17.8%

transfer students for a total of 17.8% so now we can add together those to

so now we can add together those to

so now we can add together those to success percentages for a total of

success percentages for a total of

success percentages for a total of thirty two point six percent total

thirty two point six percent total

thirty two point six percent total success rate so that’s a little bit more

success rate so that’s a little bit more

success rate so that’s a little bit more heartening but wait the study expands

heartening but wait the study expands

heartening but wait the study expands this idea of the successful student even

this idea of the successful student even

this idea of the successful student even further to include the so called

further to include the so called

further to include the so called persisters I was a persister this is a

persisters I was a persister this is a

persisters I was a persister this is a student who comes to the college but

student who comes to the college but

student who comes to the college but doesn’t get the degree within three

doesn’t get the degree within three

doesn’t get the degree within three years but they’re still taking college

years but they’re still taking college

years but they’re still taking college classes so you’re still on that track

classes so you’re still on that track

classes so you’re still on that track there’s still active students maybe they

there’s still active students maybe they

there’s still active students maybe they change their major and they still need

change their major and they still need

change their major and they still need to take classes but you know for

to take classes but you know for

to take classes but you know for whatever reason they’re still ink

whatever reason they’re still ink

whatever reason they’re still ink even though it’s more than three years

even though it’s more than three years

even though it’s more than three years so if we include the persisters at 464

so if we include the persisters at 464

so if we include the persisters at 464 20.6% and add all those percentages

20.6% and add all those percentages

20.6% and add all those percentages together now we have a 53.2%

together now we have a 53.2%

together now we have a 53.2% total success story in the 2012 cohort

total success story in the 2012 cohort

total success story in the 2012 cohort so that’s a big difference that’s more

so that’s a big difference that’s more

so that’s a big difference that’s more than half right so that’s a big park

than half right so that’s a big park

than half right so that’s a big park ride from the 14.8% that we were

ride from the 14.8% that we were

ride from the 14.8% that we were initially started with but what about

initially started with but what about

initially started with but what about that forty six point eight percent that

that forty six point eight percent that

that forty six point eight percent that are not part of the total success story

are not part of the total success story

are not part of the total success story who are those students well these could

who are those students well these could

who are those students well these could be students who leave college to raise

be students who leave college to raise

be students who leave college to raise families because of illness or to earn

families because of illness or to earn

families because of illness or to earn money to pay for college but they come

money to pay for college but they come

money to pay for college but they come back they take their courses and they do

back they take their courses and they do

back they take their courses and they do eventually get their degree it could

eventually get their degree it could

eventually get their degree it could also include students who come to the

also include students who come to the

also include students who come to the college take a few classes and then

college take a few classes and then

college take a few classes and then decide they have enough information to

decide they have enough information to

decide they have enough information to go on with their careers maybe they

go on with their careers maybe they

go on with their careers maybe they start up their own business or they

start up their own business or they

start up their own business or they engage in a trade in some ways this you

engage in a trade in some ways this you

engage in a trade in some ways this you know 53.2%

know 53.2%

know 53.2% total success story misrepresents those

total success story misrepresents those

total success story misrepresents those students who don’t fit in statistics as

students who don’t fit in statistics as

students who don’t fit in statistics as a college professor I tell my students

a college professor I tell my students

a college professor I tell my students you have to back up your details right

you have to back up your details right

you have to back up your details right you have to back up your claims with

you have to back up your claims with

you have to back up your claims with surveys with facts and with statistic

surveys with facts and with statistic

surveys with facts and with statistic statistics statistics like forty percent

statistics statistics like forty percent

statistics statistics like forty percent of teen mothers finish high school or

of teen mothers finish high school or

of teen mothers finish high school or only 1.5 percent of us will get our BA

only 1.5 percent of us will get our BA

only 1.5 percent of us will get our BA by the time were 30 according to these

by the time were 30 according to these

by the time were 30 according to these statistics that Professor was likely to

statistics that Professor was likely to

statistics that Professor was likely to be right it wasn’t likely that I would

be right it wasn’t likely that I would

be right it wasn’t likely that I would get a graduate degree it wasn’t likely

get a graduate degree it wasn’t likely

get a graduate degree it wasn’t likely that I would get a job as a professor

that I would get a job as a professor

that I would get a job as a professor and it’s not likely they’d be standing

and it’s not likely they’d be standing

and it’s not likely they’d be standing on the stage delivering this

on the stage delivering this

on the stage delivering this presentation to you now but statistics

presentation to you now but statistics

presentation to you now but statistics are useful if we’re going to use them to

are useful if we’re going to use them to

are useful if we’re going to use them to channel resources to where they need

channel resources to where they need

channel resources to where they need them but they’re not so useful if we’re

them but they’re not so useful if we’re

them but they’re not so useful if we’re going to label people with statistics or

going to label people with statistics or

going to label people with statistics or limit their hopes or dreams or

limit their hopes or dreams or

limit their hopes or dreams or aspirations with statistics when I think

aspirations with statistics when I think

aspirations with statistics when I think back to that conversation I had with the

back to that conversation I had with the

back to that conversation I had with the professor

professor

professor I don’t feel very good about it in fact

I don’t feel very good about it in fact

I don’t feel very good about it in fact I don’t think I handled it very well I

I don’t think I handled it very well I

I don’t think I handled it very well I should have told him about Sacagawea I

should have told him about Sacagawea I

should have told him about Sacagawea I should have told him about Maya Angelou

should have told him about Maya Angelou

should have told him about Maya Angelou I should have told him about Ann Dunham

I should have told him about Ann Dunham

I should have told him about Ann Dunham she started her college education as a

she started her college education as a

she started her college education as a teenage mom and then she went on to get

teenage mom and then she went on to get

teenage mom and then she went on to get her PhD in anthropology from the

her PhD in anthropology from the

her PhD in anthropology from the University of Hawaii while raising her

University of Hawaii while raising her

University of Hawaii while raising her son Barack Obama I should have told him

son Barack Obama I should have told him

son Barack Obama I should have told him about me I should have told him that you

about me I should have told him that you

about me I should have told him that you can’t use statistics to put people into

can’t use statistics to put people into

can’t use statistics to put people into a box

a box

a box or to label or define them it’s not

or to label or define them it’s not

or to label or define them it’s not right you can’t use statistics to limit

right you can’t use statistics to limit

right you can’t use statistics to limit their goals in life so I guess if

their goals in life so I guess if

their goals in life so I guess if there’s any message here for you it’s

there’s any message here for you it’s

there’s any message here for you it’s this that it said if someone tries to

this that it said if someone tries to

this that it said if someone tries to use a statistic to define you whether it

use a statistic to define you whether it

use a statistic to define you whether it be a statistic about your race your

be a statistic about your race your

be a statistic about your race your ethnicity your sexual preference your

ethnicity your sexual preference your

ethnicity your sexual preference your gender or whether or not you speak

gender or whether or not you speak

gender or whether or not you speak English as a first language don’t give

English as a first language don’t give

English as a first language don’t give them a pass tell them don’t look at me

them a pass tell them don’t look at me

them a pass tell them don’t look at me as a statistic look at the unique person

as a statistic look at the unique person

as a statistic look at the unique person standing in front of you look at me look

standing in front of you look at me look

standing in front of you look at me look at me

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