and we all have expectations from our lives we all have dreams yet the things
lives we all have dreams yet the things
lives we all have dreams yet the things we want most time to stay away from us
we want most time to stay away from us
we want most time to stay away from us so that we always have something to
so that we always have something to
so that we always have something to chase after some time the things we
chase after some time the things we
chase after some time the things we won’t change but we still continue on
won’t change but we still continue on
won’t change but we still continue on running after we live some kind of life
running after we live some kind of life
running after we live some kind of life in this repeating cycle of changing
in this repeating cycle of changing
in this repeating cycle of changing aspirations in the meanwhile we succeed
aspirations in the meanwhile we succeed
aspirations in the meanwhile we succeed in things that are predictably
in things that are predictably
in things that are predictably accomplishable and in the range of our
accomplishable and in the range of our
accomplishable and in the range of our self determined potential here the
self determined potential here the
self determined potential here the question is are we really happy to live
question is are we really happy to live
question is are we really happy to live in this way but or did we just get used
in this way but or did we just get used
in this way but or did we just get used to it
inside us that are numerous urges
inside us that are numerous urges unbreakable chains in the remote corners
unbreakable chains in the remote corners
unbreakable chains in the remote corners of our very own self we have forgotten
of our very own self we have forgotten
of our very own self we have forgotten them that under dust even though we know
them that under dust even though we know
them that under dust even though we know that they will make us the happiest we
that they will make us the happiest we
that they will make us the happiest we act in this manner because we have the
act in this manner because we have the
act in this manner because we have the fear of failing we think that we cannot
fear of failing we think that we cannot
fear of failing we think that we cannot do it or we believe that that thing
do it or we believe that that thing
do it or we believe that that thing doesn’t happen for us all this
doesn’t happen for us all this
doesn’t happen for us all this negativity and sounds distracting
negativity and sounds distracting
negativity and sounds distracting thoughts generate an acceptance of the
thoughts generate an acceptance of the
thoughts generate an acceptance of the current situation and live the
current situation and live the
current situation and live the first-rate or brain that we are
first-rate or brain that we are
first-rate or brain that we are incapable of doing something how can we
incapable of doing something how can we
incapable of doing something how can we expect any success in that vein we
expect any success in that vein we
expect any success in that vein we bonhomie think this way we are actually
bonhomie think this way we are actually
bonhomie think this way we are actually conditioning our brains teaching
conditioning our brains teaching
conditioning our brains teaching ourselves how to believe and how to
ourselves how to believe and how to
ourselves how to believe and how to behave we define how we view who we are
behave we define how we view who we are
behave we define how we view who we are so when you say I cannot achieve it you
so when you say I cannot achieve it you
so when you say I cannot achieve it you won’t when you say it won’t happen to me
won’t when you say it won’t happen to me
won’t when you say it won’t happen to me surely it won’t because you have already
surely it won’t because you have already
surely it won’t because you have already made your mind accept your proposed
made your mind accept your proposed
made your mind accept your proposed result you define yourself who you are
result you define yourself who you are
result you define yourself who you are as a person who doesn’t have the skills
as a person who doesn’t have the skills
as a person who doesn’t have the skills to make it happen so this brings us to
to make it happen so this brings us to
to make it happen so this brings us to the point that we are our biggest
the point that we are our biggest
the point that we are our biggest obstacles a zig Zigler state and other
obstacles a zig Zigler state and other
obstacles a zig Zigler state and other things and people can stop us
things and people can stop us
things and people can stop us temporarily but you are the only one who
temporarily but you are the only one who
temporarily but you are the only one who gets up yourself
gets up yourself
gets up yourself permanently I graduated from the
permanently I graduated from the
permanently I graduated from the school in 2013 at those times it was my
school in 2013 at those times it was my
school in 2013 at those times it was my greatest dream to go to America for
greatest dream to go to America for
greatest dream to go to America for university I was dreaming to take a huge
university I was dreaming to take a huge
university I was dreaming to take a huge step in my life to get movin in country
step in my life to get movin in country
step in my life to get movin in country new people I was hoping to study in one
new people I was hoping to study in one
new people I was hoping to study in one of the best universities in the world
of the best universities in the world
of the best universities in the world but this was one of my urges that I
but this was one of my urges that I
but this was one of my urges that I change in me because I was considering
change in me because I was considering
change in me because I was considering it far beyond the potential I told I
it far beyond the potential I told I
it far beyond the potential I told I heaven it was also financially
heaven it was also financially
heaven it was also financially impossible for me to afford because of
impossible for me to afford because of
impossible for me to afford because of such an education so leaning this dream
such an education so leaning this dream
such an education so leaning this dream of mine better off I just focused on my
of mine better off I just focused on my
of mine better off I just focused on my current educational activities
current educational activities
current educational activities continuing on achieving predictably
continuing on achieving predictably
continuing on achieving predictably accountable things like my high school
accountable things like my high school
accountable things like my high school duties or preparing for the national
duties or preparing for the national
duties or preparing for the national university entrance exams not my desires
university entrance exams not my desires
university entrance exams not my desires defined by my own son
defined by my own son
defined by my own son until one day done my teachers
until one day done my teachers
until one day done my teachers encouraged me to at least try it they
encouraged me to at least try it they
encouraged me to at least try it they turned my fear of failing into hope into
turned my fear of failing into hope into
turned my fear of failing into hope into belief that I can do it so I applied to
belief that I can do it so I applied to
belief that I can do it so I applied to Cornell and some other good universities
Cornell and some other good universities
Cornell and some other good universities in America in my last year of the high
in America in my last year of the high
in America in my last year of the high school knowing that statistically my
school knowing that statistically my
school knowing that statistically my chances of getting accepted well below
chances of getting accepted well below
chances of getting accepted well below 1% and in one of the interviews I had
1% and in one of the interviews I had
1% and in one of the interviews I had with one of schools the interview the
with one of schools the interview the
with one of schools the interview the interviewer asked me a question he said
interviewer asked me a question he said
interviewer asked me a question he said you know students with outstanding
you know students with outstanding
you know students with outstanding achievements like Olympics winner or
achievements like Olympics winner or
achievements like Olympics winner or from drove an association related to
from drove an association related to
from drove an association related to human rights or in matter of something
human rights or in matter of something
human rights or in matter of something applied to our school among all of them
applied to our school among all of them
applied to our school among all of them why should our school choose you in my
why should our school choose you in my
why should our school choose you in my entire life I had never anytime I had
entire life I had never anytime I had
entire life I had never anytime I had never felt this worse
never felt this worse
never felt this worse I was thinking inside like I can turn to
I was thinking inside like I can turn to
I was thinking inside like I can turn to blow hoops at the same time one around
blow hoops at the same time one around
blow hoops at the same time one around my waist or around my legs but since
my waist or around my legs but since
my waist or around my legs but since this was a stupid idea to tell this I
this was a stupid idea to tell this I
this was a stupid idea to tell this I just chose to keep silence as it is I’m
just chose to keep silence as it is I’m
just chose to keep silence as it is I’m hoping that you change topics something
hoping that you change topics something
hoping that you change topics something I can talk about anyway I was still
I can talk about anyway I was still
I can talk about anyway I was still hopeful after the interview
hopeful after the interview
hopeful after the interview and working arts I really believed that
and working arts I really believed that
and working arts I really believed that I was going to succeed and after telling
I was going to succeed and after telling
I was going to succeed and after telling this much all of you also think that I
this much all of you also think that I
this much all of you also think that I will say I have achieved my dream but no
will say I have achieved my dream but no
will say I have achieved my dream but no I got rejected from Cornell and the
I got rejected from Cornell and the
I got rejected from Cornell and the other universities I applied I explained
other universities I applied I explained
other universities I applied I explained this story to you so that I can come to
this story to you so that I can come to
this story to you so that I can come to the point of my speech and in my opinion
the point of my speech and in my opinion
the point of my speech and in my opinion this point is very crucial in getting
this point is very crucial in getting
this point is very crucial in getting success I have failed at that time but
success I have failed at that time but
success I have failed at that time but now I can see that what I hope was
now I can see that what I hope was
now I can see that what I hope was lighting his part which has grown and
lighting his part which has grown and
lighting his part which has grown and epic it became a fire now once you
epic it became a fire now once you
epic it became a fire now once you believe in yourself
believe in yourself
believe in yourself once you reinforce your tools and
once you reinforce your tools and
once you reinforce your tools and convince yourself that you can do it
convince yourself that you can do it
convince yourself that you can do it your mind will create and Eve you who is
your mind will create and Eve you who is
your mind will create and Eve you who is conditioned on getting what she or he
conditioned on getting what she or he
conditioned on getting what she or he wants done you will go home to find a
wants done you will go home to find a
wants done you will go home to find a way to do it your responses your efforts
way to do it your responses your efforts
way to do it your responses your efforts to full problems and your way of
to full problems and your way of
to full problems and your way of thinking will steer you towards your
thinking will steer you towards your
thinking will steer you towards your desired objective you will earn me
desired objective you will earn me
desired objective you will earn me mindsets new capabilities new
mindsets new capabilities new
mindsets new capabilities new perspectives you will develop having
perspectives you will develop having
perspectives you will develop having failed my attempt to realize my dream a
failed my attempt to realize my dream a
failed my attempt to realize my dream a new era has begun in my life I enrolled
new era has begun in my life I enrolled
new era has begun in my life I enrolled at Middle East Technical University and
at Middle East Technical University and
at Middle East Technical University and I started to work on being the student
I started to work on being the student
I started to work on being the student who deserves to study at Cornell and
who deserves to study at Cornell and
who deserves to study at Cornell and this gave a meaning to my life there is
this gave a meaning to my life there is
this gave a meaning to my life there is something that can make me the happiest
something that can make me the happiest
something that can make me the happiest and I have to believe that thing can
and I have to believe that thing can
and I have to believe that thing can happen for me that couldn’t be any
happen for me that couldn’t be any
happen for me that couldn’t be any better than this for me at that time so
better than this for me at that time so
better than this for me at that time so at this point I will cut my story and
at this point I will cut my story and
at this point I will cut my story and jump to the current right now and next
jump to the current right now and next
jump to the current right now and next month I will graduate from University
month I will graduate from University
month I will graduate from University and in August I will be in Cornell to
and in August I will be in Cornell to
and in August I will be in Cornell to start my masters education and I’m not
start my masters education and I’m not
start my masters education and I’m not going to pay a penny for this yes I did
going to pay a penny for this yes I did
going to pay a penny for this yes I did it at the end but I will tell you one
it at the end but I will tell you one
it at the end but I will tell you one more thing if there is something better
more thing if there is something better
more thing if there is something better than achieving your dream it is the
than achieving your dream it is the
than achieving your dream it is the journey what you did have you leave that
journey what you did have you leave that
journey what you did have you leave that how you improve yourself during this
how you improve yourself during this
how you improve yourself during this journey the urges you have forgotten
journey the urges you have forgotten
journey the urges you have forgotten because you don’t believe you can do
because you don’t believe you can do
because you don’t believe you can do make the most positive effects in here
make the most positive effects in here
make the most positive effects in here only by unleashing them you can create a
only by unleashing them you can create a
only by unleashing them you can create a better a better version of yourself with
better a better version of yourself with
better a better version of yourself with enhanced vision but we are not available
enhanced vision but we are not available
enhanced vision but we are not available and we most of the time fail to take
and we most of the time fail to take
and we most of the time fail to take even the first step and continue our
even the first step and continue our
even the first step and continue our routine eyes leaving all the
routine eyes leaving all the
routine eyes leaving all the opportunities we can have aside we need
opportunities we can have aside we need
opportunities we can have aside we need to take us all our jizz that will give
to take us all our jizz that will give
to take us all our jizz that will give meaning to our lives from the tensions
meaning to our lives from the tensions
meaning to our lives from the tensions of our parts it is nothing but us the
of our parts it is nothing but us the
of our parts it is nothing but us the temple of ourselves and we shouldn’t let
temple of ourselves and we shouldn’t let
temple of ourselves and we shouldn’t let our negative thoughts to make our minds
our negative thoughts to make our minds
our negative thoughts to make our minds accept the defeat just at the beginning
accept the defeat just at the beginning
accept the defeat just at the beginning our life is a limited resource and how
our life is a limited resource and how
our life is a limited resource and how to use it is our own choice wasting it
to use it is our own choice wasting it
to use it is our own choice wasting it by staying in our comfort zones and
by staying in our comfort zones and
by staying in our comfort zones and running away from even the grumbles of
running away from even the grumbles of
running away from even the grumbles of failure possibility provide our maximum
failure possibility provide our maximum
failure possibility provide our maximum potential to show up failure is not
potential to show up failure is not
potential to show up failure is not something that we should flee from on
something that we should flee from on
something that we should flee from on the contrary we should go for the
the contrary we should go for the
the contrary we should go for the failure because the fees and hard times
failure because the fees and hard times
failure because the fees and hard times are the greatest opportunities for us to
are the greatest opportunities for us to
are the greatest opportunities for us to come back stronger as muscles need to
come back stronger as muscles need to
come back stronger as muscles need to get damaged to grow bigger we also need
get damaged to grow bigger we also need
get damaged to grow bigger we also need to fail before catching the bigger fish
to fail before catching the bigger fish
to fail before catching the bigger fish and and then assure you know be success
and and then assure you know be success
and and then assure you know be success counts at the first job both distinguish
counts at the first job both distinguish
counts at the first job both distinguish one of the creative geniuses of our time
one of the creative geniuses of our time
one of the creative geniuses of our time was fired from the local newspaper for
was fired from the local newspaper for
was fired from the local newspaper for not being creative Steve Jobs co-founded
not being creative Steve Jobs co-founded
not being creative Steve Jobs co-founded Apple Computer but give us to anyone he
Apple Computer but give us to anyone he
Apple Computer but give us to anyone he became a millionaire at age 23 and he
became a millionaire at age 23 and he
became a millionaire at age 23 and he got fired from his own company at the
got fired from his own company at the
got fired from his own company at the age thirty then he made a legend you
age thirty then he made a legend you
age thirty then he made a legend you come back to Apple and produce the
come back to Apple and produce the
come back to Apple and produce the greatest business success of our time
greatest business success of our time
greatest business success of our time this list goes on and on but there is an
this list goes on and on but there is an
this list goes on and on but there is an important issue I want your attention
important issue I want your attention
important issue I want your attention for all these people did something
for all these people did something
for all these people did something income they all had the courage of
income they all had the courage of
income they all had the courage of taking action to realize but they want
taking action to realize but they want
taking action to realize but they want the most in their life Steve Jobs could
the most in their life Steve Jobs could
the most in their life Steve Jobs could be an ordinary wine color in a
be an ordinary wine color in a
be an ordinary wine color in a technology for living and on risk life
technology for living and on risk life
technology for living and on risk life without fluctuations
without fluctuations
without fluctuations he would be quite successful one
he would be quite successful one
he would be quite successful one obviously but he chose to stumble not on
obviously but he chose to stumble not on
obviously but he chose to stumble not on the path to his dream and
the path to his dream and
the path to his dream and we ever have the chance to ask them
we ever have the chance to ask them
we ever have the chance to ask them going to him out to be a different life
going to him out to be a different life
going to him out to be a different life he would not want to change any instance
he would not want to change any instance
he would not want to change any instance of his life so what are you lucky
of his life so what are you lucky
of his life so what are you lucky nothing they are just by the will of our
nothing they are just by the will of our
nothing they are just by the will of our expectations from our lives we don’t
expectations from our lives we don’t
expectations from our lives we don’t know what we want on the idea of not
know what we want on the idea of not
know what we want on the idea of not being able to reach our goal
being able to reach our goal
being able to reach our goal scares the hell out of us we are most in
scares the hell out of us we are most in
scares the hell out of us we are most in our daily responsibilities they are
our daily responsibilities they are
our daily responsibilities they are working to succeed our short and
working to succeed our short and
working to succeed our short and objectives that never bring full
objectives that never bring full
objectives that never bring full satisfaction we do not take time to
satisfaction we do not take time to
satisfaction we do not take time to think even once about what we really
think even once about what we really
think even once about what we really want to do with our lives which is the
want to do with our lives which is the
want to do with our lives which is the fundamental question of existence why
fundamental question of existence why
fundamental question of existence why are we here to do what ask yourself this
are we here to do what ask yourself this
are we here to do what ask yourself this discover your true patience true wishes
discover your true patience true wishes
discover your true patience true wishes they’re somewhere inside you and do what
they’re somewhere inside you and do what
they’re somewhere inside you and do what it takes to take them out instead of
it takes to take them out instead of
it takes to take them out instead of waiting for happiness to visit you at
waiting for happiness to visit you at
waiting for happiness to visit you at some periods of your life try to live
some periods of your life try to live
some periods of your life try to live your every single day happy isolate
your every single day happy isolate
your every single day happy isolate yourself from all the things happening
yourself from all the things happening
yourself from all the things happening around you close your ears to people who
around you close your ears to people who
around you close your ears to people who are always talking you just take a
are always talking you just take a
are always talking you just take a moment to listen to your very own selves
moment to listen to your very own selves
moment to listen to your very own selves you will hear the secret of life that is
you will hear the secret of life that is
you will hear the secret of life that is unique to you if you wear that you
unique to you if you wear that you
unique to you if you wear that you should be able to use on the boiling
should be able to use on the boiling
should be able to use on the boiling just go go for it you will do that if
just go go for it you will do that if
just go go for it you will do that if you hear that you will be the one to end
you hear that you will be the one to end
you hear that you will be the one to end the starvation problem in Africa just go
the starvation problem in Africa just go
the starvation problem in Africa just go for it you will be done or if you hear
for it you will be done or if you hear
for it you will be done or if you hear that you should be with that girl just
that you should be with that girl just
that you should be with that girl just don’t go for it then it because it’s a
don’t go for it then it because it’s a
don’t go for it then it because it’s a very special array of expertise I cannot
very special array of expertise I cannot
very special array of expertise I cannot guarantee it for you but for all the
guarantee it for you but for all the
guarantee it for you but for all the things I’ve said exploding the last one
things I’ve said exploding the last one
things I’ve said exploding the last one never mind yourself don’t be your own
never mind yourself don’t be your own
never mind yourself don’t be your own obstacle of the path to success and
obstacle of the path to success and
obstacle of the path to success and Happiness just discover your meaning in
Happiness just discover your meaning in
Happiness just discover your meaning in life and take action to make it happen
life and take action to make it happen
life and take action to make it happen first fail too many times but and at the
first fail too many times but and at the
first fail too many times but and at the end you will have a life that you will
end you will have a life that you will
end you will have a life that you will never have to have change in a single
never have to have change in a single
never have to have change in a single second of it you can do it
second of it you can do it
second of it you can do it [Applause]
[Applause]
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[Music]
[Music] [Applause]
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