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Nurturing hope for future | Fr. Thomas Thadathil | TEDxSCAC


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the great philosopher Heidegger once

the great philosopher Heidegger once said take a leap into the darkness

said take a leap into the darkness

said take a leap into the darkness I think today’s theme in directly

I think today’s theme in directly

I think today’s theme in directly relates to me the same way I took it

relates to me the same way I took it

relates to me the same way I took it very seriously I suppose on 4th August

very seriously I suppose on 4th August

very seriously I suppose on 4th August 1986 I went into coma in Ruby Hall and

1986 I went into coma in Ruby Hall and

1986 I went into coma in Ruby Hall and my friend said doctor said there is no

my friend said doctor said there is no

my friend said doctor said there is no hope and my close friends told me later

hope and my close friends told me later

hope and my close friends told me later on that they prayed for my peaceful

on that they prayed for my peaceful

on that they prayed for my peaceful death because there may not be a much

death because there may not be a much

death because there may not be a much use of me in the future becoming a

use of me in the future becoming a

use of me in the future becoming a burden to the society

burden to the society

burden to the society I never appear on any stages today

I never appear on any stages today

I never appear on any stages today somehow to some means I happen to be

somehow to some means I happen to be

somehow to some means I happen to be here it is said in Bible God created the

here it is said in Bible God created the

here it is said in Bible God created the world in six days and he found it was

world in six days and he found it was

world in six days and he found it was very good but today when we look around

very good but today when we look around

very good but today when we look around are we able to see that good in the

are we able to see that good in the

are we able to see that good in the world

world

world or the humanity is decreasing in 1993 I

or the humanity is decreasing in 1993 I

or the humanity is decreasing in 1993 I was on my way to Pune and went to Satara

was on my way to Pune and went to Satara

was on my way to Pune and went to Satara best and I saw him an early morning

best and I saw him an early morning

best and I saw him an early morning sitting and eating some upma that was

sitting and eating some upma that was

sitting and eating some upma that was damn near a trash bin he was sitting

damn near a trash bin he was sitting

damn near a trash bin he was sitting little far because a donkey and a street

little far because a donkey and a street

little far because a donkey and a street door also was eating from the same dish

that said still it reflects in my mind I

that said still it reflects in my mind I don’t know perhaps God had a plan to put

don’t know perhaps God had a plan to put

don’t know perhaps God had a plan to put me into this work soon I happen to see a

me into this work soon I happen to see a

me into this work soon I happen to see a home for the mentally challenged Street

home for the mentally challenged Street

home for the mentally challenged Street children run by the government of

children run by the government of

children run by the government of Maharashtra it cannot be called a home

there was not even a single toilet

there was not even a single toilet working toilet no running water and

working toilet no running water and

working toilet no running water and almost all children are totally naked I

almost all children are totally naked I

almost all children are totally naked I remember some children were waiting for

remember some children were waiting for

remember some children were waiting for the escrito of other children to fill

the escrito of other children to fill

the escrito of other children to fill their stomach I seen no human being

their stomach I seen no human being

their stomach I seen no human being should go through or live through

I had a plan to do something but as we

I had a plan to do something but as we say nothing is certain

sooner or later the person in charge

sooner or later the person in charge came to us asking whether you can do

came to us asking whether you can do

came to us asking whether you can do something I said yes we will do but how

something I said yes we will do but how

something I said yes we will do but how we were a little disturbed

we took all these children to our office

we took all these children to our office building I still I remember one boy out

building I still I remember one boy out

building I still I remember one boy out of joy he was telling there is plenty of

of joy he was telling there is plenty of

of joy he was telling there is plenty of water we’ll bring all the people here

water we’ll bring all the people here

water we’ll bring all the people here because first time they are seeing water

because first time they are seeing water

because first time they are seeing water like that we give them food gave them

like that we give them food gave them

like that we give them food gave them baths and with new dress we made them

baths and with new dress we made them

baths and with new dress we made them sleep unfortunately in an hour time they

sleep unfortunately in an hour time they

sleep unfortunately in an hour time they were all in they were not prepared

were all in they were not prepared

were all in they were not prepared for such a situation but I can tell you

for such a situation but I can tell you

for such a situation but I can tell you we we’re ready to take up the risk all

we we’re ready to take up the risk all

we we’re ready to take up the risk all the children were running away from the

the children were running away from the

the children were running away from the home that was their tendency somehow if

home that was their tendency somehow if

home that was their tendency somehow if you leave immediately they run away but

you leave immediately they run away but

you leave immediately they run away but I can tell you when you start a project

I can tell you when you start a project

I can tell you when you start a project when you start to work with these

when you start to work with these

when you start to work with these children or anything like this first you

children or anything like this first you

children or anything like this first you are scared we don’t know how to go about

are scared we don’t know how to go about

are scared we don’t know how to go about but if you jump in definitely you find

but if you jump in definitely you find

but if you jump in definitely you find the means I will say embrace the

the means I will say embrace the

the means I will say embrace the uncertain try to imagine dream great

uncertain try to imagine dream great

uncertain try to imagine dream great things our great scientists late Abdul

things our great scientists late Abdul

things our great scientists late Abdul Kalam used to say dream their friends I

Kalam used to say dream their friends I

Kalam used to say dream their friends I always dream great things and partially

always dream great things and partially

always dream great things and partially I share it my with my companions if you

I share it my with my companions if you

I share it my with my companions if you say everything they will call you mad

say everything they will call you mad

say everything they will call you mad you are mad and I listen to them get

you are mad and I listen to them get

you are mad and I listen to them get their feedbacks their suggestions and

their feedbacks their suggestions and

their feedbacks their suggestions and this will help us to go about this is

this will help us to go about this is

this will help us to go about this is how I used to manage but I don’t say

how I used to manage but I don’t say

how I used to manage but I don’t say breathing is easy and I bought this

breathing is easy and I bought this

breathing is easy and I bought this children I still remember one day I went

children I still remember one day I went

children I still remember one day I went to a show up and back

to a show up and back

to a show up and back than word six pairs of shorts but in an

than word six pairs of shorts but in an

than word six pairs of shorts but in an hour time I could see the elastic of it

hour time I could see the elastic of it

hour time I could see the elastic of it on the forehead of a boy he might have

on the forehead of a boy he might have

on the forehead of a boy he might have imagined such an Tendulkar or her hero

imagined such an Tendulkar or her hero

imagined such an Tendulkar or her hero but that’s the type of work we do soon I

but that’s the type of work we do soon I

but that’s the type of work we do soon I must say in 2000 when we took over this

must say in 2000 when we took over this

must say in 2000 when we took over this home from the government of Maharashtra

home from the government of Maharashtra

home from the government of Maharashtra in the admonition admission register

in the admonition admission register

in the admonition admission register there were one hundred and fifty three

there were one hundred and fifty three

there were one hundred and fifty three boys but we got only 42 I mean in 14

boys but we got only 42 I mean in 14

boys but we got only 42 I mean in 14 years

years

years 111 disappeared from the hall either

111 disappeared from the hall either

111 disappeared from the hall either died or ran away the situation was that

died or ran away the situation was that

died or ran away the situation was that till today in 17 years we lost only 11

till today in 17 years we lost only 11

till today in 17 years we lost only 11 children why we know every human being

children why we know every human being

children why we know every human being requires food shelter clothing we give

requires food shelter clothing we give

requires food shelter clothing we give them we give them good food medical care

them we give them good food medical care

them we give them good food medical care and training I never keep them idle they

and training I never keep them idle they

and training I never keep them idle they are always busy they have not time

are always busy they have not time

are always busy they have not time morning once they get up how to go for

morning once they get up how to go for

morning once they get up how to go for yoga they have breakfast then they have

yoga they have breakfast then they have

yoga they have breakfast then they have to go for work personal work and they

to go for work personal work and they

to go for work personal work and they come for the activities evening 4

come for the activities evening 4

come for the activities evening 4 o’clock so men till 6:00 they have not

o’clock so men till 6:00 they have not

o’clock so men till 6:00 they have not time so they are busy and as Sudarsan

time so they are busy and as Sudarsan

time so they are busy and as Sudarsan was telling when you come inside you can

was telling when you come inside you can

was telling when you come inside you can come anytime they are free that keeps

come anytime they are free that keeps

come anytime they are free that keeps them children were running away I used

them children were running away I used

them children were running away I used to sit the bike and use look at how they

to sit the bike and use look at how they

to sit the bike and use look at how they are running they look whether are you

are running they look whether are you

are running they look whether are you coming back

coming back

coming back no nobody is after him then they will

no nobody is after him then they will

no nobody is after him then they will stop after 5 minutes again they will run

stop after 5 minutes again they will run

stop after 5 minutes again they will run little more and look by somebody’s

little more and look by somebody’s

little more and look by somebody’s coming no nobody’s coming so slowly they

coming no nobody’s coming so slowly they

coming no nobody’s coming so slowly they come back that’s how I brought them

come back that’s how I brought them

come back that’s how I brought them now we can keep it open they won’t run

now we can keep it open they won’t run

now we can keep it open they won’t run away but still their friends asked the

away but still their friends asked the

away but still their friends asked the days past we found it was not easy to

days past we found it was not easy to

days past we found it was not easy to keep them like that we wrote to the

keep them like that we wrote to the

keep them like that we wrote to the government please transfer the elderly

government please transfer the elderly

government please transfer the elderly ones they are becoming fit physically

ones they are becoming fit physically

ones they are becoming fit physically fit and they are big they may be harmed

fit and they are big they may be harmed

fit and they are big they may be harmed the younger ones they are remember they

the younger ones they are remember they

the younger ones they are remember they are all Street children many are hyper

are all Street children many are hyper

are all Street children many are hyper many are psychic

many are psychic

many are psychic these are the children who are living

these are the children who are living

these are the children who are living with us and they change so anything can

with us and they change so anything can

with us and they change so anything can happen anytime but the government said

happen anytime but the government said

happen anytime but the government said we have no place who will accept them

we have no place who will accept them

we have no place who will accept them father you do something for them we were

father you do something for them we were

father you do something for them we were in a dilemma then we went ahead and we

in a dilemma then we went ahead and we

in a dilemma then we went ahead and we started a chakra the new habilitation

started a chakra the new habilitation

started a chakra the new habilitation standard it is a place where they can

standard it is a place where they can

standard it is a place where they can relax they can work they get a breathing

relax they can work they get a breathing

relax they can work they get a breathing some people from Pune came to me and

some people from Pune came to me and

some people from Pune came to me and told me father this circus or that’s

told me father this circus or that’s

told me father this circus or that’s what was a bad dream I kept in my mind

what was a bad dream I kept in my mind

what was a bad dream I kept in my mind to build a sword for the children when I

to build a sword for the children when I

to build a sword for the children when I heard it from somebody else some

heard it from somebody else some

heard it from somebody else some visitors I felt happy a dream getting

visitors I felt happy a dream getting

visitors I felt happy a dream getting fulfilled to some extent dear friends I

fulfilled to some extent dear friends I

fulfilled to some extent dear friends I don’t say everything is smooth there are

don’t say everything is smooth there are

don’t say everything is smooth there are times when we face difficulties problems

times when we face difficulties problems

times when we face difficulties problems it’s part of life if it is not there

it’s part of life if it is not there

it’s part of life if it is not there then then there is no life it is said in

then then there is no life it is said in

then then there is no life it is said in the Bible God will not permit you to be

the Bible God will not permit you to be

the Bible God will not permit you to be tempted to a degree that you cannot all

tempted to a degree that you cannot all

tempted to a degree that you cannot all commit if you are consistent successes

commit if you are consistent successes

commit if you are consistent successes you ways

you ways

you ways I remember an incident happened to me we

I remember an incident happened to me we

I remember an incident happened to me we had a boy called Lilith it was a very

had a boy called Lilith it was a very

had a boy called Lilith it was a very hyper boy but very sweet boy he was a

hyper boy but very sweet boy he was a

hyper boy but very sweet boy he was a sadist used to attack anyone and used to

sadist used to attack anyone and used to

sadist used to attack anyone and used to enjoy doctors suggested please transfer

enjoy doctors suggested please transfer

enjoy doctors suggested please transfer him to your harem in the hospital

him to your harem in the hospital

him to your harem in the hospital finally we had no choice we transferred

finally we had no choice we transferred

finally we had no choice we transferred him he was there in the hospital for a

him he was there in the hospital for a

him he was there in the hospital for a few months later on he came back but he

few months later on he came back but he

few months later on he came back but he was diagnosis TB tuberculosis we started

was diagnosis TB tuberculosis we started

was diagnosis TB tuberculosis we started a course for six months no result

a course for six months no result

a course for six months no result second course for nine months no result

second course for nine months no result

second course for nine months no result because he was so hyper he used to get

because he was so hyper he used to get

because he was so hyper he used to get the medicine and threw away he never

the medicine and threw away he never

the medicine and threw away he never used to take proper food no way ready

used to take proper food no way ready

used to take proper food no way ready for that finally he was diagnosed as her

for that finally he was diagnosed as her

for that finally he was diagnosed as her suffering from incurable TB MDR the

suffering from incurable TB MDR the

suffering from incurable TB MDR the state’s doctors told me to separate him

state’s doctors told me to separate him

state’s doctors told me to separate him where we asked the government where to

where we asked the government where to

where we asked the government where to separate where to send nowhere in

separate where to send nowhere in

separate where to send nowhere in Maharashtra in 90 tar there is a center

Maharashtra in 90 tar there is a center

Maharashtra in 90 tar there is a center I was told what can we do he put him

I was told what can we do he put him

I was told what can we do he put him along with other children because there

along with other children because there

along with other children because there was no other way things took a

was no other way things took a

was no other way things took a surprising turn and a fine morning he

surprising turn and a fine morning he

surprising turn and a fine morning he came to me and told can he give me a

came to me and told can he give me a

came to me and told can he give me a room there there is a room shall I go

room there there is a room shall I go

room there there is a room shall I go and stay there under the water trying

and stay there under the water trying

and stay there under the water trying there was a room I had asked him earlier

there was a room I had asked him earlier

there was a room I had asked him earlier can you stay there no no no I won’t say

can you stay there no no no I won’t say

can you stay there no no no I won’t say now he’s coming and asking me can I stay

now he’s coming and asking me can I stay

now he’s coming and asking me can I stay there he became like an angel so sweet

there he became like an angel so sweet

there he became like an angel so sweet so obedient always bearing the mosque

so obedient always bearing the mosque

so obedient always bearing the mosque he was having side effects loose motion

he was having side effects loose motion

he was having side effects loose motion were meeting everything earlier when the

were meeting everything earlier when the

were meeting everything earlier when the key was taking the medicine

key was taking the medicine

key was taking the medicine this time medicine was very strong

this time medicine was very strong

this time medicine was very strong everyday injection but very punctual for

everyday injection but very punctual for

everyday injection but very punctual for the medicine no side effects doctors are

the medicine no side effects doctors are

the medicine no side effects doctors are asking no scientific how can it happen

asking no scientific how can it happen

asking no scientific how can it happen but boy was so good he played Diwali

but boy was so good he played Diwali

but boy was so good he played Diwali cracking birthdays everything the night

cracking birthdays everything the night

cracking birthdays everything the night along with other children they went to

along with other children they went to

along with other children they went to sleep and still he was cracking crackers

sleep and still he was cracking crackers

sleep and still he was cracking crackers but on the following day he drowned in a

but on the following day he drowned in a

but on the following day he drowned in a pond he went after the duck it was a

pond he went after the duck it was a

pond he went after the duck it was a shock none of us could bear it be I

shock none of us could bear it be I

shock none of us could bear it be I couldn’t tolerate it

at a few days I was waiting in the

at a few days I was waiting in the railway station to pick up a friend my

railway station to pick up a friend my

railway station to pick up a friend my friend of one of one friend of mine he

friend of one of one friend of mine he

friend of one of one friend of mine he was coming in the midnight one o’clock

was coming in the midnight one o’clock

was coming in the midnight one o’clock train

train

train so I told Lilith you have given me such

so I told Lilith you have given me such

so I told Lilith you have given me such a shock but please tell me if you have

a shock but please tell me if you have

a shock but please tell me if you have ten mukti and if you are in peace give

ten mukti and if you are in peace give

ten mukti and if you are in peace give me a sign I want it I want a friend of

me a sign I want it I want a friend of

me a sign I want it I want a friend of mine who was not not talking to me for

mine who was not not talking to me for

mine who was not not talking to me for the last one year he calls me at now

the last one year he calls me at now

the last one year he calls me at now itself dear friends I just told him like

itself dear friends I just told him like

itself dear friends I just told him like that then I got the call at toll Oh

that then I got the call at toll Oh

that then I got the call at toll Oh Clawd 12:30 he was asking Thomas what

Clawd 12:30 he was asking Thomas what

Clawd 12:30 he was asking Thomas what happened what happened I couldn’t answer

happened what happened I couldn’t answer

happened what happened I couldn’t answer I was with joy

dear friends these are the Specht soft

dear friends these are the Specht soft joy when we are working with this type

joy when we are working with this type

joy when we are working with this type of children there are hardships

of children there are hardships

of children there are hardships difficulties problems but when we work

difficulties problems but when we work

difficulties problems but when we work we experience this joy often my friends

we experience this joy often my friends

we experience this joy often my friends asked me Thomas are you not tired

asked me Thomas are you not tired

asked me Thomas are you not tired working with them for so many years I

working with them for so many years I

working with them for so many years I say no every day is a booster so many

say no every day is a booster so many

say no every day is a booster so many dreams I don’t even tell my friends

dreams I don’t even tell my friends

dreams I don’t even tell my friends still more and more dreams as Abdul

still more and more dreams as Abdul

still more and more dreams as Abdul Kalam said I believe is our dream

Kalam said I believe is our dream

Kalam said I believe is our dream there’s a chance to get it fulfilled

there’s a chance to get it fulfilled

there’s a chance to get it fulfilled from unexpected corner people will come

from unexpected corner people will come

from unexpected corner people will come and support you that’s how I go ahead I

and support you that’s how I go ahead I

and support you that’s how I go ahead I keep my dream and when I start working

keep my dream and when I start working

keep my dream and when I start working with that tinging on that someone is

with that tinging on that someone is

with that tinging on that someone is coming and asking ok I’m telling like

coming and asking ok I’m telling like

coming and asking ok I’m telling like this see I am staying in a remote

this see I am staying in a remote

this see I am staying in a remote village not even having a telephone

village not even having a telephone

village not even having a telephone connection no internet even the

connection no internet even the

connection no internet even the connectivity is very poor but people

connectivity is very poor but people

connectivity is very poor but people once in a while come and say I’ll do

once in a while come and say I’ll do

once in a while come and say I’ll do something then middle a German start I

something then middle a German start I

something then middle a German start I am sure I am going to fulfill it

am sure I am going to fulfill it

am sure I am going to fulfill it I know targets I had to finish it

I know targets I had to finish it

I know targets I had to finish it tomorrow they have tomorrow but when I

tomorrow they have tomorrow but when I

tomorrow they have tomorrow but when I look back I can see wood was so kind you

look back I can see wood was so kind you

look back I can see wood was so kind you were so kind to me at our children

were so kind to me at our children

were so kind to me at our children embrace the uncertainty you will enjoy

embrace the uncertainty you will enjoy

embrace the uncertainty you will enjoy it you will relax it you will be

it you will relax it you will be

it you will relax it you will be successful

successful

successful thank

thank

thank [Applause]

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