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Is it possible for people to
establish human relations without
money intermediation well into
A few years ago I took my life.
as per manual of traditional life
fc engineering a renowned college
then got a job in a
multinational to stay for some years until
I left my job to set up a
business
entrepreneurship is but in 2007 I had
a diagnosis of a cancer well
aggressive
This gave a twist on my
Life is proximity to death made
with which I changed a little bit one
long-term vision of this issue of
work hard
saving money is putting money together
prosper and think a lot in the future, right?
I changed a little so I went to
valuing the present moment is
because at that time I did not know if I would
live much longer than a few months but
everything worked
the treatment was fine then I went to
greatly value the present moment
Then some time passed, I got rid of the
company
I decided to dedicate my yoga, I was giving
yoga class a few years ago until in
a given moment a new decision
Neither did I something that always made sense
for me it was traveling, I wanted so much
travel
so I ‘ll do what I want to do
now let the work stopped
side and falls on the road the way I am
I decided to travel even to make the long trip.
term even without money for it and
I walked in I got on locomovo by picking up
ride on the side of the road something that today
in days is not so common but it is
I could do it, I used to sleep in the house
of people who are known by the way
in my intention was a first
to know the northeast after the
some countries here to neighbors to the
Brazil and had no contact
so I’ve been meeting people by
internet or in person
get a place to sleep and food
that is a question that always make
it’s not how you can get started
no more hunger has many forms and
I could get food in a variety of ways.
easier than it sounds right
in one of these places I visited was
local electoral bar of the local bay
very beautiful a nice beach and I
I decided to go there at the last minute.
had no previous contact
to meet anyone is a small village
and I went with the face and the courage is and the
get there first the first challenge
is to get a place to sleep
then there is like it had no
known there no contact I went
knocking from door to door
especially in hostels and hostels.
camp sites offering work in exchange for
hosting would be a few days, right?
and of course the first ones do not know 1015
doors that hit said we do not need
we do not want to
until we know each other like that in the
end of the day I found
camping is included in our
location beautiful sunset time in
This is how I came forward and I predicted
difficult the proposal contains quickly
a story and she was ok I accept
You and I were still in the beginning of
travel with that mentality a bit
formal is work I already wanted
negotiate with her what I was going to do but
What am I going to do with these activities?
how much work time she was in
relax it is good that tent sleeps
rest tomorrow, we’ll take a shower tomorrow
talk and that was the weather, of course.
help basically every morning that
I would give and talk to her there
money cleaning task for the
bathroom to clean the kitchen and make
some general service that lasted from one
two hours for me was a fair exchange
because he did it very quickly in the morning and the
rest of the day at leisure
because I was there to enjoy and not to
stay all day working right
and had a safe place to
my things are important too
and having place to sleep with the next
step to get food and I was
willing
to test different approaches then
the first approach I wanted to make
It was like he chocked a little, right?
trash
I went in some markets and it ‘s to ask.
fruit and vegetables is that it was not going to be any more
sold knows that the fruit that is
mashed is a vegetable that is already
one a tip already one that is so
beautiful to sell more but still
can be availed and I can get
markets that I was one of them went well
interesting because I not only
got the vegetables right?
a person who answered me did
matter of in the kitchen of the place
cut the ugly parts wrap in the
plastic film deliver so much is
careful and was impressed was
interesting is not asking for the
garbage is earning something so
pretty just
and the other strategy was that I wanted to
very well in a bread bakery
The old bakery was the first
I took a chair tea and the
owner he did not speak no more
he did not answer me normal when
Are you in such a situation?
trying to be prepared for situations is
do not stay here also the whole day
because of the lack of old bread
huh
there I went to the next pay and it was
direct talk to the manager I explained
my situation and it was you will
eat old bread
sit here I have to make two on the plate
with butter and coffee for you and also
a beautiful breakfast and the chapeiro
from this location he got 16 tuned to
My story and he kept talking
also because when you are with
free time you talk to
people are cool down
relationship
and he allowed five reais and gave me this
was 2014 but was not symbolic is a
shaper gave me five reais
at that time you can compare a
thing with five reais and then I said more
with 50 I also do not do much
Well, it will not save
I will see so much for me there.
I will come back to the manager was know vete
I know the camping site so I’m
staying there she was really nice to me
she comes here to buy comes
the purchase that coffee there that
brand has given to buy coffee with this
money and this left a buck with a
something chocolate and I went
I gave this gift prefetti
it was a symbolic thing as well
so I want to do this
by the way it opened to me
so you do not receive without asking without
want to know who was simply
because I was needing it, she is too.
I was needing one of a force
huh
well it ‘s another interesting thing that
seems to conspire at times when
you are open the camping had
various hoses and various hoses
rockers in the field including
plane nets protecting the tents
because they fell and could break
a tent, then no need
nor harvested had dry mango and coconut
green coconut every day on the incredible ground
then a part of the maintenance that
including the bay sleeve is
fantastic and I took a match from him
of the chairs I needed I took from
Tencent of dry coconut is well caloric
good
One fine day is together with the staff of the
other people who have been
showing up we decide to make a
long walk to get to know some
natural pools of each and carry
food in your food was to pass the
All day to go back at night, huh?
I took think mango coconut mangrove right
and there in this group had a face that was
five years a brazilian one from bahia
This is so when he was having a
nomadic life and he began to
position in the group as if it were a
leader a spiritual guru do not know one
thing that I found interesting
observe and learn from this guy there
for a certain moment there was
green coconut he was explaining to you
how do you take a green coconut to take more
easy as well as open a green coconut
with a simple kitchen knife he
taught the footprint was cool
in another moment he and we arrived
the highest palm trees that poop
cayo coco dry from where comes the dry coconut
I learned and taught dry coconut.
body is on the floor and to choose
that shake and linense did not choose
grow up
cool how to open how to peel off
thick as open is a little more
difficult to open, do not get the water
to be able to eat the pulp
and he taught me something well
interesting that I never had
experience in life in relationships with
probably few coconut apple
must have heard when dry coconut
is on the ground in the sand and he
sprout to turn a new coconut tree
form a ball looks like an apple
Delicious white but unfortunately
for you to eat you have to
kill that coconut tree so i go
confess one has a coconut tree in life
Your world once in a lifetime I do not intend
do more and it was very cool but what
but it was cool for this guy to experience
him that it was a spiritual leader
huh
It was time to eat, so it was just
arrive and eat we sat someone
spread a cloth and everyone put the
I had on cloth up there ok picnic
nothing much but he wanted
stimulate the share then ellipse
I’ll explain in a simpler way.
of an apple is not just you to pick up
a secretary is eating you give
a bite on the apple pass the other side
despite this measure and so we will
taking all the food and I found it very
cool because that was a lot
symbolic is a bit strange in that
moment but it was symbolic and I went
one of the streets I took for myself like this
whenever you have food mainly
traveling
in this condition my means devoid
No, I ‘ll always share what I have.
especially the hot things because
I think dividing comes more then
It was something I learned a lot
there is another way that I can
food in others I will summarize by
talk time right which was well
also the staff of camping
I naturally became friends were
camped they started to me
their food because it is a
something that I also have not to stay
asking even when I have nothing
I do not ask I stay in my person
want to offer or accept but if not
I have my means to get
huh
they started offering food and I
accepted and the justification should be
Very interesting, not you.
cleaning our dirt people climb
you clean in your kitchen you clean
then it is not fair that you eat
Our food, huh?
and another thing that happened in this field
It is very interesting that ivete is
hired a boy she was alone
huh
I was very tired, she’s already a grandmother.
so I was in that rush of
end of year camping revealed in bahia
summer and alone, I’m super tired
Contract a guy to clean the campsite
and it was 50 reais at the time cleaning and
boy did not come and came from a little
although it did not end up cleaning
general in the field she arrived already was the link
For me, I did not clean it either.
a little heavier but in two hours
I finished the championship was 15 reais
then the cleaning I made of 50 reais
It would be more or less three nights in the
camping and could theoretically stay
three evenings at night
but this type of account and I do not
I did not because our exchange her
it was not math I did not want
business relationship I wanted a
Relationship spam Tanya I helped her
It helped and I am much more satisfied.
what the boy was then paying
that there is sometimes an exchange without
money can be made in a way that
more so human closer, right?
without doing it, is not ours.
relationship was so cool that I ended up
earning her gift not only is
interesting is a sheet I needed
one and only she had her and she gave me
It was very well marked, right?
I can not think I’ll ever go
forget about ivete
and I stayed then two years
establishing such relationships with
different people who do not
were intermediated by money
What happens when you do not have the
intermediary money does not exist in
relationships is what I call it.
interest interest
so I spent almost two years without
relationship with people is that
any interest interested in me
I about them, right?
it is logical that all relations
works based on some kind of
interest is normal what I
I call interest and interest that the
money is when you
when one person approaches another
friendship establishes a relationship
seeking some kind of advantage is
an indication of customers or a charge
public or employment or even some status
social loan with something
so I know that eventually we
Let’s have these relationships, but I’m
seeking more and more is to decrease
How many of them are in my life?
I want relations that are based on
another by another logic, right?
and this experience of staying two
years living that way she showed me
that when you do not have the
money intermediation
can have a more frank relationship
more open more honest transparent
because there are no interests that will
beyond their own coexistence is what
I as the name of being able to offer to the
many people who have helped me
several people who gave me a ride that
host that gave me food or
some other kind of support that I could
to offer
basically my time is mine
attention in my little stories
and maybe some help to get some
service nothing more than that then
these people approached me
spontaneously because they wanted and
sentinels this desire to help
But then I could see through
relationships not based on the
money is something that the whole human being
very precious within itself that the
generosity of all we have
I really believe today that if we
we can give ourselves to others, it ‘s like
these people who look at me as I do
I donated to her in a way too
Did you do something for others?
I’m sure this will return the
universe brings us right
and when you say to do something for others
it ‘s not necessarily charity
that it is also important that
A lot of people dedicate themselves and it ‘s cool, but I
I mean, to make someone else’s day to day
with your skills with your time
What did you learn from it?
attention for others without expecting anything
in return if we can get a
part of our time is dedicated to
This I’m sure this will
to return even materially, not me
I am convinced that he killed the
least a part
of our material needs can
be supplied even through this
type of relationship that does not involve a
contract a money an expectation of
I do not know
then returning to the original question in
of the lecture is that it is
possible to establish human relations
without intermediation of the money I
I believe that it is not only possible
It’s very gratifying I want to take
this type of relationship
For the rest of my life, thank you.
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