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[Applause] it takes two to tango it’s six of one
it takes two to tango it’s six of one
it takes two to tango it’s six of one and half a dozen of the other you can’t
and half a dozen of the other you can’t
and half a dozen of the other you can’t thread a movie needle these are just
thread a movie needle these are just
thread a movie needle these are just some of the myths the stereotypes the
some of the myths the stereotypes the
some of the myths the stereotypes the misogynistic statements which are given
misogynistic statements which are given
misogynistic statements which are given about violence against women and girls
examples of statements which serve to
examples of statements which serve to excuse cook to condone violence against
excuse cook to condone violence against
excuse cook to condone violence against women to suggest that somehow people who
women to suggest that somehow people who
women to suggest that somehow people who are victimized through violence as
are victimized through violence as
are victimized through violence as somehow equally to blame for their
somehow equally to blame for their
somehow equally to blame for their victimization we can see this through
victimization we can see this through
victimization we can see this through history we see examples of judges in one
history we see examples of judges in one
history we see examples of judges in one case saying that a victim of rape and
case saying that a victim of rape and
case saying that a victim of rape and being negligent and had somehow
being negligent and had somehow
being negligent and had somehow contributed towards her rape why because
contributed towards her rape why because
contributed towards her rape why because she had been hitchhiking in another case
she had been hitchhiking in another case
she had been hitchhiking in another case a man who had killed his wife wat free
a man who had killed his wife wat free
a man who had killed his wife wat free from the courts with the judge saying
from the courts with the judge saying
from the courts with the judge saying that woman would have tried the patience
that woman would have tried the patience
that woman would have tried the patience of a saint assuming that six of one half
of a saint assuming that six of one half
of a saint assuming that six of one half a dozen of another it takes two to tango
a dozen of another it takes two to tango
a dozen of another it takes two to tango is true in cases of domestic violence
violence against women and I’m saying
violence against women and I’m saying violence against women rather than
violence against women rather than
violence against women rather than against men because today what I’m
against men because today what I’m
against men because today what I’m talking about is a structural inequality
talking about is a structural inequality
talking about is a structural inequality that affects women the world over it is
that affects women the world over it is
that affects women the world over it is not to suggest that violence does not
not to suggest that violence does not
not to suggest that violence does not happen towards men or the women are
happen towards men or the women are
happen towards men or the women are sometimes violent towards men which they
sometimes violent towards men which they
sometimes violent towards men which they undoubtedly are but today I’m talking
undoubtedly are but today I’m talking
undoubtedly are but today I’m talking about violence against women something
about violence against women something
about violence against women something which kills women all over the world
which kills women all over the world
which kills women all over the world every single day last year just in the
every single day last year just in the
every single day last year just in the UK 118 women at least were killed but at
UK 118 women at least were killed but at
UK 118 women at least were killed but at the hands of men
and that’s an extreme example house I’m
and that’s an extreme example house I’m talking about homicide about femicide
talking about homicide about femicide
talking about homicide about femicide I’m talking about sometimes the ultimate
I’m talking about sometimes the ultimate
I’m talking about sometimes the ultimate acts of control murder suicide where a
acts of control murder suicide where a
acts of control murder suicide where a man kills his partner his children and
man kills his partner his children and
man kills his partner his children and then kills himself but there are other
then kills himself but there are other
then kills himself but there are other forms of violence as well that can that
forms of violence as well that can that
forms of violence as well that can that can leave women feeling restricted in
can leave women feeling restricted in
can leave women feeling restricted in their life for years for decades in some
their life for years for decades in some
their life for years for decades in some cases so what does a domestic violence
cases so what does a domestic violence
cases so what does a domestic violence perpetrator look like well he looks
perpetrator look like well he looks
perpetrator look like well he looks exactly like some of the people in this
exactly like some of the people in this
exactly like some of the people in this audience actually he looks like person
audience actually he looks like person
audience actually he looks like person who’s standing behind you in the
who’s standing behind you in the
who’s standing behind you in the supermarket q he looks like the police
supermarket q he looks like the police
supermarket q he looks like the police officer he looks like the taxi driver
officer he looks like the taxi driver
officer he looks like the taxi driver who looks like the barman he looks just
who looks like the barman he looks just
who looks like the barman he looks just like we all do as a criminologist we do
like we all do as a criminologist we do
like we all do as a criminologist we do a lot of research with domestic violence
a lot of research with domestic violence
a lot of research with domestic violence and we do some research interviewing
and we do some research interviewing
and we do some research interviewing perpetrators of domestic violence and as
perpetrators of domestic violence and as
perpetrators of domestic violence and as part of that we need to as everybody
part of that we need to as everybody
part of that we need to as everybody does who does primary research we need
does who does primary research we need
does who does primary research we need to fill in ethics forms and as part of
to fill in ethics forms and as part of
to fill in ethics forms and as part of the ethical requirement we think about
the ethical requirement we think about
the ethical requirement we think about what the risks are to our participants
what the risks are to our participants
what the risks are to our participants but we also think about what the risks
but we also think about what the risks
but we also think about what the risks are to ourselves to our research teams
and the sorts of things we put down when
and the sorts of things we put down when we’re interviewing violent man well
we’re interviewing violent man well
we’re interviewing violent man well we’ll we’ll telephone somebody when we
we’ll we’ll telephone somebody when we
we’ll we’ll telephone somebody when we got in and out of the interview so that
got in and out of the interview so that
got in and out of the interview so that people know that we serve we say we’ll
people know that we serve we say we’ll
people know that we serve we say we’ll do the interviews in a in a public
do the interviews in a in a public
do the interviews in a in a public building where there are people next
building where there are people next
building where there are people next door in case we get into any
door in case we get into any
door in case we get into any difficulties but in reality these are
difficulties but in reality these are
difficulties but in reality these are not the main risks to the researchers
not the main risks to the researchers
not the main risks to the researchers doing interviews with violent mode when
doing interviews with violent mode when
doing interviews with violent mode when they come out of the interviews they
they come out of the interviews they
they come out of the interviews they feel odd they say he seemed quite nice
feel odd they say he seemed quite nice
feel odd they say he seemed quite nice he seemed really normal I could imagine
he seemed really normal I could imagine
he seemed really normal I could imagine having a drink with him in the fall I
having a drink with him in the fall I
having a drink with him in the fall I was sat next to him on a long train
was sat next to him on a long train
was sat next to him on a long train journey I would have quite happily
journey I would have quite happily
journey I would have quite happily spoken to him all the time they don’t
spoken to him all the time they don’t
spoken to him all the time they don’t appear as monsters they don’t appear as
appear as monsters they don’t appear as
appear as monsters they don’t appear as the Hulk they certainly don’t have
the Hulk they certainly don’t have
the Hulk they certainly don’t have perpetrator stamped across their
perpetrator stamped across their
perpetrator stamped across their forehead in my own interviews with
forehead in my own interviews with
forehead in my own interviews with domestic violence perpetrators I’m
domestic violence perpetrators I’m
domestic violence perpetrators I’m reminded of the first domestic violence
reminded of the first domestic violence
reminded of the first domestic violence perpetrator that I ever interviewed
perpetrator that I ever interviewed
perpetrator that I ever interviewed about 15 years ago and he told me he was
about 15 years ago and he told me he was
about 15 years ago and he told me he was on a domestic violence perpetrated
on a domestic violence perpetrated
on a domestic violence perpetrated program a course that tries to
program a course that tries to
program a course that tries to re-educate men and try to help them to
re-educate men and try to help them to
re-educate men and try to help them to stop using violence to choose to change
stop using violence to choose to change
stop using violence to choose to change to choose to not use violence in their
to choose to not use violence in their
to choose to not use violence in their relationships and he said to me do you
relationships and he said to me do you
relationships and he said to me do you want my friends thinks it’s funny I’m on
want my friends thinks it’s funny I’m on
want my friends thinks it’s funny I’m on this class even my GP says I don’t know
this class even my GP says I don’t know
this class even my GP says I don’t know why you’re doing it you’re merely placid
why you’re doing it you’re merely placid
why you’re doing it you’re merely placid person and that’s how perpetrators often
person and that’s how perpetrators often
person and that’s how perpetrators often come across to other people they’re not
come across to other people they’re not
come across to other people they’re not a threat they can be the person who is
a threat they can be the person who is
a threat they can be the person who is the life and soul of the party they can
the life and soul of the party they can
the life and soul of the party they can be the person who is in other words
be the person who is in other words
be the person who is in other words fighting for social justice for social
fighting for social justice for social
fighting for social justice for social equality as an outward person there can
equality as an outward person there can
equality as an outward person there can be what one of the most service people
be what one of the most service people
be what one of the most service people for you to be with but within the
for you to be with but within the
for you to be with but within the relationship it’s different alcohol does
relationship it’s different alcohol does
relationship it’s different alcohol does even a larger this has a nickname of
even a larger this has a nickname of
even a larger this has a nickname of wife beater alcohol drugs bereavement
wife beater alcohol drugs bereavement
wife beater alcohol drugs bereavement stress testosterone these are all some
stress testosterone these are all some
stress testosterone these are all some of the reasons which are given for wide
of the reasons which are given for wide
of the reasons which are given for wide men’s violence against women happens
men’s violence against women happens
men’s violence against women happens being unemployed being overworked having
being unemployed being overworked having
being unemployed being overworked having children not having children
children not having children
children not having children and then too many childcare
and then too many childcare
and then too many childcare responsibilities not being able to look
responsibilities not being able to look
responsibilities not being able to look after the children because of work
after the children because of work
after the children because of work responsibilities whatever the situation
responsibilities whatever the situation
responsibilities whatever the situation there is a sit there was a myth about
there is a sit there was a myth about
there is a sit there was a myth about why violence against women happens and
why violence against women happens and
why violence against women happens and if it doesn’t work for the man hippie
if it doesn’t work for the man hippie
if it doesn’t work for the man hippie work the other way around as a
work the other way around as a
work the other way around as a criminologist I often spend time in
criminologist I often spend time in
criminologist I often spend time in courts watching magistrates and judges
courts watching magistrates and judges
courts watching magistrates and judges listen to domestic violence cases in one
listen to domestic violence cases in one
listen to domestic violence cases in one of the most most recent cases dares that
of the most most recent cases dares that
of the most most recent cases dares that I spent in court I heard time after time
I spent in court I heard time after time
I spent in court I heard time after time alcohol being blend as the number one
alcohol being blend as the number one
alcohol being blend as the number one reason why violence against women was
reason why violence against women was
reason why violence against women was happening man who will work working
happening man who will work working
happening man who will work working aware and not able to drink came back
aware and not able to drink came back
aware and not able to drink came back and somehow i went on a big drink Fink
and somehow i went on a big drink Fink
and somehow i went on a big drink Fink drink binge drinking binge and then came
drink binge drinking binge and then came
drink binge drinking binge and then came back for a violent towards their partner
back for a violent towards their partner
back for a violent towards their partner and sometimes their children as well if
and sometimes their children as well if
and sometimes their children as well if it worked the other way around it was
it worked the other way around it was
it worked the other way around it was because of the woollens drinking in one
because of the woollens drinking in one
because of the woollens drinking in one care sir I heard which attempt which
care sir I heard which attempt which
care sir I heard which attempt which involved an attempted rare physical
involved an attempted rare physical
involved an attempted rare physical violence and violence against his
violence and violence against his
violence and violence against his children one evening it had been New
children one evening it had been New
children one evening it had been New Year’s Eve they’ve both been out the man
Year’s Eve they’ve both been out the man
Year’s Eve they’ve both been out the man had not been drinking he had been
had not been drinking he had been
had not been drinking he had been driving the woman had insisted on going
driving the woman had insisted on going
driving the woman had insisted on going out for more drinks he didn’t want to he
out for more drinks he didn’t want to he
out for more drinks he didn’t want to he wanted to stand he was the good guy here
wanted to stand he was the good guy here
wanted to stand he was the good guy here she had insisted on going out the
she had insisted on going out the
she had insisted on going out the defense in this case continued to make a
defense in this case continued to make a
defense in this case continued to make a point about how much she had drunk even
point about how much she had drunk even
point about how much she had drunk even to the extent of saying what she had
to the extent of saying what she had
to the extent of saying what she had been drinking all night and what was
been drinking all night and what was
been drinking all night and what was this terrible hi alcoholic drink that
this terrible hi alcoholic drink that
this terrible hi alcoholic drink that she’d been drinking all night archers
she’d been drinking all night archers
she’d been drinking all night archers and lemonade whatever happens and there
and lemonade whatever happens and there
and lemonade whatever happens and there is an another reason that is often given
is an another reason that is often given
is an another reason that is often given for why men’s violence against women
for why men’s violence against women
for why men’s violence against women to use and violence isn’t always
to use and violence isn’t always
to use and violence isn’t always physical either in fact the worst
physical either in fact the worst
physical either in fact the worst violence often isn’t physical now
violence often isn’t physical now
violence often isn’t physical now whenever somebody is killed within a
whenever somebody is killed within a
whenever somebody is killed within a part intimate partner relationship we do
part intimate partner relationship we do
part intimate partner relationship we do domestic violence homicide reviews we
domestic violence homicide reviews we
domestic violence homicide reviews we look at who knew what who could have
look at who knew what who could have
look at who knew what who could have helped how could we intervene sooner and
helped how could we intervene sooner and
helped how could we intervene sooner and what we often find us for that that for
what we often find us for that that for
what we often find us for that that for the domestic violence homicides there
the domestic violence homicides there
the domestic violence homicides there hasn’t been any recent history of
hasn’t been any recent history of
hasn’t been any recent history of physical violence there hasn’t
physical violence there hasn’t
physical violence there hasn’t necessarily been call out to the place
necessarily been call out to the place
necessarily been call out to the place and that is because in the most
and that is because in the most
and that is because in the most controlling relationships in the worst
controlling relationships in the worst
controlling relationships in the worst cases of domestic violence in the cases
cases of domestic violence in the cases
cases of domestic violence in the cases that end up in death there hasn’t had to
that end up in death there hasn’t had to
that end up in death there hasn’t had to be any violence fines were not being
be any violence fines were not being
be any violence fines were not being used for years for decades even the
used for years for decades even the
used for years for decades even the threat of violence the threat of what
threat of violence the threat of what
threat of violence the threat of what could happen to herself to her children
could happen to herself to her children
could happen to herself to her children to her pets to her family these things
to her pets to her family these things
to her pets to her family these things are enough to keep her in her place
ten years ago Evan stark an American
ten years ago Evan stark an American academic wrote a book called coercive
academic wrote a book called coercive
academic wrote a book called coercive control the entrapment of women in
control the entrapment of women in
control the entrapment of women in everyday life and in this book he
everyday life and in this book he
everyday life and in this book he reminded us even just through the title
reminded us even just through the title
reminded us even just through the title the entrapment of women in everyday life
the entrapment of women in everyday life
the entrapment of women in everyday life he reminded us how close gender
he reminded us how close gender
he reminded us how close gender inequality within our day-to-day lives
inequality within our day-to-day lives
inequality within our day-to-day lives within our lived relationships within
within our lived relationships within
within our lived relationships within our everyday interactions with each
our everyday interactions with each
our everyday interactions with each other agenda and that it is Thor’s not
other agenda and that it is Thor’s not
other agenda and that it is Thor’s not violence that links to that links gender
violence that links to that links gender
violence that links to that links gender inequality to violence against women and
inequality to violence against women and
inequality to violence against women and the continuing violence against women we
the continuing violence against women we
the continuing violence against women we now have a new law came out last year
now have a new law came out last year
now have a new law came out last year pod coercive and controlling behavior
pod coercive and controlling behavior
pod coercive and controlling behavior this is about that constant checking of
this is about that constant checking of
this is about that constant checking of facebook messages what was needing to
facebook messages what was needing to
facebook messages what was needing to know where somebody years of being half
know where somebody years of being half
know where somebody years of being half an hour legend having ninety missed
an hour legend having ninety missed
an hour legend having ninety missed calls on your phone I’m not having the
calls on your phone I’m not having the
calls on your phone I’m not having the freedom to stop off at the shop on the
freedom to stop off at the shop on the
freedom to stop off at the shop on the way back because you’ll be accused of
way back because you’ll be accused of
way back because you’ll be accused of what you clearly did have you been with
what you clearly did have you been with
what you clearly did have you been with another man why have you got your hair
another man why have you got your hair
another man why have you got your hair done why did you buy those shoes one of
done why did you buy those shoes one of
done why did you buy those shoes one of the women we interviewed talked about
the women we interviewed talked about
the women we interviewed talked about how she wanted to he wanted her to look
how she wanted to he wanted her to look
how she wanted to he wanted her to look beautiful and have her hair done and
beautiful and have her hair done and
beautiful and have her hair done and we’re short skirt and heels whenever he
we’re short skirt and heels whenever he
we’re short skirt and heels whenever he was out with her but forbid her from
was out with her but forbid her from
was out with her but forbid her from doing that the rest of the time she told
doing that the rest of the time she told
doing that the rest of the time she told us I felt like a dog it was turned on
us I felt like a dog it was turned on
us I felt like a dog it was turned on and off at his well
but hey it’s 2017 surely violence
but hey it’s 2017 surely violence against women then is illegal we have
against women then is illegal we have
against women then is illegal we have laws against it surely in the Western
laws against it surely in the Western
laws against it surely in the Western world this is new still happening surely
world this is new still happening surely
world this is new still happening surely they’re imprison these domestic violence
they’re imprison these domestic violence
they’re imprison these domestic violence perpetrators I wish I could say that is
perpetrators I wish I could say that is
perpetrators I wish I could say that is the case but my extensive research over
the case but my extensive research over
the case but my extensive research over 15 years on this topic tells me not only
15 years on this topic tells me not only
15 years on this topic tells me not only that it isn’t true but also that it
that it isn’t true but also that it
that it isn’t true but also that it possibly isn’t going to happen at least
possibly isn’t going to happen at least
possibly isn’t going to happen at least anytime soon in fact most of the men in
anytime soon in fact most of the men in
anytime soon in fact most of the men in prison who are domestic violence
prison who are domestic violence
prison who are domestic violence perpetrators will be in for a different
perpetrators will be in for a different
perpetrators will be in for a different crime we know that policing is a problem
crime we know that policing is a problem
crime we know that policing is a problem we know that the courts are a problem I
we know that the courts are a problem I
we know that the courts are a problem I gave the examples earlier of how women
gave the examples earlier of how women
gave the examples earlier of how women were seen as somehow contributing
were seen as somehow contributing
were seen as somehow contributing towards their offends the idea that in
towards their offends the idea that in
towards their offends the idea that in violence it takes two to tango even this
violence it takes two to tango even this
violence it takes two to tango even this morning driving into durham i heard on
morning driving into durham i heard on
morning driving into durham i heard on the radio of a judge telling women but
the radio of a judge telling women but
the radio of a judge telling women but they shouldn’t drink alcohol they
they shouldn’t drink alcohol they
they shouldn’t drink alcohol they shouldn’t get so drunk if they don’t
shouldn’t get so drunk if they don’t
shouldn’t get so drunk if they don’t want to be weird so what do we do then
want to be weird so what do we do then
want to be weird so what do we do then we look at the building blocks of gender
we look at the building blocks of gender
we look at the building blocks of gender inequality and we look at them at the
inequality and we look at them at the
inequality and we look at them at the very basic level we look at then when
very basic level we look at then when
very basic level we look at then when people start playing building blocks we
people start playing building blocks we
people start playing building blocks we look at them as babies and toddlers I
look at them as babies and toddlers I
look at them as babies and toddlers I was like a mummy’s facebook group last
was like a mummy’s facebook group last
was like a mummy’s facebook group last week and often people offer things for
week and often people offer things for
week and often people offer things for sale or they offer things for free if
sale or they offer things for free if
sale or they offer things for free if anybody wants them kind of
anybody wants them kind of
anybody wants them kind of think things on this children grow so
think things on this children grow so
think things on this children grow so fast there things one minute and then
fast there things one minute and then
fast there things one minute and then they don’t the next somebody was
they don’t the next somebody was
they don’t the next somebody was offering for free anybody who can
offering for free anybody who can
offering for free anybody who can collect free tiny v do you think that
collect free tiny v do you think that
collect free tiny v do you think that five hooded there be towels lovely offer
five hooded there be towels lovely offer
five hooded there be towels lovely offer and then somebody had commented
and then somebody had commented
and then somebody had commented underneath are these for boys or girls
underneath are these for boys or girls
underneath are these for boys or girls babies towels we are gendering bear
babies towels we are gendering bear
babies towels we are gendering bear these towels for the minute they come
these towels for the minute they come
these towels for the minute they come out of the room are these for boys and
out of the room are these for boys and
out of the room are these for boys and girl or girls when I was looking at our
girl or girls when I was looking at our
girl or girls when I was looking at our tips for this TED talk I typed into
tips for this TED talk I typed into
tips for this TED talk I typed into Google the question what mix are and
Google the question what mix are and
Google the question what mix are and then I typed in the word gee I was going
then I typed in the word gee I was going
then I typed in the word gee I was going to take him what makes a good 10 talk
to take him what makes a good 10 talk
to take him what makes a good 10 talk and by accident a Titan I after gym and
and by accident a Titan I after gym and
and by accident a Titan I after gym and three top options it gave me worth what
three top options it gave me worth what
three top options it gave me worth what makes a girl good in bed second option
makes a girl good in bed second option
makes a girl good in bed second option what makes a girl pretty third option
what makes a girl pretty third option
what makes a girl pretty third option what makes a girl
what makes a girl
what makes a girl and I just thought how depressing but it
and I just thought how depressing but it
and I just thought how depressing but it is the third one down that comes to what
is the third one down that comes to what
is the third one down that comes to what makes a girl happy and unfortunately I
makes a girl happy and unfortunately I
makes a girl happy and unfortunately I think that tells us a lot about gender
think that tells us a lot about gender
think that tells us a lot about gender inequality within our world so if we
inequality within our world so if we
inequality within our world so if we want to end violence against women we
want to end violence against women we
want to end violence against women we have to remember that it is gender
have to remember that it is gender
have to remember that it is gender inequality and other forms of inequality
inequality and other forms of inequality
inequality and other forms of inequality that intersect with gender inequality
that intersect with gender inequality
that intersect with gender inequality amount of disability around sexuality
amount of disability around sexuality
amount of disability around sexuality around rarest ethnicity it’s not alcohol
around rarest ethnicity it’s not alcohol
around rarest ethnicity it’s not alcohol it’s not drugs it’s not mental illness
it’s not drugs it’s not mental illness
it’s not drugs it’s not mental illness it’s gender inequality and we need to
it’s gender inequality and we need to
it’s gender inequality and we need to think about the ways in which we tackle
think about the ways in which we tackle
think about the ways in which we tackle that within our everyday life this isn’t
that within our everyday life this isn’t
that within our everyday life this isn’t just about the big gestures it’s not
just about the big gestures it’s not
just about the big gestures it’s not just about the changing of laws so not
just about the changing of laws so not
just about the changing of laws so not just about the judges or the police
just about the judges or the police
just about the judges or the police officers it’s about us in our everyday
officers it’s about us in our everyday
officers it’s about us in our everyday life and this really is where it does
life and this really is where it does
life and this really is where it does take two to tango when you think about
take two to tango when you think about
take two to tango when you think about equality within your day-to-day
equality within your day-to-day
equality within your day-to-day interactions in your relationships in
interactions in your relationships in
interactions in your relationships in your workplaces in volunteering think
your workplaces in volunteering think
your workplaces in volunteering think about the acts which you do and think
about the acts which you do and think
about the acts which you do and think about how they can be gendered and
about how they can be gendered and
about how they can be gendered and refuse to comply with those gender norms
refuse to comply with those gender norms
refuse to comply with those gender norms try to resist actively resist those
try to resist actively resist those
try to resist actively resist those gender norms in your everyday life dress
gender norms in your everyday life dress
gender norms in your everyday life dress your girls in blue dress your boys in
your girls in blue dress your boys in
your girls in blue dress your boys in pink think about who takes the minutes
pink think about who takes the minutes
pink think about who takes the minutes at work think about who tidies up after
at work think about who tidies up after
at work think about who tidies up after meetings who washes the cups after the
meetings who washes the cups after the
meetings who washes the cups after the coffee morning who takes responsibility
coffee morning who takes responsibility
coffee morning who takes responsibility for organizing collections when somebody
for organizing collections when somebody
for organizing collections when somebody has a baby who takes responsibility for
has a baby who takes responsibility for
has a baby who takes responsibility for going to get the leaving present if
going to get the leaving present if
going to get the leaving present if somebody’s leaving think about it within
somebody’s leaving think about it within
somebody’s leaving think about it within your household who does the emotional
your household who does the emotional
your household who does the emotional level who buys grandma’s present who
level who buys grandma’s present who
level who buys grandma’s present who books the table for Mother’s Day lunch
books the table for Mother’s Day lunch
books the table for Mother’s Day lunch who takes time off when the kids are
who takes time off when the kids are
who takes time off when the kids are sick and think about these things and
sick and think about these things and
sick and think about these things and think about how you enact gender in your
think about how you enact gender in your
think about how you enact gender in your relationship and let’s try to put these
relationship and let’s try to put these
relationship and let’s try to put these gender norms and stereotypes in the bin
gender norms and stereotypes in the bin
gender norms and stereotypes in the bin for good because it is only about
for good because it is only about
for good because it is only about changing one generation
changing one generation
changing one generation but we are going to change gender
but we are going to change gender
but we are going to change gender inequality and state an end to violence
inequality and state an end to violence
inequality and state an end to violence against women thank you
against women thank you
against women thank you [Applause]
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