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On a deux vies | Caroline Matteucci-Rappaz | TEDxIFAMetz


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thank you thank you for letting me be

this is the subject of tonight’s freedom

to be me I could be me are my

fears are my beliefs but you

what happened when you

have presented your mind you have

felt legal the little man there

in who said ‘oh my god the

poor she did not prepare her text or

others angry anyway but

is that they are coast to

to install dic is to be

prepare

you felt that little voice

yes it was didier to laugh the child no he

prepared me you have health of small

end to end

we all have it we can call it judgment

positive or negative

they are not always negative the

judgments but she’s always there and

today what I would like you

to speak is of the purely

personal we talked a lot about

personal development let’s learn to

we pure and I could come

naked on stage to talk about it

but didier handling and costs 1 meter

it’s not too much

maybe we’re getting good, so I’ve

said I have to find another

way to make you feel that

this particular moment of silence

I would like you to connect to

you to what is inside of

you of course I will talk to you a

little bit of my story to make

similarities but it’s you who

interested me tonight and I chose

an artist we do not see his little

graffiti which is downstairs called

suzy and I asked him for a drawing

purified this part is a woman

wonderful

she has a unique color and I’m going

tell you one thing

you all have a unique color and

it is the latter that we must protect these

six that we should not let pollute

by others so it’s this little

man there you remember when

you finally get that school is there

the gem good there are those who cry who

shout we know all that too but

this joy envy the energy the joy

always he runs everywhere and we arrive

in this world and why it takes

dress to make her wardrobe but

your clothes and that I’m going now if

I set that we will see something that I will

not the labit we pass but there is also

the mask that you have to put all the

days what I put the mask of the

mother of good family family since

I mix hand

from there profilers is what I put the

coach mask I do not know it’s

the hypnotise to sion is when we have

started doing that first step on the

river because this little guy

it’s not just my life it’s the

yours but also what we will do this

evening together crossing each stone

to find our color the essential

the essential freedom to be so we

happens in a moment when we are actually

in ignorance

we do not know at all that we are in

being put on masks etc have

false on the contrary we succeed on

is several witnesses today

that they said it was success

like kevin but he understood he was

broken you did not have a break

not necessarily chosen the break for

change for those who hide themselves do not me

may it be tight and I have

want to remove it okay so we have

all a moment like that in life one

is in ignorance my life was I

wanted to be an inspector at the call of

safety I was 8 years old I said I’m going

of ideas makhoul sawaya my parents have

tried teachers no we will try

yes but maybe no I’m going to dinner

mac os so i did what i did this

that everyone asks to do the

schools it takes the sport it takes

to learn the languages I need

became an inspector

I met my husband and I make

children but I mass hugged me but

so easy it was the fault of

other

my boss understand nothing my husband but

my fears as it had to be room

still my children were doing that

to cry I should have had houses

make it a lot easier to live

short so what am I doing a little

as a german kevin I shoot all the

world I start again I put renens your

masks I still had not found myself

I did not say I was still turning

but we must this time there I you

say it’s too much I did not put

still not found so I

restarted I put other masks

I did the studies I found a

other husband I made new

children with who are still there this

because I understood two small three

stuff in the middle but I was always

not happy there are people who have a

luck i will tell you this is a

luck ines that’s one thing you

shares and in life to be so young

that you and to have understood to have

understand your color your beauty of being

I did not have that chance

their breakup I had to create a break

so I chose a break a little

maybe for the weird french or

a bit that we can not understand but

I decided to put myself in

replicating I said how can I

do that because I had to

from this hypnotise to you

where everybody says we have to

to be so I have an italian husband who me

puts well in a children’s setting a

family must leave my home

how am I going to go from

at home I want to be broken

I thought koh lanta not bad koh

lanta for right now

our needs 2012 is going to be done I have you

so koh lanta for me it was not the

media we have you have not me

so much for a year the media was

really tell me today gm letter

I want to find who I am how I

will do to go into a game

of adventure where I will have to choose

again a mask this necessarily there is

a mask to m what am I going there

to learn will I be

able to withstand the elements and

especially to others and so in this game

of adventures you know koh lanta

no no there are some who do not know

for us but on a desert island

for 40 days we have to resist

is two teams broadband tv guide

one is excluded if we did wrong there

a lot of strategy games this

was not it that interested me this

which interested me was the human

demierre is what I will find the

potential in someone is what I

will find potential at home because

that I will meet and then on

everything I learned at koh lanta

is that lego he is present and you

have seen it in the game it’s often the

sewer that wins at the level of the

strategy but the ego and makes you

lose and I’m going to show you in this

little game it’s two minutes video you

go hear denis brogniart who

explain the game and after I you

explain what I learned

it’s love for his health and you

go touch the first promo that goes

passionate about the strategy of the yellows and

malines bring a stone closer to

facilitate the work of gégé who does not

did not swim well

the reds and yellows 3,2 at each

adventurer must go get a

stone of his choice and he reported

in the circle corresponding to his

team

but the return can only be done

Benedict apnea stops at the level of

first stones while laurent

rona track wants to try to report a

the most distant stones and

let those who are closest

for your at least twenty swimmers

his team

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we need the paths of the parties

because 064 well everywhere both teams

are elbow to elbow

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the yellow team advantage to the games

it is the turn of gregarious to leap and

his teammates forgot about him

brought a stone closer to help him

dean will have to at least touched to dedicate

and come back if he can not disqualify

his job

it’s gregated there touched the buoy

but they panic they do not arrive anymore

at all advanced in my home

on the spot

he fails to join the

pontoon to swim month just 15 years

to leave again I must have spent the

witness so what did we see

continue seeing you that it was very

clear at first the yellows had the

strategy to put a pebble to

side of the circle

you saw a hemiplegia there

had no power but he did not know

swim

so we had decided all

first had to bring back the part bring the

second was to bring back next to the

serves who did not bring him back and I

I had the strategy of nantes is

same initiator of the thing

we’re going to swim another thing I’m

always call back and I dream of it

night I promise you from Geneva the night

because I told myself I’m bringing the

last stone and a circle

you have already put the pair in the

circle

because here I lost the team

not me but I should have put it

next to the circle

if it had not been a short delay

but in being I put them

side of the circle and the whole story of

koh lanta would have played so yes legal

in the sport in some games you

allows you to go further

but in the end the one that makes you

resist and that makes you proud of yourself

it is your being so I find

that this example were very

impressive and from that day I

I’m told you see tile every time

you’re in lego you’re wrong

do we know we have to push and

as we talked about tattoos too

I have a written essay m I do not have

written for you to read but

for me to remember that it takes

stay in the being so following koh

lanta well I came back to my

family

the idea of ​​a grandiose I told myself

no no it does not have the fault of

other

it’s yours I understood a

when you’re not waiting for anything

other you wait all of you has arrived

in my family I tell you I

started finding this little key

how to free myself from my chains

there are some first steps to do I have you

talked about the left field the way gosset

this little voice that you have in

your head when you looked at me

and you must have at least god you

hear it the times it would have taken

do not like that then alexander

jollien who is a philosopher says these

radios fm youth agrees with

I’m not telling you to kill the

the way go when I call it must

tame it and sometimes you have to

leave it out of its cage a trunk

you’re going nowhere a little bit all

to be a guru on top of a mountain

was not the idea but let him

gallop when you need it

when you no longer have to put the

the in the cage is left out

your color it will be so much more

interesting to come back to who you

are really so I do not tell you

that today I did this last step

but my dog goes swimming in the water

quiet – hull revolves around me

like on this picture and I threw the

most of my beliefs

you know a rose when it grows

she makes thorns it’s normal to

create thorns to protect themselves from

world

but before the intelligence to look

which we are still useful or not

these are the first steps towards

freedom of faith you agree

so today I came back to my

first loves

I became profilers lie to me

served be careful if anyone in

the room I’ll know it instantly

that’s not true but there is not a

only sign of the lie

but to become a good profilers he

must first stop believing that

is right stop thinking that I know

all mess

so my biggest challenge

today and but puree to ask

my beliefs to put all my filters

to be able to identify the other

and when you say it’s anti when

you identify the other as he is

you receive its particular color

is unique in the world

as a wonderful and sudden gift

you realize that you become

perform and you become

maybe an expert in your job

so to finish this little

parenthesis because I did not have

want to tell you what to do

I would like so much to connect

Who are you inside?

maybe finish on a silence where I

go with you with a few words

for you to reconnect to you

to the bottom of you okay

and remember you are not looking to be

be yourself all the others are

already taken breathes and we end up on

silence breathe quietly in my

early when I watched you all

the years you try father riba this moment

fabulous presents to be all together

and most importantly do me service do not think

not to the freedom of retirement

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